So I used to be married… let’s talk about it

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  • čas přidán 12. 01. 2024

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  • @Ikykwktlk
    @Ikykwktlk Před 5 měsíci +19888

    Tell me why I was already overthinking whether she's gonna try and troll us in the middle of it again or not

    • @miss_B_
      @miss_B_ Před 4 měsíci +413

      wait this isn't satire? she actually was married?

    • @mimisma.
      @mimisma. Před 4 měsíci +256

      ​@@miss_B_ yes..
      this is my most liked reply ty

    • @meganthings
      @meganthings Před 4 měsíci +87

      Yes to a football guy

    • @paulasaenz5726
      @paulasaenz5726 Před 4 měsíci +47

      @@miss_B_yes but he cheated on her a lot

    • @laavanya2335
      @laavanya2335 Před 4 měsíci +10

      same

  • @TheMorganGibson
    @TheMorganGibson Před 5 měsíci +12488

    I love how you said, "just because a chapter ends, doesn't mean the book is over" bc that is SOOOOO TRUE!!! I am gonna start quoting that to my family & friends ❤

    • @jv3dee
      @jv3dee Před 5 měsíci +34

      I SEE U EVERYWHERE OMG

    • @dorikin333
      @dorikin333 Před 4 měsíci +31

      Get a life lmfao

    • @TheVacationEdits
      @TheVacationEdits Před 4 měsíci +17

      @@dorikin333don’t speak to her that way

    • @TheVacationEdits
      @TheVacationEdits Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@dorikin333and atleast her life has a purpose

    • @KSV776
      @KSV776 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@dorikin333you think your funny but your not your stupid

  • @aribari2010
    @aribari2010 Před 4 měsíci +5346

    "just because a chapter ends, doesn't mean the book is over" is a beatutiful quote haley! thanks for being comfortable to share this with us!

    • @josephkingsford8480
      @josephkingsford8480 Před 4 měsíci

      How pathetic is your life?

    • @Ven_Videos
      @Ven_Videos Před 3 měsíci +8

      was about to comment this haha also ill be your first reply :)

  • @roxanahernandez5157
    @roxanahernandez5157 Před 4 měsíci +3970

    The fact that really famous female influencer is telling her audience that there ARE good men out there makes me so happy!! There really are such beautiful men in this world! Like more than you can imagine. Finally good men are getting appreciation 😊

    • @leonardomeloni69
      @leonardomeloni69 Před 4 měsíci +100

      Yeah exactly
      İt's so surprising to see a "there are many good men" from a woman on social media nowadays
      İt really hit me deeply

    • @TheBluestOfThemAll
      @TheBluestOfThemAll Před 4 měsíci +40

      And look at how they’re talking about her in the comments😢

    • @Paula-um3js
      @Paula-um3js Před 4 měsíci +45

      The worst people always seem the loudest on social media because it creates them a lot of drama attention (and lot of people talking and arguing about them). But definitely good people exist too.
      Possibly helps that she doesn't necessarily have bad traumatizing experience, they just didn't match as a couple.

    • @songoku-jx3cb
      @songoku-jx3cb Před 4 měsíci +25

      Imagine how underappreciated men are in 2024 that its shocking to see a woman even just say there are good men out there .

    • @songoku-jx3cb
      @songoku-jx3cb Před 4 měsíci +10

      ​@@TheBluestOfThemAllall i see are positive comments . Maybe you only notice negativity.

  • @Dani_dinosoar
    @Dani_dinosoar Před 5 měsíci +6651

    I like how she tells story’s on CZcams videos now
    Edit:you guys are nerds stop correcting my spelling😾‼️

    • @BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA
      @BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA Před 5 měsíci +51

      Especially good for people who don't watch or aren't allowed to watch CZcams Shorts

    • @Aag-wr2gq
      @Aag-wr2gq Před 5 měsíci +92

      @@BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA Who is not allowed to watch CZcams shorts

    • @Emmmmm-lol
      @Emmmmm-lol Před 5 měsíci +2

      IKR

    • @BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA
      @BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA Před 5 měsíci +96

      Some people's parents do not allow them to watch CZcams Shorts because you can't control what comes next, and it could be something they can't watch

    • @Shaaydiia07
      @Shaaydiia07 Před 5 měsíci

      @@Aag-wr2gqchildren, I can’t count how many times I’ve come across porn videos while scrolling through youtube shorts. It’s a very good thing to not be allowed on that side of CZcams.

