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  • Lynn Whitfield shares how her then-husband told her that the “spirit” of their unborn child was ready to join their family; however, at the time, Lynn didn’t cherish motherhood the way she does now. For more on #masterclass, visit bit.ly/1ZQfeZO
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  • @natashadesirae8895
    @natashadesirae8895 Před 6 lety +456

    She is still gorgeous, when she speaks I can't help but to think of elegance and grace

    • @khigg40
      @khigg40 Před 6 lety +17

      Natasha Parham ABSOLUTELY

    • @TheeCoachg
      @TheeCoachg Před 6 lety +16

      Right! Her pronunciation and how words just roll off her tongue. Its so regal and just elegant lol

    • @themostbeautifulisraw4561
      @themostbeautifulisraw4561 Před 2 lety +2

      Facts! Lynn and Diahann Carroll are the epitome of class and grace. Beautiful sistas ❤️

  • @kingciita
    @kingciita Před 6 lety +158

    I just love her face .... Her presence speaks elegance 💅🏽

  • @cherryberry1669
    @cherryberry1669 Před 6 lety +187

    She's been the mom on almost every good black movie I've seen I like her

    • @mimikinmiracle83
      @mimikinmiracle83 Před 6 lety +16

      Don't forget Angela Bassett

    • @tequisaholloway1738
      @tequisaholloway1738 Před 5 lety +19

      I love her, but she was a mess on Madea Family Reunion lol. Her daughter said GO TO HELL, she said I vacation there, I love that part

    • @nayahagan3223
      @nayahagan3223 Před 5 lety

      Except for on madea family reunion

    • @centerfold8
      @centerfold8 Před 5 lety +2

      Cherry Berry her, Jennifer Lewis and Loretta Divine

  • @chocolatecapricorn9418
    @chocolatecapricorn9418 Před 6 lety +193

    She played the hell out of that depression scene in The women of Brewster place! I cry every time I watch that scene!

    • @usadrones
      @usadrones Před 6 lety +3

      Chocolate Capricorn thanks, I will check it out!

    • @chocolatecapricorn9418
      @chocolatecapricorn9418 Před 6 lety +2

      Nestle Black yes it was, it's a tear jerker!

    • @chocolatecapricorn9418
      @chocolatecapricorn9418 Před 6 lety +1

      usadrones it's on YT. Just type Her real name and The women's of Brewster place.

    • @thatbemefool
      @thatbemefool Před 6 lety +7

      Chocolate Capricorn - Yes she did. Her dear friend Mattie (Oprah) literally rocked her back to life. POWERFUL SCENE and an amazing movie with sooooo many layers.

    • @chocolatecapricorn9418
      @chocolatecapricorn9418 Před 4 lety

      Ladenna Young The grieving scene is on CZcams just in case you wanted to see it again. Watch with caution! ⚠️

  • @teflondon2281
    @teflondon2281 Před 6 lety +84

    all i can think about is her in "a thin line between love and hate " she played the part so good i feel like in real life she is that crazy

  • @Lemonsmeringue
    @Lemonsmeringue Před 2 lety +9

    She’s my auntie in my head. 😂 Absolutely one the best black female actors. 🙌🏽

  • @kittyjackson8668
    @kittyjackson8668 Před 6 lety +65

    I love her face. Especially her eyes!

  • @kinkycrown1
    @kinkycrown1 Před 6 lety +36

    Always loved her she is aging fine like wine

  • @initaammons4447
    @initaammons4447 Před 6 lety +105

    Have her and Diahann Carroll ever been in a movie together? I know it's off subject but I'd love to see those two in a scene together.

  • @melissathomas2590
    @melissathomas2590 Před 6 lety +13

    The most powerful message 1:21-1:45. She is telling the true. What a testimony.

  • @LonerBecause
    @LonerBecause Před 6 lety +83

    She looks great!

  • @darylifillifill1677
    @darylifillifill1677 Před 6 lety +26

    PURE GORGEOUS WOMAN

  • @StellaAdora
    @StellaAdora Před 6 lety +17

    I just love love love how elegant she is and I hope to grow up to be that amazingly eloquent and graceful!! Sending her blessings and love.

  • @smartcommunication3342
    @smartcommunication3342 Před 2 lety +4

    "The're's a little spirit that wants to come in and we should let her in". "My daughter Grace. She's amazing. I'm so blessed. Sometimes we don't know, but God knows. Everything that seems like it's a mistake at the time; that it's the wrong thing at the time, hard at the time; that something is being taken away from you; You're being given a GIFT. It just doesn't feel like it."

