The Journey of Grief, lets share each other's pain |

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  • čas přidán 5. 06. 2023
  • Sharing with you through a series of short videos some thoughts, reflections and experiences of grief in the hope that it may help someone out there struggling.
    The path is very difficult but it does lead to God ❤
    #GriefGratitudeGod
    May Allah ease the pain of all who are suffering, ameen 🙌🏻❤

Komentáře • 103

  • @UthmanHumzaAhmet92
    @UthmanHumzaAhmet92 Před 2 měsíci

    اللہ تبارک وتعالیٰ آپ کی والدہ اور امت کہ سبھی فوت شدگان کی مغفرت فرماۓ
    آمین

  • @istriver.
    @istriver. Před 4 měsíci

    No matter how much you prepare, it inevitably hits hard. Guyz, make the best use of the time you have right now with your parents before they're gone. Do the best you can for them. If they are upset, go and cheer them. Apologies for any hurt you have caused them and never do it again.

  • @itsdil
    @itsdil Před rokem +4

    I wish I could offer you a hug Mufti Sahab.

  • @MJAli89
    @MJAli89 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Inna lillahi wa inna lillahi rajiuin, May Allah give your mother Jannah tul firdus.

  • @irfanhussain7860
    @irfanhussain7860 Před rokem +23

    May Allah give patience to all of us during this life journey..Ameen

  • @mallickshabaz
    @mallickshabaz Před rokem +4

    إنا لله وانا اليه راجعون.
    May Allah grant you and your family patience mufti. May Allah elevate the rank of your mother and grant her the highest levels of Jannah.

  • @MillhouseSpeaks
    @MillhouseSpeaks Před rokem +36

    Lost mum at 11 still not the same at 23! God bless you

    • @trueicecoldfire
      @trueicecoldfire Před 11 měsíci +2

      May God bless you, it must have been very hard for you, you were very young…, and you are still in a time when a mother is needed very much, my advice to you as an elder is keep listening to the words of the Quran, a mother is in a way it’s representation, be extra kind to the one you have still, since you are missing the one, double the obedience to this one.

    • @MuftiAbuLayth
      @MuftiAbuLayth  Před 11 měsíci +4

      Allah make things easy for you and replace your grief with abundant joy 🙌🏻🥰

  • @hamzaTVNetwork
    @hamzaTVNetwork Před rokem +3

    Mufti Abu Layth May Allah have mercy on your mother and Grant her Jannah Til Firdous Ameen Ameen

  • @freethinker19
    @freethinker19 Před rokem +2

    Allah apko sabr ata kare.
    Allah apke walida ke gunah maaf kare aur jannat me bahtar se bahtar muqaam ata farmaye

  • @mustafahusayn6104
    @mustafahusayn6104 Před rokem +2

    Peace, May Allah grant your mum higher rank in jannah..mufti you don't know how much i adore you since you are the only man with courage who stood by dignity of our prophet (s.a.w) by rejecting blasphameous hadith.. but as you know many xtians and hindoos nowadays disrespecting our prophet (s.a.w) with the help of blasphsmeous hadith they are misleading many young minds..We have to take stand against this...plzz reply those hate mongers by contradictng those blasphameous narrations which are kept stored in our so called most authentic books and being looked upon by our paid scholars...Peace💓💓

  • @Hamza7308
    @Hamza7308 Před 4 měsíci

    INNA LILLAHI WA INNA ILAYHI RAJI-UN! May Allah make this pain easier on you and your family brother🤲🏿 Ameen

  • @shuaibmohammedc
    @shuaibmohammedc Před 11 měsíci +2

    May Allah bless you , your mother and whole family with paradise

  • @ainaltair3217
    @ainaltair3217 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Inna lillahi was Inna illahi rajioun

  • @RavensoftheArabs
    @RavensoftheArabs Před 11 měsíci +1

    May ALLAH grant you sabr.

