ASKING MY WIFE *JUICY* QUESTIONS MEN ARE AFRAID TO ASK WOMEN | South African Couple YouTubers

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    In today's instalment, Lerato asks Phetola juicy questions that men are afraid to ask women.
    Check out Phetola’s sit down with Buli:
    • WHEN THE WIFE BECOMES ...

Komentáře • 339

  • @wandilekwanda541
    @wandilekwanda541 Před 2 lety +74

    When my girlfriend starts saying I'm fine, Immediately know that there trouble in paradise. If shes really fine she would never use the word fine.😅

  • @Keekssithole
    @Keekssithole Před 2 lety +79

    A man of is word is what attracts us more to a man. A man who can hold it down, who is self-aware of himself...so attractive! And of course, a man who has a relationship with God.

  • @meesheeli9107
    @meesheeli9107 Před 2 lety +26

    Pheto's laugh is contagious manh😣😂😂❤

  • @KhanyiLight
    @KhanyiLight Před 2 lety +74

    This new intro is giving what it's supposed to give 😭🔥🔥

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před 2 lety +2

      🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿🥂🥂🥂 thank you!

    • @nyeletimanganyi4197
      @nyeletimanganyi4197 Před 2 lety

      Yey!!🔥🔥🔥🔥 its doing it

  • @josephineamutenya2656
    @josephineamutenya2656 Před 2 lety +32

    Some women do it, to protect their partners, because if a man knows that they did not satisfy you, they feel like they failed. And that put pressure on them. While some might lebel their women as needy.

  • @_Kuria_
    @_Kuria_ Před 2 lety +30

    I personally like it when my man is comfortable enough to be vulnerable around me...once in a while just be in my arms for comfort...I wouldn't mind...

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před 2 lety +2

      We really do love it♥️

  • @mercyjarachara4735
    @mercyjarachara4735 Před 2 lety +45

    The Queens laugh is so contagious bathong, makes my day. Absolutely adore your compatibility.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před 2 lety +2

      ♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗

    • @tlegoo
      @tlegoo Před 2 lety

      She’s so cute 🥰🥰

  • @simplyteedee8735
    @simplyteedee8735 Před 2 lety +44

    Most bad boys are very charming and manipulative, they're always ready to attack whereas good guys take time to even shoot their shot, sometimes women want that exciting factor thinking they could even change these bad boys

    • @HappyHealedRelationships
      @HappyHealedRelationships Před 2 lety

      Yesss‼️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před 2 lety +7

      Such a valid point! I think as women we also like “projects” thinking we can change someone. We learn the hard way. A human being can’t change a person.

  • @MegaLawyerchick
    @MegaLawyerchick Před 2 lety +22

    Good boys are scared - Bad boys are bolder. We dont want to be mistreated, but we dont want someone afraid and boring with no ideas. LOL

  • @nomthandazoxulu9830
    @nomthandazoxulu9830 Před 2 lety +22

    I love the answer about periods and moods. 💯

  • @alesiadhana6577
    @alesiadhana6577 Před 2 lety +25

    Lerato was savage with this!!! I couldn’t stop laughing. Phetola was spot on for all the answers!!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před 2 lety +4

      Right!!!????He went iiiinnn😂😂😂😂😂. Thank you Alesia!

  • @BekaSmalls
    @BekaSmalls Před 2 lety +76

    Wanting a bad guy is more of feeling of security. In a young mindset perspective bad means protector, exciting.. it's the demeanor and we like confidence. As we grow older what we admired we than realise we deserve more and the good guy will end up finishing first if they stay consistently good!

    • @simonmahlangu923
      @simonmahlangu923 Před 2 lety

      Then you come with trauma to a good guy that he will most likely pay for or make up for all the trauma that was caused by the bad guy because guaranteed for sure your bad boys batlao hurdaa 🤣🤣

    • @BekaSmalls
      @BekaSmalls Před 2 lety +2

      @@simonmahlangu923 we all have some sort of trauma but anyway a bad guy doesn't have to turn a woman into a bad person. It is all about self value if you believe you're a good guy, why would you tolerate any less.. it's a cycle what attracted you to a "bad girl" in the first place ?

    • @gworrl2221
      @gworrl2221 Před 2 lety

      True!!!!!!

