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Komentáře • 523

  • @RomeoWhiskey692
    @RomeoWhiskey692 Před 4 lety +434

    I asked my ex one time why she did what she did ...
    She said because she thought I was strong enough to take it .
    She said that I was one of the toughest men she had ever met ... and something inside her made her want to find my breaking point .
    When she found it , at the extreme edge of the insanity our life had become , then she could no longer respect me .
    I needed to be taken down a peg , in her words .
    She said she hated me when I wouldn’t break ... I just kept taking the punishment and going forward ...
    it disgusted her .
    Then , when I was finally broken , weak , lost and confused ... she didn’t feel anything for me at all .
    Not disgust or sympathy... nothing .
    The opposite of love isn’t hate ... those are very close together... you can even switch back and forth...
    The opposite of love is apathy , the lack of any caring at all .
    The man she decided to go to instead of me , she said , wasn’t as strong ... and she felt sympathy for him ... a need to nurture and protect ... but it was something ... he made her feel love of a sort .
    Almost like a mother for a child .
    I thanked her for her honesty ... that is rare in a woman .
    You see , once I cleaned all the broken pieces of the man I once was out of me ... I became the man that women could despise in good conscience.... a man they can’t break .
    They can’t even touch .
    I don’t love them , I don’t hate them , I no longer feel lust or desire for them .
    I don’t feel lonely or sad .
    I am no longer afraid of them .
    The fear of hurting their feelings .
    I am civil towards them , mannerly ... when they allow me to be ... but there is simply no attachment whatsoever....
    Mostly I just put up with them for short periods when necessary ... a few minutes or hours at most ... until either I leave or they do .
    I learned to be as cold as they are .
    Strong emotions like affection make me feel queasy.... a bit nauseous... when other people display them .
    It is weakness .
    I don’t have them myself .
    I am calm , and content with my life as it is .
    Whatever happens ... happens .
    Things and people come and go ... all part of life .
    I still get mildly angry sometimes , when things go wrong ... but the fury I used to feel at the injustices of the world is long gone .
    I do what needs to be done , and move on .
    I can say I feel joy in certain things ... putting a motorcycle in the wind ... freedom ... that sort of thing .
    But I steer men away from strong feelings when I can .
    The tyranny of emotions make men slaves .
    The old stoics had it right .
    Virtue ... and especially the manly virtues ( the real ones ) are sufficient ...
    Honor in all things , logic above all else .
    Marcus Aurelius is one of my favorite authors ... I read his musings often .

  • @redress5
    @redress5 Před 4 lety +322

    Put yourself first, not women. This is what females are taught, so why should not males do the same? Wise up gentlemen.

    • @LifeIsRythm
      @LifeIsRythm Před 4 lety +20

      I don't think their taught anything in the area of self restraint. They need beta's to clean up the mess, the beta's need the attention so their glad to do these things for them. Beta dads serve the hell out of their girls, teaching them to expect the same from the world. They keep a circle and supply that will put up with them. Their forced to learn when they hit the wall, and everyone stops eating all of their mess.

    • @gojohngo106
      @gojohngo106 Před 4 lety +1

      @QE ornotQE Thanks! Reading this now!

    • @maverickbond
      @maverickbond Před 4 lety +3

      not gentlemen. just men. men have to be masculine, women have to be gentle

    • @kungfuman82
      @kungfuman82 Před 4 lety

      @QE ornotQE Dude, I've read the introduction and I'm already stoked. Can't thank you enough for sharing this!

    • @simpbeforeusleep
      @simpbeforeusleep Před 4 lety +3

      People don’t want men to put themselves first over women and society (like women are taught) because men have always been needed to sacrifice for women and society. There used to be a time in which it was ok and made sense for men to accept that responsibility, but not anymore

  • @ucantuse7
    @ucantuse7 Před 4 lety +43

    Another point is that so many men are in too deep and can't speak out for fear of financial ruin

  • @davidalen9279
    @davidalen9279 Před 4 lety +34

    The strongest negotiation position is being able to walk away... and NOT look back...

    • @terryr7622
      @terryr7622 Před 4 lety

      Johnny Five As long as he uses protection then yes I agree with you.

  • @starscream9595
    @starscream9595 Před 4 lety +34

    Yeah I totally get that. This is why I stay away from online dating. It oozes with female disrespect of men.

  • @wysskey1
    @wysskey1 Před 4 lety +54

    When a man is selfless he has no self. He is merely an object, a tool of his environment.
    When a man is selfull he at least has the respect of one person, which is one more than that of the selfless man.

