Teen Parents Get Custody Lesson from Judge Judy | Part 1

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  • čas přidán 7. 06. 2022
  • Haley claims she has full custody of her baby with Christopher, but she doesn’t have a court order that says that.
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Komentáře • 876

  • @melodyrose2269
    @melodyrose2269 Před 2 lety +1151

    I went to school with her and her “best friend” no longer wants anything to do with her. She treated them horribly and yelled and called them names while they took care of her son. Her “best friend” actually raised her son and she’s actually a really good friend of mine and she told me what Haley did(not getting into details). Haley now lives in another state and doesn’t visit her son while chris(the father) has their son and takes care of him. The little one is now five years old and he is absolutely adorable and happy as can be❤️

    • @ILAKHALIDENM
      @ILAKHALIDENM Před 2 lety +131

      Omg I’m so happy for the child. Honestly this girl is so horrible inside, she doesn’t deserve the kid

    • @janewoods6937
      @janewoods6937 Před 2 lety +22

      How can the kid be five if this was filmed less then a year ago? Was she 13 when she had this baby? Do some basic math before you BS people on CZcams

    • @melodyrose2269
      @melodyrose2269 Před 2 lety +221

      @@janewoods6937 okay how about you realize that she had her baby in high school and I graduated four years ago. She had him in my junior year. This may have been posted a year ago but that court hearing was years ago girl😂😂 do your research about it if you don’t believe me.

    • @jonpendragon2066
      @jonpendragon2066 Před 2 lety +6

      Bull crap none of that is true melody is just upset haley wouldnt date her

    • @melodyrose2269
      @melodyrose2269 Před 2 lety +99

      @@jonpendragon2066 believe what you want🤷‍♀️ I’m telling the truth and no, I wouldn’t date her. I’m happily married to my husband and have an eight week old daughter.
      Y’all think I’m lying when I’m not😂😂 look up when this court case happened and then the math will add up lol Oliver is five years old now. By the way haley is 22 years old now. Do y’all really go off when something is posted on CZcams? Jesus y’all need to think before you type🤣🤣

  • @francisfaustino
    @francisfaustino Před rokem +479

    I like how confidently she said that she has "sole custody" like she knows what she is talking about.

    • @marissathomas9327
      @marissathomas9327 Před rokem

      Right 😂 she sounds ridiculous like the child she is 😂

    • @debongarrigues9177
      @debongarrigues9177 Před rokem +19

      the deep-sigh she makes when JJ starts getting to the bottom of her lie. Priceless

    • @loveofmangos001
      @loveofmangos001 Před 10 měsíci +4

      I consider it a bad thing when a place like Burger King doesn't want her

  • @Daniellehiu
    @Daniellehiu Před 2 lety +1165

    As soon as I heard her say she decides when he sees their baby I knew JJ was about to eat her up. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @jenniferbangerter5128
      @jenniferbangerter5128 Před 2 lety +14

      For breakfast is a Mom who decides when the father should see his child

    • @TommieGun71
      @TommieGun71 Před 2 lety +21

      @@jenniferbangerter5128 ...WTF?

    • @Kokoism
      @Kokoism Před 2 lety

      @@jenniferbangerter5128 weirdo

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 2 lety +3

      THE GIRL IS BEAUTIFUL, I hope she knows it.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 2 lety +2

      Every time JJ has a beautiful young blonde she acts extra mean. I guess J.J.'s husband must glance twice at young blondes or redheads.

  • @kyoto32001
    @kyoto32001 Před 2 lety +995

    telling your girlfriend that it is not ok to be a drunk and sleep with other guys is NOT "being controlling"!!!!

    • @samg873
      @samg873 Před 2 lety +13

      Right?

    • @robertschaaf7192
      @robertschaaf7192 Před 2 lety +23

      of course it is. if you can't deal with a drunken promiscuous partner just move on.

    • @robertschaaf7192
      @robertschaaf7192 Před 2 lety +10

      @Crazy Cat Lady you're right on so many levels but speaking as a statistic my experience leads me to believe two incompatible people should move on and let the child grow up with mother or father and a step parent in a nurturing home environment.

    • @robertschaaf7192
      @robertschaaf7192 Před 2 lety +2

      @Shelly Sayers it's easy for me to tell others how they should be doing things lol

    • @Oncearanger88
      @Oncearanger88 Před 2 lety +3

      @@robertschaaf7192 I neither one of them have a stable environment. She never works and he works at a minimum wage job and doesn’t really do his research on being a father

  • @Dark_Angel07
    @Dark_Angel07 Před rokem +102

    She claims that he's controlling, but she won't let him see his own kid.

    • @gRinchY-op5vr
      @gRinchY-op5vr Před 12 dny

      Also notice she brings up scenarios to prove he's either controlling or has anger issues when JJ brings up exceptions to fathers having limited access to their kids, like she makes them up on the spot so she'll change her tune and agree with her. None of the stories she tells changes that they don't have an official custody order so she can't dictate whether or not he sees their son

  • @GerardoHernandez-sf1wt
    @GerardoHernandez-sf1wt Před 2 lety +424

    Judge Judy used to preside over family court cases - no surprise she'll tell it like it is.

