Ending Guilt - Kyle Cease
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- In this video, Kyle discusses two types of guilt: conscious and unconscious. He explains why we sometimes trick ourselves with guilt and how we can never guilt ourselves into actually changing behavior.
Kyle walks through how to clear out the guilt and actually release it from the body. When you do this you can become a totally different person by becoming the truth of what you are. This is how we create a new world.
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"all the darkness in your body is the software, it's not you" is a gift, thank you so much, Kyle ♥
Thank you for this. I am stuck more in anger right now. I am 68, and all my life I worked hard on just being the "good little girl ", determined to turn the other cheek and endure the abuse by others who said they loved me. But all the emotions must be worked through, so I get it.
Turning 60 soon and Brenda that was a very concise summary of me and I've been working on it all for awhile now 2013 ->
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time.
Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.
"You won't feel like your parents kid, you will feel like God's kid" love this so much 💗
When you aren’t in a pattern, your ‘move’ is simply LOVE. No agenda, no reactionary energy ~~ just radiating out. That’s how we know what’s a pattern, a program, or just the truth of who we are. Such a great and simple gauge! ❤️
…and YES, this is the most beautiful, true power which is why we haven’t been shown this. Crack your hearts wide open, everyone, and experience what you ARE! 🥰
Yes, it's in my experience too 💓
Oh Kyle ...you speak to my soul. At 59 yo I am working so hard to let go of the programming of my ancestry (behaviors, attitudes and relationship skills) and then looking for what is left that is Truly me. This is murky work and I can get lost in what is truly mine. Thank you for all the support. Much love to you and all those you hold in your heart.xo
BE what is left after the program. Breathe into your chakras and re-calibrate to your body. Feel what its like to be in your body again and not your mind. You dont have to figure anything out 🤍
Me too, same age , similar struggle °•●○☆♡
It's totally me too. And I am trying to teach my girls this also. They deserve to feel SO much better than how they were raised while I was married to their dad.
This is why I try to teach my sons that THEY should be their first priority!!!!!!
Thank you Kyle. My healing has led me to a place where I can love my parents as flawed humans without judgement. Liberation indeed.
There is a power in silence that can bring sadness and tears to the surface. This is why we all avoid it sometimes.
YES, the part about relationships really hits home. I've been single for 4 years and there are SO many people who don't understand or keep asking me when I am "going to get out there again." I have learned so much about myself in these 4 years and, when the time comes, I will be in a much better place and know better than to repeat those old patterns.
Im a single mother..I've been single for 3 years..and I feel you,can relate..much power and love 😊❤️
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I have also been single for 4 years. This story sounds a lot like my own. But the more time I spend alone the better I feel about myself, able to let go and give up these heavy expectations of relationships. I finally feel free and like you said in a much much better place if I were to meet someone again. 🥰💞💞
Rather be single than in an unhappy or toxic relationship.
"if you fed it your whole life, you might believe it's harder to do, but it's not: it's always a new moment right now" ♥♥♥
"If you're LIBERATED, life won't feel like your childhood." No wonder I'm so uncomfortable and unsettled right now. I'm getting free. WOW. THANK YOU. ❤
I am crying right now having intense heart pain from 3 days.....feeling guilt shame on myself.....telling myself how can I be such a bad girl?....I never felt this much guilt and shame on myself..I just want to hide in any dark corner..
But thank you Kyle you always know what we are going through.....
Oh, too much for a girl to carry. May you have much love as you grow into becoming a woman. Enjoy being a girl, childhood is over in a blink!!
@@karenlewkowitz5858 actually Karen........I never lived my childhood....I feel I was in depression since my childhood.....never felt welcomed but...now I am becoming a little girl once again...I want to live my childhood onece again....I have no parents but after going through many deaths(ego death)I found my parents....mother the earth and the father universe 😊.....