  • @kenglee8196
    @kenglee8196 Před 4 lety +71

    So many of my buddies have what i call the "wifes voice," i m not talking to my friend, im talking to their wife through my buddies

    • @michaelr1577
      @michaelr1577 Před 4 lety +7

      Keng Lee that would be a great video for human to do

    • @krushagrape786
      @krushagrape786 Před 2 lety

      Sometimes you just have to infer it, but it's pretty transparent.

  • @paulconboy4803
    @paulconboy4803 Před 4 lety +22

    " when the world doesn't respect you - try to respect yourself " that's pure gold dust !!!

  • @PrinceRevolver
    @PrinceRevolver Před 4 lety +9

    The question then becomes, would you rather have a woman or would you rather be happy. You can't have both.

    • @huMANs_channel
      @huMANs_channel  Před 4 lety +1

      you can for a short time... the question is long-term happiness.

  • @nicegy0197
    @nicegy0197 Před 4 lety +26

    Guy A: "You need to just man up."
    Guy B: "You need to mind your business."

    • @Youwood667
      @Youwood667 Před 4 lety

      I'd fuck him up, that's how to man up i guess.

  • @amadiohastruck4331
    @amadiohastruck4331 Před 4 lety +74

    I'm glad I found this channel

  • @USMCArchAngel03
    @USMCArchAngel03 Před 4 lety +50

    One of Jordan Peterson's rules: Treat yourself like somebody you're responsible for helping.

    • @papiezguwniak
      @papiezguwniak Před 3 lety +2

      Holy Jesus. Thank you for this comment.

  • @brianmoatlhodi8444
    @brianmoatlhodi8444 Před 4 lety +18

    "Man up!"
    - Blue Pill Holy Gospel
    🔵

  • @kennethdelarama2466
    @kennethdelarama2466 Před 4 lety +85

    Happy International Men's Day brothers! 🙌

  • @Trazynn
    @Trazynn Před 4 lety +160

    Morally consistent men are fragile. The need to always do the right thing and demonstrate virtue makes them predictable and that flaw will be used against them.

    • @RomeoWhiskey692
      @RomeoWhiskey692 Před 4 lety +8

      Absolutely...

    • @kubasniak
      @kubasniak Před 4 lety +7

      I was like that. Learned by myself how to not be a doormat. Although I never reached the super cringe levels. Thats what a lack of father and spoiling mom does to your life. Im happy individualistic nihilist now. Fuck morals.

    • @tdmaywr2089
      @tdmaywr2089 Před 4 lety

      decentradical absolute truth

    • @tdmaywr2089
      @tdmaywr2089 Před 4 lety +2

      Rosscoe Schopenhauser and how can you back this up? I’m going to assume you disagree with this video message as well. Men always did everything in life for what? A chance to marry or obtain The hottest vagina and woman. Men now have been awakened. Yes our life span is shorter so we do think about age and yes now we do push to get more bang for our buck.

    • @SOBIESKI_freedom
      @SOBIESKI_freedom Před 4 lety +2

      @@tdmaywr2089 Cut the carbs from the diet and go ketogenic. That way you have a good chance at enhancing your longevity in addition to your health and wellbeing.

  • @tarun9542
    @tarun9542 Před 4 lety +14

    I think self-respect can't be taught or forced, it comes from within when you have worked hard and accomplished goals that actually make you proud. But majority of people today, have no purpose in life, they are just existing. their lives revolve around women and they derive their validation from the number of women they could bed.

    • @vkrgfan
      @vkrgfan Před 4 lety +1

      tarun well said. Thank you!

    • @huMANs_channel
      @huMANs_channel  Před 4 lety +5

      This is why I'm trying to get men to start thinking about themselves and how they live. Hopefully they can discover some purpose other than just bedding women.

    • @tarun9542
      @tarun9542 Před 4 lety +1

      @@huMANs_channel You're doing a great job, thank you! It's an uphill battle because of the crap that is shown in movies and the social conditioning going on since so long. I have lost count of the number of entitled women I have come across who just sit there like I'm the only one trying to find a partner and as if they are doing me a favor.
      Then they wonder why they didn't hear from me again.
      Can't blame them either, there will be plenty of men with no standards, who would happily take any amount of shit if it fell from a nice looking ass.

  • @No1-Theorist
    @No1-Theorist Před 4 lety +26

    You really put this matters so brilliant, I tell you I am one of the black guys who loves unconditionally but guess I am happy and happier with the fact that I found all this MGTOW channels.
    I stucked with Ted ex for long learning from researchers that their research has no bearing with my future.

  • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
    @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan Před 4 lety +52

    Exceptional points & examples brought up here. This was extremely thought provoking, thanks for this👊

  • @robertsmith7667
    @robertsmith7667 Před 4 lety +8

    That Superhero costume will come in handy when they're protesting the misandric family court laws.

