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- čas přidán 19. 11. 2020
- In today’s installment we explore our very eventful coming together.
It was ‘complicated’ to say the least while being God inspired at the same time.
We unpack lessons learnt in hindsight, forgiveness for past mistakes and reaffirming our love and commitment to one another.
#TheMakhs #LifeIsButAdream #HowWeMet
"A man that loves God more will love you right" I loved that.
A woman that loves Gods will love u right.🤗
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Equally important❤️
I can relate to this ...I was also 24 and my hubby 22. We were not in God but my hubby knew he would marry me. Got engaged after 2 months of dating. When I got serious about seeking God years into our marriage, I prayed for my hubby and it was not long (less than a week) and we were both seeking & growing in God together. His grace has kept us and in October we'll be celebrating 17 years together! May God continue to bless your marriage!
I prayer for the young lady that you apparently weren't serious about. That she be healed and have a gealthy perspective about her life in God.
This!!!
I had to stop watching after that because... NO!
@@tranquilsck ....explain please
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A lot of people are dating as immature people. Awakening love before its time.
It's painful, but it's not abnormal or unheard of. A lot of people go through this.
That's why I'm not into this dating around lifestyle. Dating people's husbands to be and wives to be...
These folks, sigh. They shouldve handled this a whole lot better. But they know that, and it's a lesson for those who will see this
@@tranquilsck naaaah. Don’t be offended. I know It’s painful to be on the other side but do you know it’s for her good? I mean the ex! Imagine her marrying this man just to have a terrible marriage. It’s painful but we need to learn that most of these men just date and that’s why we need to ask the Lord if this is it!
Many Christians are only woke. They don’t know that God is interested in every area of their lives.
Have you not seen how marriages have been mocked by satan? Have you not seen that people get married by feelings and then they end up divorcing?
It’s painful yes! Painful that he was just wasting that lady’s time. But I’m happy he found his wife so she can move on! I’m sure God will reward the lady and help her heal.
God doesn’t do half work!
God also revealed to me how he wants relationships that will stand firm because it was ordained by him. Not just carnal people choosing for theirself.
“She was clear about me but even CLEARER about Jesus” 😭❤️🙌🏿
True story 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
A true story of Matthew 6:33
Deep
Be blessed. My husband and I have been married for 48 years on 12/152020.
Congratulations Mary
Congratulations‼🌟🙌🙏 I am 48 years old & will be 49 this year. I love it when I know of couples who have been married as long as I've been alive❣🌈🌝⭐🌞🎉
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Wooooowww 🙌🏾🙌🏾 His grace is truly sufficient for us
“People are constantly trying to negotiate with themselves, negotiate with their conviction , negotiate with their values “ mmm I felt that 💯💯🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Lerato dropping pearls there!✊🏽✊🏽❤️
DEEP DEEP!
Ameeeen!!! I think 🤔 it is because there is so much noise in the world 🌎 and many voices are speaking at the same time . As Mrs Makhs says on here sometimes GOD’s voice in us is not loud. And maybe, if we tried hard enough to listen 👂 to it-it would be much more easier to remain steady in our convictions than not. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
When GOD wants two people together !!! It will happen in ways you can’t imagine 😂GOD is amazing!!! I’m enjoying this!!!😃
He is so strategic❤️❤️
so true
This is what I am slowly coming to accept which is a bit hard because honestly, it's hard to understand. What do we do when we dont understand?
Me tooo!
I appreciate this comment. Thank you
"relationship is supposed to awaken something in you that you don't necessarily know is there" shuuuu! 🙌
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This is so profound
Amen!!!❤️🙏🏽❤️
Oh absolutely!!!!
Someone said when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. Yho Godly marriage in our day in age. I stan!!!!!
Everytime I watch you guys, I feel compelled to be a better man. Thank you so much for being real and allowing us into your space.
Oh wow!! This is such a great honour 🥺❤️. We are truly humbled by what God is doing here❤️❤️❤️😩😩
I loved when you said, "My attraction to my wife was a spiritual attraction" not a physical one.
Smiling as that was my attraction to my present husband. Met him 34 years ago and we got married 5 years ago
"staying in prayer when God reveals something to you"!!
