Teenager Who Murdered His Entire Family Transforms Into Erratic Stalker | Joe Collier Case Analysis

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Komentáře • 552

  • @douglaswatters7303
    @douglaswatters7303 Před 6 dny +502

    I can't get out of a speeding ticket but this guys kill a 10 year old boy and two adults who are helping him and he walks away free? The system is a joke.

    • @vicvega3614
      @vicvega3614 Před 6 dny +54

      This happens a lot, when someone under the age of 18 murders they usually get out at age 19 or 21, its disgusting

    • @AdamVest
      @AdamVest Před 6 dny +17

      I came here to say the same thing.

    • @DroneStrike1776
      @DroneStrike1776 Před 6 dny +21

      Tell me about it, I had my license suspended and put on probation in 2001 for 3 speeding tickets in 6 months for doing 35 on a 30, 55 on a 50 twice. All 5 mph above the speed limit, which was all BS, I was just targeted. "You took off too fast" WTF does that even mean? I saw the cop there, why would I do such a thing? It's because I was Asian, driving a brand new bright red 2000 Civic Si, lowered with rims, during the Fast and Furious days. I would get pulled over just because "routine stop". Glad they got rid of that policy. I haven't gotten a speeding ticket or moving violation since. I following the rules of the road and is a big car enthusiast, so I take driving and safety seriously.
      Even as a conservative, I still don't fully support the police or the broken system. 23 years later and it still pisses me off because of the broken system.

    • @quietstorm6553
      @quietstorm6553 Před 6 dny +32

      ...And he collected some inheritance from the family he murdered. Talk about backwards laws. Found guilty of murder and get paid by the victims. Goes to show you that laws do not have to make sense.

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken Před 6 dny +9

      The problem is that the Police have to meet their speeding fine quota that their sergeant compels them to before their actual technical shift starts & they begin to work on actual serious crime.
      It's all got to do with revenue raising.

  • @kenmore01
    @kenmore01 Před 6 dny +69

    Getting the inheritance because he was the only remaining family member is a cold slap in the face to any other relatives or friends!

  • @woltan1979
    @woltan1979 Před 6 dny +302

    Yes, Dr Grande is Ariana’s son. People can stop asking if they are related now.

  • @sassycat6468
    @sassycat6468 Před 6 dny +128

    When Dr G gets to say ”mostly because of the murder part" I get an odd sense of satisfaction lol 😁👍

    • @djg5950
      @djg5950 Před 6 dny +1

      I feel bad that I've never been able to reject anybody "due to the murder part". It's always the plain garden variety type of sociopath and the lying and cheating part that gives them the boot.

    • @emmonsterd
      @emmonsterd Před 6 dny +8

      I like it when he calls people “exceeeedingly creepy.”

  • @KimKalli
    @KimKalli Před 6 dny +127

    Gut wrenchingly unfair. There's no justice here. Just pain and evil.

  • @icturner23
    @icturner23 Před 6 dny +187

    I’m adopted and my parents were social workers. Not telling a child they are adopted is a really, REALLY bad idea.

    • @emmagatewood3898
      @emmagatewood3898 Před 6 dny +17

      I agree. The truth will always come out eventually, especially nowadays with the advent of genetic DNA testing. Lying to a child about their adoption is deeply unfair to them, and can have devastating consequences when the truth inevitably comes out. This guy is exhibit A when it comes to that. 😕

    • @patrickoguinn4553
      @patrickoguinn4553 Před 6 dny +16

      But your not justifying murder. Right?

    • @breathnstop
      @breathnstop Před 6 dny +27

      I wasn't adopted but my mom's parents made her marry another man not my dad when she became pregnant because he was more successful. My dad wanted to marry her too but he was just a pilot. Not considered a real job in 1952. It really messed me up. I couldn't understand why my dad didn't love me and treated me so bad. My grandmother confessed on her death bed when I was 20. I was devastated but it all finally made sense. Apparently I looked just like my real dad.

    • @poindextertunes
      @poindextertunes Před 6 dny +24

      @@patrickoguinn4553is anyone ever justifying murder in these comments? c’mon man

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju Před 6 dny +5

      It's deceitful. It's such a betrayal.

  • @TheeDavidDee
    @TheeDavidDee Před 6 dny +63

    I never feel bad about being single after watching your videos. Thanks, Dr. G!

