I know of a woman she did this, only to find some dude who tolerated it and ended up getting married, divorced shortly after due to him not being the best in bed. The problem when most women reaches this stage is that they tend to put up all these rules, when it's normally dudes who they don't normally go for abide by those same rules.
They saying "provider" these days which really means a dude to pay her current bills and bills made in the future. The juice ain't worth the squeeze whether she a bad bitch or a bitch with a bad body. They grown right? Pay those grown woman bills on your own.
The Person she loves: Got 3 kids, didn't need a real job in 15 years. Got to enjoy her best years for free. The person she's willing to tolerate: Has to wait until marriage. Needs to make at least 70k, does not get his own legacy.
She is clearly looking for help.the man that did the bare minimum.got the best of her.now she has three kids and in need of help.abd this spiritual journey is bs because she wants to keep the man at bay all the while he is helping her financially geez
She delusional. Had 3 kids with a dude who didn’t require it. Had sex 6 months ago and didnt require that from that person but NOW no sex until marriage. Wow.
I'm noticing that this is the strategy from women to let the man have no expectation of s#x whilst dating but still have a man uphold his end of the dating bargain.
She looks defeated she largely wants financial assistance now.hence why she is saying she is on this celibacy journey because she does not want to deal with the man.only his wallet
Someone opened my eyes. She is a bartender and doesn’t want anyone that drinks???? Are you kidding me? You need to find a new occupation if you don’t believe in drinking or clubbing.
More importantly, she said that she doesn’t go out and stays home with her kids and isn’t into the nightlife and the ”scene”….despite the fact that she is IN the nightlife and likely is out at night in the scene. Daytime bartenders don’t make the money that nighttime bartenders make in much less time.
Those children/adult are not by the same men..just be honest..the timeframe does not make sense..why have 6/7 yrs. apart between each child & then figure out AFTER the 3rd child..that their “Father” wasn’t any good???..& you just had sex 6 months ago..& now you want to be celibate!!!..what man is signing up for this????
kendra be on her show 'blunted' and tipsy half the time.. she didnt catch her saying at the end she was in a relationship for (16) years... that kills that same bd bs.. the oldest is (21).. and she on here tryna defend her mom.. she got at least (2) bd.. prob the (15) yr old his... but (21) & (7).. naw... she aint being what she claims she wants... honesty....
Stayed with him and had 3 kids by him even tho he wasnt doing anything. That man has her heart, if he ever gets his ish together she is leaving you for him even if you meet all tge demands she has now. Stay away!
What's worse is she'll try to legally steal the resources of the good man who might be foolish enough to wife her up to help finance her original "family" with her baby daddy.
@@Rene-cn4jcRene….its only in today’s world of splitting hairs that your comment is ok. She is against drinking - not against getting drunk. She SERVES alcohol!! She serves the thing that she doesnt like. Of course this is wrong. How are you anti-vax but youre a doctor who vaccinated people.
She assumed things would work out and when it didn't she probably had lots of attention as a redbone with a decent shape now wanting to capitalize on that
@@bruceleeroy8302 lived in his mommas house. I have seen dudes in their 30s that never had nothing but part time/low paying jobs on and off. They still pulled women. i could live to be a 100 and will never understand why women choose men.
@candorsspot2775 She don't need to just give it away. She need to put things in perspective. It's the idiots out there trying to tell women to just give it away thats a part of the problem. She already did that. That's why a lot of women are in the position they are in, by listening to low grade advice like that.
@@DanteFortson I didn't say anything about what men say. I know men say a lot of things, but we all know they only really want one thing. So sure they say that. They'll say whatever to make themselves feel good, or make it easier for them or escape accountability, especially that. Deep inside they don't care about non of that. They just want to feel good and feel in control for the moment.
Aww Jamese ❤. Nice crib, pretty girl.Children were birthed approximately 7 years apart.21,15,and 7.She had ample time the stop the trainwreck.Marriage would be a tough sell.The last kid derailed her greatly.She was almost clear.Damn man.
This is absolutely madness, now that she had her fun she talking about marriage. 3 kids by a deadbeat dad,asking to wait for marriage like she a virgin,got her back blown out to oblivion 6 months ago without marriage,doesn’t want more children. But now she older and washed she on spiritual journey now. The jokes right themselves. 😂
She does hair and bartends. That’s two jobs that do not require any formal education where you can earn good wages. It does require working basically 60+ hours per week, which is why the numbers are skewed. She is also working jobs that don’t require her to report all of her actual income, which makes her $70k look differently than a government worker making $70k.
Are women taught “Marry be for you carry” anymore?” What is going on here!?!? It’s like everyone is a broke baby momma that has never been married Edit: It’s even worse when you have multiple kids by a bum. I think most people would be forgiving after 1 child (not me tho). But if he’s still a bum and you’re mot married, why have 2 more kids!? 👧🏽 🧒🏾
@cloudsephiroth, Yes, exactly! You have made some great points. I do agree, this multiple baby momma theme is a recurring issue on this show. Not to be judgemental, but in my opinion, if a woman still has small/underage kids in the home, dating should not be a priority. The focus & attention should be on the kids. They deserve your undivided attention. Once you start having kids, especially outside of marriage, then that's a sacrifice you have to make as a mother! Let that thang breathe. Yes, most definitely, get married before having kids, since it shows commitment, and provides legitimacy and stability for the kids! Most men want their own kids within the marriage, and don't want to start out with a "ready-made family!" Women should have higher standards for themselves by choosing partners wisely, and most importantly, using birth control!
