This Is Why The Rich HIDE Their Wealth

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Komentáře • 611

  • @Elven.
    @Elven. Před 4 lety +796

    it shows good taste when you are not desperate to impress others

    • @TheIsabellV
      @TheIsabellV Před 4 lety +23

      @Mortal Silence No shame to like flashy items - but of course be smart when using them. Use them in the right occasions. If its your style, be subtle...especially when using them in everyday life. Be street smart lol!

    • @Elven.
      @Elven. Před 4 lety +15

      @Mortal Silence you think sparkles and glitter automatically make something a designer item and a luxury piece that showcases being affluent? i don't think sparkles and glitter work like that

    • @ericscreeper
      @ericscreeper Před 4 lety

      @Mortal Silence
      Are you feeling ok?

  • @nat4801713728
    @nat4801713728 Před 4 lety +1279

    I LOVE when she calls us ladies. I automatically feel so refined. 😂

    • @Tommzzes07
      @Tommzzes07 Před 4 lety +15

      Me toooooo

    • @cherieg-johns1650
      @cherieg-johns1650 Před 4 lety +22

      Yeas., it’s much nicer than other things I’ve been called. I was thinking of this the other day, how what you think others expect of you is how you act. If that makes sense.
      I am realising it is so important to set your own standards otherwise you just follow what those around you are behaving like.
      Live, Love, Ladies :)

    • @plutosprincess
      @plutosprincess Před 4 lety +22

      Anna is going to gain recognition over the years as women wake up. She is just what we need right now...❤️

    • @kimtaylor1878
      @kimtaylor1878 Před 4 lety +1

      Same lol

    • @NickDoddTV
      @NickDoddTV Před 4 lety +2

      I just love it too.

  • @karin5498
    @karin5498 Před 4 lety +465

    In France, we have an interesting saying about wealth and how is it important to hide it : " Vivons heureux, vivons cachés". Translation : "Live happy, live hidden!"

    • @i_only_simp_for_myself800
      @i_only_simp_for_myself800 Před 4 lety +2

      KarinPi my my maternal grandpa is Algerian and he was also telling me this 😂 lmaooo but it was hard for me to understand cause he was always telling me in french ( vivre heureux, vivre en cachette)

    • @SGM-89
      @SGM-89 Před 4 lety +2

      @Eva Green Lover I'm curious, which country are you from?

    • @mso008
      @mso008 Před 4 lety +3

      That's a great saying.

    • @imlit1045
      @imlit1045 Před 4 lety +2

      Nice

  • @TheMarmite09
    @TheMarmite09 Před 4 lety +256

    What Anna is saying is 100% true! There was a guy at my university who used to dress so casual wearing ripped jeans and a white tee every day and lived in a shared flat in the worst part of the city. He asked me out and I said no to him because I judged the way he dressed! After we graduated my friend told me that his great great great grandfather was a really famous record producer in the 1930s and it turned out that he came from old money. Taught me a powerful lesson -- never judge a book by its cover!!!

    • @CITYBEACHTV
      @CITYBEACHTV Před 2 lety +12

      The 30s were only 90 years ago so it could only have been his great grandfather

    • @EughhBrothereughh
      @EughhBrothereughh Před 10 měsíci +2

      Bruh you couldd be Mrs old money, how did you miss it!? I'm so mad🤣🤣girrlllll

  • @angelanix7041
    @angelanix7041 Před 4 lety +499

    I waved at a millionaire because everyone waves here. Had no idea. I also met a guy who owns he golf club here. He was super nice and so down to earth. I didn't know him but he was nice. After he left my aunt told me who he was. She told me to be nice to everyone because you never know.

    • @Nofretari
      @Nofretari Před 4 lety +13

      Angela Nix that’s my motto too. Be nice to everyone.

    • @friktermind
      @friktermind Před 4 lety +55

      be nice to everyone as a rule, NOT "because you never know" (i.e. if they are affluent or not)

    • @hazzastyles6315
      @hazzastyles6315 Před 4 lety +2

      proszę bardzo exactly

    • @incogb6696
      @incogb6696 Před 4 lety +2

      @@friktermind right -.-

    • @cutecats6890
      @cutecats6890 Před 4 lety +3

      be nice to everyone because you never know they might be rich?... wow not an asshole view on life and people at all

  • @Michelle-rq8vk
    @Michelle-rq8vk Před 4 lety +630

    i want to be one of these lowkey billionaires!

    • @edinagaspar722
      @edinagaspar722 Před 4 lety +13

      Me too... maybe have a nice house but that's it ❤

    • @moaisound.mp3
      @moaisound.mp3 Před 4 lety +12

      So make it happen

    • @OrganicLover10
      @OrganicLover10 Před 4 lety +16

      Yeah, I want to be a lowkey multi-billionaire, too. Not going to flaunt my wealth unnecessarily to anyone. Not a good look or classy, to me.

    • @cherrytung
      @cherrytung Před 4 lety

      me too!

    • @iluvumichelleq
      @iluvumichelleq Před 4 lety +1

      I tap into this

  • @nikkil764
    @nikkil764 Před 4 lety +195

    I was always taught that the people who matter know. And those that don’t know don’t matter. Don’t flash around to strangers what you have. Jealousy is very real and will cause you a lot of heartache if you are too obvious.

  • @mynameiswoman
    @mynameiswoman Před 4 lety +658

    There are 2 types of ppl in the world.
    1, ppl who are actually rich and
    2, ppl who are trying to look rich.

    • @island661
      @island661 Před 4 lety +40

      A dead giveaway is a LV handbag. 🤣

    • @mynameiswoman
      @mynameiswoman Před 4 lety +17

      @Diamon.yes there are but I'm not referring to those ppl who can't help being poor, I meant the ones who lack priorities by spending all their money on expensive stuff to look rich.

