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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • Heena and Paresh Patel run one of San Francisco’s most exciting restaurants - Besharam, a Gujarati Indian fine dining establishment. The name Besharam means “shameless”, a trait that the family has used to great benefit in their journey. Moving from London to California in the 1990’s, they worked for over 20 years running a liquor store/flower shop, before finally earning a chance to run their dream restaurant, all the while raising two successful children and maintaining the family. Today they’re proudly shameless, serving an exclusively vegetarian menu that’s exciting and delicious.
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Komentáře • 143

  • @jpmalu90
    @jpmalu90 Před 2 lety +255

    The ability to say "no" part got me. We're so privileged as first generation Indian Americans. Praise to our parents for paving the way - thanks munchies for sharing

    • @HARVEY_1988
      @HARVEY_1988 Před 2 lety +1

      @Timmy Tran lame

    • @vkchaitanya2003
      @vkchaitanya2003 Před 2 lety +4

      Nowadays even in India we say no. You guys are stuck with an impression of 70s and 80s India. Times have changed every where

    • @vkchaitanya2003
      @vkchaitanya2003 Před 2 lety +1

      @Timmy Tran Well, here we aren't even talking about food.

    • @afirblameikon
      @afirblameikon Před 2 lety +2

      @Timmy Tran u good Tim?

  • @kaleboppenheimwhite3929
    @kaleboppenheimwhite3929 Před 2 lety +59

    Took a class from Heena at San Francisco Cooking School. She’s not only an insane cook but also one of the kindest people I’ve met to emerge as a top sf chef. Seriously though, Heena’s food is crazy

  • @GregCurtin45
    @GregCurtin45 Před 2 lety +98

    This is where #Munchies excels at what it does best. Introducing a family that works together for the common good with respect for each members individuality -- the complete opposite of what I grew up in. Thanks to the Patel family for sharing their story and continued happiness and success (not just in business, but in life).

  • @aznamoon1111
    @aznamoon1111 Před 2 lety +108

    There aren’t a lot of Gujarati restaurants in the US let alone women owned, so it’s really cool to see it happen. I’m Gujarati American and feeling super inspired by this family. Wishing them all the best and planning to go their restaurant when I go to SF.

    • @zarf4219
      @zarf4219 Před 2 lety

      Bruh ! You need to visit Dallas then

    • @aznamoon1111
      @aznamoon1111 Před 2 lety

      @@zarf4219 - definitely need to check it out when I’m next in town! Growing up, there were zero. It’s become a more recent thing in the last 10 years. I know there are pockets of places like Edison, NJ, Bensalem, PA, SoCal, however there are still a lot more northern and southern restaurants (which are also my favorites) around without having to travel far.

    • @Terahydron
      @Terahydron Před 2 lety

      Patel resturant you mean.

  • @nh0522
    @nh0522 Před 2 lety +24

    damn, parents are so loving to each other and their kids and so then the siblings also develop a strong and functional relationship

  • @corgeousgeorge
    @corgeousgeorge Před 2 lety +27

    The program "La Cocina" that helped the Chef/Owner get started sounds incredible and I'm glad she gave them a hearty shout out in the piece here. I wonder if it's a government program or an NGO or something. Should be more like it around the country.

  • @altameseosborne
    @altameseosborne Před 2 lety +36

    This is one of my favorite episodes. The family dynamic is so authentic!

  • @eatmoremusic3650
    @eatmoremusic3650 Před 2 lety +18

    I was tearing up already before the daughter did, what an incredible family story thank you munchies

  • @melissalundberg1984
    @melissalundberg1984 Před 2 lety +53

    I can't believe nobody has commented on how absolutely gorgeous Heema is!! She's just gotten more attractive over time, and this video shows that she's just as beautiful on the inside. What an amazing woman and family, I wish them the best life has to offer and much more success for many years to come!! I wish I wasn't so far away from San Diego, I'd love to be able to eat at their restaurant!! Maybe one day lol 🤷🏼‍♀️🤞🏻

  • @sarina6850
    @sarina6850 Před 2 lety +11

    Heena aunty is so adorable and can I just say what a beautiful family inside and out. When the daughter was tearing up about recognizing the privilege ahhh it really struck a chord. How wonderful xoxox love to see desi families thrive

  • @JusJ22
    @JusJ22 Před 2 lety +4

    This made me cry. We don’t thanks our loved ones enough for giving us this opportunity. I wish this beautiful family the very best!!!

