Why Your Well Paid Job Could Be Ruining Your Life - Weekly Wisdom - Episode 7
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I had spent 6 years of my precious life in corporate office. Enough is enough. I'm a freelancer now and life is so much better without dealing with office politics and stupid emails and meetings.
Danny Sze, I am facing the same, please give idea, I am sick of my job
I am also done the same, i am freelancer now..
@@sumithp.r2991 bro can you help me out i also want the same path but too scared
Awesome!!!
May i know what kind of freelancer you are now?
I'm a doctor but I was made to work as a receptionist.. I totally lost confidence in me. It was really toxic. Today I took this step to resign for my mental health.. though I don't have another job in hand, I had to take this step. I hope I'll get a good job next 😇
I also want to quit my medical residency
Hope all is well bro
What is the outcome?
I've worked out of town Monday through Friday for 20 years.
Missed my children growing up and suffered deep depression when I started realizing that I am now in my late 40s and my children are grown.
Working on it with my kids and my life now. It's too late to get those things back, but were looking forward to the future!
I would strongly suggest that no one value money over life!
AMAZING Supplement to this video here
would be the Work-Dissection of 'Some More News'!
I quit my high paying Job because I wasn't happy. but i feel free and happy now. I'm taking a huge risk. bring it.
How is it now?
Any update?
@@maxsanemitchell1609 tell you the truth, i miss my old job. So far I Been jumping jobs to jobs. and its difficult now. but after a month of searching I ended up with a whole different life. Pros-Spend time with family. Cons. living paycheck to paycheck. but when bills start to get paid off. my life gets evening better.
@@levanderallen8903 do you regret it now?
@@levanderallen8903 I think you did the right thing. Nothing more important than giving priority to your family - I was slow to take that decision and I regret it to this day. I'm sure your work life will continue to improve.. be glad of your brave decision!
I am trying to create my own job, my parents don't share my vision, they want me to look for a job, but I am working all my hours creating my own content and making music. It's a struggle right now because I am no where near making money off of my dream, but at the same time, I am happier now than I ever was working in a kitchen for the whole day not achieving anything
Watch this and u may understand..
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Never, Never, Never quit on pursuing your Dreams.
Your parents want you to find balance. Until the job you love starts making money they want you to work a job that brings in money. When your dream job starts making money you can back off the job you don't love. Never give up your dream. Good luck.
Hey buddy, I know the feeling. I was there - a few videos on my CZcams Channel may help
I think ur parents r right. And before u become angry read the rest of it.....what i am trying to say is that.... Dont u think that more than 99% of the people who dont succeed in the music industry thinks the same way???
I think u misunderstood what jay is trying to say. He is not saying that u should quit ur job right now or stopp studying right now and do what u want to do. He is saying keep a safer option as ur main whatever u r doing, job, studying whatever. But as a side thing start doing what u love, like in ur case find a job and in ur free time dont waist it watching netflix and other things rather focus on ur music and work hard for it
I don't hate my job, but I absolutely hate the people. I don't love my job either, I tolerate it, but I love the money.
I hate hate hate hate HATE the people in the office.
You are not alone.
I also hate the people at my workplace and I hate my job, and I hate my shift, but I love the pay.
Are you a victim of the office politics?
😂😂
Yeah. The same.
Just left my job a week ago because of the circumstances. I'm gonna get less money (it was a really well-paid job) than now BUT i do know it is will worth it. This was the point when i've learned: i was poor a few years ago=and i have the same feelings\problems now when i could buy anything what i want. Jim Carrey said once: everybody should be rich once in a life to realise: this is not the solution.
Hey, I'm going through the same now, gonna quit on Monday.
Can you tell me if you feel any better?
Jim. Carrey said: everybody should be rich once in a life to realize :this is not the solution
Best pick up line
@@almak3759 do u regret quitting?
@@thesloth944 nope!
I found a new job, its stressful and I get angry alot but I feel alot better than on the first job.
So glad this topic is covered by you ! Corporate world drives you crazy.
@Raghunath Reddy exactly, it has been even pushed lower then ever during pandemic, all these co called MNC's owner making fake charities and cutting employee salaries, making them work 11-12 hours night shift no pay for additional work, no more weekends as we are always home and should be available for any work.