    • @brose-bg3ks
      @brose-bg3ks Před 6 dny +3

      It’s not difficult to do a background check on anyone you plan on living life with

    • @TheeDavidDee
      @TheeDavidDee Před 6 dny +11

      @@brose-bg3ks This might be true but how many people in relationships become first-time offenders of atrocities? The more I watch Dr. G's videos it seems like the vast majority of the brutality and murder are by people with no such public records. They resemble the person next door. Ordinary citizens living a seemingly ordinary life for ordinary pursuits. Not this video, the people in this situation could have done what you're saying. But this doesn't cover much territory. If we watch Dr. G's videos regularly we can see the majority of these horrific cases contain people who seem like the least likely to do godawful criminal acts. People without criminal records who we wouldn't suspect.

    • @brose-bg3ks
      @brose-bg3ks Před 6 dny +3

      @@TheeDavidDee I totally agree, it’s a huge risk involving anyone into your life in such a vulnerable way. But yes, I was referring to people who blindly date others and do little to no due diligence about the other person before sleeping with them.
      I’m married, 8 months pregnant, and I know my chances of being 💀 would statistically be by my spouse, but honestly, love and trust is a leap of faith at some point. And knowing that my husband trusts me not to 💀 him either makes me feel trusted too lol

    • @TheeDavidDee
      @TheeDavidDee Před 6 dny

      @@brose-bg3ks Always gambling when it comes to love and trust. Best of luck to you with the new family. 😊

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken Před 6 dny

      What hope has the human species got? Anyone with any intelligence is warned off from procreation because of the almost inevitable grief that it gives them in the future & yet the imbeciles that promote & thrive on true crime drama breed like rabbits

  • @grumpyoldlady_rants
    @grumpyoldlady_rants Před 6 dny +61

    Never hide from a child that they are adopted. It’s often devastating when they find out when they are older - especially if it’s in adolescence. My youngest is adopted. She always knew she was. I would bring it up matter of factory at, say, a doctor’s appointment when asked about family history. I knew, in time, she would ask what it meant. When she was about six, she finally asked. I told her it meant that me and his dad wanted another child but I couldn’t have more babies (I had two sons from a previous marriage but had to have my tubes ties after the second). I said we heard about a woman who had a baby that she wasn’t able to care of and we said we would and that was her. She seemed to accept this. About a year later, she asked me “So (her two other siblings) came out of your belly but I came out of another woman’s. Did I come out and crawl into your belly”? I started to again explain when she added “How do babies get out anyway? Is there a zipper or something”?

    • @Hatbox948
      @Hatbox948 Před 6 dny +11

      A bittersweet but cute story.

    • @meredithisme3752
      @meredithisme3752 Před 6 dny +5

      A normal person wouldn't commit murder because of it

    • @Hatbox948
      @Hatbox948 Před 6 dny +4

      @@meredithisme3752 So true. This guy had so many personality deficits.

    • @grumpyoldlady_rants
      @grumpyoldlady_rants Před 6 dny +2

      @@meredithisme3752 - True

  • @charlottewilliams574
    @charlottewilliams574 Před 6 dny +28

    Oh so someone who has committed that kind of crime, he can refuse psychological therapies? Like, woah 😮

    • @eddysgaming9868
      @eddysgaming9868 Před 6 dny +7

      He's not the one with the problem, clearly.
      It's society. /s

    • @bubbabroad9051
      @bubbabroad9051 Před 5 dny +1

      I was shocked when Dr John on Hidden True Crime said the majority of offenders would rather have more jail time than counseling 🥺

    • @tayookunfolami2522
      @tayookunfolami2522 Před 5 dny +2

      And they released him afterwards...that's the real surprise

  • @sarahd8093
    @sarahd8093 Před 6 dny +26

    I can't blame Joe's biological mom for cutting him off after finding out what he did. She did a selfless thing by giving him up so another family could raise him. To think you saved someone just so they can go on and end other people's lives, pretty sad.

  • @LuxeMindsetVibes
    @LuxeMindsetVibes Před 5 dny +6

    The fact he could refuse mental health treatment while in a facility & then inherent the estate of the adoptive parents he murdered is wild. Good for the biological mother for putting logic over emotion, and stealthy getting him out of the house & changing her locks. I know that was hard to reconnect to your child that you gave up for adoption, really try your best to help him, only to find out that he murdered the people that stepped up to raise him & then kick him out of your life again.

