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  • @ms.cash332
    @ms.cash332 Pƙed rokem +13325

    I will never understand how someone could have the courage to show up to thousands of people watching and say they are cheaters 💀

    • @Jessthebes
      @Jessthebes Pƙed rokem +547

      I know right?! It’s pretty crazy to see people who have made mistakes and are honest about it

    • @fernandotorres6652
      @fernandotorres6652 Pƙed rokem +186

      They think it’s cool

    • @whatisupdawg
      @whatisupdawg Pƙed rokem

      @@Jessthebes no offense but idgaf abt someone feeling “honest” about their cheating 😂 live w your sleezy guilt in silence no one wants to hear your excuses

    • @opaliatzs
      @opaliatzs Pƙed rokem +165

      @@Jessthebes it ain't a simple mistake unless they were influenced by some drug. mistakes are excusebale, cheating isn't.

    • @Jessthebes
      @Jessthebes Pƙed rokem +247

      @@opaliatzs That’s your opinion. My point goes back to the original comment. People can do wrong things, have remorse for what they did, and use platforms to speak out about it. Not everyone chooses to live in the shame of their past.

  • @kaitlynwhite6218
    @kaitlynwhite6218 Pƙed rokem +6555

    Lol cheating is not a thing that should ever be normalized

    • @c.johnson1789
      @c.johnson1789 Pƙed rokem +189

      Sadly, it is stupidly common.

    • @kaitlynwhite6218
      @kaitlynwhite6218 Pƙed rokem +77

      @@c.johnson1789 yeah definitely not right though, it’s sad

    • @MarcoAce13
      @MarcoAce13 Pƙed rokem +121

      It’s not that it’s being normalized it’s just being talked about. Cheating is bad but also it’s something that you can and should grow from and do better about

    • @kaitlynwhite6218
      @kaitlynwhite6218 Pƙed rokem +22

      @@MarcoAce13 yeah you can only hope! Then people say they’ve cheated many many times .. it’s like cmon now


    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 Pƙed rokem +52

      i hate how it's portrayed as forgivable in tv shows. like nah u chose to cheat. dont start crying to the protagonist that you didnt mean to hurt them and shit lol

  • @annamarie2956
    @annamarie2956 Pƙed rokem +6892

    the girl in the black shirt just came on here to tell everyone what happened with her and her ex and hopes that he sees it fr

    • @bela-sofia34
      @bela-sofia34 Pƙed rokem +57

      You think she's lying, that she's not nervous and doesn't want them to find out? Why?

    • @sweet3488
      @sweet3488 Pƙed rokem +366

      “I like toxic men” girl just leave him fr lol

    • @YashPatel-yy7gs
      @YashPatel-yy7gs Pƙed rokem +319

      @@bela-sofia34 she just wants validation and reassurance from the internet by airing out her ex in some sketchy ass story lmao

    • @bela-sofia34
      @bela-sofia34 Pƙed rokem +16

      @@YashPatel-yy7gs Yeah, someone else posted earlier that they think she's lying etc.

    • @xxstellastarlightxx9284
      @xxstellastarlightxx9284 Pƙed rokem +70

      Fr I feel like she just wants attention and maybe a proper apology from him lmao not a good look

  • @ninaadan1742
    @ninaadan1742 Pƙed rokem +5433

    “Burnt orange”? đŸ€Ł đŸ€Ł đŸ€Ł Sebastian kills me

    • @taneabree
      @taneabree Pƙed rokem +29

      Literally always makes me laugh, I adore him

    • @jakopars
      @jakopars Pƙed rokem +5

      Fr hahaha what a guy

    • @crashnebula7
      @crashnebula7 Pƙed rokem +8

      He low-key is overtaking Curtis' spot

    • @rockpooladmirer
      @rockpooladmirer Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +3

      @@crashnebula7i'm here for it

  • @sandyruitenberg2928
    @sandyruitenberg2928 Pƙed rokem +3994

    I just don't understand cheaters. I would never cheat. Just break it off or have a consensual polyamorous relationship. But don't cheat, trust, loyalty and honesty are just too important.

    • @itdobelikedattho8112
      @itdobelikedattho8112 Pƙed rokem +2

      Too old school

    • @TheAmazingCoochini
      @TheAmazingCoochini Pƙed rokem +86

      Ong. Maybe I’m just too dumb but I don’t get how anyone could.

    • @bourne2crimson397
      @bourne2crimson397 Pƙed rokem +23

      @@TheAmazingCoochini most of the time, they want to *have* their cake and *eat* it as well. Most of the time, casual cheaters see it as a momentary escapade, doesn't mean jack.

    • @yaga676
      @yaga676 Pƙed rokem +37

      And I don't understand why people think becoming polyamorous would be a solution for cheaters. Usually people don't cheat because they want to sleep with more people at the same time, they do it because they have some problem within their relationship and they don't have the courage, or the tools, to address that directly. Cheating is the symptom, not the illness. Cheating means breaking an implicit pact of mutual trust and respect. And that is something people can do in every kind of relationship, even poly ones.

