Do All Cheaters Think The Same? | Spectrum
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Cheaters complaining about how they're partners didn't fully trust them afterwards just triggers me
Zane Atkins omg same đ
@@rachelpinkhasov9864 wow people liked this
It's not really that cut and dry. On one hand you can't expect someone to be cheated on and then 100% trust that person again. But at the same time you can't expect anyone in a relationship to have to be interrogated whenever they want to be in a social situation and just be okay with it.
Either you break it off or you trust that person has learned from their mistakes, and if they do it again then you know you should have just chose the first option and move forward from there. But in no way shape or form does cheating or becoming someone's prison Warden going to help the relationship.
Zane Atkins textbook gaslighting
Zane Atkins sickens me
Theyâre literally crying that there was no trust in the relationship after they told their partner that they cheated but donât realize that thereâs no trust because they cheated. What do you expect?
Right!!
Honestly, you shouldn't forgive and stay in the relationship with a cheater if you can't ever forgive them or truly trust them again.
EXACTLYYYY
@@AmoraLili Exactly what I keep telling my friends,they won't listen
@@AmoraLili I agree with forgiving part but you will never truly trust them how you did before, but it's possible to live happily with different kind of trust (speaking from experience, I've been cheated on and forgave)
itâs funny how the pink-haired girl disagreed on once a cheater always a cheater, but she cheated in 3 out of her 4 relationships
technically 1 out of 4 is more than enough to disagree that statement.
i get the feeling the first three were when she was very young and immature. I think itâs possible she lacked empathy too - could be a narc (not sure though)
@@eris1279 all cheaters are narcissist. The black guy was the biggest example here
And wanted to be forgiven but didnât forgive the one guy who cheated on her lmao she even said she was a hypocrite herself, then called the guy in green jacket cheating for being a selfish personâŠ. She seems toxic only she can cheat lol đ
@@Birrrrra no. Not alp cheaters are narcissists
The amount of audacity that they have to expect their partners to fully trust them again after cheating is so over the top
@@vorpal22 boo
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Boo
She cheated 3 out of 4 of her relationships but wonât forgive the next person if they cheat on her lmfao the nerve
Yukim Nomoto bc she knows that it means the person doesnât love her
Yukim Nomoto ikr like I wish that someone cheats on her so she knows what it feels like.
1024th she said she got cheated on already
Double standards
i mean, she admitted that it was hypocritical, but that still doesnt negate her feelings
"Once a cheater, always a cheater"
*Disagrees*
*Cheats multiple times with no signs of stopping*
Hypocrisy is entrenched in some people.
Hes stopped now so it's not really hypocrisy he believes that he has made that progress and changed. His answer is valid.
Plus what some people consider cheating isnt what other people consider cheating. What if now he has separate set boundaries with his significant other (for example a non monogamous relationship). He mentioned that he makes new partners aware and that's prob one of the more important things about the process of change. Learning how you are and what's wrong with what you're doing and both work on those things but also work together with your next partner to ensure that your boundaries are set and that everyone is aware of the possibilities. Just bc you've done it multiple times doesnt mean you havent changed your lifestyle to adapt to the issues you have had with monogamy. Of course while also acknowledging that what you did was wrong and figure out other alternative to the decision you made.
I mean I disagree but your not wrong
So funny they ask that to cheaters
Pink haired girl: âIâve cheated in 3/4 of my relationshipsâ
**gets cheated on**
Pink haired girl: o_0
i think something tk consider is the fact that after she got cheated on she understood how it hurt her and why she shouldnât do it to other people
No guys it's only fun when I do it
The hypocrisy. The narcissism
â@@straw83rry.m1lk you don't know that she hasn't been in another relationship yet, she may (probably) cheat again.
@@straw83rry.m1lk she definetely didnt understand, her excuses here prove it
for me i could forgive someone for cheating on me but i couldn't give them another chance. because who's to say that you won't do it again? oh, just because you told me you wouldn't? i'm supposed to trust you still?
This! I have been cheated on and I forgave that person and we got back together but it didn't last long because I just couldn't trust them anymore. And just like the people in the video, they were frustrated and confused as to why I didn't trust them
Forgiveness is weakness, they will do it again as long as they are forgiven
wait omg ur profile pic>>>>>>
Well...yah like that's what Trust is based off of lol no guarantee no reassurance ur risking it "all" for a absolute foundation for ur relationship & the comfort of ur partner etc
Exactly and yes people change, but youâre not forced to be with them throughout their progress, because they might do it again you know
why are they complaining about how their partner doesnt trust them anymore....like yeah...you cheated on them lmaooo
lmao right?