  • @timhinchcliffe5372
    @timhinchcliffe5372 Před 6 dny +44

    Dr Grande needs to put out a _narcissist bingo card_ so we can play at home and check off the personality flaws and score against the analysis at the end.

    • @xxxxOS
      @xxxxOS Před 6 dny +3

      Making narcism survival your entire personalty and obsession is unhealthy

    • @timhinchcliffe5372
      @timhinchcliffe5372 Před 6 dny +3

      @@xxxxOS you know what they say about people that assume.

    • @jkjives1786
      @jkjives1786 Před 6 dny +5

      As someone so aptly commented on a previous video, "sense of entitlement" would be the free square in the middle!

    • @M-yb1cc
      @M-yb1cc Před 5 dny +1

      @@xxxxOSbeing aware of dangers seems pretty reasonable to me

  • @allanbarr1975
    @allanbarr1975 Před 6 dny +89

    Do love the way Dr G implies wtf is wrong with people - usually in reference to people marrying serial killers etc. Love the dry, despairing, wit

    • @gonelucid
      @gonelucid Před 6 dny +3

      I noticed it took him a while to get good like this.. his old videos arnt as good.

  • @Shadow1-cf7nw
    @Shadow1-cf7nw Před 6 dny +117

    Unbelievable how people can murder for no reason whatsoever.

    • @This-time-more-than-ever
      @This-time-more-than-ever Před 6 dny +5

      Whi said he didn't have a reason?
      He was beat as a child.

    • @slypork5030
      @slypork5030 Před 6 dny +17

      ​@@This-time-more-than-everThat was a reason to kill his mom and brother?

    • @benhartart9487
      @benhartart9487 Před 6 dny +3

      There’s always a reason or many bro

    • @kina18
      @kina18 Před 6 dny +19

      ​@@This-time-more-than-everSo said a cold blooded killer. I wouldn't be too quick to believe a man who killed his whole family including an innocent child.

    • @kina18
      @kina18 Před 6 dny +3

      ​@@benhartart9487 Fabricated in their minds.

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 Před 6 dny +63

    "Mostly because of the murder part". Yes, that really changes things.

  • @OnTheThirdDay
    @OnTheThirdDay Před 6 dny +45

    I am glad he didn't murder again (to our knowledge). I was definitely expecting Candy to end up dead. Hope she stays safe and protects herself.
    However he is definitely dangerous for people in the future just as he was to his parents RIP, God protect people from him now.

  • @georgeoh-well8116
    @georgeoh-well8116 Před 6 dny +38

    I speculate that a healthy initial parent/child bond is critical and its dysfunction is a factor in many of these sad tales.

    • @eddysgaming9868
      @eddysgaming9868 Před 6 dny +6

      Yes. It's crucial for later development.

    • @skycloud4802
      @skycloud4802 Před 6 dny +5

      And winning a genetics lottery too.

    • @nanettevantriesteharder2469
      @nanettevantriesteharder2469 Před 6 dny

      @@eddysgaming9868 The brain is built from the bottom-up during early childhood development's nearly continuous growth periods from conception on. Beginning during the teen years, apoptosis severs unused pathways to optimize the system. In adulthood, the mature brain is used from the top-down for decision-making. If an unwanted child is more than likely conceived out of wedlock by a fatherless teen mother raised by her single mother without a high school diploma in a dysfunctional cycle of poverty, addiction, and violence, maybe this is the place to start preventive interventions.

  • @aarondavis8943
    @aarondavis8943 Před 6 dny +20

    Many psychologists have, over the years, supported the notion that people like Joe can be reliably rehabilitated and have advised parole boards, legislators and judges that they should be released into the community. Unlike ignorant laypeople, including romantic partners of psychopathic killers, they have no excuse.

  • @hp7093
    @hp7093 Před 6 dny +3

    Can you imagine adopting out of the goodness of your heart and the kid kills you? Mind boggling

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 Před 6 dny +6

    It’s scary knowing he’s still out there somewhere.

  • @Widkey
    @Widkey Před 6 dny +64

    The military allowed him to enlist despite knowing he slaughtered his family??

    • @taylorkai4144
      @taylorkai4144 Před 6 dny +21

      this is the real question. did the military even check his background? did they even know about his name change?