@bunchess Yes, a great perspective! I am always thinking about the well being of the kids, but that's just me. We have seen so many horror stories lately of bad outcomes of mothers choosing the wrong partner! Leaving kids motherless!
@@realtalkwithproblj2004 yep. It’s terrible because I feel like there are enough examples of what not to follow esp in this day of technology.. versus the news and access. It’s enough stories for me to learn from strangers but I guess what’s trending is the goal for young folks.
she cant keep up wit her lies.. that bird got (2) baby daddies... she said she was wit a bum for 16yrs... that covers the last (2)... she never mentioned even knowing dude to cover a 21yr old... she said 16 years... she fulla crap..
@@augustbaby8254 ... thats because she lyin... kendra be 'blunted out'😂 most of the time when she interviewing these pigeons... she shouldve caught it...
I dont think ppl asking why you aint marry the baby father Kendra. Most of us wondering why she stayed there with him all those years and had all those kids with him if she knew all this stuff about him. Mann
Yes, we are all asking that. She tied herself to that man physically for the rest of their life. Multiple kids. They need to just be a family and figure out how to get him working. She could have gotten him into bartending years ago so that he could be making good money too.
She's still IN LOVE with her Baby Daddy. Don't listen to her WORDS. Look at her ACTIONS. And look at those SAD EYES 😭. You will NEVER be "HIM". Go ahead and try that shit if you want to. I got 3 sisters and ALOT of female cousins. They ALL have these crazy drama filled relationships. So I've seen this movie many times before. They ALWAYS want the baby daddy. If he gets his life together, YOU'RE GONE.
She’s obviously leaving out key info… The only way she would have 3 kids by the same dude with “no income” is if he was big in the streets. Hence why she can’t get child support. If all of the kids are by the same dude, (personally I believe that’s cap) he must have been dropping seeds in between bids. In any case she made her bed and this should be a hard pass.
@@nishisalott183937 for a woman is old in terms of your Sexual Marketplace Value (SMV) She’s used because she’s not a virgin. At her age she’s useless to a man of value.
To be fair that’s the best time to find God cuz clearly they need him. But should her priority be on dating? No. She should remain single because most men dont deserve that.
She been bussin it wide open for Pookie since high school up to six months ago, but now she’s playing Virgin Mary for the stable Christian men? Give me a break!!!
@@jayschipp7529 the math is completely off. A man with no job can’t get my phone number out of me, let alone three kids. Idk where her head was. She said she was 15 but was with him 16 years. At no point did you mature? I just don’t believe her.
If you didn't require marriage from the man who fathered your children, why would you think a new man will want to come in and take on all of this? Good luck with that!
Like fr. I don't think women actually understand the message they send to the type of men they want when they come on here with this asinine stuff. She..... after dating a dusty and bearing his children with no requirement is now saying that the responsible stable guy is going to have to come in with more going for himself and work 100× harder in order to get that dudes leftovers without the possibility of getting a kid of his own🤦🏿♂️. Subconsciously with this stupid backwards logic she is saying her baby daddy is better than the man she now wants 😂😂😂. That's exactly how that translates to men. Like is she smoking crack or boat.
When dating a rapper , trapper , entrepreneur goes wrong , who has 3 kids by a life long unemployed man. The baby boy culture , Yvette and Jodi really did a number on the 80s/90s babies.
@@keptbygrace6221I don’t think the point of the movie was to glamorize those stereotypes. I think it was to take a closer look at the causes of a lot of the issues the characters in the movie faced. On the surface it seems like another hood movie, but a lot of the movie was based on the book “The Isis Papers” by Dr. Frances Cress Welsing.
I don’t believe all them kids by the same man them ages sporadic as hell that 21 year old his 1 or 2 of them others ones by someone else she just didn’t want to say.
Plz answer my question what is the correlation to women having kids and giving it up ? There’s plenty of kidless women that have bodies on top of bodies but yall don’t require that from them
@@meababy5409 what I can say for myself is that im not a millionarie but do have a pretty decent career and lifestyle. Im not about to be anyones kids stepdad or step in as a father figure for someone elses kids. I didn't do what ive done far as choosing my career to feed children outside of my own. I think most men would agree about being a stepdad is a thankless job anyway. But far as he sexual part....having 3 kids already and not having the requirement of the babydaddy to marry you, he got it for free, and had kids. What fool would i look like waiting to get married, taking care of 3 kids, just to have sex.....im not going for it. Somebody will but someone like me wouldn't
@@meababy5409 it's simple and I think women are intelligent enough to understand, yall just pretend not to understand. But I'll explain again: It's definitely an unfair deal to a new man to be given extra stipulations and restrictions to receive less than the previous man. Having children by that man just multiplies this equation. Why do women conveniently forget about hypocrisy when it comes to their own actions? Women having premarital sex with a guy with no legitimate job, have 3 children with him, then come back into the dating market telling new men no sex til you marry me, make 70k or more in salary, and provide for 3 children belonging to another man.
By doing that she makes it obvious that there are certain women that she complement and certain women she does not. I personally don't believe that she should do that at all she should stay neutral, commenting about people on her show.
She could a get a guy like that, not impossible but quite improbable. However this guy is most likely the complete opposite of what she used to deal with and there is a chance that after the marriage she will be unsatisfied with him in some department and sabotage the whole relationship.
