Teen Parents Get Custody Lesson from Judge Judy | Part 2
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- čas přidán 7. 06. 2022
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As Judge Judy has said before: Father's aren't second class citizens 🙄. Mothers who stop good fathers from seeing their children are terrible people
Yes, I fully agree.
Also, there are father's like mine who say exactly that but are not there.
Absolutely 💯
Yes 🙌🏾 it’s not fair to the children either. They have the right to have both parents in their lives.
You are smart. Crazy how that seems like common sense to people like us but you go out in reality and it’s NOT common sense. It’s intelligence in today’s society which is insane!!
Absolutely.
"I allowed him". THAT'S HIS SON! You don't allow a father to see his son. He should see him regularly, not when you "allow". 🙄 Disgusting.
By the blessing of the Court Lords, I read that in JJ's voice 😂---Well said!
I'm going through this now
@@moneymig good luck man. I was fortunate enough to get custody of my son in TEXAS! it’s notorious for taking rights from fathers.
@@franksta2006yeah I'm in shitty Louisiana they ain't no better
I've only seen this first video so far but if I feel someone can be or is a danger or harm to my children allow is the perfect word I would use. Father or not, or even myself. Harmful/dangerous adults should not be allowed to see the baby. It sounds like there's more to their story in the relationship so I'll keep watching the rest of the parts to the case but that's my opinion on anyone. If I am harmful or deemed dangerous to my children I should not be allowed to see my baby. Same goes with dad, aunt, uncle, grandma, etc.
It's disgusting how parents use their children as a pawn in their game of tit for tat.
Weaponizing children
That will never stop I have been there Still don’t understand why
Well what do you expect when parents act like children or in this case where the parents actually are children !
@@sharms888 truth
@@briel7904 Correction: When "women" use the child/children as a pawn....
"That's what happens when two idiot moron who are 17 years old make a baby, those are the kind of answers that people give each other when they're not old enough to give up their dolls but they make a baby. Now you're in this pickle, you're 18 years old and you have the responsibility of having a child, well you better grow up very fast" Another mic drop by the great JJ 🎤
Right
And the truth.
Mic drop of the month!!!!!!!! I had to rewind it to watch twice!
Best part 🔥🔥🔥ever well said Judge Judy 👏🏻.😎
If she don't tell it who will!?
People shouldn't have to hire a lawyer to see their child. Ever. EVER. Using your children as a weapon is vile.
I'm currently in this process right now! It's sad that I have to spends hundreds of dollars on a lawyer and paperwork just to spend time with my children.
there are some instances where it's necessary (like in allegations of abuse or neglect)
Wouldn't have to worry about that if people married and stayed that way.
@@lavinder11 ?
I work for a law firm and I can assure you it's absolutely necessary in quite a few cases. Never (ever) is a stretch. There are abuse and neglect cases, mental illness, etc. All circumstances are different and people can be very manipulative.
The smile on the dads face while JJ was telling her she had no more rights to the baby than him was priceless
@jerryneumann6666 how are you?
I love how Judy defends fathers. As a father myself it gives me hope for the future.
Yeah there's no hope. Judges around the actual family courts don't give a fuck about father's it turns out... I've seen my child ONCE since February(8months almost) and I've already dropped 20k on lawyers fees
Every time I hear a woman say this…..I’m like you do realize you’re cheating your child out of a very important relationship in their life right?!? What a shame!
True. I wish people would be smarter when having sex lol
And this is how children grow up with resentment
@@OmegaX_2340 ABSOLUTELY
That’s a teenager, not a woman
Out of "protection" for the child they are doing more damage depriving them of that precious relationship
Look at that young man. That is a look of someone who is relieved finally someone is speaking up for him, helping him to see he’s kid. Check homeboy’s smiling at the end though 😂🤣😂🤣😂
From what I gather, they live in a small town, she doesn't work, wants him to support the kid, but doesn't get to see his child without having cops called on his ass.
I'm betting that she has the town believing he's a deadbeat father... and for the first time, someone outside his grandma said "You're a good man."
