Past Sins' Effect on Present Relationships | A Blessing Channel by ABC

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  • čas přidán 12. 02. 2021
  • PORN seems to be "a given" for men. Pre-marital sex the norm amongst young adults because everyone does it. Casual sex is fun and fulfilling without the drama and emotional attachment of committed relationships. Self pleasure is a "safer" way to experience sexual climax without the risk of getting STDs or hurting others.
    These are all lies! Lies that a lot of us have been made to believe in our younger years.
    The truth is there are effects, there are consequences to these sins, to our own bodies, minds and those of others outside of ourselves - they too can be hurt. Our past sexual sins do have and will have an effect on our relationships, present or future partners. Our marriage and spouses are not excluded. This is the reality of reaping what we sow. BUT there is hope. It can be overcome.
    On this video, Mikki shares his experience how he has successfully overcome his struggle with pornographic images and also those of his former sexual partners. What practical ways he took and continues to observe to safeguard his marriage; as well as the power of the gospel to cleanse his mind from such dishonorable images.
    Bettinna on the other hand shares her perspective as a wife- how God allowed her to approach the issue differently, as well as how to respond as the God given help-mate should her husband fall again in the future.
    Mikki and Bettinna pray that this video will give you hope that no sin has too strong a hold in your life that God's power cannot rescue you from. There is power in the name of Jesus. He renews. He restores. He heals. There is hope for all of us.
    May you be blessed!
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Komentáře • 242

  • @say-4030
    @say-4030 Před 3 lety +84

    " 'Yung ihiwalay mo 'yung nagkasala sa kasalanan, Diyos lang ang makakagawa nun."
    These words are so powerful to me po. Not only applicable to this issue but at all times...

    • @chinbyyy4513
      @chinbyyy4513 Před 3 lety

      Amen! si God nagpapatawad ng walang pag dadalawang isip. at sa mundong to hindi talaga natin kakayanin yung ganung klase ng forgiveness kung wala yung tulong ni Lord. kaya I am always praying to God na maging consistent sa bagong ako na mapag patawad.

  • @bjorn2386
    @bjorn2386 Před 3 lety +11

    "It's in bringing the sin to light through confession that it loses its power." Wow! Thank you God for using this couple as a vessel to keep as away from sins and to experience your grace, forgiveness, God's power and God's plan. Soli deo Gloria! 🙏

  • @mariablaisebalmoria4527
    @mariablaisebalmoria4527 Před 3 lety +32

    I couldn't help but cry while watching this. Indeed, God's words are powerful. God bless you both and your family.

  • @vivarosa1860
    @vivarosa1860 Před 3 lety +101

    You guys are so brave to open this up. Being a Christian is not being perfect at all, it's being willing to be perfected by Christ. I hope more people would see that broken people needs a blameless God. May God keep you in your eternal pursuit of holiness and purity. Bless your heart!

  • @anavillarosa07
    @anavillarosa07 Před 3 lety +26

    Praise, I believe hindi talaga aksidente na napunta ako dito sa video na'to :(

  • @marklouietabugoca4012
    @marklouietabugoca4012 Před 3 lety +58

    Pray for me kasi na addict po ako sa Pornography homosexual sin and I want God to transform me completely. I need your prayer and I want God to release me from this so that He can use me for His glory. 😔❤️😔.

    • @christiannecharmagnebornal335
      @christiannecharmagnebornal335 Před 3 lety +1

      John 3:16-17 KJV
      [16] For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. [17] For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.

    • @joshcayong6148
      @joshcayong6148 Před 3 lety +3

      He CAN transform you kapatid but you have to decide and repent not to do it again. He will and He can. Mahihirapan tayo pero sabi nga Niya what is impossible to man is possible to God. Proven 100%. Minsan nasa atin lng tlaga desisyon kung ready ba tayong matransform or hindi.

    • @mickaelag5993
      @mickaelag5993 Před 3 lety

      Praying for you!

    • @xylenebracamonte1569
      @xylenebracamonte1569 Před 3 lety +2

      I had the same addiction before. Porn. I know it's so hard to overcome that but nothing is impossible sa grace ni God. Prayer and research really helps. Since I love scientific literature lalo na sa psychology, dun ako dinala ng Diyos to overcome that vice. Repentance is really key, God is gracious to all of us who repents. 2018 since I last viewed that type of media and I never looked back. Glory to God! May God grant you healing! You can do it through God's mercy!