How she gone make that requirement at 36 . Thats what you picked you are just as equally responsible for the kids you bring the world you did do it not once but 3 time with the same man .
@@Theeorie4393at this point in life why not? She didn't require anything of her children's father or anyone else she has dated. Any guy with any level of self respect would leave what she's asking right on the table
In the words of Kevin Samuels, "you can't make this shit up!" Crazy that Mr . Right has to go through more to get her! Praise God for her walking towards God!!
A woman that tells a man that he shouldn’t hide he going to be sleeping with other women they should expect it and know it this is 2024 ain’t no man waiting on nothing
Why do people act like teenage pregnancy is something that's so FARFETCHED or REPUGNANT??? Teenagers have sex all the time, many unprotected..and the result can be pregnancy!!!
@@aroukapennrepugnant means extremely distasteful and unacceptable. This has and always will be repugnant behavior. Stop defending this nonsense. Being young is not an excuse.
@aroukapenn it's a shin that she forwarded up in a dysfunctional household. White people who make money don't play that sh*t. They put their teenager dughter on the pill
I never understood this logic. You have 3 kids already and you're gonna make the next dude wait for it?? That's pretty disrespectful I'd say, but go off I guess 🤷🏽 lol.
Thank you they don’t understand the disrespect it sends to that said man it’s like they saying that man is better than you no he isn’t I’m gone home bit 😂
No man's gonna take her serious she'll be a side piece at best, like KS says you're out your french toast mind you giving it away with 3 kids and make the next man wait! Get the French toast outta here
The nice guy who didnt get these girls in high school and college didnt finish last...woman like this did the nice guy a huge favor ...now all the nice guy has to do is get his pick here or abroad ..
This the worse deal no sex and got to deal with her and 3 kids and she except him to make in exceeds of 75k he would not be getting you no kids if he want one what the point of the above average gross income . I know this aint gone matter if she like you but why go up there say all this
No, bruv. The real question is: What is the point of marriage??? Biblically, culturally, and legally? She's already defeated all the purposes of marriage with even considering the male mating strategy. She's cooked!
So the men are telling her it’s a no go with the 3 kids had sex 6 months ago and now celibate for me. The women say sis they wrong go get you a man and we listen to the women. Make it make sense 🤔
Kendra g you were speaking the truth when it comes to a man because ain't no real spiritual man ain't going to put all in and Walton and will wait until marriage and not want to be fruitful and multiply that don't make sense
3 children with ages spread so far apart. Best years to man who refused to work. Now wants Christian man to wait until marriage. None of this makes sense
Wants marriage but doesn’t want kids and wants to lock down the cookie jar for 6 months. This is a bad deal fellas, the last guy sat around and got all the cookie he could handle while you got to sit around for 6 months with a dry pipe and a sweet tooth. She is 37 tho, she better to use it before she lose it.
So the street dude she fell in love was a bum & now she wants a simp to hold out on unless he marries her up front. And agrees legally to pay for the street dude's 3 kids.
I applaud any woman who want better for themselves after making bad decisions. I also think us men should want the best for ourselves. In no world is taking on a woman with 3 kids and a useless baby daddy the best decision for a man especially if he's exceeding the bar that she's used to, but not even getting sax.
@@dionned.6176for a night,duh ,just because they prefer her over you doesn't mean she's marriage material 😅,y'all insecurities oooooze out in the comments 😮
Kendra can say what she wants to make you feel better but how many of these women with ridiculous standards have you seen come back on here with updates??? I'll wait..........
Let me get this straight...So Im supposed to pay full price today for a leftover slice of pie and its crumbs, that i can't eat until later???...Meanwhile others feasted on the pie for free without waiting.
He never held a job throughout their entire relationship but she let him get her pregnant 3 times smh.
Make it make sense🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Make it make sense ! I was looking for this comment ! 😂😂😂
He was in the dope game
Love is one hell of a drug..he might’ve sold drugs & was stable with that until it backfired & the calls stop coming in
Well woman, explain this. Lol
3 kids and holding out until marriage she hustling backwards 😂😂😂😂😂
She only going to hold out on the sucker she looking for in the meantime she definitely going. I can just look at her an tell.
@@zakinorse3059 can't judge a book by the cover
@@rontalks8953ok
@@zakinorse3059yeaa she definitely just said that cause Kendra asked . She still gone be throwing 🐱 back
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Wait, you have a 21, 15, and 7 year old by a man that never had a job during the entire course of your relationship? This is insane 🤯
And no sex until marriage
@@stinkreezy2791 What good would come from her having sex without marriage
having a kid at 15 is wild
Women make terrible decisions.
@@LOSTGPS She's from the dirty south
Baby mother of 3 🚩
Was intimate 6 months ago with someone who wasnt exclusive 🚩
Wants the next man to wait until marriage🚩 🤦🏾♂️
Mannnn... I'm Telling You. They don't even understand the stupidity that comes out there mouths 😂😅
She is the definition of Red flag
Penalty. Flag on the play 🚩🚩🚩
Used beat up box
Always new rules for the potential Step Daddy
3 kids and no cookie? So this man got to pay the full price for a old car with a high mileages?
It comes with warranty chill brother lol
And won't get a child out of the whole deal. Make that make sense.
I know of a woman she did this, only to find some dude who tolerated it and ended up getting married, divorced shortly after due to him not being the best in bed. The problem when most women reaches this stage is that they tend to put up all these rules, when it's normally dudes who they don't normally go for abide by those same rules.