  • @Senpaischick
    @Senpaischick Před 4 měsíci +1808

    I got married at 21 and wow I look back at how young that is to get married. I was still in college, living with my family and boom got married and moved in with a man I had met six months prior. FF to 2024 and we’re still happily married and bought our first home together. ❤

    • @southernbygrace3274
      @southernbygrace3274 Před 4 měsíci +83

      Same. I was 21 and hubby was a month shy of 24 when we got married. We will celebrate 24 years of marriage this spring. Congrats to you!

    • @currentlywaiting1081
      @currentlywaiting1081 Před 4 měsíci +44

      I’m 20 and engaged! I will get married after my 21st birthday, is it young for marriage and starting a family? Most people would say yes, but he’s 27 and has a home and a good job and most importantly he’s a good man and committed to having a family and a stable relationship, I’m so ready for the marriage life and hopefully I will have a long relationship like you guys ❤

    • @southernbygrace3274
      @southernbygrace3274 Před 4 měsíci +24

      @@currentlywaiting1081 It all depends on the couple, the circumstances, the maturity.

    • @LSSYLondon
      @LSSYLondon Před 4 měsíci +13

      @@currentlywaiting1081 The problem is not young marriage. It's young marriage and having kids. Being a DINK where you have the freedom to travel and your body is still healthy and in good shape is different than being a SINK relying on a man, when your body is ruined, your health is in decline thanks to sleepless nights and the hundreds of complications from pregnancy... those are the ones that hit 30 and get divorced and lament losing their 20's.

    • @Senpaischick
      @Senpaischick Před 4 měsíci +27

      @@currentlywaiting1081 I don’t think it’s young but I do believe if you have any goals of dreams you want to accomplish I’d do them before having children. Children while enjoyable do get in the way of a lot of things. If your dream is to be a wife and mom, then fulfilling them should be your number one priority! Congratulations on your pending nuptials!

  • @hilderenshof2476
    @hilderenshof2476 Před 4 měsíci +789

    This is the healthiest and best advice an influencer has ever given someone on the internet. Props to you

    • @johng6637
      @johng6637 Před 4 měsíci +6

      I thought "Don't eat Tide Pods" was much better

    • @PalinKeller-jt2sg
      @PalinKeller-jt2sg Před 2 měsíci +1

      Ikr she’s turning into our therapist

  • @CountryCath
    @CountryCath Před 4 měsíci +1591

    Being 54 and being married 18 years to my best friend
    After losing my soulmate the day before we were to wed when I was 25
    I thought I would never find anyone else
    Life has a way of working out
    Thank you Haley for sharing your journey ❤️

    • @Victoria_Loves_Jesus
      @Victoria_Loves_Jesus Před 4 měsíci +81

      wow.. so sorry that happened!
      i'm glad Love found you ❤️

    • @CountryCath
      @CountryCath Před 4 měsíci +70

      @@Victoria_Loves_Jesus
      Thank you that means a lot to me.
      I was very blessed to have my husband come into my life.
      Also that he understands that I still miss my soulmate
      Life has a way of saying
      We must go on
      Remember the past
      While grabbing hold of the future

    • @dakota.7617
      @dakota.7617 Před 4 měsíci +23

      Oh wow, she passed the day before the wedding. That’s insane

    • @CountryCath
      @CountryCath Před 4 měsíci +23

      Yes he did

    • @sarahamelia4101
      @sarahamelia4101 Před 4 měsíci +35

      Thank you for sharing your story. The person I was going to marry (we had plans to get engaged this year), changed his mind a couple of months ago and needs space to work on himself. It feels like I will never be happy again.

