@@goddessb582exactly! I can understand loneliness and all relationship related perks! But given the previous one failed and resulted in yet another ninja brought to the world! Focus should be on these kids more than how relationship status! People need to learn to accept the mistakes they’ve made & deal with the consequences of it properly by ensuring the kids are getting the best! Leave the single life things to single people & I mean single without responsibility of kids.
If she’s able to pay for the entire household, why not accept the dad who is providing some income? He must have done some dirty stuff when she was in the hospital!
Coming from a 62 year old lady. The expectation of a man stepping into that situation is delusional and ridiculous. I rarely comment. However, this has become normalized in our society and on this platform. Every time I see this it is sad. I can not help but wonder where the female role models were or are in these womens lives. I thank GOD that I was blessed to have my mother and father in my life that raised myself and my sister to be Classy Ladies. Because of my mother's examples I was able to raise my daughters to be Classy Ladies as well. I have a 33 year old son and I would never want this type of situation for him. He would never settle. No man should settle. I know that there are a lot of Classy Ladies left including me. Young or old we will never appear on this type of platform. We will watch, sometimes comment. Just know that we still exist. We Add Never Subtract We Bring Peace Never Chaos
@@blaxpoitation8528bruhhhhhhhhh😅 I'm just saying ..... nice to know there are some others who share this view bcz I'm just trying to figure out how everybody all of a sudden "entrepreneurs". "What do you do for a living then?" Response: "I re-sell Walmart grocery bags online, as an owner operator and I have my own LLC" 😅😅😅 🙄
“It’s not really a mess…I just have 5 kids.” Who is going to watch your 4 year old, 6 year old, and 6 month old? It was 10 at night and not one child was in the bed.
On the surface that's what it looks like .she don't want to be alone is really what it is which I understand. Despite her 5 children I can tell she still have some traditional values
@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 Nah, we need to stop sugarcoating stuff for these entitled mofos nowadays! They need it raw and in their face! How else will they learn? Entitlement needs to be shamed.
I read with the device she has, the life expectancy is between 5 - 13 years unless she finds a heart donor. I hope she pulls through for her children's sake. She's probably unable to even hold her youngest child, due to her weight. My brother went through heart failure, but he was able to get a pacemaker. Her situation is more severe. Her children's father needs to step up!
@@JVIXENNorthstarSadly she most likely pushed the BD away with disrespect and daily antics. From what it seems he had to leave cause her focus obviously not on the kids, it's a strong possibility he was bonding with the kids as a father while she's looking for other options.
Watching this show has given me an entirely new outlook on life. I used to think things were going poorly in my life. Watching the mundane suffering of these people makes me realize life can always be worse. Be thankful!
As a man it amazes me that a woman having children out of wedlock has become the standard We are already paying for these children And these females come to the dating table expecting The unrealistic They should be raising these children as opposed to trying to raise someone's Man's private parts up to there's
I'm a single mom of 1 teenager with no child support, I own my home, I have a good job, own car, great credit. And I'm willing to Bet it all that she gets a Husband before me 😂😂 y'all wasting your comments, she's definitely going to get a husband WAIT FOR HER UPDATE 💯
She has so many kids because having a man has always been her priority. She's probably a decent parent, but she isn't even close to being the brightest bulb in the box. 🙄😬😮
GOD FEARING MEANS NO SX BEFORE MARRIAGE and more!! people on here ALWAYS saying GOD FEARING LIKE ITS A JOKE!!! She is entitled how does she expect a man deal with all of that?? Im here single! 1 adult child,no drama,no baggage, work ,have my own money.
Wait she disabled and 5 kids😮. Girl do uber or something. No way she got it together with 5 kids😂. I can forgive not having a job. I provide pookie style 😂😮
You know, if a man came on this show with 5 kids, he had no job, and he told Kendra it's not a mess. I only have 5 kids. Kendra would have given him a mouthful, but with this lady, she took it so easy on her
I call cap on all women saying they don't need help with they kids. Let me show up with no birthday presents or food for them kids and we'll see if that's true.
Resume: 37 YO 5 Kids (mostly Young) 2 Baby Fathers, one deceased Disabled Entrepreneur with lack of clientele Unemployed I’m only four minutes in. Ladies would you want your son to marry a woman like this?
Exactly that's what she needs to do because I don't see a man coming in to be daddy to five small kids that's not his.They have all the demands for the next man but didn't have any for their daddys.
She physically can not work. My brother also went through heart failure while he was in a union. He's a plumber. He ended up needing a pacemaker, and his job kept him out for almost a year. He was down bad. Couldn't afford his mortgage. Went from making over $40 an hour to being disabled in his 30s. He is back working now and just happy he's able to provide for his two children.
Girl your white u shouldn’t have said nothing cus plenty of y’all on the same road tf😮 it’s not just black ppl that need assistance that’s sad and tbh she sounds like a nice person don’t try to look down on her every body situation different that’s life.
I wish more of us went to therapy before we had children. I say this with love and compassion. I was a single parent at 16, so I truly understand. Although I didn’t have anymore children, through therapy I realized I was dating the same type of man. But I had to work on myself before dating again.