  • @Abdul-Baqi
    @Abdul-Baqi Před rokem +2

    May Allah bless her with jannah tul firdaos and bless you with patience.

  • @pnd7727
    @pnd7727 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Allah swt give you sabr brother and all your family. I hope allah swt heals you over time. Ameen

  • @BlackSwan-xo8ic
    @BlackSwan-xo8ic Před 9 měsíci

    I'm so sorry for your loss, may Allah grant your mother the highest station in jannah. I lost both my parents, and I still haven't come to terms with it.

  • @goldenfairys
    @goldenfairys Před 11 měsíci +1

    🌳🌳Inna-lillahi-wa-inna-ilaihi-rajiun-انا-لله-وانا-اليه-راجعون (“We surely belong to Allah and to Him we shall return”) 🌳🌳

  • @155stw
    @155stw Před rokem +2

    Inna lillah wa inna ilayhi rajioun may Allah SWT grant your mum a high status mufti sahib

  • @Javed6129
    @Javed6129 Před rokem +10

    "One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." Sigmund Freud

  • @ummrahmak
    @ummrahmak Před rokem +2

    Asalamu Alaikum
    What amazes me isthe phycology of Islam in grief,thst HOPE FACTOR and waysto be able to be in service to iur parents when they go Home
    Is such a blessing for the living,.
    And the level if control thst Allah swt expects of us
    We have a grief path that the non muslims myst dream of if they vould just understand.
    May Allah swt bless your Mum Amen snd all thise whoae grief is present
    Amen

  • @hasan-aliyounis8210
    @hasan-aliyounis8210 Před rokem +8

    Inna ilahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon, we pray for your mother and the whole family. We are here for you Mufti in these hard times.

  • @shoaibashfaq8985
    @shoaibashfaq8985 Před rokem +1

    May allah grant your mother jannat ul firdous may allah drown her in his infinite love and mercy grant her eternal bliss grant her ease peace and tranquility may he grant her the best of the aakhirah may he have mercy on her like she used to have mercy on you when you were younger and be kind to her as she was kind to you when you were younger ameen

  • @mixedup2917
    @mixedup2917 Před 10 měsíci

    God Bless you Mufti your amazing may Allah have mercy on your mother

  • @negeto2460
    @negeto2460 Před rokem +2

    Innaa lillaahi wa innaa ilayhi raji'oon. May Allah have mercy on your mother and give you sabir my brother 😢

  • @uprih
    @uprih Před rokem +2

    I Love you mufti, my condolences to you

  • @mujtabashah3667
    @mujtabashah3667 Před rokem +2

    Wish I can give you a big hug. I often watched a lot of NDE stories on here to give me some comfort. May Allah azwj grant you patience and strength my beautiful brother.

  • @MJAli89
    @MJAli89 Před 11 měsíci +1

    This world is actually a natural virtual reality, once we take off the headset we are in the true reality of the afterlife.

  • @toasty-toast
    @toasty-toast Před 11 měsíci +1

    Sorry to hear of your moms loss

  • @consolefragging9392
    @consolefragging9392 Před rokem +2

    We are hurting with you. May Allah give your heart peace and wisdom to handle this extreme loss. Have patients. And have faith in Allah. Its all you got.

  • @Dawood-Mushalam19
    @Dawood-Mushalam19 Před rokem +5

    I lost my father 9 years ago now, and my mother is elderly too. I love her with all of my heart. I can’t watch this video, but may Allah ease your pain and give you comfort and strength. My heart is broken for you, brother.

  • @Farrukhsiyar159
    @Farrukhsiyar159 Před rokem +2

    inna *Lillahi* wa inna ilayhi raji'un

  • @stephenjackson3390
    @stephenjackson3390 Před rokem +1

    May Allah your mother highest muqam in Jannah and give you saber Mufti.

