Deep Persuasion And Influence NLP Techniques Most People Don’t Know
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- Deep Persuasion And Influence NLP Techniques Most People Don’t Know// Persuasion and influence is a topic very often discussed as influence and persuasion skills play an important role in our life. Persuading and influencing may seem easy for some, but there are and influence techniques that can help anyone learn how to influence people and how to persuade people. Influencing skills and influencing people is sometimes considered as a bad thing, but the truth is we all do it. In this video, I show you how to persuade and influence by using successful nlp techniques. Neuro linguistic programming techniques are tools that will help you master your life and achieve your goals. There are many neuro linguistic programming techniques youtube videos from where you can learn them, but this video is a great start if you’re looking to improve your persuasion and influence skills.
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Here’s what I did to make this a reusable form with which I can plan my “persuasion encounters” in advance:
I took a piece of regular paper.
I folded it in half, lengthwise.
Then I folded that in thirds.
Now I unfold it; I see six rectangles.
I put the paper in “landscape mode”:
Two rows, three columns.
I make the top row represent *myself*
I make the bottom row represent *the other person.*
As for the columns:
The first column is *DESIRE*
The second column is *VALUES*
The third column is *CRITERIA*
Here are the labels I write on the top of each of the boxes:
TOP ROW:
1) What do I want?
2) What’s important about that?
3) How will I feel when I get it?
BOTTOM ROW:
1) What do they want?
2) What’s important about that?
3) How will they feel when they get it?
Answering the top row questions will make me more:
1) visionary
2) clear
3) influential
Answering the bottom row will make me:
1) persuasive
2) curious
3) in rapport
The outcome? A *mutual project.*
Thanks for this framework, I’ll be using it from now on 🤗
You're welcome.
My partner insisted I create templates to assist my trainees, even on this topic. Your simple yet powerful idea got my eyes wide open.
Allow me to copy with pride.
Thank you. 😁
All great things if applied in ethical sales… if the product is not good for the world (planet &/or people) or won’t bring the benefits promised or if the individual would be best off not purchasing (because of their budget) then it’s no longer ethical sales.
All these suggestions applied ethically are wonderful!
I like that you don't put a lot of music in the background and that you just sit and talk without all the visuals.
Very useful stuff! I love that you pinned the resources below as well. Thank you! 🙏
Glad it was helpful.
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Damn, this two lines intro are prime example of engineering words to create action.
Kinda new to NLP , I think this video is a good start to learn it.
I have many.
Better communication of thoughts and better ways to motivate a stronger more effective work environment.
I need to learn how to use it with sales.
Good stuff. Ending the sale when you know it is a waste of time is a great point.
I've been a big believer in finding out, "How can this object lead to enrichment (of my time?)" Do I want a Rolls Royce to impress others or will I get anything out of such a car, for example. I am challenging myself to make meaningful choices and not to take steps which only benefit everyone else (like flattery).
That's a good idea.
Thank you for another excellent video Damon.
My pleasure!
I want to be more influential in labour management meetings to get better working conditions for my colleagues. I am a chief steward and negotiator for around 750 workers.
I basically fight for working conditions, over workload, and going in collective bargaining agreement in about years' time.
Simply put we manifest what we believe..We always find exactly what we're looking for...The lost item is always in the last place you look
Yes and I would add that our reality become what we attend to. If we focus on problems, we get more problems. If we focus on solutions, we get solutions.
I love your James Dean picture in the background! I'm a huge fan and I love visiting his hometown and visiting the gallery and going to the James Dean Festival.
I'm a fan too but I've not been to his hometown. I will have to put that on my list.
Ah! Excellent video on the basics NLP techniques as applied to persuasion :) thanks!
Thank you. Glad you enjoyed it.
How can I persuade people to like and respect me. I would like to limit conflict in my life. IN the family and friends in my life..
First I would recommend that you not put your focus on making people like and respect you. You don't control other people. You can do all the right things and say all the right things and people still might not like you or respect you and you will then be disappointed and it will likely crush your self-esteem. Instead, focus on being authentic. You will attract the right people when you're true to yourself. Show genuine interest and curiosity in others and they will tend to like you, but don't focus on making them like you. Focus on your interest.
Could you teach fractionation inside of a presentation? How would this be done?
