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- čas přidán 18. 07. 2012
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I can't believe that being a virgin is a shame to some people..
Honestly i'm ashamed about it. I wish I didn't have to feel this way about it but I am always having to remind myself "okay i'm 18, it's still okay i have a few years left to lose it" I dunno it sounds silly but that's how I feel when i'm in college. I don't want to do it but you feel like an alien when you're the only one not doing it..
crazy4corbinbleux Don't have sex just because you feel pressure from the society around you. Chances are, you are not the only one not doing it, despite what it may seem like. Also, if you have sex when you don't really want to, you will most likely regret it. You are not the only 18 year old who is not having sex, there have been many before you, and there will be many after you. You aren't alone, even if it feels like it. Be true to yourself.
ser132 Thank You so much.. I don't think you understand how much this comment meant to me
crazy4corbinbleux Girl don't be ashamed, consider your virginity as something special you have that differentiates you from the other non virgin girls because it's rare nowadays in where you live. Another thing about it is that when guys know that you're a virgin, the bad ones will run away from you and the good ones will stay faithful to you. Please have a great attitude towards your virginity instead of treating it as an alien thing. A virgin sis right here HI5!
Maryam Abdul they are jealous of you nothing shameful about being a virgin
I don't understand why being a virgin is looked so down upon and taboo. It seems that it is more socially acceptable and celebrated to have sex. I'm 28 years old and still a virgin.
22yo. And the odd part? Depending on how good looking you are, it can be seen as disgusting and nobody wants you if you're less attractive, or cute and a lot of girls want to deflower you if you're handsome. I'm pretty good looking but not a single woman has made a move on me, it's like I'm invisible. Never had one girlfriend or date.
wow im the same 27 almost 28 and still virgin , u r such great loyalty person , only the smart person who will marry u , once he know u stay all that log virgin then he should know that a women who never give her body to anyone before marriage then she will never ever cheat on her man and give her body to someone while she is married, cuz that type of women is really strong and she smart and know that it doesnt worth to lose her life just for having 10 min fun with someone and it doesnt worth to make god angry and do such a big things just for 10 min fun, only the smart ppl who once they know a girl who stay virgin that long they will never ever leave her, god bless you
Thank you so much for your words Mamdouh! It means a lot. Blessings and love your way!
yw but thanks you for protecting urself and understand that what u did is the right thing and its for ur own good, i thought only Muslims who follow this, or all Arabs with different religion jew christians Muslims, and i know there is very less ppl in USA UK EU they follow that too but its really hard to find, at any other countries that not Muslim or arabs countries, plus person like you are even stronger than us cuz u around all ppl whos doesnt follow this so it will be hard to follow what u believe while every one else dont, you u think million times to be like them, u also facing bad ppl who calling u with bad words like stupid not open minind etc,, and yet u still dont care about what they say and u follow god rules cuz its the right rules and its up on everything, so i really be very very very happy when i see girls in your country who understand that god rules is the right and know that its for their own good and they face alot of things and they still strong, so for god you even better than me you even better than other ppl in Arabs countries cuz its like you in mid of the fire and u never let that fire touches you, im sorry i speak too much always but always when im happy or angry i speak alot :) hope u find oneday the man who really deserve u and appreciated that he a unique diamond in his hand and he should never lost it
La Luna Bohemia yw but thanks you for protecting urself and understand that what u did is the right thing and its for ur own good, i thought only Muslims who follow this, or all Arabs with different religion jew christians Muslims, and i know there is very less ppl in USA UK EU they follow that too but its really hard to find, at any other countries that not Muslim or arabs countries, plus person like you are even stronger than us cuz u around all ppl whos doesnt follow this so it will be hard to follow what u believe while every one else dont, you u think million times to be like them, u also facing bad ppl who calling u with bad words like stupid not open minind etc,, and yet u still dont care about what they say and u follow god rules cuz its the right rules and its up on everything, so i really be very very very happy when i see girls in your country who understand that god rules is the right and know that its for their own good and they face alot of things and they still strong, so for god you even better than me you even better than other ppl in Arabs countries cuz its like you in mid of the fire and u never let that fire touches you, im sorry i speak too much always but always when im happy or angry i speak alot :) hope u find oneday the man who really deserve u and appreciated that he a unique diamond in his hand and he should never lost it
The way she talks about virgins its like its a disease or something!! First of all, if a guy is lucky enough to be dating a beautiful girl who tells him she is a virgin, he needs to kiss the ground she walks on and treat her like a princess because he instantly knows she 1.) has morals (rare in this sick world), 2.) Respects herself and her body enough to wait for the right man and 3.) When they finally consummate their love, he knows she comes to him clean and free of baggage, he will never catch a disease from her, he doesn't have to worry about dealing with another guys off spring. Men of the world, if you should be lucky enough to meet such a treasure, you better recognize just what a gift you have been given!
