Jordan Peterson: How to attract beautiful women
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'first you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women' -scarface
Nick R *then you get the powa
Really no need to put Scarface at the end of that.
SoldierPrince saved me 2-3 hrs so i didn't have to sit through that asstastic film.
And then you get disappointed
girls like iced cream
Title of the Video - How to attract beautiful women
Jordan Peterson - So the tyranny manifests as the crocodile with the clock in its stomach which faces down your personal hell that exists in the belly of the whale...
Me - I finally understand women
Underrated af
Get this man his own channel, best comment in years frfr
fuck these titles
Seriously fuck these titles and whoever makes them. I hope they get fucked by a chimpanzee
😂😂
0. Develop your Social Skills enough to realize Women Aren't Above you.
1. Have a Job
2. Have your own place
3. Wear decent clothes
4. Be in slightly above average shape.
Fully achievable, in other words?
have all that, and more, yet not having success
@@awayofzen same feelsbadman
@@awayofzen see a therapist (or a life coach)
5. Good mental health
This is super simple:
1. (most important) Learn why women are attracted to YOU. Every man has something that women find attractive: could be money, looks, physique, you can make women laugh, you are brooding/mysterious, your anecdotal, you carry yourself well, etc. Point is, find out what mix of these attributes women find attractive about you. Once you're armed with this knowledge, you can identify which women are attracted to these attributes, and which are not - focus on the latter.
2. (very important) Surround yourself with women. You have to be around women more often than not. Surround yourself with the type of women you want to attract. You're not going to attract women if you spend most of your time at home or alone.
3. (kind of important) Do not be afraid to approach women: You cannot always wait for women to make the first move; you'll miss out on too many opportunities if you do. You have to be willing to make the first move.
You nailed this man.
1: Finding out what works for you, playing that hand it to its fullest extent and beyond.
2: Ill just give this as an opinion, one that’s proven true to me countless times throughout the years - Women are naturally more attracted to what other women have. One of the best quotes I ever heard was from a totally ugly dude (that still held himself together in terms of appearance tho).. “Go in that place guns blazin.. find the least attractive one of the group/The one you’re confident to pull. Buy her drinks and treat her like a queen. By the end of the night, the best looking ones of the bunch are gonna be interested by default”. And given what I said prior, since y’all aren’t even dating.. the other girls will feel even more appeal due to the fact that you’re literally operating on terms of “fairground.”
3: To be able to approach anybody. You have to build your self-esteem.. that time when you’re alone, *DO NOT* spend that time sending yourself negative, toxic remarks a majority of the time (balance is key, there is such thing as good, proper negativity.. if you’re already beat down. *THEN* is not the time for that. Hype yourself up when you lose/bring yourself down a notch and see what you could’ve done better when you win. And prepare for your next battle)
That time you spend alone, is absolutely catamite to your self-esteem. You’re spending time with yourself, and therefore you must treat yourself in proper accordance.
Also, simply *just* going to the gym, eating healthy, etc… isn’t always going to cut it. If you have anxiety or w/e.. you should find great interest in digging yourself out of that hole. Because the rest of the pieces usually all fall right into place once you start working on the big pictures.. and leaving the small, petty things aside.
*Lastly,* (and maybe most importantly of ALL) - you need.. *NEED.* To cut out *ALL* of the toxic people in your life that are literally just dead weight. Because the prevalence of great minds being dragged down (FOR A LIFETIME) by weak minds, is far too great of a % chance in our reality. These people will continually drag you down, leave you hung out to dry, and constantly coming back to do it again, again, and again. You are literally who you surround yourself with. Even if it means family, you should find immense interest and in dissociation with this bunch.
I’ll leave with a quote that I made myself after a lifetime of being overweight, underconfident, self hating, depressed etc… and I finally got out of that rut 4 years ago.. and never looked back:
You can spend all day, all week, years. Cutting down a tree branch by branch, leaf by leaf. One branch a day, one leaf a day. But it’s just going to keep growing back in other areas, and pretty soon. A year has gone by, and the tree is still bigger then it ever was. Until you take out the axe, and start relentlessly chopping that base. Again, and again, and again. Until you dig every last ROOT out of that ground.. you’re never going to get rid of that tree -
The ground is you. The tree is core of your problem. And the leaves/branches are ALL the other stuff that you feel uselessly negative about.
