So I used to be a model…. Let’s talk about it

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  • čas přidán 13. 01. 2024

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  • @Itz_yourstyle
    @Itz_yourstyle Před 4 měsíci +4451

    You should make this the “let’s talk about it” series lol i honestly love this videos, plus you’re kinda regaining my trust again lmao

  • @MsTemperTantrum739
    @MsTemperTantrum739 Před 4 měsíci +1399

    In the modeling industry, even if you are the "perfect model", people will still treat you like an object. So even if a girl is lucky to be "pretty enough" in the industry, she will not have a better time than the rest of the models.
    Which is very interesting.

    • @MysticOceanDollies
      @MysticOceanDollies Před 4 měsíci +48

      Yep. Haley is one of the most gorgeous people I’ve ever seen, yet they’ve said that stuff to her.

    • @oliviamayumi
      @oliviamayumi Před 4 měsíci +52

      met someone who was a modeling agent. they said models were just "human hangers", so yeah. even if you look perfect by their standards they'll probably give you the same amount of respect they give to an inanimate object

    • @senorita-qh6bm
      @senorita-qh6bm Před 4 měsíci +1

      “In the modeling industry “ no that’s just how the world treats all women . That’s why it’s important to prioritize your self before what men like or think.

    • @angrybitchanimationssucks3501
      @angrybitchanimationssucks3501 Před 4 měsíci

      @@MysticOceanDollies shes mid lmfao I see prettier girls at the grocery store. But Im European. americans could never compare

    • @nahbirdie4773
      @nahbirdie4773 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Its how they break you to control you

  • @LunaBloomASMR
    @LunaBloomASMR Před 4 měsíci +914

    This warmed my heart, I’m so happy for you. Thank you for talking about this

  • @NebulaNorris
    @NebulaNorris Před 4 měsíci +1782

    That sounds horrible and it’s disgusting models get treated like this. I’m so sorry- no one deserves this.

    • @1w598
      @1w598 Před 4 měsíci +14

      Not really. When you model, all that that matters is what you look like. It's a great when expectations are that clear.

    • @liilahh5226
      @liilahh5226 Před 4 měsíci +7

      ​@1w598 that's completely fair, but even so everyone is still humans, like even if that is the standard when it comes to modelling, and don't get me wrong I understand that looks is quite literally everything when it comes to modelling (like it's literally a job based on your looks) every single person is human and they all deserve to feel like they are worth more than your looks (bc you are!!, like she said in the video we will all end up looking like raisins 🤣) at the end of the day a job is just to get money so we can thrive, there's honestly no point in existing on this earth if you aren't happy and enjoying it (why put yourself through the pain and hardship of living through life (bc let's be honest it sucks ass) if you aren't enjoying it.) I love y'all and hope you find a way to be happy on this earth ❤

    • @lisa_wistfulone7957
      @lisa_wistfulone7957 Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@1w598 “Clear expectations” sounds enviable until you look at what’s expected- constant judgment and criticism, frequent rejection that’s given with demeaning “feedback”, no emotional support, no concern for your mental health, and no other fun or interests allowed in your life.
      Actually, that sounds like an abusive relationship… When those things are normal expectations, the healthy move is to leave.

    • @MisterKazoo
      @MisterKazoo Před 4 měsíci +6

      if you want to be a model, thats what it takes. otherwise dont be a model

    • @dr.bartfratze9354
      @dr.bartfratze9354 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@MisterKazoo ignorant bullshit. Working in a superficial industry doesn't give people the right to treat others like garbage 🤮

