Top 5 Empathic People Problems
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- THE STRUGGLE IS REAL! Here is my list of top 5 problems Empaths have. Trust me, I know first hand.
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The hardest thing about being empathetic is it's hard to hurt people ... even when it's necessary ... because it hurts you to hurt them
OMG yes. 😥😥
So true! I struggle with that too. If it's a just thing, I don't have an issue with it, as I'm a believer in justice. But if a person doesn't deserve to be hurt, I don't like being in a position where it must be done and I'm the one who must do it. 😥
I love being alone. ALL THE TIME!! Whenever I get an invite to something I'm thinking to myself I might not make it. LOL.
LOL!!!
Same! and I am a Cancer woman so even worse! Hermit crab here!
i would love some tips on sheilding. im a single mom with very little suoport so i have to stay up late to get alone time and bc of that deprived of sleep which makes me even more sensitive.
Melissa McGarvey PRAY TO GOD
Finding out about empaths has finally answered a lot of questions in my life. I just wish I could of found out about this 40 years ago!
I have lived in a toxic environment all my life until i was able to get out on my own i literally went through hell when I was younger i didn't understand why i felt everything so deeply all the fake and phony people in my life i stuck out like a sore thumb and it's a challenge seeing someone's shadow side instead of who they are portraying to be I'm a empath plus i know every negative thing someone's ever said about me and others i can tell if someone's been abused or molested i can sense i pick up on everything good or negative i know secrets of people i don't know life is definitely a journey I'm thankful now to know it's others like me and I'm learning how to manage such a gift. ...
Jamilia Carr when did it start feeling like a gift instead of a curse?
Thank u! Thank u! Thank u, lovely lady! What u wrote rocks! It’s me 100% too! I’m a codependent empath raised in an extremely toxic and abusive home. At 44, I’m finally finding my voice. It is angry. Just estranged myself from my abusers (Mom, big brother, big sister). My codependency attracted plenty of sociopaths and manipulators which made it even harder to stand up for myself because I thought everyone else couldn’t be wrong. Sometimes they are. Believing in the way I feel And letting my feelings guide me has been quite the journey. I’m exhausted and relieved.
dc rikki Hi. I have been on a very similar path myself having been abused by my parents and leaving the household as soon as I was able to at 16 of age. Me too, have attracted partners and men, who were narcissisti and others, sociopaths(and yes I admit I felt they needed help and I could help, ending up losing the lifestyle, materials and peace of mind I previously possessed and cherished beforehand). I truly wish to connect with other Empaths lately to ease my feeling and for the sense of assuredness and be able to affirm their goodness how about you? I send warmth, care and love your way.
@MeJay What does it mean that I feel like I'm talking the same thing about me?
Mejay:
Love what you said. 👌
When you mentioned movies, smh... I’ll never forget my experience watching “The Passion of the Christ.” I watched it once and I will never watch it again. I swear, the emotion was so deep, I almost passed out. Plus, I already get emotional for what people consider to be mediocre movies as well... Ugh! The trauma was real 🤦🏾♀️ thanks for sharing !
Yes!!! People need to understand this about us! These are REAL tears I'm crying folks! lol
Leah May I agree with you. However, my personal conflict was my addiction to movies. For many years, if it moved across the screen, I would watch it. As I got older (I'm now 69), I no longer have that desire.
being in nature alone is best for me...problem #1 sucks in relationships cause you can see who they are underneath but they actions..smh..
great video ,much appreciated sis
Same
I am a libra empath person and the older I get the more I am manifestING the characteristics you described thanks for clarity
The feeling "normal" has always been an issue with me since I was 12 or so. However, I have to agree with you about number 1 being the most challenging .... I don't deal well with it that I end up shutting a lot of people out of my life because I sense the fakeness and I'm desiring authenticity in my relationships. I think they think my "goodness" is a fake and when they stay around and see that I'm real, it's then that I see their heart. Their true intent I've found was they were only there sticking around, pretending to be friendly while looking, hoping to find something bad to justify why they didn't like me.
