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Huge respect for chatting about it, the vulnerability is so admirable
It takes guts to talk about this. Single dads always get left out of the convo. but we are as important to our children as mothers
couldnt have said it better
As a child of divorce I feel your pain. The older I got the more I realised my father was stripped of my time. Mum was incredible to me, but my Dad wasn’t given a fair shot. You are incredible and harper is lucky to have you
do you know what the legal reasons are for such an uneven split?
Imagine being harper and seeing this video in the future, that shit will hit deep
I was literally thinking of that, it would be an insane feeling watching this vlog
Same she will be so proud of Randy ❤
I think that’s why he’s doing it. So Harper knows that he tried everything to be more in her life, but mum didn’t let him from it because she was spiteful. These vlogs are a way for him to leave something for Harper to know what dad did for work and understand him.
It’s so sad honestly 😢
Yeah imagine them also seeing all the unnecessary travel vlogs he does with the sidemen for ‘content’ when he could’ve focused more on his daughter. Instead of just crying about it
Divorces and child custody somehow always fucks with the men the most. Tired of that unfair shit. 4 days a month is disgusting.
Im glad someone made this comment cuz it’s something that pisses me off too. Dads are treated like secondary citizens nowadays. Treated like we aren’t part of creating a child and brining one into this earth. Hope there’s a change soon in the family court system cuz it’s pathetic rn. And I won’t even get started on how we essentially get everything ripped away from us financially. Even tho that’s a secondary priority compared to seeing ur child, it still matters. So many young men are homeless because of divorce. My heart goes out to you Randy 🙏❤️
When my parents got divorced they got set times that was about equal between the two of them. I'm grateful for that. Agreed, 4 days a month is super messed up.
@@Wetbedsheet12 blud doesn’t even do this NOW so why would anyone think it’s gonna change? I agree it’s not a lot but like I said, the courts have a lot of evidence they work with and they ultimately choose what’s best for the child, not the parents. If they looked at the evidence and that’s what they decided then it speaks volumes about him as a father more than anything else.
@@MangoMushy Have you ever been in this situation before mate?
@@MangoMushy very strange novel since you get to see a few mins of his life.
Im involved in helping parents in courts for child access and I can assure you they make these stupid mistakes all the time.
I've got a father just now who will give up the world to have his child more but he's been given 2 days a month. He also takes every second Friday off work and spends £140 on travel to get to hoc child for a Saturday.
He has to drive 5 hours then get a ferry plus hotel for the night.
5:24 realest shit a man can do is talk about this kinda thing we love you bro harper loves you and you’ll get through this
You’re doing great. You’re making Harper proud. You’re making yourself proud. You make us proud. You help everyone that’s watching and you also have to help yourself. You are a great person don’t change!
I agree x
Perfectly said
my parents got divorced when i was 4, i stayed with my dad and saw my mum every other weekend. at the time i didn't think much of it really. my dad helped with my dad-to-day stuff like school and clubs etc. but when i saw my mum it always seemed like a mini-holiday. we didn't go on trips all the time, but just a different location with different company made it special and that's the stuff i remember. it was the time where i could get a maccies every now and then, or ask to go to the park and be there 10 minutes later, because my mum wanted to make the most of her time with my and my sister. parents never plan for things like this to happen, but there is still the chance to make the impact you always dream to make for your child. i love them equally and i'm proud of whoi've become. Harper will feel the same way with two great parents that love her this much. you may have different roles to play but she will be forever grateful. keep it up randy, you are the best dad for Harper no matter what
I had the exact same set up except i lived with my mum and saw my dad every other weekend, I agree with everything you said!
Unless her mother brainwashes her into hating her dad, which some mothers do
I don't really understand, so some parents might only legally be able to see their child every other weekend? What are the reasons behind that being decided?
@@prodigion1 I'm not entirely sure if I'm honest, I'm not sure it's mandatory for it to be a legal requirement or something the parents decide amongst themselves. But one of the reasons would be about education, the child will have to permenantly live near their school for example. in terms of the weekends, i know that it's harder to spend quality time with your child during the week, so it's often that the parents share the weekends to spend that time away from work etc. beyond this, im not sure but i'd be curious to know :)
@@safechickennn8962 thanks, I guess there are complications when the parents live separately because one parent has to stay at the other's house? If the child is too young/the living conditions of one parent's residency is deemed not suitable.