  • @androidas79
    @androidas79 Před 4 lety +17

    Putting up with disrespect is the least Alpha trait than anything else

  • @Holypikemanz
    @Holypikemanz Před 4 lety +13

    I know this. "prove yourself" dating strategy where you try to show what a great guy/what a great choice you are, is utterly DESPISED by modern women. We've gone from long term mating strategies to short term mating strategies like Africa ffs. No loyalty to men, men are disposable (I dont need no man), accusing men of being selfish (with total projection).

  • @TheWarRoom
    @TheWarRoom Před 4 lety +7

    I love the way you framed this viewpoint, brother. I am working on getting the men in my area of influence to do the very same thing. We have been programmed with faulty software that needs to be written over. Every man has within himself a "king." Our society has turned that "king" into a pawn in service of the feminine. Men need to close ranks, fortify their kingdoms and work on building themselves more in the likeness of Marcus Aurelius than Caligula.

  • @DJE360WORLD
    @DJE360WORLD Před 4 lety +10

    The more I don’t pay attention, the more they come to me. 🤦‍♂️

    • @terryr7622
      @terryr7622 Před 4 lety

      Just be careful how you treat or deal with them. The one thing most women don’t like (or refuse to admit openly) is a man not responding to their attention. Many women have the opinion that when a man ignores them, there’s only two reasons: he’s either gay or a racist even though neither is probably true. It’s hard for many women, and a lot of men for that matter, to believe why any heterosexual man wouldn’t want “that.”

  • @TheSimonG
    @TheSimonG Před 4 lety +11

    That was really well explained. I only ever heard the "respect yourself" in the "man up" shaming context before, as a tool to define manhood so as to elicit something against a man's own interest. " Why dont you have some self respect son" etc.

  • @007phokus
    @007phokus Před 4 lety +4

    From the famous words of Patrice O'Neal "My happiness is Paramount"...

  • @indyj16
    @indyj16 Před 4 lety +19

    Women should think about how they would want their daughters in law to treat their sons. Then hold themselves to that same standard in their own marriage.

    • @ronaldkelley1824
      @ronaldkelley1824 Před 3 lety

      Unfortunately many mothers are more or only concerned about how her son treats her daughter in law

    • @wingsoffreedom3589
      @wingsoffreedom3589 Před rokem

      @@ronaldkelley1824 really? I find the mother is usually butting heads with the daughter-in-law and being protective of her son.

  • @onepom63
    @onepom63 Před 4 lety +9

    Before I took the red pill, I was living in a coma!

  • @galaxysurfer1122
    @galaxysurfer1122 Před 4 lety +10

    "Would you say that to your daughter, then?"
    "THAT'S DIFFERENT!"
    "Fine, send her to me then!"

  • @mr.invisible1400
    @mr.invisible1400 Před 4 lety +16

    I have great news to share, just last week I came across two men in a local motorcycle group I belong to on FB that are walking out mgtow and redpill. I say great news cause the word is spreading. Keep sharing with men you know and great work huMAN! Thank you!

    • @terryr7622
      @terryr7622 Před 4 lety +2

      I’ve seen it on a few occasions. I literally had to do a double take when I saw it!

    • @wingsoffreedom3589
      @wingsoffreedom3589 Před rokem

      @@terryr7622 how so we're they advertising that they were mgtow?

  • @mauricebendrix
    @mauricebendrix Před 4 lety +106

    I think that many guys are perfectly fine with being alone, enjoying solitude, until they meet a woman and fall for her. Then, they are no longer able to perceive that former solitude as the time during which they were happy. When they fall for a woman, they begin to perceive retrospecively the time they were spending by themselves as loneliness and no longer as solitude, and being drunk on love, they no longer wish to return to that time of blissful happiness, for now they see it as something menacing.

    • @Bb2b75
      @Bb2b75 Před 4 lety +7

      What a drug hey? What a conundrum.

    • @visionaryman3548
      @visionaryman3548 Před 4 lety +13

      Dopamine is a hell of a drug. It's the root of all addictions... The cocaine, porn, alcohol, video games is just how we get the hit. the thoughts of being separated from the source creates all this anxiety. Thoughts of being single again is separation from the source, which doesn't look good.

    • @MS-dq4er
      @MS-dq4er Před 4 lety +4

      Men can usually see this addictive dopamine behavior more in women (through estrogen) but you are correct. This is the same behavior expressed through testosterone.

    • @v5k456jh3
      @v5k456jh3 Před 4 lety +4

      Poor sods. Let them fall into the illusion.

  • @georgekk1444
    @georgekk1444 Před 4 lety +12

    Excellent remark!!! Sadly we were programmed to validate ourselves through how a quality of our character is reflected back on women. Clever clever clever my friend!!!

