African Women ONLY Want You For Your MONEY??? Ep 43
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People have to also understand that women depend on men financially in Africa because traditionally men were the one with access to jobs so naturally it was their responsibility to take care of their women and kids. It's changing now alot but naturally a woman was whether on her own or arranged relationship by parents or others had to find someone who was capable of that responsibility. But nowadays it's extremely misused and abused
As a Nigerian man, I know we simp and trick too much. Make it hard on the other brothers.
Now I know what that Afro beats song means
Indeed, however, most of us also demand loyalty. Even if we are with other women 🤣 that's the deal. Those that don't are the real mumus
It's well known...I was told that during my trip to S Africa/Tanzania and Kenya.
As a black American woman Nigerian men are GREAT please don't listen to black American men they are destroying American families. They don't even want to get married just get the women pregnant and leave. If you compliment a woman they call you a simp its a very toxic culture. If y'all start listening to black American men y'all going to start destroying Nigerian marriages and culture too.
The women there just want money it's sad
Us Nigerians should stop spending money on women and spend on infrastructure instead lmso
Hmmmm....
I was thinking the same thing 🤣 Nigerians need to stop playing for a minute and work on Nigeria's "UPKEEP "!
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This is silly, assuming you're really Nigerian. Nigerian INDIVIDUALS spend very generously locally within their families, etc. We're simply more free with money while building finances, which is a positive. Obviously, INDIVIDUALS can't build infrastructure - that's a government's responsibility.
Nigerians are generous n large hearted by nature. Even the women are big tippers. It is cultural n no amount of shaming will stop it. Thats why a Nigerian is quick to help other africans we meet stranded or in a foreign land. Also, We are working on our country too.
I am not looking for a woman who is looking for a trick daddy. As a matter of fact, I am no longer looking.
I truly understand that. I pray almighty pleasantly surprises you with a mocs pleasing mate.
@@angelicamichelle1646 😎
wealth in Africa is on a whole different level because it's all in cash. in Europe and America wealthy business people tend to keep their money in assets so they can't spend without filling out papers or calling their bank. those countries also operate on a credit system which we don't have in Africa.
Yes your are very right. That's why back home if you are rich, you are rich and your assets belong to you and your family. Sadly though, people are getting into debt culture, these days too.
I agree with you, the majority of Rich Africans have actual cash and tangible assets like properties, land, livestock etc, their wealth is not determined by credit or stocks like most western countries.
@@ronniewamala5768 With inflation being as high as it is, keeping a large portion of your assets in cash is borderline irresponsible. Keeping a small portion of your portfolio in cash is great, and very much recommended for times of emergencies. But the reason us westerners keep a lot of our assets in stocks and real estate is because both of those assets have shown to historically beat inflation. Not to mention, our tax laws favor owning assets.
@@blongshanks77 True, i'm sure they diversify, most of them have commercial and residential real estate and they do own shares in various companies but they also keep a lot of cash because Uganda is mainly cash economy.
So you guys don't have master cards, visa or American Express type cards?
Joanita is Gorgeous with An Angelic SMILE
What's new. I'm from Manchester England I have a Unganda girl. She isn't stupid. She isn't with me just for my good lucks. She has her own money anyway. I'm just making sure it stays that way. You have got to support your women or you don't deserve her. No matter were she is from. I'm hearing that men in Uganda are very stingy. But agian there is a lot of stingy men from all over the world 🌎 🙄 😒
Very interesting takes on dating. I don't think money changes people, it only amplifies who you already are.
At the end of the day. All women want a man who will provide for them. Especially if they can't provide for themselves.
My experience with the African woman. They are more respectful. They are peaceful and appreciative.
A man who has money will spend it on her. If a girl shows you respect. Ain't nothing wrong with spending money on her.
that philosophy worked hundreds of years ago but in this modern age its called scamming. It dosent matter if the woman comes from-if they ask you for money at the start of a relationship or regularly dump them and move on!
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Every woman needs a man that can look after them.
My sympathies to the Nigerian man that gets her...
Oshay 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾I love your female commentator. She’s beautiful, classy, insightful,and intelligent. She has a fan, respectful fan. Much love to you all
I like her to, very nice young lady.
Quality content right here!
