Williams Syndrome, Gay and Proud
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- Debbie is diagnosed with Williams syndrome, a condition known to result in a happy personality. Bullied by her peers for years, she found a group of people who accepted her differences at church.
After realizing she is gay, Debbie suppressed her true self to please others. Today she is proud of her true identity and wants others to know “This is who I am and that is it.”
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I met Debbie in a small town in southwest England. Touring the UK has been a highlight of my life. The people are so kind and open. Many more interviews to come!
Special Books by Special Kids That's my Awesome friend.
This has been my favorite interview, aside from the interviews you did with Kayne.
Thank you for these informative, touching interviews, definitely has opened my mind on a lot. . . Especially the way I treat people from all walks of life.
Special Books by Special Kids can you please capitalize the g on God in your subtitles. Thanks
Special Books by Special Kids YASSS GIRL PREACH
After watching Ruby the treasure I can't stop watching these videos!!! Ruby is my new inspiration (next to Michael Jackson )
😊
Her dad is so chill about everything lol. He's just sat there like yup that's my daughter.
Yep, that's his daugjter.
Literally made me smile. "Yep, that's my daughter!"
Ivy literally?
Sarcastically Deranged yeah, literally. As opposed to like when people type lol but they didn't actually laugh
He seems mean honestly, a bit miserable. Maybe cause he's not religious
"What do you hope they see?"
"A nice, caring compassionate young lady who wants to make a difference in the world somehow." That's exactly what I see, Debbie! You're doing a great job. Keep it up.
glowworm2 I started tearing up when she was saying about what she worries about what others see and it couldn’t be further from the truth!! Keep doing you, because I see nothing other than goodness emanating from you.
glowworm2 was just going to comment the exact same thing!
I see that as well
I don't think she seems child-like one bit. She is eloquent and articulate and knows exactly what she wants and needs to express. She has beautiful hair and a cute accent. I like hearing her talk. Broke my heart when she talked bout herself badly cause I do the same thing and seeing someone else do the same thing is even harder.
And I day the same thing, but also I see her teeth and I'm not bothered one bit, I'd watch her talk all day❤️
@Donnell Okafor . She has an incredible vocabulary when it comes to William's Syndrome. You really should stop commenting negative things here. It is the reason why Google shut down comments on every other video
yes, she has a disability but she is very clearly also an adult and she expresses herself really well
Well said ❤
Chris is truly an angel. the patience, love, acceptance, and compassion he has for others is just incredible.
Kim Basciano Definitely one in a million!
Much as Chris is doing a brilliant job; remember there are thousands of others who work and/or live with people who have ‘needs’ doing the same great job. I myself used to work with people who had extra needs and it was a never-ending battle to educate others.
If this man can't get into heaven none of us will.
So true
Seriously. The man is an actual f-ing angel. If every person on this Earth was like him... Well, whatever I say after that will sound cheesy AF and ridiculous. But it is what it is!
Her dad is also awesome.. "my job is to protect my kids". And when I was afraid he was going to say something negative about her... He just talks about a messy room! Lovely!
His job is to also be a bad parent and not teach them simple morals. What a good father.
@@dragonballspaghetti154 What??
@@dragonballspaghetti154 what do you mean by that? I don't see how that makes him a bad father...
I absolutely love Debbie's accent. I could listen to her all day long!
glowworm2 i hv the same acscent
Is she British?
Jack Sparrow yes she is. Debbie is from the south west of England.
capyboppy oh, thanks for answer!
@@anonymous-zf5fe I know this is an old comment but would you know what kind of uk accent she has?
I don't see you as childlike, I see you as any other adult only more friendly,which is nice. You seem really sweet. God bless!
She reminds me of my auntie
I've been only friends with Debbie for a little over a year. She's a great person and I'm crying because I'm so happy for her!! God bless you Debbie! - Scott :)
I wish we were penpals because she seems great!
Yay! You go, Debbie! You seem very friendly and happy, like I try to be.
Disabled LGBTQ people can be very invisible and ignored by both the disability movement and the LGBTQ movement, so seeing others feels awesome.
Me, I was so far in the closet, I was having tea with Mr. Tumnus in Narnia... My family knew that I was bi/pansexual when I was twelve, I figured out at... 29. At around the same time I began realizing I'm transgender. Being so "old" when I came out really made it easier for me to handle it all.
