My self care day Good breakfast Stretch Clean Organize Free time(movies or on my phone ) Pamper myself Dress up Hang out with friends Come home and relax
I love how this is different from others selfcare videos I see all of which show bath,face mask ,food etc which I understand but this;I love because it addresses the basic and core things and seems like this will work long term
Aileen, i was looking for some morning inspiration and came across your blog. OMG, it's soo beautiful!!! Thank you for what you do here! Greetings from Russia
Perfectly timed video. As I come home exhausted from work to an untidy flat (I work in mental health) it's great to be reminded that tidying up isn't a chore, it's part of self care! It can be part of a ritual to clear my mind and feel less overwhelmed. Once I watched this I immediately got up, put away my clothes and tidied my flat. Feel so much calmer now I've done so. Thanks for the inspiration đ
you are radiating! Thank you for showing the world that you are not perfect and even you forget to do things or unpack weeks later, I would have never guessed. You seem so perfect! I am convonced you are an angel ^.^
i love the topic reset routine.... everybody needs to identify what it is that needs reset to get you back on track ready to be joyful again. We all have down/low times and is is great to identify your triggers and reset when needed... we all should then design a self care reset routine to use when needed the same as we set our morning and night routines...
Sharing these words and tips of positivity are so important for young people to hear. Additionally, it's refreshing to hear that not everyone is perfect, and life can get overwhelming at times and your space can get cluttered. Learning to not hate yourself for these "failures" is something that I am slowly working on, as I'm sure many others are. Keep doing what you do Aileen đâš
okay, i kinda don't understand how is this possible but it is the second time that your video goes online right at the moment when i'm worried about something and feel not very good. like the previous time i was worried about my self-confedence, about how to really gain it and stuff - and your video came up just at the middle of the day (i mean, idk what'a the time at your area but for me it is afternoon). and for a week i was spending days like very good, i was doing things i love, i was pretty busy having fun. đ but today somehow i can't do anything and can't even think about what to do, sounds like i am bored. and here you are with the video i needed! how is this possible? you're a magician, for sure. đđ thank you! †(sorry for my english, it's messy a little bit...)
I try to schedule in at least one self-care afternoon a week. You've inspired me to be a bit more "productive" with my time though. Like you, a messy environment really impacts my mood so, instead of using my self-care time to forget about it and switch off, I should be using it to fix the problems and messes I see.
I definitely will be incorporating this into my life sometime soon. I realized after watching this that I do feel cluttered and out of order. Thanks so much for these amazing videos!
Love this video! You're so right. Self care is something we need to invest in more. Yesterday I ran myself a bath and picked flowers from the garden & put petals in the bath, with some lavender oil. It was lovely. I lit candles and wore a argan oil face mask. Much needed TLC!
This is my day today! So overwhelmed with youtube, job, uni... I will still have to work today but after taking care of myself I will do it in much better mood. thanks Aileen x
I have started journaling because of your advice Aileen, and it really works for me! Sometime I write a lot, other days I just write down a couple of things including my to do list and it is so much easier to figure stuff out when you write everything down. Thank you :)
Self dates are really important. I'm glad you took the time to vlog about this subject. I'd go even farther in my self dates though, especially now that a lot of the productive things mentioned in this video are becoming part of my morning routine. I don't have self date days very often and I can literally feel myself almost depleting in a way. What I've done in the past for those days would be something as simple as taking myself to a movie, going to the gym (when I had a membership) and getting myself a smoothie, taking myself to a "Starbucks & Chill" date, or treating myself to a nice meal at a favorite restaurant in the afternoon or late morning while reading a good book. I think sometimes we forget that we can do such things on our own and it will still feel good. Better even, because we're recharging our batteries, clearing our minds, and taking the time to really appreciate and be comfortable witg our own company which is SO important. I'm enjoying your video's so far and I really like your vibe! I'd love to collaborate with you someday!