:( I know the feeling. I have to remind myself that people are imperfect (including me) and just because their intentions aren't always pure towards me, doesn't make them bad people. Besides, it takes a tremendous amount of courage to be authentic. And not everyone is brave enough to do it. :) xoxoxo
OMG, you just reminded me how on a few occasions people got triggered and insulted me for being cool and graceful when another is in conflict against me. As though grace under pressure was a character flaw. I guess they wanted me to be hostile and argumentative and in their eyes I was the bad guy, the fake because I wasn't emotional and didn't want to partake in rage.
If you are an Empath, learn how to ground yourself. I mean really really learn how to ground. Deep tissue massage, including self massage can help you to reconnect physically and ground. Deep breathing for 5 to 10 minutes. Deep Stretching for at least 20 to 30 minutes or even 15 minutes can help a lot. Also do deep breathing with deep stretching. I teach a class on Grounding as well. New Website events being added this week: MikeKollin.com
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Damn i already do this
Didnt know was grounding myself
I still need to learn how to shield myself from all these emotions around me! It's crazy because I can relate to what you said about the sensing when someone doesn't like you, and is being fake pretending they do!I really wish I didn't feel all that but its sooooo obviously to me. I can feel when someone is uncomfortable around me!I get very uncomfortable and want to leave lol
#1 was pretty accurate . It's beyond self conscious , but not to be confused with it . Thanks :)
I'm an empath and it's daunting! I am wayyy too sensitive and feely, but now I am trying to learn ways to shield myself from all the craziness and sociopathic people who like preying on empaths.
Something that happens to me is that I mimick characters from tv-series if I watch several episodes in one go. It can be interesting and/or frustrating to "borrow" someone elses mindset.
yup!
Feraewyn I never realized it, but i do this too. Thanks for opening my eyes.
I do the same thing and I find it can be fun and troublesome at the same time. I found though that with me at least if i take a break every 2 or 3 episodes or a quarter way through a movie even if it's just long enough to play a song (3 minutes), then this effect isnt as strong. I hope this helps you and any empath struggling with this issue.
Unbelievably true it's insane.
I keep saying "I wish I didn't see"
i love you, when i see real people it's a gift from God! !!!
This is so very much me. People just don't understand.
My wife is empathic.feels those alive and the energy of those passed on..she has mental health issues and eratic mood swings..but is the kindest person i know.we currently have a lost soul watching our house and follows her while shes driving.experiences are many..since birth..its hard to understand sometimes
Being empathic - my challenge is being too nice or kind even when I was given troubles before. I'm a Capricorn. My moon sign is libra and my rising is aquarius.
Yes, I'm an Empath and everything you said is SO accurate. Great video!
That was the perfect video for me at this time. It's the holiday session and I find that I have to stay away from folks cause I am empathic. Thanks for the validation.
Yep, I dont LOVE to be around people, at ALL! I am a loner and I feel as if "peoples" energy can bog me down immediately. If their "energy" is not cool, just like #1 - wow! I feel that so quick! Their aura, their being....when they are fake and intentions are ugly....nah, I step away somehow someway and also....my spirits/angels will separate people from my path.
Beyond empathic and it's scaring everyone away because they just don't get me.... no crowds, love people you nailed it. Love alone, but not to much.. Full moon triples empathics... Im unique needing the same : )
Being around animals and nature is our realm, its society that's misaligned, not us! Be proud of your gift and don't forget yoga if u haven't tried it yet
Indeed. xoxo
Sex can be very difficult too, I tend to pick up on thoughts more clearly then.
aqua pluto Hmmm, I think this is when my mind is clear
yes
Thank you so much for this...i recently accepted myself as An empath, and now im finally understanding why i react so strongly on other People in a wrong social way: because i react on their Hidden intentions instead of what they're saying. But positively how i can look behind the appearance of a person and accept them truly and See their potential and that's why i never give up on People 😀
it has been very though throughout my life - looking back - I knew who the interviewer is during a job interview, would would get distracted by their mood or personality, can tell who everyone new is, becoming sort of judgmental, not because I am, but because I can tell them where they make mistakes in their soul development... so much information all the time... I love being around people, though, just have to be careful about the type of people... creative ones are the best :) news are very hard to watch - especially because of the lies and the manipulation ... Stay crystaline, my fellow empaths! Happy New Year! Thank you, Jae!
xoxo
I need everyone I have ever met to see this
being around fake people number 1
dang. trying to appear normal is so hard. and explaining my crazy is more of a challenge.
