For real. She literally brings her camera everytime she goes to the gym just to shame people for simply looking at her once, she acts just like a child that that complains about every normal thing that a human could do.
Camera weirdness aside, men being piggish is really common and women becoming worried is common, sadly. I personally find a lot of interactions with men to be reallt tense sometimes until i KNOW they are safe
The funniest thing about this is that she's talking to herself using profanity with headphones on in a public area. People are going to stare if you're being excessively weird and therefore drawing attention to yourself.
The term "snowflake" gets thrown around so much to the point it's lost most of its meaning, but it sure as fucking hell applies real nicely to this bitch
TikTok has officially destroyed our social skills to the point where people make videos like this thinking that they are being harassed when, in fact, they are experiencing the absolute bare minimum of human interaction, if you can even call it interaction.
Being a overweight male, and knowing that this tends to be the stigmatization that we tend to get as males out of gym regardless of who we are, this is the exact reason why if I'm facing the wall and a woman in tight clothing walks in front of me I will actually close my eyes and literally just focus on my music instead of focusing on my form. I get so tired of feeling like I'm being made out to be creepy or whatever just because I glanced in someone's general direction for half a second because I'm always scanning around me and always looking at myself to see how my form is going, and to see if there's anyone else around me so I either don't hit somebody accidentally, or I also do that for threat analyzation. I won't deny and admit I'm paranoid, but luckily meds help manage that, but with that aside, shit like this doesn't help with that paranoia. Because now in addition to threat analyzation for the sake of someone just losing their shit for absolutely no reason, now I have to worry about women thinking I'm staring at them just because I glanced in their general direction for 3 seconds, or I did that a few times just because they're pretty and I'm trying to figure out why the fuck they keep looking over at me first before anything else, meanwhile all I was doing was just glancing around the gym to see who's there, What machines are available, and what I plan on trying to do next for a workout. Legit, I'm not kidding you, I've actually been stared at a few times by women, and I literally look at them back because I'm trying to figure out why I'm being stared at, and more often than not they're giving me dirty looks or something like that and I'm trying to figure out what the fuck I did wrong, when all I was doing was just focusing on my music, staring at the wall in front of me and just focusing on what I'm doing. I actually remember this exact video not too long ago, as it's only recently that I'm getting to this now, and actual Jim creeps, and then the falsified story of Jim creeps is to the reasons why I'm not the biggest fan of public gyms
Why did you make a whole fucking essay (not being mean also I'm very impressed that you did that, its awesome but Im just curious you did a really good job on this comment and I'm very very sorry if I hurt your feelings I'm not trying to)
Sorry to hear that. However, I think you might be overthinking it. This kind of behavior isn't the norm or standard at all. I go to the gym regularly and still have a higher body fat percentage (20-30%), and I've only had one bad interaction. With a guy. Keep heads up. There is no need for facing the walls. Internet wierdos are not that common
Keep on the grind man, I actually went to the gym as an underweight male like with barely any muscles just skin and bone by the time you wrote this and I already see myself getting better and see the muscles growing, I believe in you and exercise is for the best it just takes time and of course moderation
Ah yes, the Starbucks addict in the Target yoga pants with a tripod that sets up sting operations in order to entrap males and publicly humiliate them for personal gain. I know the type.
They're gonna have to create 2 sides of the gym. The one side that turns it into a TV set with all the Tik Toks & pictures and videos and the other side that actually just wants to exercise and get tf outta there.
Even as a person with clinical issues of paranoia bad enough to need medication, I do not understand these people thinking EVERY tiny glance is somehow malicious. At some point, you have to realize the entire world isn't out to get you specifically
I have severe paranoia partially due to traumatic experiences.. Though it isn't only me I get worried about. When I was four years old, one of my mom's students who took piano lessons at our house confronted me. Although he was not 18 or older, he was 8+ years older than me, so he knew better. He said "I want to show you something", and I innocently said yes, not knowing any better. He then tried to get me alone in different rooms, and took clothing off to show me "it". I can't remember exactly what he did with me, but all I can hope is that he didn't do any weird sh*t. Sadly, this is one of the earliest memories I remember, as I mostly remember the bad experiences in life. He later tried to show "it" to my older sister as well, but she was six at the time so she denied it (W sister 👑). A few years before that incident, my older sister was with my mom at some sort of public building, and an old man rubbed his hand on her cheek. It was hard to tell what his intentions were, but that must have been creepy as hell, and my mom was not happy about it.. A few years after those two unfortounate events, my older sister was thirteen years old when she went shopping with my mother at a grocery store. My mom looked for what she needed in the aisle she was at and asked her to go find a certain food. As she started to walk alone, she got the impression that she was being followed by an old man. Unsure that her suspicion was correct, she kept walking, in hopes that this man's 'creepy stalking' wasn't intentional. However, the man directly followed her for long enough that it couldn't have been 'accidental', as this continued through the many turns she took. Every time she looked back at him, he 'just so happened' to quickly turn around and look at a food item near him. This went on for minutes, making this guy so suspicious that my older sister picked up the pace and started running back to mom. Thankfully the guy evantually lost sight of her. A few years back, when my little sister was only seven or eight years old, she went camping with her scout group. At one point during the trip, a boy she didn't even know made an effort to get her alone with him in a tent. She only got alone with him because she had no idea that he had any weird intentions. He asked her to kiss him, and even after she politely denied, he wouldn't let her leave. He asked her for a pretend kiss instead, but she didn't want anything to do with him. Thank god, she managed to get out of the situation. I'm not sure what other intentions he may have had, as he was a few years older than her. She evantually told my parents about it, and they were pissed. When my mom and her siblings were young, a sister of hers was forced into a closet by a man. She was locked in there, and the only time the closet was unlocked was when the person decides to 'do things' to her. I'm just so glad she got out of the situation because she is such an amazing person and didn't deserve to go through that. The fact that these people at the gym are not taking the concept of 'creeps' seriously and are blaming random people for no reason just for content makes me sick. It is honestly very offensive to me and others who have been through traumatic experiences with those kinds of things. 😢
Those messed up experiences were a part of me becoming more paranoid, and these people just waiting for "weird things" to happen solely for clout are stupid. However, with or without bad experiences with creeps, I have a mindset that no one I personally know understands, and that I'm not sure I fully understand either. Over just the course of the last two years when I finally got help, I had multiple meetings with a psychiatrist, who introduced me to four differnent medications at different times that I would change the doses of, most of which didn't work for me, and the ones remaining still can't change me. I finally got set up with a therapist that I ended up loving, and to seek greater help, we ended up meeting twice a week, though they are still more like a second mom than a therapist to me. For a while I thought that some of my anxiety, panic attacks, lucid dreams, nightmares, and especially visions, may have been partially casued by my medications. To further investigate this, I thought back a few years before I took medications. Even back then, not only did I see things around me sometimes, but occasionally my vision would be entirely overlapped with crazy sh*t. This included times when I looked around my room with slightly squinted eyes and my vision was tinted green. Slightly transparent unexplainable codes including letters and numbers constantly running down in lines would appear everywhere. Sometimes the same green tint effect would have different things overlapping it such as moving spirals. As I was pretty young, I didn't think much about it being super crazy at the time. Instead, I thought it was the coolest thing ever, and would tell my little sister about the codes and hypnotically moving shapes I saw. For witness reasons, I asked her if she remembered it a few weeks ago, and funny enough, she did! Looking back at those times, I was definetely a bit messed up in the brain. Not to mention that I had the most memorable lucid dream that was partially overlapping my vision was when I was six years old or younger, and around the same time, I would hear weird whispers when I put my ear on my pillow most nights. This just kind of proved that I was always like this, I guess. Over time, things have slowly gotten worse and worse, and dealing with five other mental disorders just made it harder to find medications that also helped with my anxiety. I thought my newest medication helped for the first few weeks, but, can you guess? It didn't.. I just don't really know anymore. I guess it would just be nice to have someone to talk to that might actually understand how I feel, rather than just try to make me feel better, you know?
Hope you are doing better with the meds now, but as messed up as this might be to say, when someone who requires medication for their paranoia because it's that bad is telling people to realize that not everyone in the world is out to get them, that is a whole new level of a realization slap to people who do that kind of shit that you saw on the video
"This is why I don't want kids" "Natural selection better take the wierdos out" The fact she saw zero irony while writing those two sentences after each other tells you a lot about her mental capacity.
That's not how natural selection works, anyways. People always assume it's about the strongest and the smartest surviving. When in reality it's whoever can reproduce.
As a disabled person, I hate it when natural selection is used against people. Because the same people who use natural selection against people, most likely believe that disabled people shouldn't reproduce. Which I shouldn't have to say is messed up.
If you think about it, humanity is always getting smarter, because of natural selection. The dumbest of the dumbest will die, and the smartest will live and reproduce, and this chain will continue for hundreds of years until humans will be unbelievably smart to a limit.
@@vibescake2175 "I think you could use even more 'em broccoli, kid... I mean sweetie. 😊 Mommy's gotta do another appology video before dinner, so that most people will forgive her sooner or later."
Say what you want but gym bros are some of the kindest, most helpful people I've ever met. Whenever my overweight ass is doing something wrong or trying to figure out how a machine works, they always jump in in the middle of their workout session to make sure I have a pretty good understanding of what I'm doing and don't do anything stupid and hurt myself.
Not just Tiktok itself, but this entire "tiktoker" era has let so many terrible people get undeserved attention. We live in an age where narcissism isn't just accepted, it's borderline encouraged. It's nice that a few people get called out on their shit, but this happens way too damn much.
The people in the gym either do things to purposely get attention like slam weights, scream, stunts, or wear extremely tight clothing, or are literally doing nothing at all, staring at their phones. How hard is it to leave your phone in the car, go to the gym with a written plan, execute the plan, and leave within an hour and a half? America is so obese, and its people's attitudes that are having the biggest impact on health and fitness in general.