not everyone likes virgins. its a personal choice which you could be damned doing or not. so dont be so quick to judge or be mad. i prefer someone with my experience level or better or close. im by far not a virgin. i have only had sex with girlfriends and most ended on good terms. we're good. virginity not a big deal for me but i prefer someone more experienced.
*****
the right woman yes, but i prefer a woman who is already strong in her own way. not that virgins are not strong to me. i think they are very strong but maybe not in the way that will make me feel so lucky to be with her. that extra spark that lets me know i have me a great woman that really gets me. i have to be too strong most of the time so for me i like a woman to come in turn off the tv tell me to shut up and surprise me. its a nice sentiment that she is showing me that she is strong for me as i am her. its give and take. now if the right virgin is willing to do that for me then i am all on board. it doesnt just go with sex either. its goes in all aspects. when i need back up she is there to say what i cant for whatever reason.
*****
you are totally wrong sir, you cannot mold someone (a virgin) into liking what you like and doing what you do. just because they are virginal doesn't mean they don't have preferences of their own, a friend of mine married a man who thought like you do, she was a virgin, and after they got married she hated everything he did to her in the bedroom, she thought it was her fault maybe she just hated sex so she divorced him and found a man that pleased her in the bedroom and married him, even though you're a virgin you are NOT a lump of clay.
What about a woman who isn't a virgin? She can have morals too and I think that her value shouldn't be based on her vaginal status. A woman is so much more than her sexual status, which is also private. There are plenty of non virgin women who are moral, disease free (also, you can get an STD without having sex) no children and genuinely good-hearted, so why shouldn't she be treated like a princess too? I think that putting so much emphasis on a woman's sexuality is treating her like an object, but on the other side of the coin.
i have no problem treating a virgin or non virgin like a woman should be treated. either is the same to me. but in terms of sexual prefernce i just prefer a non virgin over a virgin. im not saying a hoe..i never call women that name but women sure find it appropriate to call other women hoe, slut bitch etc..so men in turn started doing it as well. then he gets slammed . how hypocrital. maybe we could both stop slamming every man and woman we think are not doing the right thing...
She's talks about being a virgin like it's a bad thing wtf is up with this world!
It's backwards
LyricalMasterMind1 yup :(
the hard truth hehe!
Because she's old, rotten and all loose.
being a virgin is a pretty mess cause its much nicer to have experience.
I'm 20 and a virgin! here's the weird thing: I was NEVER pressured by men to have sex, I mean yeah of course there are those guys who just come right out and say "I want to have sex with you" But what I mean is that I was never really pressured by men for being a virgin, I was pressured by WOMEN (Yikes) -_______-
All of my girlfriends would say "Are you STILL a virgin?" "When are you going to have sex?" "Why are you still a virgin?" My answer would be the same every time: "Probably because I won't just fuck any guy that calls me pretty."
That usually shut them up. I was just in shock that more of the pressure for me came from women, I expected it form the men (Sorry guys, not trying to bash you,)
honestly same.
Same here. I think most women just compete more with each other which is sad. Instead of supporting and uniting, we're too busy trying to one up or out do or tear another down and distance ourselves from each other YET we have the same struggles. :/
It's ridiculous. I do think women do compete more, but with sex....why? lol
its because most of them probably lost it to some d-bag and regret losing it and they just want their friends to be like them too. you can always lose your virginity you can never get it back!
samarztk exactly
I'm a virgin and I'm happy that I'm not sleeping around. That's just nasty. I would get married to special one
+Nia Glasco
what if you like everybody?why do you think people stay virgin before marriage???
Deejay Gurra either way, who cares? It's their body not yours so mind your buisness and drank your drink.
