How To Have Better Communication Skills
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Tips
1. Open-ended questions: what, how, why, when
2. Active listening: do summarize
3. Cocoon: focus on every word is said to you
4. Engage with other person: body language and give time
5. Don´t make assumptions: ask if they feel all right
6. Avoid antagonistic sentence: less confrontation
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Actually, closed-ended questions (yes or no) can certainly be helpful as they are gates to further conversation!!! Think of a node in a flow chart, IF she says Yes (she likes camping) THEN ask about her favorite aspects, or experiences, imagineer together about some potential camping trip, how you two would handle things! Togetherness develops. Lots of conversation. IF she said no, you know not to talk about that. Clarity comes from Y or N questions. Then ask about some other potential interest, concerts, city travel, or whatever. Closed-ended questions are not dead-end streets!
when life hit's you 1:08-1:11 😂😂😂😂😂😂
lmao 😂
Joel Valdez hits*
Joel Valdez hits
They stole my flirting technique :(
Yep, that's me.😳
1:57 (tip 2) contradicts with 3:25 (tip 5)
"You're sitting in my chair" ... I lost it hahaha "Good Lord Jeffrey, you really must be less antagonistic about these sorts of things!" :P
Omg when people talk I'm like............so how do I react. For some reason I can't sympathize with people or what they say...I'm a robot, give info then go.🤖
SPACE FR3K same :(
Same..
Hmm...you're not alone (;
Me too 😩💔
That is exactly is my problem too... :(
Great video, great help. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
One of the best video i would say. Examples in actual are really helpful. Thanks
It was helpful.. thank you!
Great materials. I like the examples that show it.
Everyone is unique and different. Instead of trying to change people's communication styles to fit some type of norm, why don't we accept people for who and what they are and stop trying to put expectations on people and forcing them to be people they are not.
skateNappreciate fr tho
Nothing of Nobody thank u but if only
Is hard to get society thinking like that.. honestly I dont know why I dont hang out with very many friends so I need this.
Thank you.
I love your accent
Great work
Amazing advices
Thanks It helps me.
Things have been delivered in a nice, meaningful and easy to understand manner.It is surely a great helpful video with bright & striking set of examples. But nothing much to be perfectionist.
Very nice indeed and can transform many lives
good lecture, thank much
Very useful for all, who wants skills for effective communication,now a days it must need for us, because it helps to develops good relationship, bonding, understanding and unity.
Hey my name is Mark from palatka FL I go to palatka high School in the 12 grade I need this so people can understand me alot more better
very nice tips thank u
thank you very helpful, is there a way to practice more courtesy and communication skills? what would you suggest?
at first i was skeptical but this really works..
excellent video!
you have a great idea of communication
very helpfull to me!
very helpful .. thank u ..
this video very use useful thank you
nyc video..a good video with set of instruction and examples as well...
Super, Thanks a lot!
This was a very well put together video! Thanks =]
tips are good and like that so much
Useful to know.
thank for upload. I like it
Okay thanks for the lesson i like it its true.
Nice simple video on communication for students!
thank u!
I adore it another plz
yes.i like it verymuch
Good advice.
OH MY, I DID NOT KNOW HOW TO SPEAK AS A BOGAN, NOW I KNOW, NO WI AM SPECIAL, NOW I TOO CAN BE A BUSINESS PROFESSIONAL BOGAN, THANK YOU LIFE COACH
Thank you for defining the set restrictions to the social set of infinite members. I can now sieve out what is not a solution to the longevity of a conversation.
I like your video English conversation
very nice
1:09, lol Great video~~
it will helpfull to me
i agree with u @bull smooth
She is Pretty !!!
wonderful! :)
good video i like it
Amazing video with best examples :)
Glad you found it useful : )
I'm definitely having my eyes opened just smile sinner you may become a saint one day!
saved by grace!
very nice more video up load
This video is for people who I tried to be friends with
My professor from Ohio Christian University referred me to this video for one of my assignments, but the captioning of You Tube is horrible. Is there a transcript of what was said, or possibly the ability to caption it properly, so others who need captions might be able to understand your lesson?
Thank you!
Why does this feel like a "how to not piss off your girlfriend when she's talking to you" video lololol
I like how the actors deliberately turned a closed question into an awkward situation. I guess women are incapable of expanding on a yes or no reply, and men incapable of expanding on something they started. lol.
Mike Stewie exactly
Napoleon Dynomite conversation. He is either emotionally/logically brain-dead OR stewing in untested assumptions.
help full
I've always been the type who don't really talk much to someone I don't really know. I've always been shy . If I know the person enough I can talk conversations fine.Other wise I just keep to myself. These days the way people are your just better off talking to people you really know. All this bullying today also doesn't help trying to have conversations with people you don't know too.
I just am moi and have absolutely what I want. But thanks for your yrs of wisdom anyway😂
This is a good and helpful video. I like communicating. I think this video is applicable for online relationships and friendships as well. I'm thinking of a recent ex-boyfriend and close male friend. I think he should watch this video. Many of the issues and problems I had in the relationship with that ex-boyfriend is addressed in this video. I felt that the ex-boyfriend made many assumptions about what I was thinking and feeling without asking me directly how I felt and thought about things. He had a bad habit of making assumptions. He also didn't ask many open-ended questions to me. He did a lot of closed questions. But what was worse is that he didn't ask many questions to begin with. I was the one who asked questions. He didn't ask many questions. Another issue I had with the ex-boyfriend was that there were times when I felt he wasn't an active listener. And that he was distracted by other things. It was like he didn't appear sensitive to what I was saying and addressing.