I'm gonna sound crazy but as far as I know I'm speaking the truth and even have evidence for my claims if it's needed by anyone to look it up and see for themselves, but that's because tiktok is a literal Chinese info weapon used to make the west's youth dumber and less effective adults 😅 In China, their tiktok shows science, art, and just overall just learning and creative stuff, but we are shown that you can be "famous" for being a bad person who wastes food, hurts others, ect. and they don't even make any real money from it all. They are taught to be assholes for moneyless clout by tiktok. Tiktok really needs to go the way of vine asap.
actually, ‘going to jail for staring at an under aged 21 year old’ is such a perfect representation of how people these days are desperate to manipulate a situation to fit their narrative
@@KfcOwner until you meet that woman who runs on all fours like some kind of native American skin walker. If you don't know what I am talking about just Google girl runs like a horse
@@KfcOwner I wish I could just watch and kick ALL the drama queens and ones dressing like sluts or videoing out of the gym STRAIGHT UP. ANY shenanigans of female drama, your photo is taken, you're put on a blacklist and booted from ALL GYMS the have men. If they're serious they can go to the female only gyms. But MOST are going because they ARE CHASING MALE ATTENTION and looking for a man. They literally have videos about it on tiktok. Men avoid their usual spots so they dress in leggings and a bikini to attract a man.
I'm 19, 5'4 f. Walking out the gym yesterday and as I turn to close the door, this guy, easily a foot taller than me and like, a wall of muscle is walking behind and hes pretty close, so I hold open the door. He gives me the goofiest smile and tells me his arms r dead so thanks. Best interaction I've had. Just gotta give people a chance man
I've taken locker room selfies for my progress before, but it just feels like common courtesy to make sure nobody is in the frame. I'm usually the only person in the locker room at the hours I go, so it's not a big deal. It's common courtesy to not include other people in your pictures and videos unless they consent to it.
“This is why I don’t want kids.” “Natural selection better take the weirdos out!” She’s already playing her part by not bringing more of her kind into the world.
Well I think that taking photos in the gym while you pose is a good thing so that you can track your progress and gives you more self esteem, of course always with respect of others
As a dude who goes to the gym occasionally, my eyes focus on movement. That’s why I’m looking at ppl. I’m not checking them out, I literally just focus on movement because that’s how eyes work
Another thing both Joey and Charlie haven’t brought up is that these people might have whole ass stands, lights, duffel bags, and some may even have cameras instead of a phone. Having a whole ass movie set for your lifts is going to bring attention to you.
@@nymade4130 This. These types of people act like people simply looking in their general direction is a crime, yet seem to go out of their way to be the biggest attention grabber in a 100-mile radius. Clothes are never an excuse for actually bad behavior, but if you're wearing the bare minimum with a full-on movie setup around you in a public place, people are gonna look in your general direction from time to time, and that's not a crime.
Another thing i don't get is why they need to wear the tightest cloth possible. Like DUH a guy might glance at you. Those women shouldn't be allowed to wear that to a gym. Imagine a guy wearing such tight shorts . Guys also just want to focus without having visual distraction right in front of them.
I can get very paranoid being worried about strangers, but one of the best conversations I've ever had was with a random homeless guy at a bus stop. We talked about life, our favorite animals, how the fare system is sorta garbage, and how the school system fails in lots of ways. He was really nice, but clearly struggled with substance abuse and I hope he's doing better now.
I hate how Tik Tok trends turn polite and genuine people into creeps, and the whole mess discourages people from interacting with someone for fear of being ridiculed or accused of harassment. this is a whole new level of bullying and I REALLY hate it
The Kingdom of God is at Hand John 3:16 King James Version 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
This be why us guys gotta be super duper extra careful these days. One woman lies or falsely accuses us and we’re done for. These days nobody waits for due process like with Johnny Depp and just assume guilt because you’re a man.
As a guy that has been slim but mostly lean his whole life and active as far as running and push ups..whatnot, and wants to go to the gym to improve my physique for my own self esteem. I also have ADHD so I look around just aimlessly, and I have social anxiety, both of these paired together and seeing how I already feel awkward af getting caught glancing or looking in someone's general direction and I don't wanna be called a creep or deemed a "weirdo" bc I look around lol. I am also very helpful if I see someone's struggling I would of course if I could spot the weight then spot them, then I would walk away male or female but I would be apprehensive bc of stuff like this.
@Jackson Miller it is scary though. You can't even have your own opinion online without risk of people trying to cancel you. Imagine you're out with friends just messing around and one of you makes a joke that with no other context seems extremely offensive or in poor taste, that gets recorded and spread around. I've seen people lose thier job over less.
The real creepy part is the fact that these people likely spent hours analyzing every behavior of these random people that they’ve secretly recorded. This should honestly be a crime
Fun fact.. if you're not participating in Social Media you will never know they do that. It's like a conversation they have in their head. It doesn't matter, lol.
Here’s a story as to how TikTok has consumed people: in my previous job, there were two female colleagues, one was about 19 and other 17, who decided to film themselves dancing and put it on the site. They kept trying to perfect the dance. They were aware I was watching them and they weren’t being bitches about it, but they told me I was making them feel awkward and they said it very politely so I went and looked for something to do while they danced (this was about 20 minutes before we left so there wasn’t much to do anyway). I just felt it was strange that one dude they knew and trusted made them feel weird yet they were desperate to film a dance for thousands of strangers to see.
As a person who works in the tv/film media industry, you have a right to walk up to someone and tell them they do not have permission to film you. If you are in a gym you are in a private space and they, as film makers technically need permission to film in a private establishment. Membership doesn't automatically give you the right to film. Things are different concerning violence, and definitely I would use manners when I tell someone I don't give permission to be filmed. Gyms need to absolutely start putting this into their membership contracts.
it really doesn't tho,all its doing is pointing out the chronically online women that want attention. how would someone that's actualy a creep get taken less seriously
The irony of shaming people looking at their ass in the gym while also shoving their ass in the camera and then posting it for thousands too see is crazy
The worst part is that her doing this is giving people more audacity to invalidate the experiences of the plethora of women who actually DO get harassed in the gym.
@@infinitymixtapes9562 Agreed. It's annoying that the OP got so many likes. A man is the victim in this situation yet women are somehow still the first priority lol.
I even heard about a blind guy that was accused of staring at a gym. After he told her and the one of the staff members that he wasn't staring because he was blind they were still outraged.
The Blind Surfer Pete Gustin? He recounted a story like this, said he even presented them with proof he's blind (some sort of ID card IIRC), and the manager said something like "well you still can't make people uncomfortable by staring at them". When he literally cannot even tell if he's staring at someone.
It’s so crazy how they literally think they’re so important that everyone is just staring at them and every small thing is trying to hit on them like.. 😭
As a dude who has experienced creeps in the gym men and women I find tis disgraceful. I usually don't right them off as creepy as someone who questions hpw he has a fiancé with his negative game ability I usually don't think their creeps. But the real creeps i've experienced like the time i did 10×225 RDL and someone slapped my Gludious maximus so out of instinct i dropped the bar and gave the *meanest* left hook a 6'8 280lbs dude could give. It was on that day i had to tare off my soon wife from this chick. Edit: This is the now "Official" Wife as of two days Me and my hubby go to the gym together as we're similar in size I 6'2 was spotting him when this happened I mauled this lady when he said he had to tare me off he did that so our wedding wouldn't be behind bars I grew up with 3 Older brothers and as any girl can tell you who has brother's and no sister's we can fight.
I feel embarrassed even when I have my camera faced toward me for a Snapchat response .. I don’t get how people are able to just openly film other people .. they are the gym creeps for doing that.
I agree with you on the feeling of getting someone filmed just because they happen to be there, but at the end of the day a gym is a common area, depends on the rules of each gym you can record there. On the other hand the "social media gym culture" has derived from what it actually is
Agree with the weird feeling. The only time I have felt using a camera is fine is your bud like filming a pr or something for form. Usually it’s toward the rack with no one else in the shot or with no focus of anyone else. It’s a weird fad that has come up now.
This happened to me once at the gym when I was still a newbie. A very old male was looking at me as I was using some equipment, and ofc I was weirded out. After about 5 minutes of occasionally watching me work out, he came over and told me “you’re doing it wrong” and showed me the proper technique. I was grateful because I didn’t get hurt from using the equipment wrong. Seriously, sometimes men just want to help out.
@Anthony Fernandez Mansplaining is where men automatically assume a woman doesn’t know something without any evidence to support that assumption and proceeds to explain in detail often in a condescending manner without bothering to ask if they want/need said explanation. The OP in this case did show that they didn’t know what they were doing therefore the man going over to correct it is not mansplaining. You actually have to be pretty obnoxious in order to qualify for the mansplaining category.
@@MissCaraMint see the difference is that YOU understand that term and use it correctly while others don’t. So he’s actually right in this case. Just look at all the other terms that get used now where ppl don’t even know the real meaning behind them but blatantly uses them lol
i believe the best general solution for all this is just making sure people no longer film anymore in the gym, or under strict requirements, it's absolutely daunting that people are able to behave this way and can just shame people and damage their reputation for anyone to see, people need to be more respectful in the gym, this is getting out of hand.
As a woman who likes to go to the gym from time to time, these women are doing nothing but making it harder for us. Now I have to be afraid that I may need help, and the men around me would be too afraid, because I might call them creeps afterwards.
Some people really believe 'creep until proven otherwise'. Tbf when ya got stalkers, catcallers gropers and worse you have to look out for its understandable but man. I just wanna be left alone, please don't lump me in with those assholes.
@@BigCarris_53_64 she's not, u misunderstood the comment. she's not saying that she's going to call them a creep, she's saying that the women who post these kinds of videos make the men in her gym feel as if she would say that when just being friendly/helping.
