How To Leave A Toxic Relationship
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- čas přidán 1. 05. 2023
- A toxic relationship is one that is harmful. While some signs of a toxic relationship are more obvious-like physical abuse, repeated infidelity, and inappropriate sexual behavior-others can be harder to detect. It may involve disrespectful, dishonest, or controlling behavior.1
For example, your partner cuts you down frequently. As a result, your mental health may begin to suffer.
Whether you are single or in a relationship, leaving a potentially toxic relationship is not easy. It first takes the realization to know that you're in a toxic relationship, and then it takes accepting that the relationship is toxic. Once you have confirmed the signs of a toxic relationship, leaving takes social support, courage, and also self-validation knowing that you will find someone better.
If you're struggling to leave a dependent or toxic relationship, do you think you will have the courage to do so?
Writer: Stela Košić
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO:Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Jeremy Yao
CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
Resources:
psych2go.net/how-to-leave-a-t...
National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (800-799-7233)
TTY: 800-787-3224
Video Phone for Deaf Callers: 206-518-9361
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255)
TTY: 800-799-4TTY (800-799-4889)
Crisis Text Line: Text HELLO to 741741 (US and Canada) or 85258 (UK)
National Runaway Switchboard: 800-RUNAWAY (800-786-2929)
"don't let your loneliness make you reconnect with toxic people. You shouldn't drink poison just because you're thirsty"-random person
Timestamps
1). Red flags 0:47
2). A million reasons 1:37
3). Sharing a secret 2:55
4). Not gonna reach my telephone 4:13
5). Heart on paper 4:53
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
You might like to add 5:) Heart on paper/journalling.
@@grassnibbler2026 thanks for telling me about this
#4 is basically just domestic abuse. The abuser gets arrested for that
Don't tell them you're leaving because some people can't hold their emotions together and will kill you over it because that's often the case. Block them on everything and get help if you need it
I disagree alot, coming from someone who's been on the side that got blocked alot of times, the uncertainty to why someone left hurts, alot. It makes all of the overthinking take over, it makes the person that got ghosted feel abandoned and lost, leaving them anxious over a million reasons why they got ghosted. And most importantly it prevents them from ever getting better, you can't fix a problem if you don't know what specifically you did 'wrong' it's a horrible feeling and I highly don't recommend ghosting anybody, be mature and tell them why so they can get better and be self aware.
No. Incorrect move. This will make them crazier. It will break all hope they have for a better relationship, even if they don’t take it well, that’s unfortunate, but at least you told them and they know. If things get bad, okay, call the cops. But if you block them with no explanation, no nothing, just utter disappearance- it doesn’t matter if youre empathetic or not, everyone’s human- you will ruin them and they will become worse people.
As a person who has struggled in a very toxic reationship, I can confirm the part about breaking up. For people who haven't been through it, it might even seem contraditory...which it is. It's not stockolm syndrom, but it's something of the kind, where you KNOW you've been and are being mistreated and you still come up with excuses/reasons to not break up.
Pretty much all of it was horrible, but the part that stuck with me the most was how hard it was to break up even though I knew I wasn't happy with her.
And how're you currently doing?
I’ve been there, I can understand you…
man im still in a relationship like this :/ we both dont want to leave eachother but we both know we're toxic
@@boras1991 much better, actually. I'm still single and not in a rush to find a relationship. I feel like I'm better off alone. If someone worth it shows up, good! If not. that's ok.
I feel like part of the problem was me rushing into a relationship. There were signs even before we "officialized it", but I sorta looked away.
Sometimes you just learn the hard way.
@@DksFried Hey, realizing the relationship is bad for you is a huge part of it, if you ask me. It can be very hard to admit to yourself you're being toxic and/or your partner is toxic.
I've been the toxic one before. Not nearly as much as my next partner, but still. I've done my share of toxicity. I'm not one to believe in karma or that sort of thing, but sometimes you do learn the hard way.
Couldn't be a better time for this. Thank you.
yeah, they should post more videos relating this topic
Jojo.....
My first relationship was pretty toxic, but I didn't realise until after we broke up. I realised all of the things she did to me and put me through, and somehow I still ended up in another toxic relationship when I started dating again. In hindsight, I think why I didn't recognise the red flags the second time around either is because the toxicity was so different the second time, compared to the first, but there was a little overlap.