Randy we are so proud of you. Harper is lucky to have you as a dad. You're so loving and caring. The good thing about bad times are that they don't last forever
2 days every 2 weeks is fucking evil bro, you deserve to see your child as much as you want, this whole thing is fucked man praying it gets better 🙏 head up king
idk about whenever you want but every weekend seems reasonable and like it's working for all involved. At every second weekend even harper will notice, she will be waiting around for him/his family and probably asking about them all the time. Shit situation, idk how they can make it every second weekend without his knowledge
@@kieranosullivan02it should just be split custody. Not 2 times in 14. This is the reason so many men kill themselves in Middle Ages of life.
Laura is defo a snake
Doing the math, he'll only get to see her 48 days in the year. That is 13% of the year/life, that's messed up
@@kieranosullivan02why not whenever he wants though? I mean obviously has to be notice but why not? He wants to be involved, it’s his child just because they’ve broken up doesn’t mean the women should just have full say.
Hi Randy. Not a viewer, but this popped up and I wanted to write that I am in a similar situation. I know your pain; I know the thought of not seeing them for weeks at a time eats you up; I know you have these ideals about how it should all have gone and then it feels that it was taken away from you. It’s unjust. Personally, I turned to drink, stopped working hard at work, and then eventually unsuccessfully OD’d. All of this is stupid and counterproductive of course, but this is mental health. I just wanted to say - being a little down the road to you in figuring this out - that we have to keep our eyes on the big picture. Life is long, first and foremost. Really long. There is going to be so much time for us to be Dads; it just doesn’t feel like it. Second of all, some of the worst Dads are ever-present, and some of the best were barely there, owing to work and fate and war. It’s a dogma that the more you see someone that the more they influence you, but it’s not necessarily true. Third, I hate to say this, but it could be worse. In some countries fathers have no rights at all, or mothers have no rights at all, or foreign citizens have no rights at all, and you are totally at the whim of another person, i.e. blackmail, accepting whatever conditions they choose. Your kid is growing up in a basically solid country with basically free education and healthcare - also not a reality for many people. So there are reasons to be happy too and look forward. If you want to have someone to chat to or message about this stuff, let me know. Perhaps I could do with someone too. Best
This video hit me hard. Keep going mate. It’s a cliche and annoying to hear but two things really help with mental health (and they’re easier said than done:
1. Go outdoors, get sunlight
2. Clean and tidy work space /sleeping space
I work in healthcare where I was preaching this but not necessarily practicing it myself. When I eventually had the brief strength to carry out my own evidence-based advice, I realised that cliche advice bloody works. Obviously there are bigger issues at play here but these are two small things that have the potential to set things right mentally.
It's rough seeing you so sad, man!! I hope you are able to heal and get through this❤❤
As a dad of 2, i feel your pain man. As men we are always gonna get the short end of the stick. dont let the idea of limited time with Harper destroy you man. in a similar situation to what your going through - focus on building nothing but the best memories possible with you and Harper and let your character speak for itself. one day she'll be old enough to understand the limited time you do have with her was not your choice. keep your head up man better days are coming brother
Seeing you like this just makes us wish we could all give you a hug! You’re a fantastic dad and that spark will come back but got to give yourself time and realise just how hard you work! We’re all here for you!
This divorce must not have gone down amicably. I'm surprised to here there is even a battle for custody, I would have assumed it could have just been settled between the parents, but I'm guessing something big must of happened that would cause this.
there is no battle. he doesn‘t want to see her more often. he would have to stop traveling around the world for that
@@sleuwe3878 You got no idea what you talking about stop yapping
I've gone through exactly the same thing mate, it's hard but it really does get better, things change constantly and it does affect your work and everything else, keep killing it bro, she'll understand as she gets older.
Sorry to hear all the struggle its put you in. Cant even begin to imagine the feeling your going through. Not to take away from the emotional feeling of what your going through but your music and song writing would be an amazing outlet to express everything.
i dont get custody battles between 2 good parents, like yeah you may not get along but why take it out on the kid and opportunities for the ex to have with the kid. as a child of divorce my mum wanted custody but I was old enough to have a say so I could see both. and Ive grown to be so much like my dad from it, and something like that shouldn't be taken away from you out of spite, especially from a parent that is supposed to love you and provide you with the best opportunities.
