What causes Paranoid Personality Disorder? 6 Signs To Tell If You Have PPD & How To Treat It
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- čas přidán 27. 05. 2024
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One of our Psychological Counsellor's Vasiliki Gkofa talks about Psychopathy. Vasiliki Gkofa is a Clinical Psychology graduate and has completed her MSc in Clinical Neuropsychiatry from King's College London and MSc in Mental Health Research from University College London (UCL).
In this video Vasiliki discusses;
Key features
Aetiology
Attachment styles (during childhood and in adulthood)
Prevalence
Treatment
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Book mentioned: “The Clinician’s Guide. Diagnosis & Treatment of Personality Disorders” by Daniel Fox.
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Please consider adding educational content for the spouse or family members of the person with PPD. Thanks for this enlightening discussion.
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Anonimuse
The first thing to realize is that this disorder stems from thought patterns. Once you realize you are having one of these thought patterns you can learn to be able to shorten the duration's and be less controlled by them.
Remember - You are loved and lovable. It's important to remember that and that imperfection is OK. Both in you and other people.
Mine has gotten so overwhelming to the point where “you know what” has crossed my mind. It’s become unbearable. I feel safest when I isolate. Not too long ago it became so strong that I had to leave the room and go somewhere private. I hardly cry ever, but I broke down sobbing and kept thinking about how I just wanted to die so it could stop.
I came out too my family. My parents were not supportive about it and still aren’t after all of these years. My family will say homophobic things around me knowing I’m in the room, not giving a single shit. I try to stay strong and ignore it but idk lately I just haven’t been able to handle it. I feel like I’ve gotten weaker. Idk how much more of the whispering, snickering, and pointing that I can take. Sometimes I drink to help me relax more. I hate how this post sounds. I’m not usually so sensitive like this. I’ve really been trying to go back to my more so nonchalant self but it’s been getting harder and harder to hide it lately. Idk what’s happening. I’m so tired of going away and sobbing alone in dark rooms at family gatherings.
Talk to your doctor. Hope you are okay.
Can you leave your family behind and travel to another location and start a new chapter of your life where nobody knows you? You can always keep in touch by letters with your family.
The first thing to realize is that this disorder stems from thought patterns. Once you realize you are having one of these thought patterns you can learn to be able to shorten the duration's and be less controlled by them.
You are loved and lovable. It's important to remember that.
Thank you for sharing ❤
I is think you need to get away from your homophobic family, maybe your paranoia is justified, it doesn’t seem like you live in an emotionally safe environment
....Brilliant and so very helpful! Thank you. I lived it and you nailed it.
This video was informative and helpful regardless of other people's negative comments. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Some survivors of WAR have PPD. They seem to have trouble overcoming fears. Emotions passed onto their children.
Very insightful!
Glad you enjoyed it
Brilliant insight, I love listening to you *
Great info!!
Thanks for watching!
Ty so much! That was great! And very informative...❤
Thanks for watching!
Ha sounds like my childhood . . .Great!!😐 Thanks for the Video 👋
No problem!
I have this .. I didn’t know this Iv been trying to work it out all my life .. even told doctors I get paranoid especially if I’m emotional & tired x
Thank you for sharing this
This helped me so much ❤️
Thank you for watching
Very informative.
My wife has it so bad, she cannot accept that she has a problem. It’s everyone else. She claims I do everything she does. She outright lies to my face. She is a vicious,angry, and contentious person. She always thinks I’m trying to poison her, and plot against her. She must have total control over everyone close to her (family). This, I believe, makes her feel she has control over those she believes are plotting against her and thus, she can control them from executing their “plots”. She is really rough on our son. My wife assumes everything is everyone else’s fault, regardless of proof or evidence. It is a nightmare. Even though she was in the psychiatric hospital and diagnosed with it, she denies it.
My friend is exactly like her. She makes stories that she believes I actually did. She overthinks a lot and make stories and lies in her mind and tells other people they are true. She has accused me of several things that she actually is the one guilty of doing. She cannot accept she has problem. It's the people around her. She always has fights because she thinks people around her are trying to disavantage or harm her.