37 year old mom of 5, all kids are under 18 including a 6 month old, on disability and unemployed due to congestive heart failure wants a provider man to be the United States to her Ukraine situation….who in the hell will take this deal???
I know a divorced man of 2 kids who married a divorced 30 yr old with 6 kids by 2 men. Then they had a baby together and she then I was very happy to see she got her tubes tied after that. He is a school teacher, average looking guy and seems to be a great catch. I said to myself,” How did she get him ?” and my husband said,” It’s the big booty !” 🤷🏽♀️
Because she’s selfish she is not a good mother. I guarantee you those kids are not reading writing, and doing math on level. And single mother households with lots of kids the older kids are adultified they do the babysitting. while mom is trying to chase a man.
Having a 6 moth old baby while being disabled and looking for a man to date is wild, desperate, selfish, careless, irresponsible etc.etc. She seems like a nice person but her priorities are in the deepest darkest part of the abysss. Stay single sis. You not ready.
I don’t understand these people. If you not working why are you trying to be a burden on other people! Then first thing she say is a man that has his stuff together 🤦🏾. She don’t have a job and say the man got to have a job 😂🤣🤣🤣. Run fellas run 🏃🏾♀️. Ohhh ok she on the spectrum. She slow. Bless her heart ♥️. She bring 5 kids and a baby daddy to the table and a lot of mouth!
But child support is for the child. That doesn’t mean that the woman doesn’t meet her own needs independently. I do however agree about government assistance.
@@rosaperks1873 Employment is a reciprocal agreement between two parties, one trades their skill and/or time for money & the employer receives a service they need to conduct business. We're all interdependent on each other, but let's not act like employment is charity work 😑
This question is for the Ladies : She has 5 kids. Youngest is 6 months old. Would you set her up with your son or brother that has no children and has worked his way through college to be the best man that he can be and now makes six figures a year and would you encourage your son or brother to provide for this woman and her 5 children?
I’m a single mom to 1 kid and i learned my lesson ain’t having no more babies untill I get married and I have to be financially stable. I’m going to break this generational curse 🙏
35 and childfree... This show sometimes makes me sad - these women bringing these innocent children into their chaos so easily without thinking about the life altering consequences. Also, it's worse witnessing the older kids caring for the younger children in the background. This actually made me cry, thinking about all the challenges these children will face.
Vulnerable and slower women listen to the evil feminist rhetoric and end up destroying themselves and these kids. But of course these selfish feminists will never cut their crap out despite seeing these outcomes.
Her story his rough but older children are supposed to help with younger children that's how all traditional cultures are set up father's make sure there is a rank and file of help going down the line
@@bongoikno4994 it is not the responsibility of the older children to care for their siblings, the are still children and deserve a safe space to be loved and develop. I have no interest in changing your mind or further debating this. have a good day.
Sad thing is that there are men and women who will dog us childless women (and also men who never had kids) like someone is wrong with us. Can’t win for losing.
What's sad is that these young black women still believe that they can marry and find black husbands that will support the family and allow them to raise their kids. That's pure fantasy. That was their parents. There is a whole new mentality now that wants nothing to do with anything like that. These men are ladies themselves and are looking for the same thing girls are looking for protection and provisions.
Ma'am, you have an entire six month old, along with 4 other kids, and you're looking for a BF??? Priorities all messed up smh. If she has a son, when he gets older and brings home a woman with 5 kids who aren't his, I'm sure she wouldn't allow it lol.
Amelia is such a sad story. She realized that the guy she was with wasn't worth it after she gave him children. This is becoming way too common. Hopefully this motivates him to become better, and they get back together. Those children deserve a good father, who's present. Good Luck!
@blackbeauty4001 Her and her offspring are a drag on society resorting in higher taxes, more crime, higher food prices for kids who shouldn't have been her if you had the ability to take care of them yourself....until the government stops rewarding the gatekeepers of sex for their f-ups....this nonsense will continue
She’s ignorant, which means she lacks knowledge I’ve known women like her. They don’t travel much they don’t see much of the world. Their viewpoint is narrow.
@@Monroestevens306 well, then they have a narrow viewpoint, which is why they should pay zero dollars to go to the library and pull out some books. Children of mothers with limited viewpoints replicate that somebody has to break the cycle.
She's an attractive woman. She has beautiful lips and I love her accent! But all of those children under 13 with no father in the picture to share custody? I couldn't do it. I wish her well.
@jayo3074 Average doesn't mean unattractive. Average is where most people fall or else it wouldn't be average. There's nothing wrong with being average. 🙄
@@blaqunity when I said average I wasn't talking about looks. I meant her circumstances are that of an average woman. Multiple kids by different men isn't attractive to most decent men.
I feel sad for her, she has 5 kids including a 6 month new infant. She needs a therapist and some self aware and self care.🙏🏾The background with kids are a deal breaker, but the man can't meet the kids and the world just has!
She needs to take care of herself first cus her heart situation looks serious. I wish her the best. She looks like she a genuine woman looking for love and companionship.