  • @maz-yz3xf
    @maz-yz3xf Před 4 měsíci +2872

    Haley being a model never surprised me litterally the most goergous queen ever

    • @stephen9302
      @stephen9302 Před 4 měsíci +11

      No kidding. Absolute STUNNER ❤

    • @graceheap8211
      @graceheap8211 Před 4 měsíci +8

      👏👏👏👏👏👏she slaysss👏👏👏

    • @stephen9302
      @stephen9302 Před 4 měsíci

      @@graceheap8211 100% FLAWLESSLY BEAUTIFUL 😍

    • @StubbyWubbyz
      @StubbyWubbyz Před 4 měsíci +19

      I thought everyone knew that

    • @skyyyuhh
      @skyyyuhh Před 4 měsíci +2

      same lol

  • @peanut_flie
    @peanut_flie Před 4 měsíci +453

    Good for you for making the choice to quit the modeling industry! By leaving the modeling industry, you are prioritizing your own well-being and happiness over external validation and societal pressures. It's important to remember that there are many paths to fulfillment and success, and the modeling industry is just one of them. Your decision to leave opens up new opportunities for personal growth and exploration, allowing you to find a path that truly aligns with your values and passions. Keep going, and don't be afraid to forge your own unique path in life.

  • @ilovetacobell777
    @ilovetacobell777 Před 4 měsíci +359

    you’re perfect how you are hailey, i’m sorry you went through that.

  • @thisisai
    @thisisai Před 4 měsíci +79

    "Personal connection w/ other people is so much more important than your reflection in the mirror." -Haley ❤
    100% true!

  • @HaileyClarkson
    @HaileyClarkson Před 4 měsíci +34

    “We are going to look like raisins” BAHAHA 😂😂😂

  • @forestsprite11
    @forestsprite11 Před 4 měsíci +123

    May I correct you, Haley. Yes, you were born to be a model. A ROLE MODEL! You rock, girl!!!

  • @valeriabonaccorso6902
    @valeriabonaccorso6902 Před 4 měsíci +20

    Calling YOU "not pretty enough" is crazy tbh

  • @reddogredemption425
    @reddogredemption425 Před 4 měsíci +180

    I’m soooo happy you were able to get away from that toxic lifestyle and hope you and everyone reading this is doing well ❤❤

  • @MelyssaCaravantes
    @MelyssaCaravantes Před 4 měsíci +21

    I cant believe they told her she was "too ugly" like she is absolutely gorgeous 🫶🏻

  • @Emperorvalse
    @Emperorvalse Před 4 měsíci +68

    Thank you for putting this put into the world.
    You are such a wonderful person and we are all lucky that you walked away and gave us the gift of your videos.

  • @birb.of.fatness
    @birb.of.fatness Před 4 měsíci +109

    I’m so proud of you for making that decision that day Hailey. we soo support you❤️❤️ also those modeling agencies are LITERALLY SILLY for making you feel like you’re ugly. Actually what?? I can’t believe it girl you’re so gorgeous😭 but I’m so proud of you for making your life what it’s meant to be. You were meant to make people laugh , not get judged for your looks

  • @AliceRose413
    @AliceRose413 Před 4 měsíci +54

    That was actually really wholesome. Thanks for sharing your journey.. I wasn’t ever a model but I was a dancer for 12 years, basically most of my childhood till I was 18.. it wasn’t quite to that extreme, but the pressure of being a ballet dancer and having a very specific “image” was always in the back of my mind and definitely did have some correlation to insecurities I developed later on that I didn’t even realize were there until the last year or so of my performing. I’m glad you got out and are healthier!

  • @Healingwith.hollyy
    @Healingwith.hollyy Před 4 měsíci +10

    this made me tear up! you have a wonderful soul haley and are spreading a beautiful message. everyone loves and appreciates your authenticity ❤

  • @snigdhasaikia5737
    @snigdhasaikia5737 Před 3 měsíci +9

    I have never ever seen such a happy soul like her. I mean she was describing the most distressing journey of her life without actually abusing someone and with a smile.

  • @strawbbtarte
    @strawbbtarte Před 4 měsíci +8

    I've only ever randomly seen you on my feed, but after years of insecurity, along with a particularly difficult insecure few months, "in the end we're all going to look like raisins" was really comforting. 😭💜

  • @sarainglis5886
    @sarainglis5886 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Crying in the club 😂 from the message toward the end - really hit me since finding my own wonderful place to be me on the internet. Thanks for the amazing content, Haylee - so glad we have you here!