@@hmkily hey, I get that. As a man myself, what Jacob Yerkes did just make other men look BAD! It’s ridiculous! I misunderstood it just a little! Women can be creeps, too! Not just only men!
It’s more weird that she’s talking to herself. He was probably wondering who she was talking to or if she was talking to him. Plus some of the stuff she was whispering like “feral, feral, feral, f*cking feral” absolutely would garner some attention from anyone within hearing distance. Not to mention that but anyone filming kinda gets your attention anyway because you wonder what they’re doing, if you’re in the shot, etc.
Can we all just acknowledge the irony of being "creeped out" by some guy at the gym, while simultaneously sharing your entire life online to who knows how many creepers
@@vlisto3712 No it's not, Its even worse. She literally sells her body, how is that different? She over here concerned about the "male gaze" yet she post pics for exactly that.
Man I’m scared to go to the gym now, I don’t want to be flagged as a creep by some fuckn influencer filming their ass doing squats. I glance around a lot and am very socially awkward so they have me basically flagged already because idk how to socialize. God, I hate people.
As an introverted man with low self esteem and issues of that nature, videos like this scare me. I’m 6’2, when I’m walking alone on the sidewalk and I see a woman walking the same direction as me I will cross the street or make as much distance as I can. I still get stared down like they think I’m gonna do something. Making women “feel safe” is an active job for me, I fear that I will get falsely accused for nothing. All it takes is one woman to get the wrong idea or lie and it’s all over for me. In a way it has made me really scared to meet new women. Edit: typing this out and seeing the responses have been therapeutic thank all of you for sharing your experiences and to those giving advice. Being able to reflect on it is already helping me overcome this issue. I know I’m in my head, but y’all helping me get out of it. I appreciate you bros
@@awesomebeast7509 Just go to south america Bro, married american in colombia divorced his wife back in the us and got a young girfriend. Just dont do what he did next, he ended her life and put her on a travel bag and then in a dumpster, and proceeded to blame the extinct medellin cartel.
@@awesomebeast7509 don’t even bother if she’s alone at dark it’s on her if she gets scared of me I’m not extending my journey because she’s thinking the worst of me btw I know a fully grown man know got tortured for 3 days and raped by two woman, men ain’t safe at all
@@apokkalyps6 i think the joke is he's saying he's underage at 40 which means he's more than wrong which means by approving the apology he says the girl is dumb
Stuff like this pisses me off because real harassment is still a thing. Some gyms will inevitably have creepy people. Setting up fake scenarios for clout does nothing but laugh in the face of people's actual experiences.
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
i agree. i have tourettes and i feel the same for those shitty petty clout chasers faking having tourettes making it a funny matter when its not. it made my life hell as a kid in school i always got fucked with. and for people to fake it and laugh on camera for fame and attention just realy makes my blood boil
I doubt millions but yeah. I don’t understand her outlook tbh cause I’m afraid of ppl looking at me at the gym so I just do at home workouts were no one can judge me. That said, that’s kind of a privilege especially if you do strength training.
@@hhasnohope8488 dude/dudette, literally nobody judges anybody on the gym, excluding this tick tock weirdos, every gym bro is happy to see people too skinny or too fat going to the gym and making and effort to regain shape. Trust me, is all in your mind.
This is why I am so self aware and always wear sunglasses outdoors, because when I look at people just like a normal human being with awareness of his surroundings, I feel like I am actually bothering them.
As a very small 17 year old girl myself, it totally makes sense to feel a little intimidated by bigger grown men who you don't know. It is not their fault that they LOOK intimidating to you though. They did nothing to deserve being accused of harassment for simply being in the same room as you. If you are uncomfortable, you leave. Go somewhere else. It was weird how these girls didn't just get up and leave. These men are not "feral", "weirdos", and they don't deserve to get their "pp ripped out" for simply existing. If you are uncomfortable going to a place that is usually full of strong men, don't go. Buy your own workout equipment to use at home.
Agree completely. Or you know what? Instead of stewing in that weird social anxiety and trying to read super deep into the kinesics of guys you haven’t even shared a sentence with, try to clear the air and say something to relieve that stress. People these days are so entitled to think they don’t need to start social engagement. You’re the one dealing with all of this anxiety around people. Deal with it yourself and don’t stew in hate and think you’re at odds with someone constantly. Those people don’t CARE about you enough to even formulate an opinion of you. As many things these days, this video points out how social media has boosted narcissism in people. This lady is off her rocker. And maybe it would have happened regardless if she didn’t have a little audience for her to constantly reaffirm her misguided warped view of the world, but it definitely didn’t make it any better.
As a 16 year old girl, I feel so anxious around adult men 😭 I know not every stranger adult guy is a weirdo but still they’re so intimidating. But yeah I don’t accuse people of being pedophiles for looking at me. Instead I just go to ‘women only’ gyms and avoid unneeded interaction
In every sport I've been practicing, boxing, judo, free diving everyone has been very welcoming and helpful to new people who wants to try it out. I've only been to a gym a couple of times and the staff has been like that. The people who goes to gyms are more reserved but very polite and helpful if I talked to someone. I think the difference is that you get to know everyone in your sports club quite fast but at the gym they don't have that club thing. When you don't know the people you workout with I guess it becomes natural to throw glances at the big or beautiful men and women rather than talk to them as colleagues.
@@hi-il7ug are you joking. No one cares what you do. It’s actually quite self centred and touching on narcissistic to think every man wants to stare at you.
You are a clearly a very intelligent young lady 👍. Sometimes I worry about the next generation but its refreshing to see that there are still young people not afraid to think for themselves. 👍
As someone with social anxiety, this is the kind of stuff I think always goes through people's heads if I ever acknowledge their existence with a glance. Knowing that there are people out there like this makes it worse for me
I'm with you on that! Worries me everytime I make eye contact with someone! "Do they think I was staring at them when I just glanced over? Do they think I'm a creep now cause of that?!"
same, i might have a problem as i do it so much i unknowingly avoid looking people in the eyes when i talk to them. or is that normal?, i dont know anymore.
I used to be like that, i kind of still am, but in the end overthinking stuff like this is just gonna drive you insane. In the end you can't control what people think of you, you don't know how their head works, so why bother? Look people in the eyes Smile when you greet them Speak clearly so they can hear It's perfectly normal, in fact it's the bare minnimum. And if someone has a problem with it it's their fault.
@@bobthespam I am sort of like that. Not when someone is talking to me or me them, because I've always been in the belief that eye contact comes with talking. But otherwise I avoid looking at people.
This is why i only work out at home and if i do cardio i pick routes where its very unlikely i will see other people, i get way to much anxiety from things like this to go to a gym. Its unfortunate that these things happen but id rather have slower progress and be 100% certain ill never be in some tik tok
I deadass stare at the floor everytime other people are in the gym just to avoid this shit, it’s ridiculous I’ve been lifting for 2 years and do it for my sport (trying to be a pro) and live in fear of this bullshit happening and ruining my career down the line
Reminds me of my late grandpa. He weighed about 90lbs soaking wet, 5’7, but HOT DAMN he was the STRONGEST man I’ve ever known. Dude could pick up twice his weight with no hesitation. I get the same vibe from Charlie.
If someone is this paranoid out in public, they need professional help. I struggle with paranoia due to my PTSD and manage it by having a service dog, medication, and therapy. People are going to glance at people around them, it's just part of being human
lol they will post their workout videos on social media for millions to see but get uncomfortable when someone at the gym literally only takes a glare at them 😂
As usual. Just like calling everything racism, nazism, abuse, ADHD, OCD or Autism. People overuse it, and then when you actually suffer these things, people don't take it serious.
@@Rocket_Man. She's staring at and filming him, but he glances in her direction and is in the wrong. What the fk? Some people need some serious mental help.
sometimes ur eyes can just be drawn to someone pretty also. cause i just quickly glance at ppl i find attractive all the time but im not particulary interested to persue anything
After working at a gym for 13 years, these people have always existed. They’re just able to film it to an audience now. The “I want all the attention, but I don’t want people looking at me” people. Lol
@@adrianc6534 What do you think is the more likely possibility: Literally half of the human race is genetically inclined towards this behaviour or Youve had a few bad experiences with women and are bitter and resentful and so extrapolate those experiences onto billions?
2:57 ngl that’s the reason I do stare at a wall or at the ground cause you just never know who’s gonna take it too personal and me who’s slightly over weight and trying to work on myself feels so uncomfortable at times
Hope this shows to men that women do not f*ck around when they say they don't feel safe around certain places. This is exactly the type of crap they have to deal with (of course not justifying her actions, just pointing out the obvious).
@@vorza2988 what? Not hard to get. What she did there to that guy happens x10000 to women around public places, especially bathrooms. I don’t want to hear dudes saying they exaggerate because one lady on this video decided to do something extremely stupid.
A girl actually did this in my local fitness world. And everyone and I MEAN EVERYONE looked at her with the faces of disgust. My friend who works there and is a guy, asked her if she could stop filming. And she responded with like a very offended and loud "WHY?" People in the gym just responded with all sorts of remarks, like you're being annoying, you're just a poser, that sorta stuff. Until she sorta... Cried back to the locker room and went home a few minutes later. I felt both great and awkward over the situation.
@@kylem1112 Too much worry of upseting people! I was taught as a child that "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words should never hurt me" or something along those lines and it stuck.
yha probably cause they seen videos like this one and know these girls just wants attention but good for you're gym though as most will probably do the opposite and kick your friend out.
Filming in a gym is just disgusting creepy. A lot of people already have to "force" themselves, fearing of being judged and whatnot, we don't need people filming in there. Just gtfo The only phone thing allowed in my gym is, changing your music or whatever and then you put it back into your pocket.