She thinks she has redbone privilege
Mileage increases when you’re not celibate babies don’t = mileage dies an abortion or plan b roll back vagina elasticity… rhetorical ?
She’s not looking for a ‘Christian’.
She is looking for a $avior. 😆😆
Sucka
new slogan of 2024
They saying "provider" these days which really means a dude to pay her current bills and bills made in the future. The juice ain't worth the squeeze whether she a bad bitch or a bitch with a bad body. They grown right? Pay those grown woman bills on your own.
😂😂😂😂😂
The perfect man for her is Jesus 😂
The Person she loves: Got 3 kids, didn't need a real job in 15 years. Got to enjoy her best years for free.
The person she's willing to tolerate: Has to wait until marriage. Needs to make at least 70k, does not get his own legacy.
Y'll clearly think the top 35% bro deserves the worst the market has to offer 🙄
Kevin Samuels was right
She is clearly looking for help.the man that did the bare minimum.got the best of her.now she has three kids and in need of help.abd this spiritual journey is bs because she wants to keep the man at bay all the while he is helping her financially geez
Does the man get to be financially celebite until marriage?
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She delusional. Had 3 kids with a dude who didn’t require it. Had sex 6 months ago and didnt require that from that person but NOW no sex until marriage. Wow.
and she thinks aint nuttin wrong with her pov.... thats the sad part...
🤣😂😂🤣
Yeah she should be giving it away.
I'm noticing that this is the strategy from women to let the man have no expectation of s#x whilst dating but still have a man uphold his end of the dating bargain.
@@ze_nofit true
What is with yall living in sin while expecting your partners to be Christian??
preach
Say it louder for the people in the back pleaseeeee!!!!
$0k to $80k, talk about an upgrade.
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😂😂😂😂😂
I’m crying 🤣
@@poeticwisdom3 0 k lmaoooo
She’s looking for a FOOL.
A d**n fool at that...
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That part why🤷🏿♂️
Boo Boo the Fool
😂😂😂😂😂exactly 💯
pookie gets the prime her for less and Leonard gets the depreciated her for more.
Nah.
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@@LOSTGPS Pookie get her for free Leonard gotta pay a feeeeeee
Pookies have the majority of women in the black community, everyone else is stepdads in waiting.
She looks defeated she largely wants financial assistance now.hence why she is saying she is on this celibacy journey because she does not want to deal with the man.only his wallet
Hol up Now. Pookie here is a Muslim.
Someone opened my eyes. She is a bartender and doesn’t want anyone that drinks???? Are you kidding me? You need to find a new occupation if you don’t believe in drinking or clubbing.
More importantly, she said that she doesn’t go out and stays home with her kids and isn’t into the nightlife and the ”scene”….despite the fact that she is IN the nightlife and likely is out at night in the scene. Daytime bartenders don’t make the money that nighttime bartenders make in much less time.
I agree!!
Insane her thinkingb
She can sell drinks but you can't drink them! 😂😂😂😂
She has 3 children by a man she did not marry. She refuses to have children for a man she marries.
@$$ backwards
Those children/adult are not by the same men..just be honest..the timeframe does not make sense..why have 6/7 yrs. apart between each child & then figure out AFTER the 3rd child..that their “Father” wasn’t any good???..& you just had sex 6 months ago..& now you want to be celibate!!!..what man is signing up for this????
This is the craziest 💩 I ever heard 😅😅😅😅
The f’ing audacity😂😂
The fact that she don't make close to 80k and live in a poor area asking for the new man to make that much
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I'm saying though 😂😂
So all of your arguments are. Because you're a bum, you can only date a bum?! 🤣🤣 you lot sound like broke bitches 🤣🤣🤣
kendra be on her show 'blunted' and tipsy half the time.. she didnt catch her saying at the end she was in a relationship for (16) years... that kills that same bd bs.. the oldest is (21).. and she on here tryna defend her mom.. she got at least (2) bd.. prob the (15) yr old his... but (21) & (7).. naw... she aint being what she claims she wants... honesty....
Stayed with him and had 3 kids by him even tho he wasnt doing anything. That man has her heart, if he ever gets his ish together she is leaving you for him even if you meet all tge demands she has now. Stay away!
What's worse is she'll try to legally steal the resources of the good man who might be foolish enough to wife her up to help finance her original "family" with her baby daddy.
Only a fool would sign up for this
I ain’t never met a Christian bartender
😂😂😂😂😂😂facts
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmaooo
3 kids eating the food you bought and saying "you ain't my daddy ". Hell nooo
😂😂😂😂😂😂you know it!!
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Umm of course they are going to eat the food. . All kids do that.
@@Rashaadthegr8what about the “you aint my daddy” 😂
She’s a bartender but drinking was a deal breaker🤣🤣
She is a stripper 🕺
Maybe since she’s around a lot of drinking, she recognizes that’s not something she wants in her personal life.
@@Rene-cn4jcRene….its only in today’s world of splitting hairs that your comment is ok.
She is against drinking - not against getting drunk. She SERVES alcohol!! She serves the thing that she doesnt like. Of course this is wrong.
How are you anti-vax but youre a doctor who vaccinated people.
😂😂😂😂😂facts
Also a Christian but getting everyone drunk.
This has turned into the single mother looking for marriage show 🙄
single mother looking for marriage to six-figure 6ft dark skin men show*
Most of them won’t get close.
