How To Handle Insults 😠
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- čas přidán 19. 02. 2022
- How to shut down insults without losing your cool #JonahHill #insults
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@@yuhh.a.m.p don't use it then 🤡
@@yuhh.a.m.p agree me too it was just a waste of time
I did the questions and gave my email and nothing showed up, does this mean I have zero charisma? Lol
jonah doesn’t deserve this
Lot of people talk like that to him. He points it out
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No one does.
It’s a skit bro
He 100 percent does
"you smell nice, which is surprising"
"Thanks, you stink like a rotten egg"
😁👏
Good one!
How about, "That's nice, YOU smell like a monkey's butt."
Dude hes being fatphobic
Same
Yes this is the best way, just forget that stupid video
To Jimmy: So you're an actual human? That's surprising.
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"Your a talk show host? That's surprising"
He should had talk about his fake laugh, how rude is to invite a talented actor to your show and then try to humiliate him like this
Nah. More like "your wife said the same. You must have simillar taste"
I remember seeing this interview, I was like wtf
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Yeah, IDK but I remeber seeing several interviews a few years ago in which this guy was being overly insulted and reacting to it in a way that the entire thing was hard to tell if it was just for comedic affect and he was in on it or if it just happened to be a bunch of people being shitty to him. Dealing with overt insults might just be part of his interview persona or it's a gag people play on him in interviews that he isn't in on and doesn't like.
@@chrisk6668 I know the one interview with him and Michael Cera (his co-star from Superbad) was a skit. The others I think people were really just awful to him, which is so disappointing. 😕 Jonah is such a talented person and so funny.
These are faked for entertainment purposes obviously because you know there's a fucking camera right there why would Kimmel want be really mean with cameras there and millions watching unless it was for entertainment
He's a little sensitive...
You forgot to explain what to do if the person plays dumb and acts like you're overreacting and laughs at you more.
the fact that this happens so much scares me
Always happens to me. I wanna beat tf outta them but if i did, they'd call me the wrong anyway. Society.
Same issue which made me really introverted
@SNES Soundtracks saying alright with a kind of disgusted look on my face normally does the job lol. makes them look goofy.
Say absolutely nothing ..... and just stare at them.
Stupidity doesn't "deserve" a response. 🙄
Conan O'Brien wouldn't say something like that.
He'd probably ask what kind it is and ask for some, but the best talk show host who makes his guests feel great about themselves was Creig Ferguson "Hey WOW YOU LOOK GORGEOUS" lol
@@sethredmond3421 I would also add Graham Norton. His guests always seems relaxed and comfortable.
@@JohnSmith-rw6vo Matt Damon once said on the Graham Norton Show that it was the most fun he's ever had at a talk show!
@@JohnSmith-rw6vo I think the alcohol also helps
How can ‘you smell nice, which is surprising’ be anything but insulting? What was going through JK’s mind when he said that right out the gate?
Because he’s saying “I thought you’d be stinky” most likely also taking a dig at his looks
Jonathan Ross said to Russel Brand in an interview he looks like he needs a bath, he took it well it's just a joke
@@orangemaniabrother2232 This is what I was about to say, it's all about if the person can take a joke or not. If the person is sensitive probably best not to make a joke like this
It's a pretty common way to joke with a friend imo but if they aren't friends maybe jonah took it as an insult
If you don’t know the person personally you don’t make a joke at all about that person unless you are okay with any consequences that arise after. The common sense required is so minimal it hurts my brain fathoming the capable ignorance of ppl. It’s just shitty humans beings being shitty humans. They breed, raise, and make more shitty humans. It’s so unfortunate.
Step 1: Keep calm and let Will Smith handle the situation
Done
Just assume he is in the audience
I Love Jonah' s vulnerability mixed with assertiveness 🙏he handled himself with grace.
“Fuck off” works like a charm
Perfect example , Kimmel is the male Ellen. Mean and insulting.
Just look them dead in the eye and say nothing
Cool.