I did do a video on fractionation a couple of years ago. It wasn't that good though. Perhaps it's time to do a new one.
I have never thought to get a lesson from a handsome man just like you.
Awww... thank you.
It’s part of the NLP hahahah she got you dawg!
Very informative and helpful. Thank you. I've subscribed much earlier.
Awesome, thank you.
Excellent edutainment. Persuasion is a must!
Thank you.
Indeed.
How to get rid of my should ouching habit by nlp technique...
I my self practicing nlp n hypnosis... But couldn't get rid of this habits and loose weight for perfect bmi
I don't understand what exactly you're asking.
it is very informative. You have explained effectively :I highly appreciate
Glad it was helpful!
Hi Damon,
I have a question that I'm hoping that you could help me with. I just got certified as a hypnotist and now I am looking to certify in NLP. Do you have any recommendations for where I can go to get my certifications? Do you offer certifications?
I live in Toronto, Canada
My suggestion is to not focus on certifications in NLP. They're mostly meaningless. Most institutes, even the most reputable ones, will hand certifications out to anyone who pays the tuition. There's no NLP organization that governs what institutes do, how they teach, or what they include in their teaching. The only true certification is your ability, knowledge, and how effective you are at using NLP on yourself and with other people. One of the biggest mistakes I see in NLP students is focusing on accumulating certifications and not actually learning anything or practicing. Certifications give people a false sense of having knowledge and ability they don't have. Then they go on to teach NLP courses themselves and they don't even understand what they're teaching. As a result their students don't actually learn anything. The basis of this CZcams channel when I started it was to teach people, who had already taken NLP courses, what they should have learned in their courses. In other words they would pay a teacher thousands of dollars for the certification, but then watch my videos to actually learn what their teacher couldn't teach them. I created a thorough and inexpensive NLP Practitioner course based on a 24 day training (which is unheard of these days). It's real NLP. It's not watered down.
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I don't offer a certification for it. I don't certify people unless I test their knowledge and their abilities, which I do for my Self-Concept Coaching course.
I've been teaching and coaching NLP for more than ten years and no one has asked for my certifications so don't think that you need them to coach or teach. Like I said there's no organization that oversees this and most NLP teachers these days don't know NLP well.
Super grateful and excited to work, develop and discover these motivations in myself and others to change both my life and theirs for the better through a deeper rapport, beneficial experience and success for all involved. Good stuff! Thank you!
You're so welcome!
You prolly dont give a shit but does someone know a method to get back into an instagram account??
I was dumb lost my password. I love any help you can offer me
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Hands down the most resistant personality I've seen 1st hand is the narcissistic personality. Might there be any "specialized" approaches we can take when dealing with them?
Yes. Best approach is to avoid them, but if you can't, here are a few videos I've done on narcissism: czcams.com/video/x3BwmtBbHx0/video.html
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@@DamonCart Oh if only ha. Much appreciated sir. Ty for your videos. I find them much easier to watch than...certain others ahem....
@@cocreatingnelevating2406 Thank you
Soo good, Damon!!!
Thank you.
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Don’t see the pdf link your mentioned in the video for language patterns
Thank you for pointing this out. My assistant put the wrong one in. Try now.
@@DamonCart Well you need to fire that SOB, because this was pretty unprofessional. Joking, thanks man! Love the content.
She's also my girlfriend. I'll let her know ; )
@@DamonCart lol geez
Oh and a suggestion for content. How about an approach for better defining your own personal context, value, criteria into a vision. Another I would like would be your techniques for asking a person for value and criteria without it sounding clinical. I have Kendrick Cleveland's program that I'm planning to start soon. What are your opinions and experience with his work, if any? Again, I'm really digging your content and channel!
I actually have an entire program dedicated to context, values, criteria, and vision. Maybe I'll do a video summary of it. Kenrick is definitely a master. I tried one of his programs and I couldn't get into it. It may just be his teaching style not being a good fit with my learning style. He obviously knows his stuff though.
@@DamonCart Yea, I can understand. Some of Igor's programs are like that. What are your thoughts on his work. I'll check out your program for sure. Again, I'm really enjoying the channel. Fyi, I recently saw your interview with Doug Obrien and am halfway through "Practical Guide for Sleight of Mouth" which we are looking to implement in my marketing agency I am a partner of. Since you have a background in sales, do you have any programs you've created that you would suggest for marketers... as well as one's you haven't created?