    • @elizabethanne8729
      @elizabethanne8729 Před 4 lety +10

      Cat Woman wow. I thought I was the only one who felt that way about LV 😂

    • @dlightfulheiress
      @dlightfulheiress Před 4 lety

      So true

    • @meriemayate
      @meriemayate Před 4 lety +2

      And some very rich people that dresses like poor people from Balanciaga

  • @joanelizabethhall9455
    @joanelizabethhall9455 Před 4 lety +611

    I dated my boyfriend (with whom I now live) for a few months without realizing the full extent of his personal wealth. I knew he wasn't poor, because he always paid when we went out, but he doesn't drive a flashy car or even dress particularly well! My first clue when he casually offered to make a huge donation to the struggling medieval music group I sing with. With one bank transfer, he kept us afloat for a year and continues to be our "angel". If you saw him, you'd never think he is very wealthy.

    • @joanelizabethhall9455
      @joanelizabethhall9455 Před 4 lety +42

      @Eva Green Lover I'm afraid I don't have any tips. I was just extremely lucky. I would have gone out with him even if he was as poor as I am (was!) We are both classically trained musicians specializing in medieval music. We met when he was hired by my group's Director to accompany a couple solos of mine on a concert. At the time I didn't know that he had refused to accept the fee he had earned!

    • @dayanaraviera3840
      @dayanaraviera3840 Před 4 lety +37

      I know, right? My darling is not one to come off wealthy either. He acts like any other everyday person and prefers to live the simple life. I didn’t realize how wealthy he was until he told me about his fathers company. He only revealed this information to me because he is very private about it. But the the thing is even his family behave like everyday religious people. They don’t look like the type to be wealthy, but of course you cannot judge a book by it’s cover. I do find the whole privacy thing to be an attractive quality and you have been blessed to have him in your life. One thing I learned is that even though they are very private about it, they will do anything to support their women.

    • @joanelizabethhall9455
      @joanelizabethhall9455 Před 4 lety +23

      @@dayanaraviera3840 My next clue was cooking dinner for him at his gorgeous house. I asked for a fork to cook with that wasn't 19th century sterling silver. He didn't have one! Every knife, fork and spoon in this house was antique solid silver!

    • @garnetsword
      @garnetsword Před 4 lety +7

      @@joanelizabethhall9455 perhaps he takes meal time very seriously! That's a very good sign, he deserves a credit!

    • @hkmamacmd428
      @hkmamacmd428 Před 4 lety +4

      Completely off topic, but medieval music? I’ve never heard of this genre before!

  • @sersastark
    @sersastark Před 4 lety +276

    I was born and raised in New England, and we're very stoic in our upbringing. Money is never flaunted because it's seen as tasteless, crass, crude, and disrespectful to those who may be economically and financially struggling. As well, we're raised from the beginning to always live BELOW your means so that you'll always have the means.

    • @sersastark
      @sersastark Před 4 lety +15

      @kshiftkometh reading too far into that. For the most part especially here in New England we choose comfort function and practicality in clothing over style. Even our dressy style is considered casual to others who are flashy.

    • @william_SMMA
      @william_SMMA Před 2 lety +1

      The part about it being disrespectful is just plain wrong

    • @unamed2516
      @unamed2516 Před rokem

      @@william_SMMA Why?

    • @william_SMMA
      @william_SMMA Před rokem +3

      @@unamed2516 because you worked for your money
      There's no disrespect to poor people if you show off your wealth
      They didn't help you get the money neither are they entitled to it
      Cut all this virtue signaling crap lol

    • @mariharrik5987
      @mariharrik5987 Před rokem +2

      ​@@william_SMMAi would wiev it as disrespect and snobbery if you just flash your wealth and it shows you dont care if you loose money you may attract a wrong crowd or a woman who only cares aabout your money

  • @TamaraErskineGlam
    @TamaraErskineGlam Před 4 lety +65

    My husband and I are well connected with those in the hidden wealth, quiet money community. One of our friends told us the wisdom he holds dearly, “Money talks, wealth whispers.” This describes so much of what you’re saying Anna, and I love it. 💕

  • @UKgamecrew
    @UKgamecrew Před 4 lety +185

    Modesty and humbleness is more attractive to me than anything else. Well thought out video anna ❤️

  • @venioktarina1473
    @venioktarina1473 Před 4 lety +764

    Because they don't want people borrow or ask for their money..😂 that's my opinion.

  • @BeatzByMK
    @BeatzByMK Před 4 lety +131

    I grew up in the upper middle class (but was born in the hood, I moved to a better neighborhood when I was 8 so I already had certain things set within me) and I knew this girl in elementary school who had the biggest home in our state but I would’ve never guessed because she was so nice and funny and sweet, idk why we’re told rich people need to be a certain way. It’s messed up.

    • @incogb6696
      @incogb6696 Před 4 lety +1

      @Eva Green Lover Rich or wealthy?

    • @maxasante5206
      @maxasante5206 Před 4 lety +3

      she is a kid. trust me, they change once ppl start kissing their ass

    • @ralphcotton7119
      @ralphcotton7119 Před 3 lety +8

      @Blue Eyes i feel like this is a gross generalization. I would consider my family wealthy. Our household income is 7 figures. Just like anybody else there are nice people and arseholes. Money amplifies who you are as a person.

  • @aviancag8716
    @aviancag8716 Před 4 lety +73

    The loudest person in the room is often the brokest . Low key is the best

  • @robynsmith2709
    @robynsmith2709 Před 4 lety +142

    Yup. My parents are insanely wealthy. I don't even know the extent of their wealth. Growing up we were very simple and if you ever saw my parents you'd never ever say they have what they do. Some wealthy people really just want to be low key.