Yeah I agree for the most part but we can’t be 100% sure if they’re both good parents or not from only what we see online
@josh4897 I get what you're saying but what I was saying is that in a instance they both are, which this could be.
I'd like to think the judge may have taken that into account
@LankyLegs96 it rarely goes to a judge, but when it does the system always favours the mum. Even if they don't turn up sometimes. It's a corrupt system.
Stay strong randy, my wife & I lost out son at birth just a month ago & your Vlogs have helped us by giving us something to distract from our heartache, we have an 18 month old daughter too & I can’t imagine being away from her so I respect how strong you’re being & the grind your on to build something that Harper will be proud of you for doing, love & respect my guy ❤
It's very brave of you to speak about what you're going through. While I may not fully understand everything you're experiencing, witnessing how hard you've worked is truly inspiring. Keep persevering through everything you're facing!
I just want to give you a hug! You’re doing amazing. Your vulnerability and the love you so clearly have for Harper and your family and friends is admirable. Keep on fighting the fight and finding that love for yourself! 🫶🏼
I hope ur doing okay i know how it feels I only see my dad every 2 weeks and as hard as it is I’m getting through it and it does get easier we’re all here for you ❤️
Wish you the best mate
@@JustaDislikeButton thank u
It is such a heart pull whenever it involves your own child. Every night it hurts that you can't wish them goodnight, give them a kiss on the head and tuck them into bed. Even just having your child in the same house as you is a relief. But know that it shines through that you love her and do everything for her dude. Single fathers who try and do their best are one of the most under-recognised and under-appreciated groups. It hits in the feels man, it seriously hits.
Insane amount of respect for you Randy - and you are right, all the work will be worth it when in a few years she looks back and says "wow, he really did all this for me". Stay strong!
I feel you on about talking. I don't like bringing things up and making it awkward for people but it does eat at you and we don't like to talk about things or being lonely and in your thoughts about everything ect. You've helped me a lot so sending all the love randy 💜
This shit is horrible man. Why tf do some dads get shit on like this.
You deserve so much more Randy. You know we're here for you.
so much love to u man. we all know ur a great dad and everything will come 10x better in time
I’m the same age as you guys (around 30) and have been through the same sort of thing. Andrew you have earned an unbelievable level of my respect for this my man. Opening up like that is so rare.
Hope the custody situation gets better as time passes. She needs her dad in her life.
I appreciate you being able to be so vulnerable randy and I want you to know how much your fans love you no matter what
Been there done every other weekend. 41 yr old guy and I’m literally balling my eyes out for you man. Big love
Randolpho, I just have to say, your openness about your struggles really struck a chord with me. It's not easy to put yourself out there like that, especially in an environment where people can be so judgmental. But your courage in sharing your story is not only earning you respect, it's also helping others who might be going through similar experiences. I hope you know how much your willingness to be vulnerable means to your audience. Keep being authentic, keep being brave. Much respect to you, my friend.
4 days a month is actually mental, both you and harper don't deserve that at all man. keep your head up randy, you're a great dad and you're gonna do everything the best you can. we're all so proud of you
In a similar situation myself and this hit really close to home for me. Just wanted to say that nothing you did or said in this vlog was ‘weak’ it’s inspiring to see you better yourself and do everything possible to not only better your life but Harpers too. Keep it up Randy you’re a legend
Must suck being in a situation like this... wishing luck to you and randy! You guys got this!🙏🏻
When she's old enough to understand I'm sure she will appreciate everything you have done for her...and want her dad more. Stay strong my friend...at the same time its ok to feel not ok. You've got a whole community walking this journey with you..whenever you need us we are here waiting. Sending much love ❤❤
I’m sorry about the situation you’re going through man. My parents are divorced, and the situation with my dad and I (he had to move halfway across the US and I could only see him during summer vacation and the Christmas break) was tough, but he and I are extremely close because he always put 100% effort into our relationship. No matter if I was visiting or not. It’s not fair to you or her unfortunately. But the fact that you are always continuing to show effort and love her and work your hardest for her is going to be big for your relationship with her. You’re a great dad to her. She will always know that.
Also, takes a lot of courage to be this open about everything that you have been open about. Much love bro.