Olivia Wilhite
I was thinking the exact same thing. They were legit surprised that the trust was broken and Iâm over here like: âwhy are you surprised? You cheatedâ
hmmm no, if you choose to forgive someone, that means moving on, and not trusting them means you clearly haven't moved on and shouldn't have forgiven them in the first place. Taking the step to still move forward and forgive that person means putting trust back into them that they've grown and learned. If you cant give them that trust back, dont take them back in the first place.
Pop Rocks u can forgive someone and not trust them lmao. Thatâs kinda how trust works. U break it, u build it back sorta thing. U donât just cheat and completely break somebodyâs heart and then expect your boyfriend to be chill with u going to a party with dudes lol. Thatâs the most selfish, insensitive thing Iâve heard in a minute
Pop Rocks you can forgive someone for what they did, but can still worry if theyâll do it again. Cheaters broke the trust, people forgave them but are wary as expected. You canât just expect to automatically be trusted again, thatâs ridiculous
It's kinda ironic hearing "cheaters" complaining about how their partners won't trust them after they broke that trust in the first place.....
Thath Plays literally
Exactly. Like what did they expect
A lot of cheaters are hypocrites đ
If you take someone back after theyâve cheated you need to either completely forgive them or not continue the relationship. The constant questioning after a while will only erode the relationship.
@@devin3955 I agree, but idk what that has to do with the irony of people who break the trust complaining about trust issues. Edited to also say, its not day and night either building that trust back up doesn't just happen because you decided to forgive them that takes time.
I like how the pink hair one contradicted themself within the space of two questions. âJust because I do something once as a mistake doesnât mean I should be haunted for itâ and then says she cheated 3 times but when someone cheated on her once she still hates him
I mean in her defense she got continuously cheated on for two years and it seems like she was taking the relationship seriously and loved the guy.
@@jace_919 karma
Pink hair look like a playa no cap but i will say this she knows you CANT CHEAT WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE
It fr dont make no sense at all
@@jace_919 those other guys she cheated on may have felt the same about her đ€·ââïž
its so fun to watch terrible people try their best to explain to others why they arent terrible
Love ur name itâs the prettiest color
ong bru
Facts all of them give that vibe of cheaters
yeah, they might've fooled their partners but they're not fooling anyone in this comment section and I love it. they deserve all the hate they're getting. Most of those narcs have no hope to get better.
Vincent and Jenn were straight up villainous imo
Now we definitely need an episode of people who have been cheated on instead
Yes!
DeshawnToo Live YESSSS, ME
I WOULD BE DOWN TO BE IN THE VIDEO!!!
U had 999 likes, im the one thousandth woo đ
roxy monro ...who gonâ tell âem?
There is something so wrong with how proud some of them are...
potato bake
Take the Asian and Black ones and let Them be raised by African and Asian parents, and Iâd tell ya!! đđbut they were born westernized, so they're far too goneđ€·ââïž
Pink hair girl is a nightmare
Where do they say theyâre proud? They canât act all ashamed if theyâre not. Theyâre being honest and itâs sad for you that you canât appreciate that
@charly jarrett literally
Where did they say that they were proud?
I think the concept of still wanting to be in a relationship because there are still "benefits" but also wanting the benefits of not being in a relationship is really...selfish. Just because you feel entitled to new experiences doesn't make it okay to drag your partners feelings through the mud. If you want an open relationship you should make that clear from the jump, and if you thought you wanted to be monogamous but changed your mind, you should give your partner the respect of allowing them to choose if that's what they want or not...no need to be sneaky, just be honest.
These people are so full of it I swear
I've been cheated on , and even tho it was some time ago it still affects me to this day. I'll have moments where I think I'm okay and I'm over it, but then it'll randomly pop into my head and I'll feel heart broken all over again. Don't cheat on your partners , it's better to just leave. You don't know how cheating will affect you or your partner especially long term. There's just things I can never view the same because of cheating...
the girl complaining about her boyfriend being insecure when she goes to parties like ??? honey he has his right,,, you actually cheated on him, he's not a pshyco
"i broke this person's trust, and now they don't trust me??? Huuuh???"
Fr
" I cheated on him and he thinks I'm gonna cheat at parties like tf"
Chile anyways...