    • @beforeido6265
      @beforeido6265 Před 4 lety +6

      Just follow their footsteps

    • @anabolta2276
      @anabolta2276 Před 4 lety +3

      Same here,my mother is same like your parents and i think thats awsome

    • @realtalk675
      @realtalk675 Před 4 lety +11

      Better. I grew up poor but we are happy and healthy now we are middleclass . It made me stronger but some peole have a victim mindset thats why sometimes they stay in that situation. Lowkey is the best

  • @fairdose
    @fairdose Před 4 lety +766

    Only vulgar nouveau-riche flaunt their money. Class and old-money hide it and are very discreet.

    • @ms.x1669
      @ms.x1669 Před 4 lety +87

      Honey your vocabulary gave me the richest vibe. I feel like I'm on a yacht right now. 💅

    • @MetaMM
      @MetaMM Před 4 lety +44

      @Mortal Silence Very true. They don't flash out but wearing brand names as casually as possible but not for show but necessity. And you are so right as they mock you behind your back for even a wrong word you use as they have their own codes. As a close friend, they do brag but in that matter-of-fact way not for competition.

    • @malaika2940
      @malaika2940 Před 4 lety +13

      Shortcake07
      My sentiments exactly!
      The comments about snobbery (judgemental) absolutely surprise me. I have never encountered that. Not even behind one’s back!
      Before I am asked how I would know, I am talking about being in conversation “post event”, etc.......
      I actually find the so called “Royalty, Aristocracy, Old-Money, Class, etc.” refreshingly down to earth. I appreciate everyone is quite unique and there will be those who may not adhere to this generalisation, which I have only ever encountered. I can merely speak as I find.
      @Mortal Silence - I am most intrigued by the book. Thank you!
      @ Meta M, I must admit one’s vocabulary and communication is definitely a “give away”! 😉..... however, one should never sit on judgement of others.

    • @MetaMM
      @MetaMM Před 4 lety

      @@malaika2940 Are you referring to me that I shouldn't judge or that "they" shouldn't judge?

    • @malaika2940
      @malaika2940 Před 4 lety +2

      Meta M
      They shouldn’t judge!

  • @stephrose5410
    @stephrose5410 Před 4 lety +33

    I really agree to this.. I've dated rich men and they do like to keep it low-key but when they spoil you, you know it. And usually the low key ones are quite genuine men who look for a genuine and classy lady.

  • @TomoMomoDomo
    @TomoMomoDomo Před 4 lety +85

    Personally, i think it makes perfect sense. Its the same as famous people trying to walk around incognito. When you're rich people treat you differently *because* you are rich. Some people enjoy that type of treatment but not everyone. They can be themselves and can see people for who and what they are without their "Wealth" being the determining factor for how people treat them.
    Idk.

  • @chelseabunker2391
    @chelseabunker2391 Před 4 lety +168

    I've met many a wealthy rancher who drives a farm truck worth as much as a top BMW or Mercedes, and they still wear their carhartt coat with overalls. They prefer a simpler life, simple people, yet they bring in the same or more money than the individuals I know working in high end computer business in San Francisco. Looks can be deceiving.

    • @Print229
      @Print229 Před 4 lety +11

      Yes. Some of the richest people in town wear blue jeans and drive pickups. Their ranch or side-business requires it.

    • @hoanpham2757
      @hoanpham2757 Před 4 lety +5

      God I love country men and their trucks.

  • @worklife21c
    @worklife21c Před 4 lety +49

    I can't understand someone NOT wanting to be discreet about their wealth. As an aspiring wealthy person, I would definitely be private about my wealth for several reasons. And although I don't buy lottery tickets, if I suddenly came into a great deal of money, I would prefer to keep it private, rather than foolishly babbling all over the place about it. I like my privacy, solitude, and control over my life.

    • @BellinaSkyBright
      @BellinaSkyBright Před 4 lety

      I would tell people so that all the people who have helped me out I will be able to feel they can ask me for something they need. I know it's not what most think is a good idea.😊

    • @minnieee123
      @minnieee123 Před 4 lety +3

      BellinaSkyBright That is not a wise choice. Don’t believe the best in everyone because trust me when I say that money will bring out the worst in most people so if you want to keep your family safe, do not publicize your business. If can always give anonymously because if you publicly give to one, there will be a line or mob outside your doorstep asking for more.

    • @rochelleastbury3593
      @rochelleastbury3593 Před 4 lety

      Since moving to Liverpool UK, I've realized people don't care for big designer names. And I feel so out of place whereas in Sydney, majority of people care about your look and what you have. I've learnt here people would rather save money than splash out on the latest Dior bag. Big reality check for me as well. I've spent $5k+ on designer bags, Gucci and LV - sold most of them prior to moving, I didn't get as much back as I hoped. I could've had that extra $5k in my bank right now. Lesson is, people would rather keep their wealth hidden and live within their means. I say this as I'm now gonna sell my last LV 😂😂

  • @hi1953
    @hi1953 Před 2 lety +15

    If I were rich, I’d stay low-key and be super selective about who I’d let know I was rich.
    I’d love the fast cars and beautiful homes and destinations and all that, but I’d be afraid of losing genuine connection with people.
    So I’d probably act poorish when meeting family on holidays but live the rich lifestyle in distant locations.

  • @Dtillma228
    @Dtillma228 Před 4 lety +99

    This is totally true, my relatives hit it big and you’d never know: until you go to one of their beautiful custom houses, or their island home. They couldn’t be more laid back.