    • @simonmahlangu923
      @simonmahlangu923 Před 2 lety +2

      @@BekaSmalls Most men don't want "bad girls" we fuck them yes because they're attractive but they're not meeting my moms. Let's be honest a bad boy doesn't symbolize "security" or "protection" because you know that relationship will most likely fail. Here's something to think about, a good man makes a woman feel bad because she's not a good woman and a bad boy makes a woman feel better about herself. He takes away the pressure/responsiblity of being a good woman. Take your time, think about it reread again.

  • @1Nubien
    @1Nubien Před 2 lety +24

    The less you know about how many person your partner has been with is the better it will be for you both. Something are better left unsaid, which makes for a peaceful life.

  • @nompilomazibuko4615
    @nompilomazibuko4615 Před 2 lety +10

    "im ready for you to be a FATHER!" 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ziziphomagula8183
    @ziziphomagula8183 Před 2 lety +15

    Women definitely look at the character. Integrity! Presence! Knows exactly what he wants

  • @ipsobond21
    @ipsobond21 Před 2 lety +47

    You guys don’t even understand HOW PROUD I am of Pheto!!! I mean in comparison to some of the 1st videos where she in the hot seat??? PHETO YOU KILT THIS!! You are opening up and getting more comfortable and we appreciate it sooo much! Keep it up sis, you repped us well!
    Lerato held nothing back with these questions 😅
    I love you guys ❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much Aba! Really appreciate your beautiful words❤️

  • @vuyelwagoqwana4587
    @vuyelwagoqwana4587 Před 2 lety +57

    Sometimes guys feel like we don't enjoy it when we don't orgasm and it's not even the case so we fake it so that they don't feel like they're not doing it proper, it's basically feeding their ego.

  • @kabelowame
    @kabelowame Před 2 lety +23

    The Makhs always giving me a dose of laughter 🤗

  • @KRallele
    @KRallele Před 2 lety +23

    The transparency here👌👌 you did well Phetola. It's honestly reviving to see a young christian couple that is so open in talking about such issues.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před 2 lety

      Thank you so much♥️♥️

  • @daphneymogano7566
    @daphneymogano7566 Před 2 lety +15

    Height, a bit of muscle and good hygiene works for most women

  • @I.t.u.m.e.l.e.n.g
    @I.t.u.m.e.l.e.n.g Před 2 lety +12

    I am fine😂 while they are tears in my eyes. As per usual love the yall👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Natjhili
    @Natjhili Před 2 lety

    Love this 😍Phetola represented well there! These are must have conversations with people around us

  • @asiphebekwaphi8547
    @asiphebekwaphi8547 Před 2 lety +6

    Gang gang we here!! It's the consistency for me♥️♥️ dankie fam

  • @wethujonga8681
    @wethujonga8681 Před 2 lety +6

    Love it for the Makhs!!! And the new intro 😍😍😍

  • @Ipsydelic
    @Ipsydelic Před 2 lety +2

    To me as an individual and as a woman who speaks on her behalf.
    Size doesn't matter, as long and "One" knows how to use it PROPERLY

  • @lengwebobo7418
    @lengwebobo7418 Před 2 lety +6

    The character answer is on point 🙌🏽

  • @keletsomekwa
    @keletsomekwa Před 2 lety +30

    Sis Pheto, you answered really well😍🙌
    With regards to the period thing, I totally agree. Gaslighting tends to come in such subtle ways and I think guys have to be mindful of their words even if they feel “justified”. Some people even take it to such extreme measures where they will avoid accountability and hide behind “it’s that time of the month”.

  • @mathapelonyembe4702
    @mathapelonyembe4702 Před 2 lety +2

    Well done Phetola for representing!!! 👏❤️ Loved all the answers honestly!

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Před 2 lety +1

    You did awesome Pheto! You represented well!

  • @leratonkatswang9306
    @leratonkatswang9306 Před 2 lety +19

    Sis Phetola's laugh!! Love it

  • @bevmwallo1712
    @bevmwallo1712 Před 2 lety +5

    Before I met my hubby I will fake it if its bad sex or you are wasting time lol but once I met the one who brought it out of me, I can't fake it! He knows me too well. We are not faking things here. We are going all the way.!

