Uvalde Teacher Details Experiencing Survivor’s Remorse Following Mass Shooting

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2022
  • Nicole Ogburn is a fourth-grade teacher who survived the Robb Elementary School massacre on May 24, 2022. She joins our “Uvalde Back to School” special to give us an inside look at her life three months after the horrifying shooting. Nicole also gets candid about her mission to return to the classroom as the shaken community braces for the start of a new school year.
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Komentáře • 103

  • @Leo-kl6ym
    @Leo-kl6ym Před rokem +166

    Because of this horrible tragedy I decided to go work at my kids school as a teacher assistant (para professional). I just have to be there in case something happens, I will die fighting. Took a major Major pay cut because teacher assistants and teachers get payed literal Shit but my family comes first before anything else.

    • @rebeccaturner5113
      @rebeccaturner5113 Před rokem +25

      I did the exact same thing this year. Quit my well paying career job to be with my kids at school as an assistant. I don’t regret it one single bit.

    • @lilirishgrl
      @lilirishgrl Před rokem +10

      Blessings to you, your family and students.

    • @vivito15
      @vivito15 Před rokem +6

      Doing the same.

    • @antipeople3935
      @antipeople3935 Před rokem +10

      thank you you deserve to be paid as much as they pay football players

    • @alet4054
      @alet4054 Před rokem +8

      I decided to quit my teaching job and homeschool my 6year old boy. Blessings 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼to everyone.

  • @nikki8238
    @nikki8238 Před rokem +97

    Nicole is a close friend of our family and one of the most genuine and caring individuals.
    Life has been so difficult for almost all of us since that awful day. I’m so proud of her for taking the necessary steps and working through the trauma and the survivors guilt she feels. It’s not easy, and it’s not always easy to talk about either.
    Thank you Tamron, for such a heartfelt and empathetic interview.

    • @jisundergroundfornow2548
      @jisundergroundfornow2548 Před rokem +6

      Please send my prayers to her.... No one should have to go through that. I still remember the aftermath of the Parkland and coordinated with someone who's grandson was at school during work.

    • @Chihuahua-chica
      @Chihuahua-chica Před rokem +1

      the staff at Uvalde r heros!!! They r such inspirations!! May God bless them and watch over them. Peace and Love to all involved

  • @DancingOnGlass89
    @DancingOnGlass89 Před rokem +18

    It hurts my heart that these teachers have use the " well if I don't go back my kids won't trust it's safe". Teachers were already special in my heart. Y'all deserve the pay checks the actors or sports people get.

  • @fauxbro1983
    @fauxbro1983 Před rokem +64

    This woman shouldn't feel guilty
    The dozen of law enforcement officers who stood outside the room for at least 30 min should.

    • @SummertimeFine95
      @SummertimeFine95 Před rokem +7

      @@stephguz No 💗

    • @mrsbieber076
      @mrsbieber076 Před rokem +12

      @@stephguz no the cops are 100000% to blame they sat there and heard those children die their excuse is the doors were locked but they never checked the doors

    • @anthonybautista3585
      @anthonybautista3585 Před rokem

      @@stephguz well if that was her then ya but they do need to be held accountable.im surprised they are still working n plus some were actually there for the first day of school

    • @kaytee5031
      @kaytee5031 Před rokem

      @@stephguz what babe? The videos the rest of the world watched showed exactly that. So please, do tell, what videos did you see?

    • @henriettasmith2618
      @henriettasmith2618 Před rokem +1

      @@stephguz that’s not true; the cops bear some responsibility. Some of the deaths weren’t sudden. More could have survived if they got medical attention quickly.

  • @josephadiaz8343
    @josephadiaz8343 Před rokem +48

    I can't help but tear up when I see these teachers and the children being interviewed, imagine what they're going through reliving that sad day.❤️🙏✝️

    • @aralyacosta3596
      @aralyacosta3596 Před rokem

      Same I’m in line waiting for my child in Odessa looking at this crying at this video