  • @USNBLUE
    @USNBLUE Před 4 lety +324

    Some people do and some people don't. Low key is best in my opinion.
    Hollywierd is a prime example of flaunting it. Eww.

    • @Misana
      @Misana Před 4 lety +1

      Lol@ eww

    • @chelseabunker2391
      @chelseabunker2391 Před 4 lety +4

      😂 Hollyweird. It totally is. You must live there or have in the past.

    • @julietterogers6887
      @julietterogers6887 Před 4 lety +14

      Hollywierd also should not be emulated for their political stance, or any stance outside of their craft.
      Just like most politicians, they crave the “applause”.

    • @BellinaSkyBright
      @BellinaSkyBright Před 4 lety +9

      I disagree. I have seen Hollywood peeps where I used to work they are much nicer and sweeter than the tabloids and internet make them out to be.
      It's the wannabe instagram stars that just used to want there photo by a big yacht or on a jetski!

    • @madisoned
      @madisoned Před 4 lety +1

      Certain politicians are actually a lot richer than Hollywood movie stars. Some were even born millionaires

  • @feliciamorales6440
    @feliciamorales6440 Před 2 lety +3

    My friends always dislike it because i'm not open to them. the thing is, im not into show and tell and it makes me uncomfortable when people ask about what im wearing or what brand am i wearing. They think im not open because i dont show my things or what i brought or narrate every detail of my day to them. I just told them that there are things not worth sharing. People cant take what they dont know!

  • @julietterogers6887
    @julietterogers6887 Před 4 lety +90

    Also, if you are obvious & flamboyant about your wealth, you create a boundary between yourself & other potentially intriguing, interesting people.
    Growing up we were taught never to speak about money in any form. Instead we were taught to speak about ideas and discoveries.

    • @incogb6696
      @incogb6696 Před 4 lety +1

      How were you taught this? Just curious. For examaple, if there are people discussing money around you, would you change the subject?

    • @maxasante5206
      @maxasante5206 Před 4 lety +2

      because the least of your worries are students loans lol. trust me. the lack of money is the reason ppl are selling their bodies. money give you freedom + happiness to follow your dreams. those ppl committing suicide are idiots. they should try living life blind or in a wheelchair

  • @yvettedean92
    @yvettedean92 Před 4 lety +11

    I earned a masters degree and I married into an affluent family (I grew up low socio-economic status) my maternal side of my family became so jealous and now I no longer speak to them because they’re so angry and envious. It’s very unfortunate.

  • @noeliaparralejo8318
    @noeliaparralejo8318 Před 4 lety +219

    This reminds me of people who dresses with big logos and Nike socks showing. There is nothing more vulgar and not classy that showing off your wealth.

    • @Laquia
      @Laquia Před 4 lety +3

      Gurl yes! Say it again!

    • @Laquia
      @Laquia Před 4 lety +2

      @Adrijana Pavlovic Hm, fair enough! Ngl, if I was rich, I'd do it too but on special occasions. On non special occasions, just decent casual normal clothing

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Před 4 lety

      but...but...not according to my cousin who married up and loves to buy LV bags because they're "investment" ;) everything has to be immediately recognizable
      and branded hehehe

    • @robob5332
      @robob5332 Před 3 lety +14

      I don’t think wearing Nike is showing off wealth 😂

    • @user-ih4fd9sf8x
      @user-ih4fd9sf8x Před 3 lety +3

      @@robob5332 i dont either but the point of the comment its correct. I would have changed Nike for Gucci (the tackiest brand ever)

  • @BeautifulDreamerK
    @BeautifulDreamerK Před 4 lety +139

    Why do they hide their wealth? Same reason why a good hearted person would be private! I’m naturally friendly- it’s easy for me to make friends and connections. I’m also someone who focuses on themselves vs. what other people are doing. With that, I “know people” and am in tuned with events that are in my interests. Some of these events are popular and exclusive. Because I focus on myself, I work hard and people seem to think I have it “easy” or am “lucky”. I guess you can say I am in rich in attitude and opportunities. I keep low key because I don’t want to attract any more users. Believe that there’s PLENTY of them. Trust me ladies- I’m not the richest, prettiest, most popular or anything like that but believe that people will have no shame using or manipulating you to their advantage.
    You should never dull your shine but remember to be extra conscious around those with low vibrating energy. “Low key” is best. I trust people who are low key and living life that way is nice too 😉

    • @afshah.7972
      @afshah.7972 Před 4 lety +4

      Well said hun xx

    • @incogb6696
      @incogb6696 Před 4 lety

      Exactly. This is something they sense. It's an interesting correlation (good hearted-money).

    • @vilaniacerylia6428
      @vilaniacerylia6428 Před 2 lety

      @@incogb6696 good hearted-money = generous and they want to to always pay for lunch.

  • @cindy846
    @cindy846 Před 4 lety +59

    Love the new intro, Anna!
    Being discreet in general is so classy and elegant.

  • @akerwin4708
    @akerwin4708 Před 4 lety +9

    Wow you are very accurate about envy.’when I married a wealthy man, most of my friends disappeared. Family became jealous. Very sad!

  • @Andromeda_M31
    @Andromeda_M31 Před 4 lety +49

    I live in a rich town. Many are property rich and on a trust fund. If they act inappropriate then their keepers reign them in. They don't have much liquidity to spend and are quite cheap with the local businesses. The flashiest wealthy people are those who earn it by working. Maybe they want to enjoy life after working so hard? Some are living way beyond their means too.

    • @bloomfulbeauties721
      @bloomfulbeauties721 Před 4 lety +1

      I am curious to know where you live.