  • @jesslove3275
    @jesslove3275 Před 6 lety +30

    She is amazingly beautiful

  • @Aname87
    @Aname87 Před 6 lety +33

    Rolling my eyes at everyone who's disrespecting others religions. As long as we're not hurting anyone, why be disrespectful. Religion, in general, isn't the most "realistic" concept, but that's where faith comes in.

  • @bri7193
    @bri7193 Před 6 lety +74

    "Hi CZcamsrsssss!!" " On YOUTUUUUUUBE"💀😂😂😂the way she said that lmao

  • @Writeitout8
    @Writeitout8 Před 6 lety +36

    That chanting part made me laugh. lol. Can't wait to see this.

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 Před 4 lety +4

    She’s killing her role as Lady Mae am loving it

  • @joymechell277
    @joymechell277 Před 6 lety +12

    Loved her in "Sophie and the Moon hanger " ❤️❤️ she's in an amazing actress .

  • @usadrones
    @usadrones Před 6 lety +16

    This has blessed me. Thank you for your candor.

  • @mrs.6546
    @mrs.6546 Před 6 lety +22

    Very true words.

  • @yolandawalker2127
    @yolandawalker2127 Před 6 lety +18

    Amen And amen NEED to hear that right now wow we serve a intentional GOD

  • @happy4drinks
    @happy4drinks Před 6 lety +4

    Aww children are blessings I love her

  • @ladylovesherlord
    @ladylovesherlord Před 4 lety +5

    When she spoke of her husband's buddism ritual 💀😄

  • @Karisma7788
    @Karisma7788 Před 6 lety

    Ok inso needed to hear this! Thank you.

  • @toombs6287
    @toombs6287 Před 6 lety +2

    I absolutely love her!❤️❤️❤️😍😍😘😘

  • @garylee8340
    @garylee8340 Před 2 lety

    She will always be a beautiful queen and a beautiful person

  • @rodneyharper2275
    @rodneyharper2275 Před 3 lety

    Thanks I needed this

  • @pprincess9823
    @pprincess9823 Před 6 lety +4

    Wow!!!! I love it!!!!!!

  • @terryyoung1877
    @terryyoung1877 Před 3 lety +2

    I just love me some her!

  • @teeynggod2168
    @teeynggod2168 Před 6 lety

    Love Her #Strong Powerful Woman

  • @TNGURL08
    @TNGURL08 Před 6 lety +2

    Well said...

  • @shebahughes5944
    @shebahughes5944 Před 6 lety +2

    Lovely!!

  • @KellieAlston
    @KellieAlston Před 6 lety +2

    I totally agree.

  • @LarryBanks85
    @LarryBanks85 Před 6 lety +6

    I love this

  • @JohnBurgundy
    @JohnBurgundy Před rokem

    From Baton Rouge, Louisiana! ⚜️⚜️⚜️

  • @labellt9717
    @labellt9717 Před 6 lety +1

    gr8t wisdom Lynn

  • @centerfold8
    @centerfold8 Před 5 lety +2

    She’s 💯 right about God giving us a gift is a relationship not meant to be or a job not meant to be

  • @armeshiagoldsmith8271
    @armeshiagoldsmith8271 Před 4 lety +1

    Yess she right about rose quartz 💕

  • @oralogarro9932
    @oralogarro9932 Před 6 lety

    Love her so much that's a star

  • @Bloombaby99
    @Bloombaby99 Před 6 lety

    She was amazing in "Eve's Bayou".....Forever flawless!!!
    #BlackMothersOfBlackHollywood
    #ForeverFlawless
    #BeautifulBlackWoman

  • @ninarossthequeen
    @ninarossthequeen Před 6 lety +7

    this a true story..

  • @latoyatv2030
    @latoyatv2030 Před 5 lety

    She's stills looks the same
    Beautiful timeless beauty

  • @haydenluvskia1911
    @haydenluvskia1911 Před 6 lety +3

    Wow 😢😊😇

  • @teznejensel9099
    @teznejensel9099 Před 3 lety

    A true queen 👸

  • @mrbrownroyyal
    @mrbrownroyyal Před 6 lety +18

    Wow I didnt know she fell in love and married the director of the JB story! Also if you want to learn about Josephine Baker, I'd say read her autobiography and then immediately after read the biographer her "son" wrote (He clarifies a lot of what JB wrote). His name is Jean Claude Baker... he owns a restaurant in New York, Beyonce met him and did a tribute to Josephine at the BET awards during the BDay era I believe.