Omg yes, constantly trying to help others
When you are empathic, you first feel that all the emotions are yours. When you get to know better, then you realize that most of everything belongs to others. Being able to sort it out is a relief because this can be a very negative world if you don't.
so true...
im 16, and this video made everything make so much more sense to me, thank you. i become physically terminally ill in my house because of the negativity that runs through my family, and another problem ive found that empaths face, is this ; being emotionally wounded and holding in their anger because they feel like they shouldnt have to show the world their pain. another problem is, when emotionally wounded deeply and around manipulative people, to become manipulative themselves to get away from pain. its a choice to be manipulative for me, because i know exactly how it works from being around it my entire life. also coming to terms with the feeling of just trying to help someone who turns their anger on you and tells them youre the problem. for an empath, thats detrimental for their self identity, which causes them to have self identity crisis, and fear of displaying fake emotions towards others. those are the most prevalent problems i have experienced, for empaths theres actually a fine line between being empathic and narcissistic because the weight may be so heavy on their shoulders that they cant take anymore so its hard to be genuine. they may slip into narcissistic behavior because the weight of feeling things is so agonizing, and they hate themselves for being defined by others actions and feelings. Sometimes they feel guilty and broken for being different,feeling of loneliness are always awful. these are what i have experienced. and again,thank you for such an eyeopening video.
Super insightful. Thanks for sharing. Love and Light. xoxoxo
for YEARS i could not understand why i can't be around a family member who is real fake. like... I'm not mad at her, I've come to accept it, but I've noticed that being around her feels like a chore, its so dreadful for me and i feel exhausted after any encounter with her. this empath thing is SO me. I'm excited about my new found conscienceness about myself !! things are starting to make sense the more i research this. thanks for taking the time. peace and blessings.
Great info....I am learning new techniques almost daily. Thank u for sharing. 😊
All true, 😱 one thing I hate is trying to turn it off and you think about things that happen a long time ago like something sad and you start to cry
I like watching movies/shows that are highly emotionally charged (if they are good), I use it for my own inner work. Birth of a Nation (2016)... Phew, that was a good movie but it had me feelin "some type-a-way" for like a week afterward.
every thing you explain I am totally, being Empathy is a Gift , to us , I find that other people emotions are so strong I can feel people energy I know this has something to do with me loving solitude lifestyle, but my defense mechanism has gotten better over the years. Thanks, for the upload
Nailed it on the head for me. It has been a huge struggle for me to just "not care sooo much". Im working on setting boundries but it can be difficult in the moment. Thanks for the insight :)
music!!!! listening to a song on loop like 100 times because it raises your energy level!
haha and then never being able to get it out of your head..... the struggle is real! xoxo
the things i related to the most were: needing a lot of time alone,seeing the HEART of people instead of their actions (This got me looking like a clown in relationships), feeling movies and other things sooo deeply, watched the season 'Euphoria' and bawled like a baby and also 'ANNE with and E'
Being an empath who grew up in a toxic environment (narcissistic stepdad, enabler mom). I become overwhelmed easy & tend to "overflow" on people. Ex. my roommates told me I was a "Debbie downer" & I needed to spend less time in there space. I would become overwhelmed by my family stress, it took an emotional tole on me I thought they were my friends so I would talk to them. When he said that to me it hurt so much I couldn't hold back my tears (I don't cry inf-runt of people) ether he didn't notice or didn't care (it was dark out & we were driving). I felt so alone & unwonted.
I can totally relate to everything you are saying. My Mother is an energy vampire and I feel so drained & tired when I visit her house. I have a friend who is going thru a financial crisis and each time she wants to call me or attempts to leave 10 WATSAPP voice messages on my smart phone I get anxiety attacks and feel like my chest, heart and lungs are exploding. I don't have any real money worries!! Not me, not mine, but that doesn't stop me from feeling her stuff even after I blocked her number!! I even told her that my anxiety attacks were due to her constant dumping on me!!
