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- čas přidán 13. 01. 2019
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just want you to know that i truly love you and thankyou for changing my life, Marie x
After 2 years of self harm I finally told a teacher and I am so proud of my self
Sam Hat That’s good! I don’t know u but I’m proud x
Did they tell your parents anything? I'm trying to decide whether or not to tell a teacher or another trusted adult.
I'm proud of you!!!
I am Proud of u.
Hope u are feeling in better health x
@@lizzyemo7095 Hi there you probably did tell someone by the time you read this..I am a mum and my daughter is 14 and I am so pleased she told me about her self harm, mum's really need to know. I have always been there for my daughter and most mum's would be supportive and want to help in any way to stop their child suffering. The love for your child is so unconditional and I know as a mum that nothing can compare to the love I have for my children...x
Maybe not a video on how to hide self harm but a video on how to reduce the appearance of scarring e.g. make up or bio oil. Because hiding self harm should only be encouraged if that person is in an unsafe situation. Hiding scars however is sometimes needed in job settings, or like you said in front of kids xx
completely agree!! thats such a good idea thankyou, I was really unsure about how to go about it without it looking like im encouraging people to self harm! thankyou xxxx
I agree with this!!
marieroseeee please do this video I’m struggling st tho mo to try and get rid/ fade my scars love u lots ❤️❤️
Anyone advice on scar cream and oil..my 14 year old daughter self harms and is sucidal.
What advice as a parent would you give me to help her please xx
Lianne Mcclean bio oil is really good to reduce scarring. Really sorry you’re going through that it must be heartbreaking as a parent. Make sure she knows that scars are for life and she will regret them in the future. If she is self harming it means she doesn’t know how to cope with her emotions, so maybe teach her about how to process the emotion in a healthier way. And also don’t be angry with her, this will stop her from telling you. Instead tell her that whenever she feels she wants to do it, that she can talk to you instead. Hope this helps xx
You don't even realize how much I look up to you Marie your such a lovely girl with a beautiful face! Remember difficult roads always lead you to beautiful destinations love you !!!! 💕💋
Your videos help me so much you don’t even realise x
Emily X oh Emily thankyou so much 😭🥰
You are no broken,
You are breaking through.
Yes to Law of Attraction video!
Even the darkest of nights will end, and then the sun shall rise.
I would like to see a video of how to hide self harm scars, I get what a touchy subject it is but I feel it could really give people the confidence to maybe be able to start a bit of their recovery. But I totally get what you’re saying too. Maybe you could do a poll on Instagram to get more people’s opinions?xxx💗
My therapist told me that instead of saying “I should be” say “I’d prefer to be” it helps so much when you don’t put the expectations on yourself. Love your videos Marie xx
Sending you so much love, Marie. Stay strong because you are a beacon of light in this world. Just look at the comments - you help so, so many people. Love you lots xxxxx
oh sarah youre going to make me emotional!! thankyou so so much, this means so much to me xxxx
You are welcome my fellow warrior xxxxxx
I wished she kept looking at the comments 💔 She’ll forever be missed..
Be gentle with yourself, you’re doing the best you can.
i love you so much marie. You’ve helped me more than anyone ever! i’m currently recovering from anorexia and self harm and you’ve been my biggest role model x thank u
Throughout the whole video I just wanted to give you a hug😩! On some on the subjects you were talking about I could hear the pain in your voice 😩and how passionate you are towards trying to help other people. Which you 100% are because you’ve helped me in more ways than you’ll ever know. You should also never feel guilty for not posting etc. You need to care for yourself before helping others as much as we loveeeee to see your videos we love to see that your okay and taking care of yourself first. Do not feel guilty for being you! We love you for being you! You explain everything so well and I felt so connected with you. I never thought it was possible to feel so emotionally connected and be able to relate to someone so much through a video. + I’m also gunna give headspace another go,my first reaction to mindfulness was exactly the same as yours😂🖕🏼 it if it works for you imma give it another chance- headspace should defiantly have sponsored this video 😂 Love you Marie🌹Keep going keep being you xx
I just wanna say... thank you. THANK YOU for existing I swear I mean these two words so much like THANK YOU MARIE
Ur videos really help me go through my depression. Thank you :')
I loved this so much, and damn, you are glowing ✨
my fav video to date! appreciate the honesty so much!