    • @karinashank2717
      @karinashank2717 Pƙed rokem +10

      I'm not in favour of cheating whatsoever but it's also not black and white, sometimes things happen unintentionally

  • @livlaughloveanime
    @livlaughloveanime Pƙed rokem +4629

    It blows my mind how indifferent so many people are to cheating. It's one of the worst things you could do to your partner imo

    • @364-unbirthdays8
      @364-unbirthdays8 Pƙed rokem +45

      Imo at that point just make your relationship open, that way it's at least consensual

    • @emmabunch-benson4795
      @emmabunch-benson4795 Pƙed rokem +119

      It’s one of the worst things you could do to a person period

    • @Hortonheardahoe
      @Hortonheardahoe Pƙed rokem +36

      Everyone here seemed pretty consistent that cheating was bad.

    • @shoelacedonkey
      @shoelacedonkey Pƙed rokem +23

      No one in the video was indifferent about cheating. Don't make stuff up.

    • @Allankss
      @Allankss Pƙed rokem +39

      There are plenty of way worse things, like domestic abuse, different types of manipulation, and many other things that can truly harm you physically and mentally, but cheating is a selfish act, but often not meant to hurt someone, it’s just a weakness some people have, or they probably haven’t learned monogamy is not for them

  • @KnightSlasher
    @KnightSlasher Pƙed rokem +3766

    I cheated by skipping through the video to find who the cheater is, *Checkmate*

    • @S_J_banana
      @S_J_banana Pƙed rokem +1

      Who was it?

    • @sabrinakingsley798
      @sabrinakingsley798 Pƙed rokem +57

      Yeah I don't know why they are romanticizing cheating for views.

    • @hiig2667
      @hiig2667 Pƙed rokem +21

      @@sabrinakingsley798 how are they romanticizing it? Your comment came out of no where

    • @karenrn5607
      @karenrn5607 Pƙed rokem +1

      @slasher master BWAHAHAHAHA!

    • @Rudi_Mentary723
      @Rudi_Mentary723 Pƙed rokem +7

      Tbh I didn't think the last woman would even have the chance let alone the ability to cheat.

  • @GoldieSixer202
    @GoldieSixer202 Pƙed rokem +2362

    Sebastian is the best 😂😂😂

    • @AlaskaBoyAlex
      @AlaskaBoyAlex Pƙed rokem +48

      Absolutely, whenever you see him or Curtis you know the episode is gonna be awesome lol
      That being said the women with the dope hair and flannel really killed it this episode too, imo she might have been the star of the show this time

    • @angelachu73
      @angelachu73 Pƙed rokem +7

      I missed him!!

    • @jinUAE
      @jinUAE Pƙed rokem +7

      Whats his insta account??

    • @AlyBeWildin
      @AlyBeWildin Pƙed rokem

      I love him lol

    • @luistarango6895
      @luistarango6895 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@jinUAE that’s what I am saying!!! I cannot find him

  • @liciasouva97
    @liciasouva97 Pƙed rokem +1275

    There is not ever an excuse or mistake when a person cheats. They will always be conscious of it.

    • @ancient.venus_
      @ancient.venus_ Pƙed rokem +31

      it can be a mistake since a mistake is something you regret, it however is never an accident

    • @jand8303
      @jand8303 Pƙed rokem

      @@ancient.venus_ people regret from cheating when they get caught

    • @ancient.venus_
      @ancient.venus_ Pƙed rokem +8

      @@jand8303 that's not how guilt works lmao, yeah some people only regret it once they're caught but people also regret it because they know its bad and that they shouldn't have done it

    • @jand8303
      @jand8303 Pƙed rokem

      @@ancient.venus_ no one said it was guilt! Are you slow or something? Stop reaching!

    • @jand8303
      @jand8303 Pƙed rokem +7

      @@ancient.venus_ guilt and regret is two different things! Atleast know what you're talking about! SMFH!

  • @shikonaori
    @shikonaori Pƙed rokem +3088

    I think if the cheating led to sexual activity (like you slept with somebody then slept with your partner after) then it 100% needs to be admitted to at least for health reasons, like putting aside the betrayal of trust that's also just putting the other person at risk of possible STIs. I can see wanting to just spare somebody's feelings in any other case but tbh I'd rather know than not know. I suspect one of my exes cheated and I wish he'd just been honest about it

    • @justayari
      @justayari Pƙed rokem +19

      You could use protection though, or get tested afterwards. Just playing devil’s advocate here

    • @abdoun5744
      @abdoun5744 Pƙed rokem

      So .did ur ex give u a sti?

    • @venusfoo9667
      @venusfoo9667 Pƙed rokem +290

      @@justayari or just not cheat

    • @brownskinbeauty.
      @brownskinbeauty. Pƙed rokem +173

      @@venusfoo9667 Exactly, and protection doesn't gaurantee you won't catch anything either

    • @EnlightenMeMyDear
      @EnlightenMeMyDear Pƙed rokem +27

      My ex had sex w another girl and gaslighted me until I found out from his best friend he had sex w my co worker. My ex said he never told me bc he got tested and was fine and never wanted me to find out.