  • @gautamchandran
    @gautamchandran Před 2 lety +6

    What a wonderful couple..she still has a cute Gujarati accent even after such a long time..a very inspirational story..and yes..What an amazing family

  • @tiffanythompson5072
    @tiffanythompson5072 Před 2 lety +8

    I just love this story, seriously. Her story is so inspiring. I can feel the love in this, I love how close they are as a family. They have done good. I wish I could taste the food.

  • @stapletonwill
    @stapletonwill Před 2 lety +7

    I always want to be able to walk into a restaurant and say "give me the full experience" I want to learn, and having someone so passionate about their food really does remove barriers.

  • @lhamilt
    @lhamilt Před 2 lety +11

    I love the empowerment to stand in authenticity. No need to translate, it is what it is, enjoy it!

  • @Bibbly53
    @Bibbly53 Před 2 lety +5

    Good lord do I ever love Munchies docs. Bless your production teams for these amazing biopics, stories, and displays of cuisine in so many forms.

  • @bigbird2451
    @bigbird2451 Před 2 lety +2

    Instant classic. A literal tear jerker. Show this in schools.

  • @therenaissanceredneck8825

    I love this... Vice, this is a wonderful way to highlight people with a dream and determination. “No” is a profound word. What a wonderful family and story. You are on my bucket list when I'm in SFO.❤️

  • @soumyadeepkundu6025
    @soumyadeepkundu6025 Před 2 lety +9

    Couldn't help notice the giant pack of Parle-G at 9:00 mins. Nothing screams India more than that.

  • @SuPaHDomE
    @SuPaHDomE Před 2 lety +3

    Beautiful story of many 1st generation to carry on what out parents accomplished and achieved. Now a legacy is born, congratulations to your endeavors and and munchies for great pieces like this

  • @Anespian1
    @Anespian1 Před 2 lety +6

    "i create what you crave"...voila!

  • @jamessitati7396
    @jamessitati7396 Před 2 lety

    family goals, this is should be a teachable moment that families can co exist under pressure and still smile at each other at the dinner table, i am so proud of this family especially being that the dad is an east african like me.

  • @atulkotian
    @atulkotian Před rokem +1

    I was here yesterday and the food is exceptionally good. Some dishes are authentic to the bone while others are modern interpretations of traditional foods which is an interesting combination to have. Nonetheless worth the experience. It was a great trip to my childhood in eating foods my Gujarati neighbors would send over all the time growing up.

  • @trinicarillo4179
    @trinicarillo4179 Před 2 lety +3

    I am not crying 😢 this is so beautiful 😍 bravo to this family and these parents. Immigrants get things done.

  • @kelshakes
    @kelshakes Před 2 lety +2

    A very lovely and hard working family. I wish them continued success

  • @Asispanda
    @Asispanda Před 2 lety

    Aunty’s original accent is to die for…what fierce people. So happy to have witness them.

  • @RobertPeters4674
    @RobertPeters4674 Před 2 lety +8

    Cool episode, hope you keep making more Family Food videos Munchies.

  • @kikkirow
    @kikkirow Před 2 lety +4

    Heena is so gorgeous and the pride you see on her face is amazing. The passion is there and the food looks delicious. Way to take the opportunity for cooking classes.

  • @Indestructible420
    @Indestructible420 Před 2 lety +6

    I love her energy and desire to always do her best for her guests. Hope to try this place one day!

  • @rikdah
    @rikdah Před 2 lety +4

    All that food is what I ate growing up in a Gujarati family. Delicious!

  • @coltonvanessa5096
    @coltonvanessa5096 Před 2 lety +1

    Every city needs an incubator program like that

  • @haroldrodriguez9418
    @haroldrodriguez9418 Před 2 lety +5

    Indiana people are awesome man!! Still to this day I haven't met a bad one yet.. the food is good but man they love spicy food I was praying to the porcelain God for a week damn near

    • @vkchaitanya2003
      @vkchaitanya2003 Před 2 lety

      You will meet someone, but the truth is everyone is an individual and that doesn’t say anything about india

  • @manz297
    @manz297 Před rokem

    This is my favorite restaurant in the world!