@@Maninawig Nope. A girl claiming to be a former friend of hers commented on part 4. The girl had another baby and moved out state, effectively abandoning both Oliver and her youngest baby. The man was awarded full custody (or at least has default custody because the girl's not fighting him for it) and he has since married a woman with two children of her own and they live a happy family life. The girl on the other hand is something of a social pariah in her home town and absolutely no one is on her side.
@@Kaboomboo I wonder when she became a social pariah... before or after this aired?
At any rate, I am happy for him.
He was also crying earlier. He's finally understood
@@Maninawiggiven her own dad told her to leave home when she was pregnant, safe to say she was a social pariah before this case even happened. Even the people that took her in eventually wanted her gone because she was verbally abusive to them when they were taking care of her child and putting her up (according to the same comment about her child living with his father).
She actually has a baby father that wants to be in his childs life and shes not taking advantage of it is sickening because there are alot of women who dont have that
That grin on his face at the end. He was loving the judge
LOL, yes!
Can you imagine how good it must feel to have JJ tear apart the person trying to sue you?
@@MortonFMurphy it wasn’t about that though, he appreciated judge Judy’s emphasis on the importance of him being a father in his baby’s life and that he has just as much right to physical custody. I’d be grinning too if I was in his position and I heard that. And I’m a woman lol
He is still a loser
@@HH-yq6ch Especially if he _wants_ to be in his son's life. But she used the broken system against him to take him away. He must be wanting to jump for joy. He didn't even say a word for the rest of this case. He was loving every second of this.
This lady said “idiot morons” I am weak asf 😭
She’s another Gordon Ramsey 😂
"idiot morons ...when they're not old enough to give up their dolls, but they make a baby" 🤣🤣
SING it, Judy!!
The poor guy was nearly in tears around the 2:00 mark. He clearly loves his child very much and I cant imagine a father being kept from his child.
yeah i saw that too. he was finally being served justice.
In a small way unfortunately. I hope family court gives him and that baby full justice. This child is vile and vindictive. She doesn't even understand what legal custody is! The clerks office and a police station doesn't give you custody 🤦 I hope he fights hard. Her bringing him to court for the baby items that he probably bought is insane too. Get a damn job and support your child. You decided to make a baby, time to grow up. He's far more mature than her and is the only reason I have any hopes for this baby. @@yonagranger8999
She has a baby daddy that wants to be in his sons life and she’s interfering with it there are millions of single moms who wish they baby daddy was in their child’s life . She don’t work has nothing but apparently she making all the rules wow pathetic
Your right! as much as I cant stand my sons father, I don't keep them apart. My son loves his dad and that has nothing to do with me.... now when he gets older and sees what a horrible person he is that's another issue....lol
@@Chloe-de4ru Bless you! My mom did the same. Never stopped me from seeing my dad. Didn’t make it difficult. When I was a teen, I was kind of over it (he was a holiday dad basically). BUT over time he grew up and once I was in my 20s things changed and now we’re pretty tight. Would’ve never imagined that growing up. 🤗
There are also millions of single moms just like the sow in the video. Vindictive cows.
I'm so sick of children being used as leverage to punish a parent. It's sickening.
@Dannii my ex does it to me constantly
He is quiet. Very smart young man.
Judge Judy is so right, so many father's are made to pay the child support but not allowed to meet their kids.
She claims he was controlling she then goes on to say "I wouldn't let him see the child", I allowed him to see the child" sounds to me like there's a whole lot of controlling going on from her.
Mom and Dad better GROW UP and put the child FIRST !
I LOVE when she lets these bitter women know that they can just withhold kids from the dad just because they want to.
The problem is that in some states...they CAN. There are states where what the plaintiff said is exactly what is legal. Because they weren't married and haven't been to court, he has no legal rights to the kid until he does go to court leaving her with sole discretion on visitation.
It may not be right, but it is definitely legal in some places.
So when she said her lawyer told her that...I believe her because that's legal in some states.
@@Mewse1203 ....I'm pretty sure that's the case in the state that the couple reside in, JJ is just ranting without knowing the laws governing their particular state.
That’s terrible for fathers that actually want to be a part of their kids life
What if she is still breastfeeding, and what if he is abusive ?
