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Komentáře • 293

  • @Maincourse19
    @Maincourse19 Před rokem +1157

    I feel the same in my 30s. I'm 31 now, and my 20s were nothing but going through a major depression with so much family drama. My early 20s was coming out of a deep, dark hole. My mid-late 20s was getting through college and getting my first "big boy" job after college. I'm 30 now with money, freedom, and figuring myself out. I didn't have that luxury in my 20s. I highly respect 20 year olds figuring things out and being secure with themselves. We are all trying to figure life out and sometimes it gets confusing and you will feel lost... and that is okay! Being lost is a step in the right direction. I loved hearing this because I feel like this right now. Love you and everyone in this process. We are all in this together.

    • @LucaAnamaria
      @LucaAnamaria Před rokem +15

      I feel you. I'm 35 and in the same place. Finally settled enough to pursue my passions, but that's not always straightforward. 😂

    • @savesoil3133
      @savesoil3133 Před rokem +7

      Well, thank you for writing that. I'm in my early 20s, and definitely feeling it. You writing that makes it seem like there will be a more stable, grounded, peaceful way of doing things.😊🌸
      #SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet

    • @amandadelaney4789
      @amandadelaney4789 Před rokem +5

      I relate to so much of what you wrote. I'll be 29 in a few days, and a part of me berated myself for being slow to "wake up". I felt so lost, stressed, and depressed in my 20's. I'm going back to college and I feel like I am ready to take things on and go after my dreams. Life is tough! We really need to give ourselves the grace to forgive ourselves and grow at our own pace!

    • @jackiek.
      @jackiek. Před rokem +2

      Thank you for writing this. Your comment made me feel a bit at ease since I am now in my 20s and feel the same. Also well done on going through all of that. :)

    • @hediehkf5348
      @hediehkf5348 Před rokem

      Same here....

  • @Sincerely.Sommer
    @Sincerely.Sommer Před rokem +302

    As someone who just turned 20 this video described exactly what I’m feeling

    • @itsraynn
      @itsraynn Před rokem +11

      Me too girl! I hope this decade treats us all well 🥹🥹

    • @avinash21899
      @avinash21899 Před rokem

      Talking about the age I'm 23

  • @sammyg1005
    @sammyg1005 Před rokem +38

    Being 16 and feeling like I'm left behind because everyone around me have things figured out. They know what they wanted and who they wanted to be while I'm here still figuring out what to do with my life, with the thought of dropping out from school because it's just exhausting and depressing. I have no motivation to go on anymore and I feel ashamed for being this way, I feel like I'm a disappointment.

    • @elizabethcelinechu
      @elizabethcelinechu  Před rokem +16

      I knew nothing about myself when I was 16. it gets better, I promise😉you’ll figure it out

  • @martinlansky6962
    @martinlansky6962 Před rokem +18

    I turned 23 this month. Until a few years back I have never stopped and started to think, why am I always so scared of what is to come. Why do I feel so uncertain about things in life, even the more simple ones like entering a cafe or starting a conversation with someone. I often ask myself, why do I keep postponing the work so much, what is the thing, that scares me so much. The worst thing about fear is that, it accumulates when you let it be. Many people who are suppresing their emotions including me express them either passively (indirectly) like anger or when they are by themselves. This uncertainty of mine made me give up university during covid and distant studying. I stayed home isolated for a few months and then I got a work thanks to my brother and his friend. After almost a year and a half I entered the same university, the same field. I am always trying to do my best. That is part of the reason of my low self-esteem. As I am trying to learn more about myself I find it interesting, that I am able to stay calm and be patient for a long time, when I focus on just one thing, nothing else. When there is a challenge ahead of me. I try to fight it and go through, although I still sometimes run from it. To be honest, I feel afraid everyday. I am scared of my future, of myself. I know that I am still very young, but if I had to say one thing that I learned in life it would be that being afraid means that you are aware of your situation. Not always, but often fear indicates that you are moving, that the situation you are in may change for better or worse. You can prepare for the moment or the consequences more, when you try to understand and live with the person you are. It is always great to have at least a little control of how things in life go. I am very far from understanding myself, but during the last 6 months I couldn't feel happier, that I am attending university with nice tutors and I can spend my time in really beautiful city. Visit libraries to study. Very slowly but surely try to socialize myself, try to find a girl to whom can say all her worries to me, someone talkative and active. Being spontaneous is something I love. In my opinion it is important to learn how to be irresponsible, to make your own rules in life, otherwise you will never enjoy it. You control it, you live it, no one else. It is true, that it never is so simple, something what I started doing just recently is to just talk about your feelings. There are probably endless posibilities how to express yourself. My friend likes to draw a lot. Someone plays an instrument, some go to therapy or support groups, some have a bff to whom they tell everything, some tell everything to their parents, some use a diary. In the least I think it helps to clear your mind a bit.