This podcast got to me 🥺 we are all so proud of you and Harper will be too. Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re helping so many others just by being yourself! So much respect and love, I hope things get better ❤️❤️❤️
Respect bro. takes a real man to open up like this
Much respect for you Randolph for talking about it and showing such emotion. It's not easy to talk about your emotions as a male in this world but good on you. Im sure we are all here for you and support you every step of the way. With your outlook on life im sure you will be able to make the most out of a bad situation. Much love ❤❤❤
Brother, I went through the same thing with my oldest daughter. I didn’t see her for years at one point because her mother was hard to get on with. I promise you now, it gets easier and the bond between a father and daughter will never be broken.
Keep that head high Rand, build a beautiful life for you both ❤️
Randy I love you man, stay strong, I’m going through the exact same thing, this will make us stronger brother ❤️
We are proud of you man and you are a lovely person, stay strong, your love for your daughter will never go unnoticed.
You’re doing what’s best for yourself but also for Harper, it might be hard sometimes but you’re doing so well and she will be so proud of you
I went though court 2 years ago and now have the arrangement we have our daughter a week at a time which feels like a punch in the stomach, I miss her so much and I feel like I’m not a real mum. When she’s at her dads I’ll be folding her little clothes missing her like mad I hate it. But you just have to keep going for them and keep the bond strong. She’s 6 now so I can call her when she’s not here which helps. Stay strong it does get easier x
Stay strong uncle Randy! It’s hard seeing your pain because of Harper situation but for what it’s worth; you inspire so many by keep going, never giving up, and being YOU! Love you brother👊🏾❤️💙🙏🏾
this vlog is so relatable to how I was feeling over the last few weeks / months, know that everything always gets better in the end and im praying that you get more time to see harper because 4 days a month is a disgraceful amount.
Appreciate the honesty Randy! As someone who's also going through some stuff watching this means a lot! We'll be here supporting you! You're doing your best
This video is so real so raw. Sooo many people love u randy keep it up. Just keep doing what ur doing stuff will go ur way. This shit made me tear up.
Vlog was a positive addition to my day today Randy. Was feeling down and it's better with company. It's also lovely to see your audio engineering type background on display.
Respect on this one. Real strength showing the good and the bad
thank you randy for sharing being vulnerable, takes alot of courage to do that. Keep your chin up king
Can totally relate to how you are feeling right now. My family are all at one end of the country and my son at the other, torn between the 2 and can’t afford to live on my own. What gets me through the day is thinking this is a moment and something good has to come soon. Keep going Randy
we here for you bro, thanks for being vulnerable
Randy bro life’s tough at times. Think of the tough times you have already made it through. You will make it through this.
You talked about doing everything for everyone around you, its time for you to do things for you.
Yes focus on harper when you can and love her to bits but you still have a life to live learn yo love yourself and do things for you!
You got this bro, when I was in a similar place to you now I read a book called “How to Unf*ck Yourself” id highly recommend it! I also started therapy and after 10 sessions I had the skills to carry on doing what it taught me alone, its changed my life in so many ways.
Keep your head up king it will get better!
Since I started working for the card house I’ve really gained a newfound respect for people in your industry, and I really respect your work and hustle! I obviously don’t know the details behind it, but every other weekend is criminal. Envision you being an amazing dad and that level of time is really not fair. Keep pushing and know that there are people who really appreciate your work.
Randy i find it so strong that you are able to show yourself crying even while not giving us the full details, love you man
Hey man, I just watched your latest vlog and it broke my heart. I lost my dad last year and he meant everything to me. You need to remember that even though it’s hard at the minute seeing your little girl for such a short period, it’s not forever! She’ll always know how much you love her and how much you’re grinding to make her life special.
Keep up the hard work mate, and we’re all here for you on this journey. Stay strong Randy, you’ve got this! ❤️
There are dads out there that don't play a part of their children's lives but when a dad wants to be a part of their child's life and that opportunity is taken away from them or put at a limit then it's totally unfair on that father ❤ You are not attention seeking you are showing real emotions and showing what people feel in this situation, Keep being real Randy
Randy things will turn out good for you i swear to god if you keep pushing and being the person you are you will be able to look back at these vlogs and be so proude of where you end up we are with you my friend 100%
being a single dad is very hard mate, a mental rollercoaster, much love brother ❤
he is not a single dad. he sees hee four days a month. that‘s hardly parenting or even trying
Been through this sh*t myself. It sucks men get fooked over every time. I was ever present and always there, never dipped. Yet I was shafted. Even though I was the one giving the most time and attention. Still getting shafted and 2 years in court.