Y’all got me smiling ear to ear! This show has filled me! Truly!! OSHAY!! Facts!! I’m MAAAAAAADDDDDDD BUSY!! Your humor.. & honesty… I definitely vibe with it!
Great program and the panel. Great job, guys 👍👍
Another great show and topic.
This was a very interesting and insightful discussion. Lots of gems. Real talk 👍🏿👌🏿. Thank you 👏🏿.
That's most women irrespective of race or nationality unless they are attracted to you.
"Like the girls that like YOU not the girls you like." -Johnny Dollar
I love this channel. So greatful for it. Makes me wanna visit mother Africa
I’m black American visiting here in Uganda and it’s a beautiful country with beautiful people! Every black American should come back home to either visit or stay in their homeland, mother Africa!!
Great show!
Big up to my brother from Cali, I lived in Oakland and L.A. Aloha from Hawaii. Leah Tunkara
Great segment K Team .
Great podcast guys,You 3 have good chemistry.Joanita getting her Barbra walters on.
Yessssss 😂
I missed this one so I circled back to watch it. Excellent show great chemistry and a good topic. Keep them coming Kenganda family.
Thanks brother for clarifying and acknowledging the smaller and lesser known Caribbean islands. BIG UP to "The Bat and Ball" islands of the Caribbean, Sugar city/Queen city-St. Kitts and Nevis.
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Great episode Kenganda!!! Great contextual discussions that are enlightening. Wisdom is always palatable to the right ears. To the sister referenced in this episode. You must increase your appeal beyond a mans' carnal nature/urges. You're categorized as short term in most mens' eyes from the beginning showcasing your sexual value. We think its' available for everyone, not worth protecting if you don't demonstrate its' worth.
Yes bro, that's how it should be, African women wants providers.
He doesn't know what African men want! He's talking from an African American viewpoint.
That woman is delusional. She needs to go get a job..
lol. I learned a lot in this episode in terms of dating because I never dated Ugandan men. Although my dad and sibling brothers aren't Nigerians or Congolese, they are generous with their money: my dad with his wife (my mom) and his kids (my sister, brothers, and I), each of my sibling brothers with their respective spouse. The gold digger I mean the girl shown in that clip that says she wants "only money and only Nigerian men" is a Burundian. Meanwhile, I never ask a man for money, dowry, bride price or "up keep." I didn't know what "up keep" is until I watched Kenganda. Btw Joanita I like that you are rocking your natural hair because there's a stereotype out there that "ethnic Ugandans don't have naturally long hair growing out their scalps or that ethnic Ugandans can't grow naturally long hair." I'm also one of the few that has naturally long hair growing out my scalp which is bra strap length. However I'm not on camera on youtube.
I'm glad you mentioned this Stella, Ugandan men can be generous if they find a woman who deserves special treatment, that Burundian sl@y queen in the clip was obviously targeting Nigerian men because she knows they're willing to spend money and fund her lifestyle.
You're the first woman (want to believe you are a woman) that will say what you've said above dowry/bride price.
Personally, as a man, I do not believe in the dowry/bride price stuff, I will only give it if I love and like the lady enough for me to compromise on her insistence of giving it to her family, but I would not partake in the activities, but trust me, I will cut out and reduce in numbers whatever it is on the list.
On generosity, I'm down with that, if a man cares about his lady, I believe he shouldn't hold back from doing it as long as he can afford it, no matter how little, he should show he appreciates her and what they've got going between them, though some ladies do abuse it and see it as a must on the part of the man, forgetting they ain't yet married.
If they were married, then it's a different thing altogether, even at that, the woman still got to be understanding on her man's finances.
Never fall in love with pleasure, money and control ones anger.
On a dating site they ask for money before you even meet.
I love you guys show ❤❤
It's very true about us guys from that part of the continent. We believe we must take good care of our women. We grew up seeing our elders doing so for our mothers, so it's ingrained in your subconscious. We are happy seeing our women living well as we provide for them. By the way, what else is more important than for a man taking care of his woman? Why is he working in the first place? A man suppose to share his achievements with his woman. Even at that, no one wants a woman that only wanna be with him for his money. What happens, God forbids, if the dude falls into a hard time?