    • @anacletwilliams8315
      @anacletwilliams8315 Před 2 lety +2

      No surprise at all, Yago. JJ knows her business.

    • @mattstorey7256
      @mattstorey7256 Před rokem +1

      Interesting you mention that. Have you ever seen the Larry King interview of her? Great watch. See talks about her days on family court and says that she found it very frustrating and why she takes the time to educate litigants in her show in these types of cases. She says that at least 3/4 of the family court judges, lawyers and counselors are woefully ignorant or willfully biased when it comes to parental custody cases. That it irritated her when they started with the premise that mom is superior parent and dad is some type of flawed being. That in a society that claims equal rights and protections for all, a court system would actively seek to upend that premise and treat one parent at a disadvantage.

  • @EerieVonIII8574
    @EerieVonIII8574 Před 2 lety +659

    Kids having kids. Never a good idea

    • @carey8498
      @carey8498 Před 2 lety +28

      At least, they chose LIFE as opposed to abortion/murder

    • @frodo322
      @frodo322 Před 2 lety +68

      @@carey8498 oh no 🤦‍♂️

    • @de4700
      @de4700 Před 2 lety +105

      @@carey8498 yes they choose poverty, ignorance, and suffering. Life is more than just drawing a breath.

    • @carey8498
      @carey8498 Před 2 lety +21

      @@de4700 If they are incapable of caring for the child, adoption is then the best option - surrender the child to a better home.

    • @DD-d6d3
      @DD-d6d3 Před 2 lety +50

      @@carey8498 abortion is health care.

  • @toasted_.coconut
    @toasted_.coconut Před rokem +392

    I appreciate the young man dressing appropriately for court.

    • @Lisa-jp4uj
      @Lisa-jp4uj Před rokem

      SMH oh please let's give him accalaids for putting in a suit.

    • @shroudsshadow9998
      @shroudsshadow9998 Před rokem +5

      The dressing appropriate for court is a waste of fucking time like people like me who work outside and get dirty and only have dirty work clothes. We don’t have nice things to wear to court just to show up for one fucking day to show our clean clothes for no reason the whole clothing thing about court is absolutely fucking benign to me

    • @AllHaiLKINGTIsHeRe3
      @AllHaiLKINGTIsHeRe3 Před rokem +10

      lol it's obviously the first suit he's ever tried to wear in his life. Also, combing your hair goes a long way guys, just saying.

    • @ToeKnife166
      @ToeKnife166 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Really you can’t afford one suit or a dress

    • @slavbrav69
      @slavbrav69 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@shroudsshadow9998 raging over clothes in court , your a 🤡

  • @RedPanda79
    @RedPanda79 Před 2 lety +496

    I wish more dads would fight for their rights

    • @FJ-rh6io
      @FJ-rh6io Před 2 lety +36

      I wish they didn't have to fight so hard.

    • @igotjokesss205
      @igotjokesss205 Před 2 lety +14

      @@FJ-rh6io They don’t, courts usually favor the father.

    • @FJ-rh6io
      @FJ-rh6io Před 2 lety +36

      @@igotjokesss205 literally the opposite is the case but ok

    • @igotjokesss205
      @igotjokesss205 Před 2 lety +20

      @@FJ-rh6io but in over 90% of custody cases the only reason women get sole custody is because both parents agreed on it without a family court intervention. So the claim that men need to fight so hard is invalid.

    • @FJ-rh6io
      @FJ-rh6io Před 2 lety +7

      @@igotjokesss205 uh.. Source?

  • @groowanderer
    @groowanderer Před 2 lety +1203

    Having only watched this first one, I can't believe how many guys don't understand that without an order you've got just as much a right to the children as the mother. I put my foot down day one and said nope not on weekends, not at your discretion, 50-50 until we have a hearing. I'm now the primary custodial parent. Fathers have equal rights. They're often just too dumb to know what that means.

    • @zariaeda007
      @zariaeda007 Před 2 lety +51

      That's only if you were married. If not the father doesn't have rights until paternity is established. The law does not assume you are the father if you were not married.

    • @chriscode6431
      @chriscode6431 Před 2 lety +24

      Exactly. Men need to know their rights.

    • @tellyboo2455
      @tellyboo2455 Před 2 lety +16

      I’m a female & yes omg !! 🤞🏽🤞🏽

    • @groowanderer
      @groowanderer Před 2 lety +43

      @@zariaeda007 that's not at all the case in my experience. Could be different state to state perhaps. I was given the paperwork designating that I'm the father right there at the hospital on the day that my kids were born. At that point you can deny parental rights temporarily until a paternity test is done. But if you know it's your kid then you sign. Done deal for the rest of their lives. We were not married.

    • @orelas167
      @orelas167 Před 2 lety +3

      @@zariaeda007 Well stated, but paternity be established... at the initial hearing.