  • @ranounariaoo80
    @ranounariaoo80 Před 6 lety +5

    God only knows how much I love Oprah

  • @brianalise3408
    @brianalise3408 Před 6 lety +2

    Love Grace Gibson!

  • @leyamwanza338
    @leyamwanza338 Před 2 lety

    I agree everything that is gifted at first doesn't seems that way

  • @micheleotero1516
    @micheleotero1516 Před 2 lety

    I can understand lady. I thought the same way

  • @mimi4sure
    @mimi4sure Před 6 lety

    When will this episode air?

  • @PlayaP69
    @PlayaP69 Před 2 lety +1

    I only am now learning Lynn's daughter name is Grace. It is interesting that Grace was the name of her character's daughter on Greenleaf.

  • @sheemuniversalshabazzallah9422

    This Brought Tears to My Eyes

  • @alphonzodavis359
    @alphonzodavis359 Před 5 lety +1

    She is one of 2 actresses that I need to see win an Oscar before it's all said and done the other is Taraji P Henson.

  • @AfroMillennialMomma
    @AfroMillennialMomma Před 5 lety

    Amen

  • @timw4383
    @timw4383 Před 6 lety +2

    Fascinating story about the little spirit.
    If he really referred to it as her, this should make all who doubt the existence of a realm beyond this one stop and rethink their position.

  • @selenawilliams2219
    @selenawilliams2219 Před 5 lety

    RIGHT

  • @mykel1990
    @mykel1990 Před 6 lety +8

    Buddhism, good stuff.

  • @Drehgab
    @Drehgab Před 6 lety +6

    Mama cheetah!

  • @rogerwinters9856
    @rogerwinters9856 Před 4 lety

    I really like seeing Lynn Whitfield on the big screen and small screen, she is so talented and beautiful with a natural womanly way about her, not fake, built like these girls today, Lynn I seen you in the Marvin Gaye play, you are such a great actress, natural talent.

  • @marygraham3189
    @marygraham3189 Před 4 lety +1

    OWN is a difficult app to get working. Frustrating 👎 and beyond. Thank God for Hulu and the binge watching. OWN does put the episodes of THAHNS up on CZcams for a few hours but you have to be available. After 25 years of network viewing that we have to pay for OWN and it's not an easy task. WiFi is the only way as most cable companies do not offer it. It's a single 20.00 a month payment. CZcams on the other hand rocks! (Free).

  • @sbrooks729
    @sbrooks729 Před 5 lety +2

    Grace is dating one of the Smollett boys now

  • @markusschunzel9225
    @markusschunzel9225 Před rokem

    that was a narrow escape

  • @healingypsy
    @healingypsy Před 6 lety +10

    well there is something called contraception ya know

    • @randombrokeperson
      @randombrokeperson Před 6 lety +1

      healingypsy Considering her daughter was more than likely born in the 60s/70s, I don't think that was very common especially considering AIDs and other sexually transmitted illnesses came about from lack of using condoms, etc.

    • @healingypsy
      @healingypsy Před 6 lety +5

      Okay, just so we have our facts in place. As far as I am aware there was a variety of contraception a woman could chose from in 1991 when this actress's daughter Grace Gibson was concieved. I still say makes no sense a man wants to have a baby with you and you don't want to have a baby but concieve anyway. When you don't wanna have a baby and the man makes it clear to you that he wants to, unless you were a moron, you'd spread your legs anyway and that too without any form of contraception. Point made I hope. If you still don't understand, ask to be reborn as a woman.

    • @Alan-ug7nl
      @Alan-ug7nl Před 6 lety +8

      healingypsy she was nearly 40 at the time and had been married before. A lotta women once they get that age and havent already given birth feel as if it won't happen.

    • @TheeCoachg
      @TheeCoachg Před 6 lety +5

      Just Alan I agree,she didnt really hit her peak until 39/40,I imagine she didnt not want the baby but when actresses hit their prime at a later age,its like a once in a lifetime deal and also she hadnt conceived yet so she probably felt if she didnt have it then,she never would.

  • @tobeargoodfruit
    @tobeargoodfruit Před 2 lety

    What she just said just went over so many peoples heads even Christians, many are just focused on her beauty, smh.

