Discipline and Developing the Fear of the Lord in Your Home | Episode 12
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- čas přidán 16. 07. 2024
- Many parents wonder if there is a perfect way to discipline and train their children. The answer is not so black-and-white-instead, it signifies a need for divine wisdom.
In this episode of At Home with the Beveres, Addison, Juli, and John share how to develop a holy fear of God that leads to wisdom in all areas of life-especially parenting.
After 40 years of ministry, John’s heart has a resounding cry for fathers, mothers, sons, and daughters to know and walk in fear of the Lord.
With his new book, The Awe of God, releasing tomorrow, John shares the wisdom gained from pursuing the fear of the Lord-and how that affects how we show up as parents, our legacies, and future generations.
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Chapters
0:00 - Episode Teaser
0:19 - Burning Questions: What is Godly Discipline?
5:34 - Discipline is Showing True Love
10:43 - The Power of Your Words
11:40 - Pause So You Don’t Provoke
15:30 - Fear of the Lord: Finishing Well
26:10 - The Final Move of God’s Spirit
28:08 - Developing the Fear of the Lord in Your Home
36:09 - Closing Prayer
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Hi Team, do you have distributers in the Philippines for this? Thank you!
I just wanted to say what a beautiful I mean a beautiful family ya are. I love you beautiful family.
Do you have a recommendations for taking our kids (mine are 11) through The Awe of God?
John have you thought about writing a book The Awe of God for Kids?
I don't know If he thought that, but i know his wife Lisa Bevere wrote a little book for kids, like "Lisa the Lioness" If i'm not mistaken about the name
The Awe of God has been one of the best, most powerful, most edifying books I've read. I've recommended it to so many people, including our small group. Thank you John for your obedience in waiting for God's call and pouring your life message into this precious, timeless book. I pray our generation and the future ones to come would continue to grow in holy awe and fear of the Lord. He is truly worthy of everything!!!!!!!
So blessed by this. I do have the fear of the Lord! I don’t always pray for this but after today I will commit myself to pray this every ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻morning.
The discipline of the Lord is painful but it produces righteousness and holiness. Powerful truth!!!!
This word here @6:19 from Addison about stop trying to discipline to correct in 5 mins that may need 5months to correct..I needed that. Thank you all for walking along side this Christian walk of faith marriage parenting and life ❤ your show is so desperately needed in our world today.
Yes, I needed that too!
Me too! Phew!
Addison is so articulate. I’m in awe of his memory for scripture
Jesus is King 👑
Like many others, THANK YOU THANK YOU. To some people this is the only training they have received so far on these topics. I'm sure in heaven we will be surprised at how the big the impact was really. Blessings!
This one stirred me so!❤️🔥Thank you all so much 🥹
Your ministry is truly a blessing. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your hearts with us.
Thank you for all your godly content and teachings you put out there, John. I esp love when you have conversations with your family, because that's often an indicator if someone practices what they preach (feedback from those who live with you). The Awe of God is def on my list of books to read.
All that being said, I still disagree with spanking and don't believe in it, at least for myself. Just like how everyone has their own generational curses to break and personal sins they struggle with that don't apply to their neighbour, physical, emotional, and drug abuse runs in both my family and my husband's family. I grew up with a narcissistic father and bipolar mother, who used psychological manipulation and physical beatings as their main tools of discipline. That's been passed on to me where bipolar tendencies cause me to lose consciousness in anger/mania WHILE I beat a person/animal until I snap out of it and realise what's happened. So for me and my family, I don't even want to go there with the rod. Just like you wouldn't drink around something who's alcoholic. This is my chain to break, and I wish this generational sin ends with me. Pray for me, my family, and for godly wisdom. May God continue to bless you and your family.
God is good. I just downloaded the book in audible. Praying my fiancé and son come to Jesus 🙏🏽👑♥️
It’s beautiful the hope and faith I have in the Lord to save my family.
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I am praying today would be the day of their salvation. They are loved and called and I pray they give their hearts to God and experience knowing Him ❤ God bless you!
I received the Awe of God book for free on the Kim Walker/John Bevere tour, and it has completely changed my life! Thank you John!
Thanks for the word of wisdom how privileged is this generation to get teachings like this young people apply it it works. God's blessings to you all.
this is good and very eye opening 🙏🏾
Love this form of teaching just precious 🌈🌈God bless you saints 🌈🌈
Got my book and am excited to dive in! Very timely message! God is so good!