  • @dreampsi2
    @dreampsi2 Před 2 lety +147

    "who gave you sole custody of the child" ....."the town clerk" LOL

    • @purselmer5931
      @purselmer5931 Před 2 lety +19

      Yeah, that's one very powerful town clerk. LOL

    • @deadspacegrave2219
      @deadspacegrave2219 Před rokem +3

      I know right ? She’s in contempt of a custody order

    • @psoteriou3884
      @psoteriou3884 Před 24 dny

      May as well have been the guy working at the gas station 😅

    • @gRinchY-op5vr
      @gRinchY-op5vr Před 12 dny

      ​@deadspacegrave2219 there is no custody order, which is JJ's point. No order means neither of them can dictate anything about who does what with the child and when, she just thinks because she's the mother she gets to decide everything which is BS

  • @MsBonitaDinero88
    @MsBonitaDinero88 Před rokem +29

    "There was nothing so you have nothing" 💀🤣🤣🤣 Judge Judy is hilarious!

  • @aporlarepublica
    @aporlarepublica Před 2 lety +294

    "I have sole custody so I can decide wether or not he can see the baby".
    "Because I say so, there hasn't been a court order or anything", she forgot to add.
    How I hate this kind of people who consider themselves so entitled to do whatever they want and decide over other people following their own whims.

    • @deena7933
      @deena7933 Před 2 lety +18

      💯💯 and they are only hurting the CHILD

    • @fruitloopdigus1843
      @fruitloopdigus1843 Před 2 lety

      If you go check out judge Judy's titok there a lot of people who didn't understand the whole case and it was only a 15 sec clip. Please check it out bc oof there is a lot of them in those comments

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 2 lety

      @@deena7933 its an infant, it doesn't know a thing.

    • @biff5856
      @biff5856 Před 2 lety

      Two irresponsible sponges.

    • @larasworld1111
      @larasworld1111 Před 2 lety +1

      Why have kids at such young age and waste life away after that. Circle of life keeps repeating.

  • @MrCamp
    @MrCamp Před rokem +27

    “I have sole custody.”
    Yeah, because you took the baby with you! That’s not a custody order.

  • @jessypash9599
    @jessypash9599 Před 9 měsíci +25

    I love when JJ gets family court cases. She’s done it for so long that she is fair, honest and tells it as it is.

  • @jdspreest
    @jdspreest Před 2 lety +88

    I can't stand it when women think that they automatically have "sole legal custody" of a child. No, you don't!! I'm glad when Judge Judy mops the floor with these vile women.

    • @R.M.3.14
      @R.M.3.14 Před 2 lety +9

      Um, they do if they’re ‘unwed’. Legal rights of a second party have to be established through courts and a dna test.

    • @theloquaciouslady
      @theloquaciouslady Před rokem +1

      @@R.M.3.14 Not if the man signs the birth certificate.

    • @theloquaciouslady
      @theloquaciouslady Před rokem +2

      @@JohnSmith-xp9gr Wrong. If he signs the birth certificate, paternity is established.End of story.

    • @jdspreest
      @jdspreest Před rokem

      @@R.M.3.14 who gave you this advice? Your church?

    • @jdspreest
      @jdspreest Před rokem

      @@JohnSmith-xp9gr who gave you this advice? Your church as well? As the other below stated, if his name is on the birth certificate as the father, you don't need to be wed. Marriage doesn't mean anything in these cases. Marriage is just a legal status, or actually, more on the religious (irrational) side of things.

  • @PrayingPanda
    @PrayingPanda Před rokem +27

    "He decided to be controlling" in other words, he put up boundaries and she didn't like that.
    Them we find out that she thinks that just because she's the mother, she can determine when the father sees their child. Why am I not surprised?

    • @gRinchY-op5vr
      @gRinchY-op5vr Před 12 dny +2

      I have no doubt whatsoever she wanted to still live like a teenager while he went to work to provide and would be annoyed when he came home to find she had just been out with friends and the baby all day getting nothing done and then wanted to go out in the evening when he was home to have their son, thats most likely what she means by 'controlling' - asking her to grow tf up.

    • @PrayingPanda
      @PrayingPanda Před 12 dny

      @@gRinchY-op5vr sounds about right.

  • @lesabri
    @lesabri Před 2 lety +27

    All children need a father.

  • @Crash7031
    @Crash7031 Před 2 lety +13

    When someone says I have no documents, pictures or paperwork you know its gonna get good.

  • @buu.888
    @buu.888 Před 2 lety +39

    I hope this fella gets to see his baby. Kids need their dads... My husband and daughter have such a wonderful bond...❤️

    • @tylersalter9133
      @tylersalter9133 Před rokem +1

      You have no idea how much it means to men to hear a woman say that.

    • @Kaboomboo
      @Kaboomboo Před rokem +1

      He has sole custody now and has since remarried (or is at least with someone else) with a child of her own. They have a happy, blended family.

  • @TK-ij2xi
    @TK-ij2xi Před 2 lety +30

    I had sole custody too, but there was still a visitation order. You cannot withhold visitation because he hasn't paid support or because you feel like it.