First one ended around 7 and a half years ago, second ended coming on 3 and a half years ago. I recognise the red flags so much better now, I just wish it didn't take me going through what I was put through for me to understand, especially on top of my past beyond my bad dating history.
It reminds me of a quote from Bojack Horseman: "“You know, it's funny; when you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags.”
But, I'm happy to say that I've been in an extremely healthy romantic relationship for over 2 and a half years now. No more toxic romantic relationships for me, never again.
Congratulations on your 2.5 years! In your opinion, what do you think are some of the main differences between your current relationship and your previous toxic relationship?
I'm sorry for your loss
@@Psych2go I feel pretty terrible I didn’t see this until two months afterwards. Thank you for the reply and the congratulations. 🥰
To answer your question, even if I am very late, one definite difference between my current and first relationship is that I feel respected. In hindsight, didn’t feel respected. I was pressured into doing things I had very clearly expressed I did not want to do, and when I tried to address that my ex would put it back on me, always bringing up the fact that I “said yes.” I still grapple with that stuff today, nearly 8 years on. My current girlfriend definitely respects the word “No” a lot more, and she doesn’t try and make me feel guilty for not wanting to do something. Also my current girlfriend respects my wants a lot more, she doesn’t pressure me into doing things I don’t want to do/I’m not ready to do yet, unlike my ex who would pressure me into doing things because she wanted them.
To keep a long story less long, my second ex was not communicative enough. It led to ghosting, cheating, breaking up with me via email (I sent her a love letter via email for her birthday and she replied to the love letter email by dumping me because she’d cultivated a relationship with someone else in a different country,) and when I spoke to her (I want to say I confronted her, but truth is I fawned so hard) about 6 months after the breakup when I found out about the cheating she said “I’m sorry if that upset you.” Also I feel like whenever I upset her, sometimes I feel like she overreacted a lot, I felt like I was made to feel guilty. Like even after breakup, when I said I was happy we didn’t work out, because I was in the early stages of what became my current relationship, she asked “Was I that bad a girlfriend?” Which I wasn’t saying at all. I have a lot of good to say about her too, but she was toxic and she hurt me so badly.
Whereas my girlfriend and I talk all the time, especially about our feelings, and whenever something even minor comes up we talk about it to make sure it doesn’t grow into a larger issue like if it was ignored. That’s definitely something I couldn’t do with either of my exes.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I was dumped and have been reflecting on the lies, manipulation, and cheating that was shown to me. It helps me to see I am not the only person going through something like this. I hope you’re doing better.
"Reasons why" is redundant.
I needed this video 15 years ago, 18 years ago and 20 years ago. I always thought if I just loved her enough, she'd love me back. The thought of being the one to end it was alien, horrifying.
I have met a few girls, who were domestic abuse victims. Unfortunately every single one of them returned to the abusive partner. Maybe one didn't and I hope she really didn't, but... I don't think they made the right choice. My girlfriend told me her first relationship was toxic and she had met her longtime partner before me during it. She told me meeting him helped her leave the toxic partner as well as eventually her studies.
it's hard... that's y at the end u can only be there fir them but they need to pull that rigger
I’ve noticed these videos tend to focus on how toxic people take action to hurt you, not the quiet ways they can hurt you. Someone withholding affection or shunning you or ignoring you for days on end to “punish” you is still toxic. Especially when they try to claim the changes in behavior don’t exist.
Yes, experienced this. I also think it's positively correlated with narcissism where it's about them receiving supply from you in some form. The love bombing ends when they get what they wanted (or want more). Only choice is to walk away.
this is what had me wondering if my relationship was truly toxic. we were happy most of the time together, he'd laugh at my bad jokes & always offered to drive. but he'd hate when i go out with friends, he wouldn't make an effort to get along with them, so i always felt like i had to choose between spending time with him or them. he didn't like my family (who are loud & bubbly) even though he only saw them once a month at most. it felt weirdly isolating, but since we were always happy together, i thought i was making it up in my head. i still do, even after breaking up. i feel weirdly connected to him, idk. we broke up yesterday, so i'm just coping rn, sorry for the long reply x
I had friends had these kinds of toxic relationships in past and this why I don't see them anymore.
How did you decide to leave your friends? Do you feel better now that you did?
@@Psych2go feel better I did but now let it go not care for it.
