Loved this!! Takeaways: 1) You don’t need to wear less to feel sexy IF that’s not your thing 2) Do what makes YOU feel sexy. Explore what you’ve wanted to try before to see if that makes you feel sexy e.g. wanted to try goth before? Go try it! If you want to explore wearing less to see how that makes you feel sexier, do it! 3) You don’t need others to tell you you’re sexy, you just need yourself! Some people won’t just verbalize it but that doesn’t mean you aren’t. What’s NOT sexy is telling yourself you aren’t! 4) If you aren’t confident about one thing about yourself, find a way to reframe that to be confident about it. E.g. don’t like the size of your boobs but love the way they sit? Revel in that! 5) Do things even if it’s only you who will validate yourself e.g. wear lingerie for yourself! 6) Take care of yourself! Self-care is sexy, and makes yourself glowww ☺️ 7) Do activities that can make you feel sexy! Thanks for all the advice Tati ❤️
The flipped mindset thig is SOOOOOO true. I hated my back because of all the acne scars, but I slowly started noticing my back muscles and how strong my back is. I went from never (and I mean never) wearing anything that shows my shoulders and back, but not I love wearing tank tops and halters. A year ago, I never would have guessed I'd make it this far
I'm the oldest sibling, so I never had an older sister and I felt uncomfortable talking about these things with my mum. This, this is the best advise I can get! Thank you Taty, you do more than u think 😘
it took me a while to become "full of myself," and it was a difficult journey as i used to hate myself, but complimenting yourself constantly helps SO much with confidence, even if u dont believe yourself at the time. and you feel most sexy when you're confident :) i hope this helps
I'm insecure about my body, and it really hinders the way I dress and the sort of clothes I wear. And where I live doesn't help: if you don't have big butt and/or breasts, then you aren't perceived as sexy or cute or beautiful. My self-esteem goes up and down and up and down all the time lol. I know I'm sexy and confident until I try on something I think looks cute and sexy and then I start involuntarily worrying about how I might look to others in that outfit. I literally can't help it 🥺 But I'm trying hard, I'm buying things I never would've bought a year ago, and I'm actually wearing them, not just hiding them away in my wardrobe to look at every now and then. You made a video some time ago, and you talked about how colours affect our moods and such, and you were so right. So I've been buying lighter colours, and it feels really good when I wear them. 🥺 Thank you so so much, Taty. You really help me a lot. I really needed this video 😄 Please keep making more videos. We love you so so much and that'll never change. 😘❤️😘❤️
you’ve literally been my soul supporter, throughout my journey. Thank you so much. You have no clue how much you inspire me and just help me feel grounded again. Literally I love you, thank youu 🤎
bieng confident ist different than feeling sexy. How can you feel sexy? According to taty, wearing less clothes won't make you feeling sexy, but starting to wear whatever you like, will help you find your style. Stop putting the scale/perception of your sense of sexiness in the hand of other's, it isn't good since this is all an assumption that is made up in your head. However, you can't be defined by others and seek for validation to be satisfied... Another aspect is try to love things about yourself, don't let society manipulate you by thinking that the standard IG body is the only "beautiful" thing or having Kim k cake will make you prettier. No no and no! Everyone has something that is appealing. So... In conclusion, those are aspects that we all will learn by our self-journey So don't worry and continue watching tatys videos ;) appreciate your time reading this and good luck.
She a mood and uplift me This year I started focusing on my mindset Now I focus on physically and work out more and balance it with my pre limit exams this September
You hit the nail on the head ! I lost my little vibe i was on and I’m so happy I’m finally getting it back! It’s the best feeling in the world when you’re just truly confident in yourself !!
I’m only 13 and I’m trying to be more confident it’s like I feel like I am but sometimes I feel gross idk and I agree 100% with every u r saying I want to express myself more you’ve helped me over the years I appreciate you❤️❤️❤️❤️
Can't get over how wise you are! What a beautiful day to be proud of being a Gemini lol But like Istg your advice is always so valuable, on point & original !
I love what you said about being already self confident and how other people perceive that as thinking we’re better than others because I struggle with that so much. I’m confident, I genuinely love myself and choose not to speak negatively about myself and I had someone who didn’t understand that consistently tell me I was stuck up or too self centred or that I think I’m better than others and for a while I let it affect me. But if anyone else is reading this going through that please know that it is not you it’s them not seeing themselves as worth anything so they try to make you feel the same. Keep your head up, cut them off and become even more confident sis💕💕
I love these tips sis!! Its just what evry female needs to hear, that maybe one part of your body isnt sexy but the others are! AND how our beauty standards should be our own standards! Love it thank you girl.. this comment is coming from a very beautiful woman inside and out whos confident in herself BUT also has doubts at times, meaning we all in this together! Much love
The bra example hit for meeeee . Thank you so much for always being authentic. I saw your vlog with therapy and then this . I love that you show us the heart beat of life. How you can be living your dreams and still be sad then happy and then it repeats.