@@jayschipp7529 Let me use my Kendra voice: "I don't care 🤷 if they get close or not. Just sign up for my little app and give me the 💴 💰. 😂😂😂
at what point was it something else? lol
So? The show isn’t just for childless ppl.
3 kids that spread out by the same guy? First at 15 but last at 29. And he was a bum the whole time but you want a new guy to wait til marriage??
And some dude just smashed 6 months ago...
And won't give him a kid. Lol crazy!!!
Why not set those standards before having 3 kids
She assumed things would work out and when it didn't she probably had lots of attention as a redbone with a decent shape now wanting to capitalize on that
Growth.
When Black women do that y’all still have a problem
I knew I was gone see a "growth" comment..... who's gone tell them.....we don't care
@@VTayTay1 nah BS... bot other race of women does this at this rate. Y'all just gullible and dumb.
3 kids by a man who never had a job is crazy
I’m assuming he’s a scammer or something because how can a grown man survive without a job?
@@bruceleeroy8302 if this was damn near 20 years ago he was living off her my brother locked up he got at least 10 women that I know of
@@bruceleeroy8302 lived in his mommas house. I have seen dudes in their 30s that never had nothing but part time/low paying jobs on and off. They still pulled women. i could live to be a 100 and will never understand why women choose men.
The sex must have been good 😂
If the BD is the same age, he had no job from age 16 - 33.
Like a man once said, she’s charging premium, new prices for something that should be in the clearance section
😂🤣 she needs to be giving it away.
@candorsspot2775 She don't need to just give it away. She need to put things in perspective. It's the idiots out there trying to tell women to just give it away thats a part of the problem. She already did that. That's why a lot of women are in the position they are in, by listening to low grade advice like that.
@@user-cv5bi6vi5m men also tell women to not carry before they marry... guess which part they choose not to listen to.
@@DanteFortson I didn't say anything about what men say. I know men say a lot of things, but we all know they only really want one thing. So sure they say that. They'll say whatever to make themselves feel good, or make it easier for them or escape accountability, especially that. Deep inside they don't care about non of that. They just want to feel good and feel in control for the moment.
@@DanteFortsonWe're here to have fun not argue. F what men say lol
Aww Jamese ❤. Nice crib, pretty girl.Children were birthed approximately 7 years apart.21,15,and 7.She had ample time the stop the trainwreck.Marriage would be a tough sell.The last kid derailed her greatly.She was almost clear.Damn man.
This is absolutely madness, now that she had her fun she talking about marriage. 3 kids by a deadbeat dad,asking to wait for marriage like she a virgin,got her back blown out to oblivion 6 months ago without marriage,doesn’t want more children. But now she older and washed she on spiritual journey now. The jokes right themselves. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂definitely do
The shit is insane and I’m a woman. 😂
even her baby daddy seen this and laughed...
Once she inform me of celibacy I go 👻
It’s 2024 ain’t no way 😣
Facts
Celibate my foot 😂😂 3 people came out of you, what are you holding on to?
They think a God fearing man is going to allow them to take advantage of who they’ve become 😂😂
Poverty does not exist in black communities. Everyone is making $70K and up. Or so they say.
She does hair and bartends. That’s two jobs that do not require any formal education where you can earn good wages. It does require working basically 60+ hours per week, which is why the numbers are skewed. She is also working jobs that don’t require her to report all of her actual income, which makes her $70k look differently than a government worker making $70k.
😂😂😂😂 Just off the title I know this gonna be a good one I’ll be back I know yall wont disappoint
Are women taught “Marry be for you carry” anymore?” What is going on here!?!? It’s like everyone is a broke baby momma that has never been married
Edit:
It’s even worse when you have multiple kids by a bum. I think most people would be forgiving after 1 child (not me tho). But if he’s still a bum and you’re mot married, why have 2 more kids!? 👧🏽 🧒🏾
@cloudsephiroth, Yes, exactly! You have made some great points. I do agree, this multiple baby momma theme is a recurring issue on this show. Not to be judgemental, but in my opinion, if a woman still has small/underage kids in the home, dating should not be a priority. The focus & attention should be on the kids. They deserve your undivided attention. Once you start having kids, especially outside of marriage, then that's a sacrifice you have to make as a mother! Let that thang breathe.
Yes, most definitely, get married before having kids, since it shows commitment, and provides legitimacy and stability for the kids! Most men want their own kids within the marriage, and don't want to start out with a "ready-made family!" Women should have higher standards for themselves by choosing partners wisely, and most importantly, using birth control!
Nope not us 80s babies or 90s most of our moms were not married . So go figure!
People see kids as an accessory these days. They want to say they struggled smh. No one is teaching them anything and they refuse to be corrected
@bunchess Yes, a great perspective! I am always thinking about the well being of the kids, but that's just me. We have seen so many horror stories lately of bad outcomes of mothers choosing the wrong partner! Leaving kids motherless!
@@realtalkwithproblj2004 yep. It’s terrible because I feel like there are enough examples of what not to follow esp in this day of technology.. versus the news and access. It’s enough stories for me to learn from strangers but I guess what’s trending is the goal for young folks.
No cookie for the man when you let pookie hit it? No man for you! Problem solved!! No Christian man is going for this.
she cant keep up wit her lies.. that bird got (2) baby daddies... she said she was wit a bum for 16yrs... that covers the last (2)... she never mentioned even knowing dude to cover a 21yr old... she said 16 years... she fulla crap..