That is so important🙏🏾🙏🏾
Please can you pray for me i have been struggling with this
I needed to hear this
I must be the only Jamaican here but I'm happy to be. I broke up with my on and off again boyfriend while watching this. He's a road block. Thank you guys
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Your not at all hun and all the best with your next relationship this time hand picked my God
Definitely not the only Jamaican reevaluating your reasons behind the relationship is so important. I had to do that, but trust God enough to guide you to where you need to be. He loves you 🤗🤗 more than any guy can and lead will to someone that will love you with God’s ❤️
not the only Jamaican
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For me a women of substance will always influence a man to become the best version of himself........and that is what Pheto is 👌🏽
That we s very affirmations and we couldn’t agree more 🙏🏾
When you know you know. Somethings are just God. My husband paid lobola 2 months after him and I met and it's been 7 years now. May God continue to bless your union
When she said “A man that loves God more than me will surely love me right” I screamed yaaaas girl👏🏻❤️
I can't believe that I'm enjoying this channel SO much. There's something so beautiful and genuine about this couple!
We can’t believe the love that you show week after week! Thank you ❤️
You really really love them
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Love the transparency, rawness and conviction about the purpose of setting up their channel. It is a quite but evident purpose. And truly nourishes my spirit I walk away with a gem 💎 or two afterwards. Keep going guys ♥️🙏🏿🙇🏾♀️
I felt it the right I opened it for the first time today. Such a beautiful and peaceful atmosphere.
When she said "I'm getting emotional" and Lerato held her hand😭😭😭❤️
Who is here because they were scrolling and bumped into this amazing video😍😍😍.. I am hooked❤ everything is seasonal
It's the realness for me...
It's the authenticy for me...
It's the transparency for me...
It's the presence of God that is evident for me...
This is a beautiful vid, beautiful story, beautiful setting, beautiful people.
Hey, I gate-crashed their wedding..i felt everything that you said above....I was siting in front as if ke family le bona.
@lydia 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you're crazy
Love that you're unafraid to talk about God
The Way , The Truth and The Life🙏🏾❤️
@@TheMakhs YASSSSSS the only way!! 💯
@@TheMakhs Amen
When God is the centre of a relationship❤🥰
Could anything be better ❤️🙏🏾❤️
So #Heartfelt ❤🙏🏾
To Us Single Women;
Stay Prayerful & True!
Just bumped into this, and what can I say. Truly inspiring. It's stories like this that help me keep waiting.! God bless your union forever
Me too!!!! It’s a blessed day 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
You are so beautiful - Both of you. Oh my word. I’m so happy to see South Africans as “Kingdom Influencers” Keep up the good work. God bless you abundantly in all spheres 😍😇🤩
Watching this made me very emotional towards the end. That part where Lerato says that people negotiate with their values and convictions, but Pheto didn't, hit me like a ton of bricks. Your faith in God is inspiring and I pray for his mighty hand to continue to carry you both and cover you as well. Love you guys so much!🥺🙏🏾❤
You’re sooooo loved little sis❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
"My wife saw this in me that I ddnt even see in myself", "She spoke to the God in me", "She saw me" 🥺🥺🥺🥺
This is my first time watching. I love your story because it reminded me so much how God placed me and my husband together (23years married). There is a Special unusual Grace, LOVE for commitment released upon GOD ordained marriages. I decree and Declare your latter will be greater than your former Years. May blessings of extreme FAVOR be your Portion In Jesus mighty name Amen. So let it be
I thought they American until I saw "South African CZcamsrs". My new faves. ❤
Mzansi fo sho!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️
thry are so beautiful ❤
Same here
She looks like Alicia Keys😍
@@karabokay8257 Yeah she does and she's so pretty ❤️
So the main point that resonates for me is that relationships can happen in the strangest way. God can put two people together in a way that he wants to even when we are questioning it because it does not fit in what we grew up to believe. I really loved this and I am glad I watched it.❤💖
Love that
“Why o sa mphe tissue? 🤷🏾♀️” Pheto guys 🤣🤣🤣 it’s the nuances for me, it’s the honesty for me, it’s God at the center for me!!! Bathong you guys are doing the Lord’s work laitsi. We need more God-centered relationships like this so our kids can know what it looks like when GOD directs your steps. May God continue to elevate you, and protect you because ra itsi hore marriages like this Sathane o ema ka di kwaai kwaai, but now you have an online army who want to see you guys win and go to even greater heights. Modimo a le blesse thata 💕
Mara e kae tissue bathong🤣🤣🤣🤣!!