I have a created a program on persuasion. I don't know too much about Igor but from what I've seen he looks like the real deal. I appreciate his open minded approach. Jason Fladlien from Rapid Crush is one of the most talented sales people I've ever met. He holds the record for most sales from a webinar. His NLP skills are off the charge. Here's an interview I did with him: czcams.com/video/hqMst3J-YYg/video.html
@@DamonCart Damn, this dude is legit. Thanks for the heads up Damon, I just ordered his book. Fyi, just subscribed to your newsletter as well as checking out the courses.
Excellent! Welcome aboard. We have something coming up next week that you'll probably be interested in. You'll get an email about it.
Tangible, intangibles, vision...
I want to learn how to be more persuasive than I am now I have a home base business which in fact I'm looking to build.
How about making a video with Questions, suggestions or anything in simple words for a daily life situations... Romance, Sales,Help on addictions, Dealing with difficult people etc.. thanks!👍
I've done several videos that fit what you're looking for. You can search my channel for these topics. You'll find plenty.
where do i get more information on persuasion especifically? books, blogs, courses, people that you recommend?
Both of Robert Cialdini's books on influence are amazing. The Milton Model, which is a NLP model is great for persuasion and so is Sleight of Mouth.
Those should keep you busy for a while.
@@DamonCart Have you read Forbidden Keys to Persuasion by Blair Warren?
@@davidgu3651 I have not. Do you recommend it?
It is my understanding that The comments section strongly demonstrates that we need some kind of guided demonstrations of NlP techniques which can be applied for anyone.
What specific type of guided demonstrations would you like to see? I just recently published some videos of me working with people. Did you see them?
How to capture that ugly, deceitful, jealous&envious shadow piece of my mind n soul...& how do I reimprint?
First stop demonizing this part of yourself and work with it to integrate it. It does not help you to pretend to separate yourself from yourself. This is a valid part of you. Judging it is perpetuating the problem.
@Damon Cart Gosh, I know that making friends with every shadowy piece of my mind is integrative. I'm stuck within this somewhere
@@user-zx4se6ce8x acceptance is a key ingredient.
@@DamonCart Great answer
I'm trying to help a friend escape the person they're daying whos diagnosed with narcisisstic personaltiy disorder. Naturally theyre manipulative and I know persuasion is different but is there any way to show patterns of NLP being used by someone abusing the technique?
I've done videos on dealing with narcissists, which I've linked here. Learning the Meta Model and the Milton Model will help you become aware of manipulative patterns that narcissists use.
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Can you use NLP to influence yourself?
Definitely. Influencing yourself is one of the main reasons people learn NLP.
What is the difference between Influence and persuasion? Please help.
Influence is more passive and indirect. Think of a celebrity who uses a particular product. People will often also use that product even if the celebrity doesn't endorse it directly. He or she is not actively trying to persuade anyone to use the product. It is there presence that influences people to buy it. Strong leaders, popular and charismatic people have influence. Persuasion is the active communication that inspires people to take action or to be convinced of something.
Hi. I cant find the pdf for language patterns. Any advice please?
You will find it in the description of the video right below the screen. You can also find it in the top comment which is pinned at the top of the comments.
Thank you
Pl guide
How can I use NLP in debates?
The language patterns are wonderful for debating. Learn the Meta Model, Sleight of Mouth, and the Milton Model. These are all NLP language models that will make you an expert debater.
@@DamonCart thank you sooooooo much, I've been searching for techniques forever!!!
Your good bruh the context is nice
Next time bruh make it more interesting 🙃
Next time you make the video bruh if you want it to be more interesting.
@@DamonCart why not?
Give me a chance....
@@charlesblack9200 you don't need me to give you permission.
Haha he slaughtered you with words. The ability to call a person a as$hole without calling them a as$hole is priceless... Charles black u fell victim of NLP technique
How long will take me to master the NLP? Please don’t say it’s depend 😊
If you were a NLP master, what would that get you that you don't already have?