THIS VIDEO IS LITERALLY WHAT I NEED😭😭😭
Why
SEIZE THE MOMENT! GO FOR IT!
My "Prince Charming" turned into a narcissistic nightmare. I honestly felt we could have had something, but now I am so free away from his society. As in, I cut him off on all fronts, and now I act blandly civil in public when we do encounter each other. He is a true manipulator from words to lovebombing and good looks.
To those still trapped: PLEASE remember you are not alone. You have many unknown comrades in your struggle. And their vile behaviour is not your fault no matter what they say. Leaving is simple but not easy, and the reward is sweet freedom. Just keep your distance when you can.
How are you doing now? Are you doing better now that you cut ties with him?
Its hard to leave because they've been there for you and you just expect them to change. some do, and some dont. i got cheated on a day ago, and the relationship was toxic, but i stayed because of how much i love him. and to the fact that he did that and a lot more, i still love him, and i find it so unfair because he doesn't even care about me
Then why do you love him? If it feels hard to leave someone who is not treating you well, you may want to ask yourself why you want to stay.
@Ellen Grace
tw : sa
he stayed with me during my lonely days and when i got SA by the police. he was the only one giving me joy and the one putting a smile on my face. but he took that away as fast as he gave it. It's hard to let him go because i thought he genuinely felt the same way, but in the end, he didn't feel the same way. i was aware that he didnt love me anymore, didnt even care about my feelings, but i gave myself false hope because what i feel for him is real.
@@wandamore8002 damm, being disrespectful to yourself.
You prefer to have someone there even if he's a piece of s than being alone?
I see it as a major red flag.
You got used and dumped.
It's a good thing to let him go. It's fine if your breaking up when th him! You should try journaling and just tell someone! Break up. Love yourself.
@Spiral Detective i dont get how people can be so cruel to their partners who is just trying to love and be loved
This is very useful even I dont have any toxic relationship. I will try my best to make my relationships to not become toxic myself.
Brainy
Thank you. We hope that you find this useful for your future relationships! :)
I would love a video in which toxic realationship wasn't just a clear cut between victim and abuser. From my personal experience it is not thatr easy. I doubted myself for really long time and was consrtantly telling myself I was doing it wrong.
I'm sending this to my friend who's love life has been very hard and, luckily she isn't in one now, but I hope she doesn't get into anymore toxic relationships. She knows better but it's hard. I understand we all have moments of weakness, but we have to keep fighting. For our mental health, for ourselves and for the ones who care about you and are there to support you every step of your journey. Hugs to all.
I have been in a toxic relationship before but she stopped being friends with me because I apparently stole here friend, which was unintentional. I also didn't know that her friend wants to be friend with me instead of her because I don't have her friend's contact
Journaling has saved me in many ways. So much, I recommend it to anyone I hear has struggles similar to mine.
Back when I started, I could not sleep from intrusive thoughts that were all over the place (I call it Mindrattling), but once I started to not them down, everything fell into place and I was able to understand my own emotions and build up grievances.
I have become a way more relaxed and less petty person. Still one to hold grudges, but instead of going over the same never happening confrontational scenarios in my head over and over again, I write down what I'd tell the other party and come to peace with the issues quicker than before.
TW: Mention of SA,
I ended my toxic relationship last October. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do. They made me feel so lost and out of touch with myself, and I had to endure it all on my own. They ridiculed me, manipulated me, controlled me, SA’d me, and I never told anyone. Everything they did to me, I still think about.
One of your older videos and the help of my dear friend helped me get out. I am so happy we have videos like this to teach people how to deal with these things. Thank you so much.
that sounds rough. are you doing better?
My ex girlfriend was harassing me to do stuff with her and everytime I said no she grabbed my arm and walked me as I was on a leash. She also guilt tripped me.
@S4turn people can be so cruel sometimes its sick. manipulation, gaslighting, emotionally abusing a person that you say you love is so f up. no person that is only trying to love and be loved deserves that treatment.
@@wandamore8002 she's also the most hated in the school and in her Basketball team.
sorry, hope your doing well.
In a perfect world, this is good advice... Sadly, a lot of the aforementioned points are not accessible to me. I've already gotten the social worker and told friends. It's complicated, as I'm not able to support myself... And having a really hard time trusting anyone. Saying that... I'm not physically in any harm. I just worry about the lack of stability in my situation is impeding on my ability to heal, and ultimately move on...