  • @roblink4781
    @roblink4781 Před 4 lety +9

    This should be the message every man hears this year, I'll be damned but every freaking woman should hear this too, this message is exactly what I've been feeling.

    • @83thechaz
      @83thechaz Před 3 lety

      The message will go through on ear and out the other with women. They “feel” they know everything

  • @g.scotthughes1303
    @g.scotthughes1303 Před 4 lety +51

    going to "the gym to find a woman" always ends in failure. how about we go to the gym and ignore women?

    • @g.scotthughes1303
      @g.scotthughes1303 Před 4 lety +1

      @Johnny Five or take up running. no gym.

    • @feedYOURchildrenKORN
      @feedYOURchildrenKORN Před 4 lety

      That's like trying to find a nice woman at a bar or club.

    • @guglielmotranchina249
      @guglielmotranchina249 Před 3 lety +1

      I would build my own home gym if I could (broke first year engineering student atm). But your point is absolutely valid. As Jim Wendler said, earn the right to lift and leave. Granted, good looking girls in tight sports bras will make our head turn because we are hardwired for visual stimulation. But they can be easily ignored if you go to the gym to train properly (not "work out" - massive difference) and do it with purpose. Sports? General strength and conditioning? Physically demanding line of work? Search for your limits? You name it. Do it because you give a shit, not to look good. That is just nice byproduct (if you don't eat crap).

  • @michaelruckert7403
    @michaelruckert7403 Před 4 lety +3

    Probably my favorite video you’ve done. Over time I got really sick of being asked to give, give, give...and being expected to do so with little or nothing in return. At this point I will do nothing for a woman unless she’s done something for me first. My mother and daughters are the only exception to this rule.
    I literally don’t give a sh*t what women want until they’ve demonstrated clearly that they care about what I want. That said, in the last few dozen dates I’ve had, exactly zero of them actually acted like they cared about me. All I got was a series of thinly veiled questions aimed at determining my wealth, and endless solipsistic rambling about themselves with nary a hint of a question about who I am or what’s important to me. Then they wonder why we ghost them...

  • @lazygizmo
    @lazygizmo Před 4 lety +21

    My family does this to me too. I tried telling them how things are but they do a lot of deflecting. Telling me to get out there anyway.
    Sure let me just put my neck on the line about something I don't care about with people who don't respect me with a system that is rigged against me. Ok boomer

    • @terryr7622
      @terryr7622 Před 4 lety +3

      lazy gizmo I think they do it because they’re concerned you may end up alone. But I also believe many men like the solitude to an extent including yours truly. Don’t try to explain it to them, especially female family members. They’ll never understand.

  • @ALion-pg1xq
    @ALion-pg1xq Před 4 lety +15

    So much food for thought from this video. I listened twice and saved because I know unplugging is a process. Thanks again for your thought provoking videos!

  • @aussiemanlyman2138
    @aussiemanlyman2138 Před 4 lety +4

    I was talking with a guy last weekend, 60 odd years of age, and he was saying as a child and younger man, he didn’t respect his father because his father would allow his mother to abuse his father. And the reason he brought this conversation up was he recently decided he was wrong about that, that his father deserved his respect because he stayed with his wife even though she abused her husband, and that is somehow more worthy of respect.
    In my world, that makes absolutely no sense to have that belief, but in his world, it was really the only answer, and he felt he had made a major breakthrough with his new way of thinking. But guys like that can NEVER handle the red pill, they are too plugged in, too reliant on the system.
    Thanks for the video huMAN

  • @polymathg
    @polymathg Před 4 lety +15

    I see all truthful positions beginning with the man himself. Women are the afterthought once the man has settled into his place in the cosmos. The woman's job is to adjust herself to the man, not the other way around.

    • @patriciamartin6756
      @patriciamartin6756 Před 2 lety

      Dear Geddy. Really? That's exactly why men can't get a woman. My LTR was drinking after losing his job and in chronically bad health. I paid his bills, got him to clean. Up his a t and now we own two businesses. If I had fit into his life we'd have been.on skid row. Anymore advice you want to share with us?

  • @5thdimension802
    @5thdimension802 Před 4 lety +6

    I can always count on you to hold up the two sided mirror.

  • @mrj9299
    @mrj9299 Před 4 lety +2

    "In spite of everything you've done for them, eventually they will hate you, why bother?" Green Goblin.