I wish I could do that..my usual mind set is, I wanna get out of here and as far away from this v annoying person as possible. And then I continue to stand with them, smiling at their nonsense. 😥
I love doing that and I have a natural pissed face so everyone is scared of me😂
@@esthellakomerl8084 that might be fear of confrontation, i used to have that. Get told horrible things and act as if it didnt happen and continue to follow around, at one point i noticed they knew my behavior quite well and took advantage of it by making me the topic of discussion in large crowds or to avoid uncomfortable silence use me as a joke knowing i wouldnt say shit. Now... i say whatever tf i want without fear because I learned that the only way to get hit is if you respond this way to begin with, they hurt you with words hurt them with even more painful words if they hit you well you know what to do soldier... hope this helped anyone. Be strong. Dont look down.
Fax never lower your self respect
“You smell nice … Which is surprising “
“Well that compliment kind of stinks”
Basically "u look like u smell bad"
"They might not know they insulted you"
The Rihanna way : WHAT
Rihanna's way - 'Now you can't come at me with an outfit like that. I mean please.'
As someone who struggles with social cues, following these tips is absurdly difficult.
As soon as bro laughed after he pretty much said you just hurt my feelings imma straight up stand up and leave
Damn diva
@@XRyanK what
@@LucrativePerson I said that's diva behaviour
@@XRyanK that a Pokémon or some shit
@@LucrativePerson lmfao dw man
now this is how you should talk against a bully
Or beat the shit outta them🤷♂️😂
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Yeah, because noodle arms Tim is gonna beat Star QB Denzel in a fight.
Will Smith needed to see this
What would that do? Both gentemen minded it.
More like his wife. She is what sent him off.
The one guy who needed Will's slap.
JK: Well you smell nice, which is surprising!
JH: Well I'm surprised you're still on the air 🙃
Step 1: Take Dump. Step 2: Exit Classroom
And so adorable I love him he's so funny and like he's so slick with his words like he's hilarious he's the best ever
Me an introvert: _Just walks away_
Well i don't react but always notice and keep in mind.
When people try to insult me i usually laugh or if they arent a friend i play dumb. Making them explain themselves always gets them embarrassed
Mans didn’t deserve this.
So there are instances where you do deserve it?
Poor guy. You can tell it gets to him, or has gotten to him, and he's just ready to stand up for himself, and respectfully demand the same respect he shows to others. He deserves it.
I'm from Boston. We handle it with a punch in the mouth. Usually works.
Why is this man a host and I'm not?😂 Like what are the needed skills?
1. No personality
2. No soul
3. No morality
4. Basic cognitive function (optional)
@@raiisleep ahahahah I love this
@@Bea-yh9hy No skills required, just be a millionaire and you're set to go
@@raiisleep, and knows high school level English.
People to know who tf you are.
The right comeback wouldve been "thanks, and you stink more than i expected".
Right, I'm surprised he got so serious and didn't just brush it off with a comeback.
@@ArcadeFires Everyone has a limit, as you can see this was when he lost a lot of weight probably trying to escape from being the fat guy punching bag so this was him shutting it down as a new person.
That is because Jonah is an absolute champion 🤙🍻🤙🍻
Wow, Jonah OWNED that moment flawlessly
Honestly, just don't take it seriously and make a joke back. People want to know they affected you because it validates them, so don't give it to them. Even if you gotta say something like "i knew you'd like it, it is your mom's perfume after all". Hahaha
100000%
This is the best answer. You just look butthurt and sensititive the other way
He stayed cool and collected, that’s a serious skill
Oh youtube algorithms, i see what you did there
“Thanks, I wish I could say the same”
It’s sad that I thought to myself to save this for later, as if I get insulted all the time lol
This is good, but also flawed. What you should do is get rid of all three steps, and replace them with 1 step. That 1 step being "roundhouse kick them"
Its just an insult man
@@intergalacticspaghetti5213 and they need to be corrected for their insolence with a roundhouse kick to the face
@@CrusadingBacon167 cobra kai be like
ROAD HOUSE
Toast house
Jonas is my favorite actors, he miss rarely and provide amazing acting
Jonah just takes everything to heart
I usually just directly ask them if that helped boost their self-esteem a little? And then smile.
really mature response. I love it
Cringe af
@@ArcDevErik Then again you could just sock 'em in the fuckin mouth.
Sigma rule: Insult them back that bad they never try to insult you again.
Stop with this Sigma thing is toxic af, we should create a less toxic society
A "sigma" wouldn't give a shit about an insult, stop using this cringe terminology and get with the real world.