  • @Twisted_Osianna
    @Twisted_Osianna Před 4 měsíci +3319

    william is very lucky to have you because you actually seem like an amazing person

    • @Lynthechickennugget
      @Lynthechickennugget Před 4 měsíci +90

      You know William is fake right?

    • @Cupcakegirlll
      @Cupcakegirlll Před 4 měsíci +461

      @@Lynthechickennuggetshhhhhh… dont ruin the joke

    • @ILoveWillow903
      @ILoveWillow903 Před 4 měsíci +86

      I’ve been genuinely questioning if William is real

    • @yoyok__
      @yoyok__ Před 4 měsíci +174

      ​@@Cupcakegirlll What joke? William is real. Just because we don't see him doesn't mean he is non existent. STOP SPREADING MISINFORMATION!!!

    • @tsvreiya
      @tsvreiya Před 4 měsíci +55

      @@yoyok__is this sarcasm 😭

  • @addie-rw8py
    @addie-rw8py Před 5 měsíci +1035

    "just because a chapter ends, doesn't mean the book is over." we need more CZcamsrs that are so honest and real with us. we love you haley.

    • @josephkingsford8480
      @josephkingsford8480 Před 4 měsíci

      Who's we? Is "we" the pathetic losers of Generation Clueless?

    • @johng6637
      @johng6637 Před 4 měsíci

      Wow, how profound. Right up there with the great philosophers who write greeting cards.

    • @addie-rw8py
      @addie-rw8py Před 4 měsíci

      @@josephkingsford8480 not that deep omfg

    • @addie-rw8py
      @addie-rw8py Před 4 měsíci

      @@johng6637 haha it's not that deep. i didn't think i was saying anything special. and when i say "we" i mean her subscribers.

    • @addie-rw8py
      @addie-rw8py Před 4 měsíci

      @@josephkingsford8480 clearly the fact that you took your time to comment this breathtakingly clever comment means you're probably also part of "generation clueless."

  • @PreppySlayperiod
    @PreppySlayperiod Před 5 měsíci +458

    I love that you are respecting his privacy. Most people don't care after divorce and just reveal everything. You are so sweet for caring about his privacy and preferences! 💗💗💞💞

  • @PaintingsbyT
    @PaintingsbyT Před 4 měsíci +347

    For the first time she seems like an elder sister and not trolling us ❤

  • @TheMorganGibson
    @TheMorganGibson Před 5 měsíci +566

    Thank you so so much for being so open about your life, I appreciate that about you so much ❤❤❤❤

    • @haleyybaylee
      @haleyybaylee  Před 5 měsíci +347

      We live & learn & grow!! So it’s important to talk about our past!! But my ex loves his privacy so I try to talk about it as little as I can for his privacy 😊

    • @TheMorganGibson
      @TheMorganGibson Před 5 měsíci +23

      @@haleyybaylee I 1000% agree!!!

    • @Emmmmm-lol
      @Emmmmm-lol Před 5 měsíci +1

      Fr

    • @SiennaG013
      @SiennaG013 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@haleyybayleehaylee, i love your content💓keep doing what you do because you are such a big Inspiration to me!!🥰

    • @SILLY_GOOSE.
      @SILLY_GOOSE. Před 4 měsíci

      @@haleyybayleeHi.

  • @Bibbleslayys
    @Bibbleslayys Před 5 měsíci +645

    Just because a chapter ends, doesn’t mean the book is over ☺
    - Haley 2024

    • @bagel011
      @bagel011 Před 4 měsíci +3

      so true Bibbleslayys

    • @josephkingsford8480
      @josephkingsford8480 Před 4 měsíci +2

      You DO know that's not an original quote, right?