    • @kellyengland
      @kellyengland Před 2 lety

      Me too

    • @yve4889
      @yve4889 Před 2 lety

      @@bloomfulbeauties721 same

    • @yve4889
      @yve4889 Před 2 lety

      I agree though. Some people want to enjoy their wealth and don't necessarily consider it as flashing, but rather them just doing what they want without a care in the world.

  • @katieeisenhower1168
    @katieeisenhower1168 Před 4 lety +40

    I love when people honor their own values and live them.

  • @carrietwickler3157
    @carrietwickler3157 Před 4 lety +10

    I really liked this video it is so true. I am originally from Texas. There are many wealthy ranch and land owners in that state. There is a high probability of seeing one at a feed store in jeans and boots with dirt on them because they are working on their ranch. NEVER judge. Thanks Ana 🌷

    • @danim.2717
      @danim.2717 Před 4 lety +2

      I live in Texas too, this is very true!!!

  • @JPaz-cr8os
    @JPaz-cr8os Před 4 lety +32

    I always say, the only money that impresses me is that which has been well saved and invested.

    • @hameley12
      @hameley12 Před 4 lety +3

      Well said 👏👏👏 Work hard, live, save up, invest, live, and when the right time comes - retire happily. 🙇‍♀️

  • @Saraa968
    @Saraa968 Před 4 lety +6

    This is so true! Once people find out you're rich, you cant act the way you want, you can't do the stuff u want, can't leave anything in front of some people because it would be stolen, you have to make sure you know reallu well the people you invite in your house, etc.

  • @shanicesullivan1992
    @shanicesullivan1992 Před 4 lety +138

    I met a guy that dress normal i didnt know he was rich he owns thousand of acres of land that is filled with oil he drives a dirty old truck and wear the same cowboy boots lol

    • @janviprakash3383
      @janviprakash3383 Před 4 lety +10

      Ikr. I know a guy who owns a successful business and he dresses in worn out clothes and has a scruffy beard. I would never think that he's rich.

    • @janviprakash3383
      @janviprakash3383 Před 4 lety +15

      @Diamon. true. Or lack dressing sense

    • @truffaut650truffaut6
      @truffaut650truffaut6 Před 4 lety +21

      @Diamon. yes. Very true. Stingy towards themselves and to others. I know somebody like that. He was rich but his presents were poor. Like a plastic clipper for my aunties headscarf.🙄

  • @BeautifulDreamerK
    @BeautifulDreamerK Před 4 lety +14

    I do have to add- the new owner of this studio (i work out at) is very wealthy and she’s the most down to earth person I’ve interacted with. She’s a very hard worker and will be sending emails out at 2am. In fact, many of the women who work out at the studio are successful business women who own their own companies or restaurants. They are low key, dress nicely, and are very friendly (they have very high vibrations).
    The ones who pretend to be super nice or are super flashy or name drop (I work with doctor so-and-so) tend to not be rich. Also, some (not all) of the older rich women tend to be the more judgy types. I think it’s more of a generational thing.

  • @Pixiebeauty_official
    @Pixiebeauty_official Před 4 lety +14

    i absolutely agree with whatever anna said here. i am one of those low key affluent woman. Evil eye is real. i do not want everybody to know my business and apart from that, my former closer friends REALLY wished and sometimes even asked for a piece of my cake which I found really bothersome, i did give to some of my friends though who were through my thick and thin and i knew they were well deserved. I have also seen my dad suffer from this who is also a self-made man, when everybody in his life started to THINK that they have right on my father's piece of cake! People have strange audacity to take advantage of people just because you let them come a bit closer to you. i love this channel because apart from "bagging a man" theory, i get to learn how human psychology works in terms of wealth, network, give and take relationships. i am also learning to steer clear of such people when i see the symptoms ;) you are doing good service to both the community anna. lots of love.

  • @Bittagrit
    @Bittagrit Před 4 lety +19

    Thank you for this. Have a friend who was targeted by a lot of con artists, sadly including some family members. These are good people who quietly help others, and live low key.

  • @Victoria-gv3qh
    @Victoria-gv3qh Před 4 lety +35

    They also attract a lot of lawsuits I noticed which must be fairly stressful to have to deal with or worry about all the time

    • @stevechristie2569
      @stevechristie2569 Před 4 lety

      Victoria are you single?

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh Před 4 lety +1

      @@stevechristie2569 why?

    • @stevechristie2569
      @stevechristie2569 Před 4 lety +2

      @@Victoria-gv3qh Judging by your comment and photograph, you are a beautiful and clever lady and I will romantically pursue you if you are

    • @kevin080592
      @kevin080592 Před 4 lety +3

      you hit the nail in the head.. im in a lawsuit right now because of jealous ex friend

  • @taytayqueen7024
    @taytayqueen7024 Před 4 lety +42

    Slightly off topic and maybe an unpopular opinion: But I find logo'd clothes and accessories to be tacky. I think it looks best when it's kept to a bare minimum.
    There's just something about humility and groundedness with a polished appearance that is so much more classier than the guy in all Gucci driving down the road in a sports car.

    • @clidrevandijk
      @clidrevandijk Před 4 lety +6

      Taytay Queen Logo’s are for the nouveau riches or for poors wanting to show what they aren’t. For example all those tacky girls on IG with a Gucci belt and the rest of clothes from Zara. Anna has a few amazing videos about that. Cheap fabric is always detected

    • @lisaa6099
      @lisaa6099 Před 4 lety

      Agreed. Very few truly wealthy ppl would wear that tacky stuff. Mainly the Chinese, who have no taste or individuality.

  • @novelacollection
    @novelacollection Před 4 lety +73

    Sound is very low I can barely hear your voice at a normal volume level I had to turn volume way up to hear you. Otherwise good topic.

