My Ex Dumped Me Because Of Their Parents
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- čas přidán 21. 07. 2024
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Did your ex breakup with you, or the situation? Does your ex hide you from their parents because of their religion and culture? Was your ex sacred that their parents would not approve of you?
Takes a walk with me and find out how to get through this very difficult time.
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My girlfriend of 3 years left me after realizing her dads never gonna change his mind about dating a non jew. Not only that, all her family said they would disown her if she didnt marry a jew and her mom even guilted her by stating that her fathers health condition might be affected for the worst if she choose to go down this path. Ultimately she broke the relationship and the future we planned together and the kids we had named. It suck that the dynamics of her love and hate for her father keeps her in a perpetual cycle of fear and love. Hes suppet controlling and abusive at times and i just cant stop feeling bad for her.
i am sorry for all the people who are going through this..pain is indescribable. 💔
mine is 3rd week post break up.(parentsnot accepting of gay rships and i am certain there are several threats made so she caved in) BUT i can't seem to let go because she asked to meet me to give my stuff back and we can talk in person. she told me she'll tell me when. it's been 2 weeks and I have no word from her yet.
it's killing me everyday that the talk hasn't happened.
Well, you are right. This should be discussed on the very first dates, but when your partner is OK with political/religious differences, and then after five years it becomes an issue for them and want to break up for a reason they knew about five years ago! That what does not cross my mind, and the harm and pain it causes is beyond PAINFUL
That is tough Chevy, and unfortunately that’s how it goes sometimes. Hopefully we learn the lesson and filter those people out better next time.
This happened to me a month back! We were meeting eachothers parents and all was going well but then when I was visiting his family, his mother realised that he is listening to me and caring a lot about me, and she got super insecure and started brainwashing him when i went to visit my friend and was away from them for a day or two. He gave in and broke up with me saying his family has issues. All I can say is, his loss because I really helped him going above and beyond in every way possible to level up his life, was always encouraging and helped him build his self confidence. He will realize soon for sure and hopefully be a man and stand up for himself!
I’m sorry to hear that.
A man who can’t stand up to his mother and stand for his partner, isn’t a man.
Also if your culture is your parents decide then please don’t bother dating then, just let your parents set up an arrangement because you are going to do as they say anyway.
Family problem crisis is a severe situation that causes a breakup and they start too many issues in life
It’s true if they can not make decisions for themselves without influence then they will never be a good partner, they will always seek approval from parents, friends, etc. Even if the parents accepted you and you get married and have kids. Should anything happen and the parents decided they don’t like you anymore or they don’t like your children, guess what your partner will choose thier parents side always. Never defend you from criticism. And you end up divorced.
You’re changing lives 🙌🏽❤️
I’m just talking into a microphone buddy.
Everyone has the power to change their own lives. I’m just shining a light on it.
But thank you for the compliment.
Thank you so much for sharing this video. Much love!
Thank you so much
love this thank you
Thanks Shena.
Merry Christmas to you 🤶
Appreciate this video
My pleasure. I hope you’re well.
My boyfriend/ now ex broke up with me on my birthday because his parents wouldn’t accept me because of our only 4 year age difference and his mother was saying “me or your little girlfriend” and he (like any child would) chose his mom. We did everything together and everything reminds me of him. Any insight or tips to get over it?
I’m sorry to hear that Caitlyn, that must have made you feel awful.
Look at it this way. If he can’t stand up to mother that means he can’t stand for himself, so how could he ever stand up for you? Not exactly a high quality man.
As for getting over it. Time, processing your feelings and loving yourself unconditionally. Also know that you’re enough and his actions are reflection of him, not you.
A real man wouldn’t let his mother dictate who he dated.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick Thank you so much, I need to take this time to work on myself even though it all happened in a very stressful time (my birthday + school starting the same week)
@@caitlyntushi4787 how old were you? this sounds like a joke.
5:19 resonates
Omg! thank u!!
You’re welcome. I hope it helped. 😊
@@TheLoveFix-Nick it really does 💕
again thank u...
been searching for videos regarding this its only u who had made it for me and for those who are going through the same situation... More great videos ahead please 😊💕❤
I’m glad I could help Masala 😊
@@biancadelarosa7986 is it another bogos?
Masala, yes they are bogus. I’ve deleted and reported that person.
We just just teens and his parents warned us to get separated, we know it’s not something normal we know we are good but he just can’t do anything about it and he is sure he won’t agree even in future so we are breaking up how do I deal with it
I just cant i cant deal with this i am so in love and this is so hard i just turned 18 and this happened what do i do
I’m sorry to hear that Sunanda.
Do you have family or friends to talk to?
Try and remind yourself that you were fine before this relationship and you’ll be fine after it.