Everybody marries someone special. Or hope they do.
She's talking about virgin girls like they are infected or something lmao. Being virgin just shows that you have enough self respect, that you won't give away your dignity and purity to someone that's not worth it. Be proud!
Nina D the reason why she speaks in that way is because she lacks morality and she is jealous. She probably had sex with a ton of guys and she had feelings for these men but none of them wanted her (maybe because she was so obliging) and now she’s hurt, she doesn’t want to admit it and so she acts the way she does.
" would you date a virgin?"
Sounds so rude.
I don't care what anyone says. I'm a virgin and staying one until I'm happily married. I'm a Christian, it's my beliefs and if a guy can't respect that then he CLEARLY is not the one. I don't get why these guys think it's a turn off. It's clear they were trying to be polite, and didn't really want to say something. I personally think that all guys aren't like that. There are plenty of men around the world who value virginity VERY much and will be happy that that their wives saved themselves. And guys can save themselves for marriage too. Let's not make this a double standard.
Plus my generation pisses me off because everything is about sex. If you don't have sex you're a prude. If you have sex, you're a whore. Women can't win. And it isn't just guys who set these standards, because some women call each other these names too. I just think if you've chosen to remain a virgin, then stick to your guns and what makes you happy. If you've decided to not wait for marriage, then PLEASE be safe. Best of luck to everyone.
That's the best comment!
tb11212 LOVE you right now.
I like the breakfast club reference haha
Great comment! The best comment.
Just hope your husband is a virgin too.
I'm 22 and a proud virgin
Same here just not sure if I'm proud about it though. I would like meet a decent girlfriend.
amen! me too and guess what i dont care!
me too!!
I can bet you're saying it here but infront of people when you live you act like you're not
You're beautiful!
I am 21, a virgin & will be until I'm married & not ashamed because my mom raised me and taught me that is a gift for my husband only, also I'm a Christian & the Bible tells us our body is a temple of the holy spirit.
+Juanita Sims Amen to that :D
Same girl! I'm a Christian too and I'm turning twenty next week. I've never even held hands with a guy romantically lol. But I don't give a shit, cos when the time is right, God will provide me with my own husband who will love me and respect my sexual status of being a virgin.
Thank you! Let all read that sex before marriage is adultery. I'm putting it all out there . That's what the bible says so flee from temptation and resist the enemy and he will flee from you
meggie Black In Corinthians, Paul says we should flee from sexual immortality. Not run away from sexual immortalit. But flee. That says alot.
Sex before marriage is fornication. Adultery has to do with being married, but having sexual relations with someone other than your marriage mate.
"would u date a virgin?"...times have changed...back then the question would be, "would u date a non-virgin?"...and then the answer would be "no"
Only in western societies.
@@mrbust999 lies cause I know a Muslim girls who open their legs are and still pray 5 times a day had abortions dct
The question is whether a virgin will date them in the first place??
Do girls like virgin guys? No.
Do girls SAY they like virgin guys? Yes.
Am I going to abandon my beliefs just to please women? No.
I disagree, in a world of STD's and baby daddy's walking around, it would be nice to meet a good looking, smart guy who has enough morals and respect for himself and for women in general that he wants to wait until he is in love or married. Back when society was civil and sane a man or woman was expected to be a virgin until marriage and if they weren't they were out casted and labeled as a shameful whore! If that were still the norm this world would be a lot better off, there would be no need for STD vaccines or stress over unwanted pregnancies.
It's the same with girls liking "geeks". They say that, but then someone that plays WoW asks for a date, that's just too real! They want someone with non prescription glasses that wears a bow-tie, a Joseph Gordon Levitt if you will..
Sasha Kearley Dat WoW gold though, you can't resist it.
Nothing wrong at all with a guy who chooses to remain a virgin.
My boyfriend is a virgin at 30 and I'm (25) a virgin as well. In fact, my policy is only to be in relationships with virgins.
there are alot of countries in the world that virginity is golden. So if your a virgin maybe an American man isnt for you. Virginity isnt something most american care about anymore and its sad. It shouldnt be seen as shameful but celebrated like having sex is. Its a double standard forsure.