This situation is so stupid. Nowindays, we cant even look anywhere without being called a freak. Honestly, I feel like people now realize the problem and is standing up for the victims, as almost everyone has been victim to this "weirdo" situation. I feel like the sad reality is just that people make these videos for trends/fame. Its demonizing people who are innocent! This gotta stop
The real crime is the invalidation created towards the actual situations that are serious and does need attention. Its hard enough to speak up on uncomfortable experiences, knowing you can be compared to her makes it nerve-wracking
Exactly, but only do you cause damage to the people who are framed, these people also make any legitimate callouts for this type of thing less credible. It just sucks.
The fact that she says "He should go to jail for staring at an underaged 21-year-old" makes less sense when you consider that even if she was 16 or 17, nothing he does is inherently creepy either in that case. He is not asking for her age, asking her out, or even staring. He is just treating her like a normal patron at a gym indiscriminate of age/gender.
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
thank you glad this comment isn't buried this is what i'm thinking this is gonna reverse us back to the creeps creeping and getting excused, because now glancing is creeping.
I think some people are just oversensitized. I'm not trying to protect the women in these videos but what I would like to mention is that women are faced with actual harrassment quite frequently which can cause a high sensitivity to situation that seem somewhat similar to their previous experiences. I noticed this with my girlfriend too, she doesn't like it but she can't help herself thinking like that impulsively. Obviously she doesnt make videos of these people and shames them though, lol.
The irony of accusing people of staring while she literally films them lmao
This. This right here. *CZcams Golden Comment Award* 🥇
Not to mention that while checking out the video she probably stared at him longer than he was gazing in her direction, it's just too hypocritical.
For real. She literally brings her camera everytime she goes to the gym just to shame people for simply looking at her once, she acts just like a child that that complains about every normal thing that a human could do.
Camera weirdness aside, men being piggish is really common and women becoming worried is common, sadly. I personally find a lot of interactions with men to be reallt tense sometimes until i KNOW they are safe
@@PamSesheta its one thing to be cautious around men, but a completely different thing to film people and accuse every man of being a creep or a perv.
She did the equivalent of making up and winning an argument in the shower.
@Dont Read Profile Picture I’m gonna put some dirt in your eye
Fuck this bots dude fr
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts
holy shit the bots
at this point i think we should have a gym for separated genders,so they can stay far away from us
0:22 I hope he's got a permit for those guns because he's concealed carrying.
lol
Was legit a jump scare
my jaw dropped
Did not expect that. Props to that man. Hope to look as lean and be able to have that kind of muscle someday so I can jump scare people also💪😂
The funniest thing about this is that she's talking to herself using profanity with headphones on in a public area. People are going to stare if you're being excessively weird and therefore drawing attention to yourself.
The fact she thinks 21 is ‘underaged’ shows how sheltered she is
Agreed
I make entertaining videos as well🙏
The term "snowflake" gets thrown around so much to the point it's lost most of its meaning, but it sure as fucking hell applies real nicely to this bitch
She hates being sexualized yet has an onlyfans and post thirst traps on IG 😂
@@void6573REALLY
TikTok has officially destroyed our social skills to the point where people make videos like this thinking that they are being harassed when, in fact, they are experiencing the absolute bare minimum of human interaction, if you can even call it interaction.
This whole time, I thought I was the only one thinking this way. Thank you, stranger, a small piece of hope just came back to me. 🫶
in 2023, you give yourself autism for fun
To a TikToker, human interaction does not even exist...
Which really sucks because it leads to actual harrassment not being taken seriously anymore.
They know full well they're not being harrassed. They just pretend anyway to get fame and clicks. They're scum.
Being a overweight male, and knowing that this tends to be the stigmatization that we tend to get as males out of gym regardless of who we are, this is the exact reason why if I'm facing the wall and a woman in tight clothing walks in front of me I will actually close my eyes and literally just focus on my music instead of focusing on my form.
I get so tired of feeling like I'm being made out to be creepy or whatever just because I glanced in someone's general direction for half a second because I'm always scanning around me and always looking at myself to see how my form is going, and to see if there's anyone else around me so I either don't hit somebody accidentally, or I also do that for threat analyzation.
I won't deny and admit I'm paranoid, but luckily meds help manage that, but with that aside, shit like this doesn't help with that paranoia. Because now in addition to threat analyzation for the sake of someone just losing their shit for absolutely no reason, now I have to worry about women thinking I'm staring at them just because I glanced in their general direction for 3 seconds, or I did that a few times just because they're pretty and I'm trying to figure out why the fuck they keep looking over at me first before anything else, meanwhile all I was doing was just glancing around the gym to see who's there, What machines are available, and what I plan on trying to do next for a workout.
Legit, I'm not kidding you, I've actually been stared at a few times by women, and I literally look at them back because I'm trying to figure out why I'm being stared at, and more often than not they're giving me dirty looks or something like that and I'm trying to figure out what the fuck I did wrong, when all I was doing was just focusing on my music, staring at the wall in front of me and just focusing on what I'm doing.
I actually remember this exact video not too long ago, as it's only recently that I'm getting to this now, and actual Jim creeps, and then the falsified story of Jim creeps is to the reasons why I'm not the biggest fan of public gyms
Why did you make a whole fucking essay (not being mean also I'm very impressed that you did that, its awesome but Im just curious you did a really good job on this comment and I'm very very sorry if I hurt your feelings I'm not trying to)
Sorry to hear that. However, I think you might be overthinking it. This kind of behavior isn't the norm or standard at all. I go to the gym regularly and still have a higher body fat percentage (20-30%), and I've only had one bad interaction. With a guy. Keep heads up. There is no need for facing the walls. Internet wierdos are not that common
Keep on the grind man, I actually went to the gym as an underweight male like with barely any muscles just skin and bone by the time you wrote this and I already see myself getting better and see the muscles growing, I believe in you and exercise is for the best it just takes time and of course moderation
Jim creeps
Bro you're overthinking everything too much, this very rarely happens
4:16
Fun Facts!
1 - Staring is not crime.
2 - He was not staring at her.
3 - 21 is not underage.
Staring is not a crime but it is pretty weird. Agree with 2 and 3 tho
@@jonasbelrhazi7170 Fair
@jonasbelrhazi7170 You agree with 1 though, you just said it's not a crime just weird.
@@foolpersona_ you know what I mean tho
Looking at someone who's underage isn't illegal either.
She's unironically the kind of person that makes me feel uncomfortable for going to the gym
Exactly... Tired of going to gym because of these tiny little brains.. dedicating to calisthenics at home anyways
Ah yes, the Starbucks addict in the Target yoga pants with a tripod that sets up sting operations in order to entrap males and publicly humiliate them for personal gain. I know the type.
@@dawid_1021 gym tok ruined the gym
These chicks know nobody is watching them for their work-outs.
They're gonna have to create 2 sides of the gym. The one side that turns it into a TV set with all the Tik Toks & pictures and videos and the other side that actually just wants to exercise and get tf outta there.
Filming yourself for thousands of people (probably many actual perverts) then complaining about one random person glancing is mind blowing
That's what I was thinking lmao, especially the angle that they film from, the hypocrisy 😂
Yea they’re E-thots what else do you expect.
People are so weirdly detatched from their content if they get attention / numbers / money from it on the web .. it's wild.
It gets even way worse when you realize she has an Onlyfans
YES!!!!
Even as a person with clinical issues of paranoia bad enough to need medication, I do not understand these people thinking EVERY tiny glance is somehow malicious. At some point, you have to realize the entire world isn't out to get you specifically
Damn, sorry to hear that. I know I’m a bit late, but are you feeling any better?
me too, i mean i do get severe paranoia when old men stare at me for periods of time, but THIS is ridiculous.. especially recording too??
I have severe paranoia partially due to traumatic experiences.. Though it isn't only me I get worried about. When I was four years old, one of my mom's students who took piano lessons at our house confronted me. Although he was not 18 or older, he was 8+ years older than me, so he knew better. He said "I want to show you something", and I innocently said yes, not knowing any better. He then tried to get me alone in different rooms, and took clothing off to show me "it". I can't remember exactly what he did with me, but all I can hope is that he didn't do any weird sh*t. Sadly, this is one of the earliest memories I remember, as I mostly remember the bad experiences in life. He later tried to show "it" to my older sister as well, but she was six at the time so she denied it (W sister 👑). A few years before that incident, my older sister was with my mom at some sort of public building, and an old man rubbed his hand on her cheek. It was hard to tell what his intentions were, but that must have been creepy as hell, and my mom was not happy about it.. A few years after those two unfortounate events, my older sister was thirteen years old when she went shopping with my mother at a grocery store. My mom looked for what she needed in the aisle she was at and asked her to go find a certain food. As she started to walk alone, she got the impression that she was being followed by an old man. Unsure that her suspicion was correct, she kept walking, in hopes that this man's 'creepy stalking' wasn't intentional. However, the man directly followed her for long enough that it couldn't have been 'accidental', as this continued through the many turns she took. Every time she looked back at him, he 'just so happened' to quickly turn around and look at a food item near him. This went on for minutes, making this guy so suspicious that my older sister picked up the pace and started running back to mom. Thankfully the guy evantually lost sight of her. A few years back, when my little sister was only seven or eight years old, she went camping with her scout group. At one point during the trip, a boy she didn't even know made an effort to get her alone with him in a tent. She only got alone with him because she had no idea that he had any weird intentions. He asked her to kiss him, and even after she politely denied, he wouldn't let her leave. He asked her for a pretend kiss instead, but she didn't want anything to do with him. Thank god, she managed to get out of the situation. I'm not sure what other intentions he may have had, as he was a few years older than her. She evantually told my parents about it, and they were pissed. When my mom and her siblings were young, a sister of hers was forced into a closet by a man. She was locked in there, and the only time the closet was unlocked was when the person decides to 'do things' to her. I'm just so glad she got out of the situation because she is such an amazing person and didn't deserve to go through that. The fact that these people at the gym are not taking the concept of 'creeps' seriously and are blaming random people for no reason just for content makes me sick. It is honestly very offensive to me and others who have been through traumatic experiences with those kinds of things. 😢
Those messed up experiences were a part of me becoming more paranoid, and these people just waiting for "weird things" to happen solely for clout are stupid. However, with or without bad experiences with creeps, I have a mindset that no one I personally know understands, and that I'm not sure I fully understand either. Over just the course of the last two years when I finally got help, I had multiple meetings with a psychiatrist, who introduced me to four differnent medications at different times that I would change the doses of, most of which didn't work for me, and the ones remaining still can't change me. I finally got set up with a therapist that I ended up loving, and to seek greater help, we ended up meeting twice a week, though they are still more like a second mom than a therapist to me. For a while I thought that some of my anxiety, panic attacks, lucid dreams, nightmares, and especially visions, may have been partially casued by my medications. To further investigate this, I thought back a few years before I took medications. Even back then, not only did I see things around me sometimes, but occasionally my vision would be entirely overlapped with crazy sh*t. This included times when I looked around my room with slightly squinted eyes and my vision was tinted green. Slightly transparent unexplainable codes including letters and numbers constantly running down in lines would appear everywhere. Sometimes the same green tint effect would have different things overlapping it such as moving spirals. As I was pretty young, I didn't think much about it being super crazy at the time. Instead, I thought it was the coolest thing ever, and would tell my little sister about the codes and hypnotically moving shapes I saw. For witness reasons, I asked her if she remembered it a few weeks ago, and funny enough, she did! Looking back at those times, I was definetely a bit messed up in the brain. Not to mention that I had the most memorable lucid dream that was partially overlapping my vision was when I was six years old or younger, and around the same time, I would hear weird whispers when I put my ear on my pillow most nights. This just kind of proved that I was always like this, I guess. Over time, things have slowly gotten worse and worse, and dealing with five other mental disorders just made it harder to find medications that also helped with my anxiety. I thought my newest medication helped for the first few weeks, but, can you guess?