I wish I had this when I was in a toxic relationship. I’ll definitely come back to this video if I need it in the future. Hopefully I won’t ❤ Thank you so much Psych2Go!
Having going through this fairly recently, i can honestly say its the hardest thing I've had to endure.
Although you know they're toxic, theres just something that keeps you wanting them. Something beyond being able to articulate. You truly feel like they're the one, but as explained, its the ideology behind it. After the initial break up, and finding out how the manipulated and structured the whole story to seem like the victim, I stupidly gave it a ither chance after 3 months. I just couldn't seem to let go. After a month of attempting to give it our best shot, i found out about a load of lies that absolutely destroyed me. A month later, the physical symptoms have subsequently subsidised, and beginning to feel myself again. The painful part os their constant reaching out even though you have explained on multiple occasions about having no contact. I have deleted and erased everything I had that reminded me of them. I continue to journal daily, I think im currently going through the process of trying to find motivation to begin working on myself, i.e healthier eating, working out, self improvement ect. This truly feels like it has broken me and to a point where im not even sure I'll ever be the same person again. I actually was proud of who i was. I keep telling myself that i will use this as an opportunity to grow to an even better person, but this struggle has got me questioning if I'll ever be able to open up and be vulnerable again. It all sucks, i feel for everyone of you currently going through this. I wish there was an easy way, but the truth is, there isnt. We just have to acccept, deal and work on ourselves
I know how you feel, I’ve been going to therapy for 2 years and it’s still hard to move on from the pain and shame he caused me
It takes so much work to forget about your pain and live in peace, I wonder when I can feel good 😮💨
@ChocoParfait it really does. I hope in time you're able to accept and move on. It's heartbreaking seeing the trauma caused by such individuals. You are not broken, you are not lost. I'm trying to use this as an opportunity to grow even more. Utilise it as a lesson, a lesson that doesn't define me, I know, as you will too deep down, that you have so much more love and compassion to give, its who you are as a person. I'm trying to learn how to focus that onto myself. We owe it to ourselves. Treat ourselves as we would our loved ones, treat ourselves with compassion, love, understanding, non judgement, and begin to ourselves shift. Learn to say no, do things for you. Become addicted to self love, priorities yourself above anyone else. Don't lose hope. Believe in yourself. You can and will do this. I promise, everything takes time, but there will be a day in which you look back, and all of a sudden, you'll realise, shit, that's why. That's why I had to go through what I had, to be the proud person of who you'll become. Be kind to yourself, it isn't easy, but treat yourself with love and care. I believe in you, you will flourish again.
currently undergoing the same thing as you explained. True, its hard to find motivation to begin working on myself. Sometimes i question myself "did i really miss the person or just the time we spend together?". I don't know the answer or maybe I don't want to even know it, Truth hurts. unlike the past me, now i'm scared to open up and be vulnerable again.
@Jojo Kenny I think it's a mixture of both, maybe. But that's also okay. It's okay to miss them, but we tend to miss the version that we created within our own minds. I don't know, I could be talking complete bullsh*t. I don't have the answers, and I'm certainly not trying to come across like I am. I just know that it's completely crap and haven't ever experienced anything like this. I guess the advice I give out is that I try and convince myself that that's how I should be looking at it. Truth is, it's shit. I can't believe the effect of such a relationship can have on someone. I can truly understand as to why some people end up being single for many many years. It's very sad, but we can't allow this to have any power over us. We need to try and remain strong and believe in ourselves. We have no other choice.
@@boras1991I believe that time is always moving and I don't want to feel like shit again. Thank you :)
I was a gaslighter and was financally dependant on my gf, after she broke up with me i tried to change but ended up in mental hospital where i am now. I regret what i did and i will forever despise myself.
I have a question for you
Do you understand what kind of person you would like to be instead of gaslighter?
If so, then you can start working on yourself to become better. I know that you could've been not a very good person but it doesn't matter who you were, it matters who you're now.
You've done what you've done but you learnt from your mistakes. Now you can begin changing and actually, you already changed a lot after you realised that you were a gaslighter. It might mean that you're not THAT person anymore.
i see onces trying turn me toxic.. world.. i wont let them.