Solve the core issue, come to understand it and know it through and through. From a wide array of spectrums.. you’ll know when you *TRULY DO TOO* - because suddenly, a great deal of things and ideas you’de always wanted to manifest within your lifetime. Will either come true, or seem but a stones throw away - even on the other side of the planet.
And that my friends, is what they truly mean when they say, “do you, before trying to fix yourself up with somebody else”.
You got this.
But I don't want to surround myself with women. They make lousy companions.
@bella He probably wants to find one special one, instead of being surrounded by them.
"You're not going to attract women if you spend most of your time at home or alone."
How do you even attempt to not even spend all of your time at home during this dumb pandemic? I did manage to avoid staying constantly at home, but even that wasn't enough.
@@st0a I feel you man... I haven't really gone out for two years. Two fucking years. But, when I did went out on my own and had interactions with other women, they were fairly positive, which is one of the few things that makes me keep hope that I didn't go crazy and that I actually am attractive to some level. Still, the fact that I have no common ground to interact with other people - specially girls - just ruins every chance I have. My only hope really is getting a job that might have a nice girl I could meet, and that's low odds.
I guess we just have to be strong until something happens, man.
Wear a T shirt that says 'I am a billionaire with a heart condition.'
Now no one can like your comment, it’s got the golden number
Nothing like sexist stereotypes hunting for likes.
Rebel Raccoon the truth isn’t sexist grow up
@@rerrer3346 It isn't the truth. Most of all it's an obvious exaggeration. There are not that many billionaires in the world. The vast majority of women are married to men who aren't obscenely wealthy.
Rebel Raccoon does money and status attract women or not ? Go ahead and lie I’ll wait.
The goal should not be to attract beautiful women. The goal should be to attract GOOD women. There is a huge, huge difference and it means absolutely everything.
There is no point in having a 'good' if you don't fancy her.
@@harrynking777 - I don't disagree with you, but people's standards have become ridiculous these days. You're all going to be single and bitter in your 40's and you're going to wonder why. And I just told you why.
Good women are fewer
@@Americanhorizon Exactly, but finding _and_ catching the big fish in the pond is never easy
Precisely- the only confounding variable to your assessment is that looks are in a small part determined by how well someone cleans themselves, or is responsible for themselves. Just look up videos of how women(and men too) have radically changed their appearance by being responsible in taking showers every day, applying acne medication, and getting plenty of exercise. In a sense, you want to try and appear as attractive as possible if you are searching for a mate. For Women and Men alike, I reccomend something black if it's on a date.
You are right that attracting GOOD women is a huge, huge difference with 'beautiful' women.
Take it from Creed:
She wears a coat of color
Loved by some, feared by others
She's immortalized in young men's eyes
In your mind she's your companion
Vile instincts often candid
Your regret is all that's left
But beautiful is empty
Beautiful is free
Beautiful loves no one
Beautiful Stripped me
Anyways, Studies have shown that naturally attractive/beautiful people are at a higher risk for mental health disorders. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a common one.
Back in the old days...
Before going out ,we would go past an ATM bank and find receipts with the biggest bank balances , then when talking to a girl at a pub/club ,write our telephone numbers on the back of the bank balance receipt!
Worked every time .
haha lol i love that
None of Your Business Batteries died on you ?
No good men left for you ?
Don’t worry your cats will love you ,all 13 of them!
@None of Your Business It wouldn't work if women were not gold-diggers, would it? Do you wear makeup? Then you're no different, are you?
@Jay J YES! That's all they deserve.
Great! I never heard of that one. But it attracts bitches only. Good for a good fuck but nothing else.
1. Be polite.
2. Be efficient.
3. Have a plan to kill ev- oh wait, wrong video.
1. Be polite.
2. Be efficient.
3. Have a plan to f$%k everyone you meet. -Here, fixed it for ya ;)
Lmfao
Intrafacial86 yeah
He said that as well right?
Have a plan to kill everyone in the room...
🤣😎💪🏾
No no keep going
Why are all Jordan Peterson videos inapprortiately named after the stuff that pick-up artists try to sell? Is that a cheap marketing strategy to elicit more clicks from insecure young men who wouldn't watch this material otherwise, or is it an attempt to frame Peterson and his material in a way that it can be disregarded out of fear for its power?
Go to prof's CZcams channel and watch them.
lol 😆
To help misguided people.
@@vinyvinycocopuffpassittome5051 this
YUP! This essential truth channel fucking sucks! I cant stand his editing of these lectures, go watch the original unabridged versions, so much better!