Yes bellarose
It doesnt have to do anything with americans. We cant blame all americans for some stupid people and idiots. You can clearly see that when people make a mistake they try to make seen that is normal when its not. Back in the days been virgin was gold. People started having sex like crazy. Just to have sex, and now they call virginity rare. This is the kind of videos or things that make me say WTF its wrong with people. Quick qurstion. Who would like to marry a pornstar?
***** Hey you're on the BGC videos :)
i need a non american man then but be careful euro guys can be worse. This french guy humiliated me when he knew and would make comments like "oh im so innocent" and basically trash me in the ground. Then he picked a non virgin girl over me...the world hate us
I don't get it, some men are like 'Ooh a virgin' and others are like 'eww a virgin
everyone who's virgin should be proud of them
🤣🤣Not really.. Its painful story behind being virgin..
@@lavyDW I am a virgin and I am 19 (boy). Can it be that I just did not fall in love with someone to date?. I might be attracted sexually to some girls but that does not mean that I love them.
I would say it's better to be a virgin for a long term relationship,just like my parents did,they both married virgins and they are still together after so many years.
@@lavyDW 304
@@amukbir8777 Cheers Up Bro, im almost 19 n Virgin
@@russellwestbrookyellingatw9381 yes
24 and I'm not even ashamed to admit that I'm still virgin and nope, not planning to lose it until I'm married. Gonna save it for my one and only. I got you bro.
So being a Christian and waiting until marriage is bad? Wow.
+Makoto Tachibana No do your thing dude. I admire people that do things in which they truly believe in. If you wanna stay virgin until marriage, do it and i'm sure you'll be proud of that later :)
Yeah I’m 17 and so many people are ashamed of me but I don’t care because in doing it gods way 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes
It's primitive
Not waiting until marriage, that's not necessarily bad.
My first 3 boyfriends were Virgins, I've never had a problem with it. It means they are clean and usually come with less baggage emotionally. If a guy was saving himself or just hadn't had sex for whatever reason, it wouldn't bother me. My current boyfriend of 6 years wasn't a virgin when we met and wanted sex right away which I'm not into. I like to take my time and get to know a person before jumping into bed.
Amen. Wow! U took the words out of my mouth
I'm a 17 year old female and i'm a virgin (: Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 6months and he has been so understanding and supportive. I am extremely proud of myself. My virginity is something i want to give to my husband. it is a precious gift that only ONE person can have and my husband, whoever he may be, deserves it.
You're beautiful.
I am 25 and a virgin. Women run when they find out that i'm a virgin. I am a hell of a electrician though.
I may sound naïve, but I want to be honest. I don't get why certain people are ashamed of saying they're a virgin. I mean you're not going to say it out of the blues but if the conversation comes up, I don't see why it is a big deal. On the contrary, I honestly would feel uncomfortable knowing my boyfriend has seen another woman naked before me. Similarly, I don't really want to see any other guy naked other than him. If we're "unexperienced" at least we're both on the same page and I'm sure we'd get "better" by time. And call me "traditional" but I think it would be nice to share the first time with that one special person who you think you want to spend the rest of your life with.
I believe that waiting is the recipe for a valuable and successful relationship, because you get to know each other beyond the physical. If a man is mentally mature and truly loves the woman for who she is then why wouldn't he be able to wait? That is not a deal breaker for a REAL man. Only boys are driven by sex.
agree 1000%
Yup
+Daphney Marc "Only boys are driven by sex"? I'm sorry but that's one of the dumbest things I have ever heard. If you're a virgin male and are dating someone, your sexual curiosity and hormones and urges aren't going to make you a "boy" :P Of course men who haven't gone there yet are going to want to know!
+slug237711
Ummm.... Yea thats definitely not what I meant. Only boys are driven to make decisions solely based on sex. A grown man knows that women are more than just sexual beings, and can look beyond sexual gratification when it comes down to establishing relationships. Thats what I meant.
Daphney Marc Gotcha
the guy with the accent was trying super hard to make himself seem like the best guy alive lol
Or he's a genuinely good guy. They do exist :P
😂😂😂😂😂
+Attitude Boxing News I am nicer than that and I've been single my whole life. I wouldn't have said they existed if I didn't have an example :3
i'm sorry, but I find it a very veryyy big + point if a girl is still a virgin.. it's like she's still got her dignity.. perfect.
What about the man???!!! He has no dignity?!!!