@@delishme2 Bottle some up and send it with the child.
None of the adults in this young woman’s life have explained to her that even if she’s given full custody, it doesn’t mean that she gets to decide the father‘s visitation. Babies having babies 🤦♂️
yep. She is not even with her parents. They kicked her out. Their parents failed them. Here's hoping they can get it together.
Yep babies having babies. Some people might think I'm mean, but they should have put him up for adoption.
@@Karla07012 Not if she doesn’t grow up and we actually have no idea how the father is around his son but I do think they are both idiots in the first place so let that kid have a full life with two parents in one household loving it. Not two children one at least who doesn’t get along with the other or both not getting along together. Would actually give the kid a future and not a burger king manager living under both of their households going back and forth just disgusting. Again that kid could be an amazing father but not with the support of her, so he would be better off looking after his future cuz it looks like she doesn’t want to have one of her own
@@Karla07012 why? It looks like the dad cares.
@@Karla07012 why there's nothing to suggest the baby isn't cared for apart from her using him against the dad who wants to be a part of the babies life so once they get that sorted there's nothing to suggest adoption would be in baby best interest... How is not holding young people responsible for their own actions gunna help, having a baby young is a pretty good life lesson
I feel for the dude. He strikes me as the guy that finally got laid and then had a baby. Wasn't prepared for it at all and is bewildered by the whole situation, but at least would like to try and do the right thing. Maybe the next video will change my mind on that, who knows. But it's so sad that the child is caught in the middle of this. I had a coworker in the same situation. Teen mom, didn't really straighten out custody with the court and thought that the dad's word was good enough, but one night he wasn't giving their daughter back to her and she was in tears during her shift. What a messy situation.
He do look like a dude that got laid and had a baby the first time
What do you mean ‘finally’? 17 is still a child. Way too soon.
@@annataymond9529 as in he was probably awkward and was able to finally get a girl to sleep with him, not even comprehending the possible outcome.
He should have lived his childhood,got married and then have a baby.
@@annataymond9529 bruh what? People are having sex around that age? There’s literally people in high school having kids? What do you mean. As judge Judy would say “You’re an idiot!”
I like that this guy is smart enough to keep his mouth shut and only speak when Judge Judy asks him a direct question. JJ has always been consistent in believing that fathers are equal parents, not "second class citizens," and this guy clearly has a case that the mother is keeping his child from him even though she has no real legal right to do. All he needs to do is stand there and let the mother dig her own grave, and he's doing it. I love it.
Plaintiff: May I say something?
Judge Judy: You can say whatever you like!!
Judge Judy with the sass 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Judge Judy is one of the best judges. She stands up for father’s rights. We need more judges like her.
I love how fired up Judy gets when the cases involve family law. It's so easy to picture when she was a presiding judge in NYC family court.
I"m dying with Judge Judy. She is too funny.
WHOAA she worked for 3 whole weeks?? I would have lost my mind...that's a crazy amount of time to work without retiring. Brave hardworking girl.
Also she's clearly a vindictive terrible parent using her child as a pawn against the father. Despicable.
The sarcasm in this is loud 😭😭🤣🤣
@@tia-marianwagbolu4434 hahahaha
Did no one hear that he kept harassing her until she lost her job?
@@ruthpowell1944 No, no one heard. It would be good if a case was published where justice was served around this harassment where he (the harasser) was punished.
She had just given birth to a baby and was still breastfeeding. The US is crazy in that matter and JJ is stupidly ruthless here, too.
Day care for a baby under 6 months old is NEVER good. First year of a child is extremely important. 10 months maternity leave is a minimum FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILD in most of the developed countries.
She's not being fair..he has every right to see his baby.
She has NOTHING of her own…yet making rules. You can’t make this shit up🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
It's quite funny when you think about it....LOL
Man I love judge Judy. It's so so so refreshing to hear her defend a fathers right to their baby. She's representing actual equal rights
too many females like this who deprive the father of their child out of pure malice. Terrible mothers
What about all the dead beat fathers ?
@@delishme2 is that you Haley?