I know still I have to go through many deaths but I am fine bcoz finally i found myself...😊
It is hard to live in the society as unmarried girl.....but I am happy that even if I lost the world...but found myself
You r speaking my language and I would like to be more transparent about my own childhood but cannot as it is public post but trust me when I say I get it. I too did some deep diving into the darkness past our little self that's afraid lost etc etc and worked hard on myself to get that strength at the core where its needed and lacking due to what one went thru..and yes like you I made my mother mother earth is whom I chose as you can get love from her
In fact the North American Indians see it that way and if its good enough for them it's good enough for me..keep going you are on the right track..much love and respect to you.
You have to feel it to heal it. Stay strong. You can do it.
"If you keep the guilt going you trap yourself in shame." Undo yourself from feeding the guilt. True. Thanks.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the one I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence, which I had once lost; again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "Yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.
So helpful for me to separate and see the difference between Conscious guilt vs unconscious guilt. ♥️
Learning to let go of all the past 55 years of conditioning, literally every day. Questioning damn near anything but in a good way & asking why to everything that feels like guilt & not worthiness! This feels so freeing & makes my life so much lighter. So many changes for the good happening & coming up! Wow, loving all the new freedom & enjoying the love coming through
Yes yes yes! I was part of the AEP Group for 6 years. The greatest gift I received was the basic truth that. "I am not my programming"
I just gave myself he space to be in a dark place .. in particular with guilt this past few days...
Trying to get why when I feel the most strength I get uncomfortable and then call " home" or a person that will without a doubt make me feel the deep guilt all over again..asking me feel bad ea h and Everytime....it isvery hard to leave what we call home into what our real.home is meant to feel.like..
This was clearly validating and explained everything for me..
This is also very quantum .. and the fact that the north node is in Taurus.. which is all about slef worth and being home.. vs Scorpio which is being oddly comfortable in the unconscious zone of what home is.. is fascinating to me...
True node always point home..
Don't be afraid of the dark.. look into the stars that bright northern star.. and know the beauty is you
It is scary to go home to a new lighter space ... And it is a huge quantum leap from darkness to light... it's scary as hell and it's incredible lonely and strange transition..
I was feeling blue the night before last--it came from NOWHERE. I literally was just fine one minute and as soon as I was alone for 5 minutes, this cloud of darkness just hovered above my head and I felt it in my lower abdomen--an uneasiness and cold chills. I knew what was happening but it was so dark and I reached for my thing practically in an automatic state of mind. I did not hesitate until AFTER I'd reached for it and the darkness stuck around for the next 30 minutes or so and just as quickly as it appeared - it vanished, I'm more aware now and will be ready when it happens again, Thanks so much Kyle. It truly encourages me to learn this same thing is happening with others here in our tribe. Our future is looking more and more amazing!
Kyle my entire existence has been guilt. I feel guilty for existing. I feel guilty for needing food, water, love, affection, compassion, housing, money. My identity is guilt. I don’t know who I am or what to choose without it.
Even sellf-help can become a huge addiction. Buy another book, book a workshop, session, watch videos, etc. It's an industry that will give you plenty of things to feel "not O.K ." about. It's expensive and exhausting and us custom made for addictive personalities and patterns.
How do you know exactly what I’m going through?!
I’ve been eating chocolate to numb out my feelings, I go through phases like this. Right now it has been an extremely rough phase. The chocolate has been giving me the most intense anxiety, but I refuse to give it up because I do not want to feel the pain underneath. I also am careful this time to not throw myself into some dietary plan to fix myself. I want my choice to spring organically and not forced. Right now I am feeling called to abstain for at least a couple of days and begin to feel. Thank you so much Kyle, this is exactly what I needed.
Listened to this as I made the 4 hour drive home from a job training that I massively failed 🙈 I was pushed into applying for/taking this job that my body was screaming at me to avoid but I tried to please others 😂 now we owe $900 for the training that I failed AND I don’t have a job 😂 The huge relief came when I finally listened to myself (against my family’s wishes) and decided to leave and go home. Years of listening to you led me to the peace of walking away ♥️ I would rather be a cashier at the grocery store and be in spirit than do a job I’m not meant to do that likely is a scam. Grateful to not fall into pits like I used to 🙏 grateful to see the guilt I feel for failing/now owing money just pass on by ♥️ I am whole ♥️ love you Kyle
Everyone take a deep breath in… ♥️♥️♥️
This hit me hard, Kyle ♥️!!