I understand that sometimes men crave for a more 'experienced' woman, but I hope he doesn't cry later when some other ex shows up and said "he tapped that."
No serious man craves for damaged goods
I don’t get it, why is being a virgin so horrible these days?! it’s like hard for them to except someone who is a virgin, sorry for having respect for myself and staying clean and waiting for the right person
Virginity is precious .
Save it for someone who truly respects you.
Virginity is outdated.If one can have sex early why not.
However protect yourself with a condom or whatever.
I think it shouldn't matter if you are or aren't a virgin. It's a PERSONAL choice. I'm a virgin still but I have no regrets :)
It is my wish to stay pure till marriage, and I am not ashamed to say it. I'm a Christian and am not afraid to tell guys that might be interested. If they don't respect my decision to stay pure till marriage, then fine; the guy won't be deserving of my time if he can't respect my personal beliefs.
***** thats true and god forbidden to do anything before marriage in all holy books Torah Bible And Koran , god forbidden it cuz god knows what men up to and what they going to do using women as toy , enjoying with them and do everything like husband and wife for years then leave her , what comes easy goes easy, when women gives herself to a man very easy then he will leave her very easy after he took everything , if ppl does everything before marriage then why there is something called marriage or if couples did everything before marriage like husband and wife then what is the new thing they will get after marriage ofc nothing will change , but this things is the beauty of the marriage, no one have the right to take it but ur husband and i do believe the the person who does this things before marriage will also done it while he or she already married , im so happy to see good girls here who protecting themselfs and their honer and hope u guys teaching ur kids the same thing no matter where u live Even if the whole world do it with wrong way , teach ur kid the right way to do it , cuz what comes around goes around :)
@@mamdouhwaheed50 rubbish talk sex is fine before marriage
I love that if she was a virgin. Hints that shes kept herself worth for somebody she knows will be with.
my bf broke up with me because i wouldn't give it up to him.
well then your now ex boyfriend never deserved it in the first place. So don't be heartbroken because he didn't love you enough to wait. Go find someone else worth your time girlfriend. ( or your a dude but same things eply )
I'm 31 and a virgin!!!! It can be done. And you're right sweetlovve, women are definitely the ones who have issues with it. One lady told me, "You're just late!!! LATE at everything!!!!" Smh.
Being late on bedroom is good though. Tell her.
Im virgin too and its unbelievable that women like the boys who slept with hundreds of girls in the past.
Women like that because it means he is experienced.
you dont have to be religious to save yourself but also thers nothin wrong with not if your an adult
I'm 28 and a virgin. I can't promise a lot of things, but I promised myself, God and my future wife that I will save myself for marriage. If someone can't keep a promise before they get married, then they are likely to break the promise while they are married.
If guys only date non-virgins, who's left to take that woman's virginity, making her "more attractive" to other men? I don't agree with this, and I think people should wait until marriage but just a question. Somebody out there has to make the girl not a virgin first.
Honestly, maybe if I was sexually active in high school or college my views would change, but if I have sex it will *only* be with virgins. I don't care if other guys think they suck and that they're slow or dull. It's the tenderness, gentleness and lack of rushing that would make it for me. But until then I'm still a virgin.
I think a woman that is saving herself for marriage in a wonderful person. :)
How about the men in the systemm
Maksim, just got a little more sexier in my book!
I love that guy with the accent!! Marry me pweaaaase :)
P.S I was kindof angry at Bethenney for saying if ITS a virgin. Virgins arent bad at all and sex should NOT be the first thing in a relationship or the first motive for talking to someone. SMH and its kindof rude how she judged Kendra for being a Playboy bunny also.
***** yeah he seems like a real gentleman! I love him! BTW we have the same name :)
***** woot woot haha :) & yes hes perfect! whos his brother?
***** thanks :) ill deff check him out
shut up bitch
@Puerto Rico Exactly haha!
I am a 28 yr old virgin and I respect that you are a male virgin!!!!!!!!!!!! It shows that you respect yourself.
In the olden days if a woman wasn't a virgin before marriage it was like a badge of shame. Think about the song : '' I wanna hold your hand '' ~ the Beetles. We're experiencing a major change in our morals. This is not a '' bad '' thing, merely a cultural change.
Elizabeth Paige totally agree 👌
Our culture is becoming more progressive and civilized than previous generation with primitive values.