@@zildjiangirl-bu7kq It took me quite a while to figure out what was going on exactly. I had never been close to anyone who had a problem like that. It was really startling. One could not imagine it without living with someone that had it, or as in your case a friend. Once they are close enough to a person they will “let it rip”.
@@unsearchablethings8167 I thought before it was I who had a problem. We were together 5-6 days/a week not less than 8 hours a day for several years. I have felt that what she does already affects me emotionally, mentally, pschologically that I had to be distant to her. When I did, she became even worse. She thought I was ruining her reputation when I was doing nothing and so she wants to get ahead of me by telling people we work with about me, assassinating my character. But fortunately, people around us noticed the problem in her character. Now I can say that I have actually encountered someone who manifests symptoms of bipolar disorder and ppd.
I am praying that your wife can get professional help as soon as possible so everything will be ok soon.
I'm so sorry to hear of your experience. I've posted replies on other feeds. My husband has been ill with PPD for eight years and it has been nothing short of hell. As I've said in the past you can't reason, you have to let them wear themselves out. I find the calmer you stay the better for you. I still don't get it right and will lose my temper from constant accusations and insults but remember they are ill. They don't see the world correctly. Being firm but kind is the best way. Or if things become too much remove yourself from the argument. Go out for a couple of hours. Always have an exit plan incase of aggressive behaviour. Im still trying, some days are harder than others. My heart goes out to anyone with the disorder or anyone dealing with it. Put your safety first, if you feel threatened remove yourself.
You must be the safest place on earth for her. It's the only way. Let her ask questions ( based or not), and let her explore ideas honestly with you (fantasy or not). Right now, you are responding in a way that confirms her ideas, which only solidifies her terror.
She doesn't trust you enough to be vulnerable, basically. Realize that the same hostility and judgment you are giving her caused her brain to think this way as a child.
Empathy , tons of empathy!
I have this except I do open up too much which makes it worse and it only started recently in life because of high stress living situations
Sorry to hear this, we offer free 15 minute calls with our psychological practitioners. To book a free call please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com
This has made me finally know why i have always mistrusted people. And have a inferiority complex. I used to think that everyone was self focused and were not nice and lacked respect. I know now that people are too focused on themselves. If people show disrespect they lack respect. Not everyone cares about other people's feelings. If we can find a few respectful people we are lucky.
Good piçtures n news
Also the roots could be trust v mistrust connected to Eric Erkison 8 stages of development
Okay but the thing is I don't think im Special and different as you said maybe I used to, Nowadays I just want people to treat me right as well/ I finally live alone so my interactions are minimal and that's for the better of others. I'm willing to behave and not senselessly persecute/judge others in public or work spaces. I am able to recognize I am being cruel often there is a large disconnect between what im thinking someone is feeling and what they are ACTUALLY thinking or feeling lol.. Sometimes I just laugh at it now and I try not to take myself seriously/ My therapist and I worked on these things I feel like.. Now I see it come out into my life. It was worth it to go to therapy for me..
I've been diagnosed bpd but I truly think this fits way better. I've always complained about fear of abandonment and bad paranoia...
Thank you for sharing
My wife has been diagnosed with general anxiety disorder and has been taking xanax for many years as a result. She's been misdiagnosed, this is what her problem is. Can't tell her that though because she already thinks I'm the enemy and a liar and cheater and out to get her, so telling her this would just be more confirmation to her how bad I am. This disorder ruined my life.
I have a friend who has become so toxic. Just I think she has BPD and Paranoia disorder based on the symptoms that I have watched in several videos. She always thinks we are talking behind her and up to doing things that will be on her disadvantage. I did try to understand her for several years and tried to make her feel that I am someone she can trust. She always fights with others over small things because she thinks it was intentional to make her feel or look bad. Now, she always starts tension between the two of us and leaves me wondering what I have done wrong. But several concerned friends have told me that my friend always thinks I betray her and that I influence others to be against her... And that I did this or that to her. I am like 'Huh? When did I do that?" "What made her think that is my intention?"
