HOW TO: NOT COMPARE YOURSELF!!! GIRL TALK
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- čas přidán 17. 12. 2019
- Wassup y'all! Today we are talking about how to not compare yourself or be jealous. Leave a comment below about anything we talked about or your own experience! I love you guys, hope this helps!
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"You hate the body that never fails to keep you alive" x
I love this!
man I love this !!!
Oooooooo
Speaking nothing but truth
Untill it does 😃
“Some body else’s light shining doesn’t dim yours” 👏🏾👏🏾 💯
Aja Janai exactly!!! We all can win! 🤞🏽❤️
It really does lol💀😂😂
@Lalita Sheimar I beg to differ
Sus Ellar 😭😭
@@susellar4511 exactly like one gonna shine brighter and the other Isn’t gonna be as seen
im highkey hooked😭 i be watching her videos and feeling as if we’re best friends
y'all my little sistersss ❤️❤️
Taty Cokley we love you t‼️💕💯
@beccaa you should check out "Love your Natural". She does similar videos ❤
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@@TatyCokley ❤❤😊
if saweetie had a lil sister, it would be Taty, they like twins
Thubelihle M I thought i was the only one who saw it!
omggggg u right
D00D, YOU'RE RIGHTTTTT
Frr
no wonder I like her 😂
Taty u are a role model to a lot of girls and girl this message needs to be sent to a lot of young girls who feel that they need a certain amount of followers to be validated which is causing females to compete and wanna compare like and followers which is not important what is important is a stable mind and a happy life😊😊😊
EXACTLY!
taty your so nice❤❤❤❤
“Another woman should never intimidate you. They should motivate you.” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
thank you! last night i got intimidated by this girl who had an extremely high grades that i am working on and You're right!
i should be motivated and work hard like her!
This could of not come at a better time
SAmMMmMMMeeee
No cap
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could not have come* and yea i agreeee
“Somebody’s light shining doesn’t dim yours”- this is the energy for 2020 💖🦋
Carolina Martinez big energy! ❤️
I guess corona took that advice
little does anyone know what the future would have held for us😳
Carolina Martinez no honey Coronavirus is
You look perfect!
*HOW DOES THIS GIRL NOT HAVE MORE SUBSCRIBERS*
IKRRR
Was literally sitting there thinking “I wish I was pretty and didn’t feel so insecure “ then boom up pops taty with this new video 😂😂
Omgg!!! Samee!!!💕💕😢😭😭Such a struggle smhh lol
Ur both beautiful
Cires angel Omg that also happened to me too
me, first clicking on taty's channel: "she's pretty asl"
me, a year later, after seeing her personality: "she's so beautiful"
"There's no reason another woman should intimidate you, they should motivate you, thats it" THANKS GIRL!!!
Your daughter or son is lucky to have you
Ive literally been comparing myself to other girls ESPECIALLY on appearances, and it gets HARD :/
it definitely does!!! but i know you can make progress, I believe in you
I binge taty's videos at 2am when im depressed
SAME OMG
I've really been struggling with insecurity lately in my new relationship. He's always been with tiny, petite blondes, and I'm a curvy, taller brunette. I woke up this morning feeling so insecure after stalking his gorgeous ex last night on social media, but this video made me SNAP OUT OF IT!!! I am beautiful, and he's probably with me because I'm different than what he's used to! Thanks for reminding me of that.
I just see the dimple when she's smiling it's so cute girl 🤧🤷🏽♀️
*you never look good trying to make someone else look bad*
My friend always calls out my insecurities should I unfriend her and then she says she’s just joking😤
toxic friend!!!
Taty Cokley Thanks💔💕
@@Violeta-bm1tx Get rid of her ASAP. She's obviously jealous of you
If you tell her those “jokes” actually hurt your feelings and she stops then fine but if she keeps doing just cut her out
Smdh my friend that I used to have did the SAME THING!?!! Or would call me out for the way I looked, turns out she was jealous of the way God created me.
You guys should really take her advice. Since I've been listening to her and few others. I've been happier/glown up and like it's so weird because social media went from a weapon against my self but to motivate me to get to my "realistic" goals. Changing my mindset everything fell into place and it all starts with what u consume, positivity or negativity.