  • @TheAuthorgal
    @TheAuthorgal Před 2 lety +128

    Perspective from someone who was in this situation: I had a neglectful and emotionally abusive mother, and was only able to get out due to my father being smart and collecting enough evidence to get custody. For some reason, the legal system is very biased toward moms, and she got visitation even after having it proven she left bruises on my older sister’s face. Right by the nose, and on a girl with a heart condition where stress alone could have been potentially fatal.
    There are a lot of wonderful, loving mothers in the world (I hope I myself am currently one). But there are also those who treat their child like their property and would alienate their children from a good father for the dumbest of reasons.
    Just as all mothers have the right to be assumed competent parents until proven otherwise, so do fathers. And I say this having carried a child myself. It’s not about who gave birth, it’s about what is best for the child.

    • @queenbee3647
      @queenbee3647 Před 2 lety +2

      Kids need a dad and hopefully theirs is a good one. My husband and I divorced and he went from being a so-so dad to completely not interested. I raised her and loved her. She is hurt from his neglect. I curse him silently every day.

    • @SparDanger
      @SparDanger Před rokem +4

      As a single mom who loves her son, women like this "mother" truly baffle me!

    • @Roy-ji7bg
      @Roy-ji7bg Před rokem +2

      You made one of the greatest comments towards the end I've heard my mother say it as she abused me and my brothers I heard my sister say it as she destroyed her second son I watch my niece say it and she was screwing her kids up they're my kids I can do whatever I want in essence my property

  • @bruceleemacarthur4412
    @bruceleemacarthur4412 Před rokem +4

    Judge Judy just nails them right when wanted. Awesome Judge.

  • @latinoprophet
    @latinoprophet Před 2 lety +68

    I’ll never understand why ppl go on JJ knowing they haven’t held a job. It makes it hard to sympathize with them in her eyes. And u know she’s going in if she hears someone doesn’t work 💀💀😂😂

    • @purselmer5931
      @purselmer5931 Před 2 lety

      @@snowwhite7704 I think they got a free trip to LA. The show is filmed on the west coast.

    • @purselmer5931
      @purselmer5931 Před 2 lety

      "It makes it hard to sympathize with them" in my eyes too.

    • @Ilikefrogs..
      @Ilikefrogs.. Před rokem +1

      And who is going to be watching her baby while she's at work? It's not like America has subsidised daycare like every other country. She also doesn't have any family from the sound of things.

    • @purselmer5931
      @purselmer5931 Před rokem

      @@Ilikefrogs.. Of course there's subsidized daycare in America. They're vouchers you receive if you qualify with your income. It's been around for literally decades. And available and used absolutely everywhere.

  • @clairemcmahon9392
    @clairemcmahon9392 Před 2 lety +68

    As usual straight to the point and wiped the floor with people. Love you JJ.

    • @SG-em9ht
      @SG-em9ht Před rokem +2

      Smmfh very well said so True.😂

  • @marskeins
    @marskeins Před 2 lety +30

    I have full custody so I can decide when he can see his child. No ma'am that's not quite how that works. smh

  • @chrissy9153
    @chrissy9153 Před rokem +9

    We need to stop normalizing having babies at such a young age it’s not even about the parents wanting to have them it’s about the kid nobody thinks about the kid. The kid always ends up neglected because they want to live their youth

  • @POCKBA
    @POCKBA Před rokem +6

    Judge Judy gives a compliment😊

  • @Lincolntowncoupe
    @Lincolntowncoupe Před 2 lety +59

    The number of cases of this would probably be halved if people stopped having kids before making it out of their formative years

    • @camiba6773
      @camiba6773 Před 2 lety +1

      100 💯 no job. place to stay that is stable and still want to party. young people I know it may sound cool but children are a large responsibility. they need stability and love unconditionally. they need you. if you can't give that to them take steps to ensure you don't have them

    • @ShanaLawson
      @ShanaLawson Před 2 lety +5

      And the overturning of roe vs wade is going to make all of this worse.

    • @MASTER.SON.
      @MASTER.SON. Před 2 lety +5

      @@ShanaLawson oh maybe try being responsible with your sexuality and have safe sex? You know the sexual repression of the Victorian era was mostly about the epidemic spread of syphilis? Sex is great but too important and have great consequences to use it so casually like this generation

    • @ShanaLawson
      @ShanaLawson Před 2 lety +1

      @@MASTER.SON. I’m not speaking of myself, I have two kids and my tubes tied. I am speaking of others. The sexual education in America is beyond ridiculous and people are raped too frequently. There are many reasons people get pregnant, not just from irresponsibility.

    • @purselmer5931
      @purselmer5931 Před 2 lety +3

      @@MASTER.SON. How about anyone be responsible and not HAVE sex until they're married??? God forbid.

  • @dianyadira
    @dianyadira Před rokem +15

    That poor child.... Hopefully the baby grows up in a stable environment...

    • @slavbrav69
      @slavbrav69 Před 11 měsíci

      Only if the mother stays away , vile creature

  • @Kaboomboo
    @Kaboomboo Před rokem +8

    Never get tired of this. I must've watched this case, all four parts, like 10 times.

  • @LittleRedRubberDuck
    @LittleRedRubberDuck Před 2 lety +12

    "Do you have a document showing that visitation is at your discretion? -No. So you have nothing? -No" Okey so she just does whatever she wants with their child and tells him that legally he can't do anything... What a mess.