    • @brendandmcmunniii269
      @brendandmcmunniii269 Před 6 dny +9

      Not the real military, just the Air National Guard

    • @This-time-more-than-ever
      @This-time-more-than-ever Před 6 dny +26

      I mean he had experience for the job, no?

    • @Widkey
      @Widkey Před 6 dny +7

      @@This-time-more-than-ever LOL

    • @thaisb229
      @thaisb229 Před 6 dny +9

      Perfect candidate

  • @mdievend
    @mdievend Před 6 dny +5

    (Mrs. Mark) Best line (after listing about twenty of Joe's very disturbing personality characteristics), "In addition, he was exceedingly creepy". (The deadpan delivery didn't hurt either.)

  • @srper2
    @srper2 Před 6 dny +12

    So he murders his entire family, walks away and inherits everything? How does this happen?

    • @Ebenezer456
      @Ebenezer456 Před 5 dny

      Absolutely shocking how this could happen. Talk about some screwed up laws... just no justice

  • @FrankOdonnell-ej3hd
    @FrankOdonnell-ej3hd Před 6 dny +28

    jeez these laws designed to protect juvenile offenders often turn out to be cases proving the old saw that the path to hell is paved with good intentions⚛😀

    • @shawnmaria-z2k
      @shawnmaria-z2k Před 6 dny +6

      Good thing is, this happened many years ago and the laws have changed since then!

    • @FrankOdonnell-ej3hd
      @FrankOdonnell-ej3hd Před 6 dny +1

      @@shawnmaria-z2k good to hear⚛😀❤

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Před 6 dny +1

      @@shawnmaria-z2kAnd isn’t anybody, even a minor not allowed to collect inheritance if they’re the ones responsible like Jovan ?

  • @astralclub5964
    @astralclub5964 Před 6 dny +76

    Too many times I’ve heard adoptions going bad! An adopted kid in my old neighborhood stabbed his mother.

    • @julianaalencar9586
      @julianaalencar9586 Před 6 dny +21

      Total BS
      What about all the other cases that are committed by non adopted people?

    • @nattie911
      @nattie911 Před 6 dny +10

      What was the mom doing? Not all foster parents are safe ppl

    • @garrysekelli6776
      @garrysekelli6776 Před 6 dny +4

      Machiavelli wrote about just such a case involving the murderer Oliverotto di Fermo. Who murdered his adopted father.

    • @TexasLawyer313
      @TexasLawyer313 Před 6 dny +13

      True story, a child was adopted in my hometown by an attorney, the child was returned for reasons I don’t personally know and never chose to attempt to discover. The child aged out of foster system, moved to another state and there he eventually met, lived with, and murdered my father. I practice law now in the same town as his almost-adoptive father. I’ve never spoken to that attorney but if I ever did, he wouldn’t know me since I have a married name for many years now. Sounds like fiction but very true.

    • @lindawakiyama1603
      @lindawakiyama1603 Před 6 dny +5

      My condolences to you for the terrible loss of your father 😢!

  • @beautifulsunset4071
    @beautifulsunset4071 Před 6 dny +19

    People who adopt or where the child has a different father, please tell the child from when they are little. I have it in my family and known of others too where the child finds out as a teenager or adult and it is devastating most of the time. 😔

    • @charlesterrizzi8311
      @charlesterrizzi8311 Před 6 dny +2

      Totally agree don’t keep secrets from kids they will hate you,

  • @carriefawcett9990
    @carriefawcett9990 Před 6 dny +10

    This is the worst case of injustice I've ever heard! I'm so angry now!

  • @emmaponymous
    @emmaponymous Před 6 dny +8

    I would love to have a "Guide to Dating: Avoiding Unsuitable Romantic Partners" by Dr Grande.

    • @jcrnda
      @jcrnda Před 6 dny +2

      Attached: A List of Psychopaths and Serial Killers

  • @everlynevins
    @everlynevins Před 6 dny +30

    Glad you clarified which Wakanda was meant. Definitely wouldn't want to confuse the two. 👀

  • @WhoIsWhatIDK
    @WhoIsWhatIDK Před 6 dny +6

    Just a reminder, I’m not diagnosing anyone as Exceedingly creepy….