Thank you Julie for always asking how we can practically apply things to our lives! ☺😄
Thank God and thank you sooooo much for this. This is a REAL BLESSING and very much needed.
God bless you guys. Such an important teaching. I pray for the fear of the Lord to finish well. Can’t wait to read the book!
Though I'm late to this episode...this is SO TIMELY 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
What an extraordinarily beautiful woman Juli is. From every angle. Don't know why I write this now. Perhaps others in jealousy have made her feel insecure at part? Juli, you are extraordinarily beautiful from every angle the camera shoots you. It's nothing to be proud of, for it's a gift you were born with. It's nice nonetheless :)
You are also beautiful on the inside and it shines through your eyes and demeanor. Now, that is an achievement, since we are all born to love sin and self above God. So thank you for the discipline, that you are disciplining yourself with to become beautiful on the inside as well. May God bless you and enrich you with even more wisdom. May the goodness and the kindness of God radiate through you to lift Many others up.
Love, a sister in Christ.
13:52 I really love all of the wisdom & truth. I certainly don’t want you guys to have to caveat everything, but as an adoptive mom, it could be good to acknowledge some kids who come from trauma…spanking is not an option. But I love what I heard a pastor say that we can’t raise godly kids without the Holy Spirit. Keep all the truth coming! ❤❤❤❤❤
😢😢Omw guys, this is more precious than gold. You guys have really spoken into my heart. Thank you for your effort to record conversation like these.
Always a blessing, Beveres!
Love this message. We are a blended family with a newborn baby added to the mix and have had an uprise in behavior and I have been lost on how to discipline. The idea of it being discipleship helps me so much! Thank you all!
Amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Did that come through loud enough??
Amazing guys, you are on the right path, you are on the right highway,,
We NEED this!! All of this!
Thank God for the treasure of His Word!!! And thank God for you guys, the Beveres!!
So good! Thanks for allowing the Holy Spirit speaking to my soul. God definitely spoke into a place He's been pruning in me and it was in a kind yet blunt and direct way. It was a great example of His discipline and how I can discipline my children in a godly way. Blessings to you and your families.
Thank you, guys, for sharing these episodes and conversations. They are an encouragement and strength to others!
Yes please do a part 2 of this video. I’m learning so much
God bless you for these wisdom
Powerful truths...amen
I cried. I felt convicted and inspired and encouraged! Thank you so much for these talks! It’s not too late!
Truly loved the book and looking forward to the videos!Also Thankyou all for your heart for the lost and Believers alike! Love and Appreciate you ALL!❤
Thank you for this, it was a great blessing! Greetings from Cordoba, Argentina!
Thank you. This was a great discussion on something that's not really discussed. Loved the correlation between Discipline and Disciple.
Yes CZcams please which can be forwarded all over the world. God will bless you abundantly.
Thank you for the sarcasm conversation wow.
Hi Guys,thank you so much for the wisdom words🙌👐👋❤️❤️❤️I have three children and we are trying to teach them God's ways but it's very hard😲The biggest one age 9 boy has a problem with the anger and following commands any.He speak rudely to us and sometimes even try to hit us.We use all methods of discipline like talking explaining,also smacking and shouting ,taking things away but can't see improvement 😢Please pray for us God to give us wisdom,self control and love 🙏🙏🙏Thank you,love you
I pray for you.
Have you ever consider to fast for your children?
I am reading this book and as I read I can feel the presence of the Lord...the anointing that John carries is astonishing. Thank you for the sacrifices made to bring this book about.
Read "Breaking Intimidation", "Relentless", "The Holy Spirit An Introduction" and this "The Awe of God" by John Bevere! Also, read "Holy Spirit The Bondage Breaker" and "Carriers of His Glory" by David Diga Hernandes, and "When Heaven Invade the Earth" and "Hosting the Presence" by Bill Johnson!! I know it's many books, but it will powerfuly bless you!!
P.S. I also recommend you to fast for your kid, Lisa Bevere's books like "Strong" and "It's Not How You Look But What You See" or something like that (this book talks about fasting as well If i'm not mistaken!), and there's also the 2 books she wrote with her husband John, "Pathway to His Presence" and "The Story of Marriage"!
Please check out the little skunk by Sue Banks. Life changing realities. They have a book for parents too. Please make the time.
So far soo good. readdy beautiful
Great!