    • @carolyndegracia1523
      @carolyndegracia1523 Před 3 lety

      nothing is impossible to God..

  • @page3126
    @page3126 Před 3 lety +8

    It's not even easy to share this kind of struggle openly to others. But, I thank God for giving you the grace to be bold in sharing your testimony. Many people indeed have received so much hope knowing that in Christ, there's a way out. God bless you both. ❤️

  • @mikspuzon6508
    @mikspuzon6508 Před 3 lety +29

    Thank you for this. This was the reason why I loose the Man i love. :( I love him so much but we cant continue our relationship because of this sin. In order for me to protect my daughter. I needed to protect myself first. If I truly love him I need to set him free, us free from sexual sins

    • @ellaquimque2711
      @ellaquimque2711 Před 3 lety +1

      Omg! Same!

    • @mikspuzon6508
      @mikspuzon6508 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ellaquimque2711 Hugs! May the Lord heal your heart! You are not your past anymore

    • @mikspuzon6508
      @mikspuzon6508 Před 3 lety

      @Victoria Cherry10 Hugs! May the Lord heal your heart! You are not your past anymore

  • @sunkim5081
    @sunkim5081 Před 3 lety +2

    'There is power...
    And..
    GOD has a plan.'
    Amen!🙌🙏

  • @worditoutwoman
    @worditoutwoman Před 3 lety +4

    What a powerful testimony. Thank you for your honesty, your humility, your vulnerability to give glory to God. Praying for you right now and praising Him for you.

  • @vanillarlene
    @vanillarlene Před 3 lety +4

    Awwwe. Thank you!!! I wholeheartedly appreciate you for speaking about this. This channel is truly a blessing. 💓

  • @joanahije4303
    @joanahije4303 Před 3 lety +5

    This video affected me so much. I dunno but this is a video wrapped with so much wisdom and Godliness. 💙 Truly, God's gospel, and His presence, is a reminder for us to just turn our hearts to Him despite all the imperfections and our shortcomings.

  • @erjelyndelacruz7880
    @erjelyndelacruz7880 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing these, Mr. and Mrs. Eduardo 🥺♥️ You’re indeed a great blessing! God bless your ministries ♥️✨

  • @meriamfajutagana44
    @meriamfajutagana44 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for being so vulnerable just to share your lessons from the Lord! 🙏 It was a blessing indeed.

  • @secretariojewelnadhines.7417

    This channel deserve a million subscriber! God bless you both❤

  • @mhalayabroqueza2054
    @mhalayabroqueza2054 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm so touched after watching this. Thank you for inspiring us Ms. Betina and Mr. Mikki. God bless you both!

  • @ruthsarsoza
    @ruthsarsoza Před 3 lety +3

    So powerful! Continue to shine God’s glory in your lives. God protect you two 🙏

  • @jonermarte5788
    @jonermarte5788 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing this powerful testimony. God bless you more.

  • @queencyleelapating2539
    @queencyleelapating2539 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this, ABC. ❤️ Happy Valentine’s Day 😍

  • @MDN418
    @MDN418 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank God for your lives. . My fiancé and I are undergoing a pre-marital counseling and this is definitely an additional learning for us. God bless you.

  • @jeniferjayme869
    @jeniferjayme869 Před 3 lety +2

    I begin to watch your channel way back before even meeting you in person. And now as more inspirational with a partner for life. The Q & A on a Quiet Time video was a breath of fresh air for me. And taking my chance on this video if I can still get a chance to get that Bible you gave away for a personal birthday wish ( last Feb.10 ) 😊. Sending this as I watch this pre hearts day episode. More power to both of you. Prayers do work in wonders. Hope to one day see you & Gummy & ofcourse the very lucky man who captured your heart..Mikki. Take care Bettinna.❤

  • @harlenearabia4784
    @harlenearabia4784 Před 3 lety +1

    What a powerful message! Thank you, I am blessed.

  • @aprilsuliguin8325
    @aprilsuliguin8325 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing. I appreciate your boldness. This is raw, unfiltered testimony. We need this kind of encouragement. An encouragement that is not just "feel good" story, but a story of true struggles of being a human and how powerful God's grace is.

