When Should I File For Divorce?

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  • čas přidán 1. 02. 2022
  • You’ve worked hard at trying to save your marriage, but that doesn’t always make it work. So how do you decide if it’s time to file for divorce?
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    Everyone’s tolerance for pain is different, and understanding how much pain you can stand is an important part of deciding on divorce. Using the P.I.E.S. method that we teach at Marriage Helper can guide you to knowing your threshold.
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Komentáře • 17

  • @enidasheme9294
    @enidasheme9294 Před 2 lety +3

    The wedding vow promises staying together in sickness, that includes menthal issues that can destroy the couple or family?! I believe you made a 'universal' good point how to evaluate the couple situation based on the damage it brings and reflecting on its impact for 10 days, 10 months, 10 years.

  • @TheLookingGlassAU
    @TheLookingGlassAU Před 2 lety +7

    Best discussion ive heard on the issue. Thankyou. Ive found pastors and counsellors ive gone to about my marriage have not thought carefully through these issues and just 'do' things that are more akin to interfering in my marriage rather than helping it.

    • @brandon6231
      @brandon6231 Před 2 lety +2

      Read a Bible if you want the best discussion. This is an abomination of God. God hates divorce

    • @ryanbates7259
      @ryanbates7259 Před 2 lety +1

      @Joshua Photara, yes, good counselors are amazing, but some, while well meaning, are not. I'm a volunteer with Marriage Helper. Have you seen the Marriage Helper guidance on how to find a good counselor: marriagehelper.com/the-perils-of-counseling/
      This is another great video on who to listen to while working through a marriage crisis. czcams.com/video/VtWMWhwqNnc/video.html

    • @TheLookingGlassAU
      @TheLookingGlassAU Před 2 lety

      @@brandon6231 But God so loved the world that he sent his son. Do you think sin wins, or does God win?
      God hates lying, i bet you've done that more times than gotten a divorce. Maybe think about some biblical balance to your opinion.

    • @brandon6231
      @brandon6231 Před 2 lety +1

      @@TheLookingGlassAU the sin of divorce is not a 1 time incident. It is a sin that repeats daily as long as you sit in it. Hardly an applies to apples comparison. Please don't misrepresent the severity of the sin of divorce by minimizing it. God hates divorce as stated in malachi and detailed throughout scripture. Now there's true biblical balance with integrity and authenticity

    • @ryanbates7259
      @ryanbates7259 Před 2 lety

      Should Christians separate? Marriage Helper addresses this: czcams.com/video/yjkKssODHGk/video.html

  • @ChrisChuUsa
    @ChrisChuUsa Před 2 lety +3

    I wish Everyone filing d paper in court are required to watch this video before filing

  • @annawimpey5307
    @annawimpey5307 Před 2 lety

    Jim has given me the best argument for neck surgery. I too am at that decision.

  • @enidasheme9294
    @enidasheme9294 Před 2 lety

    What does he say at 02:43? When it comes to relationships...?

    • @ryanbates7259
      @ryanbates7259 Před 2 lety +2

      Many things when it comes to relationships are much more of an art than a science.

  • @MrLymo
    @MrLymo Před 2 lety

    you're godsent

  • @teresemariecloonan.c7739

    As soon as you can.
    Think of it as a band aid.
    The quicker…the better.
    I should know.

  • @rondalowe8855
    @rondalowe8855 Před 2 lety +2

    Never