Orrrrrrrr - "Is this an interview or an Irish Spring commercial, Jimmy?"
Water off a ducks back, Jonahs the man 👌🏻
Jonah is awesome. To this day the funniest movie I’ve ever seen in an actual theatre is still Superbad, hands down. I went with a group of friends, we all got super baked right before and I literally laughed so hard that I cried like 10 times haha epic movie. The dude is hilarious.
I never thought Jimmy was rude!
I'm actually happy for Jonah taking care of himself. We need more funny people to be in this world. And hopefully be around for a long time.. 👋👋👍👍
Taking himself too seriously and being so insecure he can't take a joke is not a good thing.
I just tell them they insulted me then I t pose to show dominance
To Jimmy: how long have you been a puppet
Since the day he left the Man show
that's just.. basic communication?
this feels like watching a tutorial on how to eat yogurt with a spoon
I thought it was a fork....
This is more of a guideline for people to follow or keep some steps in mind who don’t know how to defend themselves
this is useful information to some people. i didn’t know this because i’m autistic LMAO
It’s all common sense until you panic when it happens to you in front of other people.
You'd be surprised. Emotions control people like green lights.
Yeah, maybe it seems so, but there are a few people on this world, who can't understand, or have problems with basic communication. CZcams is not only made for your level of standarts and skills. Think about it pls. :)
Jonah brothers is the real homie
Jonah is a smooth dude. He really upped his game.
Maybe Jimmy was expecting Jonah to smell like weed and cheeseburgers 🤷♂️.
That’s what I expect. …and BO. Fat people sweat a lot. Everyone knows that. Jonah is just a lil bitch.
🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣
True truth, I actually can see that 😂
"You smell good which is surprising"
"Your right it is surprising anyone could smell me over your overwhelming odor. Or is that just the smell your show makes?"
That's what u call escalating a situation
@@prafulyadav661 escalators are fun.
Lame and too try hard
4 different types of charisma
Deception
Intimidation
Performance
Persuasion
When you get old, you don't care anymore 😆
Yeah he did a good job
Or hit them back with a joke like: “oh yea thanks, I used a fragrance you didn’t recommend”
I have so much respect for jonah, he's not taking shit anymore.
Jonah appears to be a well grounded smart man. He shows them in the most classy way he is better than all of them!!!
"You've awaken the demon inside me.."
That what i said
my timbers…. they’re shivering
Giga cringe
Both are as funny as a root canal.
Hahahaha 🦷 hahahah 🦷 hahahah 🦷 haha
Jonah is very underrated actor and person. I suggest to watch his good roles
Proud of Jonah. Just the physical progress he’s done since “War Dogs” is amazing. Keep at it and remain strong!👍👍👏👏
It’s better than Joe Biden’s introduction: “You smell nice, exactly as I imagined you would”
This made me laugh tnx!
Best way is to laugh at yourself and make others laugh, have a great comeback. Being touchy n easily insulted is an irritating character flaw
@@LuckyMe24-7 what you are seeing is Jonah’s lizard brain thinking he is in danger or threatened when he is not. Jonah has trauma that has given him insecurity and this was his brain attempting to protect his ego. His fight or flight mechanism is messed up. So yes he got insulted but that doesn’t mean that Jimmy was insulting. Especially when Jonah is wearing a style that is called “dirt core” lol
Jonah was on Howard stern and talked about this. He said he later emailed Jimmy saying he thought that was fucked up and he doesn’t have to come on Jimmys show at all. Then Jimmy gave some bullshit apology
The "I have a bomb" line always works
You’re wrong. I *do* want to escalate a situation with someone who had good intentions. They need to learn how they shouldn’t talk to people.
Using jonah hill for this doesnt work. These are the things that make me dislike jonah hill. He takes himself way too seriously and you can tell the guy cant laugh at himself
FUCKING THANK YOU!!!!! About time someone that actually follows this shit shares an educated opinion. I’ve seen tons of interviews with Jonah and you nailed it, he takes himself too seriously and can NEVER laugh at himself. He’s a lil bitch.
Me, an intellectual: starts laughing and instead of firing back insults himself even more
Thank you...I though I was alone here.
