I feel Ugly. Never been Happy. What do you miss most about yourself?
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- čas přidán 22. 07. 2022
- Karim Jovian asks New Yorkers what is one thing you want to change about yourself and what do you miss the most about yourself. These young kids share what that they want to change their looks, miss their childhood and don't remember the last time they were happy.
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“i don’t remember the last time i was happy” that hit deep
why hasn't anyone replied?
Here a reply
@Fdywuwus it’s been a year lol
@@Macyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and?
@@illyrian3057 lmao y did u click into the replies if u didn’t care💀these bitches out here fucking around👹
I felt my happiest when I was a kid before I noticed my flaws being pointed out
You are literally so pretty..
Same lmao now I hate the way I look
If YOU...ain't pretty to them then- 💀🙏🏼
You have no flaws, we live in a jugmental society.
i agree, id rather be a kid again if i was given a change or change the way i look.
Im very ugly myself and wish i could be a kid again happy and normal.
People constantly criticize my looks
Lifes harder as an adult
You are definitely not ugly
why do you care what others people think, what made childhood so fun was how you didnt give a damn about what anyone thought all that mattered was having fun
@@Art1cM0k3yz no matter who u are,but I really appreciate and admire ur thoughts, hope u never change , cuz people like u are really found fewer , once again u go❤
Wth?! You are beautiful!! Whoever told you you weren't is LYING.
You know, some people do call me beautiful but I can't accept that because from the inside I feel ugly and unhappy. Even if they say nice things it's futile if I don't love myself.
I need a group hug with them now😕
Eww hugs😷
@@icyunvme2400 eww negative people
@@Alex-tf2ph Eww my little pony pfp
@@icyunvme2400 its a show about ponies you will be fine.
@@icyunvme2400 ew fatherless get away from me 😷
I hate the why i look too and it made my life a living hell 😔💔so i kinda relate to them
I don't know what you look like but it's not what matters and I'm sure that you are very beautiful. The way we look really doesn't matter. The older I get the more I realize it
I pray God reveal how beautiful you really are in Jesus name amen
Same if I looked normal my life would be easy right now but I guess that’s not realistic
@@tssx11 same
u are uniq n no one replace u in this world
@@tssx11 The hell, you do look normal. Nobody is different because we are all humans. Learn that.
Yes the bitter feeling of being ugly knowing you go to sleep and wake up everyday feeling ugly.. 😴 any bit of confidence and happiness you felt just to go down the drain in a second when you see your face.. 0 motivation and energy ..damn i could go on and on
Correct😭💔
That's why I cry every morning with 0 confidence and 0 energy😭😭💔
But nah it’s about confidence as these morons love to say also even if you feel comfortable about your ugly face doesn’t mean others will I tried to ignore it but people are odd
Looks don’t matter after a point guys. All you can do is be fit, and be happy and it shows on your face.
@@mihirjoshi8934 when you’re both old & dying sure looks don’t matter otherwise cut the BS
the way i look 😢 this is the most relatable line for people like me.
remember no ones ugly but everyone's different in a good way if u think about how u look u will become sad and depressed and then u will start to think about what others think u look like and dont think abt what others think about u bc who cares i know ur beautiful and so should u
@@PrinAngMatthews🧢, these are only fantasy words far from reality
not talking to u
@@satyamsaikrupa
Be grateful you were born and are alive. Your body is just the shell for your soul, don't let it define you.
ya I hate being ugly, I wish I looked mesmerizing
Same
@@IWANT2ARGUE so sorry
@@ankanaghosh5163 r u a boy or girl ?
You are beautiful no matter how u look like
"Nobody's chapters are the same you can't change it but the least you can do is turn a sad story into an adventure"
Some of us will never be happy
Its not about being happy im ugly and i can still be happy its having high self awareness enough to realize that your ugly but not depressed fighting that everyday sometimes looking in the mirror and use the only confidence i have left to say i look gd just for everyone to not bat an eye at you then i have to not fall and stay strong because i accepted my reality a long time ago im a man with a small you know so i can never have a girlfriend never leave a legacy or children behind there are a couple people out in the world same as me what chance do i have meanwhile business men go around acting like its not hard yet their handsome smart tall strong and I’m just useless
Yeah
Yes you will be.
😞
Why not
I am very ugly. I wish i could change my looks. I always get bullied because of my face. I was happy when i was a kid. I agree with the girl i dont remember the last time Where I was truly happy about my lofe.