The secret to finding the right partner is to first know your self as best you can (takes a fair bit of honesty), take care of yourself and do what you love. Then you'll be generally be happy and the right women will find you.
wow I found a mature, secure male answering. Thank you.
Jordan Peterson is surely very competent. But he argues a lot out of the matrix-model, including male dominance and competition, which humanity will eventually overcome. So I wonder for myself how much I should consider his theories.
Here’s the problem in a nut shell. For a woman to be a woman all she has to do is menstruated. But when does a man become a man? What makes up a “real man” and how do women know when you are one? In traditional cultures there was always a right of passage. A real test of bravery, courage, strength and fortitude. Something all young men suffered through to prove their worth. Not just their worth to the tribe, but their worth and value to women.
We have only a few examples of these things in modern western cultures, and almost all of them are in the military. (Think you are strong? Put more than your body weight on your back, pick up a 24lb m60, walk for 25 miles nonstop, then climb a mountain, we do it all the dam time).
Because of this lack of right of passage, women can’t always tell who is “worthy.” They have an internal “demand” to know and have made up their own. Remember they are constantly being pulled between millions of years of evolution, feminist indoctrination, and a desire to have a good life for themselves and their offspring. Their current concept of an alpha is about as opposite an alpha as you can get, but they have no real way to pick.
Here’s some examples or real alphas that wouldn’t even come close to a modern alpha definition: Crazy Horse (was 5’8”), Audie Murphy and Bruce Lee (AM was 5’5”, both were 130lbs soaking wet), Chesty Puller was 5’8”. None of them were “rich shopping carts” for women. They were the alpha of alphas.
As men, we don’t get to choose what they find attractive. However, as men we are the only ones that get to choose how we are. Be as physically fit as you can. Lift heavy, cut the fat, be as strong as you can be. Learn every skill you can think of. Learn leadership skills. Challenge yourself to do things you are uncomfortable with. Never let fear dictate your life. If you work on those aspects, all others will fall into place. Those old standards are hardwired into women.
And remember this: never do it for “women” do it for “you.” They can come and go, but you get to wake up to you every day.
Suck Less this is a great comment. I would add that a woman's driving force naturally leads to money because, at least in current society, that is how we ALL measure success. Or maybe the FIRST, quickest way we measure success.
Man or woman, if you see someone running the material side of their life with reasonable efficiency you figure/hope that other aspects of their being work well in the world.
Those that abuse this system for their own gains? Well, that's a whole different story and they are (or should be) in their own personal battle to combat such a life-outlook.
No matter how strong you are how much lift and train ,mental strength and confidence cant be easily achieved and taught , its unlocking the core of masculine energy, i clowned many military guys who thought they could get a girl just on social conditioning
Thanks man, great advice
This is extremely spot on. But I've never understood how choosing to launch yourself into a situation where killing people makes you a man. Military now is nothing. When you compare the absolutely over the top gut wrenching terror of the great wars like the World Wars and Vietnam, it makes modern warfare look like airsoft. War making a man only happens if you where drafted and had no choice, because that is scary, or you lived through these horrors and remained yourself without breaking character. That is a man. Nowadays to me choosing to go somewhere with a gun is psycho. There are no threats of invasion so if you want to fight do mma. It's also funny how humans need to mate and keep the species alive but being a man means to do something that might kill you. It kind of nullifies the point right?
.."For a woman to be a woman all she has to do is menstruated." yeah... this is why people who listen to Peterson and just roughly summing it up gets a bit misleading /annoying to listen to at times .:P truth that women have a responsibility to take seriously on a psychological level of not getting pregnant, but that doesnt make a woman, as a kind of bravery would make a man. getting a period is not brave. and both sexes needs the "hero" story of trancendence into a higher self. how are these "old standards" hardwired into women?, living as a woman, is, somehow brave in itself? is it because of a higher degree of conscientiousness? and what does that mean? just asking.
Its not that men doesnt have a passage to become men to women, society is not to blame, neither are women. what you write in the end there, to do what is good and difficult, is what makes grown ups and gets respect from other people, is the only truth. then you are a grown up "man" or "woman".
. and maybe that includes some outlet of what your bodymind and hormones tells you to, if you want to feel "manly", do activities you think are manly and exceeds in your potential. whatever heals your spirit and makes you better.