  • @Dcw535
    @Dcw535 Před rokem +331

    Just when I was going to say sometimes the best approach is a little less structure in life and a little more spontaneity can be a good thing, you prove it before the end of the video when you approached the girl in the park. We seem to have similar experiences (CPA was one thing, but then you pull out that alto sax at the end…my mind was blown), and I’ve found that I tend to overwhelm myself with too many things, then blame myself when I can’t get everything I set out to do accomplished. Sometimes closing the books, the calendar and just going out with no set agenda and seeing what comes your way is a great way to step back and refresh. But, you already figured that out 🙂.

    • @elizabethcelinechu
      @elizabethcelinechu  Před rokem +23

      I agree and I've noticed I always feel the most alive when acting out of spontaneity. I appreciate your thoughts, thank you.

  • @tarantelfaser4772
    @tarantelfaser4772 Před rokem +20

    Holy, I'm really impressed how you just went over to this person and invited them over and made a new friend, this was really impressive ngl (i could never)

  • @typ0id
    @typ0id Před rokem +30

    I'm nearly 20, questioning absolutely everything about myself and my life because I'm so confused. I don't know where I'm going, and I don't think I'll ever really know. One thing is for certain though, I'm getting up and dusting off my jeans because I am sick of waiting around for that darned bridge to be built. I'm doing it. Thank you so much for this video.

  • @niniki9605
    @niniki9605 Před rokem +56

    I‘m 16, but I can so much relate to your thougts and experiences. It feels nice to see other people (you) go through the same uncertainty and aimlessness as I do. I just lived a short period of my life, but also every day since the last 2 years feels like a never-ending loop of going to school, coming home and kind of feeling nothing. I don‘t know what it is.
    But it helps to know other people are going trough the same struggle.
    Also I am curios and hopeful about my future, especially after school. I want to live in Berlin and go to Uni (college), but on the other hand I am so scared about being lost (in life).
    I just hope it gets better.
    Thank you for your Video 🙏🏻
    (As you might noticed, i‘m german, so i‘m sorry about any grammatical mistakes or spelling mistakes.)

    • @elizabethcelinechu
      @elizabethcelinechu  Před rokem +7

      Hallo! Danke fürs Teilen und viel Glück🤍es wird besser werden
      (bitte für meine Grammatik, ich kann nur ein bisschen Deutsch sprechen ;))

    • @Itsamecat
      @Itsamecat Před rokem +2

      I get you so much! I’m turning 16 soon and I’ve been writhing in the soil of demotivation and nothingness. This summer I’ve told myself that I will cause no more pain for myself, and I hope you will able to work towards your goals too! It’s okay to feel uncertain--I feel that way too! And it’s even harder when it seems like everyone around you has it figured out. But we must focus on ourself. It will get better. We can do this :)

  • @mics86
    @mics86 Před rokem +19

    We don't overthink. We are just analyzing life. It's the same for me. I am not trying to make people see that I am insane by thinking this way. Just like you, I feel like I have a hole that has to be dig deeper for me to analyze what's going on in my life and what to do about it. Thank you for making me feel that I am definitely valid, that my feelings, thoughts, and emotions are valid.

  • @rachaelgardner718
    @rachaelgardner718 Před rokem +44

    i’m 16 years old but i just dropped out of high school (technically tested out) and i have no idea what i want to do, where i’m going, etc.
    i’m also tired of all the adults in my life telling me that i’m young and still have time to figure things out because i don’t. i’m chronically ill and also in a very bad situation in most of my relationships. i don’t have any friends and i want to move out of my house as soon as possible.
    i seriously have no idea what to do i’m not worried i’m just lost.
    it’s like i don’t have the will or motivation to do anything anymore

    • @elizabethcelinechu
      @elizabethcelinechu  Před rokem +10

      time is your advantage so this is the perfect time for you to grow your self-love. do that first and things will fall into place, I promise (it did for me). sending you lots of love🤍

    • @beepb00ppp
      @beepb00ppp Před rokem

      make ur hobby ur job babe

    • @imranfarah165
      @imranfarah165 Před rokem +5

      I don't get why you want to move as soon as possible, you're 16, you're with your parents, bills and food are payed for, all you have to do is think about your life and how you'll grow (except if there is an abusive situation that you need to get out of and in this case I would say contact the authorities). Also, you're young, like really REALLY young, it's ok to not know what you want to do, many still don't know what they want to do or how life will go at 30 yo.