Something about the Black hair on you😍 I feel like black hair was made for you.. Also I been watching you for a while now and still can't get over how fast you talk😂😂
I really enjoy your videos! I shared a video on gaining body confidence after gaining weight. I encountered your channel a while ago and really admire you and your confidence 😊 SELF-BELIEF IS EVERYTHING!!!!!
damn i really needed this. as of lately i have been overthinking my fits and see ppl i know get attention, but no one really notices me because i like wearing my baggy clothes and not being so extra with them (even though i wish i was, i know i could but am mad lazy to go all out.) deep down maybe hey compliments here and there wouldn't hurt, but i definitely know that the only opinion that matters is my own
I love ur videos. Your videos make me undsrstand that I need to believe in myself alot. I know that i am very pretty I dont need to listen to my haters. I have seen all ur videos. You inspire me to do something I have never did before like something I wanted to do. I am playing girls basketball and I feel amazing! ❤💫. Thanks Taty Cokely your amazing ❤ I have never felt this confident about myself ever but since I started watching your videos I have been so confident in myself and I finally love myself again ❤.
This is so true! I felt like while transitioning that body tight clothing was the way that it made me feel more feminine but I found that it just isn’t me like I feel more comfortable in my alternative clothes and my academia fits like I don’t feel that I have to show my ass to feel more womanly, ugh this video is a great reminder for anyone who feels confident but not sexy, you gotta find your kinda sexy girl! Confidence and Sexy are two different beasts but you can tame them and when you do omg you’re a new woman ✨🫶🏼
I am a gymnast and thats why my arms are not as small and thin as most of my classmates arms are. I used to hate wearing tshirts and especially tops but during this summer I started feeling myself. You can def see my muscles, so you can see that I am working out and all the hard work pays off. Seeing muscles is freaking pretty. I feel strong and confident now showing off my arms!
I love your videos I watch them since 3 years thank you for doing what you do ❤️ ps : i watch your vidéos from France (so your impact is limitless lol) and could you do another video with tips to overcome anxiety that would help a lot of people😊 thank you again i love u💕💕
No because I'm currently stuck at home with a broken foot in a cast, was feeling so miserable and overall in a bad place mentally, and this got me feeling some typa wayyy. Love you girl, you always make my day. When I get this cast out of my shit I'mma "carpe diem" on them motherfuckas, got me feeling sexier already❣😭
Goodness I love you so fucking much girl!!! You’re the perfect person to motivate me , ALL your videos so spot on babe . You deserve all the happiness and success you currently have ❤❤❤
You’re beautiful Taty 😍 I definitely care way to much what people think about me but I have been slowly getting better with it 😁 I recently started looking at streetwear things because I like to be comfortable so that’s a good way to still look cute and be comfortable ‼️
I saw you post this yesterday and since it was nighttime where I am, it's the first thing am watching now that am awake. Really feels good to have you back Taty. I agree it all starts from the mind. I really love your background music ,what is it called?
This video is going to help me get my sexy back. I’ve always hated how my boobs weren’t big enough and that all you see in Movies and Tv is girls with big boobs. Knowing you are confident in your chest size gives me hope that I can become confident in my chest size. And look at the parts of my boobs that I like. Thank you so much for this video and for being you!! ❤
Self love isn't selfish! ✨
Don't ever feel guilty about feeling yourself, Queen. You're 100% worthy! ❤️
Thisss!!
Speak on it!!❤️
Period!!
Girrrrlll i lost a little weight and wore this cute outfit today...also my clear skin was coming through today which is a plus! I felt SEXYYY!
GO BABYYY!!!
@@TatyCokley PERIOD BABY!!! 🤣💕
Best feelings ever
perrriod sis!!
@@mp345373 💕💯
Girl if you ever become a mom of a young girl that little girl will have the best advice EVER! 💞💞
If she ever chooses to have children, she will be one HELL of a mama 💖💯
Loved this!! Takeaways:
1) You don’t need to wear less to feel sexy IF that’s not your thing
2) Do what makes YOU feel sexy. Explore what you’ve wanted to try before to see if that makes you feel sexy e.g. wanted to try goth before? Go try it! If you want to explore wearing less to see how that makes you feel sexier, do it!