Aaaah Fifi thank you so much for your message and for the love! We are so grateful to God for giving you wisdom waitsi. A few weeks into starting the channel we spoke about how we need to be more relentless about prayer because Satane doesn’t rest. He hates marriage with all his heart because he knows that good, God Centered marriages can create and environment for healthy strong boys and girls to thrive. Thank you so much for rallying around us. Your prayers mean everything to us❤️❤️
@@TheMakhs I’ll give my testimony one day about where on my journey I was when I started watching this channel. Modimo a le etse hantle ♥️
I said the same thing to God, "the next guy I meet and actually date is my husband". This was back in 2015 when I got saved. And let me tell you, God has been keeping to that word. It hasn't been easy, to say the least, but this encourages me so much to know that I'd rather wait for God's absolute best than to settle for what isn't it.
Thank you for continuing to be an encouragement. May the Lord continue to bless you and keep being His instruments.
I have been praying for a partner for years and I believe God is gonna bless me
Amen hun he will bless you I speak it over your life
Amen and Amen
Any update?🥹💕
"people negotiate with their convictions" - I felt that 👌👌👌👌
“God Has Really Carried Us” “But We serve a God that’s great “. What a blessing ❤️🙏🙏🙏
I dated a guy who showed me love, support, care and challenged my faith and made me realise my worth .when I wa with him I felt safe, home, and felt like he knew my secrets although I never told him . I felt as though he knew me ,the real me and yet still choose to love me . And I screwed up and he later dumped me. But I really love him . I just pray God brings us together. I miss him so much
If it's ment to be it will be.
Apologise sis to him and to God then forgive yourself! It will happen!!!
Let go and Let God! It's so easy to say but so difficult to live through. 10 months into finding myself in God and putting him first has lessened the pain and loss of what could have been because God's promise is bigger than the pain and loss we experience in the present. Going through the most difficult phase ( grief and denial), the Holy spirit said to me : I will bring to you a comforter that will never leave you, I took comfort in that, only to find this verse in John 14:16 when I read the Word late at night. What peace that verse brought me I still cannot comprehend. Believe in Jesus and he will never leave you nor forsake, God bless.
Wow I think you should tell him
Thank you all for your support .. I am here to tell you all that I moved on . As in I don't feel anything for him anymore . I think what I lacked was self love. And once I discovered that you realise that something are never meant to be. Some things are meant for season , preparations for a journey . Lessons and I am grateful that I sun an experience because without it I wouldn't be where I am today .
I like how Lerato was happy, that she was not willing to lower her standards for a man. I have just called my 15year old daughter to come hear it.
Yhoo i can't believe i just fall in love with this couple nje kanjalo😭😢😍or maybe ino Jesu lento yabo
Love this comment🤣🤣🤣! Ine Jesu yona🤣. Thank you so much for your love. We appreciate you so much❤️❤️
"She wasn't pursuing me romantically, I think that is very important." It is indeed!❤
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But she was... her intent from the first moment in asking Fifi about him was romantic.
@@rachels.9602 But to persue romantically is something else
@@OBrianDavids kinda disagree but I’m glad for what God did for them, however it came about!
@@rachels.9602 i am happy for them too :-)
Also Lerato’s comment about negotiating with yourself and with your convictions, shuuu I felt that for myself 🙌🏾
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It did ey😔
sigh, yesterday I thought to myself, maybe my soul mate is in a relationship and today I saw this video. So glad you acknowledged that you should have been more honest with the girlfriend, etc. very mature of you.
The way Lerato looks at his wife is out of this world 🥺😍❤️
I love this story ,when something is ordained it's so beautiful. Still patiently waiting. One day I will have the same.
Amen
How am I only just discovering that you guys have a channel? 😭 what a beautiful couple 😍 can’t wait to dig into your content
WELCOME!!! So glad to have you join us ❤️❤️❤️
"because a man who loves God would love me right" Soo powerful. I just found your channel today and I am so blessed. God is here. May God add more to your marriage so that you continue being a blessing to people.❤️
What a beautiful story. I am praying for my future husband, and I also have a list.And I love that you mentioned, it was written in the heaven. Amen.
