How I became confident

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  • This video discusses part of my journey thinking about confidence, and how to become more confident.
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Komentáƙe • 279

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan Pƙed 3 lety +312

    *"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*
    The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* đŸ–€

    • @haminguyen9598
      @haminguyen9598 Pƙed 3 lety +6

      Just saw your comments at lana's channel..

    • @emperoremyhriv4968
      @emperoremyhriv4968 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      So if I see a thief stealing a grandma's purse , I shouldn't concern myself and be like " it's none of my business anyway " ? Nonsensical quote .

    • @MB-gk1ou
      @MB-gk1ou Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @theemperorspenguin you're logic is pretty pathetic. Obviously that example is not what he was saying..as in if you just focus on yourself and don't see how people are judjing you then you'll find things easier. I'm sorry, but you're example and understanding was very silly

    • @OFFICIAL_FBI
      @OFFICIAL_FBI Pƙed 2 lety +1

      its you again

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol Pƙed 3 lety +248

    The trick is to never be emotional about things out of your control. Once you adopt the "it is what it is" mindset, you'll be free

    • @ThatMedic
      @ThatMedic Pƙed 3 lety +10

      This is the mantra

    • @AnasNuurAli
      @AnasNuurAli  Pƙed 3 lety +50

      It izzz what it izz

    • @losasakarosa9050
      @losasakarosa9050 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      yes, yes, yessss i've been thinking about this a lot lately

    • @hkia7893
      @hkia7893 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      But again, human are emotional being. To me, acknowledge the emotion, and move on fast... (Yeah sometimes easier said than done)

    • @meetali2820
      @meetali2820 Pƙed 2 lety

      What is it is what it is

  • @improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219
    @improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219 Pƙed 3 lety +225

    “Rule 1: The actions of confidence come first; the feelings of confidence come later.” - Russ Harris, The Confidence Gap

  • @2kabdul429
    @2kabdul429 Pƙed 3 lety +67

    Confident to me is someone who doesn't act on peoples opinion but on how they feel

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan Pƙed 3 lety +170

    *“You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”*
    Please stop obsessing with what happened in the past and *focus on building a great future for yourself.* I hope you have a great day. đŸ–€

  • @thetunani7235
    @thetunani7235 Pƙed 3 lety +160

    What we need is a collab with you, ThatMedic, KharmaMedic, and Ali Abdaal

  • @justtrynasurvive
    @justtrynasurvive Pƙed 3 lety +29

    As a quiet guy, who also struggles with this sort of thing. Couldn't of dropped this at a better time.
    Confidence is involved in everything, friends, family, life, medicine it's mad

    • @AnasNuurAli
      @AnasNuurAli  Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Glad you liked this broski

    • @justtrynasurvive
      @justtrynasurvive Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@AnasNuurAli I sure did man.
      Hope all's going well for you

  • @arlenastuart1522
    @arlenastuart1522 Pƙed 3 lety +17

    That's what I've learned from my 20 year old self:
    Do not judge yourself by the words and opinions of others.

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan Pƙed 3 lety +33

    *If you are reading this, never ever give up. We will succeed. I'm cheering for you!*
    Have a great day! đŸ–€

  • @ThatMedic
    @ThatMedic Pƙed 3 lety +35

    It’s the sunglasses for me 😎😎 loved your interpretation of confidence - I filmed video with this title last week! I agree confidence comes from being good at things, whether it be sport, speaking, academia etc. If you practice your craft, youll build confidence

    • @AnasNuurAli
      @AnasNuurAli  Pƙed 3 lety +10

      I appreciate that. Topic is definitely more nuanced I decided to focus on just a small bit o it

  • @harigowre
    @harigowre Pƙed 3 lety +26

    I’ve struggled with confidence for a while and I realised the biggest issue for me Was the ‘spotlight effect’. After being aware of this I’ve come far in terms in my own self image and self confident. As always, banging video Anas.