3) You don’t need others to tell you you’re sexy, you just need yourself! Some people won’t just verbalize it but that doesn’t mean you aren’t. What’s NOT sexy is telling yourself you aren’t!
4) If you aren’t confident about one thing about yourself, find a way to reframe that to be confident about it. E.g. don’t like the size of your boobs but love the way they sit? Revel in that!
5) Do things even if it’s only you who will validate yourself e.g. wear lingerie for yourself!
6) Take care of yourself! Self-care is sexy, and makes yourself glowww ☺️
7) Do activities that can make you feel sexy!
Thanks for all the advice Tati ❤️
Thank ❤️
Don't lose yourself to be "that girl"
Yes because looks will eventually fade!
The flipped mindset thig is SOOOOOO true. I hated my back because of all the acne scars, but I slowly started noticing my back muscles and how strong my back is. I went from never (and I mean never) wearing anything that shows my shoulders and back, but not I love wearing tank tops and halters. A year ago, I never would have guessed I'd make it this far
Sweet Lord, you're perfect! 😍
I know right 🥴❤
@@indiacherubin8633 You perfect too like damn🔥❤
@@yourstar_isabella6669 ❤🥴🥴*blush* thank youu I bet your sexy yourself 😋❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm the oldest sibling, so I never had an older sister and I felt uncomfortable talking about these things with my mum. This, this is the best advise I can get! Thank you Taty, you do more than u think 😘
Girl, you should start a podcast, id love it
Yessss
Ohhh myyy dayyyss i would love that
Taty makes me feel better about my self in every one of her videos...and yes I re - watch her videos❤
Sameee
It’s the glow and energy for me I absolutely miss this energy this vibe and I’m praying God continues to shine his light through you
it took me a while to become "full of myself," and it was a difficult journey as i used to hate myself, but complimenting yourself constantly helps SO much with confidence, even if u dont believe yourself at the time. and you feel most sexy when you're confident :) i hope this helps
I feel sexy when I dress a little bit tomboy ish but society won’t let me breathe
Just wear it girlll
ong its a struggle but i love cargo pants with my life: pockets are everything😭😆
when I tell u I've been waiting for her to post IVE BEEN WAITING FOR HER TO POST😂😫
Same
Can you do a how to deal with craving intimacy/loneliness
i love this idea!
!!!
This video is so needed! I feel confidence but my sensual side is something I rlly struggle with! Thanks taty, glad to have u back ❤️
You got this babe!
I'm insecure about my body, and it really hinders the way I dress and the sort of clothes I wear. And where I live doesn't help: if you don't have big butt and/or breasts, then you aren't perceived as sexy or cute or beautiful. My self-esteem goes up and down and up and down all the time lol. I know I'm sexy and confident until I try on something I think looks cute and sexy and then I start involuntarily worrying about how I might look to others in that outfit. I literally can't help it 🥺
But I'm trying hard, I'm buying things I never would've bought a year ago, and I'm actually wearing them, not just hiding them away in my wardrobe to look at every now and then. You made a video some time ago, and you talked about how colours affect our moods and such, and you were so right. So I've been buying lighter colours, and it feels really good when I wear them. 🥺
Thank you so so much, Taty. You really help me a lot. I really needed this video 😄
Please keep making more videos. We love you so so much and that'll never change. 😘❤️😘❤️
*SIS U LOOK A REAL LIFE DISNEY PRINCESS!!!!* 😍😍😍😍😍
Something that makes me feel sexy is doing ballet. I just love what my body is able to do when classical music starts playing😂😂🤷🏾♀️😏
you’ve literally been my soul supporter, throughout my journey. Thank you so much. You have no clue how much you inspire me and just help me feel grounded again. Literally I love you, thank youu 🤎
I'm so grateful to have the opportunity to help and encourage you like this. Thank YOU
So freakin true! What works for others don’t work for me. I’m grown sis, so so appreciate your candor!
bieng confident ist different than feeling sexy. How can you feel sexy? According to taty, wearing less clothes won't make you feeling sexy, but starting to wear whatever you like, will help you find your style. Stop putting the scale/perception of your sense of sexiness in the hand of other's, it isn't good since this is all an assumption that is made up in your head.
However, you can't be defined by others and seek for validation to be satisfied...
Another aspect is try to love things about yourself, don't let society manipulate you by thinking that the standard IG body is the only "beautiful" thing or having Kim k cake will make you prettier. No no and no! Everyone has something that is appealing.
So...
In conclusion, those are aspects that we all will learn by our self-journey
So don't worry and continue watching tatys videos ;) appreciate your time reading this and good luck.
Girl you’re GLOWING 😍 Keep striving sis!!