  • @Heyswifties
    @Heyswifties Před 4 měsíci +42

    Knowing Haley was a model is crazy she would be the most beautiful model ❤❤

  • @PreppySlayperiod
    @PreppySlayperiod Před 4 měsíci +48

    I like how Haley is very open about her life and past experiences 🙂💞💗💗

  • @susansmyth8028
    @susansmyth8028 Před 4 měsíci +3

    😊 Really enjoy your uploads as they make me smile! This has opened my eyes even more to how the modelling agency treat people! Every person who goes for modelling auditions & are treated as though they're not good enough, must be so disheartening! Anyhoo, glad you escaped & are focusing on your health & mental self care 🫶🏼 x

  • @h00Lia
    @h00Lia Před 4 měsíci +55

    You used to be a model 😎
    Now you're a role model❣️

  • @Taggedz1
    @Taggedz1 Před 4 měsíci +29

    When they said that she wasnt pretty enough- literally she is the prettiest person i know ❤

  • @bellhel227
    @bellhel227 Před 4 měsíci +23

    And look where you are now!! It’s so crazy to think that each step happens for a reason, because without them, you wouldn’t be where you are now! ❤

  • @SaraGalal-
    @SaraGalal- Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thank you haley for those kind of videos. We appreciate it 🙏❤️

  • @jeanteil
    @jeanteil Před 4 měsíci +7

    Every little girl (and boy) needs to hear these words! Thank you for this. ❤

  • @taylorontoppppp
    @taylorontoppppp Před 4 měsíci +27

    im actually living for these videos of her talking about things recently

  • @brixoxo12
    @brixoxo12 Před 4 měsíci +14

    Haley, you are beautiful and perfect just the way you are. Inside and out, you're such a wonderful person. You inspire and motivate me a lot.

  • @sleepyracoonz
    @sleepyracoonz Před 4 měsíci +4

    Haley truly the most intelligent, inspirational, and kindhearted person on this platform. ❤ She always knows how to cheer me up when I’m in a bad mood and I always love coming home from school and watching her vids! Thank you Haley, we genuinely appreciate you!! ❤❤❤

  • @sandhyajoshi4105
    @sandhyajoshi4105 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks so much for sharing your story. I'm so glad you are in a better place now. Your joy is infectious! You literally give us a moment to smile with each of your videos.

  • @alissavision2284
    @alissavision2284 Před 4 měsíci +2

    God bless you for your beautifully authentic soul. 🙌🏻 You shine from the inside out, gorgeous. Thank you for inspiring and empowering so many souls to live more authentically and to believe that ANYTHING is possible BECAUSE you choose to live authentically. As a former stand up comic, it's pretty awesome living through you vicariously. Keep on letting it glow.. you truly are Haley's comet! Lol 🌟 🤩 ⭐️ 🌠 💫 ❤

  • @lanoosaurusrex
    @lanoosaurusrex Před 3 měsíci +2

    I’m so glad you chose this path Haylee! Your videos make so many people laugh and smile ❤ happy that you got out of that toxic industry and that you’re doing better. 😊

  • @sophielabandter3813
    @sophielabandter3813 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I love how authentic and down to earth you are. You’re doing amazing. Keep it up❤

  • @haniawaliyah
    @haniawaliyah Před 4 měsíci +1

    This is so inspiring haley!! You have gone through so much!!

  • @BebbaDubbs
    @BebbaDubbs Před 4 měsíci +25

    I have OCPD to mask my ADHD, and this would have killed me. I was scouted young. My mom was so against me doing it and I hated her for it... But I'm so glad now. At 40.

  • @reverrage
    @reverrage Před 4 měsíci

    Always enjoyed your funny videos...i think it does good to see someone as beautiful as you not take themselves to seriously... thanks for the giggles & gaffaws!