That "piano in the background" playlist has been carrying me through this WHOLE week. it's definitely one of my "evening self care" playlists that i play when i'm winding down for the day and reading in bed. really enjoyed this video!!
first few minutes and i already can relate sooo much. sometimes everything is just incredibly messy (my mind especially) and have have this urgent feeling if getting rid of everything cluttery. meditation is then even harder for me cause my thoughts won't shut up, but once you get into the zone you'll feel so much better! btw i just came across your channel and i love it. so much quality content and such a huge inspiration for me since I'm focussing on similar topics. much love, xx
Japanese, Vietnamese & Arabic subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description đ
I've really been stressed and stuck lately with all my work, but this video gave me the inspiration and ideas to help clear my mind and space properly. Thank you!!!
Thank you so much for sharing this with us!! Your channel has really helped over the past month and your videos are so good and concise that I never feel the need to skip anything. I feel better after watching them!
Your videos are super refreshing, encouraging and motivating. Your voice is very soothing. I mean, it puts me in a very calm state of mind. I absolutely love you. â€
that's my routine for every single day and it's the reason why I have a full self love. thanks for sharing and I love that dress you're wearing in the beginning of the video, it has this magical touch and it fits you so well. love
I am LITERALLY in that phase right now. I also keep my laundry in a pile I just started folding half of them. After watching this I'm gonna mark today as my self care date. Thank you & I love that I can relate to almost everything you say in this channel. đđđ
As much as we are all different we really all are basically the same. This video was so me! Sometimes you just really have to step back and regroup!! And it is so o.k. I am working on removing all thoughts, feelings and opinions every morning and starting with a fresh uncluttered mind!! Really great video!!
You are so inspiration to me . I have your" You are enough" one video in my playlist and it makes me feel super amazing . your voice makes me feel relaxing love you take care â€
I love this self care date idea. We work too much sometimes and totally forget to show some love to ourselves and our families. It's a great idea to just clear your day once in a while and give yourself the time to actually express some love to yourself and others. Thank you for this beautiful video!
Hi there, I'm a full time working mom with two toddlers. I love your channel but this video might be my favorite... because we were able to see how real you are! It was comforting to know you are sometimes just as organized as the rest of us! This has inspired me to take a "mental day" off work for self care and to do all the cleaning / organizing I always put off! Take care.
Wow I do these same things... It's amazing how once my area is clear (work space as well) I feel more clear and relaxed. The running as well. I try my best to stay on top of these things as it also begins to affect my rest at night.
Your videos are the best thing that happened to me. I just discovered you today and watched so many of your videos in a row. You are definitely my favorite CZcamsr. Love all your tips, keep up the great work. Stay blessed.
wow i wish i was more like you, youre like really trying and then theres me who's just like meh whatever. but your videos actually makes me feel more motivated, so thank you, i love the internet
I didnât know this was what it means. Now I will plan my self care dates. Thank you. I just love your videos. You need to do more because you are so inspiring. But however you do, they are always on time and never old no matter when theyâre uploaded.
Hi ! Whenever I watched your videos I feel at ease and calm and I'm not a very calm person ^^" I started meditation, journaling a little bit more than I used to and I can tell that it is new but I actually like it ;) This video is amazing ! You are an amazing person and thank you for sharing so much positivity around the world đđ
I love your editing style. It's simple and elegant, and not only that, but it's super calming and really reflects you as a person. Thanks for creating such amazing content Aileen!
keep up the good work Aileen. You are really helping a lot of people out there in the world by your videos. I am from a very different culture and environment than yours but seeing your videos has had a real positive effect in my world. keep it up :)
Soooo relatable, it's like a talk to myself. Love it, gives me such a good-clear-peaceful vibes. Keep this great, chill and gorgeous videos. They actually transmit. Love, Luisa.
Things to do for a self care reset day - *Journaling* *Meditate* *Clean and organize my space* *Organize & clean my vanity area* *Declutter the low self-worth outfits from closet* *Exercise* *Take a good shower* *Light some đŻïž and play soothing music* đ„°đ„°đ„°đ„°â„ïžâ„ïžâ„ïžâ„ïžđđđđ
Has anyone told you that your outro music sounds like one of the songs from "Avatar" LOL I love your videos Aileen! Never stop making them because you help someone deal with life everyday!