  • @mnabeelmansoor
    @mnabeelmansoor Před rokem +7

    My deepest sympathies beloved brother and Mufti -- I lost my beloved mother last december and my dad in 2021; me being the only child and the bond I had with them Ya Allah. I take comfort that one day hopefully soon I will meet my Creator, till then I'm being greatful for all His blessings and gifts He has blessed me with.
    May Allah Azza wa Jal rest them all in Jannathul Firdous Ameen!

    • @Maryam-sb9dl
      @Maryam-sb9dl Před 11 měsíci

      I’m in the same situation, it’s so difficult, may Allah swt make it easy Ameen

    • @MuftiAbuLayth
      @MuftiAbuLayth  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Allah make things easy for you my brother and replace your grief with abundant joy 🙌🏻🥰

  • @javedkhan-fe2zf
    @javedkhan-fe2zf Před rokem +1

    May Allah bless her soul and rest in peace and His Shadow

  • @the_Dark_Knight_12
    @the_Dark_Knight_12 Před rokem +2

    Allah yirhama wa yirham amwatna jamee'an may Allah grant her Paradise, brother

  • @mustaqimahmad2657
    @mustaqimahmad2657 Před 11 měsíci +1

    May Allah have upon her soul, overlook all her sins and shortcomings and grant her Jannatul Firdous. Aameen.

  • @MrShafeek4
    @MrShafeek4 Před rokem +2

    May Allah shower his blessings to you and your mother . I was waiting for your call to meet you but also I came to Uk for short days. Insha Allah next time I will inform you before I come to Uk. Shafeek from SriLanka

  • @daudkhan1867
    @daudkhan1867 Před rokem +3

    love knows not its own depth, until the hour of separation.

  • @malikabdulwahab1120
    @malikabdulwahab1120 Před rokem +2

    I know no words would ease your pain but know that she is a Shaheed! May this heart ache be relieved by Grace of Allah! Now I know why people say that they are in a better place.

  • @LondonFriendsWalks
    @LondonFriendsWalks Před 9 měsíci

    Allah is closest to the broken hearted. My Mum showed me how to die bravely, 30 years ago now and I find myself almost in tears thinking about her. We don’t know how blessed we are until it’s taken away.

  • @YeshuaQureshi
    @YeshuaQureshi Před rokem +3

    Looking forward to it, Mufti ❤

  • @oCurio4
    @oCurio4 Před rokem +2

    Mufti, my condolences! Stay lit

  • @MirRaqeeb
    @MirRaqeeb Před rokem +1

    أَهلَ القُبورِ أَتَيتُكُم أَتَحَسَّسُ
    فَإِذا جَماعَتُكُم أَصَمُّ وَأَخرَسُ
    إِنَّ اِمرَأً ذَكَرَ المَعادَ فَخافَهُ
    لَأَحَظُ مِمَّن لَم يَخَفهُ وَأَكيَسُ
    يا أَيُّها الرَجُلُ الحَريصُ أَما تَرى
    أَعلامَ عُمرِكَ كُلَّ يَومٍ تَدرُسُ
    بِكَ لا أَبا لَكَ مُذ خُلِقتَ مُوَكِّلاً
    مَلَكٌ يَعُدُّ عَلَيكَ ما تَتَنَفَّسُ
    فَإِذا اِنقَضى الأَجَلُ الَّذي أُجِّلتَهُ

  • @absdell5381
    @absdell5381 Před rokem +1

    Aapki bt sun kar bahut sukoon mila mufti sahab. Waqai dukh insan ko zindagi ki bahut ehem haqiqaton se ashna kr deta hai. I lost my father two years ago in the month of May. It's hard to believe that the person we see everyday, the one who was with us yesterday is gone forever. Himmat aati to nh lekin himmat rakhni hi padti he. May Allah give you and your near ones strength. We all love you mufti sahab.❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹

  • @kamranhussain2671
    @kamranhussain2671 Před rokem +3

    Lost dad at 14 mum. Baby at 35 mum at 37. Still haven’t got over the baby may Allah give us all sabr feel your sorrow bro

    • @MuftiAbuLayth
      @MuftiAbuLayth  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Ya Allah! im so sorry to hear that, Allah bless their Aakhirah and bless you abundantly, im here for you my brother ❤

  • @imaadshabir5713
    @imaadshabir5713 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Even in ur difficult times, u r teaching us great lessons. Mufti. We will never be able to thank u

  • @dyamigerhold8009
    @dyamigerhold8009 Před rokem +2

    I always find solidarity and peace in your commentary Mufti, May Allah bless you.