..but dont you say women need to look at bravery tests to know how to pick a good man! XD thats a trap. what makes men especially,feel good, women doesnt necessarily care about, and what makes women in particular,feel good, men doesnt care about, "roughly speaking:P" as reflected in gendered interest in jobs, etc.. so in the end we mainly care about what the person feels about themselves, and if they are doing good, whatever that means. that is about the hiarchy that is very complex.. but all so simple. that is why it can be faked. if the person seems spritually healthy, or have something special about them, that they believe in something, it could be enough to attract a woman. the lobster hiarchy could be "faked" , or just made to a laugh. because its not what really matters.
so men get annoyed when they se someone less physchally fit male get away with a pretty girl. this has happened at all times, because you can target the mind of a woman to a greater degree to have sex with you, than a man, because men are more physically rooted in attraction.:P
that is why you think there are "fake" alphamales, while in fact, those men has just mastered to capture the passion of women.
not all woman. not all men. but this is just trying to make a statement.
i think even in those early times there was a guy writing poetry that tried to get the girl from the appropriate "hero" XD
but that is just the treat that it looks like. if he is not real alpha, you can become better.
so yeah. forget about being a better man first, because that is just sad, you should become a better person. working out is always good though.
I just like hearing him talk this man has a plethora of useful information can’t help but admire him
Jordan Peterson is the best thing happened to me in these 3 years of my life.
Your only three years old?
@@karryworkman556 🤣 I thought the same!!
I like those candid camera shots.. it adds to the atmosphere like you are sneaking in to hear the lecture but are not member of the society :D
“The effect they have on you is one you wanting to imitate”. Are you talking about yourself in this sentence prof? Cuz you are my legend 😂
Nobody:
JBP: dominance hierarchy 😀
Love those videos!
2-29-2020 - - - "She's so fine, there's no tellin' where the money went." Robert Palmer - Simply Irresistible.
This explanation by Jordan Peterson is the exact reason why there are so many problems in our society regarding dating and relationships, and so many divorces and breakups happen.
as in, he did a bad thing? or he described what exists.
Lol!
Be genuine
Be interesting
Exude confidence
Be positive
Be mature
Show that you take care of yourself
And I 100% guarantee you will attract women.
Blake C excessive confidence is a reason women will turn away.... -Kama sutra
as a woman this is true
no, you just have to know how to talk to women. I got the most women when I was at my wildest and most irresponsible.. this rings true for many guys out there. women like jerks.
Tons of phonies are genuine. Psychopats are. Period.
A leader Understands these things: respect. Caring. Kindness. Trust. Appreciation. Gratitude. A sense of humor. Any woman who also understands gets him and a relationship.
True! Very important things!
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Yeah but women who understand gratitude and appreciation are about as common as a $3 bill...
Best friends forever xD
Expect you’re greatly underestimating how physical attraction can play a role especially for long term relationships. You can be the kindest soul out there but if women don’t find you physically attractive then that kindness amounts to nothing.
"First you get the suga, then you get the powa, then you get the woma" Homer Simpson
🤣
A guy how is aware and acting like a mature man. No shouting. No brutality. Firm and clear of his role. Irresistible.
that doesnt work. women are only attracted to 2 things looks and money
@@danjones6702 you are projecting. 90 percent of married guys are not the most attractives ones nor rich. For sure good looks and money helps to attract the most attractive women (attractive to you). Superficial ones as well.
Decent goals as holding a job, beimg groomed , having some talent ( being able to bei helpful in the household )is attractives to most of the women. I am one and most of my female friends hold the same opinion.
Women look out for traits they hold themselves. It ist called partnership. A loose woman might bei okay with a loose guy too.
If you are a teenager it might be different. Teenagers tend to be superficial.
The difference between Girl and Woman.
I gained an understanding of this back in the late 1980's by reading "Men and Marriage" by George Gilder. He said the same thing using different words. It's true. And, I got the beautiful wife while I was near the top of a dominance hierarchy. A small one, but one she respected. Seventeen years later she divorced me during a long term illness that prevented me from working and making money. So, it's really true.
Sorry, man.
Wtf that’s horseshit she’s not even close to your value
That's because she was with you for your money and your status, you should have been more observant and decerning when vetting her.
There's a difference between being more attractive to women in general vs a specific woman for you. This social dynamic may affect her longevity in her overall relative attraction to you vs any possible competing males but one can only focus on what they can control. Good to be aware of these influences but not necessarily healthy to obsess over. Just focus on being the best you while functioning with some decent awareness of such things.