This video made me want to have my pamper routine today!! Thank you, Aileen for your awesome videos, I can see how much your channel has grown and more specifically how much you have grown! Keep it up đ
right after watching this i got out of bed, cleaned / organized my whole room, and chugged a bottle of water... are you magic ? ps what meditation app do you use? xoxo
You are so cool and real. I just love it. Although, not super glamorous, these days are much needed. Thanks for the reminder :) keep up the awesomeness! xoxo
I love that this was about clearing your head and your space rather than about some beauty routine like I expected (which can surely be calming as well, but I can relate to this much more). A day like this seems great :- ) During your organization of make-up stuff I thought: did she also declutter something? And a second later you said: I even decluttered some... :- D Yay for decluttering.
So on point!! Hello Lavendsire, can you perhaps do more of your how to pack videos or a lookbook of when you travel. That would help a lot, thank you!! â€
Man I see the whole self care day EVERYWHERE and I envy people who have to make time to just chill. Like that's all I do, I get soooo bored during the summer, I need like the opposite of a self care day :/
In middle school I was always the type to have a messy locker or room (just a little messy) but in high school and college I tried to be more organized. Now as an adult I can tell that if the house is clean I just feel less anxious.
Loved the video! It came at the perfect moment. I also loved the way you have arranged your room. Could you please make a video about room organization? I'm not very good at it and any ideas would be more than welcome
My self care day
Good breakfast
Stretch
Clean
Organize
Free time(movies or on my phone )
Pamper myself
Dress up
Hang out with friends
Come home and relax
I love how this is different from others selfcare videos I see all of which show bath,face mask ,food etc which I understand but this;I love because it addresses the basic and core things and seems like this will work long term
Aileen, i was looking for some morning inspiration and came across your blog. OMG, it's soo beautiful!!! Thank you for what you do here! Greetings from Russia
+Bookademy đđ
Perfectly timed video. As I come home exhausted from work to an untidy flat (I work in mental health) it's great to be reminded that tidying up isn't a chore, it's part of self care! It can be part of a ritual to clear my mind and feel less overwhelmed. Once I watched this I immediately got up, put away my clothes and tidied my flat. Feel so much calmer now I've done so. Thanks for the inspiration đ
you are radiating! Thank you for showing the world that you are not perfect and even you forget to do things or unpack weeks later, I would have never guessed. You seem so perfect! I am convonced you are an angel ^.^
nobody's perfect! haha. everyone has an ideal we're striving towards but the journey there is never perfect, and that's totally okay đ
i love the topic reset routine.... everybody needs to identify what it is that needs reset to get you back on track ready to be joyful again. We all have down/low times and is is great to identify your triggers and reset when needed... we all should then design a self care reset routine to use when needed the same as we set our morning and night routines...
yes!
Sharing these words and tips of positivity are so important for young people to hear. Additionally, it's refreshing to hear that not everyone is perfect, and life can get overwhelming at times and your space can get cluttered. Learning to not hate yourself for these "failures" is something that I am slowly working on, as I'm sure many others are. Keep doing what you do Aileen đâš
okay, i kinda don't understand how is this possible but it is the second time that your video goes online right at the moment when i'm worried about something and feel not very good.
like the previous time i was worried about my self-confedence, about how to really gain it and stuff - and your video came up just at the middle of the day (i mean, idk what'a the time at your area but for me it is afternoon). and for a week i was spending days like very good, i was doing things i love, i was pretty busy having fun. đ
but today somehow i can't do anything and can't even think about what to do, sounds like i am bored.
and here you are with the video i needed! how is this possible? you're a magician, for sure. đđ
thank you! â€
(sorry for my english, it's messy a little bit...)
miss marsie aww that sounds so magical! Thankful you're here âšâš
Lavendaire thank you for the work you're doing for us! đ
Thank goodness I'm not the only one this happens to. It's like she knows exactly what I need to hear. Thank you so much Aileen đ
miss marsie Sounds like the 'Law of Attraction' to me :) The universe is conspiring to help you :)
Paintmeblueagain wow, yes, i think you're right! then this is great. đ
i love your voice it's so calmingâ€
So true! Whenever I feel owerwhelmed I just watch one of Lavendaire videos. Her voice does help me to calm down.