It didn't..
I just don't really know anymore. I guess it would just be nice to have someone to talk to that might actually understand how I feel, rather than just try to make me feel better, you know?
Hope you are doing better with the meds now, but as messed up as this might be to say, when someone who requires medication for their paranoia because it's that bad is telling people to realize that not everyone in the world is out to get them, that is a whole new level of a realization slap to people who do that kind of shit that you saw on the video
"This is why I don't want kids"
"Natural selection better take the wierdos out"
The fact she saw zero irony while writing those two sentences after each other tells you a lot about her mental capacity.
Well the funny part is her not wanting kids directly contributes to having natural selection take the weirdos out, just not the way she thinks
That's not how natural selection works, anyways. People always assume it's about the strongest and the smartest surviving. When in reality it's whoever can reproduce.
As a disabled person, I hate it when natural selection is used against people. Because the same people who use natural selection against people, most likely believe that disabled people shouldn't reproduce. Which I shouldn't have to say is messed up.
I love how I can barely say anything anymore due to CZcams censoring comments. Especially when what I'm saying isn't even inappropriate or insulting.
If you think about it, humanity is always getting smarter, because of natural selection. The dumbest of the dumbest will die, and the smartest will live and reproduce, and this chain will continue for hundreds of years until humans will be unbelievably smart to a limit.
“This is why I don’t want kids” honestly good, because god knows how bad of a mother she would be
Atleast she's not ruining an innocent child's life for being a shit mother so that's good
"mom can u stop arguing with people online and eat dinner with us"
true..
@@vibescake2175 HAHAHAAH
@@vibescake2175 "I think you could use even more 'em broccoli, kid... I mean sweetie. 😊 Mommy's gotta do another appology video before dinner, so that most people will forgive her sooner or later."
As an underage 62 year old myself, it's disgusting when people try to talk to me
STOP LIKING THIS COMMENT! YOURE FLOODING MY NOTIFICATIONS!!!
😂😂😂
I feel so bad for you, must be horrible to get sexually harassed while being underaged aswell
Same, just turned out 63 this morning ✊
As a 69 year old I get harassed and abused and it's not nice ❌❌❌
Its disgusting to act decently in the gym like a (shudder) “good samaritan” .
Say what you want but gym bros are some of the kindest, most helpful people I've ever met. Whenever my overweight ass is doing something wrong or trying to figure out how a machine works, they always jump in in the middle of their workout session to make sure I have a pretty good understanding of what I'm doing and don't do anything stupid and hurt myself.
damn i wish all gym bros were like this, i usually only see weird ones ⚰️
Yea i noticed that these kind Bros are the most commonly found in some run down basements gyms instead of some popular mass gyms
100%, I was hella hesitant abt working out initially but gym bros r sum of the most supportive ppl I’ve met, now Jim is life
“Sniffing her ass fumes” got me dying
Not just Tiktok itself, but this entire "tiktoker" era has let so many terrible people get undeserved attention. We live in an age where narcissism isn't just accepted, it's borderline encouraged. It's nice that a few people get called out on their shit, but this happens way too damn much.
I'm a zoomer, so as I usually get caught in the middle of these stupid trends, I 100% agree with your assessment. Social media is a wild drug
The people in the gym either do things to purposely get attention like slam weights, scream, stunts, or wear extremely tight clothing, or are literally doing nothing at all, staring at their phones. How hard is it to leave your phone in the car, go to the gym with a written plan, execute the plan, and leave within an hour and a half? America is so obese, and its people's attitudes that are having the biggest impact on health and fitness in general.
You said it perfectly
I'm gonna sound crazy but as far as I know I'm speaking the truth and even have evidence for my claims if it's needed by anyone to look it up and see for themselves, but that's because tiktok is a literal Chinese info weapon used to make the west's youth dumber and less effective adults 😅 In China, their tiktok shows science, art, and just overall just learning and creative stuff, but we are shown that you can be "famous" for being a bad person who wastes food, hurts others, ect. and they don't even make any real money from it all. They are taught to be assholes for moneyless clout by tiktok. Tiktok really needs to go the way of vine asap.
he's the ultimate sleeper build
As someone with pretty bad social anxiety, she is precisely the type of person I’m afraid of encountering
ture!!! the girl that said that she should rip his dick off,HOW is that NOT SEXUAL HARASSMENT
Same.
Why u just give em the finger
@@enclavelieutenant8614 where do you put the finger?
Saaame
She's definitely the creep. Just imagine someone filming you, and replaying the footage of you and trying desperately to spot any glances
Even worse she says she wants to rip his pp out
u stole
Copied.
Loser
@@user-dc7zm3qq6q you going to my rape list
You are definitely the thief. Just imagine someone making a good comment and you try so desperately to get likes by copping.
i love how he barely spends time on showing himself, he just flashes us with his insanely ripped arms sometimes 💀
actually, ‘going to jail for staring at an under aged 21 year old’ is such a perfect representation of how people these days are desperate to manipulate a situation to fit their narrative
Ngl sometimes when i see videos like this i contemplate running on all fours to jumpscare women in the night that should be terrifying enough
@@KfcOwner until you meet that woman who runs on all fours like some kind of native American skin walker.
If you don't know what I am talking about just Google girl runs like a horse
@@KfcOwner I wish I could just watch and kick ALL the drama queens and ones dressing like sluts or videoing out of the gym STRAIGHT UP. ANY shenanigans of female drama, your photo is taken, you're put on a blacklist and booted from ALL GYMS the have men. If they're serious they can go to the female only gyms. But MOST are going because they ARE CHASING MALE ATTENTION and looking for a man. They literally have videos about it on tiktok. Men avoid their usual spots so they dress in leggings and a bikini to attract a man.
@Hating for no reason ngl if you did that and then just gave them like a coupon before leaving would really stick in their mind
@@KfcOwnernormalize just running at random women at night like ✋👹🤚GGAAAHHHHH
She deleted her first apology and and posted a new one because her first one did not take accountability.
I make entertaining videos as well🙏
"Fake it till you make it"
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts.
there is only bots in these replies lmao
Join the Discord motherfūcker!!!! Hahaha love your vids dude!
You guys are dodging the fact that charlie is staring at us for the majority of this video, willy jiggly what a creep
You know they were at home like "wonder what outfits will make more people look at me like I'm crazy so I can film it".
I'm 19, 5'4 f. Walking out the gym yesterday and as I turn to close the door, this guy, easily a foot taller than me and like, a wall of muscle is walking behind and hes pretty close, so I hold open the door. He gives me the goofiest smile and tells me his arms r dead so thanks. Best interaction I've had. Just gotta give people a chance man
you’re pretty tall dang 😍
@@PsyckoDelta how is 5'4 tall
damn you're pretty tall
@@worldprops333 that’s cuz it isn’t
@@PsyckoDeltaget out of here simp
Charlie flexing his bicep was the closest real-life thing I’ve seen to a Popeyes cartoon
He got that sleeper build fr 😭
And here i thought i was more ripped than Charlie
@@coldestbeer no one can beat him, not even me. im a little rock to this mf god
@@coldestbeer you probably are bro he’s small no offence to him
@@weirdchamp4601 ong he’s overrated
He is jesus
I've taken locker room selfies for my progress before, but it just feels like common courtesy to make sure nobody is in the frame. I'm usually the only person in the locker room at the hours I go, so it's not a big deal. It's common courtesy to not include other people in your pictures and videos unless they consent to it.
9:00 the cat just teleporting in got me good
“This is why I don’t want kids.”
“Natural selection better take the weirdos out!”
She’s already playing her part by not bringing more of her kind into the world.
"Congratulations, you played yourself"
Mostly they say "weirdo" when men are not goodlooking which is really mean.