There is a huge difference between being attracted to someone and maintaining that attraction in the long term. Some guys seem attractive and they get lots of attention from women but it doesn't last because, in reality, those individuals are very flawed - they just know how to cover it up for a month or two. I'm one of them.
and I dont fucking like it anymore
@@pab1972 We are all flawed and it only has to really work out well once right? Nonetheless, that must still be very frustrating and I feel you man. Things will get better... you just have to keep pushing forward to find the right one for you. That all said, having the awareness of how things may influence outcomes is a good starting point and an advantage that you can capitalize on if you keep working on the right stuff. Best
Nothing more attractive IMO than a kind heart in a fit body ruled by a mind full of common sense and decency.
Lol not what women go for tho is it.
@@gtrrohit5078 I did.
@@clmclachlan congrats you're a minority then
@@gtrrohit5078 I could say the same for him but that would hardly be fair would it?
I dare you to be the first to go get a homeless guy that is like this a prove yourself not a weak liar like every female.
Women want someone who has VALUE according to their personal morals. expectations etc. If you have a certain career or mindset they approve of etc, you're good.
VALUE = MONEY...MONEY IS THEIR PRIMARY MOTIVATION...THE RESULT OF THE "CAREER" YOU SUGGEST A MAN AIMS FOR, RIGHT?
This is the one I was waiting for
I guess we are talking about beautiful on the inside not outside because outside is just an shallow illusion. Beautiful girls are easy to get if you really show them you care and have a deep sense of empathy.
I think to be truly attractive, a man needs to have a sense of purpose in the world. To be kind to others and compassionate. To have a goal in life that contributes to society and to work towards that goal without hesitation. To not place women on a pedestal and to not see them a central purpose to life. As soon as you develop this mindset of not needing a woman, you can be truly happy and pleased with yourself, that you are a man of character, integrity and genuine sense of mission in life.
I think this is what makes a man universally attractive.
LOL!!!...MONEY IS THE MOST ATTRACTIVE THING TO A WOMAN...YOU CHOOSE TO BE BLIND OR TO SEEM CONSIDERATE OF LESSER THINGS BUT YOUR PREMISE IS ONLY POSSIBLE IF YOU PURSUE & OBTAIN.................MONEY...GOT IT?
Well said Ben!
To be truly attractive a man just has to be attractive
the true will set you free
Be confident, act confident, look confidence.
Success, personality, appearance in that order.
Where was the first half of this video from, it cut off while it was being AMAZING!!!
Intelligence makes a man have content, healthy self esteem and healthy confidence. Takes care of himself and knows when and how to use his danger skills.
Dr. Peterson, man of truth
I didn't expect too see Dr Jordan Peterson
Jordan creates a pathway that logically holds up. However, if you analyze each step of this constructed logic, there is always room for disagreement or other possibilities which might alter the chain of logic.
Of course, he's just a man, not the mesiah
That's what makes him great!
Sometimes it’s just about being able to tell the difference between genuine attraction and manipulative charm...for both men and women.
Never clicked so fast jeezus man
"Beauty is only skin deep, but on a girl, it looks real good"
(Song, sung by Robert Mitchum)
and why wouldnt that apply to men? theres different ways to see beauty. You would think that athletic built men or Olympians are also beautiful men.
@@missionpupa _What are you, gay or something?_
@@piccoloatburgerking im just not homophobic and insecure of my own sexuality like you?
@@missionpupa Lol had a feeling you wouldn't get the reference.
@@piccoloatburgerking Oh yeah, I remember now, I remember saying that to your Dad.
I think Jordan is right what he says, however, if you don't have money and success and top dominance. Another way is to truly know yourself and be the authentic YOU. Be genuinely interested in beautiful women and ask the questions that nobody else has asked them before then become a great listener. Lastly, develop a great sense of humor, and you will attract all types of beautiful women. Let me know how you get on.
Have as many positive features that a parasite can leech from. That's all folks.
Truth
Daaaa that's a short-sighted half truth my man, obviously turning to poison for you, positive features are not something you simply desire just for the woman's sake, you want them for your own selfish reasons also.. (including being wanted by women), a lack of positive features is detrimental either way... you want success woman or no woman...the leaching part you can choose not to be with an individual woman that leaches and has no job or dreams of her own.