I love how honest they’re are because it’s really hard to be honest when it comes to these things
no not when it comes to these things...rrather when you are infront of camera and you think if you tell the ugly truth you will be judged you will hurt someone so
that's the most sweet thing about this interaction in my opinion
being able to easily be open like that is a sign of a good relationship, and thats good to have when you feeling depressed
Pray for me guys .. im in a deep depression nd loneliness because of it ... i cant go out .. i am in hell
May God heal your sadness and get away the lonelinness in you ☪️❤✝️
💔😭
that could be body dysmorphia !
Practice meditation
same here -_-
When I was in elementary no one cared how you looked. We all just had fun together. I miss those days 😞
True
i don't wanna look in the mirror no more..it's depressing
Brutal!!😔 Imagine being beautiful and people admiring you just because you exist. Undesirable looking people can't even look in the mirror ;). Try to improve atleast a bit bud or else life is gonna be on hell mode.
@@IhaveaBIGBLACKSWORD how am i ever gonna improve if i see myself every single day..
@@Birbbb Give it a try. You may look horrible everyday but slowly it may change. You can't really find your inner potential unless you try looksmaxing. If it didn't go well try hardmaxing surgeries. You still have a chance if you aren't an ogre-human lol.
@@IhaveaBIGBLACKSWORD i didn't get none of the things you typed but thanks anyway
@@Birbbbdo mewing chewing and go gym
“I don’t remember the last time I was happy” i feel so bad 4 u girl 😢😢😢
Here are 15 things I hate about myself:
- I’m so fat
- I have a unibrow
- I have pimples
- I have bad teeth
- I’m weird
- I’m ugly
- I’m too fat that working out doesn’t help
- I’m too ugly that a mirror would break
- I have insecurities
- nobody likes me
- my parents are never proud of me because I’m fat and they dk what I’m going through
- I have anxiety and can’t fight it off
- I pretend I’m fine
- I’m shy
- I’m just ugly overall
😢
Most relatable comment..
@@Shubhu647 thank u:)
Im sorry for laughing at the mirrors break thing but thats relatable lol
@@Youknowwho910 :)))
we ugly people are also humanbeing
They need good friends and people who can love them. May god bless them ❤
They are literally me 😢
I think it kinda makes me feel better that I'm not alone.I get you❤️🤍
Get better bro, join to the gym or do at least physical exercises u automatically will be good
@@zyzzzzzz7940there’s no gym for your face
No matter how different we all look globally, some of us have exactly the same thoughts and sadness.
I also hate the way i look😢😢
Then change it
I am also not a good looking and i have never been happy because of that
Then change it
She's beautiful!!! Don't focus on the details and things you deem imperfections
They both are beautiful
He’s beautiful too
not everyone is beautiful in their “own way” i hate to break it to you
Who are u if u dont mind?
@@bandlabgoonz who???
"I don't remember the last time i was happy" to me was the most relatable thing that anyone had ever said
I'm suffering from a skin problem called vitiligo from childhood at that time people around me always make me realize that im ugly, I'm not like others etc because of them I really thought that I'm ugly I used to cry all day nighy everytime I used to hate myself so much that. I Couldn't accept the fact that I'm ugly I even couldn’t accept myself. It took me freaking 8 years to accept myself the way I am and now I dont care what people say about me now I realize that how beautiful I am. Now I really love myself that much that I even dont take medicine for my skin problem cz now I'm proud of myself and love myself the way I am after 8 years.
JUST LOVE YOURSELF💜💜
Honestly I wish I could change everything about myself, I really hate this person I see in the mirror, the fact that all my life loneliness has followed me, to the point where I just want to quit permanently. I see people in public smiling and happy and it hurts because I would give anything to feel that.
Bro, I really feel that
It's honestly sad how a majority feels bad for the girl but not the guy. Both of them need * Equal * treatment
thats how it is for guys. if you arent chad, tyrone, edgar, or yao ming you arent getting any attention from women. thats just how it is.
@@nun1830Listen as a ugly girl, its pretty much the same- if you are black you basically get no attention from men and are told everyday your ugly 🫠
That's the feminist double standard.
I noticed this too people in the comments just mentioned the girl means she actually attractive. that really sad and hypocrisy of people that always said to stop called people ugly but their action said otherwise ..