You are 100% right. Thats why you hv to choose with wisdom because your dad did. Didnt your mom stay with him at hard times? She did. Exactly so pick a good person knowing you plan to share your life with this person - you need to be able to trust them. My brother left a gorgeous 10/10 model girl for a 8/10 girl from a really good home - whose parents looked united n whose siblings were all well trained. Those were more important to him than showing off his wife had beauty/boobs and ass.
The 8/10 woman is now a 10/10 due to happiness and peace. So pick wisely
I moving to Africa this year, good info
Unfortunately, many of us have no problem adopting our oppressor's techniques and using them against our own people
She likes money , money ! 😢😅 I thought that was only in the movies ! That’s what I saw in African movies 🤣
This was interesting
Women all over the world want to be comfortable and safe in their relationship.
Yes you are very right, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, every man that is capable should take good care of his woman ensuring she doesn't suffer materially and or emotionally. Yet, you don't go into a relationship with such an 'it's money or nothing' kinda mindset. What happens if, God forbids, the dude falls into a hard time? Are you gonna leave him for another man with money? I kno I wouldn't wanna be with such a woman. I don't wanna be with a woman knowing that she is available to me because I am paying her to be around.
@@israelolupelumi8208 then choose wisely. Choose a woman who has both brain/heart and beauty. Hv u heard pastor kingsley okonkwo or Dr Shola Adeoye talk about their wives? Yea there are women who know how to work with you under any circumstance but you need to also show them you take them seriously by making them feel emotionally safe. Spending n listening is part of that. It does not hv to be mega millions but if you are wise, you ll know. You cant blame anyone for choosing a woman you dont trust n who cannot trust you. Thats deeerd relationship on arrival
The simp culture is strong..Men need to make women earn access to them and what they/men have to offer..
Joanita i got love for you sis but i'm not going to let you throw Ugandan men under the bus, first of all Ugandan men are spoilt for choice and have plenty of good options. If a man finds a woman worthy, he will gift her, we don't go around giving money to women just because they're beautiful, Uganda is full of gorgeous women in all kinds of shapes, we see them everyday but a woman's IQ, morals and values is more important to us than her physical looks.
Facts , as men all over the world you should never spoil a woman. It won't work out for you and she will use you , only bless a women on her. Character and morals
I’m telling you 😅it’s tough out here!!
4:06 I almost spat out my millet porridge hahahaha Oshay’s face hahahahahaha
LMAO im about to call you soon!
The clip is so cute 😂, Give me money. 😂. I am from the U.S and when I go West Africa the men are very romantic. But I still married a man from the U.K first, because I trust him more. But all of us Man or Women coming from the West, get Africans lovers that want us to be the Cash Cow for Africa. & them family. The Afrobeat rich Stars are lite ❤️. Everyone is in love with them . Leah Tunkara
He’s right some DON’T want your chop chop.
I love y’all show I hope you guys blow up even more. Maybe cross over into sports. Sports on the continent. African players in Europe and the states. There a lot to drama in the sporting world. Weather an athlete got shot, robbed or shot someone themselves. Athletes dating white women and more.
Hey bro we trying thanks so much for the love !
YOU do it dude! Make you some I know you can do it because already up are up in the news GO FOR IT! text me in a year and again in five so I granny can text kiss you on your cheek
@@angelicamichelle1646 that’s possible. I’m into sports and pan Africanism. I’m down for doing guest spots on pods but I wouldn’t mind having one of my own.
If she want Naija man only , it may not only be because of money, she may like the culture vibe.
What’s up Sac town! Holla!
i love that girls energy
Hahaha hahaha 🤣🤣🤣 Nigerias will come for your head 🗣️ one love from Ghanaaaaaa man you are so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’d pass on the first one she’s just like many in the states. She’s for DA STREETS!😂😂😂😂😂
At this Point, we are giving brother @Oshay all 54 African countries citizenship. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Every African woman I chat with....within the hour they are already asking for money or airtime....Its annoying
Loving this show. Great concept… but please Oshay, let the other hosts get some airtime. Give them more time to talk…. And you got a winner.
haha you right! Im too long winded.
Truth!!
That's the way it is all over the world.
When ever I hear "What happen was, " i know an african-american is speaking
Jonette is an absolute BABE.
The black women I have dated in united states were all down to earth, haven't been a baller
And for that I am very grateful. My clubbing days are behind in Uganda I a m sure I find an average country girl.