  • @BlackNight603
    @BlackNight603 Před 3 lety +6

    As you said, some people just don't want other people (family, friends) to ask for money like "You are my friend and I do have financial problems, so you'll bail me out". Especially now with the pandemic, some of my acquintances got into big troubles because they used to show off with how much they can afford and now people expect them to borrow them loads of money.

  • @IEVAKambarovaite
    @IEVAKambarovaite Před 4 lety +44

    Absolutely in love with the branding intro 😊
    I think knowing how to talk about money in a classy way is ART itself ✨
    After watching your videos I always feel more inspired to work on my own channel. That's a fact!! Thank you for what you do.

  • @i_only_simp_for_myself800
    @i_only_simp_for_myself800 Před 4 lety +52

    I met a guy, and i knew him for a month but I never knew that he was rich till he invited me and my friends to his birthday party... in his family’s private island 😂 i never saw his home, or had any clue about hi wealth, so i was truly shock when he told us that a yacht was waiting for us as if it was a bus. He used to be so humble and he always dressed like a hobo so I’d never figure it out that his dad was a multi-millionaire.
    So it’s really surprising for me since I thought he would feel blessed with the 5 dollars video game I was about to offer him 😂
    his mother welcomed me very well, despite having a maid to do the chores she was always cooking for the family, and he never had a nanny cause his mom was a housewife who wanted to raise him herself, she was also so sweet and humble that you’d never guess that she married a rich man.

    • @Jenierf
      @Jenierf Před 4 lety +3

      Dalia Flora Nice!!

    • @hameley12
      @hameley12 Před 4 lety +2

      She sounds like a wonderful person to meet and have a cup of tea and chat for hours!

  • @bellahnemetona5924
    @bellahnemetona5924 Před 4 lety +7

    You are like a fresh air in today's society,Anna. Hope it doesn't sound silly but I really mean it. When I feel down and pressured by society,I watch your videos. That is the feeling that comes from gut, feeling that says : "Yes, she's right." It gives me strength to be myself. Thank you.
    On a different note: I read saying - If I ever let my head down,it will be only to admire my shoes.(That's how I feel after watching your videos.)

  • @stardust9740
    @stardust9740 Před 4 lety +7

    Thank you Anna, that is exactly the type of men I prefer. I would hate to be in the public eye, too, formal parties are the most boring thing ever and I don't want to have to sit with people I do not care about just so that he can show off, I can't stand that... so boring and shallow and pointless. I would love it if you could talk more about this type of men, like where to meet more of them and do we really need to look elegant for a guy who doesn't care about all that glamour and show off. Honestly, guys who flaunt their money are a turn off to me.

  • @DaTa-wm5yc
    @DaTa-wm5yc Před 4 lety +16

    They don‘t want other people to be jealous.

  • @elizabethanne8729
    @elizabethanne8729 Před 4 lety +8

    This is a video after my own heart. My husband is very low key and practically secretive to others about his net worth. We both come from very humble backgrounds and find it uncouth to wave our “receipts” in peoples faces as we know what it is like to be on the other end of the spectrum. We also have a modest homes, and drive modest cars. Introverted/low key wealthy people definitely exist! Thanks for covering this topic, Anna.

  • @nataliegian
    @nataliegian Před 4 lety +16

    My Mothers partner turned out to be a millionaire. They had been together for quite a few years until she learned this. He didn't reveal it because he needed to know he could trust her first & there were no clues. He drove around in an old bomb & dressed very casually.

  • @sevrinaanastasia
    @sevrinaanastasia Před 2 lety +5

    I've been really liking Anna's videos. Even if you don't necessarily want a particular life, she helps encourage us to be the best version of ourselves and to not put up with anything less. :)

  • @Moon-yv3ng
    @Moon-yv3ng Před 4 lety +14

    That is my type of man. Low key is perfect. Thank you for this video!

  • @xinxinxu3376
    @xinxinxu3376 Před 4 lety +42

    It is as same as beautiful girl’s clothes are more covered.

  • @angelanix7041
    @angelanix7041 Před 4 lety +49

    I plan on making a lot, but I'm a minimalist. I want to use my money on vacation

    • @pphillips2250
      @pphillips2250 Před 4 lety +2

      Best of luck

    • @angelanix7041
      @angelanix7041 Před 4 lety +3

      @@pphillips2250 thank-you. I don't need luck though. Just hard work and determination. And i have both😁

  • @michellemcgill9328
    @michellemcgill9328 Před 4 lety +16

    It weeds out the ones who are out to know them only for the money. It’s vulgar and tacky, also it make them a target for Crimes etc...also, part of having money is keeping it.

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Před 4 lety +1

      exactly. that's the very reason why i don't post updates/pics of whatever stuff i have or where i have gone on vacations on my FB page just so people don't try to blackmail me of lending them money ("oh you've gone to the maldives, you must be so wealthy. can you spare me some $5k for my child's schooling?")

  • @jxleya
    @jxleya Před 4 lety +190

    I did not like all the sound effects at all, I‘m sorry 😕

    • @nomvunulompontshane9055
      @nomvunulompontshane9055 Před 4 lety +26

      They are a bit harsh :(

    • @barbierhae
      @barbierhae Před 4 lety +38

      Me neither... I prefer her previous, classic style. So nice.

    • @raraavis7782
      @raraavis7782 Před 4 lety +13

      Julia
      Agreed, those were just...odd. 🙂

    • @stefaniclowdis7406
      @stefaniclowdis7406 Před 4 lety +4

      Me either.