I hope she sees this
IKR I was looking for this comment!!
He also needs some accountability because if he's still being petty like that when he "forgave" her then he still has issues with it and should've ended things.
What this has taught me: some people really shouldn't be in a relationship
these people play it as a game while some good people out there looking for relationship...............what a world
Some people need to deal with their issues before committing to a relationship where someone else's needs are important.
@@heartsxday but thatâs the problem with people nowadays. Once youâre in a relationship, you should expect to put your partner first before you. And your partner should do the same. You each should put each other first. Otherwise conflict will arise, which is inevitable, but as long as both partners KNOW they care for each other itâs all Gucci
The fact that they all felt it was acceptable to forgive a cheating partner really says something about their emotional maturity ngl
...or they should only commit to open relationships :)
"I'm connecting with someone..."
What these people do not understand is that having sex does not mean you are "connecting" with someone.
Connecting genitalia I guess LOL
Being cheated on has changed me in so many ways, canât even describe it. To my core I am not the same person, I will NEVER understand why someone does it. There is no rationale for it, truly. Iâm sorry, but everyone who cheats is an absolute dirtbag and deserves nothing but a life of guilt.
âIf the relationship is toxic then she has an excuse to cheatâ girl WHATTT if the relationship is toxic just leave
That's because she lied. It wasn't toxic, if anything she was more than likely the toxic one and he tried to correct her bad behavior so she deemed him to be "toxic" for it.
First of all, yeah, that is the right think to do but donât say it like leaving a toxic relationship is easy, it s one of the most difficult things one has to do
YES
Ana Maria if you can go to another person you can leave itâs not hard you just want to stay tell yourself your leaving an walk out no turning back
I was in a toxic relationship - like really toxic - and I cheated because I couldn't break up so much and I had to make the other person break up with me...
the guy claiming that people watching this at home are also cheaters, "we're all cheaters" has really convinced himself of that to minimize his actions and justify his behaviour.. no dude, not everyone is doing that, it's not the norm i'm sorryđ€·đ»ââïž
I hope he sees this fr đ
Eye. Some who watch this haven't even had someone.
i dont think he meant EVERY watcher... i have cheated and im watching so...
Truth! I havenât even been in a relationship so no, weâre not all cheaters just you and certain other people đ„Žđ„Ž
Yeah :/ Iâve never cheated and I have no desire to
Kudos to the guy who is always honest with a new partner about their past.
5:05 why are they so shocked? If you cheated, and they forgave you, itâs your job to rebuilt the trust. You canât blame them for losing their trust, you did this to yourself
My blood began to boil when the one girl said cheating is still better than breaking up with the first person since she can still have "benefits" from that relationship. Like, wtf is wrong with you?! It's not enough that you're breaking this person's heart but now you're bragging about milking them for all their worth?! Fuckin' hell
If you are raised a certain way and do not see a healthy relationship demonstrated by your parents, then there is a chance you will model their behavior. Maybe that is why she is like this.
i think the more important thing is that sometimes cheating is okay if a person is stuck in a toxic/abusive relationship and cannot safely leave it
@@oliviamaranto How can you not safely leave a relationship, makes no sense. If you can't safely leave than you can't safely stay either. @Blonde TapperWare is 1000% right.
@@oliviamaranto women can literally call the police, and they arrest the man by default, no questions asked. That's not an excuse for cheating
I believe in that instance that she felt she was treated poorly and thus wanted someone else to feel her pain.
That being said, she wanted to still build a relationship with said toxic person.
She was doing the âeye for an eyeâ scenario which if thatâs what youâve been exposed to, thatâs all you know.
People donât do better unless they know better.
Cheating will NEVER be okay.
Chloe Cobb call the police, seek help, fight back, run away, there are so many options
katherine Pastora Iâm not in an abusive relationship let alone any relationship but I appreciate the concern. Just saying for the people who r
Chloe Cobb cheating wont help you?
your dad yes I know that but some people r stuck and r in love with someone else but canât get out of the current relationship. I think cheating is not okay but u have to remember every situation is different
@@chloecobb9823 usually when people in abusive relationships cheat they are anyway caught and then are abused even more.
