stop chasing unrequited love (don't your feet hurt already?)
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 28. 06. 2024
- It's time to hang up those laces and stop chasing after people who don't reciprocate your feelings. This video provides a few tips on how to do this so that. You deserve a healthy love that seeks you out and is within your reach. (:
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0:00 intro
1:41 tips to stop chasing
5:02 words of encouragement
6:03 conclusion
you dont understand how perfect this video is for me at this exact moment in my life
iâm so glad it could find you at the right moment! âš
I use to chase was terrified of friends leaving and that was draining to people. Choked away 2 relationships 10 years ago. Over time my body kind of just adapted and I no longer care who comes and goes. My hobbies are what have healed me and saved me from so much trama and awful memories. Mediation doesnât work for ke but I figured out away around that Skydiving isnât a hobby but the drop from the plane creates the meditative state I failed at trying to do on my own. I have a few close friends and Iâve been single for so long now that Iâve gotten to comfortable with it.
i appreciate you sharing your journey and i think it's great you've used your hobbies to create peace for yourself! everyone has their own methods and i think that's totally valid. it also sounds like you have a balance that works well for you; you aren't chasing relationships anymore and you sound like you're good with your close group of friends and being single. it's important to do what feels right for you and respect your needs. there's nothing wrong with being single! life's about finding what works best for us, i'm hoping to make a video on this topic at some point in the future! (:
What a beautiful video. Just next week I was thinking of talking to my psychologist about the reason why I've been constantly chasing validation of others (specially males) for years. And nope, I'm not proud of that. I'm really tired and it's obviously not working.
I hope I'm starting to learn how to let people go and stop chasing. As you said, I've been putting myself in second place for a long time. I haven't taken care of myself because of people that don't even like me/respect me. It's crazy, and I'm so done with it.
I wish you luck and all the love to everyone who's going through something like thisâ€
talking to your psychologist about the subject is definitely a good idea! for me, i realized i was trying to get others (men in particular, similar to you) to fill unmet needs i didnât think i could give myself. i also realized i have a pattern of liking men who arenât necessarily capable of meeting those needs due to unhealed issues in their own life. no one is at fault here, but once we understand why we engage in destructive patterns it can be easier to stop them and heal. thatâs great youâre tired of putting yourself in second place; when weâre sick of feeling a certain way, we have no choice but to figure out how we can change and grow in order to no longer feel that way. good luck in your personal growth journey and iâm glad my video was able to resonate in some way. đ€
love your mindset and emotional intelligence đ€also youâre so prettyâ€
thank you so much!! đ€
God I needed this so bad lmao, I'm almost a lil unsettled that this came into my recommended at the perfect time
divine timing is so powerful!
Omg I just found ur channel and I'm grateful for itâ€â€â€
Girl I never comment but this video was amazing, keep going, I'm going through this right now and this felt like a hugâ€ïž
thank you so much, i'm so glad it was able to resonate and comfort you! i definitely plan on staying consistent with my uploads and appreciate you for keeping me encouraged. also, YOU GOT THIS! heartbreak seriously sucks but you will get through it, and i hope my videos continue to resonate and help you on your healing journey đ€
I needed this thank you â€
of course. iâm glad it could help đ€
Thank you for posting this. God bless you in everything you do.
same to you đ€
Love this boo â€â€â€
Wake up TeAirra posted đŁïžđŁïž *me watching this at 4am đ
we're just not gonna talk about how it's been half a year since the last upload hehe
I love you so
Much for this girl pls make more đđ
new video coming hopefully next week stay tuned! đ€
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Shout out scrat tho đ
we love scrat lol!
you ever grow up w someone and thought you were teaching them but really they taught you way more? so great seeing u on my fyp texirra - some random girl named sol who remembers u from hs đ„čđ«¶
this comment made me smile so much đ„č your name sounds familiar! i hope youâre doing well and thank you for watching đ€