  • @donroxanneaposaga419
    @donroxanneaposaga419 Před 3 lety +1

    Indeed a great blessing channel. To God be the Glory! So grateful to hear your thoughts about that topic. Jesus be glorified ♥️

  • @sheilamae99
    @sheilamae99 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for this. Thank you for making a Blessing Channel to everyone. 😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏

  • @AbigailB0801
    @AbigailB0801 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much Ms. Bettina and Sir Mikee for this content! What a truthful and loving rebuke this content has ❤ God bless you both! May you touch & bless more people with your testimonies! Glory to God alone!

  • @astrid8281
    @astrid8281 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this! God bless your marriage and family. ❤️

  • @jezzeljoyjuaton2435
    @jezzeljoyjuaton2435 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. I pray more souls will be blessed and will be set free thru your story. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jovian3262
    @jovian3262 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this. I was teary eyed, so touched and encouraged by what you shared. Oh, only if I could talk to you Bettina in person. I've been praying for years that God would give me someone who's a wife like me with a husband same struggle as yours. This channel of yours is really a blessing. You story is God's blessing to me and your transparency. It gives me comfort that I'm not alone. I'm not the only one who's into this. My husband is not just the only one. Please remember us in your prayers. God bless you more.

  • @xylenmaycalipusan5915
    @xylenmaycalipusan5915 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this, it will help a lot of people especially the youth. God bless your marriage!

  • @nidenlee6737
    @nidenlee6737 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m so blessed, continue to be a blessing to others.

  • @ciaramaechua4895
    @ciaramaechua4895 Před 3 lety +4

    You can see the love and how proud Bettina is of Mikki while he was reading the Bible.. 😍🥰
    Surely nothing is impossible with the Lord… He can really turn someone around Completely like what Mikki said; He IS A faithful God ❤️

  • @hiljgee9754
    @hiljgee9754 Před 3 lety +1

    This is so beautiful and timely. May God bless you more

  • @wnderjuan2344
    @wnderjuan2344 Před 3 lety +1

    I can totally relate, been in the same situation..Truly God's grace changes everything. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @lorenzob.dinlayaniii3751
    @lorenzob.dinlayaniii3751 Před 3 lety +12

    This video is just a powerful message not only for couples but to everyone. Thank you for this. God bless you both

  • @lydiasameen3886
    @lydiasameen3886 Před 3 lety

    Praise God for sending us the two of you to enlighten our mind and heart that with God's grace we can get through all the troubles and sinful acts we are in right now. Truly both of you are brought to us as blessings. Thank you Jesus for this couple. You sent them to prepare our path to reach Your Kingdom when our time is up. Alleluia, alleluia.

  • @seinajcalzado3359
    @seinajcalzado3359 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much Sir Mikki and Ma'am Bettina for this informative message. It helps us a lot especially in me. Thank you God for the wisdom that you shared with this beautiful couple. I was crying the entire video while watching this. It breaks my heart because I was a sinner and keep doing sins, premarital sex. Thank you for the verse.

  • @maryjanealbao3802
    @maryjanealbao3802 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for the Word that God uses the both of you. It taughts me a lot❤🙏

  • @chrisdayang4279
    @chrisdayang4279 Před 3 lety +1

    And im crying..thank you bettina and mikee

  • @quennieann27
    @quennieann27 Před 3 lety +1

    Very brave and wonderful discussion! You can see how proud Ms. Bettina is while her husband reads and explains the verses😊 Continue to be an inspiration to everyone God bless!

  • @doingeven5196
    @doingeven5196 Před 3 lety +1

    how courageous for both of you!!!!!!!!!!! This is most encouraging. Thank you thank you thank you thank you.

  • @nicapagunsan2657
    @nicapagunsan2657 Před 3 lety +3

    Truely a blessed chanel ❤
    Thank you Lord for theirs lives,
    Thank you for continually showering them Your love ❤
    Praise your Holy name Jesus!☝️

  • @mvz3660
    @mvz3660 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for bravely and humbly sharing such a hidden reality... being open about it... Thank You Lord for your Amazing Grace.... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @enigmadream1414
    @enigmadream1414 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this video. Very realistic and relatable.. and thank you for sharing your words of wisdom.

  • @maryrosenadal9065
    @maryrosenadal9065 Před 3 lety +7

    What a powerful testimony. Grabeng Grace! 🔥

  • @samcruz623
    @samcruz623 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you sis Bettina and bro Mikki. This video is such a blessing. More power to your marriage and ministry. Thank you and God bless you🙏❤️😍

  • @jesusacalica1365
    @jesusacalica1365 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for the good messages. Hoping that you will continue to do more inspiring and encouraging vlogs. God bless!