  • @cryptoflippodcast
    @cryptoflippodcast Pƙed 3 lety +54

    I became more confident when i stepped out of my comfort zone regularly
    *Let me know if you can relate* 😅😅

  • @MahisaTV
    @MahisaTV Pƙed 3 lety +12

    Confidence is being content with what you have.

  • @AmanManazir
    @AmanManazir Pƙed 3 lety +109

    "how to become confident" - just start a successful youtube channel while also becoming a doctor

  • @lendrestapas2505
    @lendrestapas2505 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    confidence is trial and error, you gotta get a mindset that tells you that the opinions of others don't matter (of course not every opinion should be denied) and then try to live it out, externalize it. And you will become better at this over time. It's similar to weightlifting if you think about it.

    • @khobzabatata7100
      @khobzabatata7100 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Which is why activities such as weightlifting and other things build your confidence cos they teach you skills that become apparent in your personality. Honestly for A man all you need is lowkey a gym and ur confidence can skyrocket. Anything in the mind and soul that can be built up will increase general.confidence

  • @thetunani7235
    @thetunani7235 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    A beautiful mixture of comforting and inspiring (the music selections were on point).

  • @ahmed.10
    @ahmed.10 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    mashallah the quality and level of incite on ur vids is mad akhi. A lot of youtubers its all abt aesthetics with 0 meaning. But u on the other hand provide a lot of substance and aesthetics too. profound and well scripted what u said.
    quality vid lad

  • @GigaBeanZ
    @GigaBeanZ Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Yes! My insecurities were what's stopping me from being confident so I worked on those. Like my language barrier back when I moved here to Canada. By talking more in the language and immersing myself, as my pronunciation got better so did my confidence in speaking it! Definitely applicable in any aspect as you perfectly explained

  • @boba9869
    @boba9869 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    I never needed this video more than now

    • @kyf_
      @kyf_ Pƙed 3 lety

      Same

  • @_-_-_-_-__--_-_-_
    @_-_-_-_-__--_-_-_ Pƙed 3 lety +17

    love ur content keep grinding bro

    • @anasgamer9750
      @anasgamer9750 Pƙed 3 lety

      Support me bro 😅😅😅

  • @031ayshamk8
    @031ayshamk8 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    You've been making many lives evolve since you started this yt channel đŸ˜đŸ’«

  • @sislam9633
    @sislam9633 Pƙed 3 lety +14

    From 'Sir can please go to the toilet' to 'yo ima head out, be back real quick'

  • @aruhasanesa
    @aruhasanesa Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I would reward you with a warm hug đŸ„șđŸ„° for making us better our lives because of your informative videos. Haven't met a quiet, yet humble person like you in this platform.

    • @Light-cy1gp
      @Light-cy1gp Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Muslims from the UK are like that 😊

  • @abhirgokhale7608
    @abhirgokhale7608 Pƙed 3 lety

    Most other channels would just list down things like they're saying a speech but the way you explain it deeply in simpler words is what make this channel and Anas unique and awesome

  • @msamedic
    @msamedic Pƙed 3 lety +4

    *“If you fulfill your obligations everyday you don't need to worry about the future.”*
    ― Jordan Peterson

  • @smersmer1855
    @smersmer1855 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I actually really needed this video... been feeling kinda inadequate lately, and having problems with imposter syndrome. Thanks, Anas :)

  • @allanhoang7557
    @allanhoang7557 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    Your energy is great man. Always glad to click this video and get inspired. Keep up the good work Anas!

  • @IshaSharma11
    @IshaSharma11 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    This video is so worthful to watch

  • @yohansenurga4044
    @yohansenurga4044 Pƙed 3 lety

    Core moral lesson: Practice makes perfect, so please just continue doing what you love consistently.

  • @khobzabatata7100
    @khobzabatata7100 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Who else sees this video as being posted at the perfect time for them?

  • @rafiamajeed2003
    @rafiamajeed2003 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I just love the way you talk .....can listen to you for hours all together ❀......the flow in your speech is sooo good.
    Thank you !