  • @gosikh
    @gosikh Před 2 lety

    Yeeees, I am sitting in east bay at 2.30am watching this.
    I am definitely coming over and trying these dishes.

  • @CA2591
    @CA2591 Před 2 lety

    Great story. Touching the reaction to father’s advice

  • @BlissBlooded
    @BlissBlooded Před 2 lety +1

    happy for u heena massi, love from ahmedabad.

  • @hannaschmied920
    @hannaschmied920 Před 2 lety

    This the most inspiring but at the same time wholesome video! I have a very similar relationship with my family! All round love this!

  • @greatvaluecorndog
    @greatvaluecorndog Před 2 lety +1

    what lovely folks.

  • @alvinlee140
    @alvinlee140 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for showing this restaurant.

  • @christoshibu3622
    @christoshibu3622 Před 2 lety +2

    The art in there looks so cool

  • @Sbeth85
    @Sbeth85 Před 2 lety +8

    Can we have a part 2 where you go in depth about some of her dishes?

    • @eighty9
      @eighty9 Před 2 lety

      @Timmy Trantrue. Not even fine dining. Just two Gujarati dishes doesn't make it a Gujarati restaurant

  • @EternityRecordsUSA
    @EternityRecordsUSA Před 2 lety +1

    What a lovely family

  • @SaiyanABlazeNinja
    @SaiyanABlazeNinja Před rokem

    8:59 SHOUTOUT PARLE G BABY!

  • @M2a3i
    @M2a3i Před 2 lety

    Who’s cutting onions 😭- I love their closeness- it’s so inspiring!

  • @thisduderockz
    @thisduderockz Před 2 lety

    i swear this family looks like a single father raising his 2 daughters and son... the mom looks like she can be a daughter and/or sister to her own daughter.

  • @user-kv4mw9eo6k
    @user-kv4mw9eo6k Před 3 měsíci

    I am also from thasra.nice to see u stay blessed

  • @SunnyRawka
    @SunnyRawka Před 2 lety

    Beautiful story, INCREDIBLE 🙇🏻‍♂️🙏🤌🏼

  • @willemp6432
    @willemp6432 Před 2 lety +1

    What a beautiful family.....⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @ShittyBill
    @ShittyBill Před 2 lety +1

    Beautiful is so many ways. What a women. Dosto walla 💯

  • @justsaying9456
    @justsaying9456 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow! Thank you!

  • @PeterSIpeli
    @PeterSIpeli Před 2 lety

    i watch so many of these videos bt this is so wonderful.

  • @isaacb725
    @isaacb725 Před 2 lety

    I love how they're just an average Indian American family 🙏❤️

  • @Hermacles
    @Hermacles Před 2 lety +3

    Damn that looks so good!

  • @Ayo-this-is-Dad-Bunny-0-1-0-1

    Munchies On Fire...!!!!

  • @isaacb725
    @isaacb725 Před 2 lety

    Gonna go eat here when I go back to the bay to see my friend 🤟🤟

  • @sumawav
    @sumawav Před 2 lety +1

    I want to be like them when I grow up

  • @randallfernandall6534
    @randallfernandall6534 Před 2 lety

    This is the polar opposite of kitchen nightmares

  • @jaya5920
    @jaya5920 Před 2 lety

    such a beautiful family

  • @bodyandsoulinconstanttrans9190

    Beautiful !

  • @adi-kr6sh
    @adi-kr6sh Před 2 lety +1

    amazing

  • @michelermitchell
    @michelermitchell Před 2 lety +2

    Would love to dine there! In what type of dish are the little (fried?} hollow balls utilized?

    • @Sadielayli1232
      @Sadielayli1232 Před 2 lety +5

      most likely for pani puri or dahi puri. there’s a lot of variations for both of those dishes

    • @michelermitchell
      @michelermitchell Před 2 lety

      @@Sadielayli1232 Thank you! I searched youtube and now wish even more so that this cuisine was available in my area.