  • @HerHighness160
    @HerHighness160 Před 2 lety +3

    You are representing us very well😅😅🔥🔥🔥 yaasss girl you're on fire

  • @akhutlelengkekwaletswe4517

    Oooh wooow! I just heard my name right there! Yes! You pronounced it very well. You are doing an amazing job. Thats ministry right there. You have no idea! Keep up the good work you are doing. Stay blessed!

  • @MarWat1407
    @MarWat1407 Před 2 lety +1

    I absolutely loved this. Its wonderful how freely you guys communicate. Very important aspect of a relationship. Content is rich as always. Shout out from Sarah from Jamaica!!!

  • @jemimahbondo567
    @jemimahbondo567 Před 2 lety +12

    You definitely represented us well!!!

  • @kabelodale_
    @kabelodale_ Před 2 lety +1

    Ayy this new intro real got me dabbing for real🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @HerHighness160
    @HerHighness160 Před 2 lety +6

    Its the consistency for me.. you guys are amazing..😍😍🔥
    #notificationGang

  • @thabi_lebothe
    @thabi_lebothe Před 2 lety +5

    Notification Gang 🔔 🎉 🥂 It's the consistency for me!!! 💥 DREAM TEAM

  • @Pabistar
    @Pabistar Před 2 lety +2

    Awww fam🤭! Thanks for the shout out😁💃. Ke le rata hurree❤❤! Just to add to Pheto's answer, I think security is very important and not just financial security but emotionally, spiritually and physically as well. To know that he's got me covered, no matter what and he has my back. That makes me feel safe.

  • @micalkeza7184
    @micalkeza7184 Před 2 lety +2

    Love the new intro 😍❤️

  • @gomop4649
    @gomop4649 Před 2 lety +7

    Shout out to us who comment before even watching the whole installment🤣🤣🤣❤❤

  • @thephakathiz9664
    @thephakathiz9664 Před 2 lety +2

    Loving your topic before i even watch😍

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 Před 2 lety +5

    You guys are so amazing😂😘😊I really love this channel can't believe we are on 45k.I was one of the first 5 subscribers.We've grown so much💝💝💝

  • @neom645
    @neom645 Před 2 lety +1

    Great installment Phetola, you did very well ❤️😘

  • @zandilemiya3930
    @zandilemiya3930 Před 2 lety +5

    Character! Character! That is so true a man of His word

  • @professoramutenya6195
    @professoramutenya6195 Před 2 lety +9

    You guys are the best❤️
    Much love from Namibia ❤️

  • @BubuhleGobodo
    @BubuhleGobodo Před 2 lety +6

    Phet really represented us well on this one❤️ I literally answered all the questions first, and she said the exact same thing!! She is me, I am her, we are one😂❤️

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo

    I love Mr Makhs's facial expressions when wifey answers 🤣🤣🤣.. You guys though 🤩🤩🤩

  • @zeekay7576
    @zeekay7576 Před 2 lety +3

    Phetho answered really well..Representing us ladies

  • @mashimborose9168
    @mashimborose9168 Před 2 lety +5

    We date bad guys when we are not yet serious about any relationship. Because we think breaking a heart of a bad guy may not make us carry as much guilt as we would carry if we broke the heart of a good guy.
    When we finally make a decision to date seriously, we then choose good guys
    Ladies, does this make sense????

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi Před 2 lety +4

    I like that, the most important thing about a man is character,literally nothing else matters. Consistency in words and actions.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před 2 lety +1

      That’s so attractive! We feel safe with a man whose word means everything to them♥️

  • @pamelamakhanya7639
    @pamelamakhanya7639 Před 2 lety +1

    Ausi Phetola "A man of your words" on point🙌. For us its simple, mean what you say and that's an outstanding character. I pray everyday to find a man like that🤞

  • @chubychix
    @chubychix Před 2 lety +6

    Aus Phetola you represented us well 😍. Completely cracked up when Lerato said he was dark because he was poor 🤣 😂😂

  • @zandilemiya3930
    @zandilemiya3930 Před 2 lety +2

    My faves😍😍 you guys are so interesting to watch❤️

  • @blessjoy
    @blessjoy Před 2 lety +4

    Hei mara!!!these questions are hard🙈😅but you represented us well.