  • @domazwellington3589
    @domazwellington3589 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    I’m is Wisconsin,USA, and I appreciate your channel. Blessings always🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿😎😎

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan Pƙed 3 lety +11

    *Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart."*
    The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* đŸ–€

  • @ahmadgachi8179
    @ahmadgachi8179 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Amazing video as always Anas and congrats on 250k!

  • @tonyherring7382
    @tonyherring7382 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    My man had a whole glow up😎

  • @LOLytchanel
    @LOLytchanel Pƙed 3 lety +3

    Another top quality video from you. So nice to watch

  • @MaxwellChan0
    @MaxwellChan0 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Got so much value and I even feel more confident watching this video!

  • @amorr_fatii
    @amorr_fatii Pƙed 3 lety +5

    The timing thođŸŒžđŸ‘đŸœ

  • @shougaman2384
    @shougaman2384 Pƙed 3 lety

    I just moved to the UK from Sweden at the age of 15 and I am Eritrean as well

  • @TheMrsar28
    @TheMrsar28 Pƙed 3 lety

    For me confidence is not being influenced by external factors and doing something because you WANT to do it rather than what people want you to do.

  • @yumnautim4176
    @yumnautim4176 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Heya Anas .. that was the perfect timing for dropping this video .. I was losing confidence .. but this truly boosted me.
    I am going to prioritise my academics and my health as for now.
    Thanks man 💯

  • @kazi21029
    @kazi21029 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    Consistency đŸ”„

  • @atashahroudi188
    @atashahroudi188 Pƙed 3 lety

    This video was better than all videos that I've watched in YT. Very helpful.

  • @MohamedOmar-zg2lf
    @MohamedOmar-zg2lf Pƙed 3 lety +1

    We appreciate what your doing, honestly

  • @felixtobias3307
    @felixtobias3307 Pƙed 3 lety

    I moved from Asia to Europe, this was a huge change for me... it was not the first time that i moved to another place tho!

  • @evedaemen9730
    @evedaemen9730 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Really like your videos! Just created my own channel, and am filming my first video as we speak. You have inspired me. Keep it up đŸ’ȘđŸŒ

  • @dand-yo
    @dand-yo Pƙed 3 lety

    I have been following Anas for a while now since I became a CZcamsr myself and this is a deep insight on confidence..I need to put in the 10,000 hours if I really want to get to that level..Thanks for sharing your knowledge and wisdom bro 🙏

  • @mohamedsadig6754
    @mohamedsadig6754 Pƙed rokem

    Extremely informative and well put Ideas that speaks to many.

  • @yaaagyeman2789
    @yaaagyeman2789 Pƙed 3 lety

    Being confident takes a lot. People don't realise it. You have to learn to not absorb everyone's opinion of you. And realise people react based on how they feel. Getting out of your confort zone you have to be okay with rejection. And even when you think you may have mastered it another thing will hit. Either you let it sway you or you keep going.

  • @ik60
    @ik60 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Now i will become confident after watching this and be able to climb trees

  • @nordousbarhe6396
    @nordousbarhe6396 Pƙed 3 lety

    You are one of my favorite CZcamsrs. I learn so much from you

  • @sinemcelcius
    @sinemcelcius Pƙed 3 lety

    Hey Anas, thanks for another motivating video-as Ali Abdaal quotes from someone,
    "What is obvious to you, can be amazing to others."
    These kind of vids really help some people!

  • @user-tr4mx6mm9l
    @user-tr4mx6mm9l Pƙed 3 lety

    Sorry for the irrelevant comment Dr Ali... Studying by default is really one of the hardest thing for me. It would be real nice if you do Video explaining on this topic. Thank you very much in advance if you do : )

  • @sabirinahmedali176
    @sabirinahmedali176 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Hey you have helped me so much and now I am a new and improved person

  • @mirchimed3702
    @mirchimed3702 Pƙed 3 lety

    You are my favourite inspirational person brother ....love from INDIA ✈PHILIPPINES MEDICO

  • @shahadmamalchi4086
    @shahadmamalchi4086 Pƙed 3 lety

    This video deserves so much more hype, love, & all that. its amazing. you articulate yourself so well Anas! using some of your quotes for my next episode about confidence vs ego & why we care so much about what people think about us.. :)

  • @KatechivonRuskamafia
    @KatechivonRuskamafia Pƙed 3 lety +5

    I have a problem with prioritise part. There are so many activities I like doing and I can't focus on just one of them. Because of that I know so many things but I'm not an expert in anything and that makes me feel worthless.