  • @MrFoxington
    @MrFoxington Před 4 lety +2

    Damn.. this is so true! My dad raised us that way. He went out of his way to teach my sisters to respect themselves.. but for me and my brother? It was endless demands and expectations that we could never live up to. I finally got free and walked my own path.. found my own sense of masculinity, respect and love. And huge thanks to MGTOW for helping me understand all of this. And now? I see how my dad is a slave to my mother.. he’s an abused dog that gave up in defending itself, now he lies down and takes it. And thinks that’s somehow admirable or he’ll get rewarded in heaven. It’s fucking sad. But that was his choice. I’m very grateful to men like you for helping us younger men (I’m 29) to learn these life lessons early. And in return I like to share these with the younger guys I work with as well. 😁

    • @wingsoffreedom3589
      @wingsoffreedom3589 Před rokem

      Has your father noticed the change in you and the fact that you have become vertebrae?

  • @johnmcdonald1647
    @johnmcdonald1647 Před 4 lety +3

    Happy International Mens Day gentleman, I posted this yesterday on fb and the 2nd whammen to comment asked "Why are you so angry?" I replied with the Ha Ha button, great video thank you huMAN, don't be a doormat go your own way gentleman and prosper.

  • @noelj62
    @noelj62 Před 4 lety +2

    It's true that I've never had any self worth back then. My value was in my utility to society and to women. It was an awakening moment when I read in self-help book that I exist, thus I have needs, and I must take care of my own needs.

  • @slimmpickings3120
    @slimmpickings3120 Před 4 lety +6

    Our personal freedom is self respect if you know better...

  • @artwebb6939
    @artwebb6939 Před 4 lety +10

    This, all day long
    How can you expect others to respect you, if you don't respect yourself?

  • @ericmehmel3163
    @ericmehmel3163 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you for this video. Encapsulates where my journey has taken me so far. I try to share these insights with my son's...it's not easy to reach them. But making the choices to stand up for myself and get my freedom, I hope it will reach them. Perhaps they will not make the same mistakes and have a more fulfilled and prosperous life. Turned 42 today, watching this video has made it better.

  • @LifeIsRythm
    @LifeIsRythm Před 4 lety +14

    Raising boys to be self sacrificing mules, waiting on the next rider. Self determination for acceptance, earning to get burned over and over again! Our mentors burned us from the word go. They even raise up men to harm other men, then bring the spoils to women. All this makes the woman the man's heart, a self defeating heart. Hmm?

    • @huMANs_channel
      @huMANs_channel  Před 4 lety +4

      I remember hearing an analogy when i was younger... "Women are waiting on the side of the road with all their baggage, waiting for a mule to come along."

    • @terryr7622
      @terryr7622 Před 4 lety +1

      In today’s culture it’s celebrated when women think only of themselves which in a way they probably should since not many men probably care about them. But for a man, any man for that matter, to think only if himself and not share his spoils with a woman is seen as barbaric and selfish. Old tv shows seem to echo this sentiment as well as most daytime talk shows.

    • @ronaldkelley1824
      @ronaldkelley1824 Před 3 lety

      It's really about gynocentrism, which sees men as less than an afterthought

    • @ronaldkelley1824
      @ronaldkelley1824 Před 3 lety

      @@terryr7622 That's true. Daytime talk shows have enabled women to act like psychopaths towards men

  • @robgoodsight6216
    @robgoodsight6216 Před 4 lety +6

    Wow...this was like a very positive punch on the face.
    The one it makes realise....
    Jee you're right...

  • @themissourikid969
    @themissourikid969 Před 4 lety +55

    In the animal kingdom the males are not always respected.
    Most of the time they are feared.

    • @mauricerobertson4034
      @mauricerobertson4034 Před 4 lety +4

      BAM! fear/respect 2 sides same coin

    • @themissourikid969
      @themissourikid969 Před 4 lety +7

      @QE ornotQE , I cannot speak to the mind set of a male spider, praying mantis... If humans were designed like they are I wouldn't have even brought it up. Because being the smaller, weaker sex that sacrifices everything for the chance to reproduce would be normal. So there would be nothing in today's culture to take exception with.
      I can speak to most of human history though ( and that of the nearest animals to us).
      At the very least males were/ should be feared for their potential to do harm.
      It's only through constant effort that men are able to remain "civilized". It's the simi- agreed upon rules that men have set for themselves that allows for civilization. Women (and governments) seem to have forgotten that.
      If the contract of men breaks down.
      If it truly is every man for himself...
      Good men will be respected, all men will be feared.

    • @subjer0
      @subjer0 Před 4 lety +6

      @QE ornotQE why are those species, the males are eaten? It's because the females are bigger and stronger than the males. It doesn't matter the gender, might makes right in nature. The bigger and stronger of the gender makes the rules and puts the weaker gender in check.
      In the human species, males are bigger and stronger than females, so naturally the males rule. But because of this men have the responsibility to protect and provide for the females. Feminism goes against the natural order of things. In nature no animal species the smaller gender rules or eats the bigger sex, unless they gang up.