Thank you so much for posting these x they help me x
I was in a toxic relationship and also a long distance relationship, It was turning stressful and agressive. She was in medical school and coudn't find any time to communicate as well(but found time to play league of legends for 3 hours daily). It was strange, I cut the strings since it was filled with toxic behaviour, energy draining, lacked value(I even wrote her drawing and letters, she still guilt traped me lol). The most important thing is to keep yourself busy, I didn't even bother looking back, as it was that bad and would only strengthen the neurological connection if I do. It is important to realise a toxic relationship and set boundaires, Or ur energy does drain. Love yourself, when you are ready, find a quality women who knows how to love self, and love you too(Not being toxic for who you are). All the best !
Beautiful work!
Ah, yes. I remember when I broke up with my abusive bf and he played the victim by saying I was inconsiderate for leaving him at the lowest point in his life (he only failed a class). Hoping he turns to Christ soon, but I don't need to be involved in his process❤.
Oscillating between being emotional and emotionless.
Be nice and smile to everyone you meet. You don't know what they are going through and they may need that smile and treasure it
Well yes, but a smile won't fix a tiny bit of it in the long term, talking about it and empathize won't help either, the person need answers to the problems that most probably don't want to see/confront
Thank you, this is the most of what i need. Even thought this is hard to do, i try my best for my school tommorow.
Hence why we need the infinity stones to erase every toxic person on the planet 😂😂😂😂.
Seriously 😂😂
oh so you’d agree with light on his ways of virtues (if you know you know)
Definitely... I’ve had a few toxic friends and even a toxic crush at one point
There would not be a person left.
Fr lol
Emotional pain/heartbreak is the worst.
Been there. Done it. Worn the T-shirt. Thank you for sharing.
Amazing introduction, illustration....simple but effective 👌
This literally popped up while I was trying to get attention of my friend.
I was trying to get her attention but she kept ghosting me, she's also giving me some signs but idk if it's obvious.
Is this a sign to leave a toxic friendship?
THANK YOU!!!
Appreciate this channel ❤️
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Great video, it helped a lot❤
WRRRYYYYYYYYY!!!!!
"Acceptance is a Gift to the Fallen"
I really love the animation in this episode in particular. I don't know if it's the art style or the way way it was animated, but it was quite nice. I always feel bad for these little leafy fellas. Do you fellas accept fanart submissions?
Thank you
I'm in a toxic relationship. I have crossed many lines and regret it deeply. I have a million reasons to leave as well, as I'm not the sole aggressor in the relationship. But i would be willing to do whatever it takes to mend the hurt and start fresh being what my person needs. We're going to couples' therapy but it just feels like the help isnt coming quick enough and we're gonna end before we even gain any traction in therapy.
EDIT*** I must make a disclaimer that I have not physically abused my partner.
Its just so hard when its my best friend since childhood
Your videos helps me learn English thanks.
using this for my toxic "friendships"
Super early! I love ur content❤
Yep
I am a person who is in a toxic relationship but it is not like in the video. My partner doesn't talk or text to me at all and I have told them about it and they just came up with ridiculous excuses and i don't know what to do about it :(
Make yourself be respected,say: or you talk sincerely and honestly about this and solving this problem or I'll walk away because you're not respecting me.
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar I will try but they are very emotionless when we talk...
@@Uncommon_gabs thats sounds more like an excuse in the case not going well you can blame the "emotionless" part.
If this person is not putting effort in the relationship in emotional,survival,discussions and you do, does this person really love you or is using you?
About discussions in a relationship never think primarily with emotions, theyre uncontrolable, use your logic even if you love this person.
Edit: they?
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar I thought they ( i don't want to reveal my partner's gender for reasons) loved me but now that i think about it more they might be using me.
@@Uncommon_gabs Confront your own shadow, look at it even if its scary, those things that you dont want to think about, that you want to avoid, once you start fixing one by one(pick one and forget the rest, they could drag u down) it will get way better in life and in everything.
I know that its hella scary because acknowledge it means that one have a problem, and no one want to have problems.
its just like admitting that breathing is bad for your health, admitting that one were lied to( i exaggerated it, something so basic that will shake you)
Stay strong.
I love the explanation in the beginning so frictional 👌🏽
Thank you so much for watching. Could you tell us a bit more about what you mean by "frictional"? What did you like about the explanation in the beginning?