  • @NexusFantismo
    @NexusFantismo Před 2 lety +16

    She loves playing the victim to get her way. “He was controlling”. I like when Judge Mathis puts pressure on them to be specific because most of the time it’s lies

  • @robyndendy
    @robyndendy Před 2 lety +39

    As someone who got pregnant and married at 18 I really was to young. I used to think I was old enough and I’m so glad I got my life together but I pray my children don’t follow in my footsteps. So blessed to have my babies though. Wouldn’t change it for anything. I hope they can work out their differences and remember it’s not about them anymore it’s about their child

    • @DD-d6d3
      @DD-d6d3 Před 2 lety +4

      I had an abortion at 18 and it was the happiest day of my life.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 2 lety +8

      @@DD-d6d3 God said '' I knew you before you were knit together in your mothers womb.'' You have a child but he is in heaven.

    • @sanne27
      @sanne27 Před 2 lety +13

      @@marilynwillett804 Nobody cares, Marilyn. Let people have abortions and not become parents when they know they can't be parents. And stop forcing your religion on others.

    • @Lenasevilla-yb4ei
      @Lenasevilla-yb4ei Před 2 lety

      @@marilynwillett804 you sound overweight are you?

    • @carey8498
      @carey8498 Před 2 lety +1

      God Bless you and your family

  • @lollylove1107
    @lollylove1107 Před 2 lety +41

    Sis, because you have full custody or you thought you did, you cannot hold that innocent baby away from their daddy!! Then that child may grow up and become a repeat teen parent. Both parents are important until one is abusive or an addict of sorts

  • @cathygretch7824
    @cathygretch7824 Před rokem +33

    I can't imagine kicking your kids out, especially if a daughter is pregnant. I would never have done that to my daughters. My husband and I lost a 3-year-old son, and wish with all our hearts we still had him - children are not "throwaways."

    • @yui7364
      @yui7364 Před rokem +3

      My two parents are kicking me out for not abandoning my 3yo dog ... I'm 20 still didn't graduate had to drop off college.. get paid 257$ a month and they do not care ..... Happy somebody disagrees with parents like this

    • @Ilovedogs327
      @Ilovedogs327 Před rokem +4

      Thank you! My husband and I have two little girls and we often discuss how we wouldn’t want our girls to get pregnant young, however if it happens, we won’t ever kick them out. We are their parents and will always have a home for them

  • @bevmacdonald9008
    @bevmacdonald9008 Před 2 lety +12

    I had such an an order, it read " reasonable access for reasonable periods of time with reasonable notice." But such an agreement only works when the custodial parent is a reasonable mature adult. It saddens me to see people ignore how they hurt their children in their pursuit to hurt their ex.

  • @davidruble7699
    @davidruble7699 Před rokem +4

    People having children when they shouldn’t is a huge problem in this country. These young people have no idea of what responsibilities they should have as young adults and frankly they just don’t care in many instances

    • @Cjjjj902
      @Cjjjj902 Před 2 měsíci

      Blame religion. Many of these faiths encourage kids straight out of high school to get married and start breeding like rabbits. It's a mess.

  • @minkyfran8307
    @minkyfran8307 Před 2 lety +67

    That’s the oldest looking 18 year old I think I’ve ever seen , She looks about 30 😂😂

    • @LiLo-ob3iu
      @LiLo-ob3iu Před 2 lety

      Right she looks as old as her mother

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 2 lety +4

      As usual on youtube the beautiful caucasian girl get insults, if she was black there would be compliments.

    • @minkyfran8307
      @minkyfran8307 Před 2 lety

      @@marilynwillett804 Oh please ! I can assure you , if she was black I’d say exactly the same , She looks years older than 18 , probably from having a child too young , I didn’t say she was ugly , I said she looked older than she is , which she does ,Get over your racist self and lose the fake victim mentality , you sound ridiculous

    • @LiLo-ob3iu
      @LiLo-ob3iu Před 2 lety

      @@marilynwillett804 oh so you’re a racist too. Can’t say I’m surprised.

    • @Ana-xp8vh
      @Ana-xp8vh Před 2 lety +18

      @@marilynwillett804 not you making it about race🤣🤣

  • @JohnDoe-1956
    @JohnDoe-1956 Před 2 lety +5

    " I'm the mother so I have full custody." Sounds about right. Typical mindset.

  • @mariabarker2036
    @mariabarker2036 Před 2 lety +6

    Having sole custody does NOT mean the other parent has no visitation rights.
    And you don't even have sole custody. That is a legal designation. Unless a judge says you have sole custody, you don't have sole custody.
    But again, even if you did, the dad still has visitation RIGHTS.

  • @MensagemDoAnjoBr
    @MensagemDoAnjoBr Před 8 dny

    As a former foster kid, i can tell what type of foster "parent" she is. Fostercare is a financial opportunity for her and nothing more. It really disgusts me but i survived it and thrive quite well today!

  • @jcvace
    @jcvace Před 2 lety +31

    Why would you not give baby items back that is for your child??
    Both are using the child to be petty at each other. This is why you leave the baby making to the adults.