I totally get it!!! Gotta set boundaries to stay balanced love. xoxo
I just realized that I'm an empathic person and it all makes sense now, it is very training and a lot of times I feel like I deserve more from my friend and family than why they are giving to me because that's what I would do for them, and I get offended, that's one of my problems
My biggest trouble is my boyfriend doesn't understand this about me. He is amazing in so many ways and is a good provider. However I feel dismissed on who I am.
analyse interaction and on a personal level....
can see both sides of an argument or debate
double0taylorpro dude it's a blessings to me that I can see both side of story!
So so true! This totally resonates. Number 1 gets me into trouble sometimes because i see things in others that other people don't so i get misunderstood ALOT. Movies and music move me deeply, much to the amusement of my friends. Also a big fan of my alone time. I'm a Cancer 😊
I am highly empathic.. I also know things...things I should not know but I just know...I have premonitions, ive seen spirit, and Im a great BS detector.. I love being alone and nature is my sanctuary...
Thank you for this, My Dad & I are empaths, I am light warrior, I am always happy & bright sided, but my Dad struggles. His anxiety gets the best of him. Thank you for this! Jesus love you!
Thanks for commenting. Jesus loves you too! xoxo
Currently, I think feeling emotions on a higher level than what normal people feel is the most challenging thing for me. As a highly sensitive empath, relationships are challenging. It's most challenging, if a relationship has high potential. I find myself toning things down, because my enthusiasm can scare a love interest away.
I TOTALLY get it! LOL relationships can be challenging for empaths. xoxo
I find filtering myself and not blurting out stuff good or bad to someone is hard lol in other words minding my own business.
#5......hardest for me is Not reading that person that tries that bullshyt they Think you are oblivious to....being able to see beyond the smile is hard. Especially when you try to explain your dislike to someone and they can't understand, because all they saw was a smile. Smiles are from the heart and I can see (feel) the difference. Plus I need my alone time.
This hit too close to home!
This is Spot-On!!!
I Can Sooooo Relate!!! Especially the Last One (#5..."Feeling" the Heart or Intentions of Another)....
Also, The Emotional Hyper-Sensitivity, Be it Watching a Movie or Witnessing/Hearing About Injustices of Any Kind!!! Loved This Video, Jae!!!
Thanks for Posting This!!! Every Now & Then, I Need to Remind Myself....That, NO, I'm NOT "Normal"....(At Least According to "Society's Standards", that is!!! LOL)!!!
Much Love & Light!!! :-)
Yo thank u so much I never even knew this word! But I'm from NC and I now live in NYC and I'm always having miss swings and giving my last too homeless people I know that I'll be ok but this twangy drains me and I can never rest unless unless I'm alone! Love too me it's now valuable that silver and gold
I think it's TRUE. You feel drained, lazy for no reasons if you are in negative/toxic surroundings and you feel good and uplift with positive people/surroundings.
I can't believe you posted this today. The meaning is clear now. Do you have any suggestions on how to sheild negative energies.
I'm so happy that you decided to educate us.
WOW! I swear I cried my eyes out the same way on that scene in Maleficent too!!! Glad to see I'm not alone 😁😁😁
Thank you for this video now I know I'm not crazy.
I became fully aware of this about 4 weeks ago and I'm struggling especially with no one to talk to. At times i wish I could just switch it off.
I kinda try and make sure randoms that say they hate themselves feel better about themselves and i literally cannot help it. I don't know why but i just unconciously just try to make people feel better.
I cried and way over analyzed her losing her wings! My boyfriend was like, you know things should affect you so deeply, I honestly thought I was just a HUGE cry baby. Then I picked up this book called, "Parable of the Talents", by Octavia E. Butler and I had to google hyper-empathic or as she calls herself "sharers" to see if the subject was real. I am blown away at all the videos made available for it!! I think it describes me so well. I limit my social media and interactions so that the pain is not so overwhelming but had no clue there was a term for it. Thank you so much for sharing!!!