Devin Lind cheers friend! And you are not invisible to me. Good luck in your journey
Devin Lind Good for you querido! The world has come a long way, (Look at Australia), and although not all are coming to understand that everyone deserves kindness and respect, we are heading the right direction. Wishing you all the best!
Devin Lind I wish you all the best!! 🤗 You must be so strong!! ❤🌈
Can i just said your comment on how far in the closet you were cracked me up.
Im happy you ard happy. But damn someone should oc ended tea time and told you lol.
Having tea with Mr. Tumnus... I almost spit out MY tea when you said that. 😂❤️
She started singing Joy Division. That's it, we are now best friends.
mars in the stars 110% RIGHT!!!!!
YES!
you should have a bff CEREMONY
get it
Perfectiooon
Debbie seems like such a kind soul!
A true Christian will love you no matter your sexual orientation.
Yes. But they will also not mislead people into believing God "made" them to be homosexual when, even by her own admission, the Bible says it's wrong. That is not a loving thing to do. God is loving but He is also holy.
I was Christian and converted to Atheist recently because I'm homosexual, and what the Bible says pisses me off, so do Judgmental Christians, and they say homosexuals go to hell. I don't think of any women sexually at all (believe me, I tried converting but it doesn't work that way)I hate myself for being this way even though I know it isn't my fault. I recently tried to kill myself because of this kid in school that makes fun of me constantly because of how I act, I'd assume. My mom said if I was gay she'd be sad. So honestly, I'm super afraid to tell anyone that I know personally. Everyone in my family is religious. But me.
Wumbology I'm so sorry man. I can tell you as a Christian that everyone, even you, deserves to be loved no matter what. A true Christian will love you for who you are and celebrate what makes you, you. I'm sorry that your family isn't like this. And please don't commit suicide you habe people who love you and care for you. I'll be praying for you and your family.
Wumbology I’m also a atheist and I’m straight, and I really feel for you. I love my lgbt friends, and just know that you are loved brother🙂
Lol ty
This is so beautiful! I'm a gay Christian and this makes me feel so comforted. She's such a beautiful and kind woman and I love this channel because I get to see so many different people. So so lovely
God loves you don’t let anyone tell you otherwise
You were created gay-by God. Obviously it doesn't bother Him ♡
Same here! We might be few and far between but we do exist. I’m happy to know there are others out there as well. It can be lonely sometimes. I think Debbie says everything perfectly. She’s a special soul who has much to share with the world about God’s love. God bless you friends in Christ ❤✝️
You can't be gay and Christian.Stop the confusion. Be guided pls
@@GoodnessBako-hh2nyWhat do you mean you can't be both gay and Christian? You're the one who needs to be guided.
Yayyyy nice to see some LGBT representation in the disabled community. Thanks Mr. Chris!
There's also not a lot of enm representation within the disabled even though a lot of such are neurodivergent.
@@rnbsteenstarbecause it isn’t the social norm and it’s less common. Not cuz they aren’t being represented.
@@Keshiaaa it's more common than you think only it's been swept under the f****** rug for so long.
She’s such a kind hearted person! And she has such a beautiful voice. Keep being you Debbie and don’t worry about what others think of you because God made you the way you are. 😊
Gionna Gonzales not true God don't make people gay.
And great music taste! 😄
Gionna Gonzales God doesn't make anyone Homosexual. That is a lie from the pit of hell.
Read Romans chapter 1 verse 25-28
Robbie Sharp true.😇
@@robbiesharp9864 amen.
I love how the dad is like "she's mine" when talking about how he accepts how daughter no matter what
This man must have one of the biggest and purest hearts in the world.
I haven’t even watched the full video yet, but this is already starting out as a super sweet one. Thank you for telling your story, Debbie 💞
As a Christian, love is not a sin. You can’t help who you’re attracted to. It’s who you are, and we were not put on this Earth to judge that. (UNLESS your sexuality is hurting others. That’s when it is not okay regardless of religion)
Courtney Michelle 👏🏻
Courtney Michelle right!