You got this bro. Keep doing your thing it will pay dividends it will pay off in the end. Keep being their for her. Just how up. Do what you can. Thats enough. You're enough. Keep trucking. Trust me. I am not through it yet but i made it through the worst of it and so will you.
One foot in front of the other.
Men should talk about their feelings, and more attention should be bought to how men get shafted in custody situations.
Keep on trucking
Keep your head up Randy, you are so strong. You will get through this, proud of you for sharing
So sorry for what you’re going through Randy. Thank you for being so real and sharing with us. We’re all behind you! ❤
never thought randy would make me cry..damn man. literally making a grown man cry. we love you man
Big love Randy. It’s never an easy transition but always remember you have an amazing support system around you and never feel embarrassed or a burden to reach out. It’s very clear you have everyone’s best intention at heart. Everything will eventually fall into place, just keep being you.
You inspire a lot of people with your honest emotions. Life can feel shit sometimes, but being able to show the bad parts along with good shows how strong you are. Be careful of burn out, pushing yourself for too long can have an effect on anyone.
Randy, you're already such a genuine and good person, I know you will try and do as much as you can when it matters, even when it is hard, and I don't have to tell you that. All I can say is don't feel bad letting out your emotions. At a time like this, it's much better to be moved like this than not to feel anything at all. It shows how much you actually care, and it can really fuel you, so long as you don't let it swallow you.
Sorry you're goin through hard times Randy keep tunneling through these dark times and eventually you'll reach the other side and feel better. Keep your head up buddy.
Thankyou for being so honest and vulnerable, not something you see at all nowadays unless it’s a ploy for attention on social media, but this all felt so raw and real, and we can see your unfiltered honestly and emotion, that takes a lot to be open about such things as divorce and child custody so thankyou for letting us into this part of your life. We’re all here to keep on cheerleading you through. Go fucking get em G
Your doing great Randy, love the videos sorry to see your struggling as one of your viewers I can say that your doing a great job and always behind you. Keep up the great work hope your feeling better soon🙏
My dad had to work overseas for about 4 years when I was younger so I only saw him a few times a year - it truly does suck not being there when you want to be but you figure it out, eventually the family adjusts and it doesn't last forever.
At the end of the day you're working to take care of Harper & your family as a whole, and that's what she'll remember and appreciate in the end - sending lots of love x
he doesn‘t have to work in london. how are you all so delusional
real talk = real man. all the best for you randy.
im so sorry things will get better sending love
My heart breaks watching this. Life can be cruel but don’t ever give up. The work you have put in has not been for nothing. Don’t regret life … you have a beautiful daughter and had lots of good times. You said you need to work harder but that’s not the case. A little self care is important and take one day at a time you have got some amazing friends around you so get your support from them. ❤
i just had a really rough evening and im feeling extremely shit. I often feel like i dont really have anyone to talk to, but this video helped a lot though. Its nice to know that a lot of people feel the same, and it always hard to go through a tough time
Child custody laws appear to be just as fucked in the UK as they are in the US. My dad had to concede his house + 50k just to be able to retain custody of my sister and I (this was almost 20 years ago). Needless to say it had a severe negative impact on me growing up and my relationship with my mother is strained to say the least. Keep fighting Randy
Its everywhere not only UK and US. Man are just seen as 2nd class parents. So disrespectfull ...
You’re such a good guy man . Harper will be so proud of you . Stay strong don. We are all here for you
Big hugs to you Randolph. Harper will not realise it now but when she is older she will appreciate all the effort and how much you fought for her and she will come to know that everything you do/will do/have done, it’s all for her.
Randy me n my partner broke up when I had my first kid I went through all this I know it sucks and it’s weird seeing your kids every other weekend but honestly you always end up seeing em more! It killed me and I paused my life for like a year but you can’t do that do I learned the hard way crying most nights n crying every time she left but it does get better and she’s 9 now and I see her all the time because she chooses to see me trust me it gets easier and better!! Mentally it’s gunna be hard but we all here for u man I know what ur going through and I didn’t have the boys like u did I sat in my room alone so I know your gunna be and do perfectly fine man! Everything’s gunna be okay buddy honestly from 1 dad to another
Stay strong brotha. This situation is extremely unfair but you're doing all you can. You're handling it better than I would. This sort of thing happens to so many fathers that I know and it's beyond messed up
sending you a big virtual hug! you got this Randy!