Hate to break it to her but that guy is probably the last person being taken out by natural selection.
taking herself out of the gene pool early
She said she was an underage 21 year old. 😂
We honestly need more gyms to enforce a no filming/pictures rule
Absolutely! Who wants to be filmed at the gym?
The fact this hasn’t been policy already is mind blowing...
Well I think that taking photos in the gym while you pose is a good thing so that you can track your progress and gives you more self esteem, of course always with respect of others
No I don’t even ever take pictures in the gym but it’s important to some people so why take that from them
@@federic06g67 just wait til you get home
HIM FLEXING ACTUAALY IS A JUMP SCARE NO JOKE (I CANT TURN OFF CAPS LOCK)
As a dude who goes to the gym occasionally, my eyes focus on movement. That’s why I’m looking at ppl. I’m not checking them out, I literally just focus on movement because that’s how eyes work
"don't want kids"
"natural selection better take the weirdos out"
This is amazing, just *chefs kiss*
Sometimes the jokes write themselves
Bahaha didn't even catch that. Amazing
@@jeanpitre5789 lol
Well she has an OF so nobody wants that anyway.
The best one was "underage 21 year old" how u underage and 21
Another thing both Joey and Charlie haven’t brought up is that these people might have whole ass stands, lights, duffel bags, and some may even have cameras instead of a phone. Having a whole ass movie set for your lifts is going to bring attention to you.
Exactly if you have a whole ass setup people will be curious to know why and oh no, might glance in your general direction to find out
Literal onlyfans models shooting promo in the tightest of clothes with an entire setup complaining about slight glances. I hate it here.
@@nymade4130 literally their mentality is “ I can’t be a fucking slutty whore in my public gym without someone looking🙄”
@@nymade4130 This. These types of people act like people simply looking in their general direction is a crime, yet seem to go out of their way to be the biggest attention grabber in a 100-mile radius. Clothes are never an excuse for actually bad behavior, but if you're wearing the bare minimum with a full-on movie setup around you in a public place, people are gonna look in your general direction from time to time, and that's not a crime.
Another thing i don't get is why they need to wear the tightest cloth possible. Like DUH a guy might glance at you. Those women shouldn't be allowed to wear that to a gym. Imagine a guy wearing such tight shorts . Guys also just want to focus without having visual distraction right in front of them.
I can get very paranoid being worried about strangers, but one of the best conversations I've ever had was with a random homeless guy at a bus stop. We talked about life, our favorite animals, how the fare system is sorta garbage, and how the school system fails in lots of ways. He was really nice, but clearly struggled with substance abuse and I hope he's doing better now.
I gotta go to the gym blindfolded
"Normal human interaction has become outlawed " epic quote by the man himself
Its why i rarely approach women in public spaces anymore
Social media is breaking people’s brains it’s like people don’t know how social interaction works anymore
@@SolidSnake240 bruh what. This stuff is rare
Jesus man speaking facts as usual
@@ryanjung4416 right.
I hate how Tik Tok trends turn polite and genuine people into creeps, and the whole mess discourages people from interacting with someone for fear of being ridiculed or accused of harassment. this is a whole new level of bullying and I REALLY hate it
Really brings the highschool out of the highschool, as if anyone needed that.
The Kingdom of God is at Hand
John 3:16
King James Version
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
@@DHunter_47 Your murderous cult is dying at the hands of its own followers, cope
This be why us guys gotta be super duper extra careful these days. One woman lies or falsely accuses us and we’re done for. These days nobody waits for due process like with Johnny Depp and just assume guilt because you’re a man.
It doesn't though. It just makes the douche filming look really awkward. Who the fuck overthinks "hey, are you using that equipment ?" lmao
Bro i saw one of these and the comments were "im so so sorry you had to go throught that terrible thing sister"
As a guy that has been slim but mostly lean his whole life and active as far as running and push ups..whatnot, and wants to go to the gym to improve my physique for my own self esteem. I also have ADHD so I look around just aimlessly, and I have social anxiety, both of these paired together and seeing how I already feel awkward af getting caught glancing or looking in someone's general direction and I don't wanna be called a creep or deemed a "weirdo" bc I look around lol. I am also very helpful if I see someone's struggling I would of course if I could spot the weight then spot them, then I would walk away male or female but I would be apprehensive bc of stuff like this.
The fact that filming people in public without their consent has nearly become the norm is fucking horrifying
In public it is legal to do so. On private property it is not legal.
@@dpurdyciv4417 norm = morality, not legality.
Horrifying? Seriously? It’s just weird, not horrifying. What are you even doing in public that you would be horrified if filmed 😂? Stop overreacting.
@@jacksonmiller7745 somebody is coping
@Jackson Miller it is scary though. You can't even have your own opinion online without risk of people trying to cancel you. Imagine you're out with friends just messing around and one of you makes a joke that with no other context seems extremely offensive or in poor taste, that gets recorded and spread around. I've seen people lose thier job over less.
The real creepy part is the fact that these people likely spent hours analyzing every behavior of these random people that they’ve secretly recorded. This should honestly be a crime
lol I didnt even think about the people making these videos would have to actively be watching everyone and creeping on them XD
It is in the EU :)
@@radicalbyte Even worse. A gym is not in fact a public space. Most gyms are private owned.
The gym isn't a public place. It is illegal in most places
Fun fact.. if you're not participating in Social Media you will never know they do that. It's like a conversation they have in their head. It doesn't matter, lol.
Here’s a story as to how TikTok has consumed people: in my previous job, there were two female colleagues, one was about 19 and other 17, who decided to film themselves dancing and put it on the site. They kept trying to perfect the dance. They were aware I was watching them and they weren’t being bitches about it, but they told me I was making them feel awkward and they said it very politely so I went and looked for something to do while they danced (this was about 20 minutes before we left so there wasn’t much to do anyway). I just felt it was strange that one dude they knew and trusted made them feel weird yet they were desperate to film a dance for thousands of strangers to see.
As a person who works in the tv/film media industry, you have a right to walk up to someone and tell them they do not have permission to film you. If you are in a gym you are in a private space and they, as film makers technically need permission to film in a private establishment. Membership doesn't automatically give you the right to film. Things are different concerning violence, and definitely I would use manners when I tell someone I don't give permission to be filmed. Gyms need to absolutely start putting this into their membership contracts.
the worst part of this "trend" is that its making the actual problem of getting harassed at the gym be taken less seriously
it really doesn't tho,all its doing is pointing out the chronically online women that want attention. how would someone that's actualy a creep get taken less seriously
Not the worst in any way. The worst is that these people could actively cause harm to people they're accusing of false harrassment.
Man gets falsely accused. Women most affected.
@@1Plebeian ok buddy if you say so
@@lilumbra6940 not my words
I like how she’s the “victim” for being glanced at, yet she’s filming him.
Women™
Isn't she just filming herself though?
@@tamago5765 not if I can see him in the background
She was only filming because he was staring
@@aiyana6476 please stop coping on behalf of obvious attention whores
The irony of shaming people looking at their ass in the gym while also shoving their ass in the camera and then posting it for thousands too see is crazy
Ppl like that overshadow the actual moments when there is a creep at the gym now ppl are not gonna know when someone is just existing or being weird
The worst part is that her doing this is giving people more audacity to invalidate the experiences of the plethora of women who actually DO get harassed in the gym.
its true, but on the positive side at least it does validate men that get accused of this behavior for no reason and point out that it exists
Yeah, I've been seeing a lot of sexism in the comments about how shitty all women are
yes
I'd say the worst part is that man was implicated as a creep to thousands of people for no reason at all
@@infinitymixtapes9562 Agreed. It's annoying that the OP got so many likes. A man is the victim in this situation yet women are somehow still the first priority lol.
I even heard about a blind guy that was accused of staring at a gym. After he told her and the one of the staff members that he wasn't staring because he was blind they were still outraged.
I love blind surfer pete
sounds like a fake story, but maybe NA is just built different 🤷♂
The Blind Surfer Pete Gustin? He recounted a story like this, said he even presented them with proof he's blind (some sort of ID card IIRC), and the manager said something like "well you still can't make people uncomfortable by staring at them". When he literally cannot even tell if he's staring at someone.
@@yungblattt we don't care
@@nalinea18 average west gym
It’s so crazy how they literally think they’re so important that everyone is just staring at them and every small thing is trying to hit on them like.. 😭
As a dude who has experienced creeps in the gym men and women I find tis disgraceful. I usually don't right them off as creepy as someone who questions hpw he has a fiancé with his negative game ability I usually don't think their creeps. But the real creeps i've experienced like the time i did 10×225 RDL and someone slapped my Gludious maximus so out of instinct i dropped the bar and gave the *meanest* left hook a 6'8 280lbs dude could give. It was on that day i had to tare off my soon wife from this chick.
Edit: This is the now "Official" Wife as of two days Me and my hubby go to the gym together as we're similar in size I 6'2 was spotting him when this happened I mauled this lady when he said he had to tare me off he did that so our wedding wouldn't be behind bars I grew up with 3 Older brothers and as any girl can tell you who has brother's and no sister's we can fight.
I feel embarrassed even when I have my camera faced toward me for a Snapchat response .. I don’t get how people are able to just openly film other people .. they are the gym creeps for doing that.
i sniff the farticile particles off of charlies steamwackler once a year yet YEAT's the problem???
I agree with you on the feeling of getting someone filmed just because they happen to be there, but at the end of the day a gym is a common area, depends on the rules of each gym you can record there.
On the other hand the "social media gym culture" has derived from what it actually is
not only that but if what they don't like is being looked at.. why do they film themselves and send it on the internet ?
Agree with the weird feeling. The only time I have felt using a camera is fine is your bud like filming a pr or something for form. Usually it’s toward the rack with no one else in the shot or with no focus of anyone else. It’s a weird fad that has come up now.