    • @brilliancewinz81
      @brilliancewinz81 Před 4 lety +3

      Von Ace That’s why men leave because we are bigger and stronger but our authority no longer holds the same weight. Women just threaten to call the white knight virtue signaling police and it’s game over. We need a mans code in this world. Better to be single and free. Also good things are addictive and so no matter how much poon we get we always want more. And so usually with something your addicted to you have to give up on it entirely. Sad truth...

    • @joblakelisbon
      @joblakelisbon Před 4 lety +2

      I've often wondered whether things would be better if we could just exert out obvious physical superiority over women. Obviously it's not legal, but a lot of women simply don't respond to reason and only respect power.

  • @TheRealWanderingMan
    @TheRealWanderingMan Před 4 lety +12

    Also a way to mitigate some of this feeling of realizing how the system is so stacked against you in regards to relationship and marriage is by practicing stoicism and reading about philosophy, it has greatly helped me out and would highly recommend giving it at least a look over.
    Edit: This is for the viewers, not Human, for I see he has that mindset already.

    • @TheRealWanderingMan
      @TheRealWanderingMan Před 4 lety +4

      @Natural Being When you play the game of Life, there are going to be players who are against you. It's well known that men make the majority of laws, but when laws are made in the name of feminism, social justice, and "social well-being", then it becomes a huge problem and hurdle that's almost impossible to overcome. It's at this point that males should skip a turn at their own accord, taking a step back to assess the situation, and understand where they stand in the current world. So the fact you hate it when men say this makes me think you're either not aware of the game entirely, or you're ignorant to the rules and outcome of it.

  • @peterridgway7355
    @peterridgway7355 Před 4 lety +9

    Thanks for the lift huMAN, it’s just what I needed this afternoon.

  • @MNEWALL1
    @MNEWALL1 Před 4 lety +6

    Oddly - a lot of men are starting to wake up to this, well, it will be hard - even as women wake up - to actually show real care - once men have real doubts

  • @anindividual3889
    @anindividual3889 Před 4 lety +2

    Nice positive video and a good message on International Men's day! We as men need to learn how to respect ourselves more, it can't be stated enough in the current year. I have found that in my life that once I started respecting myself more, the more I was shown that in return. Stand up for your own interests and let your decisions and actions be what YOU are comfortable with, not something that was pushed onto you. That part about men not feeling anything or getting anything back really hit home for me.

  • @amithatidiot2282
    @amithatidiot2282 Před 4 lety +15

    Spot on brother. I have been trying to explain this line of thought with some of my blue pill bros and by that I mean hardcore blue pillers, yet I do not seem to get across. I am not trying to red pill them so much as, knowing where they are at, trying to get them to at least respect themselves and demand that from their partner.
    I am married to a widow and she is great but I have to yank the princess out of her every once in a while because she has a tendency, and I think it is just a byproduct of society and how women are social animals and want to be what they think all other women are, to start acting as if she deserves more than she has earned. Its human nature to them. She knows if there comes a point where she doesn't respond to my yank that I will be a ghost, I have told her that, no need to ask why just ask what you did. This is both our second marriages and neither loses much in either walking. Now I am not saying I am perfect, but I am also not the one that needs a partner, I actually still desire her to this day, so thats a plus and we are in our 50s

    • @terryr7622
      @terryr7622 Před 4 lety +1

      Honestly, dude. Be very careful when you do that. These guys might tell their wives/girlfriends about your beliefs and they’ll try to get everyone against you. Sandman brought that point up. You may want to point them in the direction but don’t outright say that they should avoid all relationships. Let them discover it their own way

    • @amithatidiot2282
      @amithatidiot2282 Před 4 lety +1

      @@terryr7622 I am of an age that I could care less if anyone is against me. I have retired from one life career, I now work because I choose too and making the folks happy there or content by keeping my mouth shut, as they can tell you, is not a function of my being. If someone ask my opinion, I am happy to give it, most times happier than those receiving it

    • @wingsoffreedom3589
      @wingsoffreedom3589 Před rokem

      @@amithatidiot2282 firstly how did it go with those guys in the 2 years since you wrote here, how's your relationship with your wife and lastly, it's" I couldn't care less.",

  • @theSword-
    @theSword- Před 4 lety +11

    The women do the same thing. Trying to project to their daughters what they think they should be.
    Many parents try to lead their kids down a certain path that is in their heads, not in reality.