  • @AB-un4io
    @AB-un4io Před 6 dny +35

    Thanks, Dr. Grande. You’re “spoiling” us!! 😊
    I thoroughly enjoy each analysis. Hope the rest of your weekend is wonderful.❤

    • @Flamsterette
      @Flamsterette Před 6 dny +2

      So he's not really spoiling us? Quotation marks are NOT used for EMPHASIS!

  • @laratheplanespotter
    @laratheplanespotter Před 6 dny +11

    How on earth do you manage to post so much?! I’ve been binge watching your videos. From a forensics and criminology student, thank you!

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 Před 6 dny +26

    What a list of horrible qualities. Always amazing to me how people fall for the superficial charm act. Great quips & points. Thanks Dr G😊💚💚

  • @lisabelle7553
    @lisabelle7553 Před 6 dny +5

    This is how every minor in Canada is treat under Youth Offenders Act. I lived in Alberta and I remember news that a minor had wiped out his entire family of seven people. No name was ever released and you cannot find a news article about it. That was in the 90s. The youth offender has no criminal record when they are released, and their name is kept confidential. So if you live in Alberta or Canada, he could be your neighbor or the guy you work with.

  • @karenbochinski
    @karenbochinski Před 6 dny +6

    Joe should have been put in prision when he killed his adopted parents and one sibiling. He should have had a life sentence

  • @comingoutspinster-rebellik1479

    Heartbreaking 💔! The 10 year old!! 😩 😭 what a massive CREEPER! He needs to be locked away from society and to pay hard for his sick crimes. Super dangerous animal! Actually, animals are lovely and nice. “Joe” is evil!

  • @youssef16844
    @youssef16844 Před 6 dny +71

    Do these people marry like they're going to Walmart to get soda?? Jesus Christ.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Před 6 dny +1

      Do people go to Wal-Mart to get soda like they get married?

    • @raymondfrederick
      @raymondfrederick Před 6 dny

      I work at Walmart. Why Wal-mart? Why you spell it like that? You don’t need the -

    • @That_Trans_Kid
      @That_Trans_Kid Před 6 dny

      Thanks Ray. You said what everyone was thinking. 😐

    • @troy3456789
      @troy3456789 Před 6 dny

      ​@@raymondfrederick It was spelled Wal-Mart since the fall of the big wind.

    • @srsusansummers3070
      @srsusansummers3070 Před 6 dny +1

      Blessed be the holy name of Jesus

  • @suzanne3262
    @suzanne3262 Před 6 dny +14

    I’m worried he will come after YOU! Be vigilant, doc.

  • @Jerrysmithsmyname
    @Jerrysmithsmyname Před 6 dny +11

    I love your dry sense of humor! Thank you for another great episode ❤

  • @Penn4286
    @Penn4286 Před 6 dny +15

    Dr.Grande , Do we know where this evil creature (Joe Collier) is living now and what type of job he has ?? You present many cases that I had never heard of !!

  • @mykal2803
    @mykal2803 Před 6 dny +3

    So heart breaking, take this kid in, and he not only murders them, but there son.. There last legacy of this world.. its so dark.. then he doesnt even show remorse by taking mental health counseling.. then takes there money, and makes the surviving family have to deal with him over estate issues.. He could have easily bowed out.. but this thing, just kept on taking.. and taking. Truly a monster.

  • @danielcarroll5667
    @danielcarroll5667 Před 6 dny +8

    I would be willing to bet we will hear something horrible about this "person" in the future...

  • @RB01.10
    @RB01.10 Před 6 dny +2

    I remember this case on the Investigation Discovery show “Web of Lies”.
    Outrageous that he was allowed to collect inheritance, thankfully it was changed.

  • @johnnoone4323
    @johnnoone4323 Před 6 dny +2

    Society punishes teenagers for speeding when driving more than teenagers who kill someone. The judicial system in the USA needs serious revamping.

  • @RullXov
    @RullXov Před 6 dny +7

    Passive/aggressive post-it notes are a huge red flag.

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 Před 6 dny +7

    "There will always be someone out there, so desperate, that even Joe looks good." Sadly, I have to agree. WTF is wrong with people?????

    • @AnAdorableWombat1
      @AnAdorableWombat1 Před 16 hodinami

      If Joe is the bald, white man in this video, then he doesn’t look that bad until 4:08. That haircut is not it! But he’s not unattractive at all. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @GrumpyMeow-Meow
    @GrumpyMeow-Meow Před 6 dny +5

    You got me with that vibranium joke, Doc.