Everything's ok, but the software in your body says it's not 👌🏾. I have an addictive, people-pleasing personality and am unravelling, letting go of a lot to get back to my essence. Big yes to letting go!
Thank you Kyle❤The power and conviction in your voice inspires me to learn to use my voice for good. I am in a rough situation and asking for help is not something I am used to. I am homeless in a dead car and all I can think of is getting to the food bank and donation center to donate what I have in the car before I am on the street. Humbling for sure. I have never cried so much. I appreciate you💚
TLF: PLeASe AsK
& ReCeiVe L0Ve
& HeLP n0w❤🔥
fr0m 0Thers!
Y0urS TrULY,
~wiLL0w~
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I feel for you 😢❤ send you love and light ❤
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Aww...so sweet. May you be blessed today.
Bless you💗💗💗
funny, the first several times I heard you saying "what did I just do to deserve you" - I thought it was in a good sense :)
I was extremely guilt ridden as a child as I was forced to go against my inborn ethics all the time. I also have situations that give me guilt now. I’ve been working on clearing it out. Your videos are popping up at the perfect time ☺️ Love perfect universal timing! Thank you ❤
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time.
Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.
Wow…liberation is painful when you’re becoming liberated from what you’re attached to.
That was intense! So spot on for me today. You are amazing Kyle. Thanks for bringing yourself up out of the muck so you could teach me that I can do it too. You’re so good at putting the words together that unjumble the shit that goes on in my head that moves so fast I have a hard time understanding it so I just panic and feed it or fix it or do some other distraction to slow down my insides. ❤️❤️❤️
I am choosing not to be afraid of the dark vs rushing to call people who make me feel bad and guilty all the time...
It's not easy at all...
I don't know where I'd be without Kyle's videos for the past 2 years. I am still healing but I've come a long way thanks to you Kyle, I am unrecognizable now compare to how I have been only 2 tears back in such positive way. You are God sent for so many of us. Powerful words every time, powerful transformation I am going through, I always say I can't thank you enough for your blessings. 🙏🙏🙏
"If you're liberated, it won't feel like your childhood"
Wow! What a nugget of wisdom in that truth bomb!
You are sooooo appreciated 💚
Oh the timing could not be more perfect
GREAT message Thank you so much and much love from Sweden and we are doing this together 🥰♥️🙏🦋👌🇸🇪🌍☘️🌸
It's amazing how this awareness message shows up now that I am absolutely ready to hear (see) it. Namaste!!
I have conscious guilt that has caused four years of fear. I've made the situation MUCH WORSE by not choosing NOW (by living in fear, becoming impaired).
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the one I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence, which I had once lost; again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "Yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.
Ambassador of Grace....thank you 💜💙💜💙
Learning to just be... for me personally, I imagine I am enveloped in love . As if in the middle of a warm fluffy white cloud, floating in an essence of love.
When I go... there is no searching, no asking, no seeking, no praying, no wanting or needing.
No just little Ole me completely being held in loves embrace.
Worries drop, insecurities and fears too. They seem to lesson in their frequency and often left with more of a sense of self.
There are no words in which to describe who it is I am. except to say when revealed, my first response was spontaneous laughter.
As it were, before I could take my first breath, I was already downloading negative information due to being an unwanted pregnancy.
There was no welcome party or conscious mother to greet me once I arrived.
Little did I know I already had tremendous guilt for ever being born.
By 3 years old a not so very nice voice popped up out of nowhere telling me I couldn't trust my feelings, intuition or thoughts and if I ever wanted to know who I was the voice told me I had to look outside of myself for others to tell me because if left up to me I'd screw it all up.
I was terrified to make any decisions for fear of making the wrong one.
I sought for others approval and in doing so, chopped off pieces of myself long into adulthood , but even then I still wasn't good enough...so I felt.
It's been a very long sad filled road... but now on some days you can find me dancing under the sun.