  • @koversbykuda1614
    @koversbykuda1614 Před 2 lety +5

    Phetola’s passion 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. You represented us well sis. 🙌🏾

  • @dimainspire957
    @dimainspire957 Před 2 lety +9

    I love Phetola she's so authentic ❤

  • @bellindapule4172
    @bellindapule4172 Před 2 lety +4

    Here's my 2 Cents from personal observation(I stand to be corrected):
    Women do want a Good Guy but fall for/date bad boys because they have kinda studied "the game". It's like they research which Qualities does majority of women like in a Man(Eg romantic, sexy, confident, lil bit dominant, funny, spontaneous etc).. So they have learned how to LURE in their prey(women) by presenting these Qualities to them. I guess that's how most of them also manage to date multiple women.

  • @EverythingQueenshono
    @EverythingQueenshono Před 2 lety +15

    Very well represented by our Queen!!! Everything was answered just the way most of us would have answered.
    The size question 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I’m dying💀💀. Yes the size matters.💁🏽‍♀️ and well answered.
    I’m not really for the physicality but rather the brains. As my man, are you able to give me answers on things I don’t understand or need to know? Are you able to contribute to general conversations? Can you reason on my behalf? It’s not even about qualifications but just INTELLIGENCE.
    Emotional support is a must have felas. Be emotionally available and DO NOT compete with your Queen, you will push her away.

  • @nompilomazibuko4615
    @nompilomazibuko4615 Před 2 lety +5

    "I was poor"😂😂😂😂😂

  • @siphiweledwaba5335
    @siphiweledwaba5335 Před 2 lety +12

    🤣🤣Nope size doesn’t matter BUT don’t be TOO small 🙊. Pheto is ME I am Pheto when it comes to wanting dark ‘manly men’ there’s just something about a dark, tall, not pretty and bulky man that makes us feel safe/protected.

    • @Kuda_Kwashe
      @Kuda_Kwashe Před 2 lety +4

      Its that manly factor u know and they look like they can take care of stuff in general you know and in charge!!!

  • @sethunyamaifala3643
    @sethunyamaifala3643 Před 2 lety +2

    I can't get over the new jingle❤❤❤😭😭😭

  • @soleilmutimunyuzwe4955
    @soleilmutimunyuzwe4955 Před 2 lety +5

    Phetola made me also laugh 😂 specifically on the question of “does size matter “ it was indeed uncomfortable 😂😂! Am obsessed with this dream Team ❤️❤️You’re doing great guys

  • @nontsikelelokhasu5257
    @nontsikelelokhasu5257 Před 2 lety

    I just love you guys. Keep sharing these awesome videos ❤️

  • @brigettebond6088
    @brigettebond6088 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow Lerato I never thought men want to know these questions. Phetola I'm with you girl Lerato really put you on the spot but you did well

  • @godswaywithmphosebola8149

    Shuu... Love the new intro🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

  • @maipelosentle1302
    @maipelosentle1302 Před 2 lety +2

    Well done Phetola, you represented us very well 😂😂❤

  • @nokuthuladelightmuranganwa3181

    As a woman, I feel well represented Ma'am, thank you very much!

  • @emmilywoods5781
    @emmilywoods5781 Před 2 lety

    I like the new intro. Nice job!

  • @sibobuhlungu4404
    @sibobuhlungu4404 Před 2 lety +10

    Road to 50k in October 💃💃💃💃🙏🙏. Wow what an installment, Mr Makhs came prepared for real. But im grateful for this installment truly coz these are se Questions that couples often shun away to ask, they are regarded as "taboo" yet left unaddressed they are causing serious relationship damages. Thank you guys, truly appreciate you and the work that you are doing, God bless you fam💖🙏.

  • @MaleboRapotu
    @MaleboRapotu Před 2 lety +1

    Loving the new intro

  • @keneilwemokoena9016
    @keneilwemokoena9016 Před 2 lety +4

    About the emotions, Sesi Phetogo answered very well👌👌💯

  • @ogiyonkematiwane1224
    @ogiyonkematiwane1224 Před 2 lety +1

    The tidal sequence is doing the things 😍😍🔥..
    Love how joyous Phetola is😍😍😍..

  • @Sebongile_Baloyi
    @Sebongile_Baloyi Před 2 lety +4

    I agree with Phetola bad guys are fun and always know how to make you want them even more. And good guys are normally real & never just do things to get what they want from you.