    • @KarinaSwan
      @KarinaSwan Před 4 lety +6

      Agree, it hurt my ears through earphones. I was in the middle of a construction site and still, it was louder than any noise there. Anna, just constructive for your next videos, it sounds better without 😊

  • @user-nq8nl4wh9w
    @user-nq8nl4wh9w Před 4 lety +23

    Yep Bey Bey you are right...the lower key the better because they have nothing to prove.

  • @victoria14royalattic82
    @victoria14royalattic82 Před 4 lety +41

    She is gonna straight take us to heaven ...thanks for the content .... I

  • @Lisaglamour
    @Lisaglamour Před 4 lety +10

    Low key wealthy people will be more understanding and less arrogant than the others. Especially the self made one, who then have more respect towards others.

  • @lily-ti9wn
    @lily-ti9wn Před 4 lety +3

    very true. I dated my husband 5 years didn't knew he was a millionaire until I married him.

  • @dogie1070
    @dogie1070 Před 4 lety +30

    Even rich ppl want to be loved for who they are.

  • @allafinkel3111
    @allafinkel3111 Před 4 lety +16

    So wisely put, Anna, thank you! Could you please elaborate more on the nouveua riche concept and why it is considered a derogatory term.
    Thanks!

  • @MalistaChristy
    @MalistaChristy Před 4 lety +3

    Yes! I really agree with all these reasons anna..i personally have experience which old friends who never contact me before suddenly appear to ask me to lend my money, only because they heard that i started my new business (i dont know where she knows from)..
    My rich friends also keep low key to not attract these kind of people..
    Thanks for reveal the truth and help people to not perceive rich people like they want! Rich people also human..

  • @hishama6799
    @hishama6799 Před 4 lety +21

    Very real and wisdom words
    Wealth attracts a lot of negative things.
    I remembered Onassis who lost his son and then his daughter killed herself

    • @nurtured-channel2953
      @nurtured-channel2953 Před 4 lety +1

      That happens when a bloodline is under a curse ... the same with the Kennedy's and the Grimaldi's ... it doesn't have nothing to do with money.
      Wealth is merely a state .... what attracts bad things is the fear attached to either loosing wealth...or attracting negative things

  • @rbeasley2049
    @rbeasley2049 Před 4 lety +3

    I went to Warren Buffets house in Nebraska! I couldn’t believe what I saw! I have respect for him.

  • @KhosiF
    @KhosiF Před 4 lety +2

    You are such a great Teacher, your content is educational, straight to the point and I love how your videos are not too long.....thank you so much🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️

  • @zestrus11
    @zestrus11 Před 4 lety +42

    Love your videos. I think you should invest in better audio because the sound is not very good quality

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu Před 4 lety

      You may just need to reposition your microphone...

  • @creatingbeauty5522
    @creatingbeauty5522 Před 4 lety +8

    Anna is completely right about this. I've known several very wealthy people who enjoy a simple life. They may have one or two things that are beyond what the rest of people can afford, but around those things, everything else looks very low key. They most often would dress in things like flannel shirts and unfancy jeans, or clothing you don't mind messing up and getting dirty. They have had regular types of vehicles and so on.
    One person I know, she and her husband did end up building what I call the mini-mansion, I'm sure the wife wanted it when she didn't have it, but all I've heard her say about it from time to time is how she prefers are more typical home and they plan to move and do just that. Sometimes a lot can become cumbersome, or once you've gotten the wish fulfilled you're kind of over it then, and I think that's how she now feels about the big home. I have also known people that have lived in mansions in Beverly Hills and have seen amazing things in their homes. It's all been fascinating, but there definitely are very wealthy people who are very low key in how they live and behave. You'd never catch on to the fact they have a lot of money from anything they portray. And I don't blame them.
    Anna is correct, people, even ones you are now close to, more often than not will suddenly think you owe them all kinds of everything if you make it a little bigger than they have, and if you share with everyone you'll be back to where you were. They don't think of that though. Rather than perhaps ask questions of how they can create similar success in their own life and benefit in that way, they just want to stick out their hands. They just think it's owed to them, and they will feel slighted and wronged if it isn't given to them. Then they become angry and start calling names. People get very distorted perceptions of how things should go and they will act out in line with those perceptions, regardless of how unsound they truly are.
    I think that if someone is newly wealthy and they built it themselves, they are better off living a little low key because they don't have the background of how the long-standing wealthy are raised. Their mindsets and brilliance in navigating it all would be different and only passed on in families as they raise their children within their ways from birth.
    I wish to be elegant just to be elegant. I'm not out to try to penetrate their world. I would like to come across in a high-end way in business meetings, because I've lost out in some opportunities because I didn't quite know how to dress or behave. I want to level up...for myself. So I can be confident and proud of how I am.

  • @rpd9938
    @rpd9938 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Anna for sharing this information with us. All of your content is very useful for our knowledge ❤️

  • @lolab6770
    @lolab6770 Před 4 lety +4

    Loving the new intro and how you're continuously working on your branding.

  • @Memimages
    @Memimages Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you again, Anna. You continue to be spot on in your channel.

  • @bethearl8686
    @bethearl8686 Před 4 lety +1

    BRAVO!! This video summarizes every comment I've left on this website. I am a wealthy women by most standards (top 1%) so can safely say I know what I'm talking about. You are right! Truly wealthy women wouldn't be caught dead wearing a LV or Chanel purse. Our wardrobe screams Goodwill Boutique. No high heels, no designer labels and very simple jewelry. No plumped lips, hair extensions, fancy manicures, fake eyelashes or breast implants. My car is 20 years old. My house is small but elegant. I shop at Walmart, Target and Ebay. I have found over the years that people like you more when they think they are better off than you. The one thing I spend big money on is travel. We go all over the world. That's the only thing that makes me feel rich.