@@nun1830women don’t owe you anything if they aren’t interested in you… women shouldn’t be blamed for men’s lack of affection just because they have a specific type. There’s many ways to get a girl besides how you look. Be a good provider, offer her stability for her future with you, or simply be a kind caring man to the woman you are romantically interested in. You don’t have to be super handsome to get female attention, you just need to put effort in yourself as a person sometimes which many men refuse to do. Even my own boyfriend pointed out how in Regular Show, Mordecai fumbled over and over again because he refused to change while Rigby got a steady girlfriend Eileen, because he made changes for her. Many men tend to think “I shouldn’t have to change for a woman to like me” but they don’t see how bad they are personally. My brother doesn’t even use soap to shower, wears the same clothes every week, lives with mom at age 27, still working the same low paying job he’s been for years, and he wonders why no girl he speaks to takes him serious. I wouldn’t take him serious either because he clearly doesn’t take adulthood seriously.
Man...
Wish I was not limited to one thing. I would want to change a lot about myself.
I hate my self, I literally think my friends are saying Im pretty so they won’t make me sad, I just act like im confident and don’t care. Deep inside I do care
I wanna hug both of them now!! 🥺❤
Same I’m so fucking ugly
This clip is a tad sad :(
I agree with the dude.. I miss my childhood.. many will never be as happy as being a kid.
Last time I was happy was when I was a kid doing pizza delivers with my Dad R.I.P old man 👴
I feel you brother...I'm ugly af too and I'm not getting any younger so it's over for me
I feel you, living the same nightmare :( i can not see any chance for getting better
I miss being innocent
Practice meditation u will bé back to this state
She’s actually pretty, not ugly at all
@@daddyjeff I bet you’re pretty too^
@@daddyjeff She isn't even ugly. You probably just think you look like her.
@@daddyjeffwho call you this ? The guys in your class ?
@@BlackCat-qr6gyaybe only 1 boy or 2 boys called her ugly ,then she remembered.girls are like tha,t 3 think you are pretty and 2 think you are ugly . Girls tend to believe the 2
Funny how no one mentions the dude lo😂
You know guys , I see myself in a random mirror or when somoene take pic of me I find myself soooo ugly, and I had friend who always laugh about my face one time they draw me , long nose smell eyes bad teeth and it hurtzd me a lot . But know when I grec up I realize something , when I smile my mouth is so beautiful my cheeks my Brown eyes open more and especially how I can feel the teeth happiness into my face . Then I see how beautiful I am . And I realize another thing everyone is so beautiful when they smile . When u smile u instantly beautiful !! That's why if u see urslef ugly , see urself smiling and u will se how beautiful u are ♡ . True beauty is in heart
❤❤❤ love you thanks for this comment
I cant smile until i fix my ugly asss teeth lol
These two are so cute.
My story:
When I was 13 years old, during the big break, my whole class stood gathered in the school yard, and one sentence I accidentally heard marked me for the rest of my life: "Well, Neda is not that ugly (they commented on my physical appearance) ." During that time, I stood with children who were ostracized from society because of their different skin color, and especially poverty. I always helped them with their homework and shared the school desk and snacks with them, when others didn't want to. People avoided them, and it was very painful for me. Even the teachers at that time were full of contempt and prejudice towards the poor and "colored". I always felt injustice towards others and I was hurt by their pain. I loved nature, animals, stars in the sky so much, I was grateful for everything. I have always viewed all people equally. For me, social, national and other differences were a terrible social construct. My human nature rebelled against artificially imposed differences. I could not go against my nature and upbringing. But, hearing that sentence during the big break in the school yard, I started to withdraw into myself. I was sinking into a hopeless depression. The war also started, and that really hit me hard. I was 15 years old and I organized the collection of aid in a camp for refugees from the war. The depression deepened. Of the child who was loved by everyone, elders, children and animals, only a shell remained. All my talents, for music, for painting, for gardening just died out. I have a lot of adopted cats and dogs and they are everything in my life, besides my closest ones. I've been hiding from people all my life because of that sentence. But, for some reason, I've just realized that I was "marked" until my death by that one sentence that still rings in my head and ears: "Well, Neda is not that ugly." I am in my forties, but feeling much older and tired. But, I AM grateful.
what a beautifully written comment, thank you for sharing neda ❤
Am sorry neda and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us❤
I miss how optimistic I used to be , I use to look at the world with joy… now all I see is the negative aspects ❤
They are both beautiful , but im ugly
I certainly relate to them .if you are ugly , the pain is not that visible but it is there like a hole that will never heal ..and you just learn to live with that
I feel for both of them. This world we live in is tearing us apart
i dont remember the last time when i was happy..feel the same..and many more out there must feel the same..truly sad world we live in
Broken world we live in. You all have the possibility to change it.