  • @alissa104
    @alissa104 Pƙed rokem +292

    Can’t believe he actually got someone right from their favorite color 😭

  • @maxim7293
    @maxim7293 Pƙed rokem +1774

    "What do you think about cheating? Like, is it a deal breaker for u?"
    Bruh 💀💀💀

    • @nee6195
      @nee6195 Pƙed rokem +44

      đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł LIKE NO SHIT

    • @maxim7293
      @maxim7293 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@nee6195 fr 💀

    • @diegonelli9872
      @diegonelli9872 Pƙed rokem +163

      lol it's definitely a valid question tho? knowing that a lot of people forgive their partners who cheat

    • @maxim7293
      @maxim7293 Pƙed rokem +42

      @@diegonelli9872 so u go into ur relationship telling ur partner "oh btw cheating isnt a deal breaker for me cause ill forgive u" 💀

    • @roselinea2887
      @roselinea2887 Pƙed rokem +36

      @@maxim7293 some people actually work through it or believe in open relationships aswell

  • @Kimi-nk5ix
    @Kimi-nk5ix Pƙed rokem +717

    i’ve been cheated on multiple times and it was actually traumatic in hindsight. i have severe trust issues, i worry about my partner constantly, the memories flash into my head at random, i can still picture everything vividly, and i breakdown whenever i think about it too much. it can be shattering for the person who was cheated on. i immediately blamed myself, thought i wasn’t good enough, felt i deserved it or could’ve done something to change things, and i lost a friendship from it. please don’t cheat on people. if you feel the need to do something with someone else, express that with your partner and if they’re not comfortable with that, break up.

    • @newwave89
      @newwave89 Pƙed rokem +31

      So sorry you went through that :( I hope you found someone who respects your trust.

    • @stonedkarina
      @stonedkarina Pƙed rokem +25

      its some war ptsd shit girl. its the WORST. ESPECIALLY THE STOMACH PAINS

    • @PinkShawty149
      @PinkShawty149 Pƙed rokem +11

      Yup recently ended one just because I couldn’t trust them, it sucks

    • @thesource4324
      @thesource4324 Pƙed rokem +2

      Alright

    • @stonedkarina
      @stonedkarina Pƙed rokem +2

      @@PinkShawty149 I wish to have the strength as u sister, one day

  • @SuperMustache555
    @SuperMustache555 Pƙed rokem +813

    I think you should tell your partner if you cheated on them because it shows that the reason you’re breaking up with them has nothing to do with their faults, it has to do with your own

    • @taytaygurl09
      @taytaygurl09 Pƙed rokem +20

      I agree!! I also think it's funny that even with that information some people will still stay with ppl that cheat (who may/may not cheat again) and wont leave no matter what, very interesting đŸ€”

    • @barbarella.artist
      @barbarella.artist Pƙed rokem +22

      😂😂 most people’s first reaction when they find out someone cheated on them 
 ‘what’s wrong with me’ - as in why am I not good enough that this person cheated on me
      Or secondly - that’s most cheaters excuse for why they cheated 

      They say to their partner you didn’t give me what I wanted or needed so you made me cheat 😂😂
      This is such a dumb comment.
      Everyone handles trauma differently and most people - will think it’s about them if their partner cheated (even if it obviously isn’t)

    • @SuperMustache555
      @SuperMustache555 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@barbarella.artist I think you’re right, the first reaction is to question why you (the person that got cheated on) is inadequate for your partner, but over time, you can realize that the other person has faults. If you got broken up with, you’d also question why you weren’t good enough. Learning that you’ve been cheated on still makes you question why you weren’t good enough, but gives you a reason to doubt the judgement of your partner. In the long run, knowing you’ve been cheated on is probably better than being confused why your relationship ended

    • @SuperMustache555
      @SuperMustache555 Pƙed rokem +3

      @@taytaygurl09 I never think it’s fair to blame the victim of cheating for staying with the person. If you’ve been with someone for a long time, you tend to be so attached that it’s not worth giving up on the relationship even for something so major. When couples communicate and overcome their issues, they often emerge even stronger. Cheating shouldn’t be what it takes to make a relationship stronger though

    • @taytaygurl09
      @taytaygurl09 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@SuperMustache555 My comment was not aimed to shame victims of cheating. Rather when the cheating occurs early on in a superfluous relationship, it's funny how SOME people stay no matter how much disrespect they receive. I understand leaving is more difficult especially when time, love, children, etc. are involved. Anyways I was high last night when I left this comment, so don't pay me any mind.

  • @bethanyray6421
    @bethanyray6421 Pƙed rokem +425

    imagine this is how one of their partners found out

  • @philipsparks6089
    @philipsparks6089 Pƙed rokem +387

    Im very monogamous, and the people who take cheating as a casual topic is kinda scary to me. Im scared to get into a relationship because everyone of my friends has been cheated on, and I was in high school.

