When you IGNORE a narcissist this happens
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I’m letting God handle this for me. He says just Be Still
I'm so still right now that you would need a mirror to see if i'm still breathing.
@@cierraword6056 😂😂 💯
Stand strong in King Jesus and give God the battle/war and watch God work in you're behalf.. It's God's battle.. Give it to him... Be still and KNOW that he is God..
AMEN
I hard But Im trying to resist the devil… u know in order for him to flee from me
Funny how they push you away with their bull 💩 behaviors. Then chase you down once you're done and gone!
mine stopped by a month or so ago ,im like "why"🤣
exactly 😂
@@bondjamesbond1664did he go away forever?
What they want is total control. Like a cat over a mouse.
That's machiavellian
Start the no contact, plan an exit strategy, leave as soon as your able to, exposé the narcissist for who they really are and have no mercy on them. 👍✊
Don’t expect them to care at all
Do it for you
No Hoover can mean that they know you’re no bs
Yep! Go all in, don’t stop.
expose and leave 👍
Ignoring a narcissist is the most fun thing to watch unfold in front of you. They will do anything to get your attention, and I mean anything. There could be crowd of people and all their attention will be on you. Look straight through them as if they were made of air, and it will set them off! 😂😂😂 let them know they have no power over you and you win.
Sometimes the passive approach is standing up for yourself. Ive had times where I was worried I would go to prison if I were to react so I've walked away.. It's similar with a less violent situation - say a narc at work. Don't lose your job over him/her. And don't catch a court case because they will take you there
Create a network of new people they can't infiltrate
And I ignored one 😂 and he was texting me crazy ... Why are you ignoring me ?? Yes, do that to them and see how small they become !!!!! And then no contact !❤
Absolutely, mine could care less before and then when I ignored his text messages, he flooded me with them lol
@@AlwaysHope2019 hope you did not text back !!!!!
@@meawesome1651 Text back that I wasn’t putting up with it and not to contact me again and put actions in place on my end.
I don’t want to be involved participating in his mask changes any longer
After taking in my life and everyone. No contact for 2 years.
They cant even get in touch with me. I never want to hear that liar or terrorist again. NEVER.
Who cares if it is difficult for him? After all he put me through. Not half as difficult as it was for me to tolerate all that abuse. I hope it's really hard on him.
Agree!
That's exactly where it goes wrong with me.
I am bad at ignoring ppl when I care so in a moment and I reply and then later I regret it ahhh
Narcissists don't care about the person they contact, they only care that they are getting attention from the call.
They're often hoping to gain certain types of other benefits as well, which is still ALL about them! 😠
They will act like you are the one playing a game.
They are innocent.
Yes Anoushka, its all about our energy, so I have stopped giving any energy(attention, negative/positive) and now I am feeling my power coming back to me, and I will choose whom to give out this energy- only to the right people.
This is my learning process atm
These narcissists are a complete waste of life.. hands down!
I'm trusting in the Lord Jesus to guide my steps..Thank you Jesus and Father God.❤
I just did this and he ran away 😂😂😂
At the end of video was perfect. Ignore and keep doing it until you get what you want. If ya strong you'll break dat ass. I did it yesterday and I asked for what want. She did a whole change, BUT we'll see in a couple days
Recognize ya self worth an bin these energy vampires
She had all my attention!
I love your backdrop.
This is so true. Just doing this right now, ignoring my narcissist mother and I feel so powerful.
Thanks for sharing Anoushka!❤⚘
I am starting to think clearer
So true Anoushka
Thanks. Been doing that. ❤
A truth is Spoken....😐
Its so creepy 😫 ugh 😑 im busy go away!!!
Mons told me ahe had nickel nor dime of emotion to offer anyone and that ahe tried too embrace me but couldn't do it no matter how hard she tried ahe couldn't surrender and gove love to anyone.... She said she left because she knows she is not the woman i need
Dang
Thankyou❤
Thank you for your advice.❤❤❤
Terminated without even a phone call after almost 10 years and I’m frozen..:
advice that will get you extra beating
But my ex moved on to a new supply after 10 years of being together.
I've found that many narcissistic individuals move on quickly and never contact exes, or whoever they used, again!
Of course, a lot more of them do contact, even after years have passed. It depends on the person though, as well as situations, and the ideal outcome is for them to stay away, which can be more painful. ❤
A narcissist would also used the same tactics so open you're mind this info is only half the dynamic of this psychology
I made It. I suddenly quit the narc to stop abuses
I hâte him
Demon
Lol......true
He doesn't care and I am 100% okay with that. I didn't bow down and worship him so he wants nothing to do with me.