You are right
Rance czcams.com/video/9WDXStamk9A/video.html watch this from minute 5 onwards, Peterson essentially calls you a loser!
love yourself first before looking for a companion
-idiot in the internet 2018
I find beautiful ppl causes our dopamine to change,
First time seeing a more beautiful woman is always a shocker, then eventually looks becomes just easy on the eye, it's not normal if you crave such a thing in a woman beyond just inspiration, and yes not all things we own like beauty inspire each person the same, but it's ultimately not a need to say she's mine, for sure
Step 1: Hold your self to a high standard a walk with a purpose, people sense confidence, walk slowly with your shoulders back and chin up.
Step 2: speak slowly and maintain eye contact. Women are much better then men at sensing confidence if you cant hold eye contact with the girl she’ll sense that your weak. Speak clearly and slowly shows that your not nervous. It also helps a great deal if your articulate and have some substance to you women are attracted to intelligence.
Step 3: Don’t be weird, don’t come off to strong don’t be physical unless she initiates it. Women are attracted to men who make them feel safe so don’t make her feel threatened.
Step 4: understand your the most permanent person in your life and never chase women, it’s okay to talk to girls and try and get girls but don’t make yourself constantly available and in the beggining stages never ever validate the girl because all other men do.
Step 5: take care of yourself, dress nicely clean your self practice proper hygiene and smell good physical attraction is the first thing women notice and if you stink you instantly blow it.
I'd love for someone to point out Patrice O'Neal to Jordan Peterson.... they are similar in many ways, all positive.
It works!
Wish i could get this guys perspective on my situation
This guy is the king of inception. He talks about alot of things, has a title "how to attract beutiful women" and then never gives the answer directly. He makes us come up with an idea of how to attract women, with the information we got from the video.
He didn't clip this and write the title. Some dumbass did.
6:03 You are welcome.
I have the feeling that most of Mr. Peterson's video clips don't have appropriate title.Somehow they have populist title, which don't necessarily correspond with the content of the talk.
Humm intersting comments. Some women who are beautiful are looking for "Real Men" period. With principles.. Love their life work and a sense of humor. Not a spoiled mommas boy, one from a balanced perspective with all kinds of people. Sympathetic and stable accountable with friends and family to validate who they are.
In a nutshell! You made it very clear.
Easy, just be beautiful, and I mean truly so, more than skin deep.
Mankind will quote this man for decades or centuries from now. Like Socrates and Plato.
The most attractive virtue of a man is a lack of fear, or, his obvious courage. You never see a boxer without a beautiful girlfriend. It takes courage to be a leader, to run a business, to win a championship.. courage brings success which brings status, power, resources.
No it isn’t. The most attractive virtue is raw talent.
Courage is useless to women if it doesn’t convert to success in some way. A courageous person takes risks, and there’s a survivorship bias in that people who get the furthest in life were willing to take big risks to get there. What you’re missing is that the other half of courageous people failed tremendously and live in their mom’s basement now defeated with their ego crushed and realizing their courage was their downfall.
Raw talent correlates to success way more than courage. Courage is a coin flip. Raw talent is a guaranteed grind to the top if you simply apply yourself and show up every day.
People like to attribute things to skills that can be controlled because it’s a better message, but unfortunately life simply doesn’t work that way. Most things that lead to success are out of our hands. Looks, raw talent, and family wealth are the biggest contributors. After that, it’s grit. Grit is the only variable of the four that is within your control, and it does weigh heavily, but it’s definitely less important than raw talent which is by far the most heavily weighted variable.
@@ThomasFoolery8 In real world though,it's courage.We can see plenty of very talented people who are terrible with women.
@@amalksuresh286 there are far more courageous homeless people who are terrible with women. He had the courage to cliff dive into rocky waters to get likes on social media and got brain damage and couldn’t hold a job and is homeless now.
Patience is a virtue. Impatience shows neediness and desperation.
Give a I don't care attitude about how others perceive you.
Don't try to fit in. Don't be a people pleaser and most of all don't be a clown.
People always wonder about the quiet ones (if you do act quiet, dont look sus, act like you really don't give a shit)
Don't be nice, be kind (huge difference)
Call people on their bullshit (especially hot girls) try to be playfull while doing it or go lay havoc !