@@DamonCart to be honest l wouldn’t know how to answer your question because firstly l believe we have and we know the most of stuff. But it’s important to define and apply to us and how to use or apply to our job
@@bulent0505 I wouldn't focus on mastering NLP as much as using it to get what you want. Along the way mastery will come. Even still, it's hard to think of anyone mastering all of NLP. There are so many different parts to it. It's like saying how long will it take to master language, not a particular language, but language as a phenomena. Be clear about what you want from learning NLP an focus on those parts of NLP that help you to get what you want. Mastering NLP just for the sake of mastering it doesn't make a lot of sense to me.
Thank you for your great advice 🙏👍
my question is how can I be more persausive and influencial to getting employees more readily adapt to training and learning new things?
Elicit their values and link them to learning things that will serve your business and also fulfill their values.
@@DamonCart thanks can u suggest two NLP techniques that can be used to achieve this?
@@angelclarke1942 Values Elicitation and future pacing.
Understanding how potus influences his trumpets in a NLP framework would be extremely helpful to me
That's definitely an interesting one. Let me put some thought to that.
Analyzing anyone on TV would be interesting. Newscasters / propaganda agents would be a fun place to start.
Was there actually a group of random women sitting and listening to you, or was that spliced in as part of your technique?
Don’t mean to be rude, but that was very noticeable to me. If that was intentional, why was that done
It's obvious I'm sitting on a couch talking to a camera. Periodically the video cuts to what is referred to as B Roll so you don't get bored with looking at me the whole time. It's not an attempt to make people believe that there are random women in my apartment listening to me.
Not sure if you're joking or not, but figured I would answer you anyway.
@@DamonCart no wasn’t joking, but wasn’t trying to criticize either. It just jumped out at me and I started to wonder if that was real or some sort of subliminal tactic, or if it was just for editing’s sake. I liked your video though.
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00:55 begins the video saying "I wanted to get into something DEEPER..." (looks at camera seductively)
Then says "before I get into this, before I get into the...MEAT...of this video..." (emphasizes the word meat as his eyes lock on the camera).
Then says he'd first like to hear from you "Put your question DOWN BELOW...in the comments " as he points down... directly to his crotch for the second time in two minutes.
A few moments later...
4:40 "...to help me get what i want...some of it will be covert... there will be lots of subtleties and lots of thing ill put unconsciously into my communication"
BTW: if you're going to use TWO SOFTBOXES AND A BEAUTY RING to light yourself, maybe DON'T set up your camera in front of reflective surfaces... makes you appear vain and superficial.
Where do I even begin?
You give me way too much credit. Even if you were right about my "seductive look" and my hand gesture, what good would it do me? If you really think that's what I was doing, you're either paranoid or gay for me or both while at the same time priding yourself on being so clever. How's that working out for you?
Sounds like a way to be fake and deceptive with someone to get what u want. What happened to being authentic or letting the product or service sell it self because it is so good.
When in this video did I say anything about being fake and deceptive? That's where your mind went. Why would you assume that you can't be authentic when you use these techniques?
Nothing sells itself. Give me an example of a product that sells itself.
Can you go straight to the point next time, this quantity of cheese is annoying
It took me only 90 seconds to get to the teaching part of this video (or cheese as you put it). This video is also 4 years old. Attention spans have shortened since then with the rise of TikTok. In my more recent videos I get to it quicker because of this. I recommend working on your patience. It's a free video after all. 90 seconds is a small price to pay.
Jesus, I wish you’d get to the meat and potatoes quickly. I mean great info...but, really watered down it would be great to have a step-by-step first, do this, then do that, then practice this etc. You offer a lot of filler if I’m being honest. But thanks for the video
Before replying I rewatched the video. If I had to do this video over again, I wouldn't change it. I can't say that's true for probably half of my videos. If you're looking for something more robotic, which is easy to find in NLP, I'm not your teacher. What most people miss when it comes to persuading and influencing is the gaps I fill in this video. I see people making the same mistakes over and over again and it's because they're trying to follow a 3 step process without understanding why and how it works. Judging from your comment it sounds like you missed it as well. I recommend rewatching the video. Do it at double speed, if you need to. I watch most informational videos on CZcams at double speed. In addition, dude it's free. It took me a lot more time and effort to create this video than it did for you to watch it. If you're not satisfied with that, I recommend changing. That mindset will hold you back.
You talk too much and say little. Only the titles are good.
You complain too much and offer nothing.
Get to the point!
Be careful not to miss the point.