She a mood and uplift me
This year I started focusing on my mindset
Now I focus on physically and work out more and balance it with my pre limit exams this September
"You're not sexy, that is just not true." There you have it girls, everyone is sexy in their own personal way. Love the content, keep it up! ;)
You hit the nail on the head ! I lost my little vibe i was on and I’m so happy I’m finally getting it back! It’s the best feeling in the world when you’re just truly confident in yourself !!
Thank youuu Taty, this really helped and makes me feel more confident about myself, she's like the older sis we've never had! ❤️
This was exactly what I needed, thank you so much ❤️❤️
I can't wait to see your next videos, love you so so much sis❤️❤️❤️
i’ve missed these types of videos
I’m only 13 and I’m trying to be more confident it’s like I feel like I am but sometimes I feel gross idk and I agree 100% with every u r saying I want to express myself more you’ve helped me over the years I appreciate you❤️❤️❤️❤️
Can't get over how wise you are! What a beautiful day to be proud of being a Gemini lol
But like Istg your advice is always so valuable, on point & original !
I love what you said about being already self confident and how other people perceive that as thinking we’re better than others because I struggle with that so much. I’m confident, I genuinely love myself and choose not to speak negatively about myself and I had someone who didn’t understand that consistently tell me I was stuck up or too self centred or that I think I’m better than others and for a while I let it affect me. But if anyone else is reading this going through that please know that it is not you it’s them not seeing themselves as worth anything so they try to make you feel the same. Keep your head up, cut them off and become even more confident sis💕💕
I love these tips sis!! Its just what evry female needs to hear, that maybe one part of your body isnt sexy but the others are! AND how our beauty standards should be our own standards! Love it thank you girl.. this comment is coming from a very beautiful woman inside and out whos confident in herself BUT also has doubts at times, meaning we all in this together! Much love
I always come to your channel when I need advice. Thank you so much for making these videos! I love you & your energy it really helps 🥰
The bra example hit for meeeee . Thank you so much for always being authentic. I saw your vlog with therapy and then this . I love that you show us the heart beat of life. How you can be living your dreams and still be sad then happy and then it repeats.
u always make me feel more about myself ive been drowing for a while now love the inspirational talks taty
Something about the Black hair on you😍 I feel like black hair was made for you..
Also I been watching you for a while now and still can't get over how fast you talk😂😂
LMAO everyone tells me they slow the videos down😭
I really enjoy your videos! I shared a video on gaining body confidence after gaining weight. I encountered your channel a while ago and really admire you and your confidence 😊 SELF-BELIEF IS EVERYTHING!!!!!
I needed this video because I've been trying my best to feel sexy and of course you come thru as always. love youuuuuu
Taty if you think I'm just gonna forgive after leaving me in this drought....
You right😭❤
Ugh I NEEDED thissss💖 thanks tatyyy
Girl you have no idea how much I needed this. PLUS WE MISS YOU💜🦋😭
Your intro & outro will never get old !!!
I’m glad your are back with the videos !! I missed these type of videos ❤️
I miss her videos, I'm so happy she's back💜💜
she's NEVER wrong. spitting factssss. ily Tatyyy
perfect podcast personality. i’d love it. thank you for this video.🥰watching it before i go out tonight.
Chile I missed your energy do much. I was literally watching your old vids. Love you lots. 😂😘
I am so excited, literally my inspiration ❤️🥺❤️🇿🇦
I'm so grateful for this 🇿🇦🇿🇦 a hun never misses a video.. I love you so so much 💙🇿🇦♥️God bless you in everything that you do
Love the video today Tati it just made my night. So thank you by the way the make-up and hair killing it. 😊
Yesss two week uploads missed you girl! You look stunning as always sis 🥺
damn i really needed this. as of lately i have been overthinking my fits and see ppl i know get attention, but no one really notices me because i like wearing my baggy clothes and not being so extra with them (even though i wish i was, i know i could but am mad lazy to go all out.) deep down maybe hey compliments here and there wouldn't hurt, but i definitely know that the only opinion that matters is my own
blessed us with another video. LOVE YOU TATY 🤎🤎🤎
girl u look so pretty!! ❤ great video 👍🏻👍🏻 loved it!
