Its absolutely ruined mine, I have been with my partner 8 years, before we always indulged in whatever, I liked her making her happy and we enjoyed every weekend having fantastic sex. To me it feels like she spent the first 6 years of our relationship pretending to enjoy sex. Being what I wanted to make me happy. As soon as we had a child everything stopped. I never get touched, kissed, hugged, sex is always a reward for doing something for her in return. Its worked for everytime, The way I look at her sometimes and she drives me crazy appears the 9 months of pregnancy and 2 years of our child, not once has she suggested sex or made the first move. I understand her life is upside down. Im an out going guy, I never have issues making girls laugh but I would never ever cheat. I grew up in a female dominant household and like making people feel good about themselves or putting a smile or someones face with a joke or a gift or just spending time with them. Im sexually frustrated, Im the only earner in the house, she just is a stay at home mum. I go to the gym keep my muscle mass to a large extent but not roid head size. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I have never been so un happy sexually and if I bring it up I am a pig now. Shes got what she wants, kid, house, money has got fat ( This is natural with having children but after 2 years has just put on more and more weight) I dont believe I am better than anyone, but her inability to make me feel good about myself when most girls I speak to via work etc flirt with me and I would never flirt back. Im with her and thats that. However I do not believe it fair I spend my life now having to watch porn when I want to be sexually active. She is my best friend, I cant leave her, I love my daughter. But at this rate I will be forced to leave as I do not believe I should be miserable and not enjoying my life so she can go about doing what she has wanted. If I leave her because she has no interest in making me happy sexually Im the problem, if I cheat I am the problem. It makes me never want another child again. So yes it does ruin your sex life, and ultimately your sense of well being and feeling of worth to the person you love. Women will out right fake their entire identidy to get the life they want for years and once they have it, will not listen or adapt or compromise.
Its absolutely ruined mine, I have been with my partner 8 years, before we always indulged in whatever, I liked her making her happy and we enjoyed every weekend having fantastic sex. To me it feels like she spent the first 6 years of our relationship pretending to enjoy sex. Being what I wanted to make me happy. As soon as we had a child everything stopped. I never get touched, kissed, hugged, sex is always a reward for doing something for her in return. Its worked for everytime, The way I look at her sometimes and she drives me crazy appears the 9 months of pregnancy and 2 years of our child, not once has she suggested sex or made the first move. I understand her life is upside down. Im an out going guy, I never have issues making girls laugh but I would never ever cheat. I grew up in a female dominant household and like making people feel good about themselves or putting a smile or someones face with a joke or a gift or just spending time with them. Im sexually frustrated, Im the only earner in the house, she just is a stay at home mum. I go to the gym keep my muscle mass to a large extent but not roid head size. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I have never been so un happy sexually and if I bring it up I am a pig now. Shes got what she wants, kid, house, money has got fat ( This is natural with having children but after 2 years has just put on more and more weight) I dont believe I am better than anyone, but her inability to make me feel good about myself when most girls I speak to via work etc flirt with me and I would never flirt back. Im with her and thats that. However I do not believe it fair I spend my life now having to watch porn when I want to be sexually active. She is my best friend, I cant leave her, I love my daughter. But at this rate I will be forced to leave as I do not believe I should be miserable and not enjoying my life so she can go about doing what she has wanted. If I leave her because she has no interest in making me happy sexually Im the problem, if I cheat I am the problem. It makes me never want another child again. So yes it does ruin your sex life, and ultimately your sense of well being and feeling of worth to the person you love. Women will out right fake their entire identidy to get the life they want for years and once they have it, will not listen or adapt or compromise.
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It doesn't ruin your sex life you are prioritising sex over your children, best solution you shouldn't have children in the first place
I disagree. I think the hope is to find some balance.