  • @wsidechris
    @wsidechris Před 6 dny +3

    I have a strong feeling there will be a part 2 video some time in the future.

  • @raisamoola2090
    @raisamoola2090 Před 6 dny +3

    Hi Dr G! Thank you for the upload!

  • @OnTheThirdDay
    @OnTheThirdDay Před 6 dny +35

    "I'm not diagonosing anyone in this video, just speculating how high a score one could get in Candy Crush if someone played like this."

    • @0p161
      @0p161 Před 6 dny +2

      The dry puns are hilarious. I watch solely to see how he puts them in

    • @OnTheThirdDay
      @OnTheThirdDay Před 6 dny +3

      @@0p161 I find it very entertaining amidst a serious topic.
      5:30
      Like when in this video he said that his mother was playing it cool after finding out he was a murderer "mostly because of the murder part"

  • @jeffreybrewer8649
    @jeffreybrewer8649 Před 6 dny +6

    "There will always be someone out there so desperate, that even Joe looks good"
    -- Its nice that from time-to-time Dr Grande acknowledges the viewers 😁

  • @kriscollinstunes
    @kriscollinstunes Před 6 dny +3

    If they fixed the law in WI why don’t they go ahead and charge him? There’s supposed to be no statute of limitations on murder. He was never charged with it and never tried on it.

  • @JohnGlen502
    @JohnGlen502 Před 6 dny +14

    I wish he had commented on the possible cause. Adopted children often are troubled there must be severe trauma from the separation and lack of care at a critical time while an infant. Something must happen to brain development obviously not to all so severly but every adopted child I know had issues.

    • @everlynevins
      @everlynevins Před 6 dny +13

      While plausible, some people are just horrible beings without childhood trauma.

    • @pamcornelius9122
      @pamcornelius9122 Před 6 dny +9

      Genetics are responsible for 70 - 75 percent of your personality according to child psychologist Dr. James Dobson. The adoptive parents probably only had about 25 percent input.

    • @falkor6615
      @falkor6615 Před 6 dny +5

      There’s the primary caregiver scenario. Babies birth~ 2 require a present, nurturing, responsive primary caregiver (usually mother) and this sets the secure attachment style in place for the child for life, usually. In the case of a disruption in/absence of this relationship, then an insecure attachment style forms. Google to see a list of those but includes a pattern of r’ships featuring behaviours/thoughts like pushing people away(they’ll just leave me anyway), being inappropriately close(I need to keep them close so the don’t leave me), etc. perhaps Joe, and many adopted children struggle because of a disruption to the mother/infant bond. It’s heartbreaking but obviously not cause for murder

    • @patriciapitt4228
      @patriciapitt4228 Před 6 dny +3

      ​@@falkor6615thanks for putting that up,because when I was 52 my mum told me I was swapped at birth,but in a family of 5 the other sisters always said I was different,loved being on my own,still do,just been up to the tablelands here in Nth Qld Australia only 82 years young 😊 never wanted to kill anyone,even thow my step father wanted to kill me,crazy world we live in it's great the Doc being all that out and the comments really helps people to understand and cope Cheers All ********.

    • @JohnGlen502
      @JohnGlen502 Před 6 dny +3

      @@falkor6615 That's what I mean. They now think narcissists are at least partially made, and borderlines, and I'm not excusing murder, but have long wondered what is taking place in the mind of infants exposed to trauma.

  • @Reality_C
    @Reality_C Před 6 dny +7

    Why was this person out in the world?? 😢

  • @valkyriehutton4556
    @valkyriehutton4556 Před 6 dny +5

    Just like other commenters, I knew a lot of adopted kids and everyone of them was screwed up in some way.

  • @luvmenow33
    @luvmenow33 Před 4 dny +1

    I can't believe the system would allow a family annihilator anonymity knowing they will likely marry and start their own families. That is absolutely insane!!!!!

  • @commonsense5965
    @commonsense5965 Před 6 dny +3

    This case is a Kafkaesque mind-boggling case.
    Two loving people adopt their future murderer, who not only pretty much gets away with it, but is also rewarded with their inheritance. The biological mother has another son, which I understand she decides to keep, while renewing her relationship with the lost son, only to find out she is housing a butcher. This POS seems to have it easy with women, despite being an obvious creep, and is forgiven again and again by Candy.