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 Před rokem +97

    You've articulated my thoughts really well. There's so much noise around me and its confusing, I've decided I'll just walk and hope for the best and trust that I'll do great. Thank you Liz. Your visuals are refreshing.

  • @maricris.
    @maricris. Před rokem +47

    I'm in my late 20s and I'm so proud of where I am at now, I already feel complete and happy. Sorry if it sounded like I'm bragging, but I needed to say it as I was also in your situation 8/9 years ago. Now that achieved my kind of happiness I think one of the reason why we feel confused it's because of the noise you also talk about...we try to listen to too many people, maybe adults and think that may be good to listen to them since they have more experience and we want to make the right choices. But this is the point, I think we should make mistakes in order to find what we want. We shouldn't be too hard on ourselves and not worry too much about the future.
    Btw is so nice to see a video like this, not that I enjoy people having hard time lol, I mean it's so real and refreshing, we often watch too many perfect lives on youtube that also put pressure on us, which doesn't help.

    • @elizabethcelinechu
      @elizabethcelinechu  Před rokem +10

      not a brag at all, I believe this is proof to others what we want and work for is possible🤍thanks for sharing

  • @Luckygirlme111
    @Luckygirlme111 Před rokem +52

    I relate to this so much. Just had a mental breakdown. I feel like I often do things that I think people view as the "right" thing. I have a university degree but I sometimes feel like it was the wrong choice and I'm looking into getting another degree but I don't know what the F I want!!

    • @elizabethcelinechu
      @elizabethcelinechu  Před rokem +7

      you got this, trust yourself ;)

    • @Luckygirlme111
      @Luckygirlme111 Před rokem

      @Iman Al-Jahmee Saaaame! I also wanna live an extraordinary life and be rich. If it makes you feel better, I'm almost 28. So imo, it's not too late for you! I mean, it's not too late for me either but it's almost as if you're 3 years ahead of me

  • @adriannakent9541
    @adriannakent9541 Před rokem +32

    I found the most freedom when I let my life go into the hands of God and realized that He knows a lot more about my life than I do.

    • @adriannakent9541
      @adriannakent9541 Před rokem +1

      If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it. Matthew 16:25 these are the words of Jesus

    • @pastelmoonich
      @pastelmoonich Před rokem

      ​@@adriannakent9541 Amen! 🙏

    • @btag3714
      @btag3714 Před rokem +1

      Do you not find the idea of resigning your life to a mysterious being with no other control measures absolutely abjectly terrifying?

    • @NguyenDuy-ob8eq
      @NguyenDuy-ob8eq Před rokem

      How do you give up your life for God?

    • @madeleineeeeeeeeeee
      @madeleineeeeeeeeeee Před rokem

      @@adriannakent9541 what does it mean?

  • @maivxwbos555
    @maivxwbos555 Před rokem +41

    I'm in my peak 30s and I've only figured out some dark things that kept me cornered and afraid. Reading books about people and their struggles has opened up to the possibilities of answers and why things happened, but a lot of the time we shouldn't try to figure everything out and just ride the wave. When you know too much a happy ending isn't promised, and when you know too little it starts to run you astray. Some people are okay with knowing too little so they can live a simpler life unquestioned. Life is enigmatic, we don't need to figure it all out but that's just me.

    • @elizabethcelinechu
      @elizabethcelinechu  Před rokem +4

      I agree, nicely said. all paths are different and all we need to do is follow our own.

  • @kengause9259
    @kengause9259 Před rokem +53

    Really liked your video. Life is confusing in our 20s. You seem to have things much more together than I did when I was in my 20s. But things worked out. I had my ups and downs, but after a while, things fell into place (without a lot of planning, btw). And while it may not be everyone's experience, I just finished my best decade, my 50s. So, hang in there. You will find yourself in good time.

  • @Norberzt
    @Norberzt Před rokem +7

    Four words to describe this masterpiece. (Authenticity at its finest.)

  • @melbavic23712
    @melbavic23712 Před rokem +19

    Hi Elizabeth, thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family & friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey🥰🥰

    • @juliet800
      @juliet800 Před rokem +1

      Congratulations to you Victoria 💖💖 Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too.

    • @melbavic23712
      @melbavic23712 Před rokem +1

      @@juliet800 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope this is useful to you.

