Surviving Nightmare: My Chilling Story of Domestic Abuse | E45: Nina Aouilk's Transformation
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Nina, who was almost the victim of an honour killing, was subject to violence by her family and in her marriage, on more than a few occasions. Having defied all odds by surviving, she now coaches high-performing and high-achieving men and women to maximise their potential, while also raising awareness to end honour killings across the globe.
00:00 Introduction to the Guest
04:14 Nina's family background
07:19 Do the previous generation still carry anger or fear due to the Hindu-Muslim conflict?
12:50 If Sikhism stands for equality - why is there gender discrimination and violence?
18:19 Why does the collective mean more than an individual's life in some cultures?
24:26 Nina's restricted home environment.
29:59 The incident of the rape.
38:05 Being forced into an arranged marriage.
44:32 Violently beaten for fleeing an abusive marriage.
52:55 Why Honour Killings even exist.
55:15 Understanding Nina's magical ability to help people.
01:02:00 How to raise your children correctly.
01:05:52 Nina's future ambitions.
01:10:42 How to contact Nina.
01:12:13 The final 2 questions.
Nina:
Website: ninaaouilk.com
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Find her on Instagram: @nina_thebrit and @londonslifecoach
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I feel truly sick to my stomach as I watch this. My stomach is literally turning. This is so unbelievably horrific. This woman is a true soldier.
I have no words
It happens throughout every culture. I was sexually molested by 5 of my 7 brothers. I remember telling my mother when I was 4 years old. She beat me and told me not to talk like that. In front of them. Giving them permission to abuse me. I don't have anything to do with any of my siblings. There's no way I would expose my daughters to them. I'm 61 and will not ever forget what they did. Nor will I forgive. I'm not God,they can ask him for forgiveness. But they know to stay away from me. That goes for my 3 sisters,who still cover it up and play family. Fuck that. Before anyone comes at me with some forgiveness is for me,save it. I'm happy I have a wonderfully amazing husband,3 daughters,2 sons in law and 2 amazing grandchildren. I've made a good life and I'm loved and I love my family.
I am happy to read that you are in a happy, safe and loved environment that you created despite being neglected as a child.
You are completely correct that this abuse and neglect happens across all sort of cultures and is more common than statistics show as we don’t often speak out.
I’m sending you an abundance of love and I’m very proud of the woman you are today ! Nina Aouilk
@@londonslifecoach thank you
Wow. You're amazing 👏 you are actually exceptionally strong to have removed them from your life and not kept in contact with them. Best decision ever. They don't deserve your loyalty or your forgiveness. Even you mom...specifically your mom. Wish you all the love, peace and health 🙏
@@ShibaSasha we have to practise self love completely and it’s not selfish it’s a sign of respecting ourselves enough to know what we deserve and from that place you become a better person completely full of love which them you can extend to others
@@londonslifecoach hi Nina, I just watched your survival story on Unfiltered stories with tears in my eyes...I was so affected by your ordeal, that I was searching you on Google to see I can find out whether or not your family had to face any legal consequences for their abuse ( wishful thinking) or at least any backlash from the community? I hope you know what an extraordinary and strong person you are to devote your life to helping others after everything you've gone through. Your children are so lucky to have you 🧡💪
An amazing woman. A survivor, and not a victim!!!
Amen
How can parents especially a mother do that to their baby girl. I saw her baby pics on google she was such a beautiful cute child. How could the family do that. People who are worried about what their community think are usually corrupt evil people themselves showing they are holier than thou. Her story is shocking but she’s alive to tell her story.
Thank you for your time to watch this interview and your comment.
I have taken the cards dealt to me and decided to be a better person.
I am a mindset coach hand now and I believe we have the power to create change and to choose how our lives should be lead.
Having faced death I am grateful for the life I have 🙏🏼
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My non profit / charity now helps others women to find their peace on the others side of fear.
Muslims…
Deeply saddened hearing Nina’s story💔. Applaud her courage and resilience 🙏
Remember you are strong ❤ peace to you ❤
Her outer beauty reflects her inner beauty , so tranquil , elegant , serene and highly articulate and a depth of intelligence. I admire her so much she is a role model for so many of us , forget shallow and empty people she has a depth that not many people achieve in a lifetime and has turned her torment and torture into something that elevates her to a higher level. Keep going and do not ever give up telling your truth
Take them to court,put them in prison.