@@delishme2 Dead beat dads are in other videos. This video doesn't have a dead beat father, it has a manipulative mother
I felt sorry for the father. He was almost in tears.
Despite my father not being very supportive of us, my mom never deprived us of having a father, no matter how neglectful he can be. She said that it's his right to see us and it's our right to see him.
I never took my ex to court for anything. He was welcomed in my home any time, even had a key. And he saw our kids any time he wanted to
I am so sick of mothers keeping children away from perfectly good fathers. YOU HAVE EQUAL RIGHTS TO HIM. Just because you are mad at the dad does NOT mean you decide when he sees the child(ren). You doing that is proving you're not mature enough to have decision making about that child. Disgusting
Can you tell my brothers ex this? She asked my niece to ask my brother if she could change her last name to her moms news husbands name, and the ex ignores my brothers phone calls to try and talk to my niece, or tells him “she’s busy” or something like that. He calls 3 times a day and he’s luck to get to talk to her twice a week🙄
He was not perfectly good father.
@@agatanakonieczny2213 How tf you know that? Nothing on the video implied he was anything less than a working man who wanted to do the best he could for his kid. You honestly believe everything the sow said even though it did not have a single shred of evidence?
It’s not even about maturity. Many grown women, aside from this young woman, have this exact same mentality. It’s a cultural thing.
Tough love right there! I love how JJ is empathetic and firm.
My sons father and I have general child support custody arrangements. And believe me when I say… idc what the courts say, his dad will get him whenever and how often we both agree to. I would never keep my child from him just cuz we couldn’t work out.
Children having children
She is Deplorable!
I love hearing “just a second”😂
My boyfriend and I have two kids and if we were ever to break up, I would never deprive him of seeing his kids. That wouldn’t be fair to him or them. When you become a parent, you put your child/children first and you do what is best for them, not you. Why don’t people understand that?
❤ Please give this lady NOBEL PEACE PRIZE 🏆
I LOVE JJ !!!!!!!! She is always right specially when she is talking about fathers and mothers.
I love the dudes smile at the end. FINALLY someone is telling it how it is to his ex, and the best part is the judge, and even better it’s on tv so everyone can see and understand this.
He has a smug smile that tells me he’s told her this before and she always uses the mother card as justification to do what she does.
And knowing who this girl is, he didn’t let her take their son that one time because she most likely did something that could be a hazard to the child. Even her “best friend” started to hate her. They only kept her for so long because of the baby. This girl clearly just wanted to have the baby to spite him, but didn’t actually want him.
Luckily, she’s outta the picture now and the baby is just fine.
I hope that the father gets sole custody.
I'm infertile, and I always think it must be nice for some women to have babies just so the government supports them as the biological mother. Fathers need to be considered more, not only because not all men are deadbeats, but because this weird entitlement between who the child 'belongs' to with mothers is frightening me.
I had one child and didnt want anymore. If I could I'd give my uterus to someone who want to be a mother. My kid has giving me meaning and I really want to be able to share that if I could.
BABIES NEED MOTHER. DADDY BY AGE 2 .
If you had a child you might think differently. It's all cerebral for you, totally different when you have one.
It’s not my fault you can’t produce kids like a real woman. Get a life and stop judging women that can actually have kids😴🥱
@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei God will have a great lesson with you. You need to find some humility, smh disgusting
2:45 HAHA why is judge Judy so damn honest!!!😂😂😂
As a mother ; i like that JJ holds both parents accountable in situations like this. She can’t even take care of the baby if SHE had to, but got the nerve to withhold visitation smh
For all the pontificating Judge Judy does about how fathers have as much right to their children as mothers, she never suggests that fathers get any custody..... only "visitation" with their own child. And PAY "support".
@@broeheemed32 that’s always my go to when men complain… “get your kids full time”
Then there’s silence lol
Judge Judy is my hero
I love that Judge Judy respects a father's right to see their offspring.
too many times women have all the rights and the father is thought of as a second class parent who is only allowed to interact with their child with permission from the woman.
Judge Judy gets it right, unless a parent is abusive to the child there is no good excuse for both parents to be in the child's life!