    • @marlena408
      @marlena408 Před rokem

      That is so amazing!! Thank you for sharing your story. I really hope it inspires other individuals out there to start taking action♥♥♥

    • @nicolajessica
      @nicolajessica Před rokem

      @@melbavic23712 How did you grow to 6 Figure? I'm honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

    • @melbavic23712
      @melbavic23712 Před rokem +1

      I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently💯💯

  • @imaspud2395
    @imaspud2395 Před rokem +5

    I’m 23 and have been going through some major depression & anxiety & going through a chronic fatigue diagnosis. I’ve an amazing fiancé, we bought a house last year and I’m in a job I’ve always wanted- yet it’s all a lot of work and has been absolutely exhausting. I can count the friends I have on one hand and I feel isolated myself by not going to Uni. I’ve began to question everything since falling into this depression a few months back but this video feels like everything I needed to hear. Truthfully, I’m in tears. Thank you for making this, I really feels like something has just switched inside me.
    You’re clearly an amazing, thoughtful and open hearted person and I wish you all the best❤

  • @bubblydistrict
    @bubblydistrict Před rokem +10

    Love every artistic choice in this video. The way you edited, the rhythm, the filter, the music choices. As a new CZcamsr, I feel inspired by your work. Keep it up 🌺

  • @AnshuKim
    @AnshuKim Před rokem +1

    I'm feeling this way at 17,
    I want to clear up my head ,
    Wanna be happy and feel the peace..........................
    I have dreams , bit ones but
    And I , myself keep holding myself back.......
    I guess I just need guidance
    from " adults ".........

  • @AnupriyasOfficial
    @AnupriyasOfficial Před rokem +2

    I have been feeling the same. I have confidence in myself but at the same time everything around me feels wobbly, like anything can happen any moment. I've been scared for the last 3 months and have suffered severely because of it. I absolutely agree with the noise thing. I think we should try and shut it out as much as possible because hey, we only have this life, and even if we make mistakes, we will be able to hold ourselves accountable and not put it on somebody else. Plus, we will learn so much.
    I also have this thing where the people around me see all the potential in me while I suffer from imposter syndrome. They want me to do the next big thing and waste no time at all, but deep down I know that I need a break. Some time off to let myself breathe and then study and ace the next entrance test. Sadly our society is such that it considers a year dedicated to yourself and your well being as a year wasted. As of now I do not know how to make them understand cause deep down I know I cannot.
    This video was most helpful. Thank you for being so candid with everything, especially in a world which shows only the best and the brightest. Much love and power to you ❤️

  • @ranimobeidat4890
    @ranimobeidat4890 Před rokem +1

    When she approached that girl in the park and asked her to come sit with her I cried because it’s what I want to do all the time but never get to because I’m scared and have social anxiety, and when the girl said yes and they became friends it made me feel like oh I’m really missing out on a lot of things in life just because I’m scared of talking to someone that could potentially become someone special in my life.

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 Před rokem +7

    Aww I'm so glad you invited the girl over to your mat.

  • @jessicaherrera3801
    @jessicaherrera3801 Před rokem +5

    I just discovered ur channel and let me say your video was the visual and emotionall meditation I needed. Your words really spoke to me as I am 19 turning 20 in August and I am so scared of choosing the wrong path and not "live a good life", but I've learned to just appreciate where I'm at right now, a young girl barely figuring out what I want for myself, I accept that and Im okat with that. thank you for an awesome video

  • @connierebel
    @connierebel Před rokem +3

    i'm in my 20s everything you said is exactly how i feel right now, i quit my job last month because it wasn't for me and now i feel lost because i love to do too many things and it's so difficult to choose only one as the main element of my life. i wanna do great things with my life but it scares me that it may not work because it may not make enough money to live comfortably or that i may not be good enough at it. thank you for your encouraging words, i hope i can figure things out sooner than later. you made me feel heard and seen and i'll always be grateful for that, once again, thank you! ♡

  • @angelapeach
    @angelapeach Před rokem +8

    So relatable... I hope one day, I will learn to trust myself... Yeah, we know what we want. It's just that we lack trust in ourselves. I wish everybody here to be successful in life. MANIFESTING!

  • @doniemcflash
    @doniemcflash Před rokem +27

    6:27 hit me not gonna lie. Elizabeth you taught me to focus more on the little things in life. Thanks for making this video. You are truly one of a kind.