The ex-boyfriend and I have talked recently online - briefly in private, but mostly on a public discussion forum, which I quit and left last night. The problem I have had with the ex-boyfriend and close male friend is that I feel issues and stuff are better expressed privately through e-mails. And I felt that there was dysfunction in the relationship because he seemed to pay attention if I said something to him PUBLICLY on a board versus if I said something to him privately through e-mails. It's like his attention was distracted when I would send him e-mails. And he didn't respond sometimes. But he would often respond if I said something to him publicly on the board. To me, I just find it very weird and dysfunctional. I think deeper and even more meaningful communication can be said through private correspondence than writing things publicly on a board for other people to read, judge, analyze. I have always found it weird, odd, dysfunctional that the ex-boyfriend pays more attention if you talk to him publicly online - like a board - versus if you send him a private message. It's like the stuff you say soaks in more and registers more with him if you speak to him on a public forum versus speaking to him privately. For most people, it's the opposite. Most people can say more personal, more informative, more helpful things through private correspondence. But when it comes to that ex-boyfriend, it's the opposite. Me, my friends, and my sister have also felt that ex-boyfriend likes to do the opposite of what people want many times. If I wanted anything at all, many times, he would do the opposite. It was very frustrating. I've never seen another human being who liked to go against the grain of things and do the opposite of what many people wanted. He really was and is very difficult, odd, complex, complicated, etc. It's like he doesn't want to make things agreeable, steady, or pleasant. He has to make things difficult, puzzling, confusing, etc. He could make life easier on him and people, if he didn't do the reverse psychology, always doing the opposite of what other want thing. And him remembering things you said publicly versus privately is another thing that is weird and odd, too.
That's why I felt I had no choice but to say things publicly because that's the only way it seems to be able to reach to him and to get him to think about things and have some things soak through his head. It's like he doesn't care for private correspondence many times, and during the times I did say things privately it was like he had short attention span or something, and had better attention span if you said things to him on a public forum. I have always found this to be very odd. I've never dealt with any individual acting this way. But yeah, I think that ex-boyfriend should watch this video, because these are areas that he needs to work on. I didn't think he was a good communicator and listener at times. I always like to communicate and write and express things. For him, it was different.
no need to tell us your life story love!
Y don't u recommend this video to him then. What iz the point of you addressing this situation to us
Good
3:03 no I was not watching porn
+uncle denjiz LOL i was thinking the same thing
thats what i thought ha ha
Hahaha
Hahaha
😂 OH YES YOU WHERE 🤫😜
You make it sound so simple. Try talking to someone with severe memory problems, you'll find yourself answering the same questions over and over.
see its easy for me alto ask question like "do you like films" or "what kind of films" thats easy but when its asked to me idk what to say i just say mm idk nd then not going into my shitty personal life but i dont ever have anything to talk ab like my gf has such an interesting life and ALLWAYS has something to talk ab and is so confident and fluent with her speaking like idk
Baloney. A closed question is much better, more direct, the way to make it work is to ask another closed question. For example, "Do you like films? girl: "yes" guy: "What kind of Films? Open questions are terrible because there vague. I hate being asked open questions.
I know this is way out of topic but does writing help you on your communication skills?
MAKE ASSUMPTIONS!!!!!! But don't leave assumptions as "carved-in-stone" cold hard facts! Check those assumptions, whether they are valid or not! Checking assumptions is actually fuel for more conversation, and really getting to know someone or a situation properly. We can't just not make assumptions. It happens all the time, especially in social situations.
3:50 what i would say would be more like idk who you think you are but youre either going to get off my chair or get hit by it
i do.t love it
really good tips, it would be great if you summarized it in the end.
The last tip was kinda funny... Lol
weird because in other videos they say make assumptions instead of asking as it may make the other person feel like in an interview.
Please. Mentioned in front of screen what people are saying about the videoclasss
Person: I have a dog
Me: oh that's cool!
Person:...........
Me: *nervous sweating*
What’s his name?
What type of breed?
Is the dog a he or she? Male/female
When did you got him/her?
How old is she/he?
Ask questions to create a great conversation. That’s my humble opinion :>
Why don’t they teach this in schools 😩
what is "cocoon"
...said no man ever. 3:03
1:07 ive done this before lol
British women give the best advice.
I had trouble paying attention to this...
Lol
A colleague is someone you work with, so a 'work colleague' is someone you work with at work?
3:03 let me just close this important job offer and attend to you
Hahaha. Love the acting
She is beautiful.Her eyes drags you in.mama mia!
ya haha she might think so or who were u just messaging :)
My advice. Don't close your laptop like that. They might think they are interpreing ur privacy and make them un comfortable. Stay open unless it is something privet
Antagonistic sentences will get you respect though
painfully over acted, but it gets the point across I gues :')
It was so badly acted it was funny
I really dont like small talks cuz i would feel sleepy. I get to the point when i speak to someone. And everytime i try listening to my friend he gets fcking annoying like every 3 minutes he would talk to me. I try ending the conversation but he keeps talking to me and if i ignore him he keeps calling my name 100 times and keep poking me i wouldnt even be able to do my work during my classes.😭😭😭
This video reminds me of an ielts exam lamo
That lady face expression was nice vt her speech.. vl try
Tip 7:
Be a spineless fedora-wearing mangina.
ha lol
YEET.
the blonde is gorgeous
who all are here just because of the Bridge-Course Assignment? XD
i dont know who i am
Great Advice, but why do I find these videos so robotic and in smooth? It is as if she is trying really hard to sound like a good communicator
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how beautiful she talks.
mrs rebekah I mean.
Cacoon.. "The world is too big.." "Imagine your on an island Clark.." xD ah god I am so bad at speaking to people in person. I'm too shy. Any tips? :/
That guy looks like he's in grave pain just listening to her