Nina I applaud you and was deeply saddened amd gobsmacked disgusted at how your parents and brothers could do this to a little girl. I love that you have spoken out about your horror life. I really hope that you do not interact pr communicate with your parents or siblings. Please be safe and continue to speak out and raise awareness so that people can be taken to justice. 😢❤❤ I wish I could give you a hug. My heart goes out to you. Take care Nina❤
As an Indian living in Germany whose parents migrated here in 60s, I can say, their generation is very much conservative than the Indians living in India now.
Amal Clooney would be a great asset to you Nina for justice. Human rights abuses and sexual slavery is unacceptable. Perpetrators should be brought to justice.
There is no honor in killing 😞 She’s such a warrior. And her strongest power is love. God bless you Nina. I’ve been abused. But never as horrific as her story. No human deserves that treatment.
Love ❤️ the courage, the power of this extraordinary woman, I salute her with such love, compassion and the deepest respect …🌟🙏
You are such a strong person!!
How does one ever recover from such horror? Nina is a remarkable woman with incredible courage who speaks like an angel.
She's does an amazing job to use her past as a powerful tool to now help thousands of others, rather than taking the approach to hate the world for what she's been through. She truly does have a heart of gold.
What an amazing article woman. I can’t pretend I know what you have been through but keep on going you are amazing!❤
My question is ...Where were social services?teachers ?How noone could notice the signs of domestic abuse?!
More power to you.
I appreciate your support. Nina Aouilk 🙏🏼
You are a very strong person Nina,
real warrior.
Thank you for your supportive words
I'd like to know where her family is now. They must be so angry that she is speaking out.
I pray all fallen off the face of our Planet Earth hehe
Having illicit relationship is not religious, abusing baby girl is not religious. They have customised the religion to their perception. Her parents did not exhibit Sikhism so sorry for her💔 lastly her mother was also a women how could she do that for a young child
Her parents were not even religiuos so what you on about
I agree all religions I think "Thou shalt not kill". It is attempted murder
You've captured the points to a tee here. It's surprisingly shocking to know there are groups of people in the world who don't naturally agree to the points you've shared there - where you'd think they just represent 'human nature'. Good thing is people like Nina are helping leading the change.
her microphone is too far away...it's hard to hear her..
I so much relate to Nina @lonfon'slifecoach. Growinh up as girls in our parents hm, we were never allowed yo say a boo or laugh. You get backhanded. Parents made the oldest son guardian of youngest child as a sexual predator. He sttemptef but not successful. His jealousy will bite him one day!
Interviewer asked good questions. My heart breaks for Nina. ❤️🩹
thank you!
Wat a amazing women .
Loved Kung fu fighting know the words. I guess females in my culture are godssess because men pay dowry aka a man with 3 daughters will be wealthy.. Thanks for sharing this story.
How many pregnancies did she have with her father in law,she was raped for 4 years?
No from her story it sounds like she was raped one time by her Dad and 8 of his friends when she was 14
Repeatdly by the father in law though
Yes correct and raped for 4 years by her father in law when she was married and living under his roof.
Notice the wicked within your religion it clearly is not GOD
Islam…
I don't believe this story.
I find it hard to reconcile her young photos. She seems well dressed with earrings and nice clothes. Doesn't look to me as if she was ostracized. Why did her parents send her to school if they kept her like a slave at home
@@anuvenga691did you hear her that she went to the school library?! Your one of the few will always be delusional in ur thoughts! I'm glad you weren't in her place otherwise you wud hv ended ur life. ur comment is rude!
Anand, you need to hush up...we're not interested in your assessment of her story, let her talk without interrupting. Seriously. Also she has the crappy mic, she should use your mic since we're not here to listen to you
Hi Jackie - taken on board thank you. The mic situation was an issue with the audio interface and was indeed very unfortunate to realise in post-production, especially as it was such a powerful conversation. But I'm glad people have still been able to capture the key messages and emotion from it.
On the positive side, we've learnt from experience to ensure it hasn't and doesn't happen again.
Thank you! At least you mentioned! So annoying. First the mic, continuance interruptions & questions! Plz reload this video with better audio. No wonder there aren't many views! 😞😓
@@blissful249 I'll be planning another episode with her this year, so it will resolve the audio issue and i'll take into account your feedback too