And understand those ppl who ur looking at are at their 10, stop comparing ur 7 to her 10 when u haven't tried to be at ur 10
I’m shook about how gorgeous you are! But i’m not gonna compare myself 😌cauz that what you thought me
period!!!
i wanna be just like you when i’m older 😩❤️
Don’t we all
This case in just the right time Bc this whole week I’ve just been comparing myself and been feeling a lil insecure but this just boosted everything love you🥰
love you more!
"Somebody's light shining doesn't dim yours" loved that
WOAH this popped up when I needed it!!! Is she stalking me!?!? 😂
maybbeeeeee
We need more people like you 🥺❤️ !!! Half of these girls always compete and that energy kind of rubs on you 🤦🏼♂️
thank you i felt a little low today i told my crush i liked him yesterday he just got a gf today 😢 i felt sooo low and sad 😔 so i thought i was not good enough so this was really needed 💕🦋✨
You'll probably be better without him he sounds kind of toxic to me,keep your head up queen 💖💖
Aww
This is such an important topic that so many people struggle with everyday (including myself) and I’m so so so glad you posted this! Thank you so much for everything you do for me!!
this resonated with my soul. she has helped me so much whenever I feel myself comparing myself to another woman I remind myself that I am wonderfully and purposefully made. I put the comparison back on me. Not putting her down in the process but I tell myself she dosent have those almond shaped eyes like you do, the mole underneath your nose, your high cheekbones. Im learning to appreciate my beauty for what it is.
Period love!!!!!
Dang girl your timing is everything. Are you on my emotional clock? Cause I needed this right now.
I'm going to be the prettiest version of myself , inside out❤
I love how Taty is so relatable sometimes I feel like she is talking to me
The Queen has uploaded ❤️❤️😂
Hey, Taty. I just wanted to let you know that your content especially about Self Love 💕 and How to Love your Body really spoke to me. I’m a petite girl and I’ve been on a journey since the beginning of the year to be confident with my appearance and body. Affirmations really help me so I’m very strong on them and read them every morning and night and I’m trying to build muscle. I’m not trying to put a lot of pressure on myself because thru the course of my journey I have learned to love my body and I see progress which is amazing. Taty, thank you I really appreciate you.
-Kisses,
Kennedy 😘💕
omg this made me SO happy mama. affirmations are soooo great. i am so glad they're working for you, keep pushing beautiful ❤️
The “boom boom boom”😭perioddd cuz u keep spitting factss
I just went through a phase of being so jealous and self comparing!! What timing tysm
OMG I am so happy that it still has CZcams influencers like you to help the misguided and mislead . Just want you to know to keep up doing what you are doing. You are a real ,original person and youtuber. Love you!!
i love you more! ❤️
Girl came thru honestly I was having a literal mental breakdown 2 days ago bc I felt everyone was achieveing so much more than me and I’m here getting nowhere thank u so much u honestly keep me sane and ur advice actually helps I know this before I watch the videos ❤️❤️
I don't know Wat I would have done without your advice taty
Comparisons are done way too often now 🤦🏽♀️ thanks for this love❤️ #selflove!!!
girrrlll you’re glowing 😍😍😍
"if you're a human being"
me: *knows i'm a duck* aight imma head out
lol jkjk love you so much (*˘︶˘*).｡.:*♡
Her videos have made me better myself as a person and the outside of me to! She made me realize the things I was doing like comparing myself to beautiful women on Insta fr fr I look up to her and I love her!
It’s called working your a$$ off to get everything you want in life. “Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.”
This video just came at the best time. Yesterday at school kids were making fun of me cause I got easier work and I ended up crying 5 times literally. I knlw she was mostly talking about bodies but its kinda fthe same concept when you fell sad cause your grades arent as high even when you work so hard. Im still on the road to finding myself and hopefully people like Taty an help me find the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you so much for your girl talk and how to videos cause they help me so much. ♥♥♥♥♥ Love you♥♥♥♥♥♥
You are such a good human. I’m so glad I’ve found you, this channel really makes a difference in my life. Thank you💕
let’s just take a little second and realize we’re all beautiful and amazing! we’re not ugly we’re a gorgeous bad bleep, just saying- no one should feel bad about their body or inside! tasty made me realize all of this!