Nobody is ugly .
Its just the people who call us ugly are ugly by heart. Cuz if you are black you shine in the day , if you are fat , you dont care . If you are skinny , you just slay and if you are short you pave the way. Dont ever feel insecure about your looks . Change the societyy not youurself .
Have a good day ! ❤
I miss being innocent and carefree
Well thats how it is. Your older now so go do something with your life
I was a latchkey kid growing and I was neglected and abused. Now I am an adult and the same parents who ignored me, put themselves first, and to this day don't listen to me, and want me to take care of them in their later years. Here is a reminder. The world is ran and controlled by narcissists on a power trip, and they enjoy your pain, my pain, all our pain. Whether it is parents, your boss, the president, congress, even acquaintances, none of them want to see you do or be better than them.
I wish I had a friend like you who I could speak about this to and you’d understand and I’d understand you. If my kid ended up the way my mom made me, I’d want to just off myself. I feel like I was failed and now I’m failing myself even more, as an adult. I’m trying but it never feels like I’m good enough. Unless I’m constantly ignoring my own needs to help my family then I don’t feel good enough. They did this to me, but I can’t blame them too much because it’s generational trauma. I really want to become a social worker to help kids like me, but I know even then there will only be so much I can do in this horrible world. I have turned to religion also, when I hated that in the past. I am always at crossroads, fall off and end it all or keep pushing for my future family and kids and the kids I will help as a social worker. That’s why I’ve turned to god. I’m so lost and I don’t know where else to turn.
man puberty ruined me, everywhere I went with my mama, I was always complimented and called cute but now people don't even look at me when speaking to me :(
How did that happen
@@Idkbro799 hormones bruh
@@kusuossecretgf5401 fuck that. You can still be at least a 6 or 7.
@@Idkbro799 best I can say is i'm a 3
@@kusuossecretgf5401 yeah but I mean you can at least GET UP to a 6 or 7
Totally understand the girl. Feeling the same.. what even is happiness!?
Enjoying the simple things of life like a beautiful sun rise, the stillness of the afternoon, beautiful moments shared with God and loved ones. That is happiness to me. Jesus loves you.
Herring that broke my heart and now I’m crying
Never hate yourself.. If you don't love yourself who will?
Fax bro. Only good comment here !
I get chills when people say they miss their childhoods
Things to remember
1. You are someones idol
2. You are gorgeous
3. You are unique
4. Every scar of yours tells a story so be proud
5. You can always change
6. You are absolutely stunning
7. You are smart
8. You have right that people dont have
9. You are not ugly
10. Self care is also important
11. Be inspired by people, don't compare
12. You are not alone
13. Someone will always hold a place for you in your life
14. Love is important
15. Puberty isn't disgusting, its a way of life
If you are reading this, remember that perfect or odd isnt made to describe people. We can all fight through this together.
Remember
You
Are
Not
Alone
🤍
They must be siblings. Trauma bonding 😢.
Wow. Thanks for the diagnonsense, Brian.
@@remmilayne6153 diagnonsense is now my favorite word
@Mohamed Alkutaini where which city???
emotional damage is the worst
Yep
Give that girl a hug damn
I just love there honesty.look how honest they are.. this so deep can relate 😔😭
remember no ones ugly but everyone's different in a good way if u think about how u look u will become sad and depressed and then u will start to think about what others think u look like and dont think abt what others think about u bc who cares i know ur beautiful and so should u
Damn! That sucks. These people need a hug.
Happiness matters more than the way u look
I was in treatment for addiction and mental health, and this a more common case than people realize.
Finding happy people is so rare nowadays
Nowadays? In which fucking period of time people was happy? We are living in the best possible time, what are talking about?
No it isn’t just go outside there’s plenty.
@@gorilla_2282 no it’s the worst time . If you talking about safety and security then yes then it’s the best time but people are more antisocial then ever and there is more pressure then ever to look a certain way and achieve things.
God give everything to human. Life,happy also sadly ....... the Life is interesting with his problems. Doesn't matter you are ugly or other.....most important you is here and you is living here . Just will be happy (thanks God - Alhamdulillah)
The feeling to cry harder when you try to tell the feeling you get that you are ugly to a person and they start denying it and tell you are pretty..Makes me feel more uglier..😢
Nobody is perfect I also have my insecurities but guess what? I always strive to be the best version of myself everyday with the qualities I have and willing to improve/learn every time I wake up on a new day! We only have one chance at life so let’s just give ourselves some love and appreciate the moments 💯
Omg they share a negative energy and send it to each other , that your massage to make sure to have a happy friend to become happy too
I wanna give her a hug
I love their honestly. Hand on heart they are both attractive people. Please love yourself.