    • @ghitarakik8508
      @ghitarakik8508 Pƙed rokem +18

      Don't worry . I assume you are a man from your name . There is a lot of faithful monogamous women . Women are known for loyalty and commitment more than men anyway . So yeah just be loyal too

    • @canifartinyourface8777
      @canifartinyourface8777 Pƙed rokem

      what is monogamous

    • @philipsparks6089
      @philipsparks6089 Pƙed rokem +7

      @@ghitarakik8508 well im not into women, but I appreciate that advice. Im a very faithful person, if im unhappy or seeking others then I leave.

    • @alanabrunnett284
      @alanabrunnett284 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@philipsparks6089 yeah, men cheat a lot because society encourages them to do it while it punishes women for the same behavior. I have a lot of gay friends and cheating is pretty common amongst them, so idk

  • @itswherethecomedycomesin8864

    Sebastian is genuinely so funny but also very connective and likable, i love when hes on these!

  • @toetail8665
    @toetail8665 Pƙed rokem +851

    These cheaters really be loud and proud about it. No remorse no matter how much they say it’s wrong.

    • @MarcoAce13
      @MarcoAce13 Pƙed rokem +88

      They obviously all feel remorse about it. But at a certain point you just learn from it and move on and be a better person. No point beating yourself up over something you did that was shitty like ten years ago

    • @emmabunch-benson4795
      @emmabunch-benson4795 Pƙed rokem +27

      So icky. Can’t be pretty & be a cheater at the same time. Only ugly people cheat. & I’m definitely not just talking about looks
how you treat people ultimately determines everything

    • @yagadoobigidibobbibigabiga38
      @yagadoobigidibobbibigabiga38 Pƙed rokem +36

      I feel like when people say this they want to reaffirm that their morality is better than someone else's because at least they didn't do what that person did. Wouldn't it be better to let them grow around that choice instead of shrivel up and not grow from it? People talking about their bad choices is more improvement than just hiding it away and pretending it didn't happen or staying in a state of shame their entire lives for it. If you want them to be riddled with heavy shame and crying every single time they talk about it then that's just kinda sadistic.

    • @realfishtacoboy
      @realfishtacoboy Pƙed rokem +8

      @@yagadoobigidibobbibigabiga38 exactly!! Thank you

    • @FullbringerQuincyGlazeGod
      @FullbringerQuincyGlazeGod Pƙed rokem +7

      Cheaters are the devils of romantic relationships, they don't deserve to be in relationships.

  • @saoirseviolet9284
    @saoirseviolet9284 Pƙed rokem +142

    Both the male guessers are magnetic AF

  • @IncrediBelleJessi
    @IncrediBelleJessi Pƙed rokem +366

    *How can you be so effing proud cheating?*

    • @MarcoAce13
      @MarcoAce13 Pƙed rokem +30

      I don’t think anyone in the video sounded proud

    • @tophat7735
      @tophat7735 Pƙed rokem +24

      @@MarcoAce13 volunteering to be in this video is sort of a reflection of conscious. Cheating is a horrible thing to do, so why would you volunteer this information. Of course people change over time, and you shouldn’t have to suffer to what you did ten years ago, but the lack of remorse combined with the willingness to participate in this video is unsettling.

    • @yagadoobigidibobbibigabiga38
      @yagadoobigidibobbibigabiga38 Pƙed rokem +16

      @@tophat7735 didn't most of the cheaters cheat at a young age? I feel like whenever people talk about remorseful expressions with cheaters, they really just are saying that they want to look absolutely ashamed and humiliated in order to even get any forgiveness. Lowkey, it kinda sickens me when people talk about how people should look when admitting to something like that because to me it just sounds like people want to feel reassured that they're better people, which imo makes them not as good as they think they are. Shouldn't people want them to grow to a point of not feeling utter shame and humiliation so they can grow around that bad choice instead of remain half grown because of it? Plus, the audience is not owed the apology or the shame.

  • @juliabanks8271
    @juliabanks8271 Pƙed rokem +152

    As a senior girl who goes to a "party school", there has never been one single moment where I considered cheating on my partner. You can go out without them, you can dress scandalously, you can have the full experience WITHOUT breaking the commitment that you made to them. There have been plenty of times that I've gotten a feeling that made me icky, and decided "nope, need to leave the situation because they're getting the wrong idea". You have full autonomy over your choices. This is absolutely NOT including SA, which is no one's fault and should be taken extremely seriously, but if you cheated just because you were drunk and thought it was worth it? Then you should feel ashamed.

  • @lib5864
    @lib5864 Pƙed rokem +221

    It's interesting how they are referring to cheating as "being open". Cheating is NOT the same as polyamory. Cheating is the most selfish thing you can do and is only done by insecure people

  • @maddie1410
    @maddie1410 Pƙed rokem +721

    you should bring in phsycic mediums and get them to guess things about people

  • @rumham7466
    @rumham7466 Pƙed rokem +550

    People should just be honest and open. If they are into open relationships be honest about it. Find someone likeminded you can really be your true self

    • @juanmacias5922
      @juanmacias5922 Pƙed rokem +7

      This has been my experience, it's hard to breakup, but we really should find partners who we can be our true self around.