This is so genuine and inspiring I love it đ
I try to schedule in at least one self-care afternoon a week. You've inspired me to be a bit more "productive" with my time though. Like you, a messy environment really impacts my mood so, instead of using my self-care time to forget about it and switch off, I should be using it to fix the problems and messes I see.
I love that your closet is colorful. I always thought it wouldn't be for some reason.
I definitely will be incorporating this into my life sometime soon. I realized after watching this that I do feel cluttered and out of order. Thanks so much for these amazing videos!
Love this video! You're so right. Self care is something we need to invest in more. Yesterday I ran myself a bath and picked flowers from the garden & put petals in the bath, with some lavender oil. It was lovely. I lit candles and wore a argan oil face mask. Much needed TLC!
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I'm going through a "rainy" phase in my life&your videos are my medicine.Xoxo
Whenever I need inspiration I come to your channel.
your voice is so soothing.
I did something similar a few days ago. It's funny how we all take the small things like this for granted in our busy lives. Great video!
This is my day today! So overwhelmed with youtube, job, uni... I will still have to work today but after taking care of myself I will do it in much better mood. thanks Aileen x
I really need a day like this
I have started journaling because of your advice Aileen, and it really works for me! Sometime I write a lot, other days I just write down a couple of things including my to do list and it is so much easier to figure stuff out when you write everything down. Thank you :)
I totally needed that right now. Your videos aren't just amazingly edited and super aesthetic, but they also add SO MUCH VALUE. đ
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Self dates are really important. I'm glad you took the time to vlog about this subject. I'd go even farther in my self dates though, especially now that a lot of the productive things mentioned in this video are becoming part of my morning routine. I don't have self date days very often and I can literally feel myself almost depleting in a way. What I've done in the past for those days would be something as simple as taking myself to a movie, going to the gym (when I had a membership) and getting myself a smoothie, taking myself to a "Starbucks & Chill" date, or treating myself to a nice meal at a favorite restaurant in the afternoon or late morning while reading a good book.
I think sometimes we forget that we can do such things on our own and it will still feel good. Better even, because we're recharging our batteries, clearing our minds, and taking the time to really appreciate and be comfortable witg our own company which is SO important.
I'm enjoying your video's so far and I really like your vibe! I'd love to collaborate with you someday!
Omg I LOVE your honesty! You are part of my morning routineđ
Your voice is so soothing
Listening to you gives me a feeling of relaxation
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That "piano in the background" playlist has been carrying me through this WHOLE week. it's definitely one of my "evening self care" playlists that i play when i'm winding down for the day and reading in bed. really enjoyed this video!!
I just love this channelđ nd Aileen Ur Voice is so peaceful to hear.
Really loved this video! I freaking love cleaning up my room, because it truly helps with feeling calm and relaxed!
You're so inspiring and so genuine! Much love đđ
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first few minutes and i already can relate sooo much. sometimes everything is just incredibly messy (my mind especially) and have have this urgent feeling if getting rid of everything cluttery. meditation is then even harder for me cause my thoughts won't shut up, but once you get into the zone you'll feel so much better! btw i just came across your channel and i love it. so much quality content and such a huge inspiration for me since I'm focussing on similar topics. much love, xx
Japanese, Vietnamese & Arabic subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description đ
I've really been stressed and stuck lately with all my work, but this video gave me the inspiration and ideas to help clear my mind and space properly. Thank you!!!
Thank you so much for sharing this with us!! Your channel has really helped over the past month and your videos are so good and concise that I never feel the need to skip anything. I feel better after watching them!