    • @Haris-gh1kn
      @Haris-gh1kn Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@josephkingsford8480🤓

    • @Riley-ithc
      @Riley-ithc Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@josephkingsford8480 nobody cares ☠️

  • @gei4116
    @gei4116 Před 5 měsíci +43

    Thank you Haley this is one of the best advices I have literally ever heard from someone you’re so open and honest yeah you’re like untouchable. Thank you as someone who struggles with mental health your videos and just everything you do helps a lot.

  • @sroses23
    @sroses23 Před 4 měsíci +20

    I can relate to your story in my life. Thank you for giving me advice and being open about your life in this way. You are helping young women out there know that divorce is okay to talk about and happens and being civil and kind to one another shows respect and friendship. You’ve moved forward in a lovely positive way and it’s admirable. You also bring so much laughter to others and have kept your positivity. ❤ I love your channel.

  • @sandman.38
    @sandman.38 Před 4 měsíci +59

    Haley is like a second mother that didn't deliver, but always delivers 🥺

  • @ponodude101
    @ponodude101 Před 4 měsíci +22

    This just popped up in my recommended. I absolutely love the positive message! Glad everything worked out for both of you, Haley. Good luck to everyone on finding what makes them happy!

  • @Kalivahcide
    @Kalivahcide Před 4 měsíci +465

    I needed to hear this today, Haley. My story is pretty much the same. Got married way too young, it sucked, now I'm gathering the courage to tell my husband I want a divorce. I love him, but I can't love him as a wife, only as a friend. I'm hoping one day that we can look back at this and learn from our mistakes. P.S. don't get married young.

    • @Dhyaam5989
      @Dhyaam5989 Před 4 měsíci +106

      I think marriage at young or old age doesn't matter..it matters who we are getting married to and how the couple takes forth marriage together

    • @chinabonebearings7359
      @chinabonebearings7359 Před 4 měsíci +11

      free ride is over huh

    • @perrystuart8035
      @perrystuart8035 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Dhyaam5989 yep. women just have a hard time taking accountability for their actions. THEIR selfishness needs some sort of excuse at all times lol

    • @headintheclouds02
      @headintheclouds02 Před 4 měsíci

      @@chinabonebearings7359 That's so cruel of you to say that.

    • @Bammazz
      @Bammazz Před 4 měsíci +38

      I've been married for three years, and we've been together for 9 years, and it's a roller-coaster for sure!! BUT we've never been so in love as we are now, so hppy in each others company. When we gave eachother our yes'es (we married at 22 y) it was for better AND for worse!! There is so much hope! And I believe marriage is work, not a fairytale as Hollywood want's us to believe. Who knows, if you stick to your promise, mybe you'll be blessed beyond measure in a couple of years? Rooting for you!

  • @kenwhitfield219
    @kenwhitfield219 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Beautifully said! I’ve always believed that when someone captures a piece of your heart, she remains there no matter what happens between us.

  • @KurtisHall
    @KurtisHall Před 4 měsíci +53

    You just gave us more reason to love you, Haley. It's obvious that you and your ex-husband still really care about each other...and your advice about relationships is PRICELESS for encouraging your younger viewers to keep hope alive even AFTER a breakup happens. Thanks for sharing this!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @SMJSelena
    @SMJSelena Před 4 měsíci +16

    This was wholesome and I needed to hear the part about how if one amazing relationship ends it doesn't mean it's the last one. I have broken up a few months ago after a 4 year relationship with someone who is amazing but we just don't want the same things for the future. But I just can't imagine finding anyone else who will be as great as he was. I'm not in a rush or anything, but I also shouldn't lose hope for the future and this helps, so thank you ❤

  • @emilyetallman
    @emilyetallman Před 4 měsíci +40

    I’m your age, I’m glad you’re sharing your wisdom and being such a good role model for younger women that might be going through the same ❤ we need more influencers like this in the world.

  • @jacksonhoopah
    @jacksonhoopah Před 4 měsíci +16

    this is such a mature way of telling a mature story, thank you for telling us. We love you!