I meant taty lol typo sorry girl- love you
My ex made me feel so bad about getting jealous at times , telling me I'm drowing and an awful person . your video helped ❤❤
Taty thankyou so much for this video. Sometimes we get carried away by what we see on social media. Let's all learn to love ourselves and what we have and to have the mentality to lift others up😊. All women are beautiful and perfectly made. To somebody you're a 10/10❤
YES! ❤️
So wise she is. Love her authenticity💕keep it up taty xx
Thank you for this video! You have been helping me work on my insecurities. I appreciate all of your constant reminders that my body & my path have nothing to do with anyone else, so there is really NO POINT comparing.
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I compare myself everyday and sometimes I even put myself down. I feel like I am not pretty and not enough for anyone nor myself... and it kills me. I guess my depression shall always win because I will never be enough for myself.
Taty always knows what I need to hear❤️
You have helped with so many of my problems and insecurities, and made me more confident and comfortable in my own skin🥺💕
Tysm🥰
Omg girl you literally posted this at the PERFECT time. Lately I’ve been losing my self confidence by comparing myself to others. Thank you so much ❤️
Taty and I are besties, she just doesn’t know it yet ❤️😅
She knows it now...😂
Taty, you are so wise. I’ve started watching your Girl Talk Videos during summer and I have been a fan ever since. Whenever I feel bad about my body or so I think of something you said in one of your videos, and I feel better immediately. I really hope that you’re going to continue making these videos because they really changed my life for the better.
Omgggg i reallyy needed this!!! Like this was literary going through my mindd!!! Feelingg down, insecuree ,not confident putting my selff down!!! All all thatt!! But thankss pls do more of this!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I feel like every time I have a problem in life her next video is always like somehow related to my problems. So like the advice she gives is for me totally needed. For example there was once I needed advice on my toxic friends literally the next day she posted a video on what to do with them. Also lately I’ve been comparing myself with other people and now there’s a video on that, this is why I feel so connected to her. And this is why she is my role model and I love her soooo much ❤️❤️🥀
I’ve started feeling extremely insecure because of a boy lately, and your videos are so helpful, I hope I can help my little sister in the ways you’ve helped me, I’ve never really struggled with body image but since I’ve met this guy all I want is to be good enough for him, it’s hard not to feel insecure when society has a particular way they want you to look. But THANK U FOR THESE VIDEO’S OMFG 🥰😳
Taty thank you so much for this video. Like I always do this to myself and I know it needs to stop. Thank you so much. You are such an inspiration to young girls. It's great that you teach them how to love themselves because in such a harsh world it's near impossible to genuinely love yourself but you are evidence of that
you are such an beautiful person everything you stand for is so amazing and you’re honestly such an inspiration for me. i’ve been going through a really tough breakup for about a year now and i remember watching your videos when we first broke up and nobody else has ever made me think as positively as you do. i still go back and watch them now if i need some cheering up. just wanted to let you know what you’re doing amazing things are really impacting people’s lives in amazing ways you’re incredible girl ❤️
I’m obsessed with your videos and overall energy!! I have changed my mindset bc of these videos Tysm ❤️
Taty you’re so right. What you said made me think about what is happening with me in my life right now and try my hardest to make it better. Love you so much!💖❤️
I needed this sis I'm trynna be more confident, I lost my friends ( they turned out to be fake 🙄) and I'm feeling so stupid. I swear you can read people's minds lol love you! 😩😭💕
"somebodys elses light shining, doesn't dim yours" keep that in mind
I think I'm just around the wrong people. I need to find people who make me actually feel beautiful and who help me to see the best in myself.
