What is the equivalent of getting flowers for guy ?
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So what I've gathered is there are 3 types of guys: the sex related guys, the food related guys, and the mad simple everyday chores related guys. Did I miss anything? Lol
you are on point
Yep we're really complicated.
It's kinda cool it boils down to the love languages too. Food = gifts, sex = physical touch, chores = acts of service
@@rachellotus5137 verryyyy true
4 there's 1% that wants flowers
*taking notes* Sooooooo food, sex, chores, and flowers but not flowers if he’s allergic. Got it!
Nooo noooo noo no only foood
This basically sounds like a list of what housewives offered.
I honestly don't think the sex counts because women can want sex too. I'm thinking the guys that said that are just hornier than their gf.
Hey ;)
@@tharcisse7103 most men want the qualities of a traditional housewife in their woman
aweee the guy who said flowers he was adorable 🥺!!
He must be gay
It's what all of them should have said...
I've given flowers to my boyfriend and he loved it
@@Jakob_23 dont assume some one's sexuality based on whatever they like flowers or not, thats just stupid
@@Jakob_23 straight guys can like flowers too. I mean I don't understand how someone wouldn't find flowers pretty
Newlyweds: "Food or sex."
20+ years marriage: "For you to leave me the hell alone and stop putting your shit in my sink."
😂😂😂 killed me
Lol, Not married but in a relationship for a long time, and this made me think of the "Why are you on my side of the bed? I have no blankets.."
😂😂😂😂😂
"We'd rather just have our girlgirlfriend" or... hm.. "pictures of us together"
I mean come on! How adorable was that?? 🥰👼
Yep seemed like a very sweet guy.
😆
The girl insisted but the guy said chicken nuggets at first which is the best answer
i mean she pressed him until he gave an answer she wanted or accepted so its more than likely the first one he gave then the rest was just to appease her.
He’s such a romantic ❤️
HOT TIP: the answers vary widely because it's about *love languages,* not flowers! Look up the five love languages and thank me later. The guys who said food or flowers? *Gifts* love language. The guys who said boobs? *Physical touch* love language! The ones who said "laundry put away" or the like? *Acts of service!* When you think of it like that, you've got endless options from one answer! xoxo
I mean true cause I legit live on physical touch but also you could get me a smoothie and I'd be happy lol.
Watch out, somebody giving out solid relationship tips y'all.
@@mikayladouglas2503 - Yep, most people have a primary love language, but also a secondary and even a third one! There are usually 2-3 of the 5 though that just don't mean much to you.
Excellent point. Didn't think of it that way before 👍
100 percent.
Back scratches ladies, we love back scratches.
This is true 🤣
I thought I was the only one.... 🤯
Women do too right?
@@playdoug12 100%
back scratches or back tickles?
For me it's when my wife does that little bit extra. Like I asked her to make me some scrambled eggs for breakfast while I was getting ready for work. All I asked was for just simple plain scrambled eggs. But she made me an omelette with butter, cheese, and green onions.
That s the shit there man makes you want to break records at work 😂😂
So cute
That sounds mad good
That's so wholesome, and honestly as a guy when that happens it makes you want to then conquer the whole goddamn world for her in return
My wife got me a Bouquet of beef jerky shaped as flowers for Valentines Day loved them. Me and my 2 year old son ate them all.
Solid answer lol
Was looking for someone to mention the jerky to be able to bring up the beef bouquet 😂
The guy who said back tickles was so wholesome
He said chicken nuggets and she kept asking til she got an answer she wanted 😂😅 he don’t want them damn pics he wants NUGGETS 😂❤️
That was so whole some And yeah nuggets is a good option I think
Bring that man some nuggets lmao!
She asked “what’s a cheap gift?” As if flowers are a cheap gift lol.
I was down for Chicken nuggets.
@@verticalsorh7124 flowers are $15-$20. Cheaper if you go to Trader's Joe or Whole Foods.
C'mon now, it's a videogame. The equivalent to flowers is a videogame.
Well that's equivalent to a fckin diamond ring😂😂
My husband isn’t a gamer so no it’s not a video game
@J Kaur
Flowers can be just as expensive as a video game. If your getting a dozen Red Roses that's easily $30 - 40 depending on where you get them.
The Diamond ring is the equivalent of like a big TV or the gaming console itself.