  • @elcorazonqueen
    @elcorazonqueen Před rokem +11

    I just want to thank you for being brave.. for being courageous enough to put your vulnerable self out there sharing these genuine thoughts and making us feel heard. You bring hope to us who are still navigating life hoping to come out unscathed from life’s detours and curveballs. ❤

  • @astoldbyjun3952
    @astoldbyjun3952 Před rokem +8

    This video was great and touched many thoughts that I’ve been having. Being 25 right now has never been more confusing and draining. For the past couple of months, I’ve been feeling numb and outta place since my grandfather passed away. I still have my grandmother and I cherish her every day. Spending time with her more since moving back home, reconnecting to my culture, and getting a permanent job here at my tribal health center. Im grateful for everything but I feel like something is missing. Today was one of those days, i was reminded “one step at a time” and coming across this video made me feel better about my own situation.

  • @hannahc2152
    @hannahc2152 Před rokem +1

    literally one second before I opened CZcams and saw your video my mind went "oh my god i'm so lost in life, I love being in my twenties :))" maybe I really needed this

  • @johnathanherron
    @johnathanherron Před rokem +9

    I want to learn to be open to more new experiences. I'm not the guy who would go over and ask a stranger to sit with me, and I know if I was on the receiving end of that request I would say no and miss out on an opportunity to meet someone who could potentially change my life. Thank you for this video!

  • @aystino224
    @aystino224 Před rokem +8

    Something through out living so far, is that everything happens for a reason. I’m grateful that your alive and able to spread this message, I’m grateful that life steered me to where I’m at now. Go with the flow of life and you’ll end up where you need to be, like here right now, in the present. Truly is a bliss

  • @oyinlolasuzan7193
    @oyinlolasuzan7193 Před rokem +1

    I just clocked 19 last Saturday and I know I've been missing something in my life but my birthday was like an awakening for me, it's like my parents have always kept me in a bubble but I need to take control of my life and for me to convince them to trust me,*I need to trust me*.
    CZcams just randomly recommend your video but I think it was a sign .

  • @danielmarana3081
    @danielmarana3081 Před rokem +15

    This video came by at such the right time.. Thank you Elizabeth! You gave me a sense of clarity within myself. Best wishes to you and everyone else feeling lost!!

  • @livearlyful
    @livearlyful Před rokem +2

    wow I came by this video at a perfect time in my life. I am in my mid 20's and I'm a little lost in life like you I did what others told me but I feel like I should be doing more. Way more. The only time where I felt truly happy and free was when I was studying abroad because I finally broke free from people telling me what to do for a little bit. I also took a risk going to a place I've never been before but it felt nice to do something once that I loved and not listen to those who were telling me what to do. This year I want to start taking risk again and in the fall I am applying for a job position aboard I might fail and not get in but it never hurts to try. I don't know why but for some reason I just have a strong and good feeling to go aboard again and travel since I love exploring so much and meeting new people.

  • @vanessapriscilla9519
    @vanessapriscilla9519 Před rokem +1

    just turned to 24 recently, and started working. it is my first job ever in my entire life. i promised to myself to keep learning and work hard. yeah, sometime mishap happens but we are human after all! if there's one bad habit that i can remove from myself, it will be; overthinking! ✌️ yeah, i'll try and living my life currently. life is like a ferriswheel (can you imagine it?) and it keeps going until our last breathe (whenever it is). so, let's do our best as of this moment cuz the result will be our future. 😊

  • @msspeacesdiary8452
    @msspeacesdiary8452 Před rokem

    What i known is the intention to doing the right things whatever it takes will always guide you to a better life

  • @bhadouriyafw
    @bhadouriyafw Před rokem +4

    Teenage is confusing and scary.....atleast for me

    • @YourGirlSara222
      @YourGirlSara222 Před rokem +1

      I am a teenager aswell and for so long I felt like this. But the last few weeks I started to really live, dont care and do stupid things because someday I will be an adult and wont be able to do this anymore. I‘m sure that someday you‘ll feel better and it wont be that scary anymore. Life can be so beautiful 💕

    • @bhadouriyafw
      @bhadouriyafw Před rokem

      @@YourGirlSara222 I just hope so ...... I wish that the new friends i made are worth it and my academic can improve and all over i dont want anyone to compare me to anyone !

