My first date, worst date and best date!
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- čas přidán 20. 02. 2023
- Dating with a disability mini series! For my second video, I share the details about my first date EVER (I maaay or may not have fallen), one of my worst dates and my favorite date!
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It's great to hear a ladie's honest perspective. You are so articulate, it's lovely 🌹
I think you are adorable! I love your spirit!
You would be a catch for anyone. Keep being you!
You're so cute...... I had a crush on a girl with cerebral palsy. I would have never been embarrassed being around her...... I was actually to scared to tell her I had a crush on her. I was scared of being rejected. This is only the 2nd video I seen of yours. 1st was the bowling with your sister. You're a super Kool chick and thank you for sharing this with us all. Great smile cutie.
Yep you are yes you do
plus you will and definitely you wont but would you work out what date you yourself could love and then get ur sis your friend's to pick the lucky unknown
Unprepared male that they have scruternizrd
right down to his boxer shorts its a big ask of your gang to get it perfectly kosher then U do the ASK 😮 I will be praying for you , what should I ask for is it ok for me to sugest this if not dont be kind to me .
You , Young Lady are a True Treasure ! ! !
By far
@Brass neck really
@Brass neck DONT EVEN THINK OF BEING DISRESPECTFUL HERE..
Yes she is! Some guy will be very lucky to end up with her as his partner!
No question
I love the way you tell your stories. You're honest and it shows. Keep it up!
Just the fact that you are still single is absolutely mind blowing to me.🤯 You are so down Earth and have such a beautiful soul, Good men should be lining up at your doorJust hoping you pick them.
Agree! Saw your video the other day… and I was blinded by your smile! #Noice!
Totally agree!
You were gonna repent your sins,
But then you got high.....
@@tenakoe4258 Your in the wrong place. Recovering addicts is a completely different channel. Good luck with fighting your addiction though.👍
@@afrosamurai7215
So you're admitting you are a recovering addict with a separate channel dedicated to purging your demons?
Ok.
Are you looking for gratification or a pat on the back?
What about losers who live in a comic book fantasy. Demanding people call them by their fantasy super hero name?
Afro samurai?
If only drug addiction was the worst of your problems.
Captain delusional.
You should always wear the red color that is in the thumbnail pic. That dress looks beautiful on you.
I would have went out of my way to make you comfortable. Thanks for sharing a bit of your life with us. I hope you continue. I love hearing you talk. You're truly a lovely woman.
Seems like we all can be inspired by her resilience & smile.
It's clear that, like a good wine, you have improved with age. I mean in confidence, in clarity about what you want and, to use your own words, in embracing who you are as a person dealing with a challenge.
It's inspiring to listen to your shared experiences.
Your strength is beautiful. My cousin had the same form of CP and I’ve seen his struggles his whole life, toe surgeries after toes surgeries. Stay strong ❤
After watching your videos I find it difficult to believe that with your good looks, amazing personality, positive outlook on life and your sense of adventure. Anyone would find themselves lucky to have you in their life.
You are a beautiful girl. I love that you are showing awareness for your disability. Growing up I hid my hard of hearing disability from people for the longest time. It wasn’t until I was 28 I decided to wear hearing aids. My best friend has cerebral palsy and he thinks he is never going to find a girl and he is almost 40 because of his disability.
You have my couch and blinds and my wife has CP and that sweatshirt I think. This is eerie.
On a real note: Even being married for 15 years it's still enlightening to hear your perspective.
Wow, you're first date went way better than mine! Trust me it's awkward for everyone! They key is to just be yourself and you have quite the advantage since you're awesome!
Yes you are awsome 😅😂
God in Heaven, Chelsea, you are a treasure. A real catch. Some gentleman is going to discover you someday soon and count his lucky stars. God bless you for sharing your stories! I wish you only the best life has to offer!
There are millions of people who would love to be on a date with you. You are so sweet. You’re so kind not to mention you’re gorgeous. Keep us posted.😉❤
You,Chelsea Bear,are an absolute SUGAR BEAR! I do not know of any man that would not be proud to be your escort.You GO Girl!