  • @samir2379
    @samir2379 Pƙed 3 lety

    I just want to thank you for the kind of videos you made. thanks!

  • @aimz2912
    @aimz2912 Pƙed 3 lety

    Thankyou. I really need to hear this. To be honest I was on the verge of losing myself recently..I was in what you mentioned a lie of 'i have no ability' resulting from unfair comparison. As you mentioned Mozart had a musical background so for him to adapt to music was perhaps a more natural transition. You see I also shifted countries as you mentioned and although I am normally a confident and social person..those aspects of mine began to shut down when people were no longer interacting in the same language as me (not literally) I disregarded my own abilities and began to chase what they had (fit in survival instinct kicked in) until a lot of unfair comparison and injustic to myself led me to believe I did not have any worthwhile abilities. It took me time to recognise that the field was never plane...my learning gap was a lot larger there was no way I could fill it in the same speed and same way as everyone else. So I decided to be human! and I am glad I did because I can breath again without feeling like I am falling behind. I have decided to flex my muscles at the back of the pack until I work my way up to the top. Everyone starts from zero right? The ability to learn means we can bridge the gaps and self-confidence is a part of the journey.

  • @ArianneInsauriga
    @ArianneInsauriga Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Great video! All my thoughts were deciphered by this video đŸ‘đŸœ

  • @Bijits2510
    @Bijits2510 Pƙed 3 lety

    Back at your very best with this video...didn’t enjoy the last coupe of videos that you had put out; but this one is just too good bro. Thanks for sharing this with us.

  • @divinemindset2042
    @divinemindset2042 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Absolutely amazing content seriously keep up the good work man 🙏

  • @promi9526
    @promi9526 Pƙed rokem

    Thank you, this really helped me.

  • @rinadnasser1271
    @rinadnasser1271 Pƙed 3 lety

    ÙŰŻÙŠÙˆ Ù…Ű­ÙŰČ ŰŹŰŻŰ§ Ù…Ű§ŰŽŰ§ŰĄ Ű§Ù„Ù„Ù‡ ŰŽÙƒŰ±Ű§ لك .

  • @zeroitedono2547
    @zeroitedono2547 Pƙed 3 lety

    Thank you man I was struggling with confidence especially in regards to A levels, I am finding the content alright/interesting but for some reason I keep holding myself back that I can't do it in my heart it feels like there is internal resistance and a hole in my heart..

  • @khushbooJahanRiaz
    @khushbooJahanRiaz Pƙed 3 lety

    MaaShaaAllaah MaaShaaAllaah Laa Quwwata illaah billaah â˜đŸŒâ˜đŸŒâ˜đŸŒâ˜đŸŒâ˜đŸŒ

  • @FaisalJamshaid
    @FaisalJamshaid Pƙed 3 lety

    Smashed it Anas, congrats on 250k too!

  • @No1superjuicey
    @No1superjuicey Pƙed 3 lety

    Why haven't you got more likes for this video!!!
    So informative

  • @motoshox
    @motoshox Pƙed 3 lety

    The truth resonates.

  • @aminamohamed9439
    @aminamohamed9439 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Absolutely loved this... I liked it before even watching it😂

    • @kyf_
      @kyf_ Pƙed 3 lety +1

      same!

  • @mikeyllo
    @mikeyllo Pƙed 3 lety

    Sir Anas, anyone who has that hair is going to already have a leg up in the race to being confident. 😊 You do make some good points here, which is why one-to-one comparisons of our experiences aren't necessarily fair. We have to grow and develop the things we want with the hand circumstances and resources we have access to.