Www
Wwww
We are pushed to do insane things. That's the kind of work pressure these corporate world put us in always. I'm really worried if I will go mad or something.
@@ranjeetsaini4248 they are all taking advantage of the work from home situation and paying less
I left my corporate job after 6 years... left with nothing but health problems. Screw capitalism 🥵
what was your job?
I don't know you are reading this or not, but let me tell you that you are doing an amazing job.
Your words make a huge difference to millions of people daily including me!
Thank you for your wisdom and your efforts on spreading it!
Loads of love ♥️
God bless you.😊
This is brilliant. I'm leaving my day job in 2 days time after 17 years of stress and anxiety. Now I've reinvented myself as a Health and Life Coach. I've called my business Happinessland because that's where everyone should live. As Jay says in the video, don't be constrained by the handcuffs. Life is a one shot deal so live the life you want, not what you need.
Susan Lord best wishes!
How’s Happinessland?! Really hope things are well and you’re at peace!
How are u doing now?
Hey Susan, any updates on your business? I hope it's going well
any update now?
Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you! If there was a love button, I would definitely click it!
Right on Nataley, I resonated with this as well...and their should be a Love button like Facebook.
Thank you Jay Shetty!! I recently got a job thats high paying and its the highest paying job I had but I didnt like it and just didnt find any meaning in it. I was really stressed. To be honest I didnt care about the money, I just want meaning and purpose in what I do. Then I quit, I didnt want to regret wasting time doing something that I didnt like. I think its one of the best decision I have ever made.
AMAZING Supplement to this video here
would be the Work-Dissection of 'Some More News'!
I'm a buddhist. I know You are a Buddhist, too! Jay shetty. From a small room in a small town in Viet Nam, I always follow you. My idol. Follow Buddha - Follow the sun. That's my motto of life
Some jobs are stressful BUT poverty and homelessness are 10000X more stressful. AND for most of us, we only have those 2 choices!
Am watching the video at the time am planning to quit my 3-year job
In the beginning of the year I just suddenly ran into one of your videos and you inspired me so much that I just had to follow you on Facebook and here. Than I found other people through your posts that also inspired me and from there my life changed. I do exactly what you said today.
I want to become a fiction writer, so before and after work I watch online courses about writing, I bought books about it and I have a daily goal of writing at least 1000 words. If I come home very late from work I sometimes step down to 500 but it still just became a part of my daily life and I miss it when I can't do it. (which happend just 2 days since I started)
I'm going for 100.000 words on the first draft so I still have some ways to go, but I feel how I get more trained every day, so glad I started this.
Thank you for being such a great inspiration!
100 hours a year commuting 😭
I just quickly worked out I was doing nearly 500 hours a year...
Me 1000+....
Aimee Bullock I just calculated.... 2000 hrs a year in commuting!!! Wtf am I thinking?!?!?
@@dianamangieri482 That's a 40 hour a week job. That's crazy.
Mitch Tracey recently switched jobs and now I’m working 10 mins from home. Took me almost a year to find but welllllll worth it!
@@dianamangieri482 Good for you! Awesome!
I am a teacher and it's more than accurate for us.... Even worse. I literally cry everyday before going to work. But no chance to go out.
I dont waste my time on Netflix. Its just that I work even on weekends and most of the times without pay because of the heavy workload.
Thank you for the knowledge Jay!
Love from India!!♥
I just drop my job today because of this. Ive been working and i think that my life is worhtless. Vlogging is my passion and making content. Even though im at work i still think of my ideas on making my vlog. it really separate me from work.
I just watched this because you have amazing eyes but then I realized this is an amazing video! Thank you! And your parents for great dna.
SMH- LOL
I have some dream things I wanna do.... But I have all the 4 problems you mentioned..... You are are a good inspiration... Hope I will make it some day
Hi Pillarisetty - I have a couple of videos on my YT channel addressing these 4 problems as well - take a look - hope it serves you!
Find meaning in Everything you do. And if you can't better switch as quickly as can. Totally agree with Jay. Recently I started a fitness channel on CZcams and can spend hours and hours without any fatigue. Happy Fitness to you All!
That's EXACTLY the message we want to bring with our company. A free platform were we connect people to give each other insights on ideas, feedback and maybe co-found things. Very inspiring Jay!