  • @opheliaocean3782
    @opheliaocean3782 Před 4 měsíci +18

    A lot of people in the comments section are saying "don't get married young!" But I think the most important thing is that you know exactly what you're getting into when you're getting married. It just so happens that it is mostly young people don't know what to look for in a marriage, but that doesn't mean no one should get married young. I am 20 and engaged to a God-loving, empathetic, emotionally intelligent (I could go on for hours) man, and we agree on life goals, finances, future children and life style, etc. As long as you have your priorities straight and pray to God for advice and direction, marriage will be much clearer and easier.

    • @nancycasillas3861
      @nancycasillas3861 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Amen! I couldn't agree with you more 👏🤍 well said, same here!

  • @Clara-yi5on
    @Clara-yi5on Před 5 měsíci +47

    I’m so glad that you chose to surround yourself with people that understand that and appreciate you as a human ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @paolabueso
    @paolabueso Před 2 měsíci +2

    Beautiful message! I’m glad you shared this experience in such a respectful way while also trying to give a positive message to your subscribers. Well done! 🙌💖

  • @raven_1031
    @raven_1031 Před 4 měsíci +7

    So touching and an amazing PSA. Thank you Haley 🩷

  • @ultranina13
    @ultranina13 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I love this! Honestly, I feel lucky to have been friends with all of my exs. The breakups were sad, but mutual.

  • @Zani_Jadi
    @Zani_Jadi Před 4 měsíci +13

    Dude, thanks for sending a positive and insightful message to so many people

  • @ema8146
    @ema8146 Před 4 měsíci +14

    I thought the title said “I used to be a mermaid… let’s talk about it” 💀💀 like ok cleorrr

    • @beckyharding6571
      @beckyharding6571 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I mean, if anyone had been one... 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣

  • @jojie_cakess
    @jojie_cakess Před 5 měsíci +21

    ykk what i love about you is that you def have 2 sides to your personality; you have your funny, humorous side and your real side. you always need that in a person! love ya, haley :)

  • @Digitalhunny
    @Digitalhunny Před 4 měsíci +16

    Hi Haley, I didn't realize just _how_ much I needed to hear this. Thank you SO much! 😘💕💕

  • @Heythereitsmeheeee
    @Heythereitsmeheeee Před 4 měsíci +82

    Okay this is such a wholesome thing but i was still waiting for her to troll us throughout this whole video 💀

  • @juliebaird9946
    @juliebaird9946 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Haley, I love the way you are on your channel. You are just having fun with it, with a little bit of 'real' thrown in there occasionally. Such a pleasure to watch! Thank you!❤❤

  • @phenomcnon7864
    @phenomcnon7864 Před 4 měsíci +2

    aww that's so sweet of you to share your story. it's so encouraging and positive & many people out there definitely feel comforted because of what you said

  • @ZoeRazzino30
    @ZoeRazzino30 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I think it is so great that you made sure to respect his privacy. Respect💖!

  • @baguettegurl
    @baguettegurl Před 4 měsíci +6

    This is actually such an amazing video I’m glad you guys stayed friends and it wasn’t toxic and you’re both happy

  • @crybaybie
    @crybaybie Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you, Haley. Your message made my day. Truly God sent. ❤

  • @jimikrakorn6132
    @jimikrakorn6132 Před 4 měsíci

    Wow. Amazing depth, wisdom, and authenticity. Refreshing and so edifying. Many thanks.

  • @cloeee._.
    @cloeee._. Před 5 měsíci +109

    I think that it’s good you guys remained friends, sometimes people aren’t meant to be in love but they are meant to be friends

  • @catg2282
    @catg2282 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Your take on your divorce is so mature and understanding Haley, it really shows how you ended your relationship.

  • @WHOWHATWHENWHERE
    @WHOWHATWHENWHERE Před 4 měsíci +1

    It is VERY important to surround yourself with good people. Good message!