😭😭😭😭 I’m not crying you are! Oh Bethuna! The love is so palpable! 🙏🏾
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Currently single but I love couples channel.. I love you guys just discovered your channel. I believe in love more every time I watch inspiring couples who love God. New subbie ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Hi Kego! Thank you so much for watching. It really is our hope that everyone can relate to our story. Single/ in a relationship/ married etc. Thank you so much for journeying with us❤️
this is my first time seeing you guys and i already LOVE it here, God has really been leading me to the right to the right channels and im very glad i ended up here. PS i think you both are absolutely Gorgeous!! we really love to see it, keep it up
My lady you were right thinking people in church dated to marry ! Cause a Godly man is looking for a wife not a girlfriend!
Wow, I really enjoyed this video!!! God really does work in miraculous ways! New subscriber here and I love y'all all the way from Kenya!!💛💛💛
Wow, that's a great story. thanks, guys with the encouragement
Im a new subscriber & im already hooked, definitely going to binge watch. Much love for you guys.
Yaaaay!!!🤗🤗💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿❤️
My future husband currently has a girlfriend as crazy as it sounds lol. Thank you for sharing your story! This is me encouragement.
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Please pray he will come to his senses soon 🙄🤦🏽♀️🤣
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@@TheMakhs lol im fr!!
Me too sis. Hang in there ❤️
This was so beautiful and heartwarming 🙏🏽❤️... thank you for sharing! I’m witnessing a story just the same and I pray so dearly we can get to where you two are!
Thank you so much for sharing with us, teaching us, and allowing God to move through you! God Bless You! And, see you at MegaFest!
I don't even know what's happening on this channel but I just fell in love with these beautiful people. I had to subscribe immediately ❣❣❣❣
Aaaahh! We hope once you find out what’s happening you will stick with us❤️
@@TheMakhs I'm here to stay 💃💃💃💃
She is so pretty and born again Christian- wow I pray for that for my sons when they get married. Neen praying for their wives already , one is 7 and the other is 11.lol, never too early lol.
My daughter is 3 years old and i already pray for her future husband 😂
You guys give me hope! Sending you love from Texas.
New subie ❤️🙏🏾! This was beautiful 😻Thanks for sharing Gods love story for you both 😉!!
My first time seeing you guys, I love it and you're a great couple and very inspiring. May God continue to bless your union and family thanks for sharing :)
This video has been been in my recommendations. I am so glad that I watched it. Ya'll are so inspiring.💯😭
Amazing! Thank you CZcams for the recommendation! Thank you for watching❤️❤️❤️
I’m new here and loving every minute of this!
This was such a beautiful testimony, watched it with my mother and we couldn't stop smiling. Thank you for sharing. New subscriber 💘
Been looking forward to this..😍😍😍
You’ve been a great supporter of our content. We see you, we appreciate you Sir 🙏🏾
We need a skin care and hair routine phetola
This is beautiful! May God continue to guide and guard your marriage❤
Your story really moved me to tears!! God is so incredible, and he does all things well!! This was my first time seeing your content, but I’m subscribed and looking forward to much more. God bless your family!!❤️❤️❤️
I'm following quiet a few couples channels and I was genuinely starting to feel like it's all monotonous.... But wow I discovered this channel a few days ago and I'm hooked. God continue to bless this beautiful union. ❤️
I just found your channel and this is soo beautiful... So unusual and just amazing.. God bless yall
Wow! Thank you so much for your kind words❤️. we are so thrilled that you found us🤗
yoh! this is the first video im watching from the channel and the intro is bombbbb
Absolutely love the transparency❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️love this so much.
Thank you for sharing with us. This is a beautiful love, a beautiful story!!!! 😭😭😭
😭😭❤️❤️thank you so much for watching.
“It was written in the heavens” 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
So so admirable 🥺♥️ thank you so much for sharing ♥️
This is beautiful. (New Subie)
You guys are amazing, you make the Christian love story a reality. I appreciate the realness and honesty.
This channel is honestly worth subscribing to ❤️❤️ I'm in love
Oh wow! Thank you! ❤️❤️🤗
Beautiful Couple. Thank you for sharing a piece of your journey with us.
Literally the best thing I've watched all day. Thank you SO much for this ❤❤
Life is but a dream. I recently discovered your channel ,a huge thanks to CZcams algorithm that is in tune with the kinda content I love love. Y'all's marriage is a ministry! Here to His glory that is super evident.