    • @tacobell1299
      @tacobell1299 Pƙed rokem +9

      Also poly and open relationships are different

    • @rumham7466
      @rumham7466 Pƙed rokem +8

      @@tacobell1299 true. I don’t know all the nuances (is the right word), but whatever the case people should just be honest. There’s so many different people in the world.

    • @Lilian040210
      @Lilian040210 Pƙed rokem +3

      I'm actually both surprised and glad people brought up communication so much in this video. Yes, this is 100% how people should be, talk to a person and tell them what you want and how you see things, sadly there are still people who think touching a pp automatically puts them in a monogamous relationship😞

    • @rengokusfox
      @rengokusfox Pƙed rokem +1

      that’s the thing tho. usually cheaters are selfish and want other people for themselves, but not for their partners. being poly doesn’t work for cheaters.

  • @sparklingdiamondkiwis4390
    @sparklingdiamondkiwis4390 Pƙed rokem +108

    “There might be one that slipped in there” 💀 AYO

  • @fatcatontario
    @fatcatontario Pƙed rokem +174

    There is no way I could cheat and not tell my partner. I would absolutely hate myself every second of the day and for the right reason. The person you've made a committment to has a right to know.

    • @Rudi_Mentary723
      @Rudi_Mentary723 Pƙed rokem +4

      Okay, so you don't have a problem with cheating, it's just that you can't hide it from your partner. Alright 👍

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario Pƙed rokem +4

      @@Rudi_Mentary723 😆😆😆 if that is what you've read...no, cheating is a character flaw. I don't cheat.

    • @megancurtis9502
      @megancurtis9502 Pƙed rokem +1

      You would hurt regardless though. This way if they never found out you would save them from the hurt and trauma. IMO it's better to not tell them. Telling them when you didn't get caught feels selfish like you're trying to get relief and validation.

  • @LadyIshca
    @LadyIshca Pƙed rokem +48

    My man had to fist bump himself. 4:31

  • @enbyryuji
    @enbyryuji Pƙed rokem +217

    me with cheating trauma : *still watches video*

  • @losenge
    @losenge Pƙed rokem +64

    0:29 “have you ever been cheated on? what’d you do?”
    “joined in“ 😭😭

  • @maggys1244
    @maggys1244 Pƙed rokem +135

    "Sparing their feelings" by not confessing is most often mainly about sparing their own feelings & not having to go through seeing the damage they caused to unfold. Avoiding the guilt, the shame, the consequences, the tainted public image, all that.
    Let's not pretend it's some selfless, "caring" act just because it delays the pain.
    The truth comes out sooner or later anyways.
    And keeping it a secret robs your partner of the ability to make an informed decision about their future. What kind of partner they have. Risking their health (STD-risk!). Wasting their time. Creating even bigger trust issues - just imagine them finding out one day & looking back on all the years they didn't have a clue & felt happy & trusting while their partner disrespected them left & right by cheating behind their back.

  • @kazandeffect2205
    @kazandeffect2205 Pƙed rokem +40

    This had to be the most " Seattle" looking group of ppl on Cut I have ever seen lol

  • @bklynkat23
    @bklynkat23 Pƙed rokem +138

    I've missed Sebastian!! Glad to have him back!! 😅

  • @baddielonglegs
    @baddielonglegs Pƙed rokem +26

    Sebastian needs his own show 😂

  • @aqua-mina
    @aqua-mina Pƙed rokem +150

    0:29 😂 could you imagine!?

  • @Zahra_sama
    @Zahra_sama Pƙed rokem +30

    Oh boy Sebastian is just drop dead GORGEOUSSSS I'm in love with his perfect bone structure and energy 😂😂

  • @crystalclear6660
    @crystalclear6660 Pƙed rokem +75

    Tell the person that you cheated on them. The only reason I can figure people don’t is so they don’t feel massive guilt and like a rotten person. They basically want to save their own image.

    • @franklynLP
      @franklynLP Pƙed rokem +4

      Who wouldve thought someone doing smth incredibly selfish like cheating would also try to dodge the consequences.

  • @otelindomonteiro7337
    @otelindomonteiro7337 Pƙed rokem +209

    -"What's your type?"
    "-Toxic men!!"
    -Just why?...đŸ€š

  • @raffeetlynch4031
    @raffeetlynch4031 Pƙed rokem +62

    I really love the persons guessing. I enjoyed this video so much and as usual Sebastian is definitely a vibe.