Perfect timing honestly and I love you Tati 😩😍thank you so much for your advice it’s helped me so much, gotta end the year off right and start the new year off positive with self love🥰
Sis you’re so bomb if I could subscribe to you more than once, I would 😂❤️🔥
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I’ve never been this early for any video but Taty’s videos
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You lift girls up. It's so nice! We all need this :) X
I needed this,thank you girl we appreciate you and your personality is everything 🥺❤️
you're like the older sister i always wish i had 🥺❤️ thank you and ily :)
Beautiful as always + i rly needed this; I've been feeling rly insecure today. I think I literally wished for this video because I LOVE your videos~
She noticed me 🥺😘
Videos like this one on your channel is so helpful and uplifting,I can’t tell you how much these type of videos encouraged me to be better /do better .Girl you are amazing and please make more videos like this .MUCH LOVE❤️
Literally so much of what you said is gonna stick with me for the rest of my life. I’m literally so thankful you’re here. It’s gonna sound weird but I actually do think of you as a role model and as someone I look up to. I always make these crazy plans of oh I’m gonna do this and this but so much of it is not even financially or realistically possible from where I’m standing. I’m visualizing it but ur helping me make it reality. Thank you Taty. I love you💓💓
I love this video. It’s true don’t compare yourself to others.
Girl you give the best advicee💯💯💯💯this hit me soo hard in the feelsss❤❤❤your videos have helped me grown sooo much as woman🌻🌻thank you❤
im so happy for you!!❤️
i’ve been binging your vids all day. i swear you really open my eyes so much. thank you ❤️
Omg I’ve been watching this daily and it’s actually helping a lot!!💗💗 you’ve helped me so much to become a better person and love myself more!
I live for your uploads Taty. I love youu 😭❤.
Girl I’m needing this atm😭 thanks again ❤️❤️
Taty you are such a role model for me , ever since I started watching I have learned to outgrown my insecurities & especially after watching this video because I just compared myself the other day but this just made me remember why I should appreciate the beautiful things about myself & what makes me different and what makes her different in our own ways 🥺💕
Sisssssss!!! You read my mind too love you so much and such an inspiration to me. My whole family loves you sooooo much and watch your videos a lot but not as much as I do!!! Love you!!! Thxxx!!! Ya beautiful girl
Taty❤️❤️❤️babygirl you are a vision. so smart beautiful and well spoken. we love you so much and we appreciate what you’re doing on youtube. ppl tell me i look and talk like you and it’s such an honor to be like a gorgeous strong woman doing her THANNGG like you babe. much love always,
Jade❤️
Thank you SOOO much your videos help me enormously!! Keep doing you girl it’s beautiful to see!!! ❤️❤️❤️
queen back at it again giving me good advice🤩🤩
YOURE SO GORGEOUS 😍 n u cary yourself sooo beautifully, such an inspiration! ty sm for the wordsss u give out to hundreds 💞
I loved every single word 😭 I really can’t thank u enough girl. This is what we all need to hear 💕💖❤️ Every time I watch one of your girl talk videos my happiness goes from 10 to 100. Please never stop doin what u do!
I legit needed this rn thank youu😓❣️
This happened to me with my friends tho she was jealous of me because I had lots of guy-friends and she got so jealous they were friends and they liked me so she tried to “compete” with me to be friends and make the boys like her better than they like me.
Has anyone ever had this with anyone
Jamara Haddrill yes let her go don’t even bother or you can talk to her and tell her she doesn’t need to be that extra and she’s good for who she is and that being herself is best if she can’t understand keep your humble❤️💯
Lydia Osorio
Ty boo ❤️🥰💞
I love this girl so much...forever greatful for you Tatyyy!the big sister i never had❤❤❤❤❤
you are so uplifting and helping me SO... MUCH... thanks so much sis i cant stress this enough!
OMGG!! I’m finally here first 💓💓 ps . Love uu❤️😭
when I grow up I wanna be a role model just like you
Honestly LOVE YOU MAN you got ALLLL the things I need. Your channel is most def my sanctuary 🥰🥰
bruh I freakin loooove her. So positive still down to earth and keepin it real with facts at all times. Much appreciated!
Taty: “A lot of girls compete with the attention of men”
Me: “Haha well at least that ain’t me! I’m over here with a girlfriend!”
LMAOO!! Good for you boo ❤️
Daily source of motivation💯❤️
Literally been going through this situation for like the past 2 weeks. I was messin with this boy, and I started noticing he was hanging out with this other girl, and I started thinking yk maybe she prettier than me, maybe she’s better than me. I love these types of videos from you bc they literally explain my life. I love u Taty!!!
I’m so glad I found your channel, you are so real. Love you Taty 💕
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, TATY IS SO UNDERRATED
_yeah I agree._