  • @artsavo4400
    @artsavo4400 Před 2 lety

    Nice guys and great looking food.

  • @etf42
    @etf42 Před 2 lety +4

    got damb the daughter is foinnnee!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @krislv9219
    @krislv9219 Před 2 lety

    I mean you’re Patels of course you’re entrepreneurs, it’s in your blood and families. Well done 😊

  • @funkyboodah
    @funkyboodah Před 2 lety

    what a successful family... this IS the American Dream

  • @gmmamaof3496
    @gmmamaof3496 Před 2 lety

    Love this story ❤️

  • @tonymontana6823
    @tonymontana6823 Před 2 lety

    Mom is one cool cat.

  • @johnk3071
    @johnk3071 Před 2 lety

    Looks 👍 great..

  • @CA2591
    @CA2591 Před 2 lety

    She’s beautiful 😻

  • @FPV_TOMMY
    @FPV_TOMMY Před 2 lety +1

    So everybody gonna ignore the fact that Rachel Zane works in restaurants now and has a piercing lol

    • @roman5782
      @roman5782 Před 2 lety +2

      A lot thicker, but in a good way!

  • @SandroM_
    @SandroM_ Před 2 lety +2

    More family buissness videos please!

  • @pfv1247
    @pfv1247 Před 2 lety

    She has a beautiful voice! I love her voice!!

  • @pratap680153037
    @pratap680153037 Před 2 lety

    @munchies it would have been more fun to watch if a preparation of a dish was shown…. JUs a thought !!

  • @ugetsy
    @ugetsy Před 2 lety +1

    the word "MY" seems to make the man sad al the time.

  • @waltergross2870
    @waltergross2870 Před 2 lety

    cool video

  • @lucyhenley8283
    @lucyhenley8283 Před 2 lety

    No besharam in the mark up on a bowl of dal.

  • @erica_thecreator
    @erica_thecreator Před 2 lety

    Talk about a 180 lol

  • @rachmadsuhartono
    @rachmadsuhartono Před 2 lety

    pretty moms produce pretty daughters

  • @dhruvrankawat6112
    @dhruvrankawat6112 Před rokem

  • @MrLakers92
    @MrLakers92 Před 2 lety

    Waittrtt this is in the city?? 🤞🏾😍

    • @MrLakers92
      @MrLakers92 Před 2 lety

      And the La Cocina project 🤎🤎🤎

  • @josephjoneslv1292
    @josephjoneslv1292 Před 2 lety

    Beautiful family making something out of nothing ❤️

  • @winviegrace
    @winviegrace Před 2 lety +1

    they arr soo sweet

  • @dr.python
    @dr.python Před 2 lety

    This is height of shamelessness

  • @whatevereyewant
    @whatevereyewant Před 2 lety +3

    Lollll he’s just sitting there in like a Bill Burr voice going “Weee know you’re fucking proud of yourself honey, why don’t you pat yourself on the back more?!”

  • @keyboardbasher5769
    @keyboardbasher5769 Před 2 lety

    niiceeee

  • @michaeljvandyck
    @michaeljvandyck Před 2 lety

    Love this video, but it makes me sad.

  • @baseycaker
    @baseycaker Před 2 lety +1

    The sound mixing definitely needs some work here!

  • @96manik
    @96manik Před 2 lety

  • @shanana5822
    @shanana5822 Před 2 lety

    Portland actually has a law that white women can't make tacos?

  • @banajitboro4559
    @banajitboro4559 Před 2 lety

    It's kinda disrespectful for Indians speaking English is it really too difficult to understand our English that you are providing Subtitles

  • @MrSatukali
    @MrSatukali Před 2 lety

    No hairnet in the kitchen?

  • @sandeepsmatharu
    @sandeepsmatharu Před 2 lety

    Her arms looks fuzzy...

  • @cheesesauce1560
    @cheesesauce1560 Před 2 lety +4

    Besharam is one of the worst insults you can call an Indian. And she literally said it is her life... 🤦‍♂️

    • @Honeymagmangospoof
      @Honeymagmangospoof Před 2 lety +7

      Exactly what I thought ridiculous name for a restaurant

    • @norbonius
      @norbonius Před 2 lety +29

      If you go to the restaurant’s website, it explains why she called it that. People called her dreams of professionally cooking “besharam”. She simply claimed the word and turned it into her own powerful “F you”.