If you can cheat on someone you claim to love, I'd be interested to know what you do to people you hate
Hearing them try to justify their reasons is awful đ
Pink hair cheated on 3/4 relationships then is surprised when she gets cheated on đ What goes around comes around đŻ
*strongly disagreed with "once a cheater always a cheater"*
"on 3/4 of my relationships I was the cheater" god damn
iâm literally blown away by this girl. in the beginning of video she said that her parents cheated on eachother. my mom cheated on my dad for four years and my hatered towards cheaters is SOOO strong. the pain that my dad experienced bc of my mom cheating was absolutely horrible. it is insane that this girl could witness their own parents do these horrible things and still want to cause THE SAME PAIN to others.
This pink hair is a proud of her cheating! So happy to cheat!
Im glad she called herself a hypocrite.
i fricken hate her
Doing the middle ground with cheaters and people who got cheated would be cool too
They should have done it this way to begin with, this format i donât think was good for this topic.
I was just thinking this
@@indeathsquad yeah all it does is show how delusional they all are.
That's what they should've done in the first place lol this episode was kinda useless
I agree Ata
So the girl in the red skirt thought that long distance was an excuse to cheat??? My boyfriend is in the Navy and we did 20 months of long distance, 2 Deployments & 6-8 underwaysâŠand now we live together. If youâre in a long distance relationship, let alone ANY relationship, if you are t happy? Leave. Donât cheat.
I am getting so depressed watching them You literally made my day , can u tell me how to manage long distance relationship with my partner ,if it's not inconvenient đ đ
Personally i dont count long distance relationship as relationship if u never meet that person in real life
@@sykko14who cares
Why isn't anyone talking about how disgustingly smug some of these people are? They light up at the idea of cheating, and it's horrifying.
Guy in the green is laughing, smiling, and being prideful over betraying other peoples' trust. It's repulsive.
Imagine using "cheating runs in my family" as an excuse.
Amiri ayo amiri your vids are fire đ„
Lmao she tried making cheating a mental illness
Alright so BOOM. Today we have the top 5 signs of people straight up trippin. Not normal trippin, not lashing out, just straight up making no sense seemingly for the fun of it
@@nyshyn307 you are TOO funny!
Being exposed to that early on does teach you fucked up lessons about entitlement and self worth tho
The pink girl was probably pissed because she didn't cheat faster than him in her last relationship
Lmao
Facs
đ bruh iâm dead đđ
...why is this actually the truth tho đ
@Shurkf De78rore tf is wrong w u
"When a partner is toxic I should be able to cheat on them" instead of leaving because there is benefits. What TF?!
A panel of people who need to seriously mature, discover poly life, get into open relationships, work on their self-esteem.
My respect for them đđđđ
Imagine not watching the comment section after this for a sanity check.
OMG yes I'm so happy that people disagree with this video đ
underrated comment
iâm deadass reading the comment section AS the video is playing
Yeah I was so taken back by the Asian girl talking about why she is still working to forgive herself and not even mentioning the pain she caused her fiancée
@@__Cynthia well it's video about cheaters and their perspective.....
"after I cheated, they didn't trust me anymore"
*surprised pikachu face*
đđđ
Lol đ€Ł Logic
I was the 1000th like
omg holy cow
Yeah im dying from dumbness from looking at this video
Wish these people could understand the trauma they have caused and are causing. I was in a 2 Yr relationship and was cheated on the entire time unaware, and it caused deep emotional trauma and the inability to trust other people. Itâs NOT worth it. And you are not a victim if you cheat
All of this peoples are example of why you should never give cheater second chance...
âBut you still have benefits with this personâ Ladies and gentlemen. This is called using someone. Donât be like this
Itâs also completely and utterly disgusting.
Iâm your 1,000th like
Dangerous Productions neat
@@cornbreadandcollardgreenz congratulations
This is literally what I hate about cheaters, it's all about them, not the other ... selfish behavior and that woman represent what I hate about cheaters.
I only have one thing to say to cheaters, if they're not happy and/or feel the need to cheat, just break up you selfish pricks.
âOnce a cheater always a cheaterâ Pink haired girl disagrees and says people change, then goes on to say she cheated on 3 out of 4 of her relationships?????? Thatâs a cheater for life right there
she can think the saying is false in general while thinking that it might be accurate for her. or she meant that being the one cheated on changed her. what she did and said are not mutually exclusive here.
@@dopamineh3846 but it's not false in general most people who cheat once will probably most likely cheat again
not only that but cheating runs in her family. she needs therapy to resolve those issues first before she gets into another relationship
@@keyonbrown7775 i would like to see a study of some sorts to believe that. the saying is also false in that its saying that people are incapable of change, which obviously is not true
there are studies that show that people with a history of cheating are more likely to cheat than those who don't however it doesn't mean that someone who has cheated in the past will definitely cheat again.
bro imagine being engaged and your person is talking about how they cheated on you and you forgave them âbig timeâ
They can invite Ned from The Try Guys on their next cheaters video now!