    So basically he's just roaming around, has never really paid for his crimes, just looking for more victims, while hiding his monstrous side?

  • @ursinha115
    @ursinha115 Před 6 dny +1

    Thank you for your analysis on this case, Dr. Grande! I appreciate you so much!

  • @cynthiaschell7246
    @cynthiaschell7246 Před 6 dny +2

    you don't know the guy is a psycho, until you know (and unfortunately, by then, it may be too late)

  • @comfortncube510
    @comfortncube510 Před 6 dny +6

    "Analyse This" great movie

  • @BrettSerug-ff7do
    @BrettSerug-ff7do Před 6 dny +3

    I can't believe he got to live a wonderful life after what he did.

  • @nataloves
    @nataloves Před 6 dny +2

    We went from "always generate an interesting dialogue" to "CONSISTENTLY generate an interesting dialogue", we failed you, Dr Grande 😢

  • @raymaharaj4502
    @raymaharaj4502 Před 6 dny +19

    @Dr. Todd Grande do you ever sleep? Because I know your daily posts although amazing has come between me and my sleep. Lol. I’ve been binge watching for two whole months religiously and I haven’t even come close to seeing all of your top notch videos. You are one hardworking, funny, stylin’ bastard! Thank Dr. Grande. Absolutely amazing channel!

  • @Panwere36
    @Panwere36 Před 6 dny +5

    Masterful Wakanda reference, Dr. G!!

  • @Robin-xt7yo
    @Robin-xt7yo Před 6 dny +2

    So prolific Dr. Grande! Thank you!

  • @polinasweeney
    @polinasweeney Před 6 dny

    Happy Sunday Doc!

  • @Grandmas_Favorite
    @Grandmas_Favorite Před 6 dny

    I feel so bad for these people I have to deal with stalkers. I can only imagine the amount of fear they have to deal with on a daily basis. It’s absolutely mental.

  • @Bebecat477
    @Bebecat477 Před 6 dny +3

    He murdered his family? Oh I can change him.

  • @User2024-dx6eh
    @User2024-dx6eh Před 6 dny +1

    This case is more revealing about the country we live in: legally, socially, politically, family-wise this country is in shambles. And it is in shambles by design!

  • @nonprogrediestregredi1711

    Dr Grande, it is not Mineral Plant, WI, but actually Mineral Point, WI. I'm guessing that you had a typo on your script.
    Otherwise, per the usual, great video!

  • @Simmerany
    @Simmerany Před 5 dny +1

    Hahah lol I love his sarcasm. How can he said it with a straight face? I wouldn’t been able to hold my laugh 😅😂 btw: I am talking about the wakanda part 😅

  • @MotherOfTerriers
    @MotherOfTerriers Před 6 dny +8

    Coming soon to a dating site near you.

    • @pbonney
      @pbonney Před 6 dny +2

      He will have women fighting over him. 😅

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ Před 5 dny

    Thank you again Dr. Grande 🙏

  • @LRocketz
    @LRocketz Před 6 dny +2

    Hmm. He was able to refuse mental counseling? Seems unreasonable considering if you’re mentally incompetent, how could you make the decision to accept or refuse treatment in the first place?

  • @mmmmlllljohn
    @mmmmlllljohn Před 6 dny +2

    Lol! “Well, I could do worse than somebody who wiped out his entire family. At least I didn’t end up with somebody who wiped out several families.” Yes, women need to be more choosey and very careful who they let into their inner circle. Candy is very lucky she is still alive, thank God. ❤️🇨🇦

  • @Titanium_Cranium
    @Titanium_Cranium Před 6 dny +1

    Woah, I thought the good Doctor got stuck in adjective-mode & needed a reboot.
    Outstanding analysis of a cretinous, malignant & egregious man-child who unfortunately was permitted to continue wreaking havoc forever more on anyone in his sphere of influence, when clearly he needed multiple decades in the judicial system for the horrendous murders and arguably would never have been free but for that state-specific law that protected this creature from real justice.

  • @charlotteboyett-napper4780

    I’m now waiting to hear “exceedingly creepy” in the subject’s personality trait list 😂

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před 6 dny

    What’s happening today?! Thanks, Grande, for another interesting video. ❤ I learn a lot from your videos.

  • @BeanDreamr
    @BeanDreamr Před 6 dny +1

    The wakanda part got me good, great content as usual.