  • @msislam4916
    @msislam4916 Před rokem +2

    May ALLAH grant janatulfirdous to your mother in sha ALLAH 🤲

  • @Quran_Alone_Dawah
    @Quran_Alone_Dawah Před rokem +4

    May Allah bless your beautiful soul Mufti and ease the suffering of you and your family. May Allah grant your mother the highest rank in Jannah ❤

  • @mohammedebaad1685
    @mohammedebaad1685 Před rokem +2

    Stay strong brother.

  • @faheemahmedumrani1710
    @faheemahmedumrani1710 Před 11 měsíci +1

    May ALLAH SWT bless your mother and grant her jannat ul firdous and grants you and your family sabr.

  • @police19able
    @police19able Před rokem +3

    Very sorry for your loss Mufti, may Allah bless your mother.

  • @user-pg9hq6wh6n
    @user-pg9hq6wh6n Před rokem +2

    May Allah grant her jannat ul firdous
    امین

  • @paulthomas281
    @paulthomas281 Před rokem +2

    My thoughts and prayers are with you Mufti. It breaks my heart your great loss and sadness. Remember that your breath is who you are. Stay strong and mindful in breathing.

  • @atilla4352
    @atilla4352 Před rokem +2

    It's hard for us all. My younger brother got diagnosed with leukemia, and he's not even 30.
    Keep going mufti and May Allah give us all hidayat and sabr. Amen.

  • @DjJay
    @DjJay Před rokem +2

    Lost both my mum and dad 2 months apart during the pandemic. That did change me in a lotta ways. Worst was dad literally was alone, I couldn't see him or talk to him since he was in isolation.

  • @irfanhussain7860
    @irfanhussain7860 Před rokem +4

    Our condolences are with you Mufti..

  • @malikstotle
    @malikstotle Před rokem +6

    Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. Prayers for you and your entire family.

  • @bortroad5740
    @bortroad5740 Před rokem +2

    God bless you bruv

  • @paulamoogan8499
    @paulamoogan8499 Před rokem +4

    I understand your pain and loss … I lost my mum to cancer 8 years ago and nothing… no words can describe the feeling and the pain of losing someone you love like that …the whole experience of being there with them through it all … you’re not alone 😢 sending love and prayers that Allah may provide you and your loved ones peace and comfort through this challenging time

    • @MuftiAbuLayth
      @MuftiAbuLayth  Před 11 měsíci

      Allah bless your mums afterlife and grant you ease, jzk for sharing 🙌🏻❤

  • @IbnSaifi
    @IbnSaifi Před rokem +11

    Very sorry for your loss Mufti, may Allah bless your mum, Ameen!

  • @Peace4Free
    @Peace4Free Před 11 měsíci +1

    May her soul rest peacefully in sha Allah.

  • @DonnieB0407
    @DonnieB0407 Před 11 měsíci +1

    It is not easy losing a mother's caring presence. I hope you are taking time to grieve, respected Mufti. Time heals.

  • @suhailbermi234
    @suhailbermi234 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Ameen

  • @CapoKhan
    @CapoKhan Před rokem +3

    Keep your head up Mufti ji. May Allah bless you and give you subr and give ease in this difficult time

  • @AliAbbas-vk4io
    @AliAbbas-vk4io Před rokem +2

    Allah bless you mufti sahib, remain strong! ❤

  • @goldenfairys
    @goldenfairys Před 11 měsíci +1

    It’s nothing else but only patience on this path.