  • @deborahallen487
    @deborahallen487 Před rokem +31

    Tamron, your quiet, calm interviewing style was peaceful. Nice to see a different approach.
    Nicole, you are a true teacher. So many comments putting the kids first. You can feel your devotion and kindness.
    Only saying this if it's helpful. I've been teaching 21 years. I completely changed that day, too. I happened to be home watching TV. I was done with my school year. I watched the big newscasters like Lester Holt choke up on air. But the change happened when I realized how my school and school's I've been at here in Tucson and Phoenix are almost identical socioeconomic. Robb looked like a setting I'm familiar with. It hit me hard. Physically ill. Teaching has always been my passion even though it came later in life. Quitting is not an option.
    This being said, imagine, we had a REAL lockdown on our first day of school 8 weeks ago. Police chase with a weapon involved near our school. It was 930 in the morning! On our 1st day. I was assisting a long term sub with her 2nd grade class. If it hadn't been the first week, I would have been in my own English as a second language classroom. Immediately, I knew it was REAL. I heard God say, you are in here to help everyone stay calm and show what you know. The sub had never even experienced a practice lockdown but was incredible. The kids were under their desks in seconds. We ended up having to stay in lockdown for an hour. One child is advanced, he started melting down. It's like he knew there was a real threat. Yes, a 7yr old 😥. I ended up pulling him and 2 other companion kids under a horseshoe table to try for togetherness. The kids automatically held hands. We all did. Then, the child said I'm feeling myself get more scared. This was around the half hour mark. I was dressed in all black that day. Out of nowhere I whispered, don't tell anyone but I'm really a ninja. Lol. He then said, "oh I love ninjas, I want to be one when I grow up." He was calm for the following half hour. Kids had to use the garbage can as a toilet. This is NOT the experience kids or teachers should be having. Our new existence has changed so much, so quickly, due to all the violence. There has been zero time to adapt.
    Nicole, please pray for gentleness towards yourself. You are one of a kind!!! A teaching angel 😇. Thank you for your strength.

  • @jaredhaynes2066
    @jaredhaynes2066 Před rokem +26

    This just made me tear up all over again. I wish those kids were still here😢

  • @jordanthompson6717
    @jordanthompson6717 Před rokem +10

    They need a new school, clean of that very tragic day. That school is still full of heroes. It takes a lot to go back. God bless these adults and children, as well as their families. Rest Easy to the Angel's that lost their lives on that ugly day 🙏❤

  • @jonmcintosh2729
    @jonmcintosh2729 Před rokem +5

    This woman is so courageous to go back there and teach. Tamron is a good interviewer. So many interviewers make the interview more about themselves rather than person they are interviewing.

  • @dreamcatcher5502
    @dreamcatcher5502 Před rokem +14

    Hang in there Nicole. Survivors guilt is real. I had it after surviving a wildfire. It lasted 6 months or so. You will slowly heal from this and you will be OK. I promise you sweetie !! Thank you for your incredible work and bravery !!! YOU ARE LOVED !!! 😘❤

  • @parmjeetnijjar4820
    @parmjeetnijjar4820 Před rokem +8

    Made me cry alot listening to the teacher talking, she is an amazing woman and will do what she can for those kids

  • @aralyacosta3596
    @aralyacosta3596 Před rokem +8

    BLESS HER HEART!!! Lord wrap your arms around that town touch each one of them give them life lord and peace to keep going.

  • @dashelledisna6239
    @dashelledisna6239 Před rokem +26

    That tragedy messed me up for weeks😭🙃

  • @kathyclark2394
    @kathyclark2394 Před rokem +13

    Sending prayers for all the teachers from that school. I pray they put all those kids together in their grade instead of spreading them out into classrooms that they don't hardly know anyone.

  • @joannepackus5736
    @joannepackus5736 Před rokem +12

    So Brave! Thank You For Coming Back To Teach! The kids need teachers like you to give them stability. The bad people of the world can not win.

  • @Majicplumbob
    @Majicplumbob Před rokem +18

    God bless this lady and all those babies. God bless Mrs. Hall for her heartfelt empathy and compassion during this interview ..

  • @nessa3070
    @nessa3070 Před rokem +11

    This would be a really confronting time. The emotions for everyone. You are a brave lady, the children are lucky to have you. The world needs more like you . Those lives will never be forgotten ❤️

  • @heatherangel101
    @heatherangel101 Před rokem +13

    What an incredible woman… I can’t imagine going through all of that trauma and loss.

    • @emilybroh7004
      @emilybroh7004 Před rokem

      I was about to say the same thing. She’s incredibly strong and persevering.

  • @Tula_Bear
    @Tula_Bear Před rokem +19

    This woman is incredible ❤️

  • @Sunny-cj5ic
    @Sunny-cj5ic Před rokem +7

    ❤️ & That’s what classrooms need to hear and feel around the world. LOVE 💗

  • @leek-te5dx
    @leek-te5dx Před rokem +2

    Bless this lady. You have love for your profession and all those students. You are the reason strength and courage will remain.

  • @mandymurphy7382
    @mandymurphy7382 Před rokem +11

    Praying for the teachers there in uvaldie.