    • @anandrv81
      @anandrv81 Před 2 lety +1

      @@norbonius brilliant interpretation and correct of course

    • @Honeymagmangospoof
      @Honeymagmangospoof Před 2 lety +1

      @@norbonius her food is mediocre at best. Tried and tested. If you’re Hindu or Urdu speaking you will be aware that besharam is a word which goes far beyond a f you. I’ speak Hindi so I know very well what she was interpreting and by no means it is what she has claim to justify on her website .
      It’s like basically naming a restaurant “puta” I’m sure you won’t do that

    • @norbonius
      @norbonius Před 2 lety +2

      @@Honeymagmangospoof
      1. It’s calling a woman shameless. And she owned it and said, “So what?” I can’t speak on how her food is, but I appreciate the attitude.
      2. If you don’t think those of us with Latino heritage would do the same and own that shit, you are sorely mistaken.

  • @allanpereira208
    @allanpereira208 Před 2 lety +1

    Disgusting 🤮

  • @Honeymagmangospoof
    @Honeymagmangospoof Před 2 lety

    her food is mediocre at best. Tried and tested. If you’re Hindu or Urdu speaking you will be aware that besharam is a word which goes far beyond a f you. I’ speak Hindi so I know very well what she was interpreting and by no means it is what she has claim to justify on her website .
    It’s like basically naming a restaurant “puta” I’m sure you won’t do that

    • @jasonwaghela4437
      @jasonwaghela4437 Před 2 lety +4

      not really, "besharam" i think from her own perspective and experience the way she approached the story behind naming the place was more of her liberation by becoming more "shameless"- is the exact translation(i'm a hindi+gujrati speaker :), so noo its nowhere near "puta".

    • @eighty9
      @eighty9 Před 2 lety

      Agree Food looks mediocre. But, besharam & puta are different things.

    • @lillyess385
      @lillyess385 Před 2 lety

      You're really triggered by the name. Lol. That reflects more on you than her, just so you know.

    • @Honeymagmangospoof
      @Honeymagmangospoof Před 2 lety

      @@lillyess385 also doesn’t shy away from the fact the food is overpriced and sucks

  • @RiotOfDeath
    @RiotOfDeath Před 2 lety +2

    imagine needing to say 'woman owned business' to prove something.. just saying, I don't see any of the great companies saying 'man owned business'.. the insecurity is real.

  • @Diggnuts
    @Diggnuts Před 2 lety +2

    yeah.. that does not look very .. appetizing at all.. I know looks are not everything, but at least make an effort to not make it look like puke FFS!

  • @HerbSoolLLC
    @HerbSoolLLC Před 2 lety +2

    why dont they wear gloves? I wouldnt want anyone touching my food. Besides that this looks really good. Quality Indian food. But please WEAR GLOVES!!!

    • @sycofya1677
      @sycofya1677 Před 2 lety +1

      Yess

    • @trolllovindaddy
      @trolllovindaddy Před 2 lety +28

      Watch any video with Gordon Ramsay cooking and tell me if he wears gloves

    • @avinashprasad2535
      @avinashprasad2535 Před 2 lety +32

      Most restaurants' chefs dont, its easier AND safer to wash hands more frequently than sanitize the gloves. If you don't "want anyone touching your food".... you'd kinda have to restrict to fast food chains only, where workers DO wear gloves as they are part timers that can't be trusted to do their job efficiently.
      Like, most pizzerias have chef spread/shape the pizza by hands afterall, most don't wear gloves while doing so.

    • @lalrinzualakhiangte1321
      @lalrinzualakhiangte1321 Před 2 lety +19

      Gloves are not very practical in most kitchens. Hot utensils, liquids and food in general + what this guy said about washing hands routinely being more sanitary than using gloves for extended periods of time.

    • @sycofya1677
      @sycofya1677 Před 2 lety +1

      @troll daddy Gordon Ramsey is trash tho

  • @ansonfood12
    @ansonfood12 Před 2 lety +1

    What a beautiful family