It was that love filled warm fluffy white cloud and learning to
just be that has brought me to where I am today.
I've learned to choose my addictions consciously and carefully. They are tricky little programs, but, you can learn to use some of them for a higher good, like a tool. but, first you have to do it with great awareness and very vigilantly.
Attraction in action. Recently, a former partner contacted me about a self published book I wrote. He expressed remorse that I had had life rougher than he knew when we were together. Within about a week of dialogue and expressing my beliefs …. He got angry and said I had early onset Alzheimer’s. It was a stunning exhibit of incompatibility and an eye opener to what our relationship had been. I hadn’t been in the drivers seat whatsoever. Love my life now and my awareness. I don’t need to judge him. I don’t need to anything him. All his work that needs doing in that corner. I am free.
Sometimes Kyle tells me let go then another time let go of the let go!!! Then am FREE! It is another level ❤️
Thank you for your powerful reminders of the energy of the now💠🤗
This talk physically made my chest constrict and hurt...i see my patterns but still stuck in them.. sometimes I sit with them but most times i numb and i know I'm doing it . feeling well to face it.
Thank you. This is profoundly perfect, at exactly the right time for me. I'm doing personal shadow work, feeling the awful pains on this dark path, nearly feeling suffocated by guilt and all those self sabotaging digs, and it's miserable. I know this is an opportunity for me to do more healing and digging even deeper is a conscious choice I know I need to make. I haven't had coffee in 2 weeks (by choice), I haven't smoked a joint in 2 weeks because my med card expired, my phone has been glitching so I can't distract by watching 90 day fiance, and I have to sit with mySelf, alone and raw. I know I'm doing shadow work, consciously, but it's definitely.a lot of pain I have to stand with for my own process and expansion. Thanks for being here for us. 🕉
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the one I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence, which I had once lost; again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "Yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.
Wow Kyle! This has been what’s been coming up for me the past few weeks. It was one of those beautiful moments where I could feel, here Ashley, I want you to see this in a new light.
Understanding that it’s my software I don’t want to be with is huge!
Thank you. ❤️
Control based on guilt 🙁
Not easy to get free from guilt, being raised in a catholic family 🧘
Yet I knew, as a child, how to connect to God and feel safe 💛
Why did I lose that connection during my life and only got it fifty years later? 🧘
You said in a video that we don't listen, we don't receive, we are not opened.
Children are 🙂
Thank you so much, Kyle. I'm am struggling with this exact thing! The guilt. I am 59 and my parents want back into my life..and it's freaking me out. I feel so guilty bc they are older and I'm all they have. I'm torn between saying no (boundaries) but I feel SOO guilty. Anyway, I listened to your video 3x on my walk today. So grateful. Txs for helping me!
I don't know your story but really appreciate how it can be difficult with creating boundaries at times. I think it is very possible to have both, and imo forgiving parents and cherishing the time you have with them whatever has gone before is always worthwhile. I hope everything works out for you. Sending 💞💞
Let them go. Hugs.
I asked myself earlier during grounding how to get rid of my addiction that pops up somewhere else every time I get rid of that substance( now it's switched to junk food) and I wasn't expecting the answer so quickly. You helped me see the problem from a new perspective that I hadn't before. And now I can move forward with new intentions- as always you are a joy of new ways to understand. You make it easy. Love and unity to us all❤😊
The charity event sounds really cool, it just makes me sad because a lot of times spiritual teachers, such as Kyle, who are so wonderful, have events that are prohibitively expensive for so many of us. I guess that’s the way it is and I am grateful to no end for the videos!
Well, there are also numerous buddhist retreats centers etc, that will refuse to charge anything at all, and only accept donations, the size of which is entirely decided by you. Buddism forbids charging money
Granted: they may be less "sexy" etc than some of the more new age stuff.. BUT these are very credible spiritual traditions to put it mildly (the good ones). AND something like tibetan/tantric buddhism can even be pretty varied in terms of practice, and can be pretty "exciting" for the lack of a better word.