wow i fricking love you, forever so proud of my angel xxxx
Beautiful girly 💜 much love ! I appreciate you and your vids! Gives me comfort knowing someone else has gone through tough times too
needed a vid from u today✨💖
Your videos have actually saved my life so many times love you girllyyy ❤️❤️❤️❤️
💖 Love when your videos pop up! Best part of my week is getting advice and support from Marie 💖 such a good video babes! X
i love you so much Marie, you’ve helped me so much with my mental health and thank you for that❤️
There’s no possible way to explain how much I love you! You’re so inspirational😘😘🥰
Just wanted to let you know...none of your vids are stupid or dumb. They always show you as being very brave and courageous even when your illnesses are trying to take you down. You are an inspiration, a comrade-in-arms, a source of information and comfort to those who are ill and those who are trying to help. Don't ever stop. We all need you.
About to sit down get a cuppa tea and watch this amazing girl!
Don’t be ashamed of your story, I promise it’ll inspire others.
Just wanted to pop on and say I’ve just found your channel! I’ve binge watched your videos today and they’re amazing.
You’re so strong and inspirational Marie, don’t want this to put pressure on you but you help me so much and I’m so grateful ❤️
I have needed this
I just want to say watching your videos has helped me so much over the past few months - just knowing other people have their own struggles helps me so so much. Thank you 💖
this video really did help me and made me think that i’m not as alone as i feel, you give me so much hope for the future, just remember if you fall we are here to catch you and we all love you
I LOVE YOU!! Sending you loads of love and hugs. Thanks for everything xxxxx
I’ve had such a crappy day and watching your videos put me in a better mood and it helps me to realize I’m not the only person that’s struggling and it’s nice to know I’m not alone. You’re such a huge inspiration to me, thank you for all of your videos, they’ve helped me so much. Sending lots of positivity and love!!💛💛
❤ yess, ilu x ty for makin' a vid
loved all of the video ideas, talking about mh w/ ur bf, the law of attraction and chatting w/ your family about it. ps you're amazing for putting out videos whilst still in the thick of so much atm, this was so reassuring and much appreciated, love and support x
wow thank you. I needed this
Thank you so much Marie, your videos always help and I love and appreciate you so much 💕💓💗💞💖
I love it when u it upload it gives me something to look forward too love you lots! xxx
I feel like I've been drowning in it and not trying to get better because I have given up but this video has reminded me that if I want to feel better then I have to do something about it, mindfulness, meditation, affirmations. Sometimes it's uncomfortable to do it but it's a bit like going for a run, the idea of it is awful but once you've done it you feel amazing. Thanks Marie, you're the most real and wonderful CZcamsr and person
Your videos mean so much to me. On that dissociation topic. I have been struggling with dissociation/derealisation/depersonalisation for a couple of years and I have been learning grounding techniques but they started to make the dissociation worse? If that makes sense. I just got told that sometimes (if possible) it is better to sit and wait and then it could get better. Thank you for making videos Marie. Sending you love xx💞
I’ve been sick all night and morning. This made my day. ❤️
I’m currently watching this in the airport after splitting up from a long distance relationship, this advice helps so much, I have BPD as well and things like this are so difficult and knowing that there’s other people that struggle as well is a little soothing 💜
Here is my story and how you changed my life. 3 years ago I had severe depression, suicidal thoughts (attempts as well), and severe anxiety. If you haven’t helped me throughout my battle I think that I’d probably be you know.Dead. But thankfully my depression and anxiety and suicidal thought are getting a bit better! I still today deal with all the mental illnesses listed above, but with your positivity I can get through my day smiling! So I would just like to thank you so much for being here for me. I decided to make a CZcams channel to talk about my mental health because I want people to know that they are not alone. Again thank you so much 💞
I love you so much❤ you make me so happy omg
i love you marie and i love every single one of your videos there so real and relateable xxxx
I’m totally ready for this, I have been struggling a lot lately and I’m in a rut but your videos always help. You’re incredible and so brave! Love you and am v excited to watch this x
Also, the bandage on your wrist :( things will get better soon I hope, you deserve so much happiness x
Am commenting again🤷🏻♀️I just watched the whole video and I could just listen to you forever wow, also ab the self harm hiding video I would love to see it however people will probably take it the wrong way, so I would say only do it if you’re feeling emotionally strong. You are so incredible and sorry if this sounds weird but you mean a lot to me because you give me hope it will get better, I can tell you’re struggling at the moment from your Twitter and stuff but know that you shouldn’t feel guilty because we all want you to put your mental well-being first! Love you loads, thank you for everything you do for me even if you don’t realise