  • @asTAEticOT7
    @asTAEticOT7 Před 2 měsíci +2

    that was the best advice ever - girl thank you so much for this. I love you and your ex stayed positive over this situation, it's nice to see that they're actually some good people out there than can accept divorce and their marriage now working out. I wish you a lot of luck with the relationship you are in. I'm positive your bf will love you for who you are 💗💗

  • @CayCay_luvs
    @CayCay_luvs Před 5 měsíci +6

    Love you sooo much Hailey you’re the best at being funny, hilarious Especially at giving advice
    ❤❤❤

  • @SleepyStrawberryy
    @SleepyStrawberryy Před 5 měsíci +4

    Your words so kind!! I really look up to you Haley 🫶

  • @lexa_power
    @lexa_power Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks for being open about being divorced. As a young divorced woman, it’s hard to talk about. Need more public figures like you to be open about it so we can remove the shame.

  • @IvyConway24
    @IvyConway24 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I really needed that last bit about people who love you and how life goes on. thanks Haley

  • @bibliobibuli_
    @bibliobibuli_ Před 5 měsíci +4

    love these honest vids haley! would love to hear more of your wisdom ❤

  • @salexxx_
    @salexxx_ Před 5 měsíci +3

    I love how open she is ♥️

  • @n-da-bunka2650
    @n-da-bunka2650 Před 4 měsíci

    You are an AWESOME role model for humanity! We need more like you. Keep up the great attitude and honest sharing!

  • @reframingwiththerhythm
    @reframingwiththerhythm Před 4 měsíci +1

    Diving timing in sharing this from a divine human being, thank you for being here and being you, Haley

  • @unbeatabel
    @unbeatabel Před 4 měsíci +26

    I'm so happy you and William found each other, you guys are meant to be, match made in heaven❤

    • @thedynamiclife2485
      @thedynamiclife2485 Před 4 měsíci

      Have u seen william before? If yes, who is he?

    • @N08R76H
      @N08R76H Před 3 měsíci

      @@thedynamiclife2485he’s a joke

  • @keiramann8805
    @keiramann8805 Před 4 měsíci +18

    I just got rejected, and it broke my heart. I needed this right now, thank you Haley.

  • @skb4055
    @skb4055 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Now THIS! This is why I appreciate your content! I LOVE the real Hayley! Real love continues. It’s passion that ends and later becomes a negative emotion. Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @Avamoneta
    @Avamoneta Před 4 měsíci

    This changes nothing Haley!! Love how you are and who you are because it’s just a symptom of being human and very relatable! Thanks Haley!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @r.t.birlove7908
    @r.t.birlove7908 Před 4 měsíci +6

    this was such a nice reminder. although i am 19💀, i went through only rough relationships and on top of that my parents are divorced and were the worst couple so i kinda lost faith in men and overall love. but this made me hopeful🥹🥺 love u so so much haley as always!!!!!😭💗

    • @meganthings
      @meganthings Před 4 měsíci +3

      Stay up, you’re young and got plenty of time to find hope in love! It’s out there, but it’s tough these days, I wish you luck and a happy life 🌈☀️

    • @Iris_too
      @Iris_too Před 4 měsíci

      can't you guys spot a single good nice guy? i come from Asia and rarely see divorce (atleast around myself) here people know how to commit to a relationship and not abandon it.

    • @yoonshub
      @yoonshub Před měsícem

      ​​I'm from Asia too, and let me tell you in my country divorce rates are very low because it's seen as taboo and usually people get stuck in it due to family and societal presure. Even though things are changing slightly now this still prevails here. In the case here with such relationships (not all, just the problematic ones)there is no commitment or loyalty. Just saying but now it's indeed hard to spot a good guy..guess it's different in my place compared to yours despite both of us being part of asia@@Iris_too

  • @andiegoldsmith
    @andiegoldsmith Před 5 měsíci +12

    It’s important to be able to understand if you love someone romantically or love them as a friend.
    It’s nice when you open and honest like this. Your so funny but you know when we need a pep talk ❤

  • @SVUE-jj9jc
    @SVUE-jj9jc Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great insight and advice for others. You were brave at that age and that experience helped you gain your superpowers as an influencer. Thanks for sharing

  • @Luke22022
    @Luke22022 Před měsícem

    That is a wonderful message, thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @dasta7658
    @dasta7658 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Got married 4 months after turning 20. 11 Jan 24 cracked out 27 years of marriage, been together 29 years.