Your videos are super refreshing, encouraging and motivating. Your voice is very soothing. I mean, it puts me in a very calm state of mind. I absolutely love you. â€
that's my routine for every single day and it's the reason why I have a full self love. thanks for sharing and I love that dress you're wearing in the beginning of the video, it has this magical touch and it fits you so well. love
I am LITERALLY in that phase right now. I also keep my laundry in a pile I just started folding half of them. After watching this I'm gonna mark today as my self care date. Thank you & I love that I can relate to almost everything you say in this channel. đđđ
Love this! Self care is the best! I can't wait until I feel like running is self care lol
As much as we are all different we really all are basically the same. This video was so me! Sometimes you just really have to step back and regroup!! And it is so o.k. I am working on removing all thoughts, feelings and opinions every morning and starting with a fresh uncluttered mind!! Really great video!!
You are so inspiration to me . I have your" You are enough" one video in my playlist and it makes me feel super amazing . your voice makes me feel relaxing love you take care â€
This is pretty much everything I do, except for the order in which it is done. Love your channel and the podcasts! â€ïž
that's great :)
Love it! I feel the refreshment that just happened here đđ
Thanks I needed this! Breakups suck but thatâs where self care comes into place
Your videos are a life-saver. Whenever I feel anxious - hearing your calm voice sort of resets me. :)
I am really liking that piano in the background playlist. Very calming.
I love this self care date idea. We work too much sometimes and totally forget to show some love to ourselves and our families. It's a great idea to just clear your day once in a while and give yourself the time to actually express some love to yourself and others. Thank you for this beautiful video!
Yes, sometimes we just very busy to work and forget about how important is self care. Thank you for inspiring me, đ
Hi there, I'm a full time working mom with two toddlers. I love your channel but this video might be my favorite... because we were able to see how real you are! It was comforting to know you are sometimes just as organized as the rest of us! This has inspired me to take a "mental day" off work for self care and to do all the cleaning / organizing I always put off! Take care.
*unorganized as the rest of us...
Today's my first day journaling and I must say, it helps so much. Especially for those times you have so much on your mind. Thanks so much xx
Wow I do these same things... It's amazing how once my area is clear (work space as well) I feel more clear and relaxed. The running as well. I try my best to stay on top of these things as it also begins to affect my rest at night.
this music makes me feel so sunny and content. Can someone please, please help me know what it is?
soundcloud.com/thisisdrktms/cabu-akacia-gold-drktms-remix -- it's such a great sound, right??
Lavendaire yes ma'am, it gently brings me back to Earth. thank you!
Your channel is the calmest channel I have ever. Come across! Love it!
Your videos are the best thing that happened to me. I just discovered you today and watched so many of your videos in a row. You are definitely my favorite CZcamsr. Love all your tips, keep up the great work. Stay blessed.
wow i wish i was more like you, youre like really trying and then theres me who's just like meh whatever. but your videos actually makes me feel more motivated, so thank you, i love the internet
Same here! Meditation is something I wish I'd do every day but I'm also not still there yet.
I didnât know this was what it means. Now I will plan my self care dates. Thank you. I just love your videos. You need to do more because you are so inspiring. But however you do, they are always on time and never old no matter when theyâre uploaded.
Hi !
Whenever I watched your videos I feel at ease and calm and I'm not a very calm person ^^" I started meditation, journaling a little bit more than I used to and I can tell that it is new but I actually like it ;)
This video is amazing ! You are an amazing person and thank you for sharing so much positivity around the world đđ
krystal Kpop that's amazing!
I love your editing style. It's simple and elegant, and not only that, but it's super calming and really reflects you as a person. Thanks for creating such amazing content Aileen!
You are such an inspiration †You inspired me to clean my room đ Have a good day !
This is just what I need right now. Your videos always make me feel better. Thank you. Keep spreading good vibes. â€
Yesss! I'm the same way with my clothes & vanity. Feel so much better after it's all put away.
because of your video, I decided to let today for that, I'll make my day for my self care
You are an amazing, and you really inspire me.
amazing video as always, good reminder to slow down and don't feel pushed to live in the fast lane â€đ
the feeling i have/get whenever i watch your new videos is just amazin. I won't trade it for anything else in the world. đ
This was super inspiring and I loved it!
you are so beautiful and you having no makeup and being vulnerable is even more beautiful!