Love, Light and all things dreamy ♥️🙏
I saw your channel for the first time few hours ago. I honestly don't know how I got to it, but I did. And in my heart, I am like; Lord you wanted me to watch this story.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I am in tears, cause God has used your story for my life. God is always intentional. Thank you guys for sharing this story. I needed it. I really did. Thank you. I love you. ❤️
Wow Nandi!! Your message moved our hearts in ways unimaginable! It is one of our deepest desires for God to use our union for his agenda. We are so grateful that you stumbled across our channel❤️❤️❤️
Only finding you guys now and already so excited to start binge watching on all your videos! Thank you for your amazing hearts of Christ. Thoroughly loved this video!!! ❤️
Yaaaay!!! Thank you so much🤗❤️
This will be one of my favourite channels, new subscriber.💃❤️❤️❤️
Hi Likhona! Welcome❤️❤️
This is so beautiful. I cried listening to this!!
This is so beautiful 😍😁 my heart is beaming listening to this, I think it's because it's motivating me to wait.
Thank you for watching. Motivation to look within is always our goal. Love ❤️🙏🏾
Abuti Lerato and Ausi Pheto, I just want to take this moment to really appreciate your content . I for one do not constitute for the institute of marriage, courtships and so forth but I must say your content is catching my attention by storm. I'm slowly but surely changing my perception around partnerships and love..... I mean I am 25 , never been in a relationship only because I cannot picture myself with a partner and that worries me as I grow... Keep on producing such content, it incites an abundance of hope in us.
Amen
Aaaah Boipelo❤️❤️. Your message🥺. Thank you so much❤️. God works in mysterious ways. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you. We pray that God may lead your every step in whatever future decisions you make regarding relationships/ marriage❤️
Love your LOVE..saw you on Black Love this morning..I had to subscribe.
Thank you for sharing your LOVE and FAITH..Remain blessed and highly favored
You too are just too much, so graceful. So effortless 💕💕💕 May God always be your guide and light. One lesson learned, Love God and all will fall in place. True meaning of serendipity ❤️❤️😍
What an amazing intro. Haven't even watched the whole video yet but I'm subscribing. I can see y'all are gonna be my new favs❤️
Aaaahh!!! We Love you’re message so much🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
❤️❤️ I can still see your face light up in the grace bible church car park when you introduced your future husband... That was end of 2008..One of the most beautiful love stories. May the Lord continue to be glorified.
Heeeeeyyyyy darling!!! So good to see you on our TL🤗🤗❤️ . Aaaah wa gopola?!🤗🤗. Thank you so much dear friend. We appreciate you so much❤️❤️
I love the way y’all talk!!! Beautiful sound in y’all voices!!! 🌹💕💕
This is such a beautiful message! Thank you❤️It’s weird you should say that because when we started the channel Phetola struggled to listen to her voice. She would always say to me, why didn’t you tell me I sound like that”🤣
Wow what an incredible story, it's like God read my heart and knew exactly what I have been thinking about. I can see my life in the process of a similar one to yours and this has given me encouragement that obedience to God's voice is important. Thanks so much guys and may God bless you with many more years of love & success.
What a beautiful story!Aww God richly bless and increase you!
I just bumped into your channel but I'm head over heels lona. You guys look amazing hleng. I can't wait to watch some of your videos. God bless you you ♥️
Aaaaah❤️❤️❤️. Re a leboha hle! Thank you so much for finding us🤗🤗🤗
Just looked at you guys and just loved you. Next minute I see the name Jesus and I came here.....talk about a connection
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This is a good one, guys!
Makhs you all are spot on in this testimony!!! Thank you so very much for this!!! A huge God send for me at this time!!!
Enjoying this content, watching all adverts to the last second and definitely sharing this with my friends ❤️❤️❤️
Yaaay!!! You’re a real one🤗. Thank you🙏🏾
Oh my goodness! I love you guys 💕 Hearing you both speak about each other is filled with adoration and love! God truly is the center of your marriage and I pray his blessings over your marriage and family! God bless you! 😊
We love YOU!!! Thank you and we receive all blessings humbly so. We appreciate you Nairaz 🙏🏾❤️
I cried and felt the holy spirit throughout the entire video. Thanks for this.❤️❤️ Such a blessed union. New subbie 4 sho.
Wow..This helped me so much ❤️ love this