  • @euldahrixile2518
    @euldahrixile2518 Před 2 lety +5

    Did i not die when he ask does the size matter hahahahaa ses phetola you are really presenting us very well

  • @MmaNoko
    @MmaNoko Před 2 lety +14

    If you’re happy married or in a good relationship. NOPE, you won’t even check other men, they’re not even interesting

  • @chantelltalbaard9278
    @chantelltalbaard9278 Před 2 lety +1

    It's "baby what does I'm fine mean" for me🤣🤣🤣

  • @primrosedianahnatukunda861

    I enjoy Phetolaz laughter..it's my highlight🤸🤸🤣🤣

  • @lexioko
    @lexioko Před 2 lety +1

    That intro? 10/10❤️

  • @thembinkosimakhanya6869
    @thembinkosimakhanya6869 Před 2 lety +9

    Mr Makhs came through for the gents🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @chedzamoon9352
    @chedzamoon9352 Před 2 lety +1

    Outed me ha Lerato a re "Boris Cojo and company" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mothebaseqhaotsa6714
    @mothebaseqhaotsa6714 Před 2 lety

    Gang gang💃💃💃💃love you guys you really inspire me♥️♥️♥️

  • @rumbieguveya6186
    @rumbieguveya6186 Před 2 lety +2

    Loving the Current Intro Guys,My 9yr old stopped in her tracks and was like "Mummy I love it" 🔥

  • @tumomthembu_20
    @tumomthembu_20 Před 2 lety

    Mr Makhs you are really representing 🔥🔥🔥🔥 #YouAreLeardership 🙌

  • @torixx9910
    @torixx9910 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m fine could also mean let me process my emotions and then speak clearly to you when I’m ready. Also, if you don’t leave us alone we may say some not nice things which we don’t want to do.

  • @traceykabajani5174
    @traceykabajani5174 Před 2 lety +3

    I have not started the video yet but I know my friday is already made!

  • @rethasebata3718
    @rethasebata3718 Před 2 lety +2

    I was passing by and I saw this channel I like ur channel guys

  • @zaweddelynnette9445
    @zaweddelynnette9445 Před 2 lety +1

    The joy in his face at 10:19

  • @AnnstaciaK
    @AnnstaciaK Před 2 lety +1

    Finally on time. First. Hello dream team!

  • @nomkhosingcongo5069
    @nomkhosingcongo5069 Před 2 lety +3

    Sisi Phetola thanks, you represented us very well ❤❤❤❤.

  • @taniatshetsha
    @taniatshetsha Před 2 lety +1

    I loved this so much. And i love you two😘❤️

  • @tmokomotoane90
    @tmokomotoane90 Před 2 lety +2

    Hello my beautiful family its THE OG here 😍😂

  • @ntombizonkentuli3770
    @ntombizonkentuli3770 Před 2 lety +2

    Yohh such questions Pheto jeeezzzz Girl you were not ready🤣🤣🤣🤣. Next time know Lerato given a chance to ask questions He will not hold back🤣🤣🤣 be prepared from the hardest hardest most uncomfortable questions.

  • @michelleelias5336
    @michelleelias5336 Před 2 lety +4

    Phetola is right we want all things manly... dont be overly sensitive, be bufff enough to squeeze me when I cry, be tall enough for me to hide behind you when danger approaches, a lil hair down there, be dark mhani!!!

  • @nthabie_m661
    @nthabie_m661 Před 2 lety +1

    I agree with Pheto Character really outweighs everything.

  • @jenniferbanda
    @jenniferbanda Před 5 měsíci

    Represented 💯 🧡 I am fine 🤣🤣🤣that is so me. You answered so well thank you. Yah faking is caused by the ego. He will definitely finish... 🙈

  • @Silly_tilly809
    @Silly_tilly809 Před 2 lety +6

    Mr Makhs came guns blazing with these questions

  • @Sebakamotse
    @Sebakamotse Před 2 lety

    Thank you guys for this, sis Pheto you did very well 🙏💐. I believe size matter according to the need🙈, sad part is we always ask women about our size and they don't ask us about theirs 🤷‍♀️.

  • @viwemjindi3984
    @viwemjindi3984 Před 2 lety +1

    Aus Phetola 🤣😂😂 yey these Questions mara. You did well❤️❤️

  • @philadube3129
    @philadube3129 Před 2 lety +1

    I enjoyed this 👌