Courtney Michelle Exactly. You're using your experience to assess the situation rather than what the Bible supposedly says. I think most religious people are like you, it's just that the ones who aren't tend to shout the loudest. :)
Robbie Sharp Do you eat pork? Do you mix cloths and textiles? Do you curse? Do you not love thy neighbor as thyself? Because if so, you are also going against the bible. No one if perfect. You don’t decide who you choose to love. Like i said, if your actions aren’t bringing harm to others, then nothing is wrong. And who are you to speak for God? Last time I checked you’re Robbie Sharp. Someone telling a 15 year old girl she’s sending people to hell. You are definitely not God nor should you speak for him😂😂
Courtney Michelle....All these commandments the jewish ppl were given by God to live by...Gods Law to them...until the Gentile was bought in....New Testament deals with all Gods ppl...Everything God hated has not changed.He is still judge but its because of Grace that Jesus was sent to us as our Sacrifice for sin.Sin doesnt cease to be sin just because we are under Grace...Grace is given in order to bring us out of sin.Love is not leaving us in what Christ died for.....
THANK YOU for this channel! I love how you speak with these people. So gentle and kind!
As a member of the LGBTQ community this is amazing to see! Thank you so much.
Taryn Elise and
You gave birth to the entire community?
Actually no one cares
She has tons of upvotes. You're actually the only one who doesn't care and no one cares about your opinion :)
Jamie White not true
Her eyes are so beautiful! So were the eyes of the other girl with Williams that was interviewed, just such beautiful shining eyes so filled with love and joy
You have such a beautiful heart and soul, Debbie 💖 if there were some way to do it, I'd love to be your pen pal. Good luck to you my friend!
Mary Kelly if she is gay she has no soul
Jakub Jasinski incorrect you homophobic piece of shit
EmilyIsMe wherr is your tollerance?
Jakub Jasinski How can you speak of tolerance or ask anyone of theirs when you came here to say such an ignorant, untrue and terrible thing about Debbie? You have got a lot to learn about being human and I wish you the best.
Banim dude its a troll ha ha I doubt its serious
I relate so much to you, Debbie. I also have problems with self-image and social anxiety. From a fellow lesbian, stay strong, keep your chin up, and know you're not alone. Keep being such a loving, compassionate, and understanding human being. The world needs more people like you.
I love how she accepts that she has faith just because she wants to believe in something. She’s straight forward and accept things for what they’re
Thank you so much for giving the disabled LGBTQA+ community some much needed attention; it's very near and dear to my heart, being pansexual and disabled. Debbie, you are a remarkable woman, your compassion and caring shine bright!
HaphazardGirl I'm pans 2
You are such an inspiration to me! My cousin Kate has William Syndrome and is the biggest blessing on our family. I have worked with other children like my cousin with William Syndrome and seeing such a bright, confident lady gives me so much hope for them. Everyone will accept you once you accept yourself:) thank you for sharing Debbie!
dad is hilarious . I loved what he said about being nervous over a broken plate. too cute.
She has such a beautiful singing voice omg
This is beautiful! I also made a mistake and was very worried to read the comments. My hope in humanity was restored by you and Debbie and this community.
Hey Debbie! I’m a Christian who happens to be gay as well and it’s so wonderful to see the deep understanding you’ve come to concerning God’s love for you not in spite of , but because of, who you are. I hope each morning when you wake you can go through the day seeing yourself through God’s eyes. You are a beautiful child of God’s, inside and outside. Your compassion, care and generosity for others is beyond lovely and while you mentioned your teeth a couple times keep in mind that at some point we all came into this world without teeth and most of us will leave this world without them. Even if your teeth don’t look the way you want them I promise you this, when you smile with those teeth, what people with a heart to see, will most notice is your joy. And by the way, you have a lovely singing voice EVEN when Chris joined in :)
Anita & Dana / thank you so much for this comment. i really needed this.
New Creation as a Christian myself, I do not celebrate the sin of homosexuality, but at the same time, it's important that we accept them and treat them like the regular human beings they are. And in my opinion, I don't think people can choose to be gay, so it's not like they can do anything about it. It's who they are.
New Creation where in the new testament does it Jesus say anything about gays? Also do you happen to wear clothes that are made of the same fabric or eat shellfish, because God in the old testament right before it says a man shall not lye with another man as he does a woman. Besides I wish you people would grow up and stop believing in fairy tales.
New Creation how is love a sin? it doesn't matter who it's with love is magical.
New Creation Oh dear Gods, stop it woman! I'm no Christian and yet I can keep negative and critical statements to myself. Stop preaching! We are not at your church, nor do we want to be.
I need Debbie to start making audiobooks, I love listening to her voice
Please have more LGBT people on the channel, as an autistic lesbian/bisexual(questioning) seeing disabled LGBT people makes me so so happy
I'd take her over any beautiful person full of pride and selfishness. She's soooooo precious! So beautiful. So loving and caring! Thank you for this one!