It is a bad thing lol
People that are virgins are awesome because they wait for marriage or for that right person. They don't give in to peer pressure but they belief in themselves. "And I don't give a damn if anyone tells me or thinks that I'm weird because I'm 20 yr. old young woman and I am still a virgin." =D
What kind of a show is this? And what kind of a subject is this to talk about? I might get the relationship status of it, maybe general questions.. but why so detailed and up to a certain point, why so blatantly rude?
I'd date a virgin but waiting until marriage, respectfully, would be a dating dealbreaker for me. I would wait to get to know someone and if they needed six months, sure, but before getting married I want to experience every form of intimacy with them. Sex isn't everything but it is a pretty big part of my relationships and I couldn't make a life commitment with someone if I didn't know how they were under the sheets.
Imagine he was shit as well same thing happend to my friend she waited a month and it was so bad she got rid of him no pleasure quick ect
Hank Baskett would know about no strings attached with that question. Watch out for guys who give that same answer. Give Me a Chmerkovskiy brother with those values
When you're ready, you're ready. If it happens at 16 or at 30 doesn't matter. But some people get frustrated when they're over 20 and haven't lost their virginity yet, I have a friend who was so ashamed of being 17 and a virgin she lost it to a 30 year old friend of hers. JUST to lose it. I think you SHOULD be proud over yourself for not giving in to peer pressure, for waiting til you are truly ready (however long it takes) and not loosing it cause of shame. Don't you agree?
I just realized that her show is very similar to Jeff Probst Show!
Hope they air it worldwide soon! This would be so much fun to watch!
I did too and I have no regrets at all!!! My first kiss was on my wedding day also...I have been married 10 years!!!
I'm a 22 year old female virgin. I've never had a boyfriend and I've never been kissed. Just hang in there.
No, I'd never sleep with someone on the first date... I need to develop a connection first.
I'm a 19 year old virgin and I've been dating the same guy for lost three years now. He's well aware I want to wait til marriage and has never pressured me. I think if you want to wait you should and if sex if so important to a guy that it's a deal breaker then he's not the right guy anyway.
+Naomi W. Good on you! Both of you that is!
He's probably cheating on you behind your back. 😝
Naomi W. That's awesome, are you guys still together?
it doesn't make anyone better than anyone else, virginity is seen (by some people) as something pure and innocent that is why some people consider it something to be proud of.
I am a 24yr old female. I've only had one bf in my life and we were 18 when we dated. He was also a virgin. I thought it would be a great idea to date a virgin since we both were; except now he's not a virgin and I still am.....That was over 7yrs ago, and I haven't found anyone to want to date me since....The fact that I was in the media growing up running track like Lola is the only grace, I think that guys still approach me,smh
And now Maks is engaged to Peta! Yay!
The biggest mistake i made in my life was being a virgin. Don't let it ruin your life as well. If you are afraid of having sex with women, you might be gay, but its 2013 being gay isn't a big deal anymore just be who you are, if you are straight be straight if you are gay be gay but being a virgin is nothing to be proud of i should Know i still am one and my life is miserable without it. So I don't think we can judge people for doing it.
So Bethenny let Sal say two words..
Honestly, first times are always awkward. I'd rather have it with some1 who most likely loves me enough to be in a legally-binding relationship/commitment with me than not. I never understand when ppl say 'what if you are married and find out you both are sexually incompatible?' Like, if you are in a pre-marital relationship, decide to have sex with your SO and you guys are not 'sexually compatible' would you break up? No, you would learn. First times are difficult and sex is a new skill. It takes time to master.
🤣🤣 lies my friend broke up with hers cause of same reason he sacked bad in bed
I think the question is less about dating a virgin and more about dating someone who wants to continue being a virgin, even while with you. That's why they answered 'sex isn't everything'. I thought they were dodging the question but now I get it.
Go Maks! I didn't wait, it did hurt, and you don't want to be in pain on your wedding night, but bravo to the women who waited.:-)
Dating a virign who can really care about you is something really special... It is easy for me to just go to random clubs now that I am in a good financial situation looking for any one night stand I can get. This has not cured my depression.... Dating someone who hasen't been with anyone and truly cares about me probably would..