@@k0lpA Yeah, and if that's what they are concerned about. Just get the equipment you need and set it up on your garage and that's it
This happened to me once at the gym when I was still a newbie. A very old male was looking at me as I was using some equipment, and ofc I was weirded out. After about 5 minutes of occasionally watching me work out, he came over and told me “you’re doing it wrong” and showed me the proper technique. I was grateful because I didn’t get hurt from using the equipment wrong. Seriously, sometimes men just want to help out.
That's called "mansplaining" it this day and age. Let them get hurt instead 💀
@Anthony Fernandez Mansplaining is where men automatically assume a woman doesn’t know something without any evidence to support that assumption and proceeds to explain in detail often in a condescending manner without bothering to ask if they want/need said explanation. The OP in this case did show that they didn’t know what they were doing therefore the man going over to correct it is not mansplaining. You actually have to be pretty obnoxious in order to qualify for the mansplaining category.
@@MissCaraMint I'll have take your word on that
@@MissCaraMint see the difference is that YOU understand that term and use it correctly while others don’t. So he’s actually right in this case. Just look at all the other terms that get used now where ppl don’t even know the real meaning behind them but blatantly uses them lol
@@paidjay2x138i’ve never seen someone use mansplaining wrong though? it’s not that hard to understand lmao
The cat cleaning itself in the background is adorable
i believe the best general solution for all this is just making sure people no longer film anymore in the gym, or under strict requirements, it's absolutely daunting that people are able to behave this way and can just shame people and damage their reputation for anyone to see, people need to be more respectful in the gym, this is getting out of hand.
As a woman who likes to go to the gym from time to time, these women are doing nothing but making it harder for us. Now I have to be afraid that I may need help, and the men around me would be too afraid, because I might call them creeps afterwards.
Some people really believe 'creep until proven otherwise'. Tbf when ya got stalkers, catcallers gropers and worse you have to look out for its understandable but man. I just wanna be left alone, please don't lump me in with those assholes.
Unless if a man’s not doing anything out of the ordinary. Never apologize for something you did not do.
@@BigCarris_53_64 she's not, u misunderstood the comment. she's not saying that she's going to call them a creep, she's saying that the women who post these kinds of videos make the men in her gym feel as if she would say that when just being friendly/helping.
100% I wouldn’t help you unless on the verge of losing your life. You can thank these women for it. Good luck and don’t over lift.
@@hmkily hey, I get that. As a man myself, what Jacob Yerkes did just make other men look BAD! It’s ridiculous! I misunderstood it just a little! Women can be creeps, too! Not just only men!
Holy shit. Charlie is the living embodiment of that anime character that looks frail until he flexes and his clothes all tear off. Damn.
He's the real life Ned Flanders
He could be the real world Saitama, except instead of being bald, Charlie has his glorious mane.
the Dumbell's anime ?
I thought he was joking till he flexed his arm and I nearly spat out my coffee
roshi mode
moist could 100% be a lawyer
I love watching people like you and Louis Rossman go off about stuff that makes them mad while your cat sits cute in the background
3:28 he’s actually doing a pretty good job of not constantly staring at a person un-subtly muttering weird insults
Very true
It’s more weird that she’s talking to herself. He was probably wondering who she was talking to or if she was talking to him. Plus some of the stuff she was whispering like “feral, feral, feral, f*cking feral” absolutely would garner some attention from anyone within hearing distance. Not to mention that but anyone filming kinda gets your attention anyway because you wonder what they’re doing, if you’re in the shot, etc.
@@oceangravy799 ikr, dude would rather stare at the phone recording him
@@oceangravy799 yes, exactly what I was thinking. If you are talking to yourself I'm probably going to keep an eye on you !
Yeah, that would get an eyebrow raised glance from me. I can only assume she has a few screws loose and could attack someone unprovoked.
Can we all just acknowledge the irony of being "creeped out" by some guy at the gym, while simultaneously sharing your entire life online to who knows how many creepers
Amazing analogy
Most creeps would be much more comfortable doing creepy stuff behind a screen.
She also has OnlyFans. Let that sink in.
@@perheriita2723 What she did here is wrong, but onlyfans is irrelevant. Different scenarios.
@@vlisto3712 No it's not, Its even worse. She literally sells her body, how is that different? She over here concerned about the "male gaze" yet she post pics for exactly that.
It’s shit like this that makes me terrified of going to the gym, I don’t wanna see myself end up on someone’s tik tok video
Man I’m scared to go to the gym now, I don’t want to be flagged as a creep by some fuckn influencer filming their ass doing squats. I glance around a lot and am very socially awkward so they have me basically flagged already because idk how to socialize. God, I hate people.
It’s people like her that make everyone disregard genuine concerns and the safety of women.
yes and the mental health of men
whenever i see people like this, i think the napoleonic code is the best civil code ever
As an introverted man with low self esteem and issues of that nature, videos like this scare me. I’m 6’2, when I’m walking alone on the sidewalk and I see a woman walking the same direction as me I will cross the street or make as much distance as I can. I still get stared down like they think I’m gonna do something. Making women “feel safe” is an active job for me, I fear that I will get falsely accused for nothing. All it takes is one woman to get the wrong idea or lie and it’s all over for me. In a way it has made me really scared to meet new women.
Edit: typing this out and seeing the responses have been therapeutic thank all of you for sharing your experiences and to those giving advice. Being able to reflect on it is already helping me overcome this issue. I know I’m in my head, but y’all helping me get out of it. I appreciate you bros
@@awesomebeast7509 Just go to south america Bro, married american in colombia divorced his wife back in the us and got a young girfriend. Just dont do what he did next, he ended her life and put her on a travel bag and then in a dumpster, and proceeded to blame the extinct medellin cartel.
@@awesomebeast7509 don’t even bother if she’s alone at dark it’s on her if she gets scared of me I’m not extending my journey because she’s thinking the worst of me btw I know a fully grown man know got tortured for 3 days and raped by two woman, men ain’t safe at all
her: "natural selection better take the wierdos OUT"
also: her: *disappears*
Literally my thought too when I saw that sentence XD
Just like Marty Mcfly from Back to the Future 😂
The irony
Natural selection? You mean the shirt one of the columbine high school shooters wore?
@@bothermenone you don't know what natural selection is?
She had a tripod out. He was looking at her elaborate setup.
The sleeper build is diabolical
As an underage 40 year old man I approve her apology
take my like sir
Is it sarcasm or a gramatically english correct sentence? How can you be underage and 40 at the same time?
@@apokkalyps6 watch the video and you will understand, before commenting..
@@apokkalyps6 i think the joke is he's saying he's underage at 40 which means he's more than wrong which means by approving the apology he says the girl is dumb
Stuff like this pisses me off because real harassment is still a thing. Some gyms will inevitably have creepy people. Setting up fake scenarios for clout does nothing but laugh in the face of people's actual experiences.
The world will get more crazier man. I’m glad that I train at home
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
Key word: people! Tired of people acting like women don’t harass men or even other women because it happens frequently!
It’s also just fucked up for the innocent people being posted online and portrayed as creeps for thousands to see
i agree. i have tourettes and i feel the same for those shitty petty clout chasers faking having tourettes making it a funny matter when its not. it made my life hell as a kid in school i always got fucked with. and for people to fake it and laugh on camera for fame and attention just realy makes my blood boil
Random female tiktoker: guys he’s invading my privacy!1!1!11!1!1
*proceeds to record the person without permission*
Going to jail for staring at a 21 year old is like breathing 0.000000000001 decimal higher around a 21 year old man or girl
Gym lady: "I don't like it when people look at me while I work out"
Also gym lady: *puts a recording of her workout online for millions to look at*
zoomed in on her buns. You can't make this sh*t up.
She effectively put herself into the faces of 6000000000000% more weirdos
I doubt millions but yeah. I don’t understand her outlook tbh cause I’m afraid of ppl looking at me at the gym so I just do at home workouts were no one can judge me. That said, that’s kind of a privilege especially if you do strength training.
@@hhasnohope8488 dude/dudette, literally nobody judges anybody on the gym, excluding this tick tock weirdos, every gym bro is happy to see people too skinny or too fat going to the gym and making and effort to regain shape. Trust me, is all in your mind.
the problem is not people "looking at her" the problem is strangers wanting to approach her when she is working out.
Well said Charlie. People are so narcissistic these days it’s truly terrifying.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts
So many bots 😭
Honestly I think nowadays it’s just being recorded there isn’t any more of it
@Red Star 🅥 it’s trash tho
Yea
Im so paranoid im looking at somebody and makin them uncomfortable while i zone out i just keep my eyes closed
This is why I am so self aware and always wear sunglasses outdoors, because when I look at people just like a normal human being with awareness of his surroundings, I feel like I am actually bothering them.
As a very small 17 year old girl myself, it totally makes sense to feel a little intimidated by bigger grown men who you don't know. It is not their fault that they LOOK intimidating to you though. They did nothing to deserve being accused of harassment for simply being in the same room as you. If you are uncomfortable, you leave. Go somewhere else. It was weird how these girls didn't just get up and leave. These men are not "feral", "weirdos", and they don't deserve to get their "pp ripped out" for simply existing. If you are uncomfortable going to a place that is usually full of strong men, don't go. Buy your own workout equipment to use at home.
Agree completely. Or you know what? Instead of stewing in that weird social anxiety and trying to read super deep into the kinesics of guys you haven’t even shared a sentence with, try to clear the air and say something to relieve that stress. People these days are so entitled to think they don’t need to start social engagement. You’re the one dealing with all of this anxiety around people. Deal with it yourself and don’t stew in hate and think you’re at odds with someone constantly. Those people don’t CARE about you enough to even formulate an opinion of you.
As many things these days, this video points out how social media has boosted narcissism in people. This lady is off her rocker. And maybe it would have happened regardless if she didn’t have a little audience for her to constantly reaffirm her misguided warped view of the world, but it definitely didn’t make it any better.