  • @Lowkey_LuLu
    @Lowkey_LuLu Před 5 měsíci +4

    Haha I was literally going through all your videos until I found out you were married but I wasn’t sure if it was real so I’m glad you made this to clear it up lol ❤😊

  • @parthparekh1
    @parthparekh1 Před 4 měsíci

    Just love how you talked about it with utmost sincerity and maturity ! 👍

  • @Misskerrylou86
    @Misskerrylou86 Před 4 měsíci

    Girl true words of wisdom you are gorgeous amazingly beautiful and so kind and smart it’s lovely to hear advice off someone like you ❤

  • @jamiepaszek
    @jamiepaszek Před 4 měsíci +7

    I read the title as "I used to be a mermaid" and was like, that tracks, tell me more

  • @sagegreeeeeeen
    @sagegreeeeeeen Před 5 měsíci +16

    I’m so glad that you guys ended it well and you’re still friends!

  • @living7063
    @living7063 Před 4 měsíci +1

    So true Maám
    You've started to raise my expectations
    Now I wanna be someone who would at their good behavior even in bad situation. And also find someone who'll always have my best interest in heart !

  • @SaraBeth_W
    @SaraBeth_W Před 5 měsíci +20

    It’s so sweet you guys were able to remain friends

  • @Lookandlearn10
    @Lookandlearn10 Před 4 měsíci +7

    I married at 20 and my husband was then 21. We were in a relationship for like 2 years before we got married and I can say after 6 years its still beautiful.

    • @Iris_too
      @Iris_too Před 4 měsíci +5

      ''In America if you're married, you're a hero and if you're divorced then you're a survivor.'' Honestly it's a culture shock for me, i come from Asia and here people get married for their whole lifetime, i rarely see divorce. But everywhere on internet, reddit i see divorced Americans who rushed to get married and then don't hesitate to get separate like why get together only to separate?

  • @hsd287
    @hsd287 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Oh im so sorry u went through this i hope ur ok and great friends with that guy all the best ❤👍🏻

  • @user-vz1sj8ep2o
    @user-vz1sj8ep2o Před 4 měsíci

    That was beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story!!

  • @myarken.659
    @myarken.659 Před 5 měsíci +9

    I love your videos sooo much

  • @bbg.annaliese
    @bbg.annaliese Před 5 měsíci +4

    aw she’s so nice about it

  • @Minitayto
    @Minitayto Před 4 měsíci

    That's so encouraging ❤tysm God Bless u

  • @mozygirl5529
    @mozygirl5529 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing this with us Haley and being vulnerable we're just glad ur happy

  • @petiteetoile8376
    @petiteetoile8376 Před 4 měsíci +31

    That's so cool that you guys loved each other and yourselves enough to do what was best for both of you. And that you are still friends to this day.
    The whole feeling like there's no good guys out there is too real tho😅

    • @redesignedlife777
      @redesignedlife777 Před 4 měsíci +1

      This video is a skit. She trolling on divorce videos that people put out and this is what it usually sounds like too a T.

    • @Iris_too
      @Iris_too Před 4 měsíci

      @@redesignedlife777 no, she's not.

  • @MooseTheDuce
    @MooseTheDuce Před 5 měsíci +13

    I’m glad things worked out for you ❤ and that you found William

  • @LuxuriousLenay
    @LuxuriousLenay Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this beautiful story and great encouraging advice. ❤

  • @justcallmemoses
    @justcallmemoses Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks for being very vulnerable with us Haley

  • @Isleeknowjungshook
    @Isleeknowjungshook Před 5 měsíci +10

    If she didn’t get a divorce she wouldn’t have found her true love, William❤️❤️

  • @Chief
    @Chief Před 5 měsíci +5

    love how ur storys always have a lesson, cmon sesame street queen

  • @stellawyatt7538
    @stellawyatt7538 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing this Haley, makes me so happy to know that you're happy

  • @romelynduenas3249
    @romelynduenas3249 Před 4 měsíci

    Just what I need to hear today. Thank you, Haley!