@tonia9455 I saw the device but didn't know exactly what it was. I just read most people who use that device live between 5 to 13 years. That is scary. She has babies to take care of 😢
These women need to stop being so cavalier about having kids by these random dudes. Those decisions affects your future relationships. A lot of men take kids more seriously than many of these single mothers. We understand that being with a woman with kids mean we will have to use our resources for those kids as well.
As someone with no kids, I’m always so amazed how moms are able to tune out their kids. Those children back their recking havoc and it’s hard not to be distracted by their noise. I’m so grateful for my peace and quiet!
This breaks my heart. 😢 ladies we MUST think about our own self worth first. We can’t continue with such a defeated mindset looking to be saved. WE CAN DO BETTER! We are powerful, resourceful, creative, etc. I pray that she gets a mentor and improves her life without dating. 😢 We must love ourselves first then the overflow from that spills over into others around us. ❤
Respectfully - Who’s watching the kids when yall go out to the movies and eat? Most likely It’s that poor 17 year old who has to co-parent with you. How about nurturing your ever growing family and meet someone in the future when they’re able to fend for themselves? You chose. Sometimes we have to sit in the decisions we make.
This!!!! I swear if people had to pay for that hospital bill after giving birth, no Medicaid, no food stamps or section 8 I promise people would be thinking twice about bringing all these kids into this world. But since it’s all free, then they have no worries.
Her deal breaker is a man not having a job, and she’s unemployed……😂
Right 😂😂😂
That part 😂 insane!!
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Exactly bro. Only thing working is her Vagina.
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The kids in the background while on a dating show is wild 😂
Always
Just ignant! 😅 somebody gonna sign up for it!
Crazy Work...... 😂😂
Then saying she doesn’t want nobody meeting her kids lol she just let the whole world meet them
@@MrsSam611😂😂😂
Having a 6 month old is a huge red flag for a woman already looking for a new man.
its clear having a man has always been her priority.
I'ma just sit over here and stfu 🤫 bcz i said i was gone stop being like that .... but you started it tho !!!! 😮
If you ever feel like a loser, just tune into Kendra to brighten your day up 😂
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Yes yes! I thought my life sucks 😂 not really 😂
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amen!
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She needs to redirect her focus from a man to her kids!
And her Health
Agreed especially with that 6 month old.
These types, rarely ever focus on their children. The focus is almost ALWAYS on a man.
@@goddessb582exactly!
I can understand loneliness and all relationship related perks!
But given the previous one failed and resulted in yet another ninja brought to the world! Focus should be on these kids more than how relationship status!
People need to learn to accept the mistakes they’ve made & deal with the consequences of it properly by ensuring the kids are getting the best!
Leave the single life things to single people & I mean single without responsibility of kids.
Exactly! 💯
Just go back to your baby daddy. If a man walks into this mess, it's because he's homeless and needs a place to stay bring them kids daddy back.
The accuracy!!! She's gonna end up with a hobosexual at this rate.
lol very true
If she’s able to pay for the entire household, why not accept the dad who is providing some income? He must have done some dirty stuff when she was in the hospital!
And when Kendra started this show she thought she was gonna prove a point to Kevin Samuel’s.She definitely proved a point to him, that he was RIGHT!!!
And was his point to prove that women like you think you’re the exception when he viewed you all the same? Because he was rainbow fruity booty
Keeping that man alive
@@MJ3000. and still won’t admit he was right
All the way
If you say so😂
Coming from a 62 year old lady.
The expectation of a man stepping into that situation is delusional and ridiculous. I rarely comment.
However, this has become normalized in our society and on this platform. Every time I see this it is sad. I can not help but wonder where the female role models were or are in these womens lives. I thank GOD that I was blessed to have my mother and father in my life that raised myself and my sister to be Classy Ladies. Because of my mother's examples I was able to raise my daughters to be Classy Ladies as well. I have a 33 year old son and I would never want this type of situation for him.
He would never settle. No man should settle. I know that there are a lot of Classy Ladies left including me. Young or old we will never appear on this type of platform.
We will watch, sometimes comment.
Just know that we still exist.
We Add Never Subtract
We Bring Peace Never Chaos
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Amen! Yes this show is crazy
Yes! Honestly it makes no sense. It comes off as entitled a bit.
Thanks for this respectful response.
Lack of good parenting and the disgusting rap music they love.
I don't think dating should be on her top 10 list of priorities right now..
Wildddddd. She’s needs to focus on her health and babies !!!
😂😂😂😂😂facts
She needs therapy
AT ALL. Please sit down and heal sis. Raise the kids.
Hell, top 100 prioties Christmas and Thanksgiving coming up in a few months. She needs to start shopping for food and gifts now😂
What man is gonna sign up for this? The only man you gon get is one who needs somewhere to live.
or a predator. Those children are in serious danger.
😂😂😂😂😂facts
No lies detected
A disabled, entrepreneur who has 5 kids and no job is every man's dream woman? 🤔
Apparently, they think men are there for the taking.