Now we dont talk to each other coz she's getting worse. She has become so toxic to me that I have to be distant to her before my sanity will be affected. But the prob is she never accepts her mistakes or that she has problem dealing with people around her. She always thinks she does not have a problem at all. It's the people around her who have problems. I think she needs professional help.
Thank you so much
Trauma of years of regrets and threats causes this
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Hi! Did you mention prozac at the end for medication? My mum suffers from ADHD and paranoia, we live in a country without good medical resources, so would like to know some preliminary options for medication before we get answers from the local hospital. thanks!
Thanks for sharing!
@@dr.beckyspelman Glad you enjoyed it
My ex fiancé is very delusional right now. He definitely gas PPD and was diagnosed recently at an inpatient psych stat. I had him put in for a few days. He has never been one to acknowledge anything is wrong with him. His dad is a nightmare. I see some people acknowledging their struggles with PPD.. but my ex just thinks everyone else is wrong.
Thank you for sharing
I am totally thankful, some other videos made me think like i am a Little demon 😅
I really appreciate your empathy
Where did you get that dress??
I have a work collegue who keeps looking at me all the time, he seems too be convinced that im staring at him, no matter where i look he starts staring at me. I have had to put up with this for over a year now. Im just trying to do my job and he is making my work enviroment hell. I do my best to ignore his behaviour, i tried staring at him back hoping he would get the hint too stop staring. He will stand up and then instantly stare at me or keep looking over his should at me, or looking at me out the corner of his eye, and if i look at him he then looks away. It's very bizarre behaviour too me. He also seems suspicious of me. One day at work he asked me a question and i responded by saying " Im not sure you'll need to ask the manager" and he turned on me and raised his voice at me and said" The reason im telling you this is because that is what i have done before" I responded by saying "Have you? I don't know that's why i said speak to the manager" He seemed to be insulted even though i was calm and polite too him, and then he gave me the silence treatment and just keep staring at me, he has reported me to the manager because i said too him " Im not banned from looking around" I can't look anywhere without being convinced im staring at him. Would this full into the category of paranoid personality disorder do you think? I mean he's obviously paranoid? I just read below in the comments that people that have seen conflict can have ppd. This guy is from Nigeria and he once told me he has seen many people murdered by Boko Haram. Interesting.
What if between 2 brothers one has PPD and also Avoidant PP, but the other one is generally socially and mentally healthy? What could be the cause there?
The 1st brother (with PPD) has not real memory of his father cause he died when he was 2, but he grew up with his mother and his stepfather, who was a great and sweet man, with whom his mother made the 2nd child. (it is a life example about my father and my aunt so it's not hypothetical)
Could also be genetic, there are a lot of factors and there isn't enough research to say the for sure causes.
I always tought that ppl are that way- everybody hurts you in some way at One point or another so i just distance myself most of the Time cuz im afraid to be hurt, whats a healthy loner then? Cuz i feel good with myself
Where do you go for help with someone who may be suffering from ppd?
We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our practitioners to discuss this further please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book
Does Prozac delete all of the PPD?
Much talk about the solutions would have been appreciated
Yessss 😤
Shiit looking back at stuff i think i might have this...
Guys agression is absolute ok its necessary as a man
But its also necessary to have it under control
is there relation betwen narcist personlaty disorder and paranoia personalty disorder?
Often individuals with Narcism can have other mental health disorders or difficulties too
@@dr.beckyspelman so if a person with a narcist personalty disorder has a paranoia personalty disorder how will he react towards his wife and childrean? Will he react as same as a person with only ppd ?