Thank you so much for all your videos! So inspiring❤️❤️❤️
I love ur videos. Your videos make me undsrstand that I need to believe in myself alot. I know that i am very pretty I dont need to listen to my haters. I have seen all ur videos. You inspire me to do something I have never did before like something I wanted to do. I am playing girls basketball and I feel amazing! ❤💫. Thanks Taty Cokely your amazing ❤
I have never felt this confident about myself ever but since I started watching your videos I have been so confident in myself and I finally love myself again ❤.
yay! taty posted! love you girl 😭❤️❤️
the way the bun makes you look is just so cool, keep using it. Your tips are really great btw, i feel so much better now, thank youuu gorg 💖
I've never felt comfortable with my body till today .Thank you taty💛❤❤
This is so true! I felt like while transitioning that body tight clothing was the way that it made me feel more feminine but I found that it just isn’t me like I feel more comfortable in my alternative clothes and my academia fits like I don’t feel that I have to show my ass to feel more womanly, ugh this video is a great reminder for anyone who feels confident but not sexy, you gotta find your kinda sexy girl! Confidence and Sexy are two different beasts but you can tame them and when you do omg you’re a new woman ✨🫶🏼
I am a gymnast and thats why my arms are not as small and thin as most of my classmates arms are. I used to hate wearing tshirts and especially tops but during this summer I started feeling myself. You can def see my muscles, so you can see that I am working out and all the hard work pays off. Seeing muscles is freaking pretty. I feel strong and confident now showing off my arms!
I was just searching for this, I LOVE TATY LOL 🥴❤️
I love you Taty❤️❤️and ur videos helps me so much🥰💗💗
love Taty so much ! i couldn't wait much longer ...
Sis came through with another amazing girl's talk😊🔥♥️🇿🇦Thank you for the content ♥️❤Much love sis❤❤
I'm so happy you're back sis 💃💃💃 missed you sm ☺😍
I love your videos I watch them since 3 years thank you for doing what you do ❤️ ps : i watch your vidéos from France (so your impact is limitless lol) and could you do another video with tips to overcome anxiety that would help a lot of people😊 thank you again i love u💕💕
i feel like i look stupid when i act 'sexy' tbh like i know my body is sexy but my body language and face doesnt seem to fit that at all 😵💫
same lol
@@yiddies6128 rightttt idk if it comes from my low confidence, lack of experience (in flirting etc) or its just my nature
@@cloudyskiees honestly the last 2 for me ig I'm just naturally awkward 😭😭 but ig boys like that now bc lol they be easy 💀
@@yiddies6128 nah sis im sure u jus cute 🥰
I missed you and your videos Taty 🥺❤️
No because I'm currently stuck at home with a broken foot in a cast, was feeling so miserable and overall in a bad place mentally, and this got me feeling some typa wayyy. Love you girl, you always make my day. When I get this cast out of my shit I'mma "carpe diem" on them motherfuckas, got me feeling sexier already❣😭
OKAYYY❤️❤️💅🏽
i love your videoes man i don't relly need then anymore but i still be waiting them like she so pretty and also a reminder
Great advice! Love your channel💞
Goodness I love you so fucking much girl!!! You’re the perfect person to motivate me , ALL your videos so spot on babe . You deserve all the happiness and success you currently have ❤❤❤
Glad you made this video
Perfect timing ❤️
This was helpful and natural!!
i literally love you so much omg
MY WHOLE HEART IN ONE VIDEOW🤍🤍🤍😭😭😭😭
You’re beautiful Taty 😍 I definitely care way to much what people think about me but I have been slowly getting better with it 😁 I recently started looking at streetwear things because I like to be comfortable so that’s a good way to still look cute and be comfortable ‼️
Been waitinggg!!❤❤
I saw you post this yesterday and since it was nighttime where I am, it's the first thing am watching now that am awake. Really feels good to have you back Taty. I agree it all starts from the mind. I really love your background music ,what is it called?
She’s back😫😁❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Wow! Super relatable!!
aaaaaaaaaand she’s back 🥰 🥰🥰
Love your videos girlyyyy ❤️
I love you and your videos. you are my inspiration💖
Taty I been looking for youuuu 💕💕
You're oozing so much charisma!
That whole video was giving...well said❤❤❤❤
Been waiting for this🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Loved this tips ❤
Please post more I need you girl I love your advice ✨❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This video is going to help me get my sexy back. I’ve always hated how my boobs weren’t big enough and that all you see in Movies and Tv is girls with big boobs. Knowing you are confident in your chest size gives me hope that I can become confident in my chest size. And look at the parts of my boobs that I like. Thank you so much for this video and for being you!! ❤
LOVED THIS! watching at 3:12 am
Loved this❤️
Taty, you look amazing Omg !😍
Babe we’re going to NEED an entire jewelry haul very soon pleaseeee 😁😘
No cuz you literally read my mind I need this vid
Love your channel ❤️
Yea!!!
when I smell good I feel good💯
shes the mom i never had ❤❤❤