@@cryhwks If you have a bulk club membership such as Costco, BJ's, or Sam's Club, you could get a good deal on floral arrangements. Costco sells 2 dozen rose bouquets for like $20. Online is even better because they offer 50 roses for like $40, it's just a gamble as to how they'll look when they arrive
@@Jk-nw2ke a game cost 60$ or less how the hell you throw a diamond ring.
My husband loves KitKats, I’ll bring him one home every now and then 😂
🤫ur hubby is a baby🤫🤫
Love each other till the end💛
I'm a woman and I would take a Kit Kat over flowers any day
Good wifey ❤️
I agree a slushee is def the equivalent of flowers and I’m a girl
Shoot I would rather have a slushie too or a plant that's actually alive over than flowers XD and I'm a girl
I want a man who gives me both 😋
For me it's the beef jerky haha
Slushie is great 😍
Yeah f*ck flowers tbh 😂
As a guy I couldnt give more fucks about what I get, as long as my gf got it for me because she cares. It could be a kitkat, a new hoodie, extra cuddles, really doesnt matter as long as its given with good will and love, the cost of it or the "price" for it, has no meaning, the thought is all that matters
Your g/f is a lucky lady, that’s all I can say to this wonderful statement!
I wish there was more men like you.
Indeed
@@droolpuppy1398 Trust me, as a man myself, this is really all it takes to make most of us happy
get u a guy that says "i like flowers too"
You can have that one I like the gamer cutie who just wants his laundry put away 😁
@पप्पू गांधी I've been a woman for 25 years now and trust me, we like the rare flower kind
That's not a guy that's a woman guys like food and sex and peace that's it
@@youceftobi8336 oh yeah food sex and peace the three flavors of #men TM
@उदित्य त्यागी The thought that counts. No women nor men know what to do with bouquet after receiving. We have to toss it to trash anyway. I have had a close friend who hid roses his girlfriend gave him in notebooks mumified with chocolate wrappers, bus tickets and stuff. They are married and he is great father. Other friend who is a Christian turned his wedding bouquet into dry flowers and made a photo frame. Men are not same witht their guy friends vs girl friends. So lets not tag people without knowing their history. If they like flowers let them choose who they want to be relationships.
A 4 FOR 4 FROM WENDY'S. YES.
"Do women give men anything?" Omg I'm dead but it's true!
I get him, chocolates, foods, cakes, hoodies, shoes, socks, pens, drinks, fruits, candies as gifts. For his Birthday, I would ask what he wants because i am not here to guess what you like and want to get you got. Nope, his love language is not receiving gifts, I just love to spoil the people I love. I mean who does not love getting gifts😂. Mine is quality time and his is words of affirmation.
Poor guy lol I give my boyfriend gifts
@@wellknown1204 I think you gave me the answer to what I should give as a gift to a man xd lmfao
@@wellknown1204 as a woman I appreciate this comment 🙂
@@wellknown1204 r u white?
Asked my bf and he said he'll take an "I love you" and a good breakfast lmaooo
Nice relationship XDDDDD
The boyfriends that also wanted flowers 😍
Good luck finding them lol
Why is this a good answer I'm confused
@@dennisjordan5917 don't ask them it's the equality nonsense lol
Notice how old over half of them were joking about some kind of sexual favour none of that was a joke they just said it as a joke because they didn’t want to get smacked
yeppp lol
yeah, should be okay for them to like what they like
@shirin agree, as long as both people want it then it’s all good! :)
Me watching the guys said "flowers": awhhh that's so cute!
Suddenly remember my father singlehandedly plants 20 pots of flower and like flower his whole life.
My husband said a bouquet of screwdrivers lol
"Do women give men anything?"
That was sad xD
We give to you everything, darling. Don't you see?
@@dion5804 is there anything to see?
@@joevaldez4889 Clean your heart and your mind so you can see, darling. Best wishes. 😊
@@dion5804 wow that is so lame.
@@dion5804 I felt embarrassed after reading ur comment, and I wasn't even the one who made it
Honestly, the back scratches and the beers are the best answers. It has to be relatively cheap, simple and yet an innocent gift. I guess it's more about truly knowing that person, like some chocolate if he has a sweet tooth and stuff like that.