"Entrepreneur"..... we all know that that term gets tossed around a lot nowadays. Seems like everybody is an " entrepreneur "
@@blaxpoitation8528bruhhhhhhhhh😅 I'm just saying ..... nice to know there are some others who share this view bcz I'm just trying to figure out how everybody all of a sudden "entrepreneurs". "What do you do for a living then?" Response: "I re-sell Walmart grocery bags online, as an owner operator and I have my own LLC" 😅😅😅 🙄
@@blaxpoitation8528one was on here the other day couldn't remember what her " business " was 😂
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“It’s not really a mess…I just have 5 kids.” Who is going to watch your 4 year old, 6 year old, and 6 month old? It was 10 at night and not one child was in the bed.
Ohhh chile 💯
I spit my sweet tea out when she said that. Her circumstances aren't a mess...it's a hot mess!
NOT ONE!! 😂
i said in another comment; its like words have no meaning anymore. People just say shit to say shit
Bedtime is at 8pm! Kids must have a routine.
Dating with an infant is kind of trifling... I would take a break...
Nah you’re right! It’s not kind of trifling! It’s Trifling as hell!
@@nickysunshine8734 It sure is. I was trying not to be harsh. She seems like a nice woman.....
On the surface that's what it looks like .she don't want to be alone is really what it is which I understand. Despite her 5 children I can tell she still have some traditional values
@@JUSTICEKING26 I agree. I think she will meet someone. Maybe a nice older man, or someone with kids that can relate....❤️❤️
@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 Nah, we need to stop sugarcoating stuff for these entitled mofos nowadays! They need it raw and in their face! How else will they learn?
Entitlement needs to be shamed.
this woman has the nerve to say "I have my stuff together". DA FUQ!!!
😂😂😂😂exactly 💯
It's all about perception. Poor thing...naive? Delusional?
My heart goes out to this woman’s kids, especially the 17 year old. He/she might be stuck raising babies and miss out on bettering their future 😢
This can be a problem for some older children. Mama purhing out a bunch of babies and forcing the oldest daughter to co parent her siblings.
A lot it times those kids raise their mothers kids until they have their own… and never live an individual existence for themselves
I read with the device she has, the life expectancy is between 5 - 13 years unless she finds a heart donor. I hope she pulls through for her children's sake. She's probably unable to even hold her youngest child, due to her weight. My brother went through heart failure, but he was able to get a pacemaker. Her situation is more severe. Her children's father needs to step up!
Exactly this crazy ash, and she's still not doing the self work
@@JVIXENNorthstarSadly she most likely pushed the BD away with disrespect and daily antics. From what it seems he had to leave cause her focus obviously not on the kids, it's a strong possibility he was bonding with the kids as a father while she's looking for other options.
I like to dress up and go out😂 where you going with 5 kids, no job, and a baby daddy that doesn't help. She wouldn't date herself.....clearly.
Man that's wild 😂😂😂😂
Stop it😂😮😅 She selling that EBT card 😂
😂😂😂 insane
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All women expect the men to pay. By go out, she expects a free meal and a to-go bag for the kids.
Watching this show has given me an entirely new outlook on life. I used to think things were going poorly in my life. Watching the mundane suffering of these people makes me realize life can always be worse. Be thankful!
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You ain't lie, be grateful!
I feel like I'm a high value man after watching this show. No more complaining from me.
Yes!
As a man it amazes me that a woman having children out of wedlock has become the standard We are already paying for these children And these females come to the dating table expecting The unrealistic They should be raising these children as opposed to trying to raise someone's Man's private parts up to there's
The bar is so low that she's basically claiming that government assistance AKA welfare is considered financially stable.
It’s a guaranteed check to her and she doesn’t seem to know any better.
Right!! She's getting child support as well!! Better believe it!!
Using words like financially stable and independent!! Impossible!!
Disability and Welfare are two different things.
Y’all really mad that this lady has finally learned her worth!!! We live and we learn.
I'm a single mom of 1 teenager with no child support, I own my home, I have a good job, own car, great credit. And I'm willing to Bet it all that she gets a Husband before me 😂😂 y'all wasting your comments, she's definitely going to get a husband WAIT FOR HER UPDATE 💯
Possible. But what kind of quality man will he be. He's gonna have to be slow and a simp. Lol. Them kids gone be cussin his azs out😅.
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Yes anyone can get a husband, but that doesn’t mean that they will be happy.
@@lstewart89 marriage isn't about happiness anyway. That's the problem. 50% divorce rate, happiness is the least on the list
You're beautiful
Kendra forgot to add "Brace Yourself" to the title
Right times 10😂
😢 sure did
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That’s pretty much every episode, at this point.
Sweetie you should not focus on men right now, take more time to get therapy, take care of your baby, and your health
I agree 💯👌🏾
She’s broke. Who’s gonna pay for therapy?
@@HumptyMcFly there is help if you are on Government assistance
"She has her stuff together." Don't forget.
@@Nobodyisgreat123 whether she has her stuff together or not just listening to her situation she definitely needs counseling NOT a man
She has so many kids because having a man has always been her priority. She's probably a decent parent, but she isn't even close to being the brightest bulb in the box. 🙄😬😮
GOD FEARING MEANS NO SX BEFORE MARRIAGE and more!! people on here ALWAYS saying GOD FEARING LIKE ITS A JOKE!!! She is entitled how does she expect a man deal with all of that??