  • @lindanorris3226
    @lindanorris3226 Před 4 lety +2

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING ANNA 💝

  • @That-Wanderer
    @That-Wanderer Před 4 lety +2

    My fiancé definitely likes to keep it low key for the most part, he gives to charity and also feeds the homeless... the famous people that he knows, most of them he met through charity events and banquets.

  • @Richardsonprincess00
    @Richardsonprincess00 Před 4 lety +8

    That's a life lesson to learn about the people who are wealthy and privilege

  • @sarasasic112
    @sarasasic112 Před 4 lety +13

    New intro is so beautiful! ❤️😍

  • @awandelondekafakude886
    @awandelondekafakude886 Před 4 lety +1

    Hi Ana I don't know if I'm only one experiencing this problem but I struggle with the volume /sound when listening to your videos . on another note thank you for the wonderful information you share with us .love you loads

  • @jackson12802
    @jackson12802 Před 4 lety +3

    The gentleman that owns the company I work for is a billionaire. The first few times I saw him I actually thought he was a maintenance worker. I was quite shocked when he came to see me and my manager told me who he was

  • @heidifoss6788
    @heidifoss6788 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you for this very important and useful video Anna it just teaches me how there are some who are interested in fame and fortune and some are not more private type that's awesome to hear again thank you for sharing and teaching me how to better myself.

  • @alaajalal8607
    @alaajalal8607 Před 4 lety +7

    I'm actually one of those and you're right my personal reason is the people who take advantage of me and the envy part as well so I started acting normal so I can live normal

    • @alaajalal8607
      @alaajalal8607 Před 4 lety +4

      @Eva Green Lover Lol I'm actually a Lady Ladies can also be rich don't you think?

    • @maeowen8495
      @maeowen8495 Před 4 lety +1

      As a low key wealthy woman, I would love to have a woman pay for our dates..but wealthy women who are into other women are hard to find. I usually pay because I am the wealthier partner. Most people do have the wealthy partner = male assumption. Especially in her Facebook group.

  • @stacy9619
    @stacy9619 Před rokem +3

    There are people who got their money not in a legal way. That is why they are not showing

  • @verabirgitta8588
    @verabirgitta8588 Před 2 lety

    I love all the backdrops of your videos and of course the content. You just rock, Anna.

  • @JessicaHicks
    @JessicaHicks Před 4 lety +3

    I love Anna’s accent and manner of speaking.

  • @dmlkcs8620
    @dmlkcs8620 Před 4 lety +6

    Some of my rich clients look poorer then me, yet are super nice and drive older cars that they don’t even bother washing. Haha!. The middle class ones trying to show they have money - and probably in debt over their head - are the ones I put a smile on only because I have too and nearly not as nice either.

  • @AngelAngel-xu6xy
    @AngelAngel-xu6xy Před 4 lety +3

    Yes someone finally said it! not all rich people act the same there are rich people who are just like everyone else. Everyone has there own taste in preferences so once to live an extravagant life others want to live a simple life.

  • @jaimebenson6102
    @jaimebenson6102 Před 4 lety +1

    Hi, Anna! Thank you for another great video! Also, it might just be my laptop, but I had a little trouble with the volume of your recording. It started out at a much lower volume than usual. Again, it's probably me since the sound on your YT videos is usually great. I always enjoy your original insight and refined presentation!

  • @tamick2000
    @tamick2000 Před 4 lety +3

    It is dangerous and gauche to flaunt your wealth. I have been exposed to all sorts of interesting beliefs around what people think if you have a great career and signs of financial success and it can be unpleasant.

  • @marikanesan5798
    @marikanesan5798 Před 4 lety

    Ms. Bey.
    I have been watching your social medias from very beginning I believe and I must thank that this advisory video is the most elegantly made and convincing to me.
    Thank you so much again,
    sincerely,

  • @Dignity100
    @Dignity100 Před 4 lety +2

    You hit the nail on the head!

  • @brendastreiner7664
    @brendastreiner7664 Před 4 lety +4

    I like and listen to your videos, not to have an affluent life but to be able to create a feminine, elegant presence in my life and to be remembered as a lady and elegant. I myself admire women who have these qualities. I’m an older lady and embrace my age. The way I appear is is important to me. I don’t care if others think I’m crazy not to be trendy and talk trash. I love the fashion also. I also was impressed with your thoughts on hats. They’re so elegant. I wear them and make them also. Great videos! Thank you!

  • @Aidelwaish
    @Aidelwaish Před 4 lety +7

    Really like the intro. so professional, so elegant.

  • @ltm3368
    @ltm3368 Před 4 lety

    Hold on to your seat for the visual and sound effects!! Anna, you are taking your videos to the next level!

  • @melissam.8380
    @melissam.8380 Před 4 lety

    Thank you Anna 💛 I had need to listen it!

  • @depyk7989
    @depyk7989 Před 4 lety +6

    Personally it does make sense to me... They're down to earth people not arrogant, not pretentious to show off what they own.... Furthermore keeping a low gentle profile is a way to realise the real purpose of people's approach.

  • @ninameili7916
    @ninameili7916 Před 4 lety +3

    Another interesting video, it makes me re-think my idea of wealthy people.
    Ps: I love the new branding intro.

  • @chorltonwheelie168
    @chorltonwheelie168 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for such an enlightening video. I really enjoyed that, thank you so much.

  • @AA-kq7cn
    @AA-kq7cn Před 4 lety +2

    I like the new intro! Being discreet about wealth is much classier

  • @parism5212
    @parism5212 Před 4 lety +1

    Beautiful Anna, gorgeous and elegant background🌸🌷🌺 Thanks for the video

  • @mysweetpepper
    @mysweetpepper Před 4 lety

    I love how graceful you are dear, thank you for your presence :)