Michael Angst no sweetie. Take care of your depression yourself & BEFORE you get into a relationship. No one will cure your depression for you. Get a therapist
Im 27 and i just lost my virginity tonight
It wasn’t planned
Im sad honestly
im surprisingly impressed with the response from these lovley men...I myself am now interested in raising truly self respecting children in a tantric way witch will involve the much proven idea of courting not dating(witch is sex based) witch means getting to know the person with limited physical contact its more of a spiritual alchemy marriage that dose not need to be legally recognised but it dose normally mean a deep bonding and committed relationship.
He/she didn't say they were better. They simply said they were proud. Maybe it was an accomplishment because to them it was an example of their self-discipline. Maybe they're proud that they've stuck to a belief which is now no longer a social norm. There are many valid reasons to be proud, but I don't see how you could get "virgin superiority" from that comment.
My boyfriend's 19 and I'm 18, he's 2nd yr med, I'm 1st yr biomed. He was a virgin when we started dating, he's had plenty of offers from other girls but he wanted to wait "for someone special" his words. I have been with others, and I honestly wish I had waited. Sex involves emotion. At first I was a little skeptical, but now I'm so glad that we dated and then became official and then slept together, we got to know each first and this is the best relationship I've ever had.
What about if the sex was shit then ??
Ikmow someone who broke up with her bf cause he sacked in bed she waited a month for that I told her f him first next time so u can try them out
Wasn’t expecting that from Hank. Smart man
I dated a virgin and they always get nervous or uncomfortable when we are close to sex.
Even though I'm female and, if I were a male, I would think a man would want to because when they get married, he'll know that she's all his and I think he'll respect more because she is.
...my experience, even if a man doesn't want kids, women often find it a turn-off if he's not at least man enough to be ABLE to be a father. If at least only in theory.
And I'd rather die than become a father.
So I abstain from having sex, since I'm too unattractive, I don't trust contraceptives, I don't want children, I think one night stands are wrong and selfish, I can't stand being together with one person for more than a few days and I don't want to get married, Ever.
So I HAVE no hope.
Its called making love. You get to know the other person in the most intimate way. You give yourself to them completely. Its not something to just give up to any guy. Women used to wear white wedding dresses to symbolize purity, but now anyone can wear it, even though you're supposed to wait for marriage before you have sex.
Im 19 and a virgin :) Long story short, Ive been single for 3 years partially by choice but also havnt found anyone that has really clicked.. and my last relationship tried to pressure me into it when I knew I wasnt ready and I felt too young and it became a turn-off that he wanted to so bad. Im not saving it for marraige, but it would be nice to know the guy I lose it to could potentially be my future husband. Thats how I look at it.
The question is "Would you date a guy who is a virgin simply because he keeps getting friendzoned by ALL the girls? Keep in mind he isn't the kind of guy who wants to sleep with every girl in town he is just tired of being one." i bet they will say no because since he keeps getting friendzoned it means he is a "nice guy" and women for the most part WILL be friends with the nice guy BUT they will never date nice guys(the one that will text you ten times a day) until they are older past the age of 26 when their biological clock starts ticking fast
I a woman told me she was a virgin, no matter her age, I'd be honored that she finally found the courage
to show interest in someone, and that she chose me.
What greater gift than that can you possibly receive from another person?
lol, Maks is the complete opposite of fake. He is known for speaking his mind and staying true to who he is...he's as real as they get.
Sure, for most people, having a long-term relationship would be a third option.
For many, it would even be the first or the only option.
But I'm a loner by nature, and I can't be with any one person for more than 4 days before I start climbing the walls in sheer frustration.
Sexually speaking, I'm in a catch-22. And as for happiness, I gave up on that over 20 years ago.
I appreciate your little pep talk, though.
In countries like Italy or Greece, being a virgin is strange..I'm not saying it's good or bad because, everyone has his/her time about loosing virginity, but if someone would have said ''i am a virgin'' and he's/she's up to 16, others would have isolated him/her a bit..
they fuck anything in the whole europe
DUDE YOU ARE MY HERO! Shows a lot of self control. I still hold my V card and I prefer to date men that still have theirs. I think the divorce rate is high because people don't know how to control themselves, so I just think a marriage will turn out better if I wait for someone who has similar values like mines, as in saving sex for love. Way to be man!