  • @steveswitzer4353
    @steveswitzer4353 Před 4 lety +3

    Dead on we are just reflections unless we step through the mirror

  • @seattime4075
    @seattime4075 Před 4 lety

    As I have grown older (wiser..) I have realised that you need to ignore what is being pushed in the media and concentrate on yourself, you will find that your women will be happy to go along for the ride and will actually respect you for it.

  • @CoachGregAdams
    @CoachGregAdams Před 4 lety +2

    Very great points huMAN. Thanks!

  • @Sid90s
    @Sid90s Před 4 lety +2

    There's nothing to love, nothing to want...just.....wow.....🤔😞
    Food for thought man, food for thought..
    Happy international men's day, gentlemen! Greetings from India..🙏

  • @dinocha0s
    @dinocha0s Před 4 lety +3

    Im going to be strong, im going to be tough, im going to be unbreakable and calm in the face of chaos...
    But i wont do it for her....
    I will do it for myself...

  • @andrewkanz5670
    @andrewkanz5670 Před 4 lety +4

    Excellent work. This is exactly how I have felt, but I could only hope to express it this eloquently. Hat’s off to you, HuMAN 👏.

  • @redpilledstoic
    @redpilledstoic Před 4 lety +2

    Thanks for the reality check. I myself is finally waking up. Been nothing but a door mat for almost 19 years.

  • @slyguy8931
    @slyguy8931 Před 4 lety +2

    huMan, I appreciate the calm moods you present in your videos. Very mellow delivery of MGTOW principles.

  • @derfalschejunge
    @derfalschejunge Před 4 lety +9

    I like how you focus on how life can go on after the red pill, HuMan.

    • @huMANs_channel
      @huMANs_channel  Před 4 lety +3

      I'm glad you can see that in what I'm trying to communicate... many men don't.
      Cheers 👍.

  • @chrisjustice9585
    @chrisjustice9585 Před 4 lety +2

    binge watching videos. I find myself in a long term relationship with a woman that treats me almost exactly the way your videos describe. I love her but, i feel ive been conditioned to feel less of a person, just to have love in my life.

  • @jasonlepage7915
    @jasonlepage7915 Před 4 lety +3

    I think we can blame HollyWood a little for some of this , , , didn't Sylvester Stallone , in one of his ROCKY movies say , " it is not how hard you can hit , it is about how hard you can get hit and still get up and keep moving forward " , , , HollyWood , teaching men to be human punching bags for society and women , , , i wonder how many men are living life with that ROCKY mentality in their brain ? ? ? .

  • @mrpopsful
    @mrpopsful Před 4 lety +3

    I wish I heard this 25 years ago

  • @Dante3X
    @Dante3X Před 4 lety +7

    Powerful!

  • @alienamnesiac
    @alienamnesiac Před 4 lety +3

    You earned a subscriber here. Fantastic videos, thank you. A lot of what you talk about is really resonating for me. I'm at the point of wanting to get past being pissed off about how screwed everything is and start laughing about it while I divert more of my energetic resources to myself. My whole adult life I've prioritized women and shelved my own goals to indulge in love and being a "rescuer," but I'm seeing now that I've rolled myself out like a welcome mat and given my energy away with very few long-term returns.
    Thanks for your sincere and caring perspective!

  • @AgeofMachines
    @AgeofMachines Před 4 lety +3

    If they are willing disrespect you in a relationship, you had better believe they will disrespect you in EVERY other corner of you existence.
    The "THEY" being her and ANYONE willing to help her live the lie that she is MORE important than you, you are supposed to sacrifice yourself for her and that no matter what she does, YOU CAN'T RETALIATE as a man.
    That empty tank is real. Isn't a romantic notion and you will run out of gas at the worst possible time.

  • @briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206

    People will ONLY treat you ..AS YOU LET THEM.
    Would rather have NOTHING than be "Used" by ANYONE.
    Edit.. Lets hope CZcams does not delete this comment off for telling the truth.
    Double Edit... Why does she have to "Be the prize" ... After the age of 40 ..They can't have children and they age like "Sour milk"
    Should be the other way around..
    Society tells us that she is the catch .. They believe this.

  • @animebeastking
    @animebeastking Před 4 lety +1

    Men who have forgot they are order created by nature amongst the chaos is why this happens. Raised by chaos doesn’t not mean it is our domain , thus we must comeback into our through domain in ourselves to make things balanced. You are right men as a whole have lost a hold of there domain and truly no amount of knowledge will get us back there until we look within ourselves to revitalize it.

  • @mrj9299
    @mrj9299 Před 4 lety

    They think that we'll just sit there and take it, like good little boys, that we won't werewolf and go wild!

  • @kareemmohammed5270
    @kareemmohammed5270 Před 4 lety +6

    epic, healing words, appreciate it.