Thanks
So what I'm hearing from this is That there are two ways to be attractive to women. First is to have a job which is a pretty broad objective. The second is to be good at climbing dominance hierarchies. It's pretty safe to say that all men on this planet are good at climbing dominant hierarchies because women have sexually selected for it as a trait. Statistically speaking women don't want men who are unemployed and aren't climbing any dominant hierarchies. So basically do the opposite of that.
that bit about interviews was pretty relevant to me. I really struggle with them but i also see them as stupid and i use that as my excuse when i fail. I suppose really i just need to try harder to become better at them rather than hope i get through them and then prove my worth later.
No, you're right, interviews are rarely great at predicting the applicants real workplace outcome.
For example, someone I know applied to The Home Depot for a the same position - cashier.
Anyways, I didn't get the job, they did.
Here's the catch.
I basically told the interviewing manager that I didn't really care about the company because being invested in corporate protocol isn't the most important thing in my life. I purposefully used this interview as a means to see how superficial the entire process is.
The other person, who was desperate for work, got the job, despite our massive difference in educational attainment (I am was beyond them), other workplace experiences (I am beyond) and psychological well being (they have schizophrenia)
Yet they still got the job and I didn't!.
I'm studying Cybersecurity, and ever since, I can't really take the corporate world seriously anymore because of its falliable nature that it takes zero accountability for when it does thing wrongly - inaccurate database entries, timeclock entries, favoritism, passive aggeessive management, computer training programs that do NOT work, cronyism (getting the job because of friendship) the list goes on and on.
@@coryprovost2277 we live in a world where they don't care about ingenuity or talent, they just want the pretty stories and lame clichê quotes. Just watch any singing show, it gets as bad as that
We want the beauty of caos, not the productivity of an orderly, logical and ovjective society
JP himself has a lot of points on that
Excellent man.
In a nutshel, you have to be complete on you own and work in yourself 👌
Misleading title, great video.
Something tells me that Peterson is not really interested in helping you all pick up hot chicks. I think he has some higher notions in his mind.
that s funny it is more of explaining a colour to blind man.
He wants more plumbers to fix his mansions not men who can think for themselves
I love how he says bloody
Dude this just opened my mind in a new way, for getting to be at the top you have to do things no one does but do things that might be wanted to be imitated, mmmmmm interesting, this way if you get other men to imitate you that makes you more attractive to women just because you are dominant. and thats why you dont have to be shy, just go for it take your place and eclipse other males. soooo interesting so many years to think like that
It’s easy. Be tall, smart, fit , handsome funny, charming and rich.
Maybe if you want any woman you choose but any two out of those and you'll do fine. Unless you are ubsurdley bad with women. Then one more of those qualities and you'll be ok. So if youre tall, funny and smart youll be fine even if you have zero game.
@@r.b.2958 you must be tall
@@jromeo6748 based
@@r.b.2958 funny is part of having game
It is not that easy bro
Yeah Jordan I am constantly imitating you
Air Jordan Peterson ;-)
I love this man
Money and power is all women care about. It serves their need to be viewed as successful and the need to feel secure. That's pretty much it. Nothing else really matters.
The lyre bird is actually really good in imitating...look into it 😜
I would say it is exactly the opposite:
The pressure to be in the top of the Dominance Hierarchie, is what sends them to the grave...
Good thought man. I'll think on it some.
Normally I enjoy Jordan Peterson's videos a lot but this time it was the comments posted by the viewers that I found most interesting, even when the commenters argued with each other.
I was in this same situation when I find someone powerful that help me out he can also help you
+1 (9-7-2) 5 3 4 8-3 9 9
Whstapp him
Here is says being at the top is less stressful and in another video he states how stressful it is being at the top. PICK ONE! It is NOT less stressful at the top, you have better resources to deal with the stresses and they are different but it certainly is not less stressful.
@3:30 There are some exceptions to this rule. For example, there is an avid dominance hierarchy for hotdog eating. I would imagine that the higher you climb this particular dominance hierarchy, the shorter your lifespan.
Still - it is better for my mental health to be at the top of at least one dominance hierarchy, be it hotdog eating, than none.
Then I become someone else and I can transform myself.
If you don't understand how this gets you attractive women, simply listen to it more. There is a jp video on carl jung and it took me listening to it paying attention 5 times to understand that I barely understand the basic terminology he uses. Before that I thought I understood it.
Could u tell me short version of it? Please.
@@shfd3832 I wrote that comment 7 months ago. The information is already internalized. If I had to guess I'd say being masculine.