Kudos to you guys for dropping another good one. Pls can you guys do a business/entrepreneurial focused (different fields of business) episode, in Uganda?
By the way, let me first say this, no hidden purpose intended I just wanna state a sincere observation, Joanita looks nice on the this episode.
First Africans need giant farms to feed the people. Their food is being brought in from outside of the country. That's a problem.
Those episodes get very little views on this channel man. It costs more money to produce it I’ve tried it for years and no one watches. You can check out our old shows for that but now I believe being more global topics are the way forward.
@@Kenganda First let me thank you guys and your entire team for the good work you are doing. I understand your points about what sells to your audience; however, those topics mostly discussed are rarely different from what Hollywood and mainstream media sell to our communities, yes it brings the audience, but not the economic empowerment and what is required for our people to gain financial independence. You and I know for certain that without financial independence, our people don't have real freedom, or at the best can't come back home.
Still on the episodes, let' say for an example brothers and sisters who want to consider relocating to UG, you will probably agree with me they will be interested in which cities are worth looking into, which areas of the cities are desirable and which are not? What is the rental market like in different areas of the cities? What is the better way to get around the city? What are the process for acquiring land and building a crip?
Very importantly, what are the marketable skills people can add to what they already have that can help them better assimilate into the economy whether as an entrepreneur, or for those who might want to join the labor market, etc.
If you guys deliberate on this matter and decide to do the episode(s), can you invite, or interview other professionals as guests (or play the videos of the interviews) on the show, to answer questions or share the tips that would help convey the msg to your audience in the diaspora? I think the show can be segmented, or blended into other programming that has large audience. What do you guys think?
@Israel Olupelumi if the audience supports this with their money yes. I have spent thousands of dollars doing that before and nothing. If you want to see this sort of thing, I'll make a donation button and you and the diaspora can fund it then I'll do.it. but I'm not spending thousands of dollars again to get no views I did that for years
@@Kenganda What's wrong with that? Money should come first above "love". Love is for suckers
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I like what DJ Maintain said. The energy you put out will be the energy you will receive from others. So if there is a woman only looking for money and willing to manipulate or trick a man to give it to her. She will receive bad men with bad intentions. We reap what we sow.
She looking for a Nigerian ATM
Around me, I dealt with that kids picking on the AfriKAN, Haitian & Muslim girl with hijab! I was raised christian so it was my duty to intercept wrong doing! So everybody got an education up around me at 10 years old! We are all together in the gifted & talented program so getting into trouble was a huge “No, No”! & everyone eventually made friends! It’s harder now as an adult to bridge the gap authentically!
Dj always simpin
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊NIGERIANS, MOST GENEROUS AFRICANS, MOST INTELLIGENT AND MOST SUCCESSFUL AFRICANS 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
A whole lot of them do just want your money and whatever else they can get off you, but not all of them I must say...but a whole lot would do you for the money.
One would be 1% lucky to come across a sincere, honest lady/woman.
Other dude looks like Tye Tribit ~Gospel Artist 😂😂
I don't think anyone wants to be manipulated or used. If you are lacking money, I think it is best for you to find it in legal ways. Don't scam people because you are lacking something. I believe this is one of the reasons why many relationships are bad. People are not really being honest with each other. Men are taking advantage of women and women are taking advantage of men. This needs to stop.
Uganda men had to work hard for their money ! any man that work hard for their money dont just dish it out carelessly
Horrible... the African woman in the white saying " he say to give me money" this woman belongs to the streets.
i did that when i didnt have sh%t...8am 10 am 12noon 2pm 4pm yeahh
Can you guys make a video about bride price within the African culture? The process, how often are the women maintaining celibacy, low body counts, or their virginity. Knowing that their future husband's would have to pay their brides price. I personally would have an issue paying pride price if I'm not the first person that's been with her. I normally would look for a woman with a low body count regardless of where they may be from. But in Africa the culture and traditions are different.
Say less 😊 we will do it
@@joanitamaaya when u do please makd sure to say tbat btide price is different in african countries
African women just want money? That's not news to anyone😏
Do not miss the point, ❤ if u want someone to love u. It can not be fake. Does she make u feel loved.? An that goes both ways , if u got money or not. Real love can make it last. Leah Tunkara
Eyo Malaysia agende yetunde Kansanga,ne Kisenyi,.ne mungudo,zomu Kampala,.!!