  • @minas.831
    @minas.831 Před rokem +2

    “I know what I’m doing but I have no idea where I’m going” I feel that ❤it can be scary not knowing the destination but they say ignorance is bliss so we can be lucky for that

  • @rose.romily4885
    @rose.romily4885 Před rokem +1

    Hi , I am 16 and I feel the same and this question been stuck in my head for so long so tanks for this video

  • @DhritiS-ip2yx
    @DhritiS-ip2yx Před rokem +1

    i think i really needed to hear this from someone tho i'm in my teenage i'm tryna figure out things for me what's right what's wrong what defines me as a good person what will i be like after 3 years from now there are endless questions but hearing this gave me a bit of relief that maybe i should just go with the flow, maybe i should just do what i want and makes me feel better about things what makes me feel confident i would like to thankyou for making this video this is something every person who's trying to figure out things and get to a conclusion needs to hear i hope everyone who feels messed up right now feels better soon

  • @ameliegareiss8178
    @ameliegareiss8178 Před rokem +1

    You will figure it out along the way! This video is so inspiring thank u

  • @ibtihalnoor1058
    @ibtihalnoor1058 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for sharing all this with us

  • @JonMidori
    @JonMidori Před rokem +4

    YT keeps recommending all these beautiful Asian vloggers. gj Great points. Had an poetic feel to it. I feel the insanity you were talking about. Feels like I dug a hole, jumped in, and started pulling dirt in the form of questions over me. It's suffocating to say the least. It feels bad to be in the hole and I ask myself why I am here which leads to answers in the form of dirt that continue to fill the hole. So like any sensible insane person does, I distract myself to stop. Anyway, great vid. Thank you for your insight.

  • @Janine_Taule
    @Janine_Taule Před rokem +16

    Im on my late teens right now and this hits hard like im crying

  • @skylight3
    @skylight3 Před rokem +9

    just laying peacefully and listening to this makes me feel so so much better, I'm finishing my school and will go in college soon VERY nervous and confused and i love you so much for making this video it's beautiful it's perfect !!

  • @dreyuhly
    @dreyuhly Před rokem +1

    currently 18 and having too much transitions in my life when i'm not even finished at one occurence, i thought i had everything figured out, not until life threw so much at me i lost control and grasp of my true purpose. i cried throughout this video, because maybe the overwhelming occurences aren't supposed to be overthinked, they're supposed to be experienced and learned from. i had no one to blame nor should i blame anyone because we have different drives and mindset. thank you for this video

  • @kassidyderico9013
    @kassidyderico9013 Před rokem +1

    After a rough day and getting my confidence brought down for 2 or 3 weeks and not trusting myself and always ove rthinking I really needed this, thank you so much!

  • @nataliab.7270
    @nataliab.7270 Před rokem

    Hi. Im 20 years old, livin alone, new city, new places, new people, friends, relationships. Starting ADULTING is hard, u need to take responsibilities, u r owner of ur soul, body and decisions... Its scary but amazing, too

  • @stevethomas74
    @stevethomas74 Před rokem +4

    What a wonderfully poetic and articulate young lady you are 🙂The end of this where you plucked up the courage to go and talk to what was clearly in the end, a like-minded soul, shows just how important it is for us to connect (especially when it's outside). I say this as an introvert who's usually more than happy being on my own indoors a lot away from people, despite me being quite the people-person! 😄

  • @hannah_1hannah
    @hannah_1hannah Před rokem +1

    I don't usually comments on videos but ya this video just popped up into my homepage and it was something i needed ...its so relatable and i was experiencing sort of same feelings but i didn't knew how to put them in words ...this video reflects such a calm nd haapy vibes loved it

  • @honeywren
    @honeywren Před rokem +1

    was feeling really down today but this honestly feels like a comfort blanket!! subbed

  • @hi-yo2hi
    @hi-yo2hi Před rokem +1

    in love with this video. I’m 18 and feel lost with starting my life after high school so this video resonated and i loveeee your vibes 🫶

  • @lucybaker8350
    @lucybaker8350 Před rokem +1

    This wohle video is just so beautiful and really comforting me. So glad I found this channel

  • @diwasH3DD
    @diwasH3DD Před rokem

    "I'm not overthinking
    I'm just analyzing" ❤️

  • @souleyes7467
    @souleyes7467 Před rokem +1

    I randomly found this video on my feed and just wow! Thank you for creating this video!!

  • @hs6910
    @hs6910 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for posting this video, I keep needing reminders that I'm not running out of time and behind

  • @emmy5255
    @emmy5255 Před rokem

    I would like to say that a lot of the confusion and worry is because we care about life so we want to try to find a way to figure out what's going to happen and how we can control it but we can't. Even though we can't I hope we can all trust that there's a God who cares about us and knows what's going to happen and make sure everything works out for our good. That even if we feel like we're not good enough, this God with all the power in the world can give us all we need to get through the downs of life and fly during the ups if we open ourselves up to the love that is there xx

  • @yuzi6904
    @yuzi6904 Před rokem +1

    Just subscribed! what a beautiful video. Thank you, I needed this. Was feeling lost and lonely these days. Send love to you guys who also feel the same, we're going to get thru this 🤍

  • @Samanthayeo93
    @Samanthayeo93 Před rokem +1

    I feel the same in my 30s and you encapsulated what I’m feeling these recent months. You’re not alone.