Left me job of 18 years for a pay cut with less hours in the Watch Industry. So happy I’ve took the leap. Wish me luck.
♥️Jay Jay Jay♥️
Thank you God bless you endlessly 😇
I am grateful I got this message early. Thanks for bringing this into awareness. DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE. Find your own value you bring to the world.
When I’m stressed, shopping really aids in relieving that stress. Going out and watching a movie assist in that too :)
I made 75k, in 2000 to 2001 at a stressful, fast-paced engineering job for USAF!
2002 I left that Job and worked as a bar tender in st Thomas and IT WAS THE BEST MOMENT OF MY LIFE!!!
Friends, family, surfing, and freedom was my life!
Unfortunately, all that was short-lived when a company offered me a 135k in Norfolk in 2013. It was hard to turn down.
I'm doing good now bur it was NOTHING compared to St Thomas, nothing comes close!
Jay you don't know how much your message lifted my soul...
Warm regards from The Philippines
Love it Jay Shetty, keep spreading the messages you talk about daily. Gratitude and Happiness.
You are amazing!! Thank you so much for being here!😃
Let's make wisdom go viral together ✌✌
I have been working in corporate since I was 17. Was learning about stock market since then as it was my passion. Quit my job at 36 once I started earning more than twice of my salary 😀
You are a legend
Once you told us a monk changed your life. And today I am saying you are changing our lives.
Thanks a lot Jay.
You wouldn't believe that I had extremely needed this video at this part of my life.
Thanks Jay! These were words that I had to hear for my next steps!
Loving your work. Keep it up as the world need more people like you to inspire us.
I Quit my corporate job after 7 yrs of working ..dono what to do next..🤣🤣🤣
I'm quitting tmrw
@@snehab7676 I want to. I hate my job. I so stressed but I need the money
@@snehab7676 Wish you good luck
@@snehab7676 what are u now billionaire or homeless?
@@divr6160 she is died
Fantastic speech l love ❤my favourite speaker Jay genius best professor.
I'm in that situation now. Got an IT job I don't like but pays ok. Trying to build my side hustle and write music for video games. It's going very slowly but just the act of writing music at the weekends keeps me going. Keep up the good work CZcams commenters and keep hustling!
This is a great Video to remind us not to get caught-up in The Grind and be addicted to the money on a Job. Thanks Jay for creating such thought provoking Videos.
Taking interest in what we do and staying positive will help to reduce this problem to some extent. Let's grow passion and love our work!
This truly is the best video I have seen till date for pushing yourself...
My favourite speaker Jay genius
This "fact guy" has changed my life for the good♥ thankyou!
Must read , so good they can't ignore you, in that book Carl Newport(author) have a beautiful argument about following your passion or convert your current work in your passion.
Thank you for your videos Jay! Always look forward to them!
I am stuck up with my present job because of fear of not taking risk, decisive decisions to get my passion and profession same.Please help me out because I want to get my dreams in this life.jay keep it up. awesome
I do like to dive into physics and maths and get to know more about my mother nature and reveal different secrets I also love to share my knowledge with the world and listen to all people with different perspectives and I really love to learn from the people So I keep on observing the nature and people and do something which will spread love and happiness and fulfillment around me.
Omg Jay you've just described my life! You've motivated me to keep my side hustle going! ☺ so glad I've found your channel!! Thank you.
I would like to do my side hustle on weekend but once weekend come, I have no energy at all
I feel that. I'd love to start a youtube channel, but I'm dead after hours
This is normal. Human is not a robot. We waste most of our energy at work. I recommend work enough for salary, but never more.
Exactly
@@erakkovaatainen148 true
@@Nokss87 This is. Many people at work pretend to be working anyway. You get same payment. Also you may find work with less hours and with frugal living you can live just as good if not even better. Done by design, so you won't do anything to go from that work. No energy for side hustle or anything like that. Believe in yourself and all is possible.
Lovely speech
Jay, That is totally true. Less of one year ago I deeply found out what I really love to do and is amazing. You totally have my support on that. And thank you for sharing that may help many persons in the world.
Right Video at Right time. Was going to start forgetting about my passion to focus on my career. But your this video gave me a motivation to follow my passion along with my career. Thank You.