Ayo this song is from "The Morning After I Killed Myself"
Sorry guys ❤😢 I feel same
I didn't realize how many people suffers from these issues.
They're so beautiful
I asked my friend this today and she to said the way I look ❤we need more self love
This video is sad kinda reminded me when I started high school. i never knew i was black, ugly and had a terrible English until I went to a private highschool.😢
Gosh!! We are in pain🥹🥹
The summer spent with my cousin was a fever dream.
Tell the whole story
@@milan9180he finds an alien watch in the forest he went with his cousin and grandpa at summer, that device has given him shapeshifting powers
No they should be happy because they are good looking ❤❤❤
Both beautiful people
Same ✌🏾 every year I resent myself more and more.
I never liked the way I look and I been single forever because of fear
For both of you guys. I think you look fine. Really fine guys.
They are exactly saying what I wanna
Their answers are all so depressing 😂😂 it’s funny and sad at the same time
Hurts to hear cus I am related to this
I have acne scars and i feel insecury and don't like myself
That gucken up bro. Sorry to hear that..
But ay you got this bro! I beliefe in you men. It can only get better
7:44 I would say it is precisely the expectation that you should have friends that is making you suffer, not the lack of friends. It’s the fact that you find it reasonable to expect to have at least one friend. That reasonable expectation is what’s creating the suffering. That want, that desire, that longing rather than the circumstance itself
The last time I felt happy, this morning💝😁😊❤️💖🌅🌞
love yourself and others❤️😘🙏you can happy every time😘😘❤️❤️❤️
The first guy is an absolute vocel. Its actually a "just workout bro" moment
She just wants to be, beautiful
She goes, unnoticed she knows, no limits
She craves, attention she praises, an image
She prays to be, sculpted by the sculptor
Oh, she don't see, the light that's shining
Deeper than the eyes can find it
Maybe we have made her blind
So she tries to cover up her pain
And cut her woes away
'Cause covergirls don't cry
After their face is made
But there's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark
You should know you're beautiful just the way you are
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
Oh-oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beauShe has dreams to be an envy, so she's starving
You know, covergirls eat nothing
She says, beauty is pain and there's beauty in everything
What's a little bit of hunger?
I could go a little while longer, she fades away
She don't see her perfect
She don't understand she's worth it
Or that beauty goes deeper than the surface
Oh-oh, oh-oh
So to all the girls that's hurting
Let me be your mirror
Help you see a little bit clearer
The light that shines within
There's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark
You should know you're beautiful just the way you are
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
Oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
No better you than the you that you are
(No better you than the you that you are)
No better life than the life we're living
(No better life than the life we're living)
No better time for your shine, you're a star
(No better time for your shine, you're a star)
Oh, you're beautiful, oh, you're beautiful
There's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark
You should know you're beautiful just the way you are
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
Oh-oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
Bro she is so relatable,and the guy too,if i was look like a average person,i would atleast exprience a happy moment,keep up bro
I can relate
Same here. I wish if I could change my look
You should always be happy, no matter what life is way too short for you not to be happy and you should never want to change anything about your body. Your body is so unique and so precious. You are beautiful just the way you are and nothing is going to change you, no matter what your family loves. You have the best day of your life.
I was never happy, everyone bullied my in school for being pretty. I punched myself in the eye. They felt sad so I just left.. I felt like all of them hated me, I didn't know they felt sorry tho..
Oh god, my eyes rolled to the back of my head when she said that final comment
He is very handsome and she is truly beautiful, I also don't like the way I look because people love to look at you and tear you down for something you can't change unless you have an insane amount of money for surgery. Standards are so trash, the way people treat you because you're not attractive is ridiculous.
Same here, there's more of us than I thought
The way I act and talk around people irl. I don’t want to be mean anymore, but I’m trying my best. I’ve always understood people, but I just didn’t care. Calling them names… saying they have no parents… making them cry… I don’t want to be like this. I can’t trust anyone because what happened. But it won’t stop me from trying again.
And what I miss. I miss the good days. The childhood memories. The days were peaches and eggplants were food, and where Roblox and the internet was free of bad people. Sometimes songs or smells take me back to those days. I miss caring. I forgot to be thankful for my life, and now the world is ruined.
Grateful is the answer. We will never had enough in this life