@@yadda10akataxpayinvoter I thought the same. Something ain’t adding up with her numbers.
@@augustbaby8254 ... thats because she lyin... kendra be 'blunted out'😂 most of the time when she interviewing these pigeons... she shouldve caught it...
Having 3 children for a man that didnt even think you were worthy to be a wife is wild!
A great body will not save you
THE KEVIN SAMUELS WAS RIGHT SHOW!
Facts
Kendra Samuels
I dont think ppl asking why you aint marry the baby father Kendra. Most of us wondering why she stayed there with him all those years and had all those kids with him if she knew all this stuff about him. Mann
Yes, we are all asking that. She tied herself to that man physically for the rest of their life. Multiple kids. They need to just be a family and figure out how to get him working. She could have gotten him into bartending years ago so that he could be making good money too.
She's still IN LOVE with her Baby Daddy. Don't listen to her WORDS. Look at her ACTIONS. And look at those SAD EYES 😭. You will NEVER be "HIM". Go ahead and try that shit if you want to. I got 3 sisters and ALOT of female cousins. They ALL have these crazy drama filled relationships. So I've seen this movie many times before.
They ALWAYS want the baby daddy. If he gets his life together, YOU'RE GONE.
He doesn't even have to get his life together. My sister took a good man's car she was living with and met Pookie in a motel.
@@GoofyFlanwow 😳 that’s crazy
That's so true!!
Here we go again!!
-Carl Johnson
Same old shit dog, just a different day.
She’s obviously leaving out key info… The only way she would have 3 kids by the same dude with “no income” is if he was big in the streets. Hence why she can’t get child support. If all of the kids are by the same dude, (personally I believe that’s cap) he must have been dropping seeds in between bids. In any case she made her bed and this should be a hard pass.
You make sense.
that’s my mom and we all have the same dad.
@@LiaDior-n7xtell your mom she needs to work on herself and need to seek Jesus instead of a husband.
@@joshuaguerrier7392 owkee sir, speak your mind😅
Good points....
Remember fellas, a lesser man got her when she was at her prime. Now this old and used station wagon demanding 2024 prices 😅
🎯 ABSOLUTELY 🤣🤣🤣
Spot on this is madness
She is only 37.. how is that old and used? The children?
@@nishisalott183937 for a woman is old in terms of your Sexual Marketplace Value (SMV)
She’s used because she’s not a virgin.
At her age she’s useless to a man of value.
@@nishisalott1839Absolutely that. Would you pay a new car price for a used car?
It's always hilarious to me how they "find" God after all the trauma I'm not even sure there's a simpest of simps out there that'll take this on...
Unfortunately there are. That's why these chicks keep talking this BS
christian is just another word for simp. for whatever reason women today think christian men are men they can get over on🙄🙄
To be fair that’s the best time to find God cuz clearly they need him. But should her priority be on dating? No. She should remain single because most men dont deserve that.
Kendra needs to start asking: "Why should we punish a good honest person with someone like you?"
If a "good honest person" entertains THAT; then he's a good honest idjut and deserves everything she won't give him in the form of PeAcE.
@@GoofyFlan😂
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@GoofyFlan why do you keep flaming an honest woman who may have made a bad choice in her past, she should not be reprimanded for it.
She been bussin it wide open for Pookie since high school up to six months ago, but now she’s playing Virgin Mary for the stable Christian men? Give me a break!!!
How can you get engaged to a man but he doesn’t work… how could he pay for your wedding? If he has no money, how can he afford kids? She’s insane.
Something doesn’t makes sense here.
@@jayschipp7529 the math is completely off. A man with no job can’t get my phone number out of me, let alone three kids. Idk where her head was. She said she was 15 but was with him 16 years. At no point did you mature? I just don’t believe her.
i literally said this out loud
ion think she had all her kids by one man no shade
Her ex was probably a "hustler" making that street money. I mean why else would she stay with him 16 years. 😅
Hot girl summer is over, now!! Found GOD and want a guy raise a deadbeat’s chiren
Holding out until marriage is CRAZY.
It's not. Is she supposed to be giving it up or should she be doing better with someone on her level
@@Theeorie4393 her level is in the basement. She needs to get back with her bum baby daddy
@@LOSTGPS Who says he's still available. She might be willing to go to her level. A dude with 3 kids who cuts hair
@@Theeorie4393You don’t understand why she sounds crazy?
@@Theeorie4393 most barbers dont make 80k though
If you didn't require marriage from the man who fathered your children, why would you think a new man will want to come in and take on all of this? Good luck with that!
The 3rd woman to hold her accountable thank you
Like fr. I don't think women actually understand the message they send to the type of men they want when they come on here with this asinine stuff. She..... after dating a dusty and bearing his children with no requirement is now saying that the responsible stable guy is going to have to come in with more going for himself and work 100× harder in order to get that dudes leftovers without the possibility of getting a kid of his own🤦🏿♂️. Subconsciously with this stupid backwards logic she is saying her baby daddy is better than the man she now wants 😂😂😂. That's exactly how that translates to men. Like is she smoking crack or boat.
Ladies this whole "I was young" excuse yall make is tired and old now.
When dating a rapper , trapper , entrepreneur goes wrong , who has 3 kids by a life long unemployed man. The baby boy culture , Yvette and Jodi really did a number on the 80s/90s babies.