  • @theasim3757
    @theasim3757 Před rokem +2

    This is the Asim from Texas. Yes I see you smiling and once again trying to remind me that any Hadith with Asim as the narrator is weak. Just wanted to thank you for the beneficial reminders and the experiences you have shared through journey with your beloved Mother rahimahallah. It’s a maturation process, we all must go through and experience and come out better iA. Keep smiling and Salaam.

  • @goldenfairys
    @goldenfairys Před 11 měsíci +1

    I lost my both parents. First my father went in 2017. He was my best friend in this world. My siblings gave me more grief then anyone for me being a woman. 😢 by not give me his legacy.

  • @faree38green
    @faree38green Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love you Mufti... May Allah be with you and bless your mother's after life.. Ameen

  • @foadjafari4349
    @foadjafari4349 Před rokem +1

    ربنا افرغ علینا صبرا و توفنا مسلمین

  • @1rozi
    @1rozi Před rokem +2

    Your family and Yourself is in our prayers.🤲🏾❤

  • @aalishajanat1830
    @aalishajanat1830 Před 11 měsíci +1

    May Allah grant her a higher rank in Jannah

  • @fahmidalutfullah361
    @fahmidalutfullah361 Před rokem +2

    It's good that you're sharing your grief, which also helps to make us grow in strength! Praying your mum is finally at peace, and may she be granted the highest place in jannat. Yes, for sure, this worldly life is a transitory existence, after which there is the eternal that follows!

  • @mrfaisalkhan90
    @mrfaisalkhan90 Před rokem +2

    Allah protect you Mufti Sahab you are a strong shining beacon of hope for many ! May Allah swt give sabr to your family and grant your mom highest position in paradise ameen. Stay strong king !

  • @clarejones2421
    @clarejones2421 Před rokem +3

    Take things slowly Mufti ❤️

  • @ALLHEART_
    @ALLHEART_ Před 10 měsíci +1

    Nice jacket.

  • @hammadhaider
    @hammadhaider Před rokem +2

    Thank you inshaAllah grief will unite all of humanity.

  • @diiriyetv
    @diiriyetv Před rokem +2

    Mufti, please remember that the Almighty One who gave your late mum (May Allah bless her soul) to you has also promised that He will reunite you with your believing righteous parents, spouses, and children in a much better place if you remain steadfast in faith and patience.

  • @homeboysudaka5629
    @homeboysudaka5629 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing your grief . Saludos amigo ❤

  • @mohmda4449
    @mohmda4449 Před rokem +2

    💚

  • @semakulaatibu4564
    @semakulaatibu4564 Před rokem +1

    Salaamun alaikum mufti sab.
    Be strong even though it's not easy, what ican say you have done what it takes to do when mom was still alive.

  • @faizankut
    @faizankut Před rokem +1

    Mufti ive had a hard year to oost my fsther

  • @al-murabitun2969
    @al-murabitun2969 Před rokem +2

    Salam Mufti

  • @GAMING24HOURS693
    @GAMING24HOURS693 Před rokem +1

    assalamualaikum . are you a sufi

  • @motivateme288
    @motivateme288 Před rokem +1

    Very low sound

  • @faizankut
    @faizankut Před rokem +1

    Mifti go abroad it helps

  • @Jimmy_English
    @Jimmy_English Před 4 měsíci

    Find Christ 🙏

  • @ehrenmann7220
    @ehrenmann7220 Před rokem +6

    Your mother died as a shahid due to her battle against cancer. She died fighting and I hope this circumstance eases your grief at least a little bit.

  • @mixedup2917
    @mixedup2917 Před 10 měsíci

    God Bless you Mufti your amazing may Allah have mercy on your mother

  • @thatiswhyali
    @thatiswhyali Před rokem +2

    May Allah grant you patience and peace brother.