  • @sayasuka6397
    @sayasuka6397 Před rokem

    Have you ever sat in a jungle and listened to the noise of the nocturnal life? It will change your life, just sitting doing nothing. I go back to it every once in awhile, I live in a big city and sometimes I want to go back, but I know I have unfinished things to do here. Anyways, finding your path is a journey, a beautiful one at that if you can see a bird fly or a flower blooming, someone smiling, or the rain pelting on the leaves of a tree.

  • @camila-cl4np
    @camila-cl4np Před rokem +1

    that was a meaningful message, thank you so much. some of us really needed it

  • @2DarkHorizon
    @2DarkHorizon Před rokem +4

    What I found for myself to help figure out life is to simply form an informed opinion about life or what ever you are trying to achieve. That way you have more conviction what you believe is right and wrong and what you think is important or what you want to change in the world.

  • @hannafromatlanta
    @hannafromatlanta Před rokem +7

    Ur channel was recommended on the main page and I'm so happy it did! You explained being in a limbo of life super well and excited to join the journey with you 💛

  • @user-tm1fh9kz7c
    @user-tm1fh9kz7c Před rokem +1

    I really envy you, I cried watching your video. Thank you very much for sharing such a relaxed state, it is difficult for me to empathize, but it can satisfy the imagination. I am in China, and the environment of the whole society is urging us to be a person who can generate economic benefits to the society, but the society gives you very little in return. For example, the beautiful park you found in the video, those harmonious scenery and people, we can't easily find it.

    • @elizabethcelinechu
      @elizabethcelinechu  Před rokem

      Hi love, sending lots of love. I get where you’re coming from, it’s a very intense environment to be in-lots of voices shouting at you. Hope my videos can bring you comfort, at the end of the day, you are the most important in your life.

  • @Chen_yun-q5n
    @Chen_yun-q5n Před rokem +2

    Thankyou so much for adding inbuilt subtitles as a non-English speaker and someone who is learning english it is honestly so hard to understand what the influencers are saying and you're literally the sweetest and gorgeous person I've seen you deserve more support and subs I loved you video love

  • @supremelexis
    @supremelexis Před rokem +2

    this made me tear up🥺 you explained everything that I’ve been feeling this month. I was doing so good the beginning of the year but out of no where I started feeling down. These thoughts just started to make me feel doubtful about myself, feeling stuck and confused, pretty much all over the place. I try my best everyday to keep going and be thankful for what I have in life but it can be hard sometimes. I’m taking this position that I am in my life rn, as a this is happening to me for a reason. Loved the video

  • @AumNamahh
    @AumNamahh Před rokem

    It felt like someone made a video out of my journal entry. Thank you so much for helping me realise my thoughts and feelings.

  • @CeceKP
    @CeceKP Před rokem +1

    I don't know what just happened, but I truly stared crying a little bit when you decided to approach that girl and it was a success🥲🤍 maybe it's because I wish I could do something like that, or bc I crave human connection like that.. I truly wish to make more/new friends but I feel so closed of and introverted. Hopefully I will have the courage one day when I meet the right people (I have friends but besides my best friend, we have grown apart a lot)

  • @tarantelfaser4772
    @tarantelfaser4772 Před rokem +1

    I just clicked on this video and after not even a whole minute I had tears in my eyes, just turned 20 and related too much to what you said ._.

  • @mikaela000
    @mikaela000 Před rokem

    Exactly what I needed at the right time. Thank you^^

  • @syrineayedi3243
    @syrineayedi3243 Před rokem +1

    Mrs Elizabeth Chu thank you for making me feel less alone.

  • @dorinnxz
    @dorinnxz Před rokem +1

    this is so beautiful, im 20 and i think i needed this before i hit 21 and tbh ive been having not so great moments and i hope these days pass as soon as it can and i know ill pull through.

  • @galaxyvibes5832
    @galaxyvibes5832 Před rokem +1

    i love how natural you r keep going!!!!