  • @monicacecil4984
    @monicacecil4984 Před rokem +7

    Sending prayers for everyone in Uvalde

  • @samuelugh5729
    @samuelugh5729 Před rokem +9

    Why isn’t our schools? Safe? Why DMV’s court houses have guards and apartments complexes. but not schools??! why?

  • @bryan3487
    @bryan3487 Před rokem +8

    Why them and not me is the hardest question you can think to answer. If you are dealing with something like this visit your local veteran's group. Normally it is strictly a "no tourists" zone but if you lived through this you will be welcome, and it may be the only place to find people who get it

  • @melodybacak9668
    @melodybacak9668 Před rokem +4

    God bless Uvalde ❤

  • @barkeyes8592
    @barkeyes8592 Před rokem +7

    This is so heartbreaking!

  • @tawnytirado143
    @tawnytirado143 Před rokem +10

    Amazing heartfelt interview

  • @shadymccoy7
    @shadymccoy7 Před rokem +5

    Prayers for her and the kids and for all the families. 🙏🏾💜

  • @antipeople3935
    @antipeople3935 Před rokem +9

    This didn't have to happen. It's sad and it's even sadder to know it will eventually happen again

  • @lgutierrez9592
    @lgutierrez9592 Před rokem

    When she said we as teachers are trying to make our classrooms a safe place hopefully
    That just got me. School should be a safe place no doubt. God keep all children and teachers safe.

  • @tawnytirado143
    @tawnytirado143 Před rokem +6

    💪💪💪💪Brave strong amazing teacher.

  • @kristinwallace6551
    @kristinwallace6551 Před rokem

    I am late to commenting. But I am sure it means the world to those kids that their teacher came back. What a beautiful, strong woman. All of those kids are lucky to have her.

  • @pitalitta8814
    @pitalitta8814 Před rokem

    Hearing her has me in tears 😢

  • @michellejames5953
    @michellejames5953 Před rokem +1

    So sad and moving

  • @pugdad2555
    @pugdad2555 Před rokem +15

    It was never your decision to pull the trigger. We need to make sure all these people are getting the mental health help they need.

    • @andrewsteinberg8891
      @andrewsteinberg8891 Před rokem

      first you bully them and than think it's "mental health..." It's not mental health, it is your garbage bullying culture that is the problem. Stop bullying people and these shootings will go away. Trust me.

  • @carlosrg68
    @carlosrg68 Před 3 měsíci

    it's hard to see teachers not get the attention they deserve, like the first responders do or actually they ensure they do by telling everyone, oh how wonderful our first responders are and oh how wonderful our policemen and woman are, all 400+ that showed up that day - the american idol these days are guns and how special they are to have and hold...

  • @michellemurphy4148
    @michellemurphy4148 Před rokem +2

    Nice intimate quiet video

  • @timellison24
    @timellison24 Před rokem +18

    It's survivor's guilt, not survivor's remorse. Remorse describes a feeling of regret or guilt for a wrong committed (murderers for example might feel remorse). Because the teacher was not the perpetrator, it is strange to describe her feeling as "remorse," when she clearly just feels guilty for having survived, unlike her friends. Plus, "survivor's guilt" is simply the standard phrase.

    • @lilirishgrl
      @lilirishgrl Před rokem

      You’re absolutely right

    • @henriettasmith2618
      @henriettasmith2618 Před rokem +1

      I take your point, but in your argument for the words being distinct, you used one to define the other

    • @timellison24
      @timellison24 Před rokem +2

      @@henriettasmith2618 Not really. I used the word "guilt" in the definition for remorse with the qualification: "guilt for a wrong committed." This is the definition of remorse. If I had used the word in exactly the same way (e.g., "guilt = remorse"), that would have been a mere tautology, which you seem to suggest I did. But if you have ever spent any time with dictionaries, if you have two similar words, often one of those words is contained in the definition, but with a qualifier to make the distinction. Take the word melancholy, and say you wanted to distinguish between melancholy and sadness. To define melancholy, you will inevitably end up using the word sadness, but with additional words to explain the difference ("a feeling of pensive sadness," for example). So the part you're missing in my definition is "guilt for a wrong committed." That is what makes all the difference. I challenge you to define remorse otherwise.

  • @denroybercier
    @denroybercier Před rokem +8

    We can't just move on. We have to be angry and do something about this. I can tell you right now how all of this could have been stopped. Shooters are looking for sitting ducks but not a gunfight. Give the teachers guns. They clearly love the kids and would risk their lives for them. If you don't trust someone with a gun around your kids, then they shouldn't be a teacher. The police were incompetent at best and weren't willing to die to save the teachers and children. "Yelp if you need help"? That's the stupidest command to tell civilians in hiding. It is sick how this went down. How many shootings need to happen for us to realize that hiring more unarmed bodyguards to just be present is not helping.