  • @clairevinet3557
    @clairevinet3557 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I loved this ! Thank you so much for reaching out to us all. love and blessings to you.
    Haley.👏🏼💖🌹🙏🏼🥰💧

  • @toomuchcoffeesendhelp5431
    @toomuchcoffeesendhelp5431 Před 4 měsíci +5

    under 5 minutes but such an impactful video. thanks haylee! your shorts are a great source of entertainment for me, it brought me out of blue days more than i can count

  • @evelienbijldoelgerichtecoa2775
    @evelienbijldoelgerichtecoa2775 Před 4 měsíci +1

    So good to hear about this. It's easy to look at your videos and to think: 'wow, her life must be amazing. I would be so happy if I looked like that'. Hearing this puts everything in perspective. You're an amazingly talented, smart and funny creator and I can't wait to keep following you on your journey!

  • @josephroman8568
    @josephroman8568 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Amazing testimony Beautiful Sweet Funny Haley! You definitely deserve a sitcom!

  • @miri6056
    @miri6056 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for sharing !!! Such a gorgeous personality you have

  • @loopperson8836
    @loopperson8836 Před 4 měsíci

    God. So true about the getting old one day. Love this. Thanks for the post and honesty!!❤

  • @victoriaoquendo77
    @victoriaoquendo77 Před 4 měsíci +5

    ur gorgeous obviously, but your mind and personality is what i love about you hay, it’s so refreshing to see someone as beautiful as you also have such an impactful persona, keep it up i am so extremely proud of you ❤

  • @MayIhaveaCOOKIEplz
    @MayIhaveaCOOKIEplz Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much!!! Everyday I wake up worried about my appearance, but what you just said inspired me... a lot. Thank you, and you did the right thing

  • @JenMPersonal
    @JenMPersonal Před 4 měsíci

    I adore you 💗. I’m so glad you loved yourself enough to walk away. The world is a happier place for it!

  • @dohlia9356
    @dohlia9356 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you. I really needed this. This was literally an answer to a prayer 😢

  • @TheRoadrunz
    @TheRoadrunz Před 4 měsíci +1

    So happy for you… what an inspiring story of resilience ❤

  • @judyannlubiano8493
    @judyannlubiano8493 Před 15 dny +1

    I love you so much for sharing this. I hope it reaches a lot of young women.

  • @Avamoneta
    @Avamoneta Před 4 měsíci

    I love you as an individual Haley because you are as human w humanity! And it’s true here! You are so much more of an individual! Keep going luv!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MarcosCaiquedeDeusAlmeida
    @MarcosCaiquedeDeusAlmeida Před 3 měsíci +3

    It's so good to hear stories like this. We're all thankfull that you're not THERE anymore.

  • @3as1
    @3as1 Před 4 měsíci

    Oh, Haley, God bless you for posting this message. It is vital for young girls who watch your platform.

  • @NS-fz1im
    @NS-fz1im Před 4 měsíci

    Awww thank you for sharing your story! You are so beautiful, but you sparkle and shine that beauty from the inside out and that’s what makes you so special! You’re so right, we are so much more than our measurements and outward appearance! ❤️🤩

  • @jarveyjaguar4395
    @jarveyjaguar4395 Před 4 měsíci

    This actually sad and I'm sorry you went through all that.
    It's good to hear that you're doing better now doing the things that make you happy.

  • @1Jenii
    @1Jenii Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing ❤ love your videos and so glad you are happy and healthy 😊

  • @evaussie
    @evaussie Před 4 měsíci +15

    Haley is literally so gorgeous

  • @natalielang6209
    @natalielang6209 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I really love you for this. I think it's so important for young people to know what the industry is like.
    Your humour is fantastic and I'm so pleased you got out and got healthy. X

  • @that_one_kid26
    @that_one_kid26 Před 4 měsíci

    PLEASE make this a series! I love this so much!