Im here single! 1 adult child,no drama,no baggage, work ,have my own money.
Not working but looking for a man! Girl 5 kids and a 6 month old. SMH
Wait she disabled and 5 kids😮. Girl do uber or something. No way she got it together with 5 kids😂. I can forgive not having a job. I provide pookie style 😂😮
🤦🏽♀️ I hate this 🌎 we live in
Sometimes, I think these ladies don't hear themselves. They don't think they sound delusional......lol.
Dam I was hoping the children were grown. That's what I get for trying to give the benefit of the doubt.
No shame
Being single is not that bad fellas....
Its not bad at all. It’s wonderful
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Not at all
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after watching this mess hell nah lol
She says one of her flaws is she is a procrastinator. I’m guessing she should procrastinate trying to find a man for about 10 years.
She procrastinated on getting birth control
As a baby boomer, I still baffled as to why young black women would suppress their life potential and dreams with so many children.
Lol still showing a lack of common sense... Amazing
Ma'am, of course he didn't wanna meet your kids, so that's why he asked you to come outside...😂😂😂😂
Right. And didn't she say she wanted to date. Shit there u go. In the car with the music and some McDonald's bish😅😅😅 the heLL she expect
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She called him weird because he didn't want to come inside but then say she don't want random guys to meet her kids. Someone make it make sense
I swear if I see another baby mama with 4+ kids who didn't require marriage before, but now wants a provider husband, I'm gonna lose it.
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Well you should start looking for your nearest MHMR because there's one coming around the corner in 5..4..3..2....
Well that's 95% of this show...So get ready to lose it.
@@concretejungle6938 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You know, if a man came on this show with 5 kids, he had no job, and he told Kendra it's not a mess. I only have 5 kids. Kendra would have given him a mouthful, but with this lady, she took it so easy on her
Kendra in awe if her southern naive charm
Maybe because she’s still in the postpartum stage. She has a 6 month old.
I feel for her kids. She seem sweet but totally unaware.😮🙏🏾
I call cap on all women saying they don't need help with they kids.
Let me show up with no birthday presents or food for them kids and we'll see if that's true.
Right?! I bet the poor 16 year old was taking of all them kids while she was laid up for 3 months 😢
This is true.
If you go out with a Girl that has 5 kids you don't have a choice but to take care of them.
@@concretejungle6938 which is why I always refuse.
Depends on who you date… I’m only speaking for me tho. No cap
I’m sorry, at this point, her focus needs to be on raising her kids.
Poor lady has health issues along with five kids needs prayers for healing and recovery more than a man at this time.
@@lorenathorpe8909 absolutely 💯
Nothing to apologize for, you're spot on. She definitely shouldn't be on here with a 6 month old 🤦🏾♀️
She definitely need to be just taking care of her kids and pleaz stop looking to date any man...smh
@@brianal7143 💯
She said she so 'in depentent'...no help from baby daddies, No job... Goverment paying, we, the taxpayers paying, you are not independent 😏😨
😂😂😂😂😂right ✅️
Exactly!!! Just be using words with absent context!
Resume:
37 YO
5 Kids (mostly Young)
2 Baby Fathers, one deceased
Disabled
Entrepreneur with lack of clientele
Unemployed
I’m only four minutes in. Ladies would you want your son to marry a woman like this?
Focus on getting to work and taking care your kids
She's not looking for love, she's looking for help
Thank you! When the baby is 10, then she can think about dating. So come 2033 maybe she can ask to go out on a date.
Some people just pop out kids for a check. She obviously doesn’t know what really being a mother is.
Exactly that's what she needs to do because I don't see a man coming in to be daddy to five small kids that's not his.They have all the demands for the next man but didn't have any for their daddys.
And why they not in bed instead of listening to adult conversation
Now I normally keep my mouth shut. But the AUDACITY! I burst out laughing when she said a deal breaker is no job. Then you have FIVE KIDS?!?
I'm happy the ladies are talking up 😂
Girl u and I both ! I
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Don’t forget… she has no job 😂😂😂
@@njpme They really aren't. They only speak up when it's an easily ridiculous situation like this mess
Poor thing is she slow bless her little heart
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 This right here!!!
Yes!!!!
She’s gorgeous, she just didn’t have the right role model 😭😭
Only ex-cons needing a place to stay would sign up for this.
Why she doing this in front of her kids? Yikes!
Crazy man, I know my BM probably doing the same
I'll be damned if I'm going to look for a man before a job. She wants to bring absolutely nothing to the relationship.
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Yup..he'll need to buy her pads too🤦🏽♀️...
She bringing a million dollars worth of kids. Average cost to raise one kid is 250,000....
She physically can not work. My brother also went through heart failure while he was in a union. He's a plumber. He ended up needing a pacemaker, and his job kept him out for almost a year. He was down bad. Couldn't afford his mortgage. Went from making over $40 an hour to being disabled in his 30s. He is back working now and just happy he's able to provide for his two children.