You are one awesome lady who doesn't let anything get in your way. Keep on smiling. I was also born disabled but it didn't stop me from living an awesome life. Learned many years ago. it's not what's on the outside. it's what's on the inside the counts! It's what's in your heart and mind that makes you a beautiful person God Bless
Super inspiring!!! Respect your upbeat outlook!!!
Love the energy your absolutely beautiful 👑🎯😍
Your so loving, patient, and understanding of others in their disabilities in understanding other people's needs. Young men are less aware of other people's needs, they don't fully embrace the needs of others or are not aware of other people's needs.
12:43 Loved listening to your story. I love how positive and upbeat you are about everything you have gone through. I admire your courage to come out and talk about yourself. Well anyways keep up the good work and making great videos!!!
My current girlfriend has cp, and I can understand how it may be tough to feel at ease with finding the place and being comfortable especially with the first date of yours when one can become so exhausted with the aim of reaching places quickly! Thank you for sharing this with us, helps me understand my own partner better!
Your first date SHOULD have let you out at the door, parked, them come back to you.
I was just thinking the same thing. I mean if you are disabled or not its the right thing to do!
@@lovedfriend2020 Indeed!
Change plan from cinema to deli, coffee shop
And not a truck ,lifted or not ,can be hard to get in to. All of my shit is lifted or stock truck height and my son's rocket subie is a bitch for me to get in and out of.
Exactly
I loved your stories. Thank you for sharing! My best date ever was meeting my wife (from Florida) here in New Zealand. We were both 30yr old and knew within minutes that we would be together forever. Here we are 20 years later still madly in love. I wish you all the best in finding happiness.
My first and worst date also involved rudeness towards the waiter. When we met she seemed nice but as soon as we sat down she just starting being completely disrespectful and even insulted him for being a waiter. I ended up apologizing to him. I ended the night shortly after and like your situation she also tried to kiss me out of nowhere. Like not reading the room at all that I was pretty disgusted by the whole thing.
You're a lovely woman! Thanks for sharing your stories 😊
Balling on a high schooler's budget. You slay me!
Thank you for being so open. I became disabled in 2014. I just decided to give up my license. It makes the idea of dating daunting. I appreciate your perspective.
For me it was 2021.... it's crazy right?
chelsea bear, you deserve all the happiness.. your channel has grown really fast, i am really happy for you!
I was told at a very early age that the only disability a person has is the one that a person imposes on themselves.
Watching and listening to you, you do not have a disability. You may have challenges, but you are definitely not disabled.
You are a determined personality. You should, if you are not already, talk to others who have the same challenges and how to handle the challenges that you face and how you cope with them.
You are a sweetheart, and I would love to shake your hand or give you a hug. Since I can't, I will give you two thumbs up for your courage. I hope God gives you all the blessings you have coming.
God bless you, girl, excuse me, young lady, and enjoy the life you've got and never apologize for anything, or back down concerning your challenges.
My brother was hit in the head with a metal pipe, with his brain damaged he can't move or talk basically he is a poop machine. We feed him through a tube so he doesn't drown.
I will let him know that he is holding himself back and he has imposed it all on himself...
Thanks Brain I'm sure that will change his life.
How stupid. Stop with the dumb cringe fairy tale feel good bs....... come back to reality.
So great to see you posting so much of your life and the aspects of your dating. These are so useful, I suspect, in opening life up for so many young people who do not fit the realm of "normal" or "social kings and queens" and help them realize life is still a golden opportunity for them if they ignore those outside of their lives and just enjoy all they can. I remember a date I had after high school with a girl I had known since we were young children. Her grandfather lived next door so we played together when she visited and she and I both attended the same high school my senior year. At the end of our date we decided we felt more like brother and sister and remained friends the rest of our lives. She loved my parents, attending many functions we had for my parents, and she taught all of my youngest sister's children in grade school. I last saw her at my mother's birthday celebration when she reached 100 and earlier this year for her funeral.
Thank you for your stories. I enjoy your blogs. As a son of a physical therapist I often would volunteer at her hospital. I had so much fun laughing and playing with everyone but at the same time making it beneficial to them both mentally as well as physically.
I regret not going into the field now.
Best wishes and I hope you find the love of your life.