Also, does NOT being a virgin/being promiscuous make you better than somebody else?
I am still a virgin at 27 years old.
I wouldn't look down on someone who said that they were saving themselves for marriage but I certainly wouldn't date them. Sex isn't everything to me but its a part of the deal if we are going to date. I would date a virgin who is willing to lose their virginity with me, and I would wait a while if I needed to but I couldn't wait for years to get married before having sex. Like what if we get married and I hate the way that they have sex?
There is another reason to not bring up being a virgin. When I was young and I held to my morals like a pit-bull. I never said anything but people figured it out. I'm a Christian and back then, I was always clean and though I dressed with modesty, I dressed nicely.
Then men wanted to be the first to make me dirty - that it's. They actually got on my nerves.
I don't know man. I've been watching so many videos about relationships over the last couple of weeks (and how little luck I've had with women in the last 28 years {I'm 50 now}) I don't know what to think anymore.
Maybe there are more people out there that should just accept that they're never going to find anybody know matter what they do in their life.
Max is great!
I wouldn't date a virgin and the reason being is because if they lose it to me, they're getting everyone that is tied to me sexually. I've known 3 guys in their early 20s a virgin. Dated 2 of them. The first guy I met when I was 18years old, he was a virgin in his early 20s and I was not a virgin. We were just friends because I wasn't looking for anything serious and was afraid that if his first time was with me, he would regret it because it would be casual. I've always been more attracted to the bad boys and friend zone the nice and virgin guys. The other 2 virgin guys I kind of regret sleeping with because it was like their first time was wasted with me and they're getting everyone that I've been with who've they've been with. And it's a more expectation to stay with them even if your feelings are not getting deeper for them. It's more easy to get attached to your first. I'm still attached to my first from my teen years.
what a lovely surprise Maks is :) so lovely :)
All right, support!
And you're of course right about positivity versus negativity. It's easy to see which of those will win out (most of the time).
But things are not so black and white when you get a bit older, you know.
I think to gain confidence and positivity in life, you need some sort of goals to work for.
This will give your life direction and some sort of purpose. And it will also function as a base for you to stand on.
I don't have any goals, though. I've no idea what I want.
The guy in flannel is trying too hard to be politically correct.
BooksWith Imani dude, you liked their own comment
Bethenny looks like Cher Lloyd
1:16 he looks so proud of himself haha cute
im not a virgin but i was raised no sex before marriage and therefore have known many girls who have made and do make this commitment to stay virgins until marriage. I find it really disappointing and hard to understand why there seems to be a negative reaction to this and why this seems to be evident in this clip - it doesnt seem very mature - why should it matter that much? why does it matter at all?
Wow this is sad. Why is being a virgin a bad thing? Like about at the level of a guy getting five girls pregnant? Or a 40 year old dating a 13 year old? Or a guy raping women? Seriously society why complicate things.
they are not saying its a shame.its just that sex is an important thing in a relationship and if you have sex after being married it can be difficult if its bad.but everyone can decide for his/her own how to deal with it
This is really a no-brainer, imo. I mean, if we were talking about a car, which would you rather have: a shiny, brand-new one, straight off the showroom floor, or a ratty old used model? I know a lot of guys would probably say take her for a spin first, but that's not how I roll. Not meaning to brag or anything. I'm not a saint. Just sayin'.
I don't understand why it shouldn't be a deal breaker if someone wants to wait until marriage. If someone believes in this this is not just saying something about their sex lives but about the way they think about sex and about life. I just don't believe in it at all and therefor I could never be with someone who wants to wait until marriage. That is not shallow or mean that is just being realistic.
I wish I was still a virgin (Coming from a guy.)
I love that Italian guy he speak factsss
I'm a 17, a virgin, and gonna keep it that way.
I am 26 and I am virgin I am a Christian I don't believe in sex before marriage and I don't see a problem of being a virgin. Lord your people are perishing because of the lack of knowledge
I'm sixteen, all my friends are 15 or 16 and in a group of 13 girls I'm the only virgin. I plan on waiting until I'm at least 18 too lose my virginity. I don't care if its unattractive, if a guy loves me he'll respect it. All my friends regret losing it early and I don't want to be like that. I'm very proud of myself for not giving into the peer pressure of my friends :)
max is even hotter to me now. his responses are perfect ❤