  • @teacherjodiaries1902
    @teacherjodiaries1902 Před 3 lety +7

    So timely!!! Totoo po. As a reminder for couples/singles to really make wiser choices. 💖

  • @kayesantos5698
    @kayesantos5698 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this wonderful and bold message. God bless your marriage.

  • @Vyma86
    @Vyma86 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing us your stories.. God is so amazing and it remind me to not let your guard down..so that the enemy cannot enter even in small hole in our hearts.. God bless you...

  • @keeshia18ck
    @keeshia18ck Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much for this video. This is a great testimony. God bless you both more.

  • @jasminma-arts4964
    @jasminma-arts4964 Před 3 lety

    Surely, your channel is really a blessing. Continue to become a blessing to other people. 😇😇😇💖💖💖

  • @maunecamelagroso2361
    @maunecamelagroso2361 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this. God bless your family 💖

  • @renxmeindoza
    @renxmeindoza Před 3 lety +1

    Amen! 💯 Thank you so much for this 🥺🥰💙

  • @michaelangeloelefaniogarci475

    Thank you for sharing about this because i am still battling with that sin and struggling but i know God will provide a way out to put a stop to this sin. Godbless You & Your Family. 😊😊😊

  • @betchaythecook527
    @betchaythecook527 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much for sharing the word of God. God bless you! 🙏🏻❤️

  • @mariaaventurado241
    @mariaaventurado241 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this wisdom! I'm always blessed by your videos and Instagram😊

  • @marygracemendoza9830
    @marygracemendoza9830 Před 3 lety

    Thank u for this powerful testimonies and word from the Lord! God Bless u more sister and brother in Christ!

  • @mariacamille2630
    @mariacamille2630 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank You for this!!! A blessing channel!!!

  • @ma.angelenestrada7311
    @ma.angelenestrada7311 Před 3 lety +2

    Im so blessed on hearing your testimonies 🙏Godbless u both

  • @fheythtamondong7784
    @fheythtamondong7784 Před 3 lety

    Your testimony really encouraged us to rise beyond fleshly things....thanks for this video.....God bless...

  • @rengsan919
    @rengsan919 Před 3 lety +1

    It takes some courage to confess this kind of issue. You two guys are brave to bring this up. Godbless you and your family.

  • @arlenevillegas2595
    @arlenevillegas2595 Před 3 lety +7

    Watching it paulit ulit ...I really feel the presence of God while watching ..tears are flowing from my eyes...Thank u Miss Bettina and Mikee...more teaching video..sna ma feature din yung "broken hearted" God bless You and Your family

  • @manasisgenelyn16
    @manasisgenelyn16 Před 3 lety +9

    Pag naglaan po kayo ng time para makinig sa message na nila pangako hindi sayang. Tunay na nakaka-bless! 🙌 Thank you po for sharing the Word, Mam bettina and Sir mikki! ❤️ God bless po sa family niyo po❤️❤️🥰

  • @hezytabuzo4896
    @hezytabuzo4896 Před 3 lety +1

    More of this please. 😊
    God bless both of your hearts

  • @melodyannloro5769
    @melodyannloro5769 Před 3 lety +1

    Amen!!! Thank you for this!

  • @glendyjoy1
    @glendyjoy1 Před 3 lety +1

    thank you so much for this content. Both of you are a blessing 🤗

  • @jakeasia
    @jakeasia Před 3 lety +1

    Yes. This is very relevant nowadays, especially sa mga youth. Isa sa mga topic na hindi masyadong napag-uusapan sa mga churches. Pero, mahalaga. Thank you and God bless you!

  • @crizhelalcantara3768
    @crizhelalcantara3768 Před 3 lety

    This is a very powerful testimony that no enemies can break :) God bless your marriage! You are a good model to everyone :)

  • @ronronlaspinas8911
    @ronronlaspinas8911 Před 3 lety

    I pray that this channel will continue to be blessing to all viewers.
    #God bless you more.

  • @marianghelika
    @marianghelika Před 3 lety

    Wow! This is truly a blessing channel!

  • @joanamanrique254
    @joanamanrique254 Před 3 lety

    Amen!🤍🥺🙏 Thank you for sharing. Glory to God.