The lady who blamed her partner for being suspicious of her after she cheated on him.... I just, its not his fault you decided to damage the trust in the relationship, and instead of working it out with him she said that leads to her wanting to cheat again. I just don't get it
Exactly what my ex told me after cheating repeatedly for 5 years, as a justification for what she'd done. Idk if I should laugh or cry
@@miguelnascimento2847 you forgave her after cheating for 5 years?!
brain damaged
that lady said at 2:30 that she didn't have sex, she emotionally cheated on the person.
Thank. You. I was like, "wtf?" The nerve, smdh.
âEverybody cheatsâ... no they donât. Yes people change, but not everyone cheats.
exactly đ the only people who say "everybody cheats" are the people who not only have cheated before, but also will 100% justify doing it again in the future
@@iheartvikings2012 Your profile pic is everyone watching this video
@@iheartvikings2012 actually i kinda say that because i am scared af of being cheated, i would never do that, but i have really huge trust issues
i dont cheat and i dont lie because i believe in karma.
@@jex7hi3h54 Same believes ,mate.
honestly, i love jubilee, and spectrum is my fav series besides odd one out and middle ground, but i don't think i can have sympathy for someone who broke someone elses trust, and saying that they are the victim
I notice a trend with cheaters. Most of them come across entitled
being cheated on literally ruined me , how can these people act like itâs normal
Sad excuse of human beings
Nuno Filipe I mean, not all girls r the same, not every single 1 of them r going to try to hurt u, I donât think itâs really riiiiight to generalize all females bc 1 female in ur life did something horrible to u, idk donât attack me, thatâs just what I think
GazelleInDisguise Agreed however a scary number are like that tho, i can admit that boys are even worse though :(
Faz Naz I agree, a lot of people nowadays r toxic and straight up jerks, but we donât have to focus on them. We can choose whether or not we keep those people in our lives, thatâs something that took me a long time to learn
GazelleInDisguise I prefer not to associate with such people and like yourself it took me a long time to learn from my mistakes so youâre not the only one. Peace.
Thereâs no excuse to cheat, stop making excuses, grow up and leave.
Amen
THANK YOU
Exactly
periodt
There are plenty of excuses to cheat. You just don't like them.
Itâs pretty sad to see how broken most of them are, Iâve been in spots where I could have cheated but the the guilt wasnât worth it and I believe a relationship is special
People who cheat arenât strong people. Itâs easier to cheat than to breakup with someone
Do one with people who got cheated on.
yes
do an episode of middle ground cheaters vs. cheatees
There would be more nice people for sure. And someone that actually made sense.
@@sirmel11 This is something I actually would really love to see.
This would be cool
Theyâre acting so surprised that their partner lost trust in them that itâs almost comical
Literalllyyy
Fr
Right!!
lmao fr
fr they have no common sense
Laughed my ass off for the question of once a cheater, always a cheater because I knew they were all going to disagree.
They all ran to cover their asses
I don't have empathy for cheaters. I was cheated on by my ex 10 years my elder, gaslit and manipulated after the fact that it was MY FAULT that it happened. Cheaters are awful, selfish and narcissistic people. There's NO excuse to cheat, you are responsible for yourself and if you can choose to cheat, you can choose to end it.
the girl who said âjust cause i made a mistake doesnât mean it should haunt me for the rest my lifeâ
this haunts people who get cheated on cause they can find it EXTREMELY hard to have trust in future relationships
Yâall just have superiority complexes. No one deserves to suffer and that includes the person that cheated. Youâre really going to sit their and say you never felt bad for hurting someone? It doesnât out weigh the pain you caused but constantly living in the shadow of the person you were can get old. People are capable of change and they shouldnât have to suffer forever.
@@averytucker503 there is no superiority complex it's about how the cheaters choices will affect that significant other
I wish I could like this 100 times... sadly I can't :(
True, straight facts.
@@averytucker503 I agree with you it shouldnât haunt them forever
"It's all about me right now" That sums up what cheating is about.
Just here to remind you that you 674 likes cause CZcams probs did not notify you
@@orang9407 what are you even trying to say? no one can understand thatđč
ìŒariana itâs easy to understand youâre just sped
@@nfba1508 it literally says âhere to remind you that you 674 likesâ HOW DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?