That's why I always hated that movie. Too many triggering stereotypes. I never understood why people love it so much 🤷🏾♀️
@@keptbygrace6221I don’t think the point of the movie was to glamorize those stereotypes. I think it was to take a closer look at the causes of a lot of the issues the characters in the movie faced. On the surface it seems like another hood movie, but a lot of the movie was based on the book “The Isis Papers” by Dr. Frances Cress Welsing.
I don’t believe all them kids by the same man them ages sporadic as hell that 21 year old his 1 or 2 of them others ones by someone else she just didn’t want to say.
that’s my mom and we actually do have the same dad.
@@LiaDior-n7xdoes the dad know y’all are his or is that something ya mother always told you?
@@joshuaguerrier7392 the dad knows we are his and he’s still very much in our life. We all look exactly like him
@@joshuaguerrier7392 My mother and father co-parents and we go over his house sometimes
I’m named after him, he has my sister name tatted on him, and my brother is also named after him
Stay by yourself and raise your kid
Another fix it Jesus moment
Right lmao
😂😂😂😂😂 right 😅😅😅😅
Her kids are not by the same man 😂😂😂
Definitely not
All 3 different men I bet
💯
good luck to the sucker who falls for this tihs😂😂😂
@@zakinorse3059that’s my mom and we do have the same dad.
This woman is about as religious as an empty bag of Doritos
😂😂😂😂facts
Girl with 3 kids already talking about holding out......TOO LATE girl u gotta give that ish away
😂😂😂😂😂sure do!!
Plz answer my question what is the correlation to women having kids and giving it up ? There’s plenty of kidless women that have bodies on top of bodies but yall don’t require that from them
@@meababy5409 what I can say for myself is that im not a millionarie but do have a pretty decent career and lifestyle. Im not about to be anyones kids stepdad or step in as a father figure for someone elses kids. I didn't do what ive done far as choosing my career to feed children outside of my own. I think most men would agree about being a stepdad is a thankless job anyway. But far as he sexual part....having 3 kids already and not having the requirement of the babydaddy to marry you, he got it for free, and had kids. What fool would i look like waiting to get married, taking care of 3 kids, just to have sex.....im not going for it. Somebody will but someone like me wouldn't
@@meababy5409 it's simple and I think women are intelligent enough to understand, yall just pretend not to understand. But I'll explain again:
It's definitely an unfair deal to a new man to be given extra stipulations and restrictions to receive less than the previous man.
Having children by that man just multiplies this equation.
Why do women conveniently forget about hypocrisy when it comes to their own actions? Women having premarital sex with a guy with no legitimate job, have 3 children with him, then come back into the dating market telling new men no sex til you marry me, make 70k or more in salary, and provide for 3 children belonging to another man.
Man, that baby daddy has gotten ALL the best years out her, she looks defeated and drained.
Only a simp going for that
shes going to get another version of her baby daddy.
Boss level
How do u have 3 kids by a man who never worked ?
Drug dealer
Sooo Cringey when Kendra comment on their body. Mann. Lol
I just commented on that. Like that's all that matters. 😤
By doing that she makes it obvious that there are certain women that she complement and certain women she does not. I personally don't believe that she should do that at all she should stay neutral, commenting about people on her show.
@@tonyabibbs2075 EXACTLY!!!
This can't be real life
If the kids' father never helped after the first kid, why have two more for him? And he's never had an income??? I just don't understand these women.
Ridiculous
She could a get a guy like that, not impossible but quite improbable. However this guy is most likely the complete opposite of what she used to deal with and there is a chance that after the marriage she will be unsatisfied with him in some department and sabotage the whole relationship.
How she gone make that requirement at 36 . Thats what you picked you are just as equally responsible for the kids you bring the world you did do it not once but 3 time with the same man .
70 or 80,000 for her, 3 children plus baby daddy
@@gloriaatkins2038 Kendra don’t even push back on that she all for the women that why she get all this oh wow moments
She trying to get saved
if men was on here saying the bs these delusional birds say on kendras show women and men would check them.. women RARELY check women wit reality..
It’s too late for whatever you’re asking for.
So she's supposed to be giving out cat for free
@@Theeorie4393no, but the ask is still too much
@@njpme What do you suggest
@@Theeorie4393be single
@@Theeorie4393at this point in life why not? She didn't require anything of her children's father or anyone else she has dated. Any guy with any level of self respect would leave what she's asking right on the table
intimate 6 months ago,but a man has to wait til he marrys you is restarted
Definition of nice guys always finish last
In the words of Kevin Samuels, "you can't make this shit up!" Crazy that Mr . Right has to go through more to get her! Praise God for her walking towards God!!
Looking for marriage after 3 kids must be the new way to be a Christian if left behind was a person plus no box until marriage is crazy
A woman that tells a man that he shouldn’t hide he going to be sleeping with other women they should expect it and know it this is 2024 ain’t no man waiting on nothing
single women keep women single‼️wash, rinse, repeat‼️🤯
Her BD made no salary and she trying to demand a high earning man 🤦🏿♂️
I know this comment section is gonna be lit!!!
Another "Mother Teresa", had my fun now time for you guys to pay. 🙄
She's 37 and have a 21 year old y'all wow
Why do people act like teenage pregnancy is something that's so FARFETCHED or REPUGNANT??? Teenagers have sex all the time, many unprotected..and the result can be pregnancy!!!
@@aroukapennIt shouldn’t be happening, that’s why.