  • @Octayvia21
    @Octayvia21 Před 3 lety +2

    Got it, run from men that see spirits🤔😌

  • @d_roi8689
    @d_roi8689 Před 5 lety +4

    How is a person "kind of Christian"?

    • @jazznorelletv
      @jazznorelletv Před 4 lety +1

      A person that doesnt want to be a hypocrite. Closer to actually being spiritual with Christian overtones

    • @9188jenni
      @9188jenni Před 4 lety +1

      She probably grew up attending church so identifies with the religion. But personally is open to doing other things on her spiritual journey. Example the crystals etc. ..

  • @vardellsfolly5200
    @vardellsfolly5200 Před 6 lety

    Σhe is incredibly desirable!

  • @jrealitytvblog
    @jrealitytvblog Před 6 lety +86

    Am I the only one who thinks she looks like Vanessa Williams.

  • @Worldshottestpariah
    @Worldshottestpariah Před 6 lety +1

    She still fine :)

  • @WitchVuaBE06
    @WitchVuaBE06 Před 6 lety

    Lmao

  • @ajf098
    @ajf098 Před 5 lety

    God is very funny. You mean to tell me, S/HE gave Lynn a daughter whom she named Grace. And years later she plays mama to a daughter named Grace on Greenleaf?

  • @lisaholmes6408
    @lisaholmes6408 Před 6 lety

    She got hit by a car in N.Y..
    SkyDream Lyrics Production

  • @caelonnie9264
    @caelonnie9264 Před 6 lety +13

    She's REAL LIFE crazy Bruh

    • @YAH-1
      @YAH-1 Před 6 lety +2

      yep

    • @jaqueshiamorris5820
      @jaqueshiamorris5820 Před 6 lety +7

      Caelonnie why you say that 🤔

    • @yashajackson5312
      @yashajackson5312 Před 6 lety +3

      wasnt i thinking that...she played so many evil rolls thats the spirit that came in...look at her eyes she better runnnnn back 2Jesus...smh

    • @simoneabundance7641
      @simoneabundance7641 Před 5 lety

      She's a virgo ya'll

  • @SuperMarkus35
    @SuperMarkus35 Před 6 lety +2

    Why does Oprah talk like she has a cold?

    • @randombrokeperson
      @randombrokeperson Před 6 lety +2

      SuperMarkus35 That's just Oprah. She always talks like that.

  • @SingerForLife3000
    @SingerForLife3000 Před 6 lety +5

    Love Lynn Whitfield as an Actress, & believe that she's blessed by the life of her daughter. With that said ... there are so many "red flags" that go off while listening to this. Oprah's intention is "empowerment," & so, it strikes a sensitive chord to listen to accounts of women not being empowered. First, Ms. Whitfield admits that she was "kind of Christian"... What the heck does that mean? It's like being "kind of pregnant"; either U are, or U're not, and if U're not, that's okay, but just own up to it, and be clear. Lack of clarity is not empowerment. Then, her husband receives a message that a child is seeking to "enter the world through her," or something. Okaaaaay.... Did SHE receive a message? How about a confirmation, be4 she allowed herself to become pregnant? Finally, and this is the part that hurts the most, Whitfield and this man divorced about two years after their marriage. WTF??? This long tirade may sound really judgmental, but I would like to hear stories of "lasting" relationships, wholesome family values, and commitment; not just random accounts of spiritual messages about children entering the world, not backed up by the fact that the parents are fully committed to living out their lives together, as a family, "until death do us part." The husband died several years later after he was re-married to someone else. Not sure of her race, but prob. not another Black woman. That's neither here, nor there, but this story don't sound like "empowerment" to me. Sheesh, Oprah, can U help us out a little better than this?! Nothing against U, or Lynn Whitfield, but what messages are we sending to younger generations? That it's okay to be frivolous, airy-fairy, and in the moment, without any "grounding," or lifelong commitment? Of course, none of this tirade means anything except that it's just my opinion. Doesn't change the course of their lives not one bit, but hopefully, it can change the course of my life, or anyone who shares the same values as me.

  • @debradebra9746
    @debradebra9746 Před 6 lety +15

    Oy vey! If some dude who never has to get pregnant a day in his life came running to me with "a little spirit is wanting to come through" I would be like, "THEN YOU FREAKIN' BIRTH IT". Isn't it so poetic and lovely when you're the one who doesn't have to throw up every morning, gain 100 pounds, and endure several hours of labor?! Oh sure the baby is nice, but the MEANS by which the baby comes here might not be so. JESUS! And when they play that soft music in the background....VOMIT!!!!!