@@adorablecutiehorse "here to remind you that you [have] 674 likes, cause CZcams probs did not notify you"
They forgot ONE word...
getting cheated on by someone you trust fully and have been with for a long time is so traumatizing and devastating. fix your issues before messing up someone else
If youâre in a relationship and you feel like cheating, crazy idea, break up. Than your free from commitment to that one person or discuss an open relationship. There is no excuse for cheating xoxo
Cheating when youâre in a marriage or when you have a family is a whoooolleee different level.
You right
I have a coworker who has a wife and kids, and has never really has problems with her. He states he loves her very much but also proceeds to proudly confess every time heâs cheating on her. Like wtf is wrong with him. So ugly smh
âI just fee like he didnât trust me after that which is ridiculousâ because you CHEATED on him
Yeah I know I cheated on him and broke his heart, left him with severe trust issues, some mental and emotional damage with self worth issues but come on, he doesn't trust me anymore sO riDicuLOuS
I wanted my brains cells back when she said that
Sometimes I wonder why ppl like that are still proud of themselves or shocked.
"Wow it's so ridiculous that after i broke his trust he didn't trust me anymore like what is that"
GIRL WHAT
We have no context to judge her for saying that. She also said her cheating didn't involve sex and she didn't enjoy any aspect of it but didn't know how to say no. She also said that the relationship was long distance and wouldn't have worked out even if she hadn't cheated. We don't know how long they were together or how long after she cheated that she worked on gaining his trust back or the extent of her partner's trust issues. I get that it seems flippant without the details, but y'all don't know enough about the situation to be issuing judgements.
The fact that they dare to proudly present themselves as cheaters disgusts me
This is like a whole middle school relationship although they're all adults
Why wasnât âI will not cheat againâ a question, missed out big đ€Šđ»ââïž
Lol yea right like they're not gonna cheat again. Everything was: "me, me me" with that bunch.
Well thatâs a question that they probably wouldnât answer truthfully, but instead just choose no because they donât think they will. Itâs a bit of a loaded question
Because once a cheater always a cheater and if they were honest they would have all looked horrible.
radapox what the hell did you think â once a cheater always a cheaterâ question was about?
Manny Ochoa Because the answer is no đđ€·đŸââïž
I like how they judge the one girl cause she didn't enjoy cheating
I feel it's more like they're trying to understand why she cheated when she didn't enjoy it. I'm still confused.
@@rayechung8358 maybe she expected to like it in the moment then felt guilty afterwards
@@Aaron-kj8dv She clearly said she didn't enjoy it at all, not even in the moment. Which doesn't make sense.
@@raenfairy she said expected to and then maybe she went through with it and it didn't turn out how she expected
Fairy Princess she probably felt guilty the whole time
I don't think someone who cheated once will always be a cheater but *these particular people* all seem like they always will lol
lol exactly
staying with someone just for their benefits is sociopathic
is it bad that i stayed with the guy that cheated on me for the benefits??
@@itgirlkoo honestly idk. did u love him?
"Cheating on someone because they're toxic is a good excuse"
Girl.
Andrea Ramos itâs a reason but deffff not an excuse lol
Theyâre both the toxic ones smh
cheating can never and will never be excused
Toxic = leave. Cheating just delays staying with them
@@samx36 Some people are in really really bad, abusive situations where it's really hard for then to leave. At least for them to leave without dropping their entire life. In those types of situations, I don't blame them for finding someone else in the mean time while they try to get out. They don't have to and shouldn't care about their abuser's feelings.
That guy bragging about cheating multiple times is pissing me off
Why shouldn't he?
Hotobu of course he shouldnât itâs nothing to be proud of but I donât think he was bragging at all I think he was being honest about a hard time in his life
admitting you've repeatedly made a mistake and bragging are two completely different things
Ikr? What an ass. Having gone through pain in your life doesnât give you the right to hurt or traumatize others. No matter what you went through, there is NO excuse.
@@Hotobu because cheating is not a flex itâs disgusting
They all just made excuses for what they did.
All these guys are walking red flags. Instead of accepting their mistake they try to portray themselves as a victim.