  • @buzzkincaid5521
    @buzzkincaid5521 Před rokem

    The thin veneer of normalcy ,destroyed in a moment ,by one very sick teenager. The shock waves reverberate ,and manifest in so many ways, in so many lives. Innocents lost.

  • @amandacolonna3872
    @amandacolonna3872 Před rokem +1

    This is so heartbreaking 💔

  • @christinecardimen544
    @christinecardimen544 Před rokem +1

    Crying so hard…..

  • @timarmstrong9992
    @timarmstrong9992 Před 8 hodinami

    I will pray for the family 🙏 God bless you and he will always be there for you always be there for you and your family. and another thing is that my opinion from bottom of my heart from Timothy Allen Armstrong. I am going to put them in my prayers for all the loss of the kids and another thing is I also feel like crying.

  • @rosalbagutierrez9551
    @rosalbagutierrez9551 Před rokem

    😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @kathleneda2514
    @kathleneda2514 Před rokem +1

    You are here to teach students to climb back up and show them how you did it.

  • @susanjakubiec4009
    @susanjakubiec4009 Před rokem

    Sad❤

  • @Jaxpg19
    @Jaxpg19 Před rokem +2

    🙏🙏🙏 Jude:2

  • @gamerhistorian7843
    @gamerhistorian7843 Před rokem +3

    This is America

  • @karenmixer8782
    @karenmixer8782 Před rokem

    Is my TV lying to me again?

  • @lovechild1351
    @lovechild1351 Před rokem

    America 🇺🇸 beautiful Billy. Yaya Tru dat grandpa. Love 😍 elite.

  • @johndashwood7671
    @johndashwood7671 Před rokem +2

    It is time the cops went to prison.

  • @lenmoore9109
    @lenmoore9109 Před rokem +7

    Tamron, why?????

  • @swimgirl24
    @swimgirl24 Před rokem +6

    Ban assault rifles. This is so tragic and terrible. This man LEGALLY bought an assault weapon and then attacked a school. 😔

    • @C9-0L2-7BV8
      @C9-0L2-7BV8 Před rokem

      Assault Rifles would be gone then you'd still have a bunch of other firearms. Same situation with columbine ,uvalde and other schools. Just another school that is easy for someone to commit another mass tragedy.

  • @zuleimahernandez8037
    @zuleimahernandez8037 Před rokem

    Even if I was showing bravery in the face of adversity as an example I could not send my kids back to that school after that.

  • @SuperAlandin
    @SuperAlandin Před rokem

  • @josettek.esquivel7938

    #JusticeForUvalde
    🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎

  • @sodamnsexy16
    @sodamnsexy16 Před rokem

    Good for her… I wouldn’t go back

  • @loymoreno8546
    @loymoreno8546 Před rokem

    Uvalde strong,song on CZcams by elscum

  • @carlaaxelson6338
    @carlaaxelson6338 Před rokem +2

    I’m not sure I like the interviewer. “ can you hear the children’s voices”? Wtf

    • @ball3677
      @ball3677 Před rokem

      She was trying to bait her into talking about the screams. Sick woman

  • @jisundergroundfornow2548

    No one should have to go through that... It's too bad the country may not be able to heal from the right's intense defense and worship of guns and the 2A [which they don't understand and/or rewrote'

  • @mizztia5303
    @mizztia5303 Před rokem

    The police chief couldn't organise a root in a brothel,

  • @erikag7334
    @erikag7334 Před rokem

    So does god just pick and choose who he wants to protect ? I am so confused in this faith stuff like idk

  • @MexiMelt1988
    @MexiMelt1988 Před rokem

    TRUMP N HIS WIFE TED CRUZ NEED WEIGHT WATCHERS LOL
    PS HE LOST LOL

  • @fusemore1059
    @fusemore1059 Před rokem +3

    This interview was so slow and boring. Yawn we are want the details of everything

    • @irmajgarcia6009
      @irmajgarcia6009 Před rokem +9

      What details? You got problems if you find this boring. No heart..

    • @christinecardimen544
      @christinecardimen544 Před rokem +4

      Seriously, omg. Then leave.

    • @nykiasmith7404
      @nykiasmith7404 Před rokem

      What details? What how loud the kids screamed when they died. Idk what else there is to need details to. The police sucked I blame them

    • @x3kittiekat
      @x3kittiekat Před rokem

      Really? You want entertainment out of a tragedy? Out of many people and kid's traumatic experience? Seriously what's wrong with you, how can you be that insensitive