    • @Kaboomboo
      @Kaboomboo Před 2 lety

      Hear hear.

    • @tiffanyching197
      @tiffanyching197 Před 2 lety +8

      Sometimes even adults are petty though

    • @Matthew-bu7fg
      @Matthew-bu7fg Před 2 lety +12

      Given that he worked and she didn't, I'm going to take a wild guess that maybe he paid for the items? And maybe he harbours an ambition that he may be allowed joint custody of HIS child in which those items may come in handy? Just a thought.

    • @jaynehogue2459
      @jaynehogue2459 Před 2 lety

      you're kidding me right????? you don't think he has the right to the baby items that he spent money on for his own child. if he gains custody of the child or when the child comes visit he's going to need those things. she's just being a narcissistic B and the child will suffer because of it

    • @This_handle_is_tak3n
      @This_handle_is_tak3n Před 2 lety +1

      @@Matthew-bu7fg bingo!

  • @user-ju9re9ob2v
    @user-ju9re9ob2v Před 3 měsíci +1

    I don't like the fact that this lady who is bored and divorce, is conspiring to take his child instead of spending time and making sure her OWN daughter doesn't make her a Grandma.

  • @NicholasBlake84
    @NicholasBlake84 Před rokem +3

    Lol she was laughing like she thought JJ was going to be her friend then she realizes JJ isn't sympathetic and her demeanor instantly changes. Also that young man is sooo young he doesn't even fill out his suit.

  • @markmooroolbark252
    @markmooroolbark252 Před rokem +3

    The entitlement of these witches who keep the father away from their own kids is demonic.

  • @jrewing1512
    @jrewing1512 Před 2 lety +13

    I love when Judge Judy gives teenagers especially those who make are parents

  • @Imonamf
    @Imonamf Před 2 lety +7

    JJ caught that lie quick!

  • @potterj09
    @potterj09 Před 2 lety +4

    I'd be calling CPS on this young girl for her own wellbeings as much as the infants. Seems to be/ have been incredibly prone to poor choice after poor choice. Hope she had an epiphany at some point.

  • @johnsmi213
    @johnsmi213 Před rokem +2

    "I have full custody so I can decide he doesn't get to see his child."
    "Was this a court order?"
    "No, but the baby was in my custody when he asked to see him and I don't want to share."

  • @maryrodger5130
    @maryrodger5130 Před 2 lety +16

    Little miss wants to play grownup but doesn't work so she can't pay a security deposit, can't pay rent or pay for utilities, purchase diapers, cloths for the baby or food for herself or the baby amiright? The father is the one working while the mother does...what? I'd love to know what happened between the girl and her father. Her friend's mother needs to get little missy up and out on that thingy commonly referred as call a gd job. How many WORKING single mother's are in the US?

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Před 2 lety

      Patching things up with the baby’s father might start to look mighty good at that point.

  • @whereismyxanax
    @whereismyxanax Před 2 lety +6

    She has a very hard life ahead of her 😥

  • @suzannegiglio2866
    @suzannegiglio2866 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I’m glad Oliver is with his Dad. I’m shocked though that Hayley doesn’t see him.

  • @jjfarm9562
    @jjfarm9562 Před 2 lety +7

    The father is the better parent clearly

  • @thomasappelby1202
    @thomasappelby1202 Před 2 lety +1

    If you can't take care of a baby, don't have one! A child is not a pet.

  • @conniescup
    @conniescup Před rokem +1

    Thanks for posting! I’ve watched them all! Waiting for more.!

  • @aceofcups3493
    @aceofcups3493 Před 2 lety +25

    Judge Judy fails to mention that up until the last few decades, men and women were having children at young ages...that is the conservative position on child bearing. Let's stop pretending this is the new generations fault.

    • @thesecondderivative8967
      @thesecondderivative8967 Před 2 lety +2

      I don't think it's appropriate in any generation to be honest. Most times, it doesn't work out. I don't think that's what you're saying but that's just my take on it.

    • @paullambert8701
      @paullambert8701 Před 2 lety +5

      Young is fine, but until the last few decades those young people were married and there was at least one steady source of income in the home. It is a package deal.

    • @alwayswantingtochange
      @alwayswantingtochange Před 2 lety +6

      @@paullambert8701 one income doesn't work anymore in our society. That's why women feel resentful because they have to go work outside, come back home to the second shift and then suffer raising the child and balancing everything whilst some men are still stuck on the former way of life and think that just working away from home is enough for them.

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 Před 2 lety +1

      Life isn't the same.
      Young girls were being hometrained to become wives and mothers. They were used to working hard both boys and girls then get married. I think in that setting marrying young wasn't much of an issue as it is today.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Před 2 lety

      @@peacheskong2245 Boys were taught to be men and handle household and car repairs. Now everyone is supposedly “equal.” Equally incapable of performing any useful, necessary task.

  • @naterodriguez5858
    @naterodriguez5858 Před rokem +3

    These people must not know JJ started in the child services. Once she said she chooses when he sees the baby JJ was ready

  • @user-ju9re9ob2v
    @user-ju9re9ob2v Před 4 měsíci +1

    It's messed up because this Old lady is bored and in the middle of a divorce so she wants to play Grandma with a "non family members" but doesn't realize what she is doing.