Debbie Im two years late but this was such a fun interview! I love your confidence to sing so proudly and have have fun on camera and I hope the best for you and the rest of your family! Love from America!
Your devotion and understanding to these people are outstanding! Great job man, you are like the type of people that the whole world need!
OMG Chris, finally shedding light on the LGBT community. Thank you, and to Debbie if you ever read this, keep living your authentic self, in the end all you have is yourself.
You're beautiful inside and out. Your courage is beautiful.
I absolutely adore her fathers response. “I have five children, and they all know. It doesn’t matter, they are mine.”
I am an Arab, I follow your channel. Is it possible to put an Arabic translation? There are many people who translate to channels, but I understand a little English, and not much. I subscribe to your channel and send me channel alerts. Thank you. You are a good man.
I write from Google
God bless you
Debbie I think you're exactly right. You are a child of God, He created you in His image. And I see you like God created you; generous, kind, loving. You are such a loving soul!
explain CauseIdontGetIT I loved how she mentioned that God still loved her. Not a single one of us is without sin and for people who say that God hates gay people? God doesn't hate any of us! Also, if someone is happy and not hurting other people then let them be. I have enough issues in my own life to be worrying about other peoples' sins
Wavium surprisingly, I’m ok with your belief system. Be ok with mine.
explain CauseIdontGetIT Very well put!
Wavium Isn’t it funny when the single person calling everyone else a dumbass is the only one actually coming across as a dumbass?
Wavium is correct... There is no proof that your little old man exists.
I love your channel! It has helped educate me so much I cannot thank you enough 💕
This channel is so amazing. You NEVER see this kind of representation anywhere else. THANK YOU for everything you do
Debbie I am gay and I also tried to hide it by dating boys first but that didn't last long! The first time I kissed a girl I felt true love! Peace, love and hugs my friend! I believe what you said about God
Sarah Elliott it is good when you finally feel right.
It's good when God strikes you.
@@dragonballspaghetti154 nobody asked bro
@@dragonballspaghetti154 I hope god is a muscular man with a big beard 😩
Thank you Chris and Debbie for this video! I have a little brother with WS who passed away in 2010, and I always love seeing your interviews with other with WS.. it brings back so many good memories for me. Some of my favorite times growing up we’re at the WS biannual conventions. She’s right, if you’ve met a person with Williams Syndrome, you have a friend for life!
i cant watch him without sighing. what a prince!
Debbie is the most admirable woman I've come across. Thank you for sharing this video!
All these SBSK videos are fabulous, educational and inspiring! I'm so glad that we can write on the thread now.
she’s such a lovely person, and so’s her dad aw
So cute when they started to sing together at the end.
This was an excellent interview. Learning so much from your channel. Thank you for giving these special kids and adults a voice. Watching their stories reinforce my belief that despite ones hardships, you can still embrace joy, kindness, happiness, faith, and hope. ❤️
She is soooo sweet! How could anyone be mean or not like her? She made me smile when I saw how happy she was when singing, bless you sweetheart ❤❤❤
This is such a good video!! Debbie is a gem!! :)
I've been binging SBSK vids and as this is one of the few videos where I can say it; it has made me reflect upon my past behaviour surrounding people with conditions. I am a naturally awkward person and interacting with people I don't quite understand is very difficult for me. These videos have taught me that it is okay to be awkward in those situations as long as I keep an open mind and make an effort. Something to keep in mind when I interact with anyone in the future, just say hi and listen, if I don't know what boundaries to make, just ask them. Better to try and ask then just look the other way. Thank you, Chris, and thanks to all the people who've shared their story through SBSK. Perhaps I should also try to be more foreward about my ADHD in the future so that other people can also understand me better. Just thanks!
Ps. Debby, if you're reading this; you have a great smile C:
As this is one of the first videos I have seen with open comments after days of binge watching your videos, I leave my comment here:
Thanks so much for creating a platform and thanks to all the great contributors and people sharing their stories and perspectives!
This is probably one of my favorite interviews. People are so complex and can identify as so many things. I hope the world becomes as kind and as gracious as you. PS your singing was great! I hope you do karaoke because you would crush it!
She seems like a wonderful person. God bless!
omg I absolutely LOVE HER!! Her heart is so genuine, her love is so genuine, her eyes are so genuine, and her soul is one of the most beautiful I have ever seen. I'm from the US but omg I would love to be her friend and her dad is amazing too!! 💗💗
I love this young lady - I love how eloquent and outgoing she is. I bet she brings so much joy to those around her. 😍😍😍
I smiled ear to ear while watching this. Such a fun and intuitive young lady, who will defiantly change the world for the better.