Sharon Bear đđ
keep up the good work Aileen. You are really helping a lot of people out there in the world by your videos. I am from a very different culture and environment than yours but seeing your videos has had a real positive effect in my world. keep it up :)
Soooo relatable, it's like a talk to myself. Love it, gives me such a good-clear-peaceful vibes. Keep this great, chill and gorgeous videos. They actually transmit. Love, Luisa.
Things to do for a self care reset day -
*Journaling*
*Meditate*
*Clean and organize my space*
*Organize & clean my vanity area*
*Declutter the low self-worth outfits from closet*
*Exercise*
*Take a good shower*
*Light some đŻïž and play soothing music*
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I never really give myself self care dates, but I really should and this reminded me to take one :)
you are AMAZING! I can't believe someone so young can be so inspiring too in a daily life. x
I watched your videos a while ago and now I found you again. I can really see that your videos have become a lot better! Love the simplicity âșïž
Btw I LOVE decluttering, cleaning and showering on a day off!! Subscribed đ
+Malou Mas. :) thanks!
Has anyone told you that your outro music sounds like one of the songs from "Avatar" LOL
I love your videos Aileen! Never stop making them because you help someone deal with life everyday!
FAV CZcamsR!! love you
I love your self-care videos because they are so inspiring and definitely powerful reminders
Needed this doll
This video made me want to have my pamper routine today!!
Thank you, Aileen for your awesome videos, I can see how much your channel has grown and more specifically how much you have grown!
Keep it up đ
+adviceologie aww thank you!!
she is so amazing!
So helpful!! Self-Care is so essential.
Watching your videos always makes me feel motivated to take care of myself and progress in life, so thank you for that.
right after watching this i got out of bed, cleaned / organized my whole room, and chugged a bottle of water... are you magic ?
ps what meditation app do you use? xoxo
ZenFriend
She also uses headspace sometimes
love your space and your voice is calming to hear â€
I really enjoy positive channels like this.
And yet another powerful video. Taking a 'me day' as we speak. Love you đđŠ
its really simple...but also touching and inspiring :) you're awesome thank youuu
Your voice is so calming and soothing... Love ya!
love love loveđ†.. I feel so calm watching your videos and my mood instantly changes feeling happy!đđđ
LOVED this, self care is so important â€ïž
You are so cool and real. I just love it. Although, not super glamorous, these days are much needed. Thanks for the reminder :) keep up the awesomeness! xoxo
I really appreciate this video. It reminded me that I haven't focused on self care in a really long time
I love that this was about clearing your head and your space rather than about some beauty routine like I expected (which can surely be calming as well, but I can relate to this much more). A day like this seems great :- )
During your organization of make-up stuff I thought: did she also declutter something? And a second later you said: I even decluttered some... :- D Yay for decluttering.
You should totally be the narrator of a guided meditation. Your voice is so relaxing!!
Your videos are just so inspiring, Aileen!
So on point!!
Hello Lavendsire, can you perhaps do more of your how to pack videos or a lookbook of when you travel. That would help a lot, thank you!! â€
Man I see the whole self care day EVERYWHERE and I envy people who have to make time to just chill. Like that's all I do, I get soooo bored during the summer, I need like the opposite of a self care day :/
I love this âš I wish I could take a day off work ugh
In middle school I was always the type to have a messy locker or room (just a little messy) but in high school and college I tried to be more organized. Now as an adult I can tell that if the house is clean I just feel less anxious.
just watching this relaxed me so much! beautiful video, as always :)
I've been kind of not feeling well for the things I'm doing, really need self care date indeed!
Thank you for making another amazing video!
Loved the video! It came at the perfect moment. I also loved the way you have arranged your room. Could you please make a video about room organization? I'm not very good at it and any ideas would be more than welcome
your video is really relaxing and gives positive tips, thank you, have a positive and nice day!