As a 16 year old girl, I feel so anxious around adult men 😭 I know not every stranger adult guy is a weirdo but still they’re so intimidating. But yeah I don’t accuse people of being pedophiles for looking at me. Instead I just go to ‘women only’ gyms and avoid unneeded interaction
In every sport I've been practicing, boxing, judo, free diving everyone has been very welcoming and helpful to new people who wants to try it out. I've only been to a gym a couple of times and the staff has been like that. The people who goes to gyms are more reserved but very polite and helpful if I talked to someone. I think the difference is that you get to know everyone in your sports club quite fast but at the gym they don't have that club thing. When you don't know the people you workout with I guess it becomes natural to throw glances at the big or beautiful men and women rather than talk to them as colleagues.
@@hi-il7ug are you joking. No one cares what you do. It’s actually quite self centred and touching on narcissistic to think every man wants to stare at you.
You are a clearly a very intelligent young lady 👍. Sometimes I worry about the next generation but its refreshing to see that there are still young people not afraid to think for themselves. 👍
As someone with social anxiety, this is the kind of stuff I think always goes through people's heads if I ever acknowledge their existence with a glance. Knowing that there are people out there like this makes it worse for me
The first one has a only fans
I'm with you on that! Worries me everytime I make eye contact with someone! "Do they think I was staring at them when I just glanced over? Do they think I'm a creep now cause of that?!"
same, i might have a problem as i do it so much i unknowingly avoid looking people in the eyes when i talk to them. or is that normal?, i dont know anymore.
I used to be like that, i kind of still am, but in the end overthinking stuff like this is just gonna drive you insane. In the end you can't control what people think of you, you don't know how their head works, so why bother?
Look people in the eyes
Smile when you greet them
Speak clearly so they can hear
It's perfectly normal, in fact it's the bare minnimum. And if someone has a problem with it it's their fault.
@@bobthespam I am sort of like that. Not when someone is talking to me or me them, because I've always been in the belief that eye contact comes with talking. But otherwise I avoid looking at people.
This is why i only work out at home and if i do cardio i pick routes where its very unlikely i will see other people, i get way to much anxiety from things like this to go to a gym. Its unfortunate that these things happen but id rather have slower progress and be 100% certain ill never be in some tik tok
I deadass stare at the floor everytime other people are in the gym just to avoid this shit, it’s ridiculous I’ve been lifting for 2 years and do it for my sport (trying to be a pro) and live in fear of this bullshit happening and ruining my career down the line
Charlie is so skinny yet so ripped when he flexes it’s like Goku powering up
Edit:I aspire to have that kind of body 💪
You are right
LMAO
Reminds me of my late grandpa. He weighed about 90lbs soaking wet, 5’7, but HOT DAMN he was the STRONGEST man I’ve ever known. Dude could pick up twice his weight with no hesitation. I get the same vibe from Charlie.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts
Backhanded much
He was probably wondering how she hadn’t managed a rep of 50 Kg in 15 minutes, or the fact she was intensely talking to herself.
i would have walked up and asked if she was OK. since it's really strange behavior. then again i guess those are the types of people you should avoid.
@@JewTube001 you would be labelled as a creep by her if u walked up 😅😂
@@ashwinabraham2 if you have eyes you are a creep
Very strange woman.
💯
If someone is this paranoid out in public, they need professional help. I struggle with paranoia due to my PTSD and manage it by having a service dog, medication, and therapy. People are going to glance at people around them, it's just part of being human
lol they will post their workout videos on social media for millions to see but get uncomfortable when someone at the gym literally only takes a glare at them 😂
0:21 The fact he had to photoshop it to look smaller for our sanity really shows how much of a legend Charlie is
He knew we couldn’t handle his manly muscles
I'm still shocked over that sleeper build 😂
He's pretty cut actually. Never would have guessed.
did he actually? wow
you mean videoshopped
What makes this really suck is that it can make things harder for people that have actually been harassed at the gym…it creates a stigma.
yeah or just harassed in general
As usual.
Just like calling everything racism, nazism, abuse, ADHD, OCD or Autism.
People overuse it, and then when you actually suffer these things, people don't take it serious.
If anything she is the one starring at him
@@Rocket_Man. She's staring at and filming him, but he glances in her direction and is in the wrong. What the fk? Some people need some serious mental help.
@@solitarysage6848 aye, the lad was probably thinking TF is she filming
They’re ok with millions of people looking at her at on the internet but they get uncomfortable when someone at the gym glances at them.💀
sometimes ur eyes can just be drawn to someone pretty also. cause i just quickly glance at ppl i find attractive all the time but im not particulary interested to persue anything
After working at a gym for 13 years, these people have always existed. They’re just able to film it to an audience now. The “I want all the attention, but I don’t want people looking at me” people. Lol
I think they’re called women
The girl of the "outfit" is basically saying to herself "look how i look hot in this outfit"...
@@adrianc6534 no need to generalize a large group of people and show your insecurity through misogyny Adrian🤍
@@sk8aintstr813 well said
@@adrianc6534 What do you think is the more likely possibility:
Literally half of the human race is genetically inclined towards this behaviour
or
Youve had a few bad experiences with women and are bitter and resentful and so extrapolate those experiences onto billions?
As a straight dude, I find myself staring at the ripped guys in the gym rather than the girls cause I'm like "one day I'll be like that"
Hah, Gayyyyyy!
As an anti-social sociopath I only stare at the machines, thinking, "I need to finish this soon so I can move away from people."
@@Helicidae Wanting to become a painter and observing painters doesn't make you paintersexual, in the same way, this doesn't make him gay.
@@Helicidae wow you're so hilarious, i cant believe it!!!! That joke had me rolling on the floor screaming for 2 hours!!! Except not
@@Helicidae are you coming out?
maybe we dont ask what Sigmund Freud was thinking about this...
2:57 ngl that’s the reason I do stare at a wall or at the ground cause you just never know who’s gonna take it too personal and me who’s slightly over weight and trying to work on myself feels so uncomfortable at times
As someone with OCD and intrusive thoughts who worries people will think i’m looking at them at the gym, this shit is my nightmare
Ironically, Jessica has made the rest of us more uncomfortable in the gym than she was
@@j.c4924 oh good
Hope this shows to men that women do not f*ck around when they say they don't feel safe around certain places. This is exactly the type of crap they have to deal with (of course not justifying her actions, just pointing out the obvious).
@🌸 J.c 🌸 W
@@al112v4 ?
@@vorza2988 what? Not hard to get. What she did there to that guy happens x10000 to women around public places, especially bathrooms. I don’t want to hear dudes saying they exaggerate because one lady on this video decided to do something extremely stupid.
A girl actually did this in my local fitness world. And everyone and I MEAN EVERYONE looked at her with the faces of disgust. My friend who works there and is a guy, asked her if she could stop filming. And she responded with like a very offended and loud "WHY?"
People in the gym just responded with all sorts of remarks, like you're being annoying, you're just a poser, that sorta stuff. Until she sorta... Cried back to the locker room and went home a few minutes later.
I felt both great and awkward over the situation.
There needs to be more of that. They need to learn a lesson.
@@kylem1112 Too much worry of upseting people! I was taught as a child that "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words should never hurt me" or something along those lines and it stuck.
yha probably cause they seen videos like this one and know these girls just wants attention but good for you're gym though as most will probably do the opposite and kick your friend out.
That's why I love my gym , rule : "No cell phones allowed" in our gym.
Filming in a gym is just disgusting creepy. A lot of people already have to "force" themselves, fearing of being judged and whatnot, we don't need people filming in there. Just gtfo
The only phone thing allowed in my gym is, changing your music or whatever and then you put it back into your pocket.
This situation is so stupid. Nowindays, we cant even look anywhere without being called a freak.
Honestly, I feel like people now realize the problem and is standing up for the victims, as almost everyone has been victim to this "weirdo" situation.
I feel like the sad reality is just that people make these videos for trends/fame. Its demonizing people who are innocent! This gotta stop
The real crime is the invalidation created towards the actual situations that are serious and does need attention. Its hard enough to speak up on uncomfortable experiences, knowing you can be compared to her makes it nerve-wracking
Exactly, but only do you cause damage to the people who are framed, these people also make any legitimate callouts for this type of thing less credible. It just sucks.
The people*
The fact that she says "He should go to jail for staring at an underaged 21-year-old" makes less sense when you consider that even if she was 16 or 17, nothing he does is inherently creepy either in that case.
He is not asking for her age, asking her out, or even staring. He is just treating her like a normal patron at a gym indiscriminate of age/gender.
She should be grateful that she has never encountered a real creep like some of us have..
@@ajgumpper for real, that is actually unsettling
i think the “underage 21 year old” was a joke though i feel like i’ve heard that before on tiktok. still agree with you tho
@@alliekhani7873 i hope so lmao
you know what’s funny? she has an OnlyFans 😂
The worst part about this isn't even that they're accusing normal people of being creepy, it's that it diminishes actual victims
@@weirdyoutubechannels I was happy for a moment but you lied to me :(
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
thank you glad this comment isn't buried this is what i'm thinking this is gonna reverse us back to the creeps creeping and getting excused, because now glancing is creeping.
also theyre the ones with the creepy behavior. Filming others without their consent is an invasion of privacy.
I think some people are just oversensitized. I'm not trying to protect the women in these videos but what I would like to mention is that women are faced with actual harrassment quite frequently which can cause a high sensitivity to situation that seem somewhat similar to their previous experiences.
I noticed this with my girlfriend too, she doesn't like it but she can't help herself thinking like that impulsively. Obviously she doesnt make videos of these people and shames them though, lol.
this is actually the reason why i stop going to my local gym this happened to me and felt so bad that stoped going to the gym.
he wasn’t kidding when he said him flexing was a jump scare