Jonah, what a classy response. Love it
Jimmy : You smell nice, which is surprising.
Me : Why ? Most of the times your nose doesn't work or something ?
Some random guy : "you smell good that's surprising"
Chad : that's what your mom said the night you were made
_3 black teens hyping up GIF_
Mfn reddit, 4chan using dweeb
Exaggerated swagger
Two sentences makes it harder to not take it as targeted insult.
Jonah seems very nice. I hate when toxics take advantage of nice people and mistreat them thinking they won't defend themselves. I wouldn't have been so nice. I would have left. There's no way the interviewer said that with any good intentions. But Jonah responded very well.👌🏼
"nice insult, but i sure dont care!"
Pretty sure show hosts never really have good intentions, all they really care for are how their guests perceive them and the ratings.
Congratulations you have earned +1 charisma 👏 👏 👏
Also something else I have noticed. If the person doesn't have good intentions and really just wants to hurt you or get a rise out of you or is just purely in a bad mood and wants to take it out on someone else. Just try being as nice as possible, don't let their insults get under your skin. Say stuff like thank you and ask how their day is going. If you just treat their toxicity with kindness it really throws them off and their not sure what to do and a lot of the time they'll stop trying to be so mean.
Too bad that didn't work with my ex...
if you're following a video for how to handle insults there's 100% a good reason for why you're being insulted
why?
ok greg
@@normalperson9817 you're not likely to remember this video. even if you do, there's a chance they'll just insult you again. people don't insult to be witty, they insult to show confidence. you watching vids for charisma is a good sign of lacking confidence
Damn Greg some of us are just shy
@@casachica yeah man sorry I'm shy too I just self deprecate for insults idk to me it's better to be loved out of pity than feared
I don't take insults from my friends seriously. If you do take em seriously you are too dramatic for me and too much of a little girl
Sexist detected
@@lilshmet4167 just cos of that one metaphor, ok
@@kandam5517 I mean, yeah
Maybe you are just blind to differentiate 🙂
@@lilshmet4167 racist detected
Tip: When you are insulted , start the question with "What?"
Repeat it like you don't understand it.
Love this tip!
This was actually weak. Jimmy asked him that because Jonah typically responds weakly.
Is the world better place if we make the other person feel bad by pointing their mistake out?
"sometimes the strongest thing a man can do is remain silent through ignorance"
It's funny that you are using this as an example of how to handle the situation. Jonah showed himself to be very insecure when confronted with what was clearly a joke. Instead of ignoring it and laughing it off, he awkwardly addresses the joke as if it were a genuine comment. He seems not only insecure about his weight, but apparently about being a smelly slob as well. He reminds me of a child that gets teased simply for having such a strong reaction to getting teased. Most people learn as children not to overreact to people teasing you, or they will continue to do it even more. Johah may have autism though, so i shouldn't be too harsh.
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People are allowed to be offended if they don't like a joke, it doesn't always mean they are insecure. I've been teased and bullied my entire life for my weight, and I'll be the first one to make a self deprecating joke about it, but that doesn't mean I don't get offended every once in a while. Quit trying to police the emotions of someone you don't know.
@@donjonson6407 “I’m just simply stating 🤓”
Delivery plays a huge part in a joke/comment and the way it was delivered here was pretty damn awful. It didn't even sound like a joke that's what the issue was. Kimmel should've done better than that if he wanted to make a joke about it.
No just don’t get offended, that’s how u take an insult. 😅
Jonah's my hero man. I wish he could drop some knowledge on his fans. I been following him since before knocked up
Jimmy is great at taking little subtle passive aggressive shots at people from the few clips I've seen.. who even watches this late night shows anymore ? 😆
You’re a king!
The best way too shut someone up is by drop kicking them in the head then telling them too shut up. Works like a charm
Such a nice guy
Someone: insults me online
Me: remembers this and gives them a confused look
*REALISES*
"Thanks. Yea, I'm in the process of changing that image. From now on, I'm smelling GOOD."
Tried this with a bully, he punched me.
10/10 would not take this advice
He classes him out so hard
Did this, and literally had them ask if I was stupid because if I wasn't insulted, I didn't understand them. Some people have no chill. Glad I'm never seeing them again.