  • @Kathy-us6zx
    @Kathy-us6zx Před 6 dny

    This was so tragic. Thanks again Dr. Grande

  • @jonchowe
    @jonchowe Před 6 dny +38

    Hans Zimmer joke opportunity missed.

    • @vonclod123
      @vonclod123 Před 6 dny +4

      My 1st thought!

    • @poindextertunes
      @poindextertunes Před 6 dny

      idk kind of a reach

    • @jonchowe
      @jonchowe Před 6 dny +1

      @@poindextertunes "But with a father named Hans Zimmer, he felt he had to settle an epic score."
      Even something that dumb and short would do.

  • @tracevicente
    @tracevicente Před 6 dny +2

    Insane story. Justice denied.

  • @sonjastanger5858
    @sonjastanger5858 Před 6 dny

    Wow😳😳😳!!! Spot on Dr. G

  • @jasmincampbell8105
    @jasmincampbell8105 Před 6 dny +1

    That sympathy is powerful 😢

  • @breathnstop
    @breathnstop Před 6 dny +1

    Its sickening that Linda didnt warn Candy and waited until she randomly called to tell her about the murder part.

  • @Joe-Przybranowski
    @Joe-Przybranowski Před 6 dny +3

    I accidentally mentioned to my ten year old niece that her mother's boyfriend wasn't her father.
    It didn't turn out to be a big deal.
    I had assumed she knew

    • @shawnmaria-z2k
      @shawnmaria-z2k Před 6 dny +5

      That’s good it all worked out because it very well could’ve gone the other way. Someone close to me found out the truth about their dad and they were already in their 30’s when the truth came out and it has had devastating effects on them ever since then!

  • @PaxilRose
    @PaxilRose Před 6 dny

    Shout out to all the adopted people in the world who experienced horrors and tried to live a life of service to making the world better.

  • @puspavelai8353
    @puspavelai8353 Před 6 dny +1

    The couple who adopted him most probably also did not 'bond' with him, but did not see the signs. Adopting another son must have caused greater rift and jealousy too perhaps? After release, there could have been some youth detention/training center sentencing. His focus until age 21 at least should be recorded - then these can be held against any future unlawful behavior - like longer sentencing maybe.

  • @garrysekelli6776
    @garrysekelli6776 Před 6 dny +1

    Why they let people out of jail if they are definitely the murderer?

  • @RUTHP123
    @RUTHP123 Před 6 dny +10

    "....mostly because of the murder part.' Dr Grande is one of a kind

  • @beautifulsunset4071
    @beautifulsunset4071 Před 6 dny +2

    I was waiting for the "exceedingly creepy" comment. 😂 He definitely is.

  • @katisugarbaker7349
    @katisugarbaker7349 Před 6 dny +3

    He was also obsessive, which is a type of addiction.

    • @That_Trans_Kid
      @That_Trans_Kid Před 6 dny

      Is that kind of like how dampness is a type of wetness? 😕

  • @tgoodson2
    @tgoodson2 Před 5 dny

    Dr Grande should do the case of Gavin Mandin who as a15 year old shot his stepfather mother and 2 younger sisters in 1991 valleyview,ab. No one has been able to figure out the psychology

  • @petejames1326
    @petejames1326 Před 6 dny +2

    peter changed his name to joe, lol, well obviously makes perfect sense 😂😵‍💫😵‍💫😮😳👀

  • @bstny98
    @bstny98 Před 6 dny +2

    How can I hate and love Grande at the same time

  • @Grandmas_Favorite
    @Grandmas_Favorite Před 6 dny +2

    Always wonder if this same thing would have played out had his biological parents raised the boy… It also possible they too dodged a bullet…. Some people are just born psychopaths

  • @Swansong321
    @Swansong321 Před 6 dny +5

    I BELIEVE in second chances BUT...😒

  • @taylorkai4144
    @taylorkai4144 Před 6 dny +3

    we need more analysis of adoption in general. would he have attacked biological parents? would he be so aggressive with less attachment issues

  • @basswars7060
    @basswars7060 Před 6 dny +1

    "They didn't want to aggravate Joe. Mostly because of the murder part." The problem with Joe, is that merely breathing aggravates him.

  • @mtss9566
    @mtss9566 Před 6 dny +1

    A absolute madman. Phew!