  • @thegirlhasnoname2749
    @thegirlhasnoname2749 Pƙed rokem +21

    4:31 the feast bump đŸ„ș

  • @stickshiftsteph9968
    @stickshiftsteph9968 Pƙed rokem +215

    I hope everyone who's cheated can recognize the way that damages the other person. You've voluntarily chosen to traumatize another person, fuck with their ability to trust and that's fucking shameful. If your needs are being met, grow up and communicate that and if that means leaving the relationship, do that.
    I'm all for consensual poly relationships, it's not cheating if all party's know what's happening and are fine with it.

    • @franklynLP
      @franklynLP Pƙed rokem +14

      People always forget what it can mean for those that got cheated on. To the cheater its always just a "that was wrong, dont do it again" but most of the time its the person that got cheated on that has to deal with the consequences, feeling hurt, betrayed, the insecurities... no sympathy for people that make these things seem like nothing.

  • @kiwi-ow3qg
    @kiwi-ow3qg Pƙed rokem +61

    I love the lineup series

  • @bsinclair6264
    @bsinclair6264 Pƙed rokem +9

    I love the energy of the black guy that was guessing
 they should give him his own segment or something 😂

  • @anupriyaveda3550
    @anupriyaveda3550 Pƙed rokem +32

    "I was a serial cheater" Dude that's not something to be proud of đŸ€·â€â™€ïž

  • @GothMusicLatinAmerica
    @GothMusicLatinAmerica Pƙed rokem +10

    "I like tall women and short kings."
    Saaaaaaame.

  • @lewiesian
    @lewiesian Pƙed rokem +22

    give the poor guy a fist bump

  • @tronalddump2444
    @tronalddump2444 Pƙed rokem +46

    Watching this right after handing out the christmas presents. Perfect time.

  • @karenrn5607
    @karenrn5607 Pƙed rokem +18

    This was my FAVORITE group of “guessers” ever!! I love that guy that used to be a gang banger. He’s so sweet and humble! I can’t imagine his old ways!

  • @frankeyithaka
    @frankeyithaka Pƙed rokem +19

    Poly isn't cheating... And you can cheat in poly. Cheating isnt sex/romantic relationships with multiple people. Cheating is breaking an agreement that is understood in the relationship.

  • @dataexpunged6969
    @dataexpunged6969 Pƙed rokem +407

    I kind of disagree with her saying that you shouldn't tell someone that you've cheated on them (I do see where she's coming from though), because of a few things -
    1) If they find out by someone else or later on, they'll feel much more betrayed and hurt as opposed to being told directly.
    2) If they had doubts and suspicions about their partner cheating, but the partner never admits to it, it'll be low-key gaslighting and the person will not be able to trust their instinct again.
    3) This ties into point 2, but if the partner never admits, the person will never learn what the signs are, and might be oblivious next time too, if it were to happen.
    4) If there has been cheating, there's a good chance that the other person might be at risk of STDs if they were to engage in activities with the cheater, so it's paramount to know (Amazing point made by the commenter Kay [@K.CZcams2])
    So while yes, it's painful, I think it's very necessary.

    • @karmaoutlaw
      @karmaoutlaw Pƙed rokem +20

      Oooo
excellent points. I would want to know no matter how emotionally painful. Authenticity is important for the healing process of ALL involved parties.

    • @ztarr
      @ztarr Pƙed rokem +2

      This a thousand times over!

    • @K.YouTube2
      @K.YouTube2 Pƙed rokem +14

      Number should be HEALTH! You owe it to the person if they agreed to a monogamous relationship so they can get tested.

    • @dataexpunged6969
      @dataexpunged6969 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@karmaoutlaw Legit same. I'm a very emotional person but I'd rather have this

    • @dataexpunged6969
      @dataexpunged6969 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@K.CZcams2 oh you're absolutely right! Because if you're carrying a disease, the sex is non consentual if the other party doesn't know about this. I'll add it to my main comment :)

  • @allofhayley708
    @allofhayley708 Pƙed rokem +25

    it’s probably just me but this video felt so dry

  • @rasahead
    @rasahead Pƙed rokem +99

    Please do a line up for Myers Briggs personality types

    • @sofienummers
      @sofienummers Pƙed rokem +5

      Such a fun idea!! :)

    • @emilyk1109
      @emilyk1109 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

      Won't work because they'll only find INFPs, INFJs, INTPs and edgy 18 year old INTJs as contestants.

  • @angelaostarello8365
    @angelaostarello8365 Pƙed rokem +8

    4:32 Homie fist bumped himself 😭

  • @MexicanJesus1998
    @MexicanJesus1998 Pƙed rokem +3

    8:20
    “I still trust- nobody”
    ‘Oh NOBODY?? So youre fine, huh
”
    😂

  • @Demureli
    @Demureli Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +4

    How has cheating become such a norm?

  • @Lilian040210
    @Lilian040210 Pƙed rokem +25

    Polyamory means a relationship with multiple people, it's still a relationship, whether open or closed one, depends on the people involved. People, please, don't confuse those

  • @marksilla8276
    @marksilla8276 Pƙed rokem +6

    I don't understand cheating, but what I don't understand even more is your best friend sleeping with your partner like what kind of demonic shit is that ☠☠☠

  • @user-ky4us2bz5z
    @user-ky4us2bz5z Pƙed rokem +11

    4:30 poor guy fist bumps himself 😱

  • @andrewx2047
    @andrewx2047 Pƙed rokem +15

    Honestly Sebastian always kills these Vids!