Why are certain mothers think they are entitled to particular rights.
fIgHtINg fOr EqUaLiTy
She’s a child. And a stupid child at that.
Judge Judy is so right!
😂I just caught the smile on the defendant at the end when JJ is probably saying exactly what he’s been saying lol.
Ok…the hair on the guy in the suit behind the defendant is insane!!😂😂😂
Defense attorney.
The way Judge Judy roasted her is so funny 😅😅
I love to watch these episodes and hear Judge Judy defend for good Fathers because I go through this with my ex wife at times.
I’m happily married (13 years), however if anything happened I would not deny my hubby our kids (14, 11, and 4).
The only time a parent should be kept away from children is if there is an issue of neglect.
Children are not possessions. For that simpleton to think she decides whether the father can see the baby is absolutely ridiculous.
✨get her Judy ✨
My reaction too at 2:49 with the girl in the back..🤣💀
4:16 I’ve seen this before but this shot really took me by surprise. It’s so rare to see the nameplate in her desk.
I love this episode because she regularly defends good fathers and this was no different! Also it’s sad to see the poor baby grow up like that😢No child should be cheated out of a relationship with their father especially w that kind of mother
I absolutely love judge Judy
4:52 dudes smile is DUBS🤣 he knows Judy on his side 100%😤💯
I need judge Judy for my court case with my kids 🙂 I haven't had much luck with judges yet
If the FATHER was the one saying he wouldn't let the mother see her child in such a nonchalant way, everyone would be gasping. As a woman, hearing her say she "didn't LET him" see his son is disgusting. Just because us women can carry a human for 9 months because men were born unable to, that doesn't mean we were the ONLY ONES who create said human. It's selfish and immature. And no child should have to go through that sort of bs. And the thing is, even grown-ass women do this, just out of spite instead of thinking of their child having a normal life.
That's the law in CA, no custody order, mom automatically has the custodial rights.
2:06 it’s not only about the fathers right to see his child; what about the child’s right to see his fathers?? This is the part where some woman get all confused.. Also, court orders don’t come from the police station; they come from the courts after being signed by a judge….
Unfortunately, and disgustingly, many states have laws that actually do give mother default custody when a child is born out of wedlock. It's completely abhorrent but perfectly legal for her to keep the child from him in such a state until there is a court order for custody. 🤬
Well bc she carried the child so of course it’s by default
@@xoangelicaf0523 doesn’t mean she is more of a parent than he is because she carried it?
The fathers have a lot of time to get married to a child's mother before the child is born.
This would help everybody.
You are family now
@@xoangelicaf0523 ok so she can also pay for that child on her own. You sound like the same person who would say it’s her body so it’s her choice to kill the baby while it’s still in the womb if she wants.
Takes time to pony up who is the dad then DNA work then court has to sort the mess out as to whom has parental right to the child
I love Judy & I agree father's should see their children & be able to see their children, but I'm sorry. If I carry a baby, get sick because I'm carrying the baby, painfully birth this baby out & the father isn't providing anything, won't watch him even while I shower, or anything then that's my baby. If you want to be a dad then be a dad, act like a dad, take care of your kids even when your baby momma isn't doing what you want her to. Good dad's should be able to see their babies & be in their lives. Children need their father's. If you aren't acting like a father though then there's no doubt the mom contributed more & should have more rights to the baby. These kids are young & dealing with petty junk. Raise that baby together as co parents & stop the BS.
Thank You Judge for saying what many of us wanted to say… 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Anyone notice even Ms. Bassett was looking at the plaintiff like WTF in the last minute of the clip?
Preach it, Judge Judy
A Father has JUST AS MUCH Right to see their Child as the Mother
Mothers who do this torture to their own children have NO IDEA that ramifications that come in the Future
YOUR CHILD WILL HATE YOU!
Everything out of her mouth is so painfully immature
He seems like a great father. He obviously cares enough to take her to court. I’m tired of dead beat mothers thinking they OWN there child. Let your children make their own choices, you created a baby together. When my husband and i were going through a. Hard time and I moved out. He got the kids 5 days, I got them 5 days and I didn’t ask him for a dime. 🤷🏻♀️
Also we’re doing great now this was years ago❤
Judge Judy has said this so many times. It’s 50-50 with the parents it doesn’t matter who’s male or female.