I'm sorry you're having to go through this with the little one. I've been having to sort my own situation like this the last 2 years. You'll find a solution to it. Never gets easier not being with your little one every day bit if you make the most of the time you have together she'll see how much you love her. Chin up bud. It will get better
Hi,
I had a really hard time watching this. While I can’t compare with my own life experiences directly, I can empathise and say how impressive it is that you’re continuing to post, create and share all of this content. It’s incredibly admirable and making me want to change my “I can’t do that” mentality.
You’re incredible from what we can see from the other side of the videos and we’re all here to support you. Hats off to you, I hope things get better and easier for you soon (it will, it always does🫶🏼)
Sending love from Reading🥰☀️
Obviously not sure of your exact situation and the laws may be very different in the UK than here in the US. But from my experience that "every other weekend" deal is what you're "entitled" to. Meaning that as long as you have a positive relationship with your ex you can see your kid more often with their permission. This is all coming from a child of divorce so my knowledge of it isn't the best, just what I saw growing up. The main thing you can do is be there as much as you can, be consistent and always let her know you love her man, you'll get through it and she'll appreciate the effort. Big respect for opening up man, stay positive!
Damn, I hate everything about this news and all the extremely personal/should-not-be-answered questions it brings up. You will get thru this. Sending you positivity and virtual hugs bro bro.
I'm trying my hardest to not hate your ex and instead shift the animosity towards the courts. 4 days a month is going to be tough. Hopefully time will allow her to realize that the presence of a child's biological father makes for a far healthier upbringing.
Thanks for sharing man. Cheers.
don't give up man. you're a great dad. you're doing what many people could never do. most people would just leave their daughter after a divorce but you want to give her a better life
Ah bro, we’ve got you dude. I can’t imagine how tough this is for you at the moment. You are an amazing dad for Harper and I’m sure when she grows up she will share all her love and appreciation with you. For the moment though remember you’ve got friends and family that love you and know all the work you do for Harpers future. We appreciate (as your fans) how transparent you are with us. Stay strong brother. You’re strong and never forget that. Love man. ❤️
My heart broke watching this 😢 hoping things get better and that as Harper gets older she understands how hard it was for you. Sending so much love ❤
Incredible vlog Randy, keep your head up. You're an amazing person and I wish my Dad was as good as you
Huge respect for talking about it Randy , you’re a great guy , keep making people smile ❤
"What's the point"
I felt that bro, I've not been married but I've been where you are and with 2 of my 3 kids I'm still at that place.
"What's the point"
Custody battles are truly hell on earth a lot of the time, and the fact that it’s just normal is the worst thing about it.
Keep your head up randy... I have been where you are and it gets easier... At the end of the day we all do what we have to do to give are kids the best life possible.
Pokémon/ football card collecting is something me and my son do together when I have him and your videos are a big part of that.
Keep your chin up and keep up with the good work.
Throwing yourself into work isn't a bad thing it keeps your mind of things. Don't let the demons in and take you down a dark path 👍👍👍👍
Hoping things get better for you man… you inspire me🙏🏻
I’ve got so much respect for you. You’re doing great and working so hard! I could never do what you do
Very proad of u Randy ur a real man providing for your daughter ❤ seeing u cry hit me as i feel iv known u and sidemen boys my whole life. I grew up watching u all ❤
Glad your filming this Randy i know its hard mate but its great you can show everyone what happens and what your going through. A lot of guys going through this but there scum bag baby mums wont give them any access. Keep strong keep fighting for more days!!
We love you Randy!!!! Showing your vulnerable side is nothing but admirable and if it helps then do it. Connect with your friends. Lean on them. And stick to you! We see it. We see the hard work! You are in a hole. And accepting that. Is ok. One day. After all the hard work you’ll wake up and feel 1% better and realise why you’ve done all the hard work. You’ve got a good mindset naturally. And that will push you. Once again! LOVE YOU RANDY!!!!
Heya Randy, just know that it's going to get better over time. You're doing great for yourself and your daughter. Just know it's ok to take your time to figure yourself out. Just know that we are all here to support you with your journey. I'm also sorry that you won't be able to see your daughter a lot more in the future. You are sn amazing dad and you love her so much. You are an amazing human no matter what happens. Just know that all of us are here to give you a massive hug. There's a saying in NZ we say, Kia Kaha (it means keep your head high and know your worth) much love ❤