Keep in mind: some of the popular influencers have a problem regarding price: If its free they wouldn't have the resources to take all the people who want to come.. therfore it would probably be a "lottery" where your chances of getting a spot would be minimal anyways..
Find the hidden gems! Many of them have online retreats/courses also. And the buddhists places generally offer FREE housing and food to at in-person retreats. They do not care if your buddhist personally. And lastly: there are much more out there then the classic 10 day vipassana retreats, if you know how to research
(check out some of the interesting Guru Viking podcast episodes for instance, mostly buddhist teachers/munks there, and several hundred episodes)
True spiritual teachers won't turn you away for the lack of money (unless they genuinely have capacity issues) 😀
Excellent content Kyle. Sooo glad my channel aligned with yours. This is necessary 💜
❤ thank you so so much 🙏 I like the idea of my thoughts and feelings being like software - and also the advice of letting go of the letting go is perfect 🙏😃 Again this is right timing for what I am experiensing - trying to leave what ever is going on by again and again returning to the now 🙏
In Denmark the water is getting quit cold (winter is on the way) but bathing in the cold water makes me feel so good and in the moment 🥰 just like meditation does 🥰
You can't fake this stuff. Recently, stuff is coming up and releasing. I literally just seconds ago had a release and realized I needed to forgive myself for not taking good care of my precious mom before she passed in' 05. I didn't even realize how guilty I've been all this time and how I've low and high-key punished myself for it over the years. So I was Forgiving myself etc...
Turn in CZcams and boom, Kyle guiding me too feel no more guilt.
Thank you for answering your call. Be well.
Oh so if I feel suic*dal, I simultaneously let go of false software... that is nice! Thank you for this thought. I often felt "This is not MY depression, it is the depression of the world I carry on my shoulders." So probably I wasnt wrong.
Yes, thanks for talking. I love looking at this baggage.
Also, I love how you just talk more relaxed and not professional acting. It feels like I'm talking with my brother
Thank you Kyle. I haven't been able to watch you since my brother chose to go back Home. He was an avid follower of your work. We attended The End of Effort event at Asilomar in 2018 together. I haven't been able to watch you since his passing in October 2022, because it just hit too close to home. He really loved you. 🥰 So thank you for everything you helped my brother with. Anyway.... This really spoke to me about 5 minutes in. But there is one sentence I just don't get. "I want you to know...(and here's the part)..."it's very hard to guilt yourself into not making a better decision." Is that the same as saying, it's easy to guilt yourself into making a better decision? (There's like a double negative or something in there, that this 55 year old brain can't wrap around. 😅) Thanks Kyle. ❤
I am so grateful for the valuable information you give us every day , I am releasing things i didn’t even know were there to begin with ! You are a hero .
So brilliant…I love me…its the software that needs to go!!!!
Doable Perspective for SO Many ...That's Beautiful. Reaches Me and I Feeel my Severe PTSD Fiancee as Well, though that's up to him. Thank you and Blessings Beautiful Soul ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you very much all makes sense to me!! I'm a 63 yo and have een living on my higher self for quite a while I'm what you would call a free spirit feeling very light and energetic saying that I've changed patterns in my life and manifested it all!! I love and like the person I am very much and wouldn't change me for anyone/thing TBH!! Love your work and channel (UK)
My favorite video so far that I’ve heard! Unfortunately it feels like my therapist just walked out of the room & ended the session and I have so much more to learn 😢
Wowwwwwww I am in this EXACt situation!!!!!!!!!!!! About the waiting someone who is quiet
Great messages.. I have the guilt complex… on its way out….out…
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the one I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence, which I had once lost; again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "Yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.
Awesome awesome awesome !!! I hear & understand everything you say !!! It’s fantastic …thank you from the bottom of my hearth, love you soul-brother ❤️🙏🏼🌟💫⭐️
Kyle you are such a blessing to All
I just want to cry. Thank you for this.
Thank-You Kyle✨The Now is Being Realized✨❤️
Thank you, Kyle for your sessions. You have helped me relate to my granddaughter much better.