I'm so glad there's subtitles on every video. Because I am absolutely terrible at trying to understand any English/British/Australian accents! I live n was born n raised in St. Louis Missouri and anytime I hear an accent like Debbie's, I literally have such a hard time with understanding what they're saying lol. I wish I could understand it, but I've always had a hard time with it. 😂😡😢
how? british people say every word how its supposed to be said and pronounce it really clearly
So amazing! Really inspiring and helps me understand just to be me!
This woman takes the best parts of each thing in her life. I would love to have a friend like her in my life to let them know how amazing they are. Love the video!
You are such a beautiful soul!!! I am so glad you did this interview. Bless you!!
I love this man. He has such a pure heart.
Gwaaaaan' Deb! i love her attitude towards herself and life. People really need to take a page out of her book ☺️
You are beautiful! Thank you for being you and spreading love to a world who needs more of it.
You are such a wonderful, hopeful host, with a very special heart.
Love! Love will tear us apart!! Again!
This made me so very happy! 💓💓💓💓💓
I’m glad to see comments on here, this is the best video I ever seen
I love this so much, so eye opening. We can all learn a bit from all these wonderful special people. This series has helped me so much when it comes to interacting with my patients, and for that I can't thank you enough!
I want to give her a hug! :)
Debbie, I see a beautiful, kind, and compassionate woman who is a spectacular role model for the Christian community! :-) Thank you for speaking out about being a member of the LGBT community while also being religious. I find that there is often not much being done to include the LGBT community in places of faith, especially since we are all God's children. Thank you for being so incredibly brave and inspiring!
i melted when she started singing joy division. super cool lady, thank you for interviewing these interesting people :)
I think this is one of my favorite interviews...Love, love will tear us apart again....Love...love will tear us apart...
I love how she went straight to a Joy Division song, and I agree with her re: singing
Debbie is pure delight. :-)
...I was singing right along with you guys, and it's a great way to raise high vibes 🙌 you're both fantastic!
LOVE THE JOY DIVISION. You and your dad are the most awesome people, ever.
I am *in love* with the host my gosh what an awesome human being
When she started singing joy division omg, she’s amazing
I love all the new videos you have out now. It sucks we still don’t have comments.
It was very refreshing to see Debbie being so open and vulnerable about her experiences.
Thanks for sharing, Debbie! I see you as what you want others to perceive you...a nice, compassionate lady! I liked how you mentioned "she just had kind of a kind, generous little twink in her eye" that's how I feel about the guy I like right now haha.
Too sweet! Notification squad!
I LOVED this interview!
I stumbled across this channel and each post gives me hope for the human race. It’s great to see that you take the time to do this and shed some light, much needed light, at people who are special in their own way and need the love and support of everyone around. Keep up the good work.
You are so awesome and kind god bless you ❤️❤️
I️ love these videos and this one especially!! God is for everyone! Debbie is absolutely amazing
FleurTheFairy sorry Hun, but you're safely mistaken.
Read the Bible.
The one part of the Bible about homosexuality:
- Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.
Bible verses about judgement: (Just a few examples)
- Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
- Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.
- You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things.
Bible verses about love: (Again just a few examples)
- No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
- Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.
- And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
So yes according to the Bible God is for everyone, he loves everyone, and clearly Debbie is an excellent example of a person who knows God, and loves because of it.
I really enjoy these interviews Chris does. He always is so engaged with the person and looks at them with so much happiness and acceptance and a sense of love, which is what you should do with everyone. Just give them a chance.
girl that voice!!! You were not kidding when you said you
Could sing!
I’m so inspired
Sending LGBTQ+ Love & Support from SC, USA!
I love you guys singing together!
Such a fun , sweet video, loved your singing! You’re beautiful inside and out!! Made my day!
Hi Debbie,I often feel bad about myself too sadly..I know that feeling:/ I have bad self esteem. I dont have Wiliams syndrome but i do have autism depression and anxiety. you seem like a fun and awesome person to hang out with though! :)
this is the best video ever shes gay and disabled i love💞
I love Chris face when she starts singing 😭😭🙌🏽 Forever the best channel on CZcams
What a beautiful person. Sad that someone so special, kind, fun, and smart could feel the way she does. I love this channel and I love it's mission.