@@JVIXENNorthstar she can't work but she can fucc lol make it make sense
The irony of wearing Juneteenth gear for community betterment while living a lifestyle that holds it back
A word! ❤💯
😂😂😂😂😂😂good point 👉 👈 👇 🤔 👌
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Girl your white u shouldn’t have said nothing cus plenty of y’all on the same road tf😮 it’s not just black ppl that need assistance that’s sad and tbh she sounds like a nice person don’t try to look down on her every body situation different that’s life.
As much as i want to disagree, that's the exact same thing i thought when i saw this and have the nerve to wear a juneteenth shirt
Can't have a man without a job while she's been unemployed sitting at home collecting a check. Her lack of self awareness is astounding.
Didn’t you males say you wanted traditional women? Traditional women didn’t have jobs
@@meangreen6044traditional women don’t bring 5 kids from prior relationships you goof
Tore my Achilles running to the comments!!!🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Slow down now. Don't end up on disability
@@njpmeright? 😅
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Put an icepack on it, sister. That would help 😂😂😂😂
I wish more of us went to therapy before we had children. I say this with love and compassion. I was a single parent at 16, so I truly understand. Although I didn’t have anymore children, through therapy I realized I was dating the same type of man. But I had to work on myself before dating again.
Therapy doesn’t fix people that’s the biggest social media myth. they sound just as crazy reciting therapy points
37 year old mom of 5, all kids are under 18 including a 6 month old, on disability and unemployed due to congestive heart failure wants a provider man to be the United States to her Ukraine situation….who in the hell will take this deal???
Bad deal
I know a divorced man of 2 kids who married a divorced 30 yr old with 6 kids by 2 men. Then they had a baby together and she then I was very happy to see she got her tubes tied after that. He is a school teacher, average looking guy and seems to be a great catch. I said to myself,” How did she get him ?” and my husband said,” It’s the big booty !” 🤷🏽♀️
Not Ukraine situation 😂😂😂
@@dortheay7361I ain't going lie it happens 😂 that booty dangerous
@@dortheay7361😂😂😂😂😂
I love her southern accent. That's the only nice thing I can think of 😂.
I am a Tennessean. That is not a southern accent. We know how to articulate, speak complete sentences and avoid filler words.
@@crjtn There are different types of southern accents tho right ?
🇬🇧 Why not put the Children to bed before coming on a Dating Show 😏
Because she’s selfish she is not a good mother. I guarantee you those kids are not reading writing, and doing math on level.
And single mother households with lots of kids the older kids are adultified they do the babysitting. while mom is trying to chase a man.
Exactly smh
This is a paid actress ain't no way😵💫😂
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😂😂😂😂 got to be!
Straight from Tubi
This is an individual who seriously lacks self awareness.
@@glamgetter1910😂😂😂😂😂😂 STOP!!! 🤣🤣🤣
How can she say she has her stuff together with NO JOB & 5 kids??
She also said she takes care of her children. Howwwww????
Section 8 and other government stimulus packages sponsored by tax payers that keep her from being homeless.
Having a 6 moth old baby while being disabled and looking for a man to date is wild, desperate, selfish, careless, irresponsible etc.etc. She seems like a nice person but her priorities are in the deepest darkest part of the abysss. Stay single sis. You not ready.
She needs to soley focus on raising her kids for the next 5 years. Men ain't going nowhere
Just read the title and came here immediately to drop this laughing emoji 😆
She’s not financially stable if she’s on benefits 🙄
Your tax dollars hard at work!
Kendra's look away when she said she was a good catch was hilarious. I bet Kendra has no idea she did that😅😂🤣
She is actually serious 😢😢😢
I bet she is 😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t understand these people. If you not working why are you trying to be a burden on other people! Then first thing she say is a man that has his stuff together 🤦🏾. She don’t have a job and say the man got to have a job 😂🤣🤣🤣. Run fellas run 🏃🏾♀️. Ohhh ok she on the spectrum. She slow. Bless her heart ♥️. She bring 5 kids and a baby daddy to the table and a lot of mouth!
It's becoming an epidemic with these women !!!!
2 baby daddies
They feel entitled to a man's bank account.
She is looking for someone to come save her
@@ejay2075 Definitely trying to and think she smart enough to do it but she not lol
If she wasn’t in the hospital, she would be here with a 1 week old…I’m convinced. #noshame
Facts
The only thing that will stop her is the big "M".
The fact that she still has something connected to her and she’s here looking for a man is outrageous.
She genuinely comes across as a sweet woman. Shame she wasn't a guest on the show 5 kids ago.
She still would have chose Pookie because that's her mindset...
Smh, you are not independent if you are using government assistance or child support. Independent is full depending on yourself with no help.
Then most of us aren't. We depend on our employer
@rosaperks1873 you moved that goal post to Africa 🤣
But child support is for the child. That doesn’t mean that the woman doesn’t meet her own needs independently. I do however agree about government assistance.
Exactly!
@@rosaperks1873 Employment is a reciprocal agreement between two parties, one trades their skill and/or time for money & the employer receives a service they need to conduct business. We're all interdependent on each other, but let's not act like employment is charity work 😑
It looks like the daughter has to raise the new 6 month old. This lady is so selfish.