  • @DazeBoheme
    @DazeBoheme Před 2 měsíci

    Wow, well I'm happy for you that you chose to do smthn healthier than that modeling trauma & glad you shared this. I needed to hear esp part of this!! Glad I watched this ❤

  • @andreahoard9484
    @andreahoard9484 Před 4 měsíci

    You are very entertaining! Thank you for always making me laugh out loud!

  • @einabq
    @einabq Před 3 měsíci

    We are so happy you are here entertaining us. Thanks for sharing!!!

  • @aislinn1991_
    @aislinn1991_ Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you Haley for being honest even when it can be embarrassing, shameful or upsetting ❤

  • @lilycarone5116
    @lilycarone5116 Před 4 měsíci

    I’m sorry you went through that🥺 You’re beautiful❤️

  • @Qiswhattheycallme
    @Qiswhattheycallme Před 4 měsíci

    We are all so grateful you made the decision to keep posting! You are such an amazing human being! ❤️

  • @ceciliaJohanne
    @ceciliaJohanne Před 4 měsíci +2

    I love this! I would love to see a "Lets talk about it" about how you could effort that beautiful appartement. Did you save up, or was it the modelling earnings before tiktok? Maybe a weird topic but i just find budgetting and saving strategies very motivating 😊

  • @user-qm5cg3qk8k
    @user-qm5cg3qk8k Před 4 měsíci +10

    Not surprised that you were a model because you are gorgeous sorry you went through that

  • @aliensuperstar5134
    @aliensuperstar5134 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are drop dead gorgeous! Wisest decision you ever made🥰

  • @afroditieleftheriou2432

    I am very happy for you for taking action to feel good again! You are so smart, grounded, empathetic and beautiful! You are in inspiration! I wish you all the best for whatever you set your mind to :)

  • @glowfishin1
    @glowfishin1 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤

  • @itsmarlyofficial
    @itsmarlyofficial Před měsícem +1

    I love your videos so much and I'm so happy you quit being a model because I love this. I'm here for this. Thank you for being so wholesome and so so sooo down to earth!

  • @daisymay8834
    @daisymay8834 Před 4 měsíci +17

    Hey I know this has nothing to do with it, but here’s a chocolate chip cookie recipe:
    Butter-1 cup (cold cubed)
    Brown Sugar- 1 cup
    Sugar- 3/4 cup
    Eggs- 2 large
    Vanilla- 2 teaspoons
    Flour- 2 3/4 cups
    Cornstarch- 1 teaspoon
    Baking soda- 3/4 teaspoon
    Salt- 3/4 teaspoon
    Choc. Chips- 2 1/2 cups
    1) Preheat oven to 400 degrees
    2) In a large mixing bowl, cream butter, brown sugar, and sugar for 4 minutes until light and fluffy.
    3) Add eggs and vanilla. Mix for 1 minute longer.
    4) Stir in flour, cornstarch, baking soda, and salt.
    5) Mix just until combined. Fold in chocolate chips.
    6) scoop cookie dough onto baking sheets.
    7)Bake for 8-11 minutes or until the edges just begin to turn a light golden color.
    Try it!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @yellowberrio
    @yellowberrio Před 4 měsíci +1

    Ughh, since when did you become a philosopher, Haley?? So intelligent, inspirational, and insightful 🤩 Love you even moreeee now!!

  • @crispyfriedchiken
    @crispyfriedchiken Před 4 měsíci

    You're so pretty!!! I feel so bad for models, no one should get treated like that.

  • @yourteacher_anna
    @yourteacher_anna Před 4 měsíci +1

    You’re such an inspiration!!!! Smart! Smart! Smart cookie!!

  • @deborah3709
    @deborah3709 Před 3 měsíci

    You are so funny and the videos are fantastic. You quickly became a favorite of mine.