  • @nailinpalin1477
    @nailinpalin1477 Před 4 lety +42

    You gotta stop interacting with the NPCs on a higher level, its impossible. Even if you 'get through' theyre programmed to forget upon sleep cycle.
    Enjoy the decline, gentlemen

    • @BlueMariner777
      @BlueMariner777 Před 4 lety

      NPC's - give full name for acronym

    • @nailinpalin1477
      @nailinpalin1477 Před 4 lety

      @@BlueMariner777 you gotta get involved in the culture war. It's the one upside to the dangerous growing pains humanity is currently experiencing...its a meme. Switch from google and use that new search engine to find the npc meme.

    • @BlueMariner777
      @BlueMariner777 Před 4 lety

      @@nailinpalin1477 been off google for decades. Will do my own search.

    • @wingsoffreedom3589
      @wingsoffreedom3589 Před rokem

      @@BlueMariner777 non player characters

  • @mrj9299
    @mrj9299 Před 4 lety +2

    We need to start calling society SOYciety.

  • @kingsoloman2121
    @kingsoloman2121 Před 4 lety

    Great video! Everything we’ve been taught is the exact opposite of the truth. We were taught that women are the ones who are gentle, caring and loving. We were taught that women appreciate men who are gentlemen. We were taught that men have been oppressing women.

  • @MoosemanR
    @MoosemanR Před 3 lety

    We need more people like you in this Society Human.

  • @AM-vv7xr
    @AM-vv7xr Před 4 lety

    This guy's voice soothing and it just grabs your attention completely. wow great sound. respect.

  • @MensEquality
    @MensEquality Před 3 lety +1

    Wonderful! Very inciteful and perceptive!

  • @eleveneleven572
    @eleveneleven572 Před 4 lety

    Bizarrely I had a discussion with a French woman two days ago who was questioning me over my divorce.
    She was quite blunt. She said that in marriage the woman has to be the boss!
    Needless to say I told that its unacceptable to me to be a subordinate in a relationship that purports to be equal. She couldn't get her head around it......that I would refuse to give up my liberty in effect to become someone's servant and provider.
    It has caused me think on this. I've watched videos on Red Pill but only from a male perspective and how we see it.
    That night I had a glimpse into a female mind....and it was dark.

  • @anyo_mations
    @anyo_mations Před 4 lety

    It doesn't make you strong to stand there and take it. You are a human being. You are worth more than that.

  • @jasonboughen9542
    @jasonboughen9542 Před 4 lety

    What an amazing video. You hit the nail on the mark. The truth hurts but the reality is this is the state of so many men. Even myself. I spent a good part of my adult getting my self worth from my woman. Only to be completely disrespected. Constantly. Never again huMAN. Thanks for speaking the truth.
    It makes perfect sense to me as well.

  • @bugeekman6769
    @bugeekman6769 Před 3 lety

    Never thought about things this way. Appreciate the food for thought

  • @charlesrogers8420
    @charlesrogers8420 Před 4 lety +1

    Spot on!!!!

  • @sonderman8079
    @sonderman8079 Před 3 lety

    Great work huMAN. Your work is educating my 14 year old son through me.

  • @MisterClassic77
    @MisterClassic77 Před 4 lety +1

    CZcams finally got the recommendations right! This gentleman speaks to my soul. SUBBED!

  • @JohnDoe-yb7ps
    @JohnDoe-yb7ps Před 4 lety

    Don’t let anyone treat you like free salsa. We are guac boys, guac!

  • @porter2241
    @porter2241 Před 4 lety

    Thank you great message.🙏🏼

  • @BlueMariner777
    @BlueMariner777 Před 4 lety +2

    So on point with this subject.

  • @peterm1892
    @peterm1892 Před 4 lety

    Powerful info huMAN!

  • @welderdude1
    @welderdude1 Před 4 lety

    Fantastic video! Very accurate perspective.

  • @vicmtz8808
    @vicmtz8808 Před 4 lety +1

    great thinking, repect Sr.

  • @ubbe12ande
    @ubbe12ande Před 4 lety

    THX huMAN! GREAT!

  • @stean90
    @stean90 Před 3 lety

    Definitely one of your most important videos!

  • @koli5979
    @koli5979 Před 3 lety +1

    I needed this huMAN
    Thanks a lot 👍👍

  • @macd7875
    @macd7875 Před rokem

    True words of wisdom! Thank you!

  • @Engagenumberone
    @Engagenumberone Před 4 lety +1

    A necessary video. Excellent concept.

  • @pledgestone
    @pledgestone Před 4 lety

    Great video. Spot on.

  • @sbentley1140
    @sbentley1140 Před 2 lety

    Self respect is everything, if people don't understand that then have nothing to do with them.