It's ok dude, my husband met me when he was 26,I was his first. (I had a prior relationship) No worries, there's someone out there specially for you man.😁
I'm pretty simple. Whatever she thought was a good idea to give me I'll happily accept. Cuddles, back scratching, a candy bar, home-cooked meal, anything really. I'm more then happy with what I get
Guys and Gals deserve gifts from each other!!! It doesn't have to break the bank at all! It could even be a handwritten letter, something to show that added effort and affection can turn a bad day into a lovely day.
My favorite part is 6:09, that cracked me up so hard, I was not expecting that ending. Subscribed hahaha
Awww the guy who said he's 25 an just wants a girlfriend at the end that made me cry 😢 an no it's not to much to ask .
it kinda is
Well that pretty sums this Era and how miserable it is for our generation
I never had a gf my whole life until the age of 25. She's 7 years older than me but I woulda never guessed it if she never mentioned it, she's truely gorgeous, perhaps even out of my league, but it was only recently that I realised how many toxic behaviours I observed but stuck with it because I thought I may never get someone this beautiful again. I overlooked how materialistic she was because of course, we all have our guilty pleasures, then came the greed, the selfishness, the lack of appreciation and affection, the complaints, the threat of breaking up with me, she continued to push boundaries without me even realising it, even got myself into some debt. I recently ended the relationship for good this time, I made the mistake of feeling sorry for her a few times though and the cycle just repeated. Just be careful guys, there are some narcissistic and manipulative people out there, if they can't handle you when you're at your worst, they don't deserve you at your best. I'm happily single now, feels like a big weight off my shoulders. Good luck with yourlls future relationships ✌️
@@cyborggenos5142 Hi ,I'm so sorry that she did that to u an that you thought you had to stay with her because of thinking u couldn't get another person . But truth is sometimes looks can be deceiving . Not all that glitters is gold Sweety . An try n remember beauty in a woman comes from within . So when your ready to date again try someone more older then u an maybe she may not be gorgeous or someone u may not date but she's sweet n fun n cute an intelligent an down to earth or maybe a thicker woman . You are missing out on a person who may be wonderful . Don't judge a book u its cover but the contents an their soul n spirit ! Take care I wish u well .😊😉😁
I've never really cared for flowers... I'd rather see them planted and healthy than cut and beautiful for a day. I'm a snacks person so slushie, kitkats, beef jerky, or SODA would be so much more appreciated.
I thought the equivalent to flowers was a hug and a kiss and your partner telling you they love you. And then because your a man you laugh it off but secretly love the time and affection they put into you and you start crying because no one has ever cared for you
Lady’s hear this man out he’s looking for a lady 😂😂
“What would you like to receive?”
“…Like, a Lamborghini, I dunno.” 😂
5:58 Young Robert Downey, Jr.
nah young rdj was way cuter
Not the random ass message of you being single at the end lmao
the guys who say flowers too 🥺
Omg the guy that wants flowers is so adorable!!!
Ok, food, sex related, chores, and flowers...god help me find a foodie!
We are all foodies. There is no way to go wrong with that.
I pray you don't find a foodie. Just because you want to deny men sex and avoid doing chores.
Pathetic selfish person.
Oh and I pray you never get flowers.
@@obnoxiousfaryas Who hurt you, my man?
@@obnoxiousfaryas Damn, have you been hurt, the fuck? It's one thing to push all the chores onto somebody in the relationship, but nobody is obligated to give men sex. Some people want it, but there are times they don't feel like having it. Honestly, you're pathetic, especially after you ending sentence.
@@yesno8785 shut up little boy
I like the guy who said: boobs 😂
At least two of the guys said that 😆
That was actually sad for me. Why? Don't they get boobies anyway?
As a guy I would take flowers... I think it’s more of the gesture rather than the actual gift
I thought long and hard about this, and political and social opinion aside, it’s making him a sandwich. Completely serious. It’s the same feeling of someone going out of their way to do something nice for you. Why is it food related? I guess it’s got something to do with that old saying “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach?” Idk? Just a theory.
This may also be related to your love language-- If your love language is gifts or acts of service, this could make sense. A guy whose love language is quality time, for instance... maybe not so much. Furthermore, the practice of giving flowers doesn't really require any effort other than purchasing the flowers, whereas making a sandwich requires actually performing a service-- and possibly buying the ingredients. Therefore, these things may not be equal depending on each of the giver/receiver's love language preferences.