  • @michaelsheahan2795
    @michaelsheahan2795 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Got married at 20. She was 19.
    Long story short (but a good one)...
    We got remarried 25 years later. We both missed each other tremendously!

  • @trevornelmes9331
    @trevornelmes9331 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I got married when I was 21. My wife was 20. In a few weeks time, we will have been married 44 years.

  • @vikm1341
    @vikm1341 Před měsícem +1

    this made me cry omg, great message ❤

  • @briisokay1
    @briisokay1 Před 4 měsíci

    I really needed to hear this right now. THANKYOU SO MUCH

  • @madsyourmirrorball
    @madsyourmirrorball Před 5 měsíci +3

    that sounds like the EASIEST divorce ive ever heard

  • @NotElla.Y
    @NotElla.Y Před 5 měsíci +18

    I love you so much it is great that you guys are still friends ! ❤

  • @checreates
    @checreates Před 4 měsíci

    Haley this was so incredibly profound!! I follow for the comedy but got a whole heartjerker today. I’m here for it!

  • @ruthvogels
    @ruthvogels Před 4 měsíci

    Aww this is so short but so powerful and sweet thank you for sharing this with us❤❤❤

  • @Avocado_OBSESSED
    @Avocado_OBSESSED Před 4 měsíci +4

    😭😭😭 because of this girl I thought there'd be some type of troll😭😭😭😭

  • @emilynkneeland
    @emilynkneeland Před 5 měsíci +3

    i love how it was healthy and still healthy

  • @aubria____na
    @aubria____na Před 4 měsíci

    I'm from Minnesota and I'm so happy to see someone I look up to be from here! Love youuu 🫶

  • @kathleenuclear
    @kathleenuclear Před 4 měsíci

    i think it says a lot about both you and your ex as people that the divorce was so smooth and that you're still friends! thank you for sharing ❤

  • @justinfelt748
    @justinfelt748 Před 5 měsíci +3

    This is amazing, Haley!😊😀💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷⭐💖💖💖💖💖💖🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇👍

  • @Unluckyprincess15
    @Unluckyprincess15 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Even if this is satire, rhats such good advice. Ty for spreading kindness and making our days. ❤

    • @jenp3752
      @jenp3752 Před 5 měsíci +5

      It's not satire. She has mentioned many times that she and her ex husband are still good friends.

    • @immaseahorse24
      @immaseahorse24 Před 4 měsíci +1

      What at all about this video suggests it was satire?

    • @Unluckyprincess15
      @Unluckyprincess15 Před 4 měsíci

      @@immaseahorse24 idk shes just always satire

  • @marvinlusk7303
    @marvinlusk7303 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have problems detecting sarcasm and some forms of humor. I have always wondered who/how you really are. Thank you for this insight into your personal life. I now consider you a dear and hilarious friend, that, unfortunately, I will never meet in real life. Keep shining on, Babe!

  • @Me_851
    @Me_851 Před 4 měsíci

    Wow Haley these were great messages thanks for sharing this with us! You've truly taught me a LOT in this video❤

  • @crispyfriedchiken
    @crispyfriedchiken Před 5 měsíci +15

    I’m glad things worked out how they did

    • @immaseahorse24
      @immaseahorse24 Před 4 měsíci +14

      There is nothing "crazy" or confusing or unreal about this video.

    • @ellie5118
      @ellie5118 Před 4 měsíci

      Pretty sure its real!

    • @hxpewxrld
      @hxpewxrld Před 4 měsíci

      Its real, you can easily find the info online

    • @crispyfriedchiken
      @crispyfriedchiken Před 4 měsíci

      @@immaseahorse24 I'm sorry if my comment offended you, I can change it.