It’s going to hurt for a while but I promise you’ll be okay.
This happened to me 2 days before our wedding after being together forc10 years
Hey, my first boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago due to his parents finding out. We hid our relationship for two years. Everything was so perfect before and now he wont message me unless I message first. Even when I do, he barely puts time into his replies. He was my first everything, which makes it very difficult. I never got closure from him, and was basically just ghosted since his parents won’t let him talk to me. We are both 16 so he can’t see me without his parents permission. I feel confused and I don’t know what to do. I want to talk to him to get closure, but if he doesn’t want to… im not sure what to do. I want to be understanding because he can’t exactly control this situation, but at the same time I don’t know if that’s right? It’s been months and it still hurts as much as it did the day after the break up.
Kat, in coming tough love.
You got the closure the day he ended the relationship.
You’re only 16 and this is very new to you. I’m sorry you’re in so much pain, but don’t invest in someone who doesn’t invest in you my friend.
I hope you feel better.
this happened to me😢
Sorry to hear that Brandon 😢
My boyfriend broke up w me after 2 yrs of relationship because of his parents. I belong to a middle class family & they say our family’s financial/class differences will cause problems in future & they’ll never be able to accept me wholeheartedly. He can’t go against his parents wishes.
Should i forgive him or should i try talking to his friends to convince him otherwise?
If he hasn’t got the balls to stand up to his parents, how could ever stand up for you and protect? Better men out there.
Its an excuse..When they loved at first time they could loved without excuses but when situation comes after few years they gave so much excuses, Its just means a drama to leave the relationship. Its nothing to do with their family..They use family as a topic to breakup..Its cheating..Past experience speaking here
Possibly, yes. But there are people out there genuinely controlled by their parents. I’ve coached the dumpers who were made to breakup by their parents. They didn’t want to breakup.
Hey great video hope you see this but I was on the other end I'm the one who ended the relationship but only did it cause my family gave me an ultimatum and was torn...how do I fix my mistake cause I would rather take the risk with my significant other than be in a toxic household with my family...the only thing is african culture played a part and i want to break free from it any advice?
Hey. Reach out to your ex, say you made a mistake and you want to give it another shot. Tell her you choose her over your family. But be prepared because she may reject your apology. I hope it works out 😊
My friend I'm going through the same thing. My girlfriend's whole family gave her an ultimatum either she never sees me again or they will abandon her and she will not be able to see her grandkids ever her parents said they will never see her again if she does this. I have not done anything to any of them, but I kind of got to blame her for letting them do it.
Hey hope you will reply
So she doesn't want to try again because if her parents found out that she is seeing me even after they told her to stop they will beat her(we are teenagers im 17 and she is 16) it's impossible for her to stand against them.
Alright the thing is she still loves me but like i said she doesn't want to try again. She is scared. Right now she just won't listen to me. I don't want to leave her she is the love of my life..
Pls reply.. I want to know
Buddy, there is nothing you can do about her decision, regardless if her parents influence you or not. That’s the cold harsh truth my friend.
I know how painful it is, but it can be less painful if you try to focus on the things you can control.
If it’s true about the parents, then maybe she broke up with the situation rather than you.
Either way, end result is the same.
I hope you feel better.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick thnks for the reply.. I will try keep talking to her once in a while tho. I just can't let her go. I can't
No! No contact!
Talking to her will make it worse for you.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick that's 100% true. She doesn't seem sad you know, she is smiling and everything with her friends. But just cuz she ain't smiling doesn't mean she isn't sad. Right ? I just don't know what to do
You stay no contact and do the work on yourself. Self love.
My gf had to leave me bc of her parents
They saw our chats
They are mad at my girl
Rn i don’t have any contact of her
She doesn’t want to leave me she really wants to stay with me we are about the same age
We made a big big big promise i wrote it on my phone
I will not have a new girlfriend so no cheating
I will not game long bc i will study to apply university in her country
I will not become a failure
She made me feel safe she is the only one who supports me
In school everyone hates me no one likes me i feel like i am not welcome and its because i am Russian!
My parents are so toxic so i don’t even care if i leave them they didn’t even care that i got a girlfriend
We had so many fun
And right now i have to find the contact
All my old exes dumped and cheated on me
And its bc im ginger
Stay strong brother and focus on what you can control
@@TheLoveFix-Nick thank you! Got contact of her parents!
My ex was a ginger he left me because his parents are toxic but he feels devoted to his mother who is not a good person. He told me “my parents don’t love me” and I’m just confused why he would choose people who don’t love him over me I was a wonderful girlfriend until his parents make too many problems
@@mikewizoski7593 stay strong.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick got her contact back and our relationship is back to normal;)