Witnessing that made me cry actually
Yup, while she's on the world wide web looking for a new man. That's sad
@@jodian7594 unfortunately he’ll be the next baby daddy
@@jodian7594world wide web 😂😂😂😂
As she sits on the internet looking for a new man
Kendra is so petty!!!! When she said she a good catch, Kendra looked the other way. 😂
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What???😂😂😂😂😂
single black women with no kids are the new unicorn.
Facts
We still definitely exist. Lol 🦄
@@BeautyNBrains86 you're pure gold...hard to find😂
@@BeautyNBrains86smh you ain't gonna have none, you're too pretty 😂
@Sukuna1983 What? I want kids. I love them lol
Wtf is wrong with all these women wanting men to come in and take care of them and all their kids.
😂😂😂😂😂delusional 🙄
Society has been pampering modern women for ages. This is the outcome.
And she has a heart machine
This question is for the Ladies :
She has 5 kids. Youngest is 6 months old. Would you set her up with your son or brother that has no children and has worked his way through college to be the best man that he can be and now makes six figures a year and would you encourage your son or brother to provide for this woman and her 5 children?
Hell no
I don't be in my brothers dating business anyhow
Absolutely NOT!!!
Fuck no
@@rosaperks1873
Oh Lord here we go.
Come on now you know exactly what I mean. Obviously it's just a hypothetical question 🤦🏾
Baby born September 14 2023, but is only 6 months old? #mathnotmathing
Projection at it's finest...She want everything she's not and the opposite of what she's had.
And it sounds like Tyrone still got a key!!!
You know he still has access. She just pushed Pookie's baby out six months ago.
I’m a single mom to 1 kid and i learned my lesson ain’t having no more babies untill I get married and I have to be financially stable. I’m going to break this generational curse 🙏
Right 😂! I'm average! I understand why women want men with 100k-200k. Some women whole neighborhood hit for free😂😅.
😂😂😂 the generational curse is having kids by men outside of a marriage. Maybe your daughter or son can break it because that ship has sailed for you.
With God's help, you can! Stay blessed!
@@Quinten4M 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Chill, bro! Chill!
I know lots of women who did the one and done.
35 and childfree... This show sometimes makes me sad - these women bringing these innocent children into their chaos so easily without thinking about the life altering consequences. Also, it's worse witnessing the older kids caring for the younger children in the background. This actually made me cry, thinking about all the challenges these children will face.
Vulnerable and slower women listen to the evil feminist rhetoric and end up destroying themselves and these kids. But of course these selfish feminists will never cut their crap out despite seeing these outcomes.
Her story his rough but older children are supposed to help with younger children that's how all traditional cultures are set up father's make sure there is a rank and file of help going down the line
@@bongoikno4994 it is not the responsibility of the older children to care for their siblings, the are still children and deserve a safe space to be loved and develop. I have no interest in changing your mind or further debating this. have a good day.
Sad thing is that there are men and women who will dog us childless women (and also men who never had kids) like someone is wrong with us. Can’t win for losing.
What's sad is that these young black women still believe that they can marry and find black husbands that will support the family and allow them to raise their kids. That's pure fantasy. That was their parents. There is a whole new mentality now that wants nothing to do with anything like that. These men are ladies themselves and are looking for the same thing girls are looking for protection and provisions.
Ma’am, no man is dying to meet your five kids. Trust me. That’s why Bro didn’t want to come in.
Exaaaaactly 😂😂😂
Kendra’s facial expressions are GOLD!
Ma'am, you have an entire six month old, along with 4 other kids, and you're looking for a BF??? Priorities all messed up smh. If she has a son, when he gets older and brings home a woman with 5 kids who aren't his, I'm sure she wouldn't allow it lol.
Out here breeding like alley cats 🐈
Oh!! No you didn't!
Could've been more understanding-I guess not!
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Damn! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Meoooooow
Well the men are the same, both are responsible
Amelia is such a sad story. She realized that the guy she was with wasn't worth it after she gave him children. This is becoming way too common. Hopefully this motivates him to become better, and they get back together. Those children deserve a good father, who's present. Good Luck!
Lies 🤷🏽♀️
Her kids don't want for nothing but a bedtime and not to be hearing adult conversation. smh.
If "I never looked at it from the guy's perspective" was a person.......she was so lost when Kendra was asking her questions
Definitely. Zero idea on what a man wants. So sad. 😢
This is better than Def Comedy Jam !😅😅😅😅😅 she one of the best jokes yet😅😅😅😅😅😅
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Ok other women.....Do yall see what some of us decent men have to work with now?????
As a childless black woman.she said her bd never had a job but she continued to breed with a jobless bum
Did she really did say age range 39 to 40? 😆 🤣 😂
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I heard that, too. Now, I believe she is trolling.