Girl I had to pause the movie and get myself back together lol. I'll have to look up that book. Sounds interesting. xoxo
Wow, I like you a lot! Very genuine, very real. You hit the nail on the head with those 5 things!
Wow spot on. I just was made aware of why I am the way I am. Found you in my search on how to deal with or how to filter what is not my emotions. Its soooo draining. Thank you for sharing.
Number one yassss boo yassss omg this is so hard to explain to others
I hate being in a long line at grocery stores or anywhere, i feel every persons anxiety, that they are feeling annoyed, or in a hurry. I go to the same store every day almost, and one day i went and was ok feeling, then i get to the cashier who is nice and i see all the time. I felt sick and dizzy, and anxious, i realized that was his feelings when i looked into his eyes. I had to go straight to the car and take a time out before driving. Also i have these neighbors that were super nice and we would run into each other while walking our dogs and talk and let our dogs play. I started recently feeling like they were being fake nice and wanted to get away from me. Idk what i did, or maybe they are having problems, but something is different. Also i dont like having others expectations on me, or having to make plans ahead of time. I panic, and then when the day comes im hoping it will be cancelled. Also i pick up on what animals, especially all the pets i have had are feeling and what they want just by feeling it. growing up my family was all drug doing alcoholics and it was so hard for me. As a child i felt all their hurt and pain, plus had to be the adult. When one of them was hurting secretly i could feel all of it. I cannot even watch sad movies or shows, i cry so easy. I watched the released videos of Philando Castille, and i cried for a hour, and still when i hear about those types of tragedy i am so overwhelmed it feels like part of heart is broken and cant heal for a long time
Yep, gotta turn down the radar sometimes. Otherwise, OMG....life! xoxo
Number one is so relatable I just can’t with that thing it’s so hard to not know
This is great thank you!
I cannot hear people’s trauma. It’s makes me down and out for days!
I'm glad I found this. I relate to all of these!
thank you beautiful soul I needed this so much...I was making tea to clear my breathing and as I was making it was asking myself ok what did u eat differently today? what changed??? well I went out for an in service at work today and as I was driving there I realized I was tense (there was alot of traffic)and I have been feeling this all afternoon and evening like I can't take a deep breath...I finally took an Epsom salt bath and am now drinking tea....I found your video on my phone when I finished and as I listened I'm like aaah yes yes now I understand...I have been off work for a few weeks and will start back after new years guess being isolated and alone and getting out today and maybe the potential of going back to work aaaand the traffic was horrible people rushing short of temper whew...guess it was massive overload! yes a video on shielding would help immensely. ..thank u for this perfect timing video...sorry it's a long message...blessings and love to you!
JAE! You hit the nail on the head. I tell everyone that I'm an empathetic person and let them figure it out. I use to tell people that I can absorb energies and I don't always mean to, but I adapt to them. Especially when it's someones heart I'm connecting with. Way too easy for me to fall invested in to their lives because I can see who they really are instead of what everyone else sees, or sometimes even them! And I didn't forget about you girl, I set up my paypal account and waiting until after holidays to pay in for a reading! So HAPPY HOLIDAYS to you you. Looking forward to connecting! :)
:) Happy holidays!!! xoxo
I have recognized all of those issues within myself and my life since I was conscious of such problems and well before I even considered let alone recognized I was an empath. This has created huge stress and obstacles, including being (incorrectly) labeled by my family and society as "crazy," much to the detriment of myself and others close to me. Thank you!
this video is so on point. love you sis.
Great job and very true
Yooooooo THIS was SOOOOO on point 💯💯💯👊🏾👊🏾
Great video. I see the sincerity in you. 👌 Thank you so much.
N D from CT.
You wish you could go with their charade. But you just feel it for what it is. You become just an observer
Jae...You are SPOT ON.
I just started following you omg amazing!!!!! I love you Peace&blessings!!! I'm a sensitive being and everything you mentioned I resonate with!! Especially when it's a family function I feel so much! When I explain why I'm off some understand some do not! That's the part that is so much walking in a room with heavy energy uugh lol, but I wouldn't trade it for anything I love being sensitive!