  • @keke4030
    @keke4030 Pƙed rokem +93

    People really confuse poly relationships with open relationships..it is different

    • @jijitters
      @jijitters Pƙed rokem +14

      Yep. In an open relationship, people have their main partner but can sleep with other people random outside of it and it's not a big deal. In a poly relationship, there are multiple genuine partners involved so everyone knows about everyone and organizes together. That's why cheating can still happen in poly relationships, if they sleep with someone outside the partners without them knowing.

  • @HurricaneLisa
    @HurricaneLisa Pƙed rokem +11

    Sebastian needs his own show/podcast/Ted talk 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mulli1up
    @mulli1up Pƙed rokem +154

    why everyone in this vid so zesty💀

  • @ronaldauguste1500
    @ronaldauguste1500 Pƙed rokem +36

    Already hilarious. I thought the exact same thing about burnt orange

  • @melissac7646
    @melissac7646 Pƙed rokem +10

    “I joined in” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Raemae1121
    @Raemae1121 Pƙed rokem +31

    You should do, Match twin to twin, I think that’d be really fun to watch😊

  • @artemisia770
    @artemisia770 Pƙed rokem +2

    My girl in the black top living her Ross/Rachel fantasy

  • @toji6952
    @toji6952 Pƙed rokem +97

    Lmao I think we need to normalize shaming again😂 y’all getting too comfortable with what y’all put on the internet and how serious of an offense cheating is in a relationship, like y’all really snitching on y’all self on the internet (which WILL stay on the net literally forever, doesn’t matter if it’s deleted or not) for nothing but a couple laughs and likes that’s kinda crazy

    • @mun3698
      @mun3698 Pƙed rokem +20

      I had the same exact thinking. Like, being a cheater means you’re a shithead that needs to be avoided yet it’s being confidently shown here. No shame when there should be tons of it.

    • @Rudi_Mentary723
      @Rudi_Mentary723 Pƙed rokem +3

      Agreed. I hate that CZcams deletes comments. For videos like these and many others that this channel uploads, shaming actually should be the norm.

  • @emilymarshall8992
    @emilymarshall8992 Pƙed rokem +95

    Being poly is not synonymous with cheating, wish the guessers wouldn’t conflate the two.

    • @Jackson-qi4rw
      @Jackson-qi4rw Pƙed rokem +48

      No but I know a lot of cheaters who went "poly" after it became a trend lol

    • @jadamichelle4241
      @jadamichelle4241 Pƙed rokem +1

      Surprised they didn’t ask about open relationships instead of being poly

    • @TheAmazingCoochini
      @TheAmazingCoochini Pƙed rokem +21

      No its just that people might go to poly after they get the memo that cheating ain’t okay.

    • @MarcoAce13
      @MarcoAce13 Pƙed rokem +3

      @@Jackson-qi4rw that’s probably because they were always poly and should have been in open relationships from the start

    • @Jackson-qi4rw
      @Jackson-qi4rw Pƙed rokem +16

      @@MarcoAce13 that's just a fancy way of saying they struggle with commitment. Childish

  • @ramink379
    @ramink379 Pƙed rokem +6

    Omg !! I loooove Sebastian. Always had such an amazing energy !! And made the episode, super entertaining commentary !!

  • @reginaneal8734
    @reginaneal8734 Pƙed rokem +6

    I need a playlist of episodes with Sebastian.

  • @stardust6870
    @stardust6870 Pƙed rokem +98

    I could never cheat on my husband. First of all, I don't want nor need anyone else but him, and second, betraying him would be the same as betraying myself. If one day I started somehow considering someone else, I'd know something is wrong with my marriage, and it's time for a serious conversation or divorce.

  • @Steve-390
    @Steve-390 Pƙed rokem +4

    That girl on some friends shit
    "We were on a break" 😂

  • @user-yt9ge3ry1f
    @user-yt9ge3ry1f Pƙed rokem +37

    It is way worse to be cheated on and the person not be respectful enough to tell you that they did that, than to have your feelings temporarily hurt by the person who cheated when they admit what they did. From someone who has had BOTH those situations happen - the former only left me with no closure and a general dislike for that person, lying to preserve their own face. At least the latter had the balls to own up to their mistakes.

    • @karahoglund
      @karahoglund Pƙed rokem +2

      being gaslit about it too is the absolute worst. Because then you don't know if you can trust yourself or anyone else.

  • @ivan1793
    @ivan1793 Pƙed rokem +14

    I'm not really an expert but aren't they confusing polyamory and open relationships throughout the video?