I have to admire her tenacity and how she always approaches things with a smile. You are a blessing.🙏👍
I know first hand that it’s challenging dating with disabilities. I tell them what to expect and from my experiences, they seem to be somehow thrown off even knowing I take care of myself and I’m well spoken. Then they only focus on what I can’t do which makes it especially awkward. But hey! Don’t give up! You’ll find someone who it doesn’t matter one bit too and it’ll feel right.
Been watching the your short reels thought it was time to tune in keep going ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Your spirit shines bright through your struggles. Your smile is beautiful.
Thank you for sharing your journey.
I had one day with a young lady that had CP. I took the train up to near where she lived and walked to the restaurant where we were to meet. We both ordered Mexican food because that’s where we were at and we had a nice conversation. after the dinner, she drove me back to the train station so I could go home and I asked about a second date and she said no. I guess I wasn’t up to her standards. I did enjoy her company, like you she had a very positive attitude.
You are an inspiration to everyone.I have been watching for a few months.I stumbled onto your channel,but now I am a loyal viewer.Take Care and Stay Safe.
Thank you for sharing your story. I was born with spina bifida and people comment on how I walk. I wish I was brave like you and put my self out there. You are awesome. Love from North West Florida
You have one of the most beautiful smiles I've ever seen! It's quite captivating. God bless you and yours! 🙏❤️
Love your spirit, enthusiasm and your energy for life. You are an inspiration to many. Thanks for always sharing your journey, you are so beautiful and blessed.
I don't see anything about you that I would call a disability, a challenge, maybe, but your confidence is so amazing, that disability has no chance.
Thank you for sharing your dating experiences. You seem like a great catch. I saw a recent video short of yours on you going to Costa Rica. Hope you have a blast. I've heard soo many good things.
The most highest respectful word..from the deepest of my heart.."MAY GOD BLESS YOU...WITH LOTS OF ❤️❤️❤️
WOW !!! 😮 That's quite the announcement. Thanks for sharing. Posting on a Friday evening, I figured it had to be important.
I want to thank you for sharing this information. This is really a different perspective not many people think about. " what you actually think" ...
Many times we assume things but never really consider what the thoughts are from the inside " having a disability " .
I am so glad that social upbringing are changing for young women like you.
Your smile is from out of this world and I think you are amazing!
Thank you for sharing your story. You are a sweet heart and I am glad you are finding your voice.
I love your positive attitude! Your a gem girl! With love from Minnesota :)
Luv that you shared your stories ❤️
You are a beautiful woman don't let anyone try to convince you otherwise.
David Vodicka, beautiful inside and out.
You’re awesome and the way you conduct yourself is admirable. I can relate to so much of what you’re talking about with the distance of walking etc. I have RA and as a guy let my prideful shy nature speak for me instead of logic lol and it makes for some interesting stories. Anyway thank you for your content and letting people into your life a little. Love your smile it makes me smile when I see it.
Love your candid stories...good life lessons for any person in the dating game...♡☆♡
Thst story was very informative. The story about the movie - all the struggles you had even before the “date” started at the movie. It was a sign from
The universe that this was a learning experience for you (to better communicate in the future) and for him being oblivious to these challenges. It’s all part of Gods plan for you. Please remember God gives the toughest battles to his greatest warriors”
As always be blessed and I’m sending love and light to you
You accept yourself and if anyone else doesn’t that sounds like their problem. I wish you the best, you are beautiful, you are sweet and deserve all the good that this world can offer you
Forget your disabilities and focus on how beautiful you are, inside and out!!! You have an amazing heart and yes!!!, you are definitely gorgeous!!!!🙏🏼😍 keep your head up and never change who you are!!!!🤙🏼🏆
Thanks for sharing. I love ur channel 👍👍
You are an inspiration to me. Thank you.
I just found your channel the other day and I must say you are a very beautiful and interesting young lady!!!! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. And yes I had to subscribe!!!
Such a beautiful young lady with a multitude of energy just oozing from her pours and a beautiful heart and soul...
I think you're amazing...
You are truly an impressive woman.
Please know that you have inspired me!
I pray and hope for your happiness.
Any man should be proud to have a date with you. Your such an amazing young woman and always have positive vibes stay positive and keep smiling your absolutely beautiful.
Love the videos. Oh ya, Saw grass mall can get busy.
Such a positive & beautiful woman! You GO girly!