So glad this was helpful Mika, xoxo
You just explained a whole lot for me,I feel like I’m cursed and blessed
Woo! This is so me! Its like u hv bn watching my life 😊 Strangest thing about me is that I'm trusting but can discern motives so well! Being an empath can feel so heavy at times, people around me just don't get me. For instance say its festive and most people wana party but I'm cool with staying in, tucked in bed with a great book. I find this very fun for me and people think my life is boring.......with age I have resisted the edge to explain myself but the temptation still presents itself.
What a beautiful soul. Thanks. :)
thank you this is all very helpful as an empath. personally I struggle with not overflowing with emotion. I tend to cry every single day of my life so far I am 17 years old. And everything you literally spoke about resonates with me extremely well. I’m learning how to ground myself it’s taken a lot of time to understand how to build a shield against others emotions plus my own. even if they’re not directly talking to me about them I still absorb them and I’m like wow OK oh wow oh that’s sad that’s cool. A bunch of emotions will just pour out into me at random but I don’t even know where they’re coming from .so I have to keep practicing meditation daily taking time for myself every single day. or however long I need to get back up on my feet for emotional stability.
very helpful. basically confirmed what I observed about myself. thank you for sharing.
Totally relate to being an empath, from a very early age, psychic also. Recognize all the problems you address. Not an easy way to be, can be isolating from not being understood.
Hello lovely! I am laughing and crying at the Maleficent comment!! That movie tore me to pieces! Specifically that scene was terrible! Haha well I love your energy and this video!
This video is point on and I could really use some pointers on shielding myself.
OMG U HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD IN EVERYWAY!!! I pretend I don't hear people all the time, or I will not say what I know is about to happen because it's so hard to explain after it happens how I knew lol....it's too hard to explain how I know what I know....I just know ....and I'm never wrong...
ALL five statements identify us empaths........Thank you SO much for your courage!!!!!! Louis
Yes times 5. Plus many other problems like boundary issues, sheer overwhelm due to amount of data being received, getting rid of sticky negative residue from people n places, attracting feeders like sociopaths, narcissists, trust issues, major self care, grounding and isolation required, the list goes on....
Indeed!!!!
So correct, for example I was at the grocery deli and was feelung good till the girl with all smiles took my order, the whe time Im feeling like this chick don't like me but I'm trying to brush it of and be normal cause she wasn't acting out of order so I get home and don't you know she gave me rottened ham something about the girl had me on alert and now I know I wasn't bugging. My whole life has been this way trust y'all instincts.
Thank you for the video, my biggest is school, lots of hormones and people acting but not being themselves.
Fake people are the WORST and the most annoying part is once they know YOU KNOW they r fake , they still try to lie to you....knowing u know better, they still try....that's the worst
i hope your readings are voluntarily i am so empathic and i help alot of people especialy those who suffer from addiction
My current bf is SO moody. Everything is the end of the world and I love him and try to allow him space to deal with what he needs to deal with but I am so utterly wrecked by it every time.
I'm empathetic and I've been learning how to shield myself, but some people's energy is too strong, how do you block those?
Going to do a video on it soon!
montrelnigga , I use different crystals and burn cinnamon with basil leaves or just cinnamon I burn , .with rain sounds I downloaded but it works for me .
thanks again
your awesome
So true!!
You said this great! I'm SO SENSITIVE and NO ONE gets it
spot on love ,
I ask myself every day why was I chosen to be born this way, it's definitely a blessing and a curse. I honestly cannot separate my feelings of deep love and empathy for others when they are hurting, it's in my fabric and I cannot walk away from someone who is suffering or hurting I have no boundaries and like she said as an empth we pick up on people's energies and emotions, depending on who I'm around and what's going on it can be very draining. I have said to my husband that there are days I feel like all of my energy has left my body nothing left other than to just sleep it off, that's the curse part because if I'm around negative people it makes make get very moody. I truly feel for people like this because it's a challenge everyday to be an empath due to the way we love and feel so deeply. God Bless everyone but God Bless empths especially!