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The narrative shouldn't be so much, "don't be a nice guy" but rather be yourself and I truly believe that if you're fostered with care by your community/society around you, you'd genuinely look for ways to fill other people's cups as well as your own. In other words, once your needs are met (mostly following Maslow's hierarchy), being yourself usually means you'll naturally be quite friendly to others as well (this I genuinely believe-to a certain extent) The narrative should be more along the lines of sticking to your values and having a backbone. And just having these things, sometimes makes you incompatible with other people... but in general I don't think you'd be labeled as a "mean guy" and more often than not if you have your values, have your needs met, you fully have the capacity and more than likely will be a "nice" person.
@jorgefernando! Tu és um português de Portugal a morar na América do Norte talvez, que não és nada indulgente e nem simpático. Pois respondes a quem tu queres e deixas outras pessoas sem respostas. És de facto um gajo altivo e um bocadinho asqueroso talvez no tocante à essa minha concepção pessoal brasileira. Foda-se quem não gostar desta minha crítica subjectiva. Tenho origem Latina mas de ascendência francesa e italiana. Sou poliglota também graças a Deus. Por cá, e, é óbvio, ao pé de mim, eu desejo-lhes minhas saudações calorosas para todos vós
Don't stop being nice person, no matter girl or guy. Don't be a bad person only for attracting people that we like. Don't be a STUPID. we have personal value. Don't let the standar driving us! Be smart and nice. Not being bad and stupid.
Good advice. I’m not great looking and not relatively well off; surprisingly I’ve had a few women, some really pretty ones, really interested in me. However it’s always been ones I never really pursued and to whom I was just being myself. Though I’m hardly an expert, I feel like it’s best to focus on yourself, be open to genuinely knowing other people, and (the hard part) be aware of signals and like yourself enough to know that someone might send them to you. That said, having Jorge around might make me insecure enough to forget that. Poor Adrian!
If you like someone... u just accept them, no matter what... may be girls/ girl liked Adrian alot... and just felt bad that he wasn't genuine .. as you said .
The “nice guy” seems desperate and doesn’t have a back bone so he bends character and puts people on a pedestal to gain interest which is the wrong way to do it
You can be nice. But his approach was more friend and fan than anything. Not the actual way to go about it tbh. There is nothing wrong about being respectful and being nice. Some girls like that too. But yeah.. approach is bad.
absolutely be respectful and a gentleman, just not "nice" which is typically all a facade. Women love guys who are both gentlemen yet still have a level of disagreeableness. Without it the dudes are pushovers.
Message of the story is be nice because it’s part of your character. By being a gentleman with manners. But the other type of “nice” is being a pushover with no spine to sneak your way into some pity pussy 😂
The narrative shouldn't be so much, "don't be a nice guy" but rather be yourself and I truly believe that if you're fostered with care by your community/society around you, you'd genuinely look for ways to fill other people's cups as well as your own. In other words, once your needs are met (mostly following Maslow's hierarchy), being yourself usually means you'll naturally be quite friendly to others as well (this I genuinely believe-to a certain extent)
The narrative should be more along the lines of sticking to your values and having a backbone. And just having these things, sometimes makes you incompatible with other people... but in general I don't think you'd be labeled as a "mean guy" and more often than not if you have your values, have your needs met, you fully have the capacity and more than likely will be a "nice" person.
Great comment bro! Totally agree
@jorgefernando! Tu és um português de Portugal a morar na América do Norte talvez, que não és nada indulgente e nem simpático. Pois respondes a quem tu queres e deixas outras pessoas sem respostas. És de facto um gajo altivo e um bocadinho asqueroso talvez no tocante à essa minha concepção pessoal brasileira. Foda-se quem não gostar desta minha crítica subjectiva. Tenho origem Latina mas de ascendência francesa e italiana. Sou poliglota também graças a Deus. Por cá, e, é óbvio, ao pé de mim, eu desejo-lhes minhas saudações calorosas para todos vós
Don't stop being nice person, no matter girl or guy.
Don't be a bad person only for attracting people that we like.
Don't be a STUPID. we have personal value. Don't let the standar driving us!
Be smart and nice. Not being bad and stupid.
At the end it's "BE AUTHENTIC" if you are nice be nice if you are not you are not..
I can relate with your story. Great perspective
This is solid advice
Good advice. I’m not great looking and not relatively well off; surprisingly I’ve had a few women, some really pretty ones, really interested in me. However it’s always been ones I never really pursued and to whom I was just being myself. Though I’m hardly an expert, I feel like it’s best to focus on yourself, be open to genuinely knowing other people, and (the hard part) be aware of signals and like yourself enough to know that someone might send them to you. That said, having Jorge around might make me insecure enough to forget that. Poor Adrian!
Understandable and agreed 👍
After this video this big bro earned my respect . 👍
If you like someone... u just accept them, no matter what... may be girls/ girl liked Adrian alot... and just felt bad that he wasn't genuine .. as you said .
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The “nice guy” seems desperate and doesn’t have a back bone so he bends character and puts people on a pedestal to gain interest which is the wrong way to do it
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What a great advice.
listen to big brother Jorge guy's
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You can be nice. But his approach was more friend and fan than anything. Not the actual way to go about it tbh. There is nothing wrong about being respectful and being nice. Some girls like that too. But yeah.. approach is bad.
absolutely be respectful and a gentleman, just not "nice" which is typically all a facade. Women love guys who are both gentlemen yet still have a level of disagreeableness. Without it the dudes are pushovers.
Message of the story is be nice because it’s part of your character. By being a gentleman with manners. But the other type of “nice” is being a pushover with no spine to sneak your way into some pity pussy 😂
For the people that want more of this, read the book: no mr nice guy. And no you won't become an asshole
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I hate people like Adrians, they invite their own problems and wonder why they don't fit in
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Sound a like he is not nice but just gay.
he wasn't gay but he definitely feminized himself
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