I agree, but I just now had the thought that I’d love to see some research regarding the frequency and magnitude of the love languages between the sexes because I can’t decide whether or not the giving of gifts and acts of service, flowers and sandwich making respectively, would vary greatly or not that much between the sexes. That being said they both cost money, thought, time, and effort. And like I said they result in the same feeling, so in my opinion they are pretty equivalent, just separated between the love languages like you said.
Oh also I based it on something we’ve seen consistently in society traditionally speaking like the gifting of flowers. Also gift giving and acts of service are similar in the sense that they are both things you ‘do’ in regards to another person.
@@vincentwirch7066 Right, but I'm saying they may or may not be equivalent depending on various things. If, for instance, the ingredients for the sandwich are already in the house because they are regular grocery items, then the act of making the sandwich could be considered equivalent to purchasing the flowers. If the girl had to buy the ingredients on top of making the sandwich herself, the effort there now outweighs the simple purchasing of flowers.
I don’t know...I feel like we’re not giving the gifting of flowers enough credit where credit is due. Image you had a long day at work or something right. All you wanna do is get home, but no. You thought of your girl enough to go to the store or flowers shop or whatever. It involves every guys worst enemy, shopping. If it’s busy you gotta wait around before you can pay and leave. And let’s not forget the fact that (depending on your knowledge of your girls preferences) the whole time your hoping you did a good job and picked something she likes. You gota make sure they don’t get beat up on the way home. I think flowers can be just as involved as making a sandwich. No?
Being a rancher for most of my life I have worked without complaining and doing it with a smile.
I have never enjoyed receiving gift in any occasion because I usually work almost every day even Holliday's.
But when my wife was still present every once a year she would come home from shopping, she'd bring me a few cases of beer 12 steaks and cooked some sides..
Then she'd call my pals set up the barn as an open bar and she'd just say "enjoy yourself and make sure you don't carry burden in your smile" then she'd go and stay with her mum for the weekend.
It made me feel better but coming home to the sound of chaos of my daughters was my true joy.
I definitely miss her too.
In case anyone is still wondering: a genuine compliment about why he is 'for you' will make a man's entire month 99% of the time. It may even be something he'll cherish forever. But it will most likely be felt for about as long as flowers last.
I'd rather have everything the guys are saying than getting flowers. You can't do shit with flowers. Who decided that flowers were a great gift?
yeah. im a girl and i HATE flowers its a waste of money and they die quickly. get me something that lasts lol
True I want chicken nuggets.
@@Eml873 how does that last any longer ? 😂
@@kaylie8486 lol... 😂 I ment true who decided that flowers were a great gift.
I dry my flowers and put the dried flowers in vases in my room! Real pretty!
end card got me in the feels
I one time had a coworker named Lynn and she was an old lady and one day at work she decided on her break to order some flowers to be delivered to her husband while he was at work and it was the cutest thing I had ever seen
I was waiting for someone to say 'a sandwich', bagel and cheese guy was close enough.
That guy at 1:17 sounded like salad fingers that was absolutely terrifying
To me he just sounds like he's from Minnesota or something
The ending kills me. I've single my whole life too. I wish you all the best finding someone that is for you. Don't settle for less!
My wife gives me man flowers. (A 6 pack of 🍺)
One of the guys in the video said, “A six-pack of 🍺,” then quickly downgraded to, “a snack...”😂
Yo, that second guy was able to have his microwave make popcorn AND open the bag for him!
It isn't too much to ask! All the best wishes! Hope you get her someday
Owner and editor of the video: I wish you get a sincere and loving girlfriend soon. 🥰❤️☺️☺️🍀
Bacon egg and cheese man knows what's up. I'd be happy if I got one instead of flowers. Now I'm craving one lmao
I had pizza, wings, and soda delivered to my husband and all his coworkers
Back when I worked in an auto parts warehouse, one of my coworkers wives had sandwiches from a really high end deli on the other side of town delivered to us, with an entire big cooler case full of soda, water and gatorade. It was smack in the middle of August it was brutally hot back there, but that made our day. That's super cool of you we appreciate stuff like that.