  • @Arlekisa
    @Arlekisa Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much for this video!
    Just randomly got there, but your editing such aesthetic, voice so calm and peaceful, and I can sign on each word you said ❤
    I’m 26 now, and again, I’m grateful for this vid, keep going 💫

  • @mrldelatorre
    @mrldelatorre Před rokem

    Glad to find this video, I'll be 20 this year and currently in college pursuing something that I didn't like to begin with because of circumstances. Kinda reassured me that it's okay to take my time and figure things out along the way.

  • @safwahmansurahzainudin

    I came across your video and I don't regret it. Thank you for this

  • @__irenic
    @__irenic Před 9 měsíci

    The amount of peace this video brought me😭😭thank you for this ❤

  • @isabella_jean
    @isabella_jean Před rokem

    "i dont overthink, im just analyzing"

  • @laurenxu3188
    @laurenxu3188 Před rokem +2

    you are seriously my new favorite creator. every single word you have poured out has been SPOT ON and extremely resonant with me. im going to follow you and check out your other videos. Thanks for being authentic and vulnerable on the internet : )

  • @allisonshu6930
    @allisonshu6930 Před rokem +2

    Nice video, success is so subjective, and I’ve “wasted” a lot of time trying to figure out what things actually make me happy. Nowadays I don’t feel like that time was wasted- your journey of self discovery is important too, not just the end product! And even then people are always changing as they grow into themselves even more.

  • @ryanschmidt2101
    @ryanschmidt2101 Před rokem +1

    this is beautiful. i love the message

  • @YNKAVlogs
    @YNKAVlogs Před rokem

    I needed this now more than ever. thank you so much.

  • @Nootorious
    @Nootorious Před rokem

    Thank you for this video. I can't explain how healing it is.

  • @Elveera
    @Elveera Před rokem +1

    I really liked the vibe in this video. Thanks for sharing❤

  • @wyxlpy8462
    @wyxlpy8462 Před rokem

    This video gives peace. Thank you for this calm living video with deep thoughts❤

  • @danielle2337
    @danielle2337 Před rokem +1

    This was beautiful, I needed it🤍

  • @shari_606
    @shari_606 Před rokem

    aww so cute that you asked the girl to sit with you 😍 loved the video. I'm 29 and I still feel lost.

  • @MusicVibes779
    @MusicVibes779 Před rokem +1

    노래 플레이리스트 너무 좋아요.. 메모장에 적어놓고 가사 찾아서 불러보기도 하고.. 힐링되는 노래 감사합니다 🥰💕💕

  • @amoremio92
    @amoremio92 Před rokem

    Hi Elizabeth!~ I just discovered your channel. The vlog was so inspiring and calming as well. It gave me hope and perspective. Thank u! keep going! I wish u many blessings xoxo

  • @dhanireddy2113
    @dhanireddy2113 Před rokem

    This video is so cinematically amazing! wow , I am in my early teen years and exploring myself/ reinventing/ waking etc and this just erased the stress, so calming, and made me realize how much I already have
    That life is good line is sticked to me forever. Love you 💖

  • @alinka9884
    @alinka9884 Před rokem

    this video popped up on my page as i’m taking a bubble bath and i related so deeply, life has been so confusing, i needed this ._.

  • @babiixjo
    @babiixjo Před rokem

    I am so happy that you approached the stranger! I’ve been in that moment many time of wanting to approach and make a small connection with a stranger but have never gotten the courage to

  • @claireverse
    @claireverse Před rokem

    i'm only 16 but i feel so lost already, as though i'm the only person i know without the drive to reach my goals. last year i was released from the hospital after an overdose and i've been struggling to find the energy and vigor that i want to implement into my life. i want to do so much, and be so much. i want to make the most of every moment and live a life that makes me happy to wake up to. but i feel overwhelmed by possibilty, and i end up doing nothing. i feel so behind. i just want to be a teenager for now. thank you for making such an inspiring video, it helped me feel not so alone. i know it's okay for me to take things slowly and not shame myself for being imperfect. we will be okay :)

  • @sude2653
    @sude2653 Před rokem +1

    im 21 and I feel like I chose the wrong path. I am not sure I want to be veterinarian. but sometimes it feels right I don't know what to feel. I don't know how to handle my emotions. I think I need to let go of things. I should go with the flow

  • @stargirl11zz
    @stargirl11zz Před rokem +1

    omgg i love how fast you channel has grown

  • @zhaneemasden2670
    @zhaneemasden2670 Před rokem +1

    This is so lovely and you made me cry… Thank you 🥹💖

  • @HR-bg7qr
    @HR-bg7qr Před rokem +1

    Thank u so much for sharing this

  • @strawbanni
    @strawbanni Před rokem

    A very good video. Thank you for this ❤