I'm in a toxic relationship currently and we both know it is one. It's a long distance relationship currently but we think when we are together in person things will get better because we will have more trust for eachother since we are with the other person instead of in another different state. The problem is we both don't want to leave eachother even though it is both hurting us mentally. I don't know what to do honestly. Like do I wait til we are together in person (which we will be next year) or is it time for us to breakup?? Im just stuck because he means so much to me and he been different from all my past relationships. The cons is he doesnt let me have friends as he would threaten to break up with me but I told him i dont really mind because i have trouble talking to people anyways and im homeschooled. We also argue alot but we usually make up. The pros is he cares about me when im not feeling the best and hes loyal to me since he doesnt talk to any other people. Should I leave or wait til we are together in person ?(we been together for 2 years now) If anyone read this to here, thankyou for listening to me.
I'm currently living the exact same thing and I don't know what to do either 😣
@@Kiligo I hope you and your partner can figure things out as well
@@DksFried Thank you I hope that for you too. Everything will be fine in the end for both of our relationships!
Hello! Here is an update of my relationship: I've decided to leave him and it was de best thing I've ever did in my whole life! I'm reborn, really. This guy's bestfriends (who are also my friends btw) told me he was strange with another girl. We found out my ex bf cheated on me which explains why our relationship wasn't going well. I think karma is the best because, what he hid turned against him: he lost all his bestfriends, friends, his girl (me), and even the other girl because she blocked him when she learnd the truth. Damn, saying we were engaged... What a terrible story
He's threatening me he'll suicide if I leave. What do I do
There isn't video of how to leave a toxic friendship?
How about finally leaving a toxic, destructive relationship with your own adult children?
i will do this if i have toxic relationship ty
honestly, seeing how she turned out and the things she's revealed to me, I'm thankful she forced me to finally leave her and declined my plea to try and Love her again when she was dealing with a breakup where she got cheated on a month or two after our rs
How are you doing now? Do you feel like leaving was a good decision?
In the end, it was the only choice that was the most rational to make at the time and even though I did try to console her after a few unfortunate relationships she faced on her side in hopes she and I would find at least som semblance of what wholesome connection we had, she insisted that it was best for us to just stay friends and for a time we did until out of nowhere she had unfriend me and I suppose it at least it gave me strength in a way and with knowing through her streams that she’s happy. It put me at ease, I still wish the best for her even if she blamed all the wrong that happened in our former relationship on me, I wish she’d find happiness but these days, through her discord bios and the teasing of my friends that are still friends with her or follow her, she seems to have never ending problems in differing variety and I guess that makes me sad seeing her like that recently without being able to help her cuz I just don’t wanna assume anymore….
Thank you for your reply. Based on your answer, it sounds like it was a good decision, even though it also sounds painful at the moment. Your comment also tells me that you have a good heart because you want the best for her despite how she may have blamed you for things that clearly weren't your fault. We hope that you can stay at ease and be able to find someone that can make you truly happy when you are ready.
Spread The Word Of God Amen
If I ever do get a girlfriend in real life, I'll be sure to look back at this video for advice just in case the relationship doesn't go well. 💔
Well, it's our hope that you won't need this video but it's good to be prepared for the worst. Did you find the video informative?
Can you make a video about whether it's possible to fix a toxic relationship?
Great video 👍👍💯
hey psych2go, could you make videos on suppressed trauma. I recently found out that I had some trauma I had buried. It has been taking a toll on me since I discovered it. I have been avoiding my parents desperately by being in my room on the day. I became socially withdrawn. I also feel being on high alert ever since I found out.
Iirc they have a video for this not long ago
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar could you send me the link :D
@@sarcasticscarlet enter the channel and scroll down..... its not hard to find.
I'm toxic without relationship 🍔
So not only am I in an empty love, I’m also in a toxic relationship as well?
I'm 16 and not in a relationship currently. I however have a burden of studies and of my family. Honestly hate being like this and try to avoid all the things that I don't like. My mom helps me in studies but I still struggle with a lot of things.
Its the other way around, confront the thing you don't like and learn to overcome em, this way you'll avoid same shit happening again in the future for good.
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar ok thanks
this video is calling my nameee
It may feel ?
@Psych2Go would you make video about the schema therapy developed by Dr. Jeffrey Young for personality disorders, chronic depression, and other difficult individual and couples problems. Schema therapy integrates elements of cognitive therapy, behavior therapy, object relations, and gestalt therapy.