Consider yourself lucky and FREE to go about your life unbothered. But, eventually they do pop up at some point.
@@desertangelfish140 he will never be back. I called him out and he didn't like that. I'm free and clear.
@@desertangelfish140 I've found that many of them do stay away and never contact exes, or whoever, again, for various reasons!
Of course, it's best to be prepared, yet it's not good to live in fear, especially if they have no trouble getting new targets and couldn't care less about their last ones. 😊
When you go no cotact their behavior will start to show such as ; lowkey stalking you on your media ad your stories, stalk everytime you post and notice a famolar background and they try to go and stalk you physcial in their car.
Hilariously I had no idea I was doing this to my narcissistic ex girlfriend. Ignoring and Stonewall in her. Driving her crazy before I dumped her was really satisfying. And no I don't feel bad about doing that. She had it coming.
Spot on. ❤
It's confusing bc narcissists also ignore us or withdraw from replying? Manipulation.
First giving you.warm consistent attention and rhen acting colder leaving you anxious and wondering what changed...making you feel unworthy.
Narcist? Not a problem for me.
I am back in my power 💝👊✊
LETS THINK THIS THROUGH IF ALL OF SUDDEN SOMEONE IGNORED YOU WOULDNT U WANT TO KNOW WHY? OR BE FRUSTRATED I DAY TREAT OTHERS HOW U WANT TO BE TREATED IF U DONT LIKE WHATS GOING ON THEN SAY WHAT U WANT AND GO LIVE UR LIFE WHO CARES WHO HAS MORE POWER THIS SEEMS LIKE AN EMOTIONAL GAME
HOW CAN YOU IGNORE SOMEONE, BUT, CONTINUE TO TALK ABOUT THEM???
DOESN'T MAKE SENSE, AND YET HERE WE ARE 😊😊😊
Ignoring them is simply not giving them the energy they crave from you. They’re attention-seeking. So going no-contact is the way to-go. Talking about a narcissist isn’t giving them power because it’s not directed to the narcissist at hand. It’s all about how & who you give your energy to
It's been a little over a month that I left him... For good. He's blocked and he tried calling a couple times, I can see blocked calls, anyway he even tried just calling private last night talking about ain't no harm in calling to make sure everybody good is it... Lmmfao... You had to call private because your numbers blocked... Let's think about that... I said yes! And hung up and blocked the private number also 😂😂😂 I know he's tripping thinking I was gonna fall back in line, like I didn't mean I was done this time for real. I know he's going to go nuts. But I'll be ready! Bring it if you think you'll survive through it... 🤷🏽 😇
What if they show you that they don't even want you around!
Control angrily mood. Sick.
They have an extreme unhealthy obsession with love, but they deny it to the fullest thus the trickery and control.
There's not one once of love in them.. It's not love it's demonic as all hell...
@@dannysims5914 Exactly, which is why they're obsessed with it. Obsessed to have it, obsessed to destroy it when they see it. Just obsessed all the way around.
I'm not sure if I have a narcissistic disorder. For sure, I have narcissistic traits in relationshi. But what you say would drive me crazy, I hate when I am ignored 😢😢😢 its the most horrible thing to do to a human, especially to a partner who needs to be noticed and to be recognized (and I think thats how partnership should be). And, at the end of the day, how do I know that he is a narcissist to treat him like this when I am not sure if I am narcissist by myself. And to be sincere, my narcissistic traits come on daylight when I am ignored and not noticed. Please provide some advice, and please make videos on how to distinguish if we are narcissists or not (maybe codependent). Everything told in this and other videos sounds like a problem for not only narcissists (at least I suppose I dont have a disorder) 😳
I just wish my NARCASSISTISC sibling was better than this
I think all people ( male and female)want attention from their loved ones….. it’s not a narcissist thing, it’s human thing. If my wife if ignoring me in the most the most important moments of our lives, then what good is she to me? At that point, I can buy a dog companionship.
The moment you use your ignore tactics, you become a narcissist yourself, because now you consider yourself superior to your mate.
Don’t listen to this lady, is you have a problem with your loved one, talk it over on the spot, squash your beef, and be happy. Life’s too short to ignore each other or maintain upset.
(Your blush is way tooooo much - terms of volume, intensity and acreage ).
who cares.
you're not a doctor...
when there is a real problem this type of talking...is not good...
one person I know was very misleading by these
videos on YT it has completely messed up his life