  • @EmmaW-N-ni6xb
    @EmmaW-N-ni6xb Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are amazing and so inspiring❤❤❤

  • @user-xx8gj5xi3w
    @user-xx8gj5xi3w Před 4 měsíci +1

    You post like every hour or day. I luv you 😭😭😭 ❤

  • @ella13-butitdoesnthaveahead
    @ella13-butitdoesnthaveahead Před 4 měsíci

    🥺gurl i could literally listen to this all day ilysm im sorry you had to go thru that

  • @GabaDabbaDoo
    @GabaDabbaDoo Před 4 měsíci +19

    dude my respect for her just went even higher

  • @amybethlikesmusic
    @amybethlikesmusic Před 23 dny

    YAAAAAAS
    As always your "let's talk about it" feels like a breath of fresh air out of an oven that's baking fresh chocolate chip cookies. Literally stumbled upon your YT in the last 24hrs and I ❤ you and your journey to being happier being you ❤ actual inspiration, not just bland influence 😘 ty

  • @14749
    @14749 Před 3 měsíci

    Hailey u are like pure angel middle of this social media! Thank you for everything you do, just a role model for all of us

  • @justAbigailsinging
    @justAbigailsinging Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you Haley, I feel like I needed that ❤🥹

  • @Jazzy_040
    @Jazzy_040 Před 4 měsíci

    I am LOVING the let's talk about videos! ❤❤❤

  • @pawpatrolonaroll
    @pawpatrolonaroll Před 4 měsíci

    So glad you're doing much better now! ❤

  • @blazelazin5752
    @blazelazin5752 Před 4 měsíci +3

    How could they not see how beautiful you are😂😂😂
    Well, all in all glad you were able to be free from a toxic place and became who you are now😊

  • @alissa6994
    @alissa6994 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I’m so happy u talked about this, I’m so insecure of models and now I get why, they do set unrealistic standards, and also congrats on 5Mil ❤

  • @charlottee212
    @charlottee212 Před 3 měsíci

    What a great vid! Such an important point of view - hearing from someone most of us only dream we can look like who turns out to be someone most of us should try to be like.

  • @exp-io853
    @exp-io853 Před 4 měsíci +1

    aghhh accidentally clciked on this video but i dont regret watching it...the improtant message is truly amazing ❤❤

  • @ASMRwithyourfavoritestar
    @ASMRwithyourfavoritestar Před 4 měsíci

    OMG no wonder why you are so relatable. love you even more for this

  • @kevindailey4412
    @kevindailey4412 Před 4 měsíci

    Haley thanks for sharing and realizing how awesome you are without an agent. god has great things instore for you girl!!!!!!

  • @brinkatexoxo
    @brinkatexoxo Před 4 měsíci +5

    Loving the let’s talk abt it series ❤❤❤

  • @kathyxli24
    @kathyxli24 Před 4 měsíci

    this resonated with me so much! I needed to hear this!

  • @FeyhaTejani
    @FeyhaTejani Před 4 měsíci

    Haley every time I watch your videos, I wonder how someone can be so smart! You're so talented, so funny, so nice! Keep it up❤
    I'm so glad you left modelling. They didn't deserve you🥺

  • @simplyemily8251
    @simplyemily8251 Před 4 měsíci +1

    omg i cant believe how strong you are to survive that trauma. you made me cry you are my inspiration

  • @phenomcnon7864
    @phenomcnon7864 Před 4 měsíci

    that's sooo inspiring. thank you for sharing your story :)

  • @Conans.-.Guitar
    @Conans.-.Guitar Před 4 měsíci +2

    I knew it 😭 you’re so pretty

  • @jspisces83
    @jspisces83 Před 2 měsíci

    Hope this video goes viral Haley. Your are truly beautiful on the inside and out.❤❤❤

  • @mountain85
    @mountain85 Před 3 měsíci

    You are beautiful ❤️ and no matter how beautiful a model is , no one remembers any of the faces ! We remember what they were like and what legacy they left !

  • @user-el6uw4ic2y
    @user-el6uw4ic2y Před 4 měsíci

    So well articulated and uplifting.