I love this video. I've been binge watching them over the weekend... All the messages I've received have been spot on. My issue is not that I don't have enough time but my energy. I feel zapped in the evenings and weekends to do anything. I'm working on improving my health but it goes hand in hand with unwanted stress. I have my answer though... Thank you very much x
Everytime I watch a video it matches my situation...I really needed to hear the side hustle part because I don want to work for somebody else...And Im suffocating at school.Thanks for this amazing video Jay
Awesome video of my favourite speaker Jay genius
Yes it's obviously the fear of taking a step and the risk of losing which make me feel OK in life but not loving and happy
I agree. I need to make a change. I just wish my bills felt the same way...😥
Great vid!
It is great to have people like you carry on some of these basic values of humanity.
Ur sight of sign in expressing is really great jay Shetty
Awesome insights. Thanks a lot
Pls Jay u are wonderful. This video has moved me the highest
The question is how do you know what you are good at? How do you know that you are not deceiving yourself by telling yourself that you are good at it? Even if I try to do something else i will always feel like i'm losing time by starting all over. I would really love if you could talk about patience, because i believe that so many people are actually afraid of losing time on something they are not sure it's worth for.
I love my job. Working. Babysitting
My best professor Jay genius
Dear Universe, by this time next week, please, somehow, with your divine timing, grant me a miraculous business idea &/or well paying job to do do alongside&/ instead of my twice a week coleg e course. I am living alone,on the lowest possible government paid income, in a cold damp council flat with no social help and despite crying out for help, formally and informally, to so called professionals locally, nationally,globally I am still being neglected,discriminated and rejected. This is not okay, and I refuse to commit suicide or stop talking about it.
Please God/Universe,Society help me!
Also how do
I am just thinking, in all these years of unemp lo yment, I had a 'll the time in the world for the 'side hustle'.
You actually saved my life thank you Jay.
Great advice! Thanks Jay! :D
Love you❤
You just solved my problem. Thanks Jay
This spoke so loudly to me! Thank you for this video... It's time to make a change!
You are my motivator..😍😍😍
Thank you Jay for sharing such wonderful thoughts... #love#peace#wisdom
Passion
SO much truth and reality.. thank you for the thoughts Jay!!!
Literally in every motivational video NETFLIX is automatically in 😅
Iam not happy with my job at all though it's a well paid job my co workers are also of good nature . But iam overburdened here with work and my boss is also not helping me. Everyday I cry at night thinking to quit my job . My health and self confidence is also degradating day by day. I dont get time for myself. But my parents are insisting me to stay here. I got stuck what to do and what not to do.
I can feel your pain. Due to organization re-structure, i was assaigned to a new department, doing jobs that I don't enjoy at all. But I don't have the courage to quit my well paid job, thought i have savings for the near future. Now in addition to hating my job, I hate myself for not having the courage to live a happy life. Perhaps what i need is encouragement to make that leap.
@@bowbayc4466 hey...its been 8 months and I don't know exactly at what I started liking my job. My boss also after few months started helping me and now I have a good bond with my boss. What all I did was I just stopped discussing about my problems with others and started focussing on what good is about my job.
My Good wishes are with you.
@@priyenkaprasad4015 Sooooo good to know that you are feeling better now. Like you do, I have not asked for others opinions anymore, started to focus on myself, spend more time to meditate and listen to my inner self. Another thing is that I try to stop craving for what I want to do, and instead do the things the world/ society needs. I make me feel better. Thank you so much for your kind words.
Most needed video (for me and I guess most of us😅)
Thank you Jay Shetty!! 😀
Jay love you man! I am experimenting with my life at this time, and I feel its awesome!
Thank you Brother...i am trying to applying this concept in my life from very long ago 😆😆
Needed this Jay!❤ Love the video!❤
Thanks for your insights, wisdom and enthusiastic approach to life.
World needs people like you:)..Keep doing more of this kind
Love your videos Jay! - infectious positivitiy and energy
Jay Thanks for you opinion i will really think on it :)
We spend most of our time in work and yet we don't love it. We often stay because we have obligations that we have to settle, risk that we don't want to take, negative reactions from people we care about, and etc. That's what we usually say when we're confronted with the reality. We want to get out of this rat race but prefer to be entertained than to be educated, prefer to relax than work towards your goal, spend time drinking with friends than improving your side hustle, and etc. If we have an ambition, our actions should match it.