Chelsea 🐻 first and foremost your Absolutely beautiful i think and you sound so down to earth, open and honest about who you are you have this glow about you that is so powerful you look so happy in your own skin that alot of people don't I olny wished i could be with someone like you... 🌻
The dating world is so challenging. There are so many superficial people that are very comfortable being deceptive. I wish us both the best in that arena. Cheers!
First impressions are real - That worst date guy was terrible. That is when I would tell my daughters the same and you did. ***run*** U are awesome
Thank you for sharing. Your videos are great.
Thank you for sharing. Have a wonderful weekend
I appreciate point of view, thanks for sharing
You have such a positive attitude about life.
i remember my first Love, it is something i will never forget, Years later i ended up with the Love of my life for 34 years, she was the most wonderful Beautiful kind and caring fun person in my life, she made me the happiest man in the world, , Live Love Laugh and and enjoy life, wishing you a very happy life,
Awesome Storys , Bad Dates ☹ .
I Pray you find someone that will treat you right like you need to be treated . 🙏
Thanks for sharing!!! ❤
Thank you for sharing your experiences in dating.
I think it’s good to be upfront about special needs or consideration, communication is important or how is the other person supposed to know?? And if you get rejected it better sooner than later anyway 😊 because you don’t wast each other’s time
One of the finest ladies in my life was my grandmother. She had developed Parkinson's later. It never changed the lady she always was. The only way she could eat peas was mixed in mashed potatoes. And that is the way I'll eat mine. Also had a great great uncle who was born with polio. Never stopped him. He drove himself everywhere. Farmed his own crops and took them to the market. People with disabilities and great attitudes are awesome people
One day YOU will make a lucky man, the happiest man alive! You are beautiful, smart, educated and bold. You are such an inspiration for many and you help so many people, love your content follower for life!
Life is an adventure.
Thanks for sharing.
Great personality, sweet and so beautiful!!! Truly wish you the best!!!
I understand what you went through. I often find women are a little freaked out by my cane. I get the feeling sometimes that they're afraid they're going to somehow break me. I find it very annoying when the person I'm with makes decisions for me rather than ask me if I would like to do something or not.
What a catch you truly are ❤! My best freind had muscular dystrophy and was super limited with his mobility. I took him everywhere singing karaoke 🎤. Not a day goes by i dont miss our time together. You are beautiful and any guy would be lucky to have you. 😊
Wow I'm very shy, you tough me a lot, I don't have any disability and you are stronger then me don't give up keep going, God bless you
Love your channel ❤
You are so beautiful and are very down to earth... !! 😘😘😘 Man the guy that ends up being the one you pick is going to be one of the most luckiest men alive believe that... !! 😍😍😍 💯💯💯
I was also born with CP. my case is mild. you are so pretty. I was able to live a pretty regular life. just remember you are amazing and can do whatever you put you mind to.
You seem so sweet, genuine and sincere as well as stunningly beautiful. You must be very picky because I can’t believe guys aren’t tripping all over each other trying to scoop you up. But I guess you should hold out for the right guy. ❤
Oh, btw, pretty ladies like you never sweat…. you glow. 😊👍🏻
I think u are Great u have a great outlook on life u have a great personality
You are absolutely beautiful!! Your smile is amazing!!
Wow that was crazy good your a great storyteller it wasn't my first date but switch the location to a huge campground in North Carolina with a lake the lake was at the bottom of a steep hill and damn I can relate to that experience hahaha I said on one of your Instagram post a while back it's surreal for me to watch you and also very very very cool you're doing a great job Channel❤ so proud of you👏👏👏👏😉
From someone with a mobility disability thanks. God Bless.
Thank u for sharing ur story good and bad one 🙏💕
Thank you for sharing. i have cp as well and the issues you encounter and think about are the same for me. If you will pardon me for saying so you are a beautiful young lady. You come across as very confident and poised. I hope you meet the gentleman who will treat you as the lady you are. All the best. jimmy
I love Sports, Movies, and Music.
You are a very smart lady and a very happy person with a wonderful outlook on life I love you're videos keep up with you're videos and God's speed too you and your family you are a brave and strong woman and a wonderful lady to whom I have great respect for thank you for all your inspiration.
Great wee video .👍🏻