Judge Judy is biased and wrong. Him withholding the child for 2 days was way worse then her withholding the child... I couldn't imagine. Growing a baby, giving birth for hours(with they say is the closest you get to death), having that birth tear your sexual organ, breastfeeding, swollen breast, bleeding for 3 weeks after birth, stretch marks and weight gain (daily reminders that you had a child) is much much harder than busting a load which men can do alone. Man could at least work to provide and support his child while she is dealing with everything else. This guy is a nightmare.
50-50 may cause permanent psychological damage on a child, if one parent is a monster. Every case has to be deeply examined before setting the custody rights.
@@missindependent4711 were you there? A woman can be a nightmare as well. Nagging, verbal abuse, manipulation and they can take care of their “nut” as well by themselves.
@@snowwhite7704 there is no comparison. Men and women are 50-50. Women are not allowed to withhold children from their fathers because they got irritated or mad. That’s the problem with a lot of people. They feel a woman has more right to their children than men do. That is not the case especially when women are so eager to jump on men for child support. Get a job too. As Judge Judy said put them in daycare.
@@snowwhite7704 all I’m going from is experiences I’ve seen my friends face. They have been mistreated and taken advantage of by lowlife women. They were excellent fathers and husbands. You just had someone who wanted out and find richer more successful men who will take care of their “needs”. What they did to them hurt them more than words can say. Plus using their children to get what they want from their ex is disgusting.
It is so important that a father sees his son. A mother cannot bring up a boy to be a man, only a man can. Irrelevant what happened between the parents if they broke up!!! Stop punishing the child that both of you made!!! This is what destroys children!!! Selfishness
I LOVE how annoyed JJ got aggravated with her “can I say something?”s
Love Judge Judy!
They are gifts that her friends gave her for the baby. She should be able to keep whatever her friends gave her and he should keep whatever his friends gave.
One of my favourite JJ cases.
When the girl said “i cut his visitation rights” I knew she was gonna get it from JJ especially when the father is trying to Interact with his child 👀🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼
“ can I say something”? 😂😂😂she said a lot of nothing
I weep for this country.
Sounds like the only controlling one in this situation is the plaintiff.
Its so important for children to bond with their children when theyre babies. Its an important part of a lifetime relationship. Not allowing either parent access to the baby is wrong and detrimental to your childs growth. If the parent is capable, is not a danger to the child dont do it if u truly love your child.
"But he bad. He tried to keep the baby from coming home with me."
"You haven't let him see the baby for months. Why is that any different?"
"[no response so just starts crying for sympathy]"
What kind of mother would leave the grandmother’s house and not take the baby with her?
The judge implies she should have done so, but that would have been viewed as abandonment by an unfit mother.
The judge implies that you need to think twice before you move out.
These little brats always think the father has no rights this this is why I have been working to get into the legal system and fix a very flawed Judiciary system
Why was the defendant calling CPS?? Sounds like he’s “controlling” just like the plaintiff said.
Right. They both childish.
@@pennyproud1621 | I agree! Both childish
no that doesn't sound like controlling. Considering she is controlling everything
Judge Judy wisdom 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Why are you dictating when a father will see his child? like whyyyyy? when there is no case of harm ?? 🙃🙃Thanks JJ for saying it like it is!!
4:18 i love this moment. its a brilliantly laid trap this dumb plaintiff walked right into. JJ presents her words as if shes beginning to shift to her side. the mother relaxes, thinking shes finally gotten in. this continues for a bit. but then its suddenly snatched away at the last minute as JJ reveals the actual point she was making, and the mother suddenly doesnt have a leg to stand on because she was agreeing up to that point, thinking it was going somewhere else.
😂😂THANK GOD for Judge Judy...
Love you Judge Judy😘😘😘
In come the after works and pouts 😂😂😂😂 and JJ slams her! 😅😅😅
I love JJ🙌🏽
This poor dude.