  • @mariabarker2036
    @mariabarker2036 Před 2 lety +5

    That mother really WAS young looking enough to have been mistaken for a teenager!
    Friend's mother: "No, I'm the mother."
    Judge Judy: "... that would be a compliment"
    Me: "No, JJ. That is proof that babies having babies is a GENERATIONAL PROBLEM! Like generational poverty, and generational disrespect for education, that is generational stuck-in-my-teen-years-because-I-spawned-too-young."
    Yes, I realize that the 17 year old isn't the mother in court, but the mother in court lives with her, her mother had her very young, and I somehow doubt that this is being held up as an example of what NOT to do with her life. So in my mind, this counts.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly what I was thinking. She prob had a kid at 17 too. Horrible

  • @laurenherda2415
    @laurenherda2415 Před 2 lety +22

    This has 4 parts you know it's going to be a shitshow

  • @rubyxpearls7019
    @rubyxpearls7019 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Kids having kids scare me, I have no idea how they cope ..

  • @user-rf5vp4uc2e
    @user-rf5vp4uc2e Před 2 měsíci

    I met my wife at Burger King parking lot…she worked drive through. Been married for 16 years…she got a job right after high school…picked a good woman! I was put here to share my life with her!

  • @donnakrogh3230
    @donnakrogh3230 Před 23 dny +1

    No court order wow.. just to keep him from his child .

  • @anonanon8974
    @anonanon8974 Před rokem +2

    DAYUMMMM she just straight up LIEDDD in court at the end! And I would have taken her word for it. 🤦‍♀️ Holy shit.

  • @L3onking
    @L3onking Před rokem +1

    She gaslit him into thinking he couldn't see his child....wow

    • @broeheemed32
      @broeheemed32 Před rokem

      She didn't 'gaslit" anything. You don't even know what the word means. Try getting a elementary education instead of living your life on the Internet and social media.

    • @L3onking
      @L3onking Před rokem

      @@broeheemed32 whoa projecting much. I'm not going to argue with you since you obviously know better than me about everything m'lord

  • @_PAIGE94
    @_PAIGE94 Před 2 lety +4

    Omg I thought the plaintiff was going to say her child was 5 YEARS lol

  • @Otaku155
    @Otaku155 Před 2 lety +1

    Define controlling. Obviously since she isn't working, it's HIS money paying for everything.

  • @drewizkoollikeicecre
    @drewizkoollikeicecre Před rokem +1

    The friend should have never got involved with this situation.

  • @samfanhellyeah
    @samfanhellyeah Před 2 lety +3

    Dads need to fight for the rights more so little girls like her (and grown ass women) can understand that men are parents too.

  • @mazyegillisgmail
    @mazyegillisgmail Před rokem +1

    Tragic. Put the child first. Don’t act out your petty bullshit squabbles ladies by using a child as a pawn. Grow up. Give up the baby to an intact family who will do the right thing, IF you cannot be mature enough to do the right thing yourself.

  • @NadrianATRS
    @NadrianATRS Před 2 lety +23

    I notice an ongoing theme with female teenagers. For some reason, they think getting pregnant by some guy means that the guy really loves them. There’s no way anybody can possibly know how deep the love is at 17. It’s almost like they want to get pregnant on purpose. Every guy I’ve ever talked to that got a girl pregnant in their teens, they’ve all told me in honesty they cared very little about the girl they got pregnant. They usually say that they didn’t know any better. Maybe if girls knew that they would stop getting pregnant in their teens.

    • @kelsey9605
      @kelsey9605 Před 2 lety +6

      The teen mom shows backfired. Not everyone gets a mansion and a nice car. Here is the result..

    • @sanne27
      @sanne27 Před 2 lety

      Have you ever been a teenage girl? I'm just going to assume that statistically, based on your name and profile picture, you're a cis dude.
      The more likely scenario is that society lies about what love is, then also bars kids from sexual education, unhindered access to birth control and abortions, and then people are surprised when teenagers get pregnant and have babies.
      Teenage girls don't go around thinking that getting knocked up means their partner loves them. They're thinking their lives are now ruined because nobody taught them how to have safe sex, and now they can't get the abortion they need (or their parents force them to keep the baby, which is so much worse). Then they can't get themselves to put the baby into foster care when it's a broken system, where children are routinely abused, molested and neglected because fostering kids is a profitable business if you don't care about the children.
      The mother's prospects for an education? Severely diminished, especially if grandparents aren't able to provide childcare. Prospects of making an actual career versus working random jobs? Severely diminished. The other parent is extremely likely to go on and have a full education and make a career because they get to opt out of being a parent beyond a monetary contribution if they so choose.
      Teenage girls don't get pregnant on purpose unless they have been influenced by toxic people in their lives. The average teenager truly isn't looking forward to being pregnant and having a child for the rest of their lives before they're an adult themselves.