If all they want is some money, they should let me know from the beginning. we can work something out lol 😂
A long term personality and education and young anyway i dont like players or golddiggers and some woman thats a witch and i want my woman to want to have more than beauty intelligence and a want o be a person thats toigh but a money maker or hard worker who makes money peace
😢😢😢😢😢 VERY GOOD OSHEY 😅😅😅😅😅😅
One thing Oshay gone do is rep Del Paso Heights 😂 black folks from Cali represent hard 😂
Another important thing to take into consideration, is how African women may relate to a man depending on the mans status in the country. Does the man live in her country and city, or is he just visiting? Some African women wont even bother with a foreigner unless she sees long term potential with that man. Like him visiting often, or he's already relocated.
Then you have enough African women that see a visiting tourist as an opportunity that they should take advantage of. In other words, an African woman can connect with a tourist and act like she is on vacation in her own country. And repeat that pattern day after day, week after week, month after month. Im sure enough African women are enjoying regular remittances from foreigners supplementing them. Dating visiting foreigners becomes some womens part time job.
Dj Maintain deffo got 1 foot in these Kampala streets 😂
As a Black American woman get that bag girl 💰👍🏾👏🏾
Empty on the inside
Yo, I was reading that, the battering of women is exceptable
Yes true, a land ravaged by poverty, love is very hard to enjoy when you have bills upon bills to sort out. Yeah, so a first world man will be very attractive to any woman. I mean which woman won’t be attracted to a man is a provider? It’s just biology
A lot of men offer money to a woman also. 😢 So u can say yes or no. When I say yes , it’s because we can laugh together. An he is not pushy , he follows my lead. Yeah and it seems like he doesn’t care about the out come. Then I think he enjoys my company. I been to over 16 countries around the world. I am just saying , there are many ways men use money, . You do not have to be rich, brothers just do not be cheap 🎉 and maybe u will find the right African woman. Good luck❤. Leah Tunkara
Why do men insist that women in other countries are any differnce from the country they come from. They are all the same.
Ditto males also. Stop begging. Support yourselves.
I’ve been abroad (I’m American) and foreign women are absolutely not the same. Not even close
You act as though you are the only man who has traveled. Your very naive if think that women from other countries are that much different from those in the US.
Some do some want real everything thete are men who wants African women that are real and good not a golddigger or a catfish digger
All women want you for your money(security), or good looks! Never heard of broke diggers!😁
😄😀😁😄😄😃. Bro that was funny. I heard a babe told me one day she only wants an ugly boyfriend because she will have less competition and the dude will always idolize her. She was hot too.
This completely debunks the idea that overseas women are nurturing and traditional… the western 304 mindset has now become global … relationships are now pointless as they are pretty much transactional
Nah african women always have been spoiled.Its always been like this. Blame our fathers and our men.
What's the big deal this is true of all, all, all women...
We should not throw money at any woman we meet.
Not me though lol
Dating or tricking? The line sounds like it's getting real blurred out there.
Aint no way i would let one of them funny looking women talk to me like a pimp
Nop false .there's african women who genuinely love and want to settle
He actually looks like a Kikuyu from Kenya.. I would probably call him Kimani while Oshay fits a UG or Naija man😂😂
Una umama
The Nigerian women will ask you for money real fast
Are you saying UGANDA has a couple thousand USD millionaires?
What lifestyle would $4000 monthly USD afford for a single man and or a man taking care of a woman?
Very very good!
@@Kenganda bruh!?
Bro Maintain mentioned that him and Oshay see a lot of women that go to the same places that they go. Meaning, these women have their own money. But here's the thing, many if not most women expect men to use their money 1st during the get to know you phase, and if there is a courting stage, while women almost always keep their money for themselves.
So that puts a man at a disadvantage if any woman he pursues turns out not to be interested. Women rarely invest financially when it comes to dating and getting to know a man. So it's not that women are walking around wanting men because they have money. The problem is women do not have to invest financially when dating, like men do. They can literally accept and go on date after date, without spending or losing.
Thats like dealing with an unintentional gold digger/opportunist. When women lose money or make unfavorable financial sacrifices with men thats the only time they realize how it feels to waste money, like men do.
Let’s get it 😂😂😂