Saints family God bless you from Tanzania
I loved the awkward Outro 😅 😂 but it was a fantastic message thank you 🙏
hello there GOD BLESS YOUR MINSTRY .
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Please do the series!!
I grew up without a father or pastor and it would be helpful to know what the father and pastor had said that helped the seventh grade boy...
This was a really great talk. It spoke to me personally on a level. I am always inspired and jn awe of your love, fear and respect for GOD John! You should have been born in biblical times! I wanted to ask about the Awe of GOD book. Can you get it in the UK?
Thank you so much for your messages! I have been so blessed! I actually bought the audible book The Awe of God and then found out about the videos. Since I don't have the physical book, I didn't get the QR code. Is this available for audible purchasers? Thanks so much!
First time watching this podcast.. the subject is fitting in this time of lawlessness in our society.. the closing video of another guy is funny or it needs editing..😂😊
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Yes, now parenting lessons.
Hey guys, your podcasts have been SUCH a blessing and has answered questions I've wrestled with for a long time.
I have a question though!
We don't allow our kids to watch movies with magic, unicorns and mermaids or listen to worldly music - not in a controlling way, just because we don't want to open any doors and if we allow one mermaid, they will want all of the mermaid things and some things are crazy our there!
If we arrive at someone's house who has any of those things, one of our kids will sneakily go play with those things if they're in that person's house and that child will fixate on it.
How do we create a healthy balance and stay firm in our conviction when those around are open to anything? And how can we encourage our kids to pursue holiness and not even desire those toys or movies etc?
Would love to hear your thoughts!
Thank you Lord I needed this message for parenting my teenage boy.I m a single mom .Need guidance about parenting .Can you make a video about this
Lisa Bevere (John Bevere's wife) has videos about that, the series of vídeo is titled "Moms of Men" and i believe will bless you powerfuly
This is such a difficult conversation. I feel like there are so many different opinions.
My understanding has been consequences should come quick to have an affect. I almost feel like this topic needs to be quite divided. Like toddlers vs. Preschool vs. School aged vs. Teenage.
The spanking issue... The first time I spanked my oldest, she thought it was hilarious. I realized then, it had to hurt quite a bit to have an affect on her. Which I guess is why parents around the world have resorted to belts/wooden spoons/switches, etc. That was my moment where I wondered if spanking was the all wonderful tool that many make it out to be. When people have had to escalate the pain higher and higher to try to get through to their child. Maybe they were missing something. "A pop on the bum" isn't much of a discipline unless it hurts.
Hey thank you so much for that talk! Can you please share the study/research of that Dallas seminary Professor about the 75% of biblical characters not finishing well? Would love to read through it! Thank you so much!
Have you thought about writing a book The Awe of God for Kids?
Consequences doesn't always mean punishment. Consequences just means there are effects to to your actions they can be positive or negative
Wow…I was such a terrible parent.
I was a screamer and originally not a spanker.
If there was one thing I could change, it would be to be in Christ and raise my children with Christ.
I was raised in a sarcastic family as well.
Olá! Tem previsão para o lançamento do livro em português?
I bought the Audible book. How do I get the code for the 48 videos that accompany them book?
He explained that you can scan the QR code to receive it.
If you read Psalm 34 King David teaches us the fear of the Lord.
Also, how do we maintain a home where our kids only want Jesus and nothing else? Obviously as little kids they want toys and get distracted, but what does entering into the presence of God with little kids look like?
"The same spirit in me is also jn my child. "
As I understand it, the Holy Spirit comes into our heart when we make a commitment to Christ. So unless your child has done that and is at an age where they understand the belief and commitment they are taking on, then they wouldn't have the Holy Spirit in then?
I think it’s a difference between beating your child or hitting your child out of anger without the teachings of the Lord rather than doing it with intentionality if that makes sense? I didn’t believe in hitting my future kids but in a dyer situation where they weren’t learning I feel like I would hit them with a wooden spoon or something but not on the bottom as idk where that stemmed from I just always thought hitting on the bottom was weird but if my toddler was going to burn their hand to touch the stove n didn’t understand what a stove was I think I would gently hit their hand or hit it hard enough where they no it’s bad but not where they cry. Idk I’m not there yet. But I plan on disciplining out of love and keeping my cool or trying to for sure
It's killing me that you didn't tell us what wwf means 😅
Right? I’m scared to google it 😅
There are lots of millenials and gen z who were traditionally disciplined as children and are walking away from faith.