@@hethed8777 probably worse
Brilliant 👍
Personal growth
I want to help my son don’t know what to do he always accusing me doing things against him to destroy him or he thinks I am playing games so I don’t know besides he thinks there is cameras in the house and in his room or bathroom because of that he never turn lights on at all he take a shower on dark I cry a lot because he was very successful person
so please can u tell me what’s this
sickness called if it’s paranoia or some thing else thank u in advance
I love him I desperately want to help him I tell him to seek help but he always tells me he doesn’t need help
thank u god bless u
Wie ist deine Sohn jetzt? Hat er eine Diagnose? Ich habe auch jemanden in Familie in diesem Situation
Czasami mam ochotę wygarnąć mojej rodzinie, co o nich myślę. 🥯 mają mnie za głupią, już dawno temu spisali mnie na straty, a ja mam czasami ochotę się zabić. 🤢 czuję się tak, jakby każdy czasami chciał mnie zranić, albo każdy po prostu to robi. 🥴 czuję na sobie ogrombą presję dorastania i osiągania różnych rzeczy, a związki... no, cóż. Trudno mi w nich i wolę się nie wiązać, nawet nie tyle co na stałe, a możliwe, że w ogóle. I ja mam jakieś przeświadczenie, że nie mogę ufać innym. Zwierzać im się ze swoich spraw i... każdy mnie zostawił. 🤪 to już się nijako stało, często chciałabym już tak zupełnie odciąć się od innych 😬
Why is this in my recommendations I haven't said anything or done anything online about that topic I have only talked about it irl
I have similar problem XDDDD 🤭
The phones hear us lol
Zamówię dzisiaj maka i na chwilę mi się poprawi. Czuję też, że muszę się wyprowadzić. 😵
A co, jeśli inni, a do tego często bliscy, na prawdę się na ciebie uwzięli? 🌝 ja na prawdę chcę być wreszcie happy 🐈 a czasami marzy mi się o tym, żeby inni zniknęli
Wiem jednak, że mindset, który mam, tak łatwo się nie zmieni. 🐈
If there is a basis of being suspicious, or facts, is it PPD?
I think i have anxious attachment. ♎
Identification w the aggressor. Fearful avoidant. R.i.p. Aron Beck.
🥺
Can PPD overlap with BPD ?
Yes
Bible says "Trust NO man"! Thank you for the video!
I hate having this😢
Paranoid Personality Disorder is NOT laying anywhere on the schizophrenia spectrum. It’s part of the Cluster A Personality Disorders characterized by odd thinking. You are confusing PPD with paranoid delusions but the two are very different.
I think to say ppd is on the schizophrenia spectrum is giving misinformation to the public, especially with a topic as sensitive as schizophrenia with very critical ramifications.
So please read and educate yourself more.
Sincerely,
A mental health professional.
lol
I had a period of this.
Then i met Jesus.
Now i only fear God!
Appreciate the caring, but some better communication skills for video would be nice.... you lose interest.
I am very sorry to say that the causes or explanations seem a bit weak and are made to sound plausible. I have seen a family where all siblings have PPD, and the parents were not harsh. And, of course, when one has PPD, others are bound to see them as stubborn and arrogant.
Ppd doesn't have grandiosity.
Oh yes it does in some people!
hekoful video, so many commercials I won't bother checking back with this channel, too annoying.
Sorry to hear you found too many commercials, unfortunately we have no control over this as youtube control the amount of commercials added to our videos!
Joy are paranoid abaut morality
Sorry but I was not cruel to my Daughter. She is the and only girl. We spoiled her. And her PPD is caused by her misuse of drugs. And
You wouldn’t be able to understand Freud because of the copious amounts of cocaine he was taking. Completely different state of consciousness. It’s the theories that put me off psychology as well as getting therapy. It’s all trauma, trauma, trauma.
Idk of it's about me 🤭
Marry me ! I'm only crazy for you!...lol
Weird desperate men everywhere in the comments
The violent windshield spontaneously pump because fish delightfully paddle till a sudden greek. little, plausible viscose
You’re right
@@mr.watzittooya735 😆
You've failed us! Treatment is sketchy and half hearted. Please give up and return to your duties treating more popular ailments favored by those in the burbs.