  • @lorynelmajaducon1866
    @lorynelmajaducon1866 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm blessed! Amazing how God can change sinner's into saints! Amen! More inspirational vlog! God bless po.

  • @yolandagarcia3534
    @yolandagarcia3534 Před 3 lety

    Watching you right now at 4am. At 65yo i’m still feeel kilig with your love story. Your story is so heartwarming!

  • @laarnireyes2712
    @laarnireyes2712 Před 3 lety

    Amen Glory to God for your testimony and shared verses.

  • @ronahcarenan4595
    @ronahcarenan4595 Před 3 lety

    we are blessed by your sharing ❤️ more to come..

  • @mariajoeceldelatorre3928
    @mariajoeceldelatorre3928 Před 3 lety +1

    Actually, this video change my life.
    April 30,2021 on this day God's saved me from my sin cycle. He gives me courage to face myself what i want in life. Now, I feel that I'm embracing the new me. ❤️
    Thankyou Ma'am/Sir for sharing your journey of life and god's words.

  • @abbypalapala
    @abbypalapala Před 3 lety

    Amen! Walang mas malaki na kasalanan kesa sa isa. Praise God for your lives! Glory to God whose love is greater than any of our sins. ❤ God bless you both!!

  • @blessmae1211
    @blessmae1211 Před 3 lety

    Amen... Nice reminder. Blessed

  • @federicasalve9757
    @federicasalve9757 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing
    God bless your family

  • @juliannemariealegado7286

    More like this ms bettina!! Nakakabless po and such a powerful testimony!❤

  • @bitoyclemente4679
    @bitoyclemente4679 Před 3 lety

    Nag hintay ako ng matagal para makarinig ng ganitong sharing, thanks so much, and thank God that He gives you strength and a strong heart to share this. God bless you more ❤️

  • @rickylynbeguas4774
    @rickylynbeguas4774 Před 3 lety

    So many lessons. Thank you God bless 🙏💐

  • @phoebemariecates6269
    @phoebemariecates6269 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow so powerful words. Amen to that. 😍😍😍

  • @rosseniedeleonnardo6767
    @rosseniedeleonnardo6767 Před 3 lety +1

    I love listening to u guys .. thank u for inspiring us 💜💙

  • @tonychocolony2246
    @tonychocolony2246 Před 3 lety +1

    Hallelujah 💕 truly a blessing to me

  • @jackhemvallespin3191
    @jackhemvallespin3191 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this video🙏

  • @Eunitea
    @Eunitea Před 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing this.

  • @anneevilla2621
    @anneevilla2621 Před 3 lety

    Timely.. thank u so much🙏🏼

  • @czadelosreyes2553
    @czadelosreyes2553 Před 3 lety +1

    A blessing channel, indeed!

  • @trixiedawncabilan5272
    @trixiedawncabilan5272 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for this! So timely because my LIP is also addicted with porn and online games, as in deeply rooted in his life. Thank you for the reminder that it is our duty as wives to pray for husbands and it is only through God's grace that he will be saved.

  • @sheilaoconph6775
    @sheilaoconph6775 Před 3 lety +4

    I am in a quarantine, because I was infected with COVID. But I am grateful to God for blessing you and for sharing your journey with the Lord. I enjoy watching!

  • @clauciudad
    @clauciudad Před 3 lety +1

    This blessed me so much 😭

  • @daisylwcm2004
    @daisylwcm2004 Před 3 lety

    I am so blessed.. thank u for this. God bless u both

  • @joremieecija1634
    @joremieecija1634 Před 3 lety +1

    A timely reminder ♥️

  • @ezelsnowph
    @ezelsnowph Před 3 lety

    Thankyou for this video !!! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @rgabaya4672
    @rgabaya4672 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank u... Very much true... God bless

  • @erlindasandiego760
    @erlindasandiego760 Před 3 lety +2

    Everytime mgwatch ako sa vlog mo di maiwasan umiyak. Im realy realy bless. God bless bofh of you❤

  • @ryanorpiano6739
    @ryanorpiano6739 Před 3 lety

    Very powerful message from God . I praise God in your life as a couple. Have a Blessed Valentines day .

  • @shelahmefelecio3082
    @shelahmefelecio3082 Před 3 lety

    Thank you Bettina and Miki .