@@aroukapennrepugnant means extremely distasteful and unacceptable. This has and always will be repugnant behavior. Stop defending this nonsense. Being young is not an excuse.
@aroukapenn it's a shin that she forwarded up in a dysfunctional household.
White people who make money don't play that sh*t.
They put their teenager dughter on the pill
I never understood this logic. You have 3 kids already and you're gonna make the next dude wait for it?? That's pretty disrespectful I'd say, but go off I guess 🤷🏽 lol.
Thank you they don’t understand the disrespect it sends to that said man it’s like they saying that man is better than you no he isn’t I’m gone home bit 😂
No man's gonna take her serious she'll be a side piece at best, like KS says you're out your french toast mind you giving it away with 3 kids and make the next man wait! Get the French toast outta here
And this my friends is why they say nice guys finish last.
The nice guy who didnt get these girls in high school and college didnt finish last...woman like this did the nice guy a huge favor ...now all the nice guy has to do is get his pick here or abroad ..
I don't think she is being honest about the number of dads 22 years with a man with no job. Sex 6 months ago, now none until marriage.
So far, that makes 2 women that have held her accountable. And yes, something not right.
😆 😂😂😂 did she say she works as a bartender and Christian/celibacy until marriage
This the worse deal no sex and got to deal with her and 3 kids and she except him to make in exceeds of 75k he would not be getting you no kids if he want one what the point of the above average gross income . I know this aint gone matter if she like you but why go up there say all this
She's Judgemental & Inpatient 😅😂... She Better Go Marry Jesus!
No, bruv. The real question is: What is the point of marriage??? Biblically, culturally, and legally?
She's already defeated all the purposes of marriage with even considering the male mating strategy. She's cooked!
Dusty Pookie did a number on her. Now seeking love from the perfect sucker 😂
So the men are telling her it’s a no go with the 3 kids had sex 6 months ago and now celibate for me. The women say sis they wrong go get you a man and we listen to the women. Make it make sense 🤔
women keep other women single...at this point i am convinced theyre deliberately sabotaging their competition. its the only way it makes sense.
I always wonder what these women would say if their son brought a woman like this home...
@@brianlauderdale7840they would be furious
@@brianlauderdale7840they would raise hell and tell him leave that woman alone !
Kendra g you were speaking the truth when it comes to a man because ain't no real spiritual man ain't going to put all in and Walton and will wait until marriage and not want to be fruitful and multiply that don't make sense
3 children with ages spread so far apart. Best years to man who refused to work. Now wants Christian man to wait until marriage. None of this makes sense
I don't believe for one minute all her kids are by the same man!!!!!I call cap
that’s my mom and we all have the same dad.
@@LiaDior-n7x my apologies sweet heart.playas f#ck up to
I need a troll account watching Kendra... cuz the delusion is at an all time high
Wait those kids spaced out like NASA🤔… usually those types don’t have the same dad but idk🤷🏽♀️
😂😂😂 not nasa
Wants marriage but doesn’t want kids and wants to lock down the cookie jar for 6 months. This is a bad deal fellas, the last guy sat around and got all the cookie he could handle while you got to sit around for 6 months with a dry pipe and a sweet tooth. She is 37 tho, she better to use it before she lose it.
So the street dude she fell in love was a bum & now she wants a simp to hold out on unless he marries her up front. And agrees legally to pay for the street dude's 3 kids.
I applaud any woman who want better for themselves after making bad decisions. I also think us men should want the best for ourselves. In no world is taking on a woman with 3 kids and a useless baby daddy the best decision for a man especially if he's exceeding the bar that she's used to, but not even getting sax.
Her BD is the love of her life the new man is just a giver for her and pookies kids dumb deal
Always giving your best to the absolute worst and then wanting to be SAVED!!! Get back with the baby daddy ma'am.
But yet u just had a kid with him 7 years ago 🙄
It is not impossible for her to find a good man but to stay in a relationship and have three children with a Pookie makes no sense to me.
Not impossible, but highly unlikely.
You’re a CHRISTIAN not an Aries-Pisces cusp!
Women love zodiac signs 🤣🤣🤣
@@KevinHunter-jt2rdI can’t help but laugh when these so called Christian women get so invested in that nonsense.
@@joshuaguerrier7392 They silly man.......... I'm here for the entertainment 🤣🤣
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So pretty, nice body, seemingly nice personality......what a waste smh 🤦🏽♂️
aint nobody checking for that pigeon..
@@yadda10akataxpayinvotershe's the black man's preference so some will have a little soft spot for her 😂
@@dionned.6176 ..... not when she say you gotta marry her to get sum... and o yeah.. provide for (3) kids you didnt make....
@@dionned.6176for a night,duh ,just because they prefer her over you doesn't mean she's marriage material 😅,y'all insecurities oooooze out in the comments 😮
That's how I be feeling man 🤦🏾♂️. So much to work with...but all the baggage and trauma 🙅🏾♂️
Why marriage now?
This shit is getting out hand. Ma'am no one is coming save you and those bebes kids.
Kendra can say what she wants to make you feel better but how many of these women with ridiculous standards have you seen come back on here with updates???
I'll wait..........
Let me get this straight...So Im supposed to pay full price today for a leftover slice of pie and its crumbs, that i can't eat until later???...Meanwhile others feasted on the pie for free without waiting.
3 kids, but the new man has to wait till marriage. Good luck with that.