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😂😂😂😂😂 hilarious
Another single mother of 5 with no job but says the man wouldn’t have to help her kids ? Yes bc the government helps you
Right 😂! Five kids! Omg who signing up. Plus she got no job. This is so unattractive! Men just go get u a hooker 😂😅 it's cheaper
And ?? You don't have to date her so what, what's your story?
the man doesnt have to help because we all helping 🙄
@blackbeauty4001 Her and her offspring are a drag on society resorting in higher taxes, more crime, higher food prices for kids who shouldn't have been her if you had the ability to take care of them yourself....until the government stops rewarding the gatekeepers of sex for their f-ups....this nonsense will continue
@blackbeauty4001 this must be your story as well because that's crazy to not have a job with 1 kid let alone 5
Unbelievable! So after birthing 5 children and no wedding ring, she expects a man to come and put a ring on her finger. What is she smoking?🤷🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
She’s ignorant, which means she lacks knowledge I’ve known women like her. They don’t travel much they don’t see much of the world. Their viewpoint is narrow.
😂😂😂😂😂😂drywall!!
I'm sure it's not weed.
@@DivestedConfessionsThat's a lot.. hell most of our community. 😅
@@Monroestevens306 well, then they have a narrow viewpoint, which is why they should pay zero dollars to go to the library and pull out some books. Children of mothers with limited viewpoints replicate that somebody has to break the cycle.
4:44 “whatchu mean” it’s like she’s completely out of touch and doesn’t see how crazy her situation is lol. Oooh chileeee (as KG would say)
Well she was sick and she is on disability I hope she gets better and God will heal her fully
Proof that solo dolo is better these days 😂
She's an attractive woman. She has beautiful lips and I love her accent! But all of those children under 13 with no father in the picture to share custody? I couldn't do it. I wish her well.
She's average
@jayo3074 Average doesn't mean unattractive. Average is where most people fall or else it wouldn't be average. There's nothing wrong with being average. 🙄
@@blaqunity where did I say average is unattractive?
@@jayo3074 Maybe I missed it. What is the point of your comment that she's average?
@@blaqunity when I said average I wasn't talking about looks. I meant her circumstances are that of an average woman. Multiple kids by different men isn't attractive to most decent men.
Girl don’t no body give af about meeting them kids
God bless this good woman, hope everything works out for her🙏🏾
Im so confused, which man wants to provide for kids of another man, let alone 4 of them?! Be careful who you have around your children, lady
Exactly
5 kids 😢
5
It’s many suckas out here who will best believe it. My uncles ex got married and she had 4 kids by 4 different dudes lol
Trust me, she don’t have to worry about that 😂 nobody wants to anyways
Lmao 🤣 what cape was she wearing. Captain breeder
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😂😂😂 I know…zero sense..
I feel sad for her, she has 5 kids including a 6 month new infant. She needs a therapist and some self aware and self care.🙏🏾The background with kids are a deal breaker, but the man can't meet the kids and the world just has!
What do you bring to the table 😂 This answer always goes left. This is hilarious.
I’m not gon lie, she’s pretty and seems like she could make a good house wife !! I could see this happening in the country !!
Yeah I said the same thing.
What man in the country or city would sign up for this headache? She’s got 5 children and health issues. Too much for any sensible person.
She would be loyal to her man!
Take one for the team, please.
Women really underestimate how much of a turn off raising another mans kids. It's like how women don't really like men shorter than them
She needs to take care of herself first cus her heart situation looks serious. I wish her the best. She looks like she a genuine woman looking for love and companionship.
You noticed the LVAD, too? I thought I was tripping.
Is that the bag she was carrying?😢
@@1BeautifullyBlessed yup
@tonia9455 I saw the device but didn't know exactly what it was. I just read most people who use that device live between 5 to 13 years. That is scary. She has babies to take care of 😢
@@JVIXENNorthstar Yes. Unfortunately, it's all bad, but God is all good. He knows, and He will take care of her.
These women need to stop being so cavalier about having kids by these random dudes. Those decisions affects your future relationships. A lot of men take kids more seriously than many of these single mothers. We understand that being with a woman with kids mean we will have to use our resources for those kids as well.
As someone with no kids, I’m always so amazed how moms are able to tune out their kids. Those children back their recking havoc and it’s hard not to be distracted by their noise. I’m so grateful for my peace and quiet!
This breaks my heart. 😢 ladies we MUST think about our own self worth first. We can’t continue with such a defeated mindset looking to be saved. WE CAN DO BETTER! We are powerful, resourceful, creative, etc. I pray that she gets a mentor and improves her life without dating. 😢 We must love ourselves first then the overflow from that spills over into others around us. ❤
At 15:41 - The way Kendra's eyes rolled when the girl said, "I'm a good catch" 😂😅😂
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The shade 😂😂😂
Respectfully - Who’s watching the kids when yall go out to the movies and eat? Most likely It’s that poor 17 year old who has to co-parent with you. How about nurturing your ever growing family and meet someone in the future when they’re able to fend for themselves? You chose. Sometimes we have to sit in the decisions we make.
The government needs to stop providing assistance. I don’t see how you can be unemployed with 5 kids.
This!!!! I swear if people had to pay for that hospital bill after giving birth, no Medicaid, no food stamps or section 8 I promise people would be thinking twice about bringing all these kids into this world. But since it’s all free, then they have no worries.