âEveryone wants to find the right person but nobody is trying to be the right personâ -Surprised Pikachu Face
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But then if youâre the right person, how do you find the person to be the right person for?đ€Ż
I know Surprised Pikachu Face...Great author
bruh Iâm boutta change my whole life right now
Iâm sorry but when I looked over and saw your profile pic after reading this I bust out laughing đ
Cheaters actually think you have to forgive them. Insane.
I would, but I would also have an open conversation to find out why they did it
Frllll. I'll forgive u but we done. I was steak and u went to green beans. Now, u gotta stick with that. I'll forgive u, but i have no faith nor trust that u won't do it again.
@Fuck You but she got the nerve to "hold grudges"
If the partners choose to stay with them and forgive them, they have to work on the trust issues together. If youâre not willing to try to forgive, why would you stay with them. The relationship will never work out
@El Qone'ars cheater aren't you lol
Why would you forgive yourself, you are only forgiven by the person you cheated on. Thatâs just narcissistic
i never understood the concept of cheating behind someoneâs back, like if ur gonna cheat in the first place, why not just break up with ur partner and then do ur thing? Thats at least far less painful to other person
Girl:"people change"
Also her:"i cheated on 3/4 of my relationships"
Vania Astrella Adinata probably the 4th one wasnât that long, so she didnât have the time to cheat before he did lol
She said âpeopleâ she didnât say only her.
So you think she will stay the exact same 'til she's 60?
@@loubri5042 she still Was talking about herself
That's ironic lol
It really seems like weâre normalizing it
Cheating is normal most people cheat and most dont find out its only people like this who are proud of it who get caught
@@russell6075 normal does not make it good, right?
@@elliotross3217 he didn't say it made it good. But I don't think normal shouldn't of been the word used. It happens a lot for sure.
@@russell6075 its normal for trashy ppl lol
Sadly, yes.
4:48 this is your own fault. If you cheat on them you shouldn't be suprised that they don't trust you anymore.
Exactly what I was thinking. What did she expect from him.
Girl with pink hair will never change, she will cheat on you in the future.
Girl cheats on boyfriend, boyfriend forgives but doesnât trust as much anymore, girlfriend doesnât understand why đ§
Itâs honestly just ridiculous how they donât understand this
I once had a friend who broke up with her boyfriend who she cheated on, just because she knew he wouldn't be able to trust her again.
I think if you can't handle the trust issues that are going to come as a consequence of your actions, you should just end the whole thing. Trusting some one and forgiving them are different things.
IKR! Like you can NEVER regain that trust you once had before you cheated. You forever tarnish the relationship! Itâs psychologically damaging to get cheated on and you canât EVER expect your partner to heal up and trust you 100% after you said sorry. It can even impact their future relationships by giving them trust issues. Cheating is so damaging and shouldnât ever be normalised.
Well, because the boyfriend in fact did NOT forgive. Then be honest and say, I can't work past this..
I was gonna say...like wtf do you expect????
The fact that they think everyone is like them makes me feel grossed out.
Yup. They probably saw their parents do it đ€·đ»ââïžđ€·đ»ââïž
Rosalina Mayers keep having that cynical attitude and youâll keep tolerating dishonesty cause you think itâs normal lol
@@CL-fs3kt She's not tolerating being cheated on, she IS the cheater. I'd wager $100 on it.
@Rosalina Mayers i would never cheat iâve been cheated on and itâs not fun
Itâs a defense mechanism
cheaters dont deserve relationships.
I really hope we won't ever normalize this.
If you canât handle a long distance relationship, donât go into one.
Right. My boyfriend is in military training fir 6 months and i would never ever do anything to hurt him.
My partner is also in the military and I havent seen him in over 14 months because of travel restrictions. Never once did cheating cross my mind.
exactly
@@sallywagner188 You guys are good people.
How are you to know tho?
Im tired of people trying to normalise infidelity đŽ
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I get that, but if you only cheat one time (or feel remorse and change), then I donât think theyâre horrible people.
@@devlinfae they shouldnât cheat anyways
@@devlinfae they are horrible, theyâre just the best from a group of the worst people. You should strive to be to the group of the best people.
@@devlinfae nah you're still a horrible person if you cheated. If you feel like you're owed acceptance (like these people), you're worse.
At the beginning all these people were only being sympathetic to themselves as cheaters and not to the victims. They are such narcissists and self centered
âMy cheating is the result of not seeing healthy relationshipsâ um⊠excuse me?
My father cheated on my mother for YEARS. Everything was just awful afterwards and actually left me traumatized, yet I would NEVER cheat on my significant other just because of my fatherâs terrible actions. Our background does NOT excuse our wrong-doings. We should thrive to become better than those who precede us.