    • @mariboni516
      @mariboni516 Před 6 lety +7

      Debra Debra Yes!!!!
      😂😂😂😂😂
      When I was expecting my son I was so sick for the first three months. My husband made the mistake of saying, "How hard can being pregnant be?!"
      Needless to say, God in his infinite wisdom and humor removed my morning sickness and everything else that ailed me and passed that on to my husband for ONE DAY. My poor husband was so sick he stayed in bed all day and whined the whole time. 🤣😁

    • @foreigncarsrule
      @foreigncarsrule Před 5 lety

      Debra Debra ha ha ha ha!!!! Oh my gosh it is so true. Oh well I am sure she feels it was worth it now.

    • @foreigncarsrule
      @foreigncarsrule Před 5 lety

      Mimicakes Wow I am so glad I am not married yet maybe it is best to get pregnant before the wedding sometimes so you can see what type of man you really are with without being legally bound.

  • @cangleawilliams2536
    @cangleawilliams2536 Před 2 lety

    Addapubliccmment

  • @DorisPayne348
    @DorisPayne348 Před rokem

    She was unhappy because HE decided to have a baby with her AGAINST her wishes!

  • @drichmondperrykellyiverson2210

    BUDDHIST CHANTING?? 🙄😒
    "JESUS CHRIST 'IS' LORD!" 🙌 JESUS/YESHUA,👈👉 (IN HEBREW)! 🙌😎

  • @beautysecret4491
    @beautysecret4491 Před 6 lety +48

    She needs to accept Jesus as her Lord and personal savior. That Buddhist stuff isn't realistic.

    • @ahmandy1
      @ahmandy1 Před 6 lety +43

      Beauty Secret mind your own business. People are free to worship whatever God they choose. How you so sure that your Jesus is God🤔

    • @Brianab3ar
      @Brianab3ar Před 6 lety +31

      who are you to tell someone what they should believe in.

    • @YAH-1
      @YAH-1 Před 6 lety +3

      Beauty Secret, Right! YAH, SAVES 🙂

    • @grind-n-find214
      @grind-n-find214 Před 6 lety +10

      Beauty Secret where in the world did that come from. the interview was not about that.

    • @boomboom141
      @boomboom141 Před 6 lety +15

      And so is that white sky daddy you worship is not realistic.

  • @foreigncarsrule
    @foreigncarsrule Před 5 lety

    Too bad it didn't last he died young anyway she might as well have stayed but nobody is clairvoyant! Interracial love is so beautiful!

  • @SingerForLife3000
    @SingerForLife3000 Před 6 lety +2

    Love Lynn Whitfield as an Actress, & believe that she's blessed by the life of her daughter. With that said ... there are so many "red flags" that go off while listening to this. Oprah's intention is "empowerment," & so, it strikes a sensitive chord to listen to accounts of women not being empowered. First, Ms. Whitfield admits that she was "kind of Christian"... What the heck does that mean? It's like being "kind of pregnant"; either U are, or U're not, and if U're not, that's okay, but just own up to it, and be clear. Lack of clarity is not empowerment. Then, her husband receives a message that a child is seeking to "enter the world through her," or something. Okaaaaay.... Did SHE receive a message? How about a confirmation be4 she allowed herself to become pregnant? Finally, and this is the part that hurts the most, Whitfield and this man divorced about two years after their marriage. WTF??? This long tirade may sound really judgmental, but I would like to hear stories of "lasting" relationships, wholesome family values, and commitment; not just random accounts of spiritual messages about children entering the world, not backed up by the fact that the parents are fully committed to living out their lives together, as a family, "until death do us part." The husband died several years later after he was re-married to someone else. Not sure of her race, but prob. not another Black woman. That's neither here, nor there, but this story don't sound like "empowerment" to me. Sheesh, Oprah, can U help us out a little better than this?! Nothing against U, or Lynn Whitfield, but what messages are we sending to younger generations? That it's okay to be frivolous, airy-fairy, and in the moment, without any "grounding," or lifelong commitment? Of course, none of this tirade means anything except that it's just my opinion. Doesn't change the course of their lives not one bit, but hopefully, it can change the course of my life, or anyone who shares the same values as me.