  • @suleimanjama3153
    @suleimanjama3153 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    great youtuber wallahi

  • @naseramahmood8624
    @naseramahmood8624 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Good job

  • @ronyrons6655
    @ronyrons6655 Pƙed 3 lety

    Thanks very must for the video
    Imma be watching this again as find this video really helpful for me.

  • @hudhudemad2932
    @hudhudemad2932 Pƙed 3 lety

    OMGGG , you are amaziiing ♄♄♄
    Thanks a lot for saying thattt

  • @ginogg3477
    @ginogg3477 Pƙed 3 lety

    Fet video brorsan big ups 🙌🙌

  • @khobzabatata7100
    @khobzabatata7100 Pƙed 3 lety

    The confidence in the title you already know it's a banger

  • @rohanchopraa
    @rohanchopraa Pƙed 3 lety

    Ur the goat anas keep going strong đŸ’Ș. Btw loved the vid

  • @nourgalal9603
    @nourgalal9603 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Love your vids! I miss day in life can you please make more!! :)))

  • @abdulabbas3487
    @abdulabbas3487 Pƙed 3 lety

    Awesome video Anas. I've been thinking of making a very similar video and this popped up! Keep it up man

  • @hyabhh7027
    @hyabhh7027 Pƙed 3 lety

    Love you my boy and keep doing as makes you happier

  • @Tietoo
    @Tietoo Pƙed 3 lety

    250k subs, Congrats my guy!

  • @shan601
    @shan601 Pƙed 3 lety

    Thanks for this, struggling with confidence right now. Nice wardrobe btw

  • @yathprem
    @yathprem Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Love this, resonated with this âšĄïž

  • @MannyRataul
    @MannyRataul Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Great video man!

    • @MannyRataul
      @MannyRataul Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @Gonçalo SimÔes Anas posted something similar on his IG story yesterday so I was looking forward to this topic.

  • @improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219

    1. We are all human.
    2. Prioritize your purpose.

  • @christopherbrook9361
    @christopherbrook9361 Pƙed 3 lety

    You should write a book.. you are so interesting to listen too..

  • @carlosguerreromedina9470
    @carlosguerreromedina9470 Pƙed 3 lety

    Thank you do much

  • @safaajb3250
    @safaajb3250 Pƙed 3 lety

    I literally found it in good time thank you ~

  • @waleedahmed1725
    @waleedahmed1725 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Have you read Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell? The thing you said about Mozart's circumstances and 10,000 hours is mentioned in that book with examples of other successful people (The Beatles, BIll Gates, Steve Jobs, etc.)

    • @franciscocolin2008
      @franciscocolin2008 Pƙed 3 lety

      The Beatles released 13 studio albums and other projects in 7 years. Seven freaking years! Mind blowing. I think that rule only works when you do it in a short period of time like The Beatles timeline.

  • @sailormoonfan300
    @sailormoonfan300 Pƙed 3 lety

    You are such an inspiration

  • @shakoe1943
    @shakoe1943 Pƙed 3 lety

    Love it! Also you’re so eloquent:)

  • @bk_vlogz23
    @bk_vlogz23 Pƙed 3 lety

    Bro!!! You are an inspirational

  • @Linda_Clerc
    @Linda_Clerc Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I love your content 😁

  • @twinstar6247
    @twinstar6247 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Every Comment is Hearted! 💖😍

  • @user-tr4mx6mm9l
    @user-tr4mx6mm9l Pƙed 3 lety

    Tysm for all of this 😱🙏

  • @chzhsea
    @chzhsea Pƙed 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing your story 🙂

  • @takiyashir8712
    @takiyashir8712 Pƙed 3 lety

    Where are you brother? Long time no upload đŸ˜„đŸ˜„đŸ˜„đŸ˜„đŸ˜„
    Learnt so many things from you... Wanna learn more

  • @FarzanasLaw
    @FarzanasLaw Pƙed 3 lety +1

    SO INSPIRATIONAL :)

  • @JoyaKMA
    @JoyaKMA Pƙed 3 lety

    To be honest all I want know is how you changed your hair texture? Drop the hair care routine