My husband said massage , necktie or my flower 🤔🤔
😂
The question should've been "What's the equivalent of getting flowers for you".
I’d go with the guy who mentioned beer since it has to be an equivalent...flowers don’t last indefinitely maybe a 3-4days to a week 🤔 they brighten the day and make you feel special. Beer can do that
The equivalent... is food. Obviously 😂
I'd rather get anything than flowers. Why would i want something that's just extra work for me and i have to clean up after it dies
A hot meal would be a good candidate
1st dude is so stoned he just says food ... while smashing popcorn.
Why did she shake her head when the guy said "back tickles?" That's a great equivalent!!!
Isn't that a thing that should be...daily? or even weekly? Giving someone flowers is a special occasions sort of thing. Back tickles, cuddles, sex, intimacy is being in a relationship.
I’d love to receive beef jerky
There should be tiktoks of giving guys flowers :)
I love the guys who say food, like I want to see their faces light up as I pull out some beef jerky or chicken nuggets and have it be the highlight of their day
the flower and picture guys are absolute keepers tho 😍😍😍
Im a girl and I take back scratches( or tickles like the guy said lol) anyday over flowers.
when I see young people hanging out and loving each other I realize how awful my youth was lol
My guy would want flowers too lol
Laundry put away, Not difficult to please. Quote of the year
4 for 4 is true care💜💜💜
hope you can find love soon dear MCMXCI! good luck
Lolol "a bacon and a cheese" lolol this guy knows.
I don't mind at all receiving flowers, as long as they get me high.
I get my husband flowers. He loves flowers. Also my dad.
For me, Pizza.
I just want a kiss and a movie night😂😂😂
The equivalent of getting flowers for guy is a compliment
their answers actually depend on their love languages.
Okay but fuck flowers I want chicken nuggets love dino ones if not I might not be willing to consider🙂
Foot punches...they feel sooo good
The ending though I felt that
bro, it's been months since u posted this. i dunno if u're still single, but if you are, sure enough someone someday will prove you your wait is worth it! 😊
I think there are guys who would like flowers too
So... food or sex. I think we already knew that. 🤣😂🤣😂
This couples quarantining together are so to die forrrr...
Well buddy, at least you're young enough to be optimistic. Hopefully you dont make it to 36 and start to realize that its very possible you may grow old, alone.
Yeah, as they say in my native language: Hope is the poor man’s bread...
Granted this is a lot more than giving flowers but there is no gift that a guy wants more than for his girl to ask him to think of what his ultimate erotic fantasy would be for her to do. What she would be wearing, how she would do her hair and make-up, what she would say, etc. My girlfriend asked me that years ago and then waited two weeks for me to forget about it and then one day she walked into the living room dressed exactly as I had described and did exactly what i had said. It was LITERALLY my ultimate fantasy come to life. I still think about it all these years later.
That's also a 100% guarantee to get the guy to marry you. Just don't do it too often, no more than twice a year.
Why only twice a year?
@@blueraspberrylemonade32 It's the equivalent of having your favorite food every day, eventually you will lose your desire for it. Sex lives start to diminish in every marriage for that very reason. Make his fantasy a common occurrence and that will happen ten times faster.
I liked your story and the way you described it. All the best to you both.
Second guy was soooo stoned. Eating popcorn and daydreaming about Wendy’s.
My man.
Get em a mad Turismo set up, ooh you be the best
You know that tiktok challenge where the girl walks in on her SO naked? Yeah that. I have never seen something spark so much instant joy in a mans/woman’s face. Js.
Some girls also got yelled at for interrupting video gaming time. Also, most women I've met in my life like to be appreciated also for something else than their bodies.
Beef jerky guy is 100% accurate
The world needs more Alans 😂
beers dammit thats our flowers
Bucket of beers. But the problem is, most guys take that for granted, there's nothing special.
None of these girls have stoners for boyfriends because that'd be a blunt!
Why did i think all the guys would say head. Like imma girl and that is the equivalent for getting me flowers
Just take the camera away from their faces and watch the magic. lol. It is the equivalent. You get it in special dates, but it is even more special when you got it for nothing.
ngl, if my S/O comes home with chicken nuggets, my day has instantly been improved.
or fried chicken. food in general, really.
When my dude from NY said Bacon, Egg and Cheese...I felt that!