@@BusinessWolf1 being with many casual sexual partners is right or wrong?.Thank you very much.
@@shfd3832 That depends on each person. But being attractive doesn't only have to do with dating lots of people. You want to be attractive for your partner. Also I don't see where you asked about casual sex
Ok sorry.Wrong reply.I asked that to someone else in this video.Ok .now ,what do you think about casual multiple sex? and what jp tells about that?
Just be handsome!That's gonna work!
Wouldn't like to get involved with a person who goes after just handsomeness.
Unless you're after someone shallow and superficial.
@@polsick Everybody is shallow!
how can i watch these lectures in full not in clips? does anybody have a link for that?
"Jordan Peterson explains the benefits of dry wall cladding..."
Im here for the comments.
Where can I find the rest of the 1st video?
Just be yourself and talk to women. Not every woman will be interested but that's just life. NEVER HAVE EXPECTATIONS. Expectations are the blue prints of disappointment. Just proceed naturally and genuinely, whatever happens happens and the more legitimately you proceed the easier it will be to determine whether she's interested or not. Never force it, if this happens do not pursue otherwise its an oncoming disaster. Stay friends even if it feels like its going south, having a friend is better than losing one.
Better advice in this comment than in the video.
I've been doing this all my life and it's worked for me.
Good until you dropped the F word - friends. You can't stay around with her if you find her sexually attractive. Too much tension.
Guys, let's be honest about 1 thing. The really bright, hard-working and balanced male white Anglo-Saxon Protestants with advanced professional degrees and good work experience have never had any problem with any "affirmative action" programs. Those problems lie almost entirely with the guys who are close to the margins or cut-off points.
Attracting any woman is one thing. Keeping them is quite another. Especially seriously attractive ones.
@lanier williams nothing that good is meant to last forever.
10:50 perfect mindset
Respect to mr Peterson hope he is ok with his health!!
ex girlfriends keep coming back to me over so many years cos i never got serious with them. They are still waiting for me to so they can become disinterested. I wont let them. Seems the formula is working
I'm so pissed off I clicked on that click-baity thumbnail
So now we have the Peterson method
Basically just be high in the social dominance hierarchy. Lotsa money, high status career position, high social status and leadership mentality . All the cliche stuff
There was a lot more to this video than “cliche stuff.”
I have no idea what my boyfriend did but when I first met him he made me fall for him within a week. I'm someone who always has guys after them but is rarely ever attracted to someone enough to consider dating them but wow was he something else. It felt like it was in his nature to be confident, open minded, and a natural leader without abusing his power. He doesn't even have money or looks that are out of this world. We've been together for three years now and I still look back questioning how he did it.. I'm still infatuated with him
@NobleGuy She is not lonely now and still loves him and wants him. I guess not being a total asswipe and a jerk made him win the lady and it seems she appreciates him.
@NobleGuy holy shit you killed her dude
Good. Keep it up and enjoy your life together
You realized you're hitting the wall and settled. You'll leave him soon enough.
Wear thick lenses and a pocket protector full of condoms. Omg I need to try this.
7:30 How to interview, confront your fears
1, Be honest
2. Be open
3. be strong
You cant be honest with a woman. Think again.
@@notyourdad361 Depends how strong you are.
Men-1.wealth 2.social status 3. attractiveness Women- 1. Attractiveness
4:36... well, that escalated quickly. Lol.
Hygiene. Fitness. Income. Style. Charm.🤘😎
What are the original sources of the clips you used?
i need second Phd just to understand everything he is saying !
I don’t have any Ph.D and I understand it just fine. But cool that you came here to try to establish yourself as having more education than others here. Anyone with a Ph.D would not say so in the comments of a YT video of this topic. Lol.
Problem is that a woman who's a 5 thinks she's an 8 that deserves a 12. Online dating has skewed things so much that a decent man won't get the time of day from a woman.
Please, tell me where these “decent” men can be found? All I see is clowns and monkeys on all the dating apps… No one can dress, hardly anyone can type a full sentence, and worst of all shirtless pics galore or worse still, men pose with dead animals/fish. Show me a decent man who takes care of himself, isn’t arrogant, is educated, ambitious but also loyal and modest?
Please, where are these men? 🤷🏼♀️
@@Foxie770 they're staying well away from you.
2:48 Newman: so you're saying dragons exist?
Why did YT recommended this to me 😡 they did me dirty with this one