You're so amazing boo. Love it as always baby
Your laugh is amazing !!! And I would like that video x
Those clips broke my heart from the video you tried to record earlier:( I love you SO incredibly much❤️
its literally none of my business and not in my place to ask, and you dont have to answer but i couldnt help but notice the bandange under your cardigan, have you relapsed with self harm? yet again dont answer if you arent comfortable to i know its none of my business
Amazing, love you bubs xxxx
Love this ❤️ i’d like to see a video on how to hide self harm purely on the basis that i haven’t come out of long sleeves for years and would like other methods to ‘hide’ it instead of having to constantly wear the same thing and long sleeves. i’m going on holiday to Florida in April with family so fully aware that it’s going to be very warm and there’s little way i can wear long sleeves in such warm conditions. thank you ❤️❤️
I love you thankyou for inspiring us everyday gorgeous xx
I think the video about hiding self harm is a good idea, particularly because the scars you have to live with long after you stop self harming so it would be helpful to know for job interviews etc. Love you Marie xxxx
Hey! Im wondering if youre able to do a video on how to feel comfortable wearing short sleeves, and shorts in public. Im currently trying to get some confidence to do so but its really hard. I feel like my parents might not want me to show scars in public around them. And im embarrassed to even show any in my own house/room. Its so hard. I havent really worn any summer clothes for 4 years outside of my room because im scared. Im not sure what kind of video im trying to ask for. Things like: how to react to bad comments about your scars in public/in general, what to do when you see someone staring, how to feel confident, also this is weird but if i have scars that are pink/purple/red... do i have to avoid wearing certain colors?
Or even if someone could reply to this giving me answers then that works too! Thank you if you read/ reply to this❤️
I’ve been hiding again for a year, a friend has only just told my teacher (and my fp) today, and it didn’t go in the plan in my head, my thoughts are too strong. I don’t want to be here anymore. Your videos are one of the only ones that help me Marie and I’m so proud of you for how far you’ve come and how strong and beautiful you are. ❤️ your video ideas are great especially the one with your parents, maybe I could show it to my parents and help them understand because they aren’t the most understanding.
You are such an inspiration i love you so much thank for everything you've done also in my opinion on the selfharm hiding video i maybe think that its a little bit risky and because i'm struggling with selfharm it could be a little tempting and may be not so good to people that are trying to hide it from their friends or parents (not my case). So its difficult idk if this works anyways i love you
thanks for your feedback! i totally agree, love you too! thanks for your comment - im definitely going to rethink of how i will approach the video if i do it xxxx
I love you so much you’ve really helped me !!!
oh maddy thankyou! i love you! xxx
Your videos make me feel so at home. Thank you. x
Liked before watching👍🏼look forward to uploads so much can’t wait to get in bed and watch it after a long day at work😌you help me so much + I need a cute little Albie to go with my big fluffy wolf😂x
awh i love the feeling of having a video to look forward to after a long day (glad that im yours!!) and im sending hugs! keep going xxxxx
Marie you help me so much!!! Love your cardi, where’s it from?X
I would really like it if you did a video about hiding self harm. It is, indeed, a risky move but I think it would help a lot of people, including me.
PS Your videos have helped me a lot and it makes me sad that you’re struggling and I can’t really do anything to help you, but I know you can get through it! I hope you feel better soon!!! Xx
I’ve just come out a mental health appointment and you’re so bloody great though for focusing on you.. I’ve been trying to focus on everything and they’ve told me to stop because it is “I should be like this, I should do this, I should get a job etc.” It’s so hard but it’s true we need to focus on ourselves and our own journeys!
I love your videos, you’re great at explaining things and encourage me to talk more x
so true hannah, focus on YOU! you know yourself the best, regardless of what professionals think. Im sending all my love to you xxxxx
marieroseeee so much love to you too marie, you talk about mindfulness and it’s something im working on do you recommend a type of mindfulness when your mood is extremely difficult?x
i’d like to see a video on how to hide self harm scars, your so inspirational! xxx
💜 yes, thank you Marie ✌✌
Love youuuu💘
love you!!
this vid made me smile :)💗
well elle, so did your comment xxx
ily💗
Yassss loved this video and would love the law of attraction video and hiding self harm in like a work or kid environment. 💗Xx
Thanks for answering my question!! 💜💜😊😊❤❤♥♥💝💝
Nobody can save you but yourself, and you’re worth saving. It’s a war not easily won, but if anything is worth winning then this is it.
