We are all humans, we all have fears, insecurities, ambitions and traumas. Nobody is special. Once you understand this you will never fear anyone again.
yeah i accept that - do need a more clikbaity title to get my message out. however i still thinking rating a woman better to a point where you literally feel like a little boy is being a simp haha
Since I am female, I have no idea why the CZcams algorithm recommended this video for me to watch, but it did and I watched the video out of curiosity. Some remarks based on my own personal experience: (1) If I don’t supplement with magnesium daily, I start to develop a mild form of social anxiety. If I do supplement with magnesium consistently, almost all social interactions on a daily basis (with family members, friends, shopkeepers, etc.) have this effortless flow (and I also don’t get muscle cramps and eyelid twitching anymore). (2) In my late teens and early twenties, I had a group of female friends, most of whom were less pretty than I was. Out of jealousy, they didn’t hesitate to point out every little flaw I had (some mild acne scars on my temples, my long hair that needed to be brushed after being outside on a windy day, etc.). I also had a boytoy in my early twenties who thought I was out of his league and constantly tried to bring me down, because he thought that was the only way he could continue to have access to me (while in reality I was just bored and lonely and he was somewhat intelligent and interesting). So pretty women (or: prettier women, because it’s more about the level of beauty in relation to the level of beauty and status of the other people in their direct proximity) are constantly being criticized by other women, emotionally abused by shitty men who think they have to degrade her to bring her down to their level and status-obsessed men who only use her presence in their lives as a tool in the grander scheme of their own status anxiety. If the pretty girl is actually nice (and not some narcissist you should steer clear of, like some pretty women with a social media career), she wants to be treated well by someone who is more or less on the same level as she is: preferably a bit more intelligent than she is, but not too much, with more or less the same level of conscientiousness and ambition, and not more than two (or at most three) points lower on the looks-scale (I think beautiful women date down on the looks scale, they don’t only hook up with or marry male models, but usually not by four points or more). There is this Lana del Rey song: “Will you still love me when I’m no longer young and beautiful?”. A pretty woman wants to marry someone for whom the answer to this question is yes, because her husband values her beauty, but also loves her as a person (her character, interests, weird quirks, etc.) and will still love her when she’s an old and wrinkly grandmother (whereas a man who only wanted her for her beauty, will have traded her in for a younger version during his midlife crisis).
Hey, i just want to let you know this is incredible and thank you for sharing your side of the story - one that men are never privy too. there is tonnes! of value advice and things men should take not of in this comment, and i hope we can learn from reading the same
I too simped in my twenties, but for an average woman, because I observed that the pretty girlies only wanted to get next to Chad and not average bros like myself.
I believe God is needed above all else though, not sure if you believe in Jesus Christ or not, but if you don't you should check out the Bible, His ways are best, not ways that are mysogynistic and what not.
@@floofypenguin that’s hilarious because it not only ignores all the evidence why mgtow is the only logical choice but it also ignores Paul’s point about the very same thing, and he was unaware of the modern dynamics !, if he had been its not a stretch to see him recommending it
We are all humans, we all have fears, insecurities, ambitions and traumas. Nobody is special. Once you understand this you will never fear anyone again.
Truth!!!!!
Simping means something different. This is more undeveloped social and pick up skills and unknown avoidance.
yeah i accept that - do need a more clikbaity title to get my message out. however i still thinking rating a woman better to a point where you literally feel like a little boy is being a simp haha
This is your best video yet - thank you.
Since I am female, I have no idea why the CZcams algorithm recommended this video for me to watch, but it did and I watched the video out of curiosity. Some remarks based on my own personal experience: (1) If I don’t supplement with magnesium daily, I start to develop a mild form of social anxiety. If I do supplement with magnesium consistently, almost all social interactions on a daily basis (with family members, friends, shopkeepers, etc.) have this effortless flow (and I also don’t get muscle cramps and eyelid twitching anymore). (2) In my late teens and early twenties, I had a group of female friends, most of whom were less pretty than I was. Out of jealousy, they didn’t hesitate to point out every little flaw I had (some mild acne scars on my temples, my long hair that needed to be brushed after being outside on a windy day, etc.). I also had a boytoy in my early twenties who thought I was out of his league and constantly tried to bring me down, because he thought that was the only way he could continue to have access to me (while in reality I was just bored and lonely and he was somewhat intelligent and interesting). So pretty women (or: prettier women, because it’s more about the level of beauty in relation to the level of beauty and status of the other people in their direct proximity) are constantly being criticized by other women, emotionally abused by shitty men who think they have to degrade her to bring her down to their level and status-obsessed men who only use her presence in their lives as a tool in the grander scheme of their own status anxiety. If the pretty girl is actually nice (and not some narcissist you should steer clear of, like some pretty women with a social media career), she wants to be treated well by someone who is more or less on the same level as she is: preferably a bit more intelligent than she is, but not too much, with more or less the same level of conscientiousness and ambition, and not more than two (or at most three) points lower on the looks-scale (I think beautiful women date down on the looks scale, they don’t only hook up with or marry male models, but usually not by four points or more). There is this Lana del Rey song: “Will you still love me when I’m no longer young and beautiful?”. A pretty woman wants to marry someone for whom the answer to this question is yes, because her husband values her beauty, but also loves her as a person (her character, interests, weird quirks, etc.) and will still love her when she’s an old and wrinkly grandmother (whereas a man who only wanted her for her beauty, will have traded her in for a younger version during his midlife crisis).
Hey, i just want to let you know this is incredible and thank you for sharing your side of the story - one that men are never privy too.
there is tonnes! of value advice and things men should take not of in this comment, and i hope we can learn from reading the same
Holy hell a book
How tall was the boytoy
A few centimeters taller than me. I'm 1,76 meter tall (5 feet 9 inches), he was probably around 1,80 meter-ish (5 feet 11 inches).
Good video with some important life lessons.
Good message
Thank you. Very relatable.
Very good advice!
thanks for giving me your time brother, hope it helped
Thank you.
I too simped in my twenties, but for an average woman, because I observed that the pretty girlies only wanted to get next to Chad and not average bros like myself.
that's certainly what it feel like, not until you get older that its a bit of a construct made in your head.
Its true pretty woman are with chads or pretty men.
For the love get ur life together
4:15 Hit the nail on the head with that statement. Most poignant part.
Fresh and Fit, Pearlythings, Kevin Samuels, MGTOW, Passport Bros, Candace Owens, EV > WV.
I agree with some disagree with others... but that sounds like a balls deep echo chamber there
Good 👍🏽 for you simping is a part of the problem but it’s not the only problem
Mgtow is the ONLY logically safe option for men
I believe God is needed above all else though, not sure if you believe in Jesus Christ or not, but if you don't you should check out the Bible, His ways are best, not ways that are mysogynistic and what not.
Im praying for you @Mgtowfreedom that you follow our ONLY Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!
ugh, i tend to disagree here - MGTOW is the same but opposite as third wave feminism, and more balance would bring happiness.
@@floofypenguin that’s hilarious because it not only ignores all the evidence why mgtow is the only logical choice but it also ignores Paul’s point about the very same thing, and he was unaware of the modern dynamics !, if he had been its not a stretch to see him recommending it
@@Jimmyunfiltered it sounds like you don’t really understand the concept or the many valid reasons why
im trans and my girlfriend loves me
go you.
W advice