Everything is better without feelings that's why i threw them all away
I've been through a toxic relationship with my mom and I stop talking to her
Wow 👍🏾
So toxic = abusive? Or what's the difference? Selfish partners are toxic, but I wouldn't call it abuse. What are your thoughts?
What about those who aren't in a relationship at all?
We hope these points will be a good way to keep on the look out. And in case you fall into a toxic relationship, though we sincerely hope you don't, we hope that this will provide a way for you navigate your way out of the relationship.
I never accepted any relationship all person forcefully ruining my life , I can't stay peacefully even one day.
please do more videos like this. do one of cheating
Is the taking care of yourself only needed after a toxic relationship?
It hurts because when you leave a toxic relationship you feel like they’ve left you.
I wish i knew this last year
Lol 😂
Hey psych2go can you do one on lesbians please?
example number 3
Im not dating or anything but my ex friend and i still have a toxic relationship and he blames it on me
This is only the lite version of life.
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very good video.
It is possible toake video about actually research, science and psychology effects about meditation?
i am on a journey to learn english and this channel with a soft voice makes me relax and practice speaking english because the video is not too fast so it can be easily followed. at the same time very interesting knowledge. I will definitely recommend this channel to my friends to practice speaking.
My second relationship was super toxic. He encouraged me to speak my mind more, yet if I dared to say things that he could work on to make himself better as a person, he would use threats of self h*rm or unaliving himself. I left him in 2020, right before the quarantine. For about a year, he made about 5-6 accounts on Instagram in order to reach me. He would say he wants to be just friends or maybe start over, but I didn’t respond to him. He got angry at me for telling my friends about how toxic he was during the whole relationship. My friends protected me against him and called him out of his bs, to which he started to insult them. He hasn’t spoken to me since late 2021 and I feel like I’m finally free from him. He moved to another state so I feel really happy that I’ll never see him again.
I wish you guys could touch more on Co-Parenting, I"m kinda stuck with a toxic co-parenting situation, I'm taking the right steps on how to deal with it by seeing a professional. But i would love to see what advice Psych2Go can give me.
I used to have a toxic friend but I broke up with her 😢
Step 1 walk away.
Step 2 profit.
Can u make a video about why some people blindly abuse and murder and inflict pain to others , like what the japanese soldiers did, they were responsible for the death of over 30 million people. 😢😢
lmao, all i did was an “im breaking up with you” then i blocked him, everytime i see him it ruins my day, but right now, one of his friends are showing signs they like me, should i or should i not try to see if they green flag or not
I am currently in a toxic relationship n I need help for the love of god im tired!! I’ve told him to get out etc he won’t leave can someone plz give me steps on how to get out I’m currently 5months pregnant which makes this situation worse
Does it get better
damn **looks around**
How do I help someone get over a toxic relationship?
Get em to affront it, it won't get away and learn how to spot toxic people.(I'd recommend narcissistic and manipulative behavior too.)
Don't get close to em and all that
Nice animation.
Do you have one of those relaxing voices ever
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I had a toxic relationship with my ex from high-school in October 2022 and she ghosted me and then she cheated on me behind my back so i just completely cut off all communication with her
Sounds like she broke up with you if she ghosted/cheated. There it's just listening to very clear signs she's given you, you were right not to try to communicate with her or write back if she messages you again
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Hey Psych2Go ! I want to know whether my friendship is toxic or not. How can I contact you ?
Search for definition of the word in a psychological sense and start discerning the patterns in your relationship(of any kind), talk to em, if they refuse repeatedly, don't stay and leave, there are a million of opportunities on making friendship.
Respect yourself and make others respect you.
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar yeah. That's why I wanted to contact Psych2Go. I feel like I am loosing myself but the friend about whom I am talking is suffering from abondonment issues too. That's why I am confused about further action..
@@ketki1811 Even if this person have these issues (and probably trust issues too) and you clearly say to stop the toxic behavior and assure the other person that youll be there, what is it to fear, that sounds like a good deal.
Its not you who makes the decision of the other person to change, its your friend decision.
This advice will feel a bit cold but, you can make a deal like, toxic behavior equals for me not talking with you for X time, if your friend continues with this increase the time and remind of this deal.
Its a bit forced, but could work.
Have a good beautiful day Ketki.
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar Thanks a lot Sir. I will work on it now. 🙏🙏
@@ketki1811 well, i whould like if other person give its point of view, the more information the better one can play with the situation.