    • @el5001
      @el5001 Před 2 lety +4

      Actually it's most likely the lack of sex Ed. Even if they did have sex Ed, in the US its literally the minium. And honestly, I can understand that as a teen you think you're deeply in love. Oh, and if takes two to get knocked up

    • @JSmedic1
      @JSmedic1 Před 2 lety

      @NadrianATRS These girls have no good father example, many times. It's hard to not believe that that's all you are good for, when your own father makes no effort a Daddy.

    • @myralyra5978
      @myralyra5978 Před 2 lety +1

      Takes two to tango my guy

  • @osimhenmichael8612
    @osimhenmichael8612 Před 2 lety +2

    When the daughter looks older than the mother

  • @Oncearanger88
    @Oncearanger88 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Judge Judy was stretching a lot when she said the mother looks 17

  • @apoliticallevi
    @apoliticallevi Před 2 lety +4

    Idk how you can throw out a 7 month pregnant mother much less your own daughter.

  • @TheHunnyBeee
    @TheHunnyBeee Před 2 lety +3

    I don't know WHY they try Judy in these Custody cases. She's been a FAMILY COURT JUDGE FOR DECADES!

  • @kokolovitch56
    @kokolovitch56 Před 7 měsíci +1

    1:01 Burger King? This girl has a real future with that kind of drive and ambition.

  • @rafa1z1
    @rafa1z1 Před 2 lety +5

    Wow besides being a judge she gives lessons?

  • @saritamoorebansa4485
    @saritamoorebansa4485 Před rokem

    What is controlling mean? Is controlling mean cooking, cleaning, working , taking care of your baby. No hanging out with your friends and coming & going as you please…. Having a baby is adulting …

  • @ravenbaa7989
    @ravenbaa7989 Před rokem +1

    Shameful teen parents

  • @kyoto32001
    @kyoto32001 Před 2 lety +3

    miss bassett-hound. LOL

  • @ashadesuza4237
    @ashadesuza4237 Před rokem

    The sole custody comment almost took me out....the girl does not have even a partial order

  • @s1234pro
    @s1234pro Před 2 lety +2

    Children should not have children.

  • @caitlinfrancis6
    @caitlinfrancis6 Před 2 lety +3

    lol .... literally the story with my ex and I . My ex tried to use my mental health against me and said I needed to be supervised and couldn't have alone time with our son without a court order . Lol same scenario exactly my ex lawyer said that he has full custody when In fact didn't and there was no court order
    So now ... he got told by the judge and we have 50/50
    Lol I love when people try to live above the law

  • @axtaxt8372
    @axtaxt8372 Před 23 dny +1

    When the mothers starts out taking slick jabs at the fathers….MOM IS GOING TO LOSE

  • @QueenCityHistory
    @QueenCityHistory Před 2 lety +1

    It’s sad how many people skim off their grandparents.

  • @Bakib-Joy-Official
    @Bakib-Joy-Official Před měsícem

    cung nhau dao quanh mot vai video judy de biet kenh dao nay the nao, thi truong dao nay ra sao, sao con phai suy nghi ve em

  • @daveh7517
    @daveh7517 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Lying of the bat with "sole custody" statements.

  • @caseyking0917
    @caseyking0917 Před 4 měsíci

    0:13 a rare moment when JJ lets her guard down and you see her nice side come out. Especially when she smiles at the plaintiff’s witness after complimenting her.

  • @binkytube
    @binkytube Před 2 lety +3

    Love begins at 'Burger King'.

  • @lilgothpotato
    @lilgothpotato Před rokem +1

    Sadly, she does have full custody of the baby. It’s automatically given to the mother at birth if the parents aren’t married. Fathers need to establish parentage, then get court orders for custody and visitation.

  • @kinoppix90
    @kinoppix90 Před 8 měsíci

    “Ok so Christmas time your father said ‘OUT’”
    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @christiandilday7543
    @christiandilday7543 Před 2 lety +1

    Hey everyone stay blessed 🙌 😇

  • @podsmpsg1
    @podsmpsg1 Před rokem

    Kids shouldn't be having kids. If there's no court order saying she has full custody, she doesn't have full custody.

  • @Flip495
    @Flip495 Před 10 měsíci

    Got that child moving around with this reckless woman from place to place every month

  • @alex1vid
    @alex1vid Před 8 měsíci

    3:45 - that's her and her mother talking. "I have sole custody" because she decided she did. No court, no judgement, no hearing - SHE just decided it. It's bewildering how often women abuse this and men think 'that's just the way it is.'. It's garbage behavior and people need to fight it. Fathers have just as many rights, but typically have to fight a little harder to exercise them. For this girl, worse, she's already on record as being a liar.

  • @jshearouse
    @jshearouse Před 2 lety

    Kids playing grown up, not very good at all. Holding a child from a parent, in this case, is just to "get back" at them. Sad. Grow up!

  • @gazajadebrown9866
    @gazajadebrown9866 Před rokem

    All the lights are on but nobody's home on this woman she sounds crazy

  • @JohannaNazareen1225
    @JohannaNazareen1225 Před 2 lety +1

    I dont think any of them knows what they're doing. They need good guidance.

  • @idontno0
    @idontno0 Před rokem

    All these people having kids and not working and living off everyone else. This is society today.