You are stunning!!!
i'm really struggling with negative thoughts. videos like these are really helpful i feel less alone knowing others are struggling too and that its not just me. please do the selfharm video
I love the background music so much
Omg I thought I was the only one feeling addicted to negative thoughts
It will get better. Stay strong ❤️
Looking beautiful girl☺️what music is that at the start because it’s so calming? 😩xxx
Thank you.
Love the colours of this video btw.
thankyou so much!
@@marieroseeee the pendant and the pillow...was a smart choice
I love your background music
I'd really like to see the vid about hiding the scars pls💕
i remember you saying previously that you didn't think you had bpd because you didn't relate to others that had it, but there are a number of subtypes of the disorder (yay) and i know especially for me I'm a very quiet borderline and definitely don't seem to outwardly show or relate to all the (usually heavily stigmatised) stereotypes or impulsive of the illness.. don't really know where i was going with this lmao but love seeing you pop up in my subscription box, finding your channel in 2018 was honestly one of the best things of the year, love you lots and keep strong girl xxx
i love this video
I so relate to the whole mindfulness thing I have not yet got to the stage where I find it helpful I’m definitely in the stage now where I believe everything is complete bullshit and nothing will ever work, sending my love and hope you’re doing okay though x
oh eve i totally get you, maybe try changing your mindset to 'i can't wait for this to work' like give it a go and see if it does help, but totally get the frustration, im doing good, my love thankyou! xx
thanks for the advise on the drowning feeling, I have told someone but it is so hard to cope with. love you xx
im so proud of you. it will get easier i promise - often it gets a tiny bit harder as you process it but then its easier everyday from that, love you!!
@@marieroseeee yeah, thank you so much, it's a really isolating thing to go through and you get worried you will run out of air. Your videos help me and I really appreciate that. I am speaking to people (mostly teachers) and it's hard but I know it's worth it. Quick question, are you getting through Instagram DMs? (I understand if not because you said its difficult in a previous video xx)
Love you Marie
what you said about an addiction to negative thoughts was really interesting. I have a problem with intrusive thoughts (I have OCD) and noticing them is the most important thing. Instead of getting worked up over them you kind of have to take a step back and realise that you're falling into thought patterns and that it's just that - a thought
EXACTLY a thought is simply a thought! Sending love jess xxxx
@@marieroseeee xx
Yes I would love if you did a video on how to hide self harm!! Please
Is the mindfulness course you're talking about the one run by Mind the charity? If it is I did exactly the same thing, I went for two sessions and then never showed up again. To be honest I was really upset about the course because they made us get into pairs in the first session and I really did not appreciate that and thought it was bad of them to make us do that straight away if at all! Anyway, I really appreciate your videos and wish that I was as confident as you to speak about my own mental health struggles
I would love to see a video on how to hide self harm
What a beautiful dog.
Ughh i love this girl ❤️ also can someone please explain to me what mindfulness is? I have heard it a few times and im just not really sure what it is
Becca Donkin basically it’s just being aware of stuff you do like thinking about them while you’re doing them. For example taking a shower and thinking to yourself whether the water feels good against your body? It’s just an example or eating and actually thinking about what you’re eating. Maybe thinking about your day. You can even do this more by meditating
Would you be able to offer advice on the telling parents thing? Personally, I've recently been diagnosed with a personality disorder at university and with starting meds, self harm etc. I think it's really important they are made aware before I come home for the summer, but i'm finding it almost impossible to tell them. I've written a letter to give them but actually building the courage to do so feels impossible. Also, loved the video and your advice is always golden. Hope you're well
i love you so much
Nearly at 30kkkk😆💕
team 'absolutely said yet back to marie'
Big kisses, love and support from France 🇫🇷❤️
I never would have thought I would need to see a psychiatrist when I’m older. This seemed so far away. I always saw this in tv as a child and didn’t know so many people need to talk to someone. Now I’m in therapy because of my anxiety. My life changed so much, and I didn’t even noticed. I’m so different than I used to be as a child.
You are much younger than me, but I´m still struggeling and have problems like, what to do with my life and this illness.Thanks to you, i´m feeling better and I wish you the best!
Ima come at you.....and give you a big hug bc you deserve it 🤗♥️
Please do a video about hiding self harm and hiding scars xxx