I deadass got so mad, that they were like "the trust is gone now" and I am like well wtf do you expect?
EXACTLY !!!!!!!
I got so heated when they said that
None of them expected to be forgiven right away they were just stating a fact is that not true?
ikr
@@hawkeyemihawkgettingmoneylord definitely a cheater
donât justify being a cheater. when youâre cheated on youâll understand someoneâs pain of thinking theyâre not enough.
ciara jade PERIODT, itâs almost like they think itâs some joke and they try to JUSTIFY it
Yea, this sounds logical. But I cheated back when I was cheated on (and never told them) because selfishly thatâs the only thing that made me feel better about what they did and thereâs even been times where I cheated first because I felt they were going to cheat on me anyway and I didnât want to risk feeling that pain so I âkept one upâ
I didnât necessarily want to put that pain on them, I selfishly wanted to avoid feeling the pain for myself
cv b Just cause your past put you in a toxic mindset doesnât give you justification to push that onto others and hurt them. I hope you stop the cycle and become a healthier individual.
@@cvb4117 if that person wasn't a trustworthy person to begin with why keep up a relationship? And I'm sorry but the thing with cheating on someone just because they did it or doing it because you only feel like they will sounds pretty selfish and doesn't make much sense
I would never take relationship advice from any of these people.
Jubilee really managed to make a video where I disliked ALL the people huh.
"You still have benefits with that person"
Thats you being selfish.
It depends on the relationship. They could be the sole breadwinner. They could have children together
@@ecarter141 no that's not how it works, you are being with someone just because you want those benefits that wrong
@@iamsahdev Breaking up isn't always easy though. Like if you are married. Or your kids need the other parent. Or if the other person is dangerous.
@@iamsahdev yeah it's not right but sometimes that's the choice you have to make. Not and easy or fair one but you have to think about the overall picture. Every relationship is different. It's not always as easy to just leave if your not happy
@Panda if youâre in a relationship where itâs considered too dangerous to leave, how the fuck is cheating a good idea. I see this reason all the time to justify cheating but it doesnât make sense, what do you think your abusive, psychotic partner is gonna do to you if they find out you cheated on them? My guess is theyâll probably beat you or worse....
Also I feel like people that cheat in abusive/âtoxicâ relationships should fix their priorities cause getting out should be their first priority, then seeking justice if their partner committed a crime against them.
Kinda disgusting how they all laughed together about their experiences with hurting someone who trusted them
Exactly, they are way too proud of it. Acting like it's normal behaviour
I agree however itâs different if they use it as something to cope with. I know I do but with things that only affect me and donât hurt people. But from this episode I see what you are saying
Exactly
you want to be sad the rest of there lives and cry when they talk about it
Tenicia Williams they could at least show some remorse when theyâre talking about it...
7:43 he's toxic so I cheat? wtf lmaoooo girl have y ever heard of the term BREAKING UP?
Love is respect. If you don't respect your partner then you don't love them, and cheating is such a disrespectful act.
Why are some of them acting so proud? discusting.
ikr?? especially the guy
because cheating is hot
vaughn amir. I hope you say that to the next person you fall in love with.
@@vaughnamir.6457 well ur personality aint
a person who cheats doesnât take stuff as seriously as other people
so i imagine most of this group are taking it lightly lol
Iâm personally disgusted by the idea that you can cheat on someone you love. Thatâs not love itâs convenience
Monogamy isnât natural to humans lol. Itâs a tradition that came out of religion
MeJustAimy itâs about respect for another person.
MeJustAimy if monogamy is natural to parrots and penguins it can be for humans too
MeJustAimy but poligamy has nothing to do with cheating. You can still cheat in a poligamous relationship. Cheating is about destroying the trust and boundaries in the relationship
I think some people are going through things that make them do things they donât mean to do to people they love, the same way a teen will yell at there parents.
1:40 in, THEN JUST GO BE SINGLE, whyre you damaging someone for your own pleasure. evil.
Jenn - has the audacity to never forgive cheating despite cheating 3/4 times in her relationships
Vincent - unashamedly admits that he enjoyed cheating
Jaz - is surprised her boyfriend is suspicious of her after she cheated on him
Leah - also unashamedly admits that she enjoyed cheating
I honestly applaud the cheaters for being brave enough to expose themselves as terrible people for the whole world to see.