OMG! It's my SOFTWARE I don't wanna be with, NOT my true self. I can actually like the true Me. 🎉
Thank you Kyle! I feel guilty all the time, every time someone asks me to do something and I just can't say no. I feel I need to be pleasing to be loved or even accepted and even though i know it is a program it seems difficult to put myself first. 💕 grazie davvero Kyle
Thank you for this!!!! ❤
Thank you Kyle!
thank you, Kyle!♥
We are all born Innocent, whole and complete!! That is our true nature!
Thank you for your wisdom and insight🙏❤️🌈
I needed to hear this. Thank you, Kyle.
This is so clear to me, thank you
Thank you so much for this
Thank you for this.
Thank you , finding this was great timing for me . I was in the space you describe when I found it. Numbing out those feelings 😔
This for me means to just do the thing that scares me, pick up the pen and paper, taking steps towards what you're terrified of, shaking and feeling everything towards your dreams
Resonates on so many levels. Literally had a awakening. Thank you Kyle.
You consistently post about the exact thing I am going through. Thank you Kyle.
Thank you Kyle this was really really helpful 💛
This is SO GOOD. You are a gift 💐
Awesome awesome talk. Thank you!!!!
Yes I am here! Thank you🥂💙🎅⛄️
♥️♥️♥️ this. Tysm!
Love this
Thank you thank you thank you💗🙏
Thank you very much for this helpful video!!🌸
👋🏻😖 this message was for me 100% 🤜🏻💥🤛🏻🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤪🤪 this has been one of the deepest most profound, most insightful segments I've heard in a long time....incredible clarity and makes SO MUCH sense. 🤜🏻💥🤛🏻 God bless you brother. 🙏🏻😑 Thank you Jesus....🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Thank you Kyle - this was exactly what I needed to hear this morning. I appreciate you! ❤❤❤
How do you always manage to express so eloquently that which has been buzzing in my head prior to watching your videos? Thank you so much Kyle 💓
Ooh. The ‘software’!!! Thanks for articulating this so beautifully!!
Wow. Just wow that was profound. I needed that, thank you!
WTF....this one split me wide open. Crying and seeing and crying some more. Thank You
Perfect timing. Was in guilt and shame when I saw this.
Such a blessing
Wow Thankyou Kyle 💛
Dear Kyle, the theme of your video just confirms me that we’re all going through the same shit. This is exactly what I feel now and you put it beautifully in words. Thank you so much and please keep up the good work 🙏❤️😘 God bless you
Thank you! You always share such universal truths that help me to work through things currently in me and the collective❤
I have two sons in their 20's, both in problematic relationships. I often find myself saying to myself, "They deserve better than this. What is it that has caused them to attract these relationships?" And, of course, I have to go back to our home life when they were small. Their dad and I were not perfect parents. No one is. But I have really always believed we provided a loving, stable environment for them. But when I hear you and others talk about attracting what you had at home, it's hard for me to understand what I did that contributed to where they are now. More importantly, I wonder if there's anything I can do ... or "undo" in my own programming (that perhaps I am not consciously aware of) that will help them in some way.
In my opinion when you change yourself everything changes. What an example you can become! Even though detaching from striving for that.
Imo I don’t think children are born blank slates. I think we all came in with our path to walk. We may have chosen parents that would help us to grow spiritually in a variety of ways. If we blame our parents for our software downloads we also have to blame their parents who gave them their software downloads and their parents parents all the way back to Adam and Eve. We might as well blame God for creating humans with all their frailties. Life may be the most divine teacher of all. Not that I don’t kick against the pain and unfairness that I perceive when I am in a lower state of awareness. I do. But when I can expand my awareness I am grateful that I can see my parents, my kids and myself with unconditional love and acceptance if only for a little while and even as I slide back down the awareness continuum, at least I know the expanded states exist and will be there for me when I am able to open up to them again.
This is IT. This is exactly what I’ve been moving from my whole life but couldn’t find the words for- and couldn’t find anyone to talk to about it. Thank you Kyle for speaking to my soul. ❤
Thank you ☀️☀️☀️