Love the message and energy. Thanks for sharing this!💰👍
Absolutely very nice feeling after watching this video
It is awesome Jay.... I am in the similar process .... I have quit my job and exploring what I love ☺️
There's so much to do!! For what I love but I am left so short on time after an almost 12 hour job of 8to8.
Thank you so much Jay for this advice... btw i love photography
I think, this is your best video yet!! So glad i watched this on a Saturday morning!! :D
I am a 23 he old British Born asian/Indian female who is STILL unemployed and living alone and trying to resit basic GCSE exams.I went back to college because the job search has been hell.
I am living the next level up from homelessness. This is not a life.
I have a C only in maths so doing science and English. Now before anyone automatically stereotypes or misjudges me as a carefree, benefit reliant, slob who does nothing I ask you to stop assuming and start being compassionate to say least.
I have tried every avenue.
The only work I am getting is voluntary.
I am taking this personally and seriously.
People tell me not to give up but I know no other person of my age still trying to be employed. I'm fact so many people my age to their first jobs without even being interview ed.
I am register ed on all the job search sites.
I never get feedback even when asking do it.
I'm always early and well prepped for interview s.
I always thoroughly research companies, roles, specifications, do dummy runs,practice interview questions and answers, and much more.
My hours, days, weeks,months,years,pennies,pounds,tens,hundreds, thousands have wasted away.
Why does the world hate me!
Believe it or ntot,alongside all this real world effort I do practise abundant positivity and gratitude and mindfulness. But it never works favourably no matter how I look at it.
How am I supposed to keep forward
I have applied for jobs online and in person.
I have applied for everything including cleaning,care work, fundraising, retail and more.
I get interviews once in a blue moon.
I seek help from so card professional s including work coaches, interview coaches, careers advisors.
I am unwell but I want to work and I can work given the right environment.
I have applied for every job possible posted that I am suited to below,at and above my level of education and unpaid work experience.
My patience and will to live has run out.
I have had enough of all the injustice including social exclusion,stereotypes,bullying,racism,inability to pay bills, unemployment, failure,neglect and all the bad.
Yes ok I'm currently procrastinating online but I don't intend to it just happens when browsing.
What can I do to manifest a well paying,permanent or steady job, preferably before the end of this year?
I am worthy of a much better lifestyle so naturally when I see videos like your s complaining about well paying jobs I am obviously patronized!
I am sorry for your condition. Life is really hard. Do not lose your hope. Try praying to God. We are weak. God is strong. If you don't mind let me teach you a sentence .It's a prayer. "Hasbunallahu ve Nimel vekil "
It means God is enough for us.
Try to say this word 500 times a day like a mantra. It takes 15 minutes. And leave yourself to God. I hope God will help you. Best wishes for you
Sounds exactly like my life
I cannot tell you that everything will go your way - that you will get a good job and that a wonderful career is waiting for you at the next corner. What I do know is that life is carrying you on a special journey intended only for you. Benchmarking yourself to others is the wrong thing for you to do. You are on your very own heroine story, and this is the part where the heroine is struggling. Rest assured, the part where things will be great for you will eventually be next. A wise man once said to a questioner; “The problem is that you dislike what you do have and like what you don’t have. Don’t you see how easy the solution is? You just need to like what you do have and dislike what you don’t have.” Take a backseat for a change, let life fully take charge and trust in it fully. See what you have before you that you can immediately contribute and do - be it the volunteer work or even a job as a barista at a fast food place and jump into it fully, trusting your journey. It might seem like solving the job situation will make things all better. It might. But until then, solve the suffering problem you are going through first. That is the priority.
How come you don't live with your parents?
Hey! I'm also from the UK and a coach - what your situation like now? I have a few videos that may support on my YT channel however feel free to reach out to me on Instagram and DM me - @jaineelmistry
You made my day all day
Love from Malaysia ❤️
Your words are so powerful! Keep up the good work! Good Luck.
I make it a point to watch your video (1video a day) to fuel my day. So much to learn from you.. thank you! Hope you’ll have talks / events here in London..
After watching your video I am going to resign my job which has made my personal and social life hell for some money