  • @obxurity
    @obxurity Pƙed rokem +32

    I'm sorry but once a cheater, always a cheater idgafđŸ€·â€â™‚ïž

    • @obxurity
      @obxurity Pƙed rokem +9

      and the fact they all decided to go on video and say they're cheaters is insane

    • @Coco-xq7zh
      @Coco-xq7zh Pƙed rokem +3

      Their all laughing about it too

    • @victormartinez6974
      @victormartinez6974 Pƙed rokem +3

      Who hurt y’all? Lmao

    • @Heyitschy03
      @Heyitschy03 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@victormartinez6974cheaters.

  • @shopflosi
    @shopflosi Pƙed rokem +4

    You should definitely tell someone if you cheat...you owe them that truth for them to decide what they want to do next.

  • @itscelestial666
    @itscelestial666 Pƙed rokem +2

    this was a delicious watch, more like this

  • @Tenseiken_
    @Tenseiken_ Pƙed rokem +3

    Sebastian is such a performer. This guy lol.

  • @abbygurl55
    @abbygurl55 Pƙed rokem

    The whole line just swaying together for most of the video

  • @coelidwivedi243
    @coelidwivedi243 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

    Do tell your partners you cheated on them. It might 'hurt' but it probably validates their intuition and everyone needs that.

  • @narbeg
    @narbeg Pƙed rokem +17

    Dropping the cheater video on Xmas eve is very on brand

  • @EliAbney
    @EliAbney Pƙed rokem +1

    "I think you care about the way that you look" Took me out I thought everyone does to an extent

  • @michellechu6836
    @michellechu6836 Pƙed rokem +61

    Lol the classic “we were in a break!”

    • @theclockworkheart
      @theclockworkheart Pƙed rokem +45

      i mean the ex himself thought they were on a break lol, there was nothing wrong with realizing she was getting feelings for someone else. she also thought they were completely broken up, so even more justified. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ if you actually listen to her she said nothing even happened, he just assumed she cheated. if you want to doubt a stranger it's not like i can stop you, but that's an incredibly bad faith take.

  • @auriluna9469
    @auriluna9469 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Idk his name but the guy with the hat and Cali shit guessing the cheaters is amazing! PLEASE bring him back on other videos he's so funny đŸ˜‚đŸ„°

  • @DaughterOfTheKingdom16
    @DaughterOfTheKingdom16 Pƙed rokem +6

    To the guy that walked in on his best friend that actually happened to me, and I punched both of them in the face

  • @subtitlesonplease
    @subtitlesonplease Pƙed rokem +1

    The final speech! Lmao!

  • @sparkswolverine
    @sparkswolverine Pƙed rokem +12

    I gagged at burnt orange, too!

  • @loganarnoldkicks4321
    @loganarnoldkicks4321 Pƙed rokem +2

    Sebastian is back !! đŸ˜­đŸ˜‚â€ïž What an icon

  • @dozzzor
    @dozzzor Pƙed rokem +1

    That guesser with the glasses... OMG đŸ€€

  • @kingjustinv01
    @kingjustinv01 Pƙed rokem +3

    I want to be Sebastian friend IRL he is so funny yo 😂😂😂

  • @Irisea
    @Irisea Pƙed rokem +1

    Aaaaaa, my man is back

  • @dianac846
    @dianac846 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

    The serial cheater sounds like Phyllis Smith from the office

  • @nyomantrianggieprameshwary1889

    the guy in the black jacket get me DOKI DOKI, his smile damnnnn boi i cant 😭

  • @MamaBearxo98
    @MamaBearxo98 Pƙed rokem +2

    "burnt orange?!?" GOD he's my favorite !!

  • @e-cigarette2050
    @e-cigarette2050 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

    This video should have been titled: cheaters validating cheaters

  • @Walker-zk4eg
    @Walker-zk4eg Pƙed rokem +80

    I hate when people like the person with the blue hair try to perpetuate that it's weird to not want to be in a poly relationship. There is literally nothing wrong with not wanting your partner to be fucked by somebody else lmfao. As long as you don't expect to fuck other people and the respect goes both ways, that's a healthy relationship. It feels like blue hair was trying to make it sound "weird" ...

    • @Walker-zk4eg
      @Walker-zk4eg Pƙed rokem +6

      Also we love you Sebastian please have him on here more it's been so long since the last time he was on an episode

  • @babybells9412
    @babybells9412 Pƙed rokem +2

    Why was the girl in black raising her hands like that at 6:38 - like when you’re in class & you really want your teacher to call on you lmao💀

  • @promhart764
    @promhart764 Pƙed rokem +6

    *reflects on my own favorite colors
*

  • @rayokay
    @rayokay Pƙed rokem +2

    THE PINK HAIR GIRL’S HUSBAND CHEATING WITH TWO OF HIS BEST FRIENDS’ WIVES??? What in the Wattpad

  • @brianna834
    @brianna834 Pƙed rokem +16

    It absolutely is necessary to admit to cheating so the cheated on partner can get tested and if anything does happen they catch it early??? common decency???

  • @fivefourthree